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RINA here. 0:00:02.353,0:00:07.643 Today's video is one where I'll be chatting at home for the first time in forever. 0:00:07.847,0:00:09.807 Hasn't it been a really long time? 0:00:09.940,0:00:15.890 Lately I've been filming vlogs of stuff I do when I go out, 0:00:15.890,0:00:18.950 so it feels like it's been a really long time since I've done this. 0:00:19.216,0:00:22.223 It feels kind of weird. 0:00:23.453,0:00:25.873 I asked people to send in stuff like what's been bothering them lately, 0:00:25.873,0:00:27.813 what they've been thinking about, 0:00:27.813,0:00:34.510 or any large or small problems. 0:00:35.850,0:00:41.010 I'll be selecting a few of those and talking about them. 0:00:41.317,0:00:46.118 A lot of them overlapped. 0:00:46.542,0:00:50.287 Like, there were a lot who were thinking the same thing, 0:00:50.287,0:00:55.183 or worrying about the same thing. 0:00:55.551,0:01:00.800 There were also a lot of things that I could relate to. 0:01:00.941,0:01:06.430 It made me think that everyone really does think the same kind of things. 0:01:06.548,0:01:13.818 I'll talk and answer them leisurely as we think together. 0:01:13.864,0:01:16.820 (Before that...) 0:01:17.224,0:01:23.728 A lot of my viewers are around my age. 0:01:23.831,0:01:27.471 I'll be turning 32 this August, 0:01:27.471,0:01:31.471 and mostly everyone is around that age. 0:01:31.490,0:01:36.070 I felt that the problems unique to my generation 0:01:36.070,0:01:40.920 and that the way you think changes with each generation. 0:01:41.035,0:01:46.175 I was like, "Yeah, I guess we do think of things like that now." 0:01:47.862,0:01:51.862 At any rate, I'll start reading from the first screenshot I took. 0:01:52.907,0:02:00.886 "This is my third year in the workforce. Every day is like a routine, and it seems like every year there's less and less fun things to do." 0:02:01.826,0:02:02.973 Right? 0:02:03.086,0:02:04.922 Like... 0:02:05.574,0:02:14.357 You have to go to work every day and come home. 0:02:14.507,0:02:19.047 I've always been in the music scene, 0:02:20.068,0:02:22.418 and I think it's a job that involves meeting new people 0:02:22.418,0:02:29.016 and doing things in new places relatively often. 0:02:29.164,0:02:34.624 If you look at it roughly, the process is very similar. 0:02:34.663,0:02:39.893 We make new music, promote it, tour, 0:02:39.893,0:02:42.503 tour while making new music, 0:02:42.503,0:02:46.683 and record that music after touring. 0:02:47.047,0:02:50.025 It's a very luxurious way of life, 0:02:51.294,0:02:55.324 but I totally understand [situations like the question asker]. 0:02:55.419,0:03:01.824 So, if you ask people around you how to keep things fresh, 0:03:03.293,0:03:11.338 I think there'll come a time when they'll say it's difficult to do. 0:03:11.858,0:03:17.905 So I think the only way to do that is to learn something new, 0:03:19.156,0:03:21.654 or find something you like to do, 0:03:21.988,0:03:24.961 or study something new as an adult. 0:03:25.396,0:03:27.454 In that sense, 0:03:27.454,0:03:33.044 sometimes you have no choice but to renew yourself. 0:03:33.207,0:03:41.617 For me, how I should edit a video is different from what I'd do with music. 0:03:41.751,0:03:46.379 I'm not saying that it feels really fresh right now, 0:03:47.088,0:03:49.598 but when I went to French school, 0:03:49.598,0:03:54.122 it really felt like I was off to a new start. 0:03:54.995,0:03:57.335 Also, I did a video about this, 0:03:57.335,0:04:01.169 about how I've been doing Pilates to work out and refresh myself. 0:04:01.950,0:04:05.950 Every day, recently—it's really a recent thing— 0:04:06.728,0:04:12.358 I've been trying to spend an hour a day 0:04:12.358,0:04:17.328 studying something that has nothing to do with my lifestyle or work. 0:04:18.846,0:04:20.166 Maybe do something like that. 0:04:20.435,0:04:23.859 I think you have to get things going on your own. 0:04:24.112,0:04:31.079 It's impossible to have someone else provide you with a fresh environment every day. 0:04:31.931,0:04:33.231 It takes time, 0:04:33.231,0:04:36.912 but in the end, I think the only thing you can do 0:04:37.167,0:04:40.427 is to make new moves on your own. 0:04:40.560,0:04:41.750 On to the next question. 0:04:41.971,0:04:46.968 "I haven't had any feelings of love for a man for more than 5 years now." 0:04:47.205,0:04:48.488 I see. 0:04:49.277,0:04:51.931 It's like, "What does it mean to love, anyway?" 0:04:55.581,0:04:56.943 Love, huh. 0:04:57.491,0:04:59.726 The power of love is incredible. 0:04:59.852,0:05:02.205 It can make you do your best at anything. 0:05:06.338,0:05:10.054 The moment you fall in love with someone, 0:05:10.054,0:05:11.944 or the time frame when you do, 0:05:11.944,0:05:14.544 is really awesome. 0:05:15.722,0:05:23.122 But sometimes I think that if I could learn to make myself happy, 0:05:23.122,0:05:27.837 I would truly be invincible. 0:05:28.222,0:05:34.592 Some might think that sounds really lonely, 0:05:34.592,0:05:39.830 but at any rate, maybe I'm just trying to be someone 0:05:39.830,0:05:43.939 who can have fun on their own. 0:05:44.690,0:05:47.617 I think there are a lot of things I'm not doing well, though. 0:05:49.148,0:05:57.158 Maybe there's someone you'd have fun with and feel fulfilled by 0:05:57.158,0:05:59.788 and you'd like to be with them, 0:05:59.788,0:06:02.613 or maybe there's someone who's attracted to you. 0:06:02.648,0:06:09.488 If you're mentally open like that, 0:06:09.488,0:06:16.639 you might have a better chance of meeting someone. 0:06:16.919,0:06:21.439 But, well, as you get older, 0:06:21.439,0:06:26.819 it feels like you're less likely to have people that you're attracted to. 0:06:26.946,0:06:29.896 Or rather, the number lessens. 0:06:30.005,0:06:32.595 There's more and more to consider. 0:06:32.908,0:06:40.388 So it'd be nice if you could make yourself as happy as possible 0:06:40.388,0:06:43.364 and have good encounters and feelings of love 0:06:43.364,0:06:47.238 appear somewhere along the way, wouldn't it? 0:06:47.292,0:06:48.488 I totally get you. 0:06:48.596,0:06:50.641 I totally understand this situation. 0:06:50.704,0:06:57.419 "I often wonder how I and my family will live in the future. I'm filled with anxiety." 0:06:58.908,0:07:01.345 Family, huh... 0:07:01.587,0:07:03.269 Yeah... 0:07:04.110,0:07:08.970 I'm the eldest out of five kids. 0:07:10.458,0:07:12.823 My mom was a single mother. 0:07:13.056,0:07:17.805 I also played the father role in the family. 0:07:17.934,0:07:21.244 That's why I do a lot of thinking. 0:07:21.363,0:07:28.075 Like wondering how we can all ultimately be happy. 0:07:29.006,0:07:32.966 Since I love my job, there are times when I'm like, 0:07:32.966,0:07:39.056 "I need to work hard and earn money." 0:07:39.406,0:07:42.135 That's not the only thing, though. 0:07:43.620,0:07:48.350 There are definitely times when I feel anxious 0:07:48.350,0:07:53.946 because my family is one I have to support properly. 0:07:54.084,0:07:59.033 Since this person might not have the same circumstances as me, 0:07:59.033,0:08:01.791 they may be feeling a different kind of anxiety. 0:08:02.041,0:08:04.411 But I definitely feel that way sometimes, too. 0:08:04.630,0:08:13.080 I hope we can keep the band going for as long and healthy as possible, 0:08:13.080,0:08:16.761 but I wonder how I would be able live my life 0:08:16.761,0:08:24.815 if something difficult happened to me, such as my health declining. 0:08:25.331,0:08:32.241 It's no good if I can't look after my family. 0:08:32.274,0:08:34.654 What I should do at that time... 0:08:35.112,0:08:38.342 This is not a negative thing in terms of the band at all, 0:08:38.342,0:08:43.412 but something I think about level-headedly as a human being. 0:08:43.457,0:08:47.317 Sometimes it's hard to find the answer, 0:08:47.317,0:08:50.457 and I get anxious and scared. 0:08:50.730,0:08:57.233 But in the end, I feel like I have no choice but to do what's in front of me. 0:08:57.710,0:09:00.150 But I totally get that about family. 0:09:00.328,0:09:03.436 It's because you care about them so much that you're worried. 0:09:03.887,0:09:05.112 I understand. 0:09:06.704,0:09:09.651 I also play the father figure financially. 0:09:11.297,0:09:16.831 I've been paying for my sisters' tuitions all this time. 0:09:18.093,0:09:22.639 I pay all the rent and living expenses at my parents' house. 0:09:23.643,0:09:31.883 Sometimes I feel like it's hard to talk about money with others. 0:09:33.314,0:09:39.578 I think that instability there would have a huge impact on one's mental health. 0:09:41.297,0:09:42.948 For me too... 0:09:45.462,0:09:49.934 But there's no choice but to work hard, ultimately. 0:09:51.893,0:09:55.092 There's no choice but for me to do it. 0:09:55.337,0:10:05.427 I think that's why I've been able to stay motivated and try all kinds of things. 0:10:05.461,0:10:11.043 Sometimes I wonder if I'd be able to work this hard if it was just for me. 0:10:12.035,0:10:14.564 Sometimes it can be an anxiety factor. 0:10:14.916,0:10:22.290 I think that knowing there's something you need to protect can be motivating. 0:10:22.642,0:10:27.730 "Human relations and communication in the workplace are difficult, aren't they?" 0:10:29.757,0:10:31.729 They are difficult. 0:10:32.713,0:10:34.941 In my case... 0:10:38.199,0:10:45.678 The band's been together since we were young. 0:10:48.080,0:10:52.777 We have a very special bond. 0:10:53.739,0:10:59.549 So it's a very difficult relationship to explain in words. 0:10:59.603,0:11:07.193 But each one of us is an individual person, 0:11:07.193,0:11:12.333 and although we're friends who have been playing music together as a band for a long time, 0:11:12.333,0:11:16.693 we are also our own person. 0:11:16.755,0:11:19.205 I think it's good to be involved 0:11:19.205,0:11:27.335 while maintaining a good sense of distance and emotional space. 0:11:27.412,0:11:31.822 That's why we've been able to support each other 0:11:31.822,0:11:34.332 and be a band for such a long time. 0:11:35.196,0:11:37.546 In that way... 0:11:39.067,0:11:49.401 I think I've been adjusting and thinking about it a lot more since we've grown up. 0:11:49.889,0:11:53.961 But the relationship between us is a bit too special, 0:11:53.961,0:11:56.359 so this may not be helpful to others. 0:11:56.603,0:12:03.273 Also, we have close relationships to those at our management office and record label. 0:12:03.310,0:12:08.164 I think that's the main thing about interpersonal relationships at work in my case. 0:12:09.688,0:12:11.932 But that might also be a special case. 0:12:12.140,0:12:15.120 I think it depends on the office, 0:12:15.120,0:12:22.914 but in our case, we are very close, like a family. 0:12:24.678,0:12:34.466 At this time, I really want to separate and cherish my private life, in a good way, 0:12:34.466,0:12:41.728 so, honestly, I think there are more things we don't mention or talk about with each other than before. 0:12:41.818,0:12:44.679 Not that there's anything wrong with that. 0:12:45.476,0:12:50.798 That's why I think our relationships keep changing. 0:12:50.995,0:12:54.637 You yourself change as well. 0:12:54.774,0:13:02.482 It'd be good if we could all communicate what we need to convey, 0:13:02.482,0:13:05.572 maintain a good distance, 0:13:05.572,0:13:11.312 and build relationships at work while protecting ourselves. 0:13:11.386,0:13:22.806 I've never really experienced what it's like to have a boss and subordinates like in a company, 0:13:22.806,0:13:25.559 so I probably don't understand all of that properly. 0:13:25.769,0:13:28.322 I don't think I know anything about it. 0:13:29.644,0:13:35.554 I can imagine it, but I'm sure there are things you won't understand unless you're there experiencing it, 0:13:35.554,0:13:39.475 so I don't think I can say anything adequate. 0:13:39.987,0:13:42.003 I'm sure it must be hard. 0:13:43.226,0:13:46.468 It's really commendable. It really is. 0:13:49.180,0:13:51.040 I think that's impressive. 0:13:51.596,0:13:55.673 We also speak really casually to the head of our office. 0:13:56.641,0:13:59.045 That's what it's like [where we are]. 0:13:59.278,0:14:01.128 That's how close we are. 0:14:01.229,0:14:04.721 But I'm sure that doesn't happen very often. 0:14:06.617,0:14:10.693 That's why there are so many things that I can't even imagine. 0:14:11.611,0:14:16.471 But there's a part of me that believes that if you truly convey something properly, 0:14:16.471,0:14:21.167 it will get through to everyone. 0:14:21.759,0:14:23.017 Yeah. 0:14:23.723,0:14:28.866 It'd be nice to be involved without it being too difficult. 0:14:30.382,0:14:31.871 Here's a cute question. 0:14:31.902,0:14:38.411 "I'm going to Tokyo Disneyland for the first time in forever. I'm so unsure what to eat at the park." 0:14:38.812,0:14:40.523 That's so cute. 0:14:40.634,0:14:41.854 So tranquil. 0:14:41.907,0:14:43.277 Disney's great. 0:14:43.319,0:14:45.559 I also went recently with a friend. 0:14:45.637,0:14:47.353 It might have been a while ago, actually. 0:14:47.785,0:14:49.095 It was fun. 0:14:49.273,0:14:51.841 I always have to have a churro. 0:14:51.886,0:14:53.119 It's delicious. 0:14:53.889,0:14:55.653 Please have fun! 0:14:55.857,0:14:57.386 They might have already gone. 0:14:58.803,0:15:03.807 "I get emotional easily and regret it later." 0:15:06.606,0:15:07.838 I get you. 0:15:08.890,0:15:10.720 I totally get you. 0:15:10.840,0:15:17.451 Because you value something and have passion for it... 0:15:18.443,0:15:26.144 Your words become strong, fast, and sharp. 0:15:26.530,0:15:28.560 Because, you know... 0:15:31.349,0:15:37.156 I don't think it's possible to be emotional without passion. 0:15:37.657,0:15:40.785 You know you'll regret it, 0:15:41.512,0:15:45.695 and you'll probably hate yourself for being that way. 0:15:46.328,0:15:49.638 I think it's great to be able to change things in creative ways, 0:15:49.638,0:15:56.548 but I think it's really great to have something you're passionate about, 0:15:56.548,0:15:59.228 something you can put your heart and soul into, 0:15:59.228,0:16:02.725 to the point where it's something really emotional for you. 0:16:03.447,0:16:06.348 I'm totally the same way. 0:16:06.469,0:16:11.986 I'm totally like that when I talk about the band. 0:16:12.520,0:16:13.581 Yeah. 0:16:14.647,0:16:18.208 There are lots of times when I wonder why I said something in a certain way, 0:16:18.589,0:16:24.881 or how I could have communicated it better. 0:16:26.297,0:16:36.245 That's why sometimes I try talking about that topic one more time. 0:16:38.839,0:16:42.959 Yeah, there are many times when you can't apologize properly. 0:16:43.730,0:16:51.293 That's when you reaffirm that you are passionate about it. 0:16:53.722,0:16:56.739 It's been a long time. 0:16:57.803,0:17:01.351 But yeah, in that way... 0:17:01.413,0:17:08.602 I think it's great when there are things that you can really get emotionally attached to. 0:17:08.800,0:17:14.260 So I think it would be good if we could talk about the things we want to change, 0:17:14.260,0:17:17.090 even if it's just a little bit at a time, 0:17:17.090,0:17:26.017 or about the things we think we did wrong that we can make up for later, 0:17:26.017,0:17:28.418 even if it's after the fact. 0:17:28.475,0:17:32.695 I'm sure there will be times when they'll understand, 0:17:32.695,0:17:36.442 and you'll feel better, too. 0:17:36.955,0:17:41.981 "I'm tired of comparing my life with my friends' all the time." 0:17:43.211,0:17:45.544 Looking at social media, right? 0:17:45.582,0:17:48.586 You subsciously compare things. 0:17:49.272,0:17:51.623 Isn't that the same for everyone? 0:17:54.788,0:17:59.898 If there are accounts that make you feel bad when you see their posts, 0:17:59.898,0:18:02.344 I think it's fine if you mute them. 0:18:02.700,0:18:04.869 In regards to social media, that is. 0:18:05.234,0:18:08.804 I wonder if there are times when they do comparisons during conversations. 0:18:08.885,0:18:13.786 Because everything in your life is something you've experienced yourself, 0:18:14.626,0:18:18.766 I think there are times when you feel like there are no improvements in your life. 0:18:18.832,0:18:25.849 I feel like there are so many cases where someone's life is insanely special from someone else's perspective. 0:18:26.653,0:18:28.693 You're like, "That's not what my life's like." 0:18:28.872,0:18:32.251 I'm sure there's a lot of things you don't realize, 0:18:34.035,0:18:41.335 like the parts that other people envy and think are amazing. 0:18:41.517,0:18:46.153 I think you'll realize that your life is impressive. 0:18:47.081,0:18:57.082 "I'm a 24-year-old woman. I'm going out with someone 12 years older than me, and it's hard to keep up because my money sense differs." 0:18:58.306,0:19:01.040 Maybe you should talk to them about this. 0:19:01.525,0:19:03.635 You're dating, after all. 0:19:04.118,0:19:08.938 It's better that the two of you talk about it. 0:19:09.185,0:19:11.707 For the long run, as well. 0:19:13.211,0:19:22.619 I think it'd be a good idea to honestly talk about what you wrote to me. 0:19:22.961,0:19:30.664 "I'm going overseas for a year soon for work, and I'm wondering if I should go out with someone I like right now." 0:19:31.845,0:19:34.510 You mean it'd end up being a long-distance relationship, right? 0:19:37.520,0:19:42.120 I think it's fine to go out with them. 0:19:45.710,0:19:51.738 A year actually goes by so quickly. 0:19:52.134,0:19:57.416 They could also go overseas if they want. 0:20:01.270,0:20:04.210 You can call each other and stay in touch. 0:20:06.920,0:20:16.144 Maybe I'm the type of person who doesn't think of distance as a problem. 0:20:17.532,0:20:25.378 I think it's a good thing when two people like and are attracted to each other. 0:20:26.242,0:20:29.032 Although it might not be as easy to meet each other 0:20:29.032,0:20:31.852 as when you're living in the same country. 0:20:32.716,0:20:36.526 However, I think there's a possibility it'll become a special time 0:20:36.526,0:20:42.860 that you can say afterwards was a good time. 0:20:43.656,0:20:54.169 I think it's really cool when women work hard for a year overseas like this. 0:20:54.955,0:20:58.515 Ah, I got one of these questions. 0:20:59.344,0:21:08.646 "Now that I'm at the age where I have friends who are getting married or living together, I feel anxious even though I've never been in a relationship." 0:21:09.224,0:21:10.165 Yeah. 0:21:10.751,0:21:13.356 Almost all of the questions I got are this kind of type. 0:21:14.438,0:21:17.967 When I ask for questions, most of them are like this. 0:21:21.341,0:21:25.202 There's really no way to solve this. 0:21:28.532,0:21:36.317 Everyone is different, so there's no need to worry. 0:21:36.389,0:21:41.034 But it is true that when you think about your body and such, 0:21:41.034,0:21:49.316 it's natural that you feel like you're counting backwards, especially for women. 0:21:49.656,0:21:57.175 I'm sure there will be a lot of things to think about, like whether you'd have a baby or not. 0:21:57.403,0:21:58.439 I get it. 0:21:58.607,0:22:03.174 I'm wondering what's going to happen to me too, really. 0:22:03.948,0:22:05.727 With that in mind... 0:22:05.875,0:22:10.450 But there's always so much to do in front of me. 0:22:12.239,0:22:18.029 Just because I might take a break doesn't mean I'm getting married. 0:22:19.405,0:22:21.541 I've been in my band for a long time. 0:22:21.834,0:22:24.278 Yeah, no one knows. 0:22:24.961,0:22:31.029 But my married friends say that it's all about timing. 0:22:32.719,0:22:35.815 A lot of people say they never thought it would be like this, 0:22:35.815,0:22:39.362 and I also think that's how it must be. 0:22:40.853,0:22:43.929 So, to rewind a bit, 0:22:43.929,0:22:52.886 I'm the type of person who thinks it's better to have a foundation where I'm fine even if I'm alone. 0:22:54.775,0:23:00.895 I'd like to be able to live a normal and happy life on my own 0:23:00.895,0:23:10.464 before I go out with someone or not, get married or not. 0:23:11.716,0:23:15.500 We'll have new kind of fun when we're together. 0:23:16.363,0:23:18.613 That's what I feel right now. 0:23:18.695,0:23:20.913 That's what I'm feeling now. 0:23:21.665,0:23:22.655 But I get you. 0:23:22.689,0:23:25.584 Isn't it the same for everyone? 0:23:25.985,0:23:28.425 So don't think you're the only one. 0:23:28.470,0:23:34.530 Make yourself happy by thinking that you're not in any particular hurry. 0:23:34.585,0:23:37.025 It doesn't have to be fun all the time, though. 0:23:39.007,0:23:45.237 I think it would be nice to have that, 0:23:45.237,0:23:48.731 to be able to live your life in a good way. 0:23:49.440,0:23:53.730 Marriage is not the ultimate goal. 0:23:53.803,0:23:58.123 There are a lot of new and difficult things [after you get married]. 0:23:58.135,0:24:06.152 "This is about interior design preferences. I just moved, so I'm unsure of what to do. RINA, what theme do you have at your place?" 0:24:06.203,0:24:10.568 Oh, they moved? It's fun to design new places. 0:24:11.085,0:24:17.496 I like antique vibes. 0:24:18.015,0:24:19.985 I go to flea markets. 0:24:20.111,0:24:24.091 I got that mirror in back of me at a flea market. 0:24:24.240,0:24:28.665 I've bought antiques in Europe, 0:24:29.344,0:24:32.394 like that picture frame next to [the mirror]. 0:24:32.454,0:24:39.114 I've bought stuff from vintage shops in Osaka. 0:24:39.245,0:24:46.865 I go to stores like that when we go overseas on tour. 0:24:47.043,0:24:49.114 I've bought lamps and such. 0:24:50.032,0:24:51.622 Hold on a sec. 0:24:54.159,0:24:55.277 This one. 0:24:55.803,0:24:59.082 I bought this recently. 0:25:02.356,0:25:04.523 I bought this in Paris recently. 0:25:04.817,0:25:09.946 I collect stuff from various places while traveling. 0:25:11.737,0:25:13.477 Something like that. 0:25:17.274,0:25:20.110 Also, my sofa is beige. 0:25:21.420,0:25:25.209 My tables are also mostly beige. 0:25:25.483,0:25:27.771 Beige might be my go-to color. 0:25:27.938,0:25:29.331 Beige. 0:25:30.028,0:25:35.246 Beige in color. 0:25:35.508,0:25:37.228 Ah, this one... 0:25:37.296,0:25:45.627 "If I can't congratulate my bias on their marriage, would I be semi-disqualified as a fan because I love them too much?" 0:25:45.977,0:25:50.196 Ah, but...yeah... 0:25:50.404,0:25:52.240 It is shocking, 0:25:53.733,0:25:58.034 when fans are suddenly informed like that. 0:25:59.275,0:26:01.805 We're all human, of course. 0:26:01.866,0:26:06.496 Even if you understand that your bias is in love and has a private life, 0:26:06.496,0:26:08.946 it's still shocking, I'm sure. 0:26:09.748,0:26:14.337 You've been supporting them with your time and money for a long time. 0:26:15.916,0:26:17.976 I don't think that disqualifies you as a fan. 0:26:18.040,0:26:23.573 I'm sure there are people who feel that way, though. 0:26:25.955,0:26:31.609 But things like that aren't something you can control. 0:26:31.977,0:26:35.277 The artists as well. 0:26:35.815,0:26:42.903 It's someone's life, and they are free to choose to do things as they see fit. 0:26:43.873,0:26:46.845 But I totally understand. 0:26:47.451,0:26:49.153 I get it. 0:26:52.467,0:26:58.101 I wonder if fans would congratulate me if I got married. 0:27:00.355,0:27:03.954 All of the questions from here on are basically about marriage. 0:27:03.985,0:27:08.281 "Can I be happy without getting married?" 0:27:08.281,0:27:13.734 "I don't think I need to get married, but everyone I know is in a rush to get married." 0:27:13.734,0:27:25.502 "After meeting more than 30 people on a dating app, no matter how much I think about it, I prefer my ex-girlfriend. I'm already heartbroken." 0:27:25.921,0:27:27.901 But you worked really hard. 0:27:28.278,0:27:30.618 You made a change and took action. 0:27:30.657,0:27:31.789 That's impressive. 0:27:32.462,0:27:33.872 Meeting over 30 people. 0:27:33.932,0:27:36.597 It takes a lot of strength to meet people, doesn't it? 0:27:36.823,0:27:39.133 You're meeting someone for the first time, 0:27:39.133,0:27:41.240 and you've repeated it 30 times. 0:27:41.356,0:27:42.705 That's impressive. 0:27:43.441,0:27:44.614 I see. 0:27:46.217,0:27:47.786 Your ex-girlfriend. 0:27:48.941,0:27:50.640 This is difficult. 0:27:50.909,0:27:55.167 If you have high expectations, you might end up hurting yourself. 0:27:56.272,0:27:58.372 But why not try talking [to your ex] just once? 0:27:58.452,0:28:00.442 If this is possible. 0:28:02.154,0:28:07.176 You could just meet up. 0:28:07.966,0:28:12.891 If you really think you can't hold it in anymore, why not confess your feelings? 0:28:14.693,0:28:20.184 I really feel like that could help sort some things out. 0:28:20.250,0:28:25.703 I feel like just properly conveying your feelings would make a difference. 0:28:28.090,0:28:30.351 I hope you meet someone good. 0:28:30.768,0:28:37.763 "I'll be quitting my job tomorrow. I'm in the process of looking for a new job, but I'm not sure if I'll find a good one." 0:28:40.164,0:28:41.584 Wow. 0:28:41.757,0:28:50.443 I have a girl friend who recently decided to change jobs. 0:28:50.654,0:28:52.347 We're about the same age. 0:28:53.790,0:28:59.210 She doesn't have a clear idea of what she wants to do next, 0:28:59.210,0:29:01.645 so it's difficult for her to choose a company. 0:29:01.770,0:29:04.810 She's single, 0:29:04.810,0:29:10.420 but I've heard that there aren't many companies that'll hire a woman in her 30s 0:29:10.420,0:29:21.418 who might get married soon and quit, or who might get pregnant and quit. 0:29:22.211,0:29:27.492 That's also tough. 0:29:27.855,0:29:33.065 I was just thinking how difficult that is. 0:29:33.105,0:29:37.853 She applied to a lot of places 0:29:37.853,0:29:45.185 and finally found a job where she thought she might be able to do well. 0:29:45.775,0:29:48.445 Before that happened, I got a call from her. 0:29:48.498,0:29:52.237 She was crying, asking what she should do. 0:29:52.278,0:29:53.928 I was also panicking. 0:29:54.089,0:29:59.429 But I listened to her, and she told me all of this. 0:30:00.413,0:30:04.242 So I know it's a real pain. 0:30:05.040,0:30:09.660 The more proactive you are, the more chances you have. 0:30:09.660,0:30:11.258 That's what I thought after seeing what she went through,. 0:30:11.469,0:30:16.158 So I hope you can get through this and do your best now 0:30:16.158,0:30:21.547 so that your future self can feel at ease. 0:30:21.931,0:30:26.371 I don't know what a good job would be like for you, 0:30:26.371,0:30:28.001 but... 0:30:29.854,0:30:36.239 I hope you find a company where you can demonstrate your full potential and feel at ease. 0:30:36.479,0:30:43.724 "I started playing the drums this year but can't play them very well." 0:30:43.945,0:30:45.385 Oh, nice. 0:30:45.498,0:30:50.428 Then you've been playing for a little over half a year. 0:30:53.303,0:30:58.156 It's normal to have trouble drumming well at first, so it's okay. 0:30:59.738,0:31:04.384 An instrument is something you have to practice for your whole life. 0:31:05.662,0:31:11.353 If you stop even for a bit, you'll decline. 0:31:13.289,0:31:17.639 [The drums] are really interesting and a lot of work, 0:31:17.639,0:31:20.536 since the sound comes directly from them. 0:31:22.750,0:31:25.894 Keep having fun as you continue playing. 0:31:26.754,0:31:31.597 I hope you continue having fun while making changes, such as covering your favorite songs, 0:31:31.597,0:31:39.087 playing louder, or changing your settings up. 0:31:39.123,0:31:42.726 "What do you think about one's boyfriend hanging out with other girls?" 0:31:43.527,0:31:48.596 "I'm a little tired of my friends and boyfriend being in contact with each other so much." 0:31:49.109,0:31:54.138 There were a lot of questions from people having trouble with their partners. 0:31:54.442,0:31:57.241 Just talk about it with each other, really. 0:31:57.591,0:31:59.951 You're in a relationship, 0:31:59.951,0:32:03.817 so you want to be able to talk about 0:32:03.817,0:32:09.207 the good things and the bad things with the person you're with. 0:32:09.695,0:32:14.914 I mean, it's because you love them that you don't like when things like that happen, right? 0:32:15.401,0:32:19.131 I think it's best to convey that with love. 0:32:19.475,0:32:23.645 It's better to talk about it than deny it. 0:32:23.688,0:32:26.639 You don't like it, and it makes you feel jealous. 0:32:28.197,0:32:30.077 I think that's all. 0:32:30.330,0:32:31.990 How long have I been talking? 0:32:32.876,0:32:36.046 It's been over 40 minutes. 0:32:37.052,0:32:39.292 How will I put it all together? 0:32:40.513,0:32:46.153 It was a lot of fun to be able to talk about everyday life with you guys. 0:32:47.241,0:32:47.931 It's nice. 0:32:47.960,0:32:50.780 Even if we can't reply back and forth, 0:32:50.780,0:32:58.091 just being able to talk to people like this, even if it's through a screen, is nice. 0:32:58.588,0:33:03.568 I really felt like we're living in the same era and in the same way. 0:33:04.918,0:33:08.724 Everyone worries about similar things. 0:33:08.844,0:33:10.824 You're not alone, 0:33:10.824,0:33:19.555 so don't worry too much about things like that, or panic, or feel anxious. 0:33:19.640,0:33:21.950 On the contrary, good things will happen, of course. 0:33:22.009,0:33:25.981 I hope we can keep conversing like this. 0:33:26.051,0:33:30.211 At any rate, if you can weather through it, you'll be fine. 0:33:30.608,0:33:33.715 Thanks so much for watching to the end! 0:33:34.183,0:33:36.578 See you in my next video! 0:33:36.705,0:33:38.166 Bye bye!