[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:04.53,0:00:06.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I was growing up in New Jersey Dialogue: 0,0:00:06.54,0:00:10.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I dreamed of having a passport to everywhere. Dialogue: 0,0:00:10.10,0:00:12.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That was my code for the opportunity Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.07,0:00:14.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to see new lands and meet new people Dialogue: 0,0:00:14.25,0:00:17.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and to take in especially the extremes, Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.27,0:00:18.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the ends of every spectrum, so that you could Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.94,0:00:23.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,understand where everything else falls in between. Dialogue: 0,0:00:23.56,0:00:26.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I got that passport as a foreign correspondent Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.62,0:00:29.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for ABC News and Bloomberg Television. Dialogue: 0,0:00:29.15,0:00:32.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's taken me to see life in the Islamic Republic. Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.02,0:00:34.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's taken me to hunt for pirates\Noff the coast of Somalia. Dialogue: 0,0:00:34.89,0:00:37.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's taken me to the heart of the revolution Dialogue: 0,0:00:37.41,0:00:39.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in Tahrir Square. Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.08,0:00:40.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And like Garman said, wherever I go Dialogue: 0,0:00:40.96,0:00:43.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I try to take snapshots of culture. Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.83,0:00:46.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the news reports, but also for myself, Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.24,0:00:48.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I write them down in a notebook like this. Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.49,0:00:52.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This one's come with me from London to Kathmandu. Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.20,0:00:55.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this is a snapshot of what's inside. Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.48,0:01:01.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the middle there جعل أحلامك الحقيقية، \N Literally, make your dreams real. Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.07,0:01:03.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's from a home mortgage ad in Tunisia. Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.67,0:01:06.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And than on the right there,\N"Ridha Allah Al-Walidain" Dialogue: 0,0:01:06.15,0:01:08.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my friend Sulaf in Jordan wrote that Dialogue: 0,0:01:08.16,0:01:10.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in memory of her father. Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.11,0:01:13.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's an Arabic Muslim concept of the special Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.02,0:01:16.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,karma you get, a blessing from parents, Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.08,0:01:19.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,passed from mother or father to child. Dialogue: 0,0:01:19.36,0:01:21.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A colleague from Turkey wrote this one: Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.62,0:01:26.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Deliye hergun bayram" \N If you're mad everyday is a feast. Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.37,0:01:28.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In other words, if you are just crazy enough, Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.88,0:01:31.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can have everything you want. Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.76,0:01:34.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's Arabic for .الاندفاع يأتي من الشيطان. Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.22,0:01:37.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"anything too rush, probably comes from the devil." Dialogue: 0,0:01:37.66,0:01:41.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This one is kind of blurry, "Partzratzeer Partzratzoor". Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.38,0:01:43.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Rise up and bring others with you. Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.89,0:01:45.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,An below that: Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.11,0:01:49.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Voneh jeeshtek, voruh perceeh an guh leenee." Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.28,0:01:53.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Have faith that what's true and what's right \N is gonna work out in the end. Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.33,0:01:56.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I learned that from our TEDx organizer Kristine. Dialogue: 0,0:01:56.28,0:01:58.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the last one: "Satyameva Jayate". Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.88,0:02:00.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's an Indian proverb: Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.65,0:02:04.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Truth should win no matter who else losses." Dialogue: 0,0:02:04.95,0:02:08.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So traveling around you fill a lot of notebooks, Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.28,0:02:10.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you learn a lot and even just Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.73,0:02:13.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the act of doing journalism evolves you, Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.27,0:02:15.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gives you lessons for life, Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.96,0:02:18.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I am so grateful for all of them that Dialogue: 0,0:02:18.19,0:02:21.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wanted to share some of them with you today. Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.74,0:02:23.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So here are five things I've learned Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.77,0:02:27.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as a foreign correspondent that you can too. Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.88,0:02:32.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No. 1: Perception can count as much as intention. Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.66,0:02:36.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not just what you intend, it's what you project Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.23,0:02:39.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that can get you in or out of trouble. Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.24,0:02:42.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I learned that traveling to Saudi Arabia. Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.21,0:02:43.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I landed in the middle of the night, Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.93,0:02:46.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was making my way to Riyadh on my own, Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.89,0:02:50.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I realized that because of how I look Dialogue: 0,0:02:50.07,0:02:53.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have to be extra careful. Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.03,0:02:56.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you are a western women and\Nyou look foreign in Saudi Arabia Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.48,0:02:59.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for the most part people won't mess with you. Dialogue: 0,0:02:59.59,0:03:02.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because of my dark features I have this mix Dialogue: 0,0:03:02.36,0:03:05.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of an eastern face and western attitude. Dialogue: 0,0:03:05.56,0:03:09.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I had to be aware of how that could be interpreted. Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.42,0:03:11.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had to be situationally aware. Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.64,0:03:15.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I might have to talk a little softer or keep a low profile. Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.44,0:03:18.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I just thought of it as putting my hand on Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.09,0:03:23.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a volume of me-ness and adjusting slightly Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.71,0:03:27.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just to make sure you stay safe. Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.09,0:03:31.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No. 2: Fear is amplified with distance. Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.38,0:03:33.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The further away you are from something, Dialogue: 0,0:03:33.60,0:03:35.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the scarier it seems. Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.75,0:03:38.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I learned that over time traveling to Lebanon, Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.34,0:03:41.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a country that is routinely on the brink of civil war. Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.76,0:03:43.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everything is calm, then all of the sudden, Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.59,0:03:46.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a bombing in Beirut or a shootout on the border. Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.65,0:03:51.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And everyday different parties at each other's throats,\N armed to the teeth. Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.31,0:03:53.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And from afar it can seem pretty scary, Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.35,0:03:55.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,especially when it's just this big bubble of fear, Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.95,0:03:57.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the airport's shut down, Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.41,0:03:59.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you need to drive your way into Beirut. Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.60,0:04:02.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But as you get closer you can localize the fear. Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.33,0:04:04.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Figure out what's real and what's hype. Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.77,0:04:06.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Call people who know the terrain. Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.84,0:04:09.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Figure out how to keep yourself safe. Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.12,0:04:11.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And just generally, get a sense of Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.29,0:04:14.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the objective volume, not the subjective fear. Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.51,0:04:17.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that applies for a lot of things in your life. Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.09,0:04:20.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At home, at work, a lot of things that seem threatening, Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.40,0:04:22.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,seem more threatening from far away, Dialogue: 0,0:04:22.09,0:04:24.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because fear is amplified with distance. Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.86,0:04:27.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you get up close, you can get a sense Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.12,0:04:29.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of what's real and what's hype. Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.52,0:04:31.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can localize the threat, Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.78,0:04:36.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,attack what you need and keep yourself safe. Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.39,0:04:40.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No. 3: It's not who you know or what you know. Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.32,0:04:44.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's how you work. How hard and how smart. Dialogue: 0,0:04:44.09,0:04:47.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Life, like journalism, is not a perfect meritocracy, Dialogue: 0,0:04:47.20,0:04:48.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but effort counts. Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.98,0:04:50.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I started in media in New York City, Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.68,0:04:52.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would often hear people say, Dialogue: 0,0:04:52.33,0:04:54.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"It's who you know, it's not what you know." Dialogue: 0,0:04:54.36,0:04:57.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I just didn't believe it\Nbecause I didn't know anybody. Dialogue: 0,0:04:57.55,0:05:00.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My parents were immigrants,\Nwe all started from scratch. Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.38,0:05:03.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I just had to believe that that wasn't true. Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.87,0:05:06.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then a producer friend of mine, David Katz, Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.00,0:05:09.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in a miraculous moment of conversation\Nturns to me and says, Dialogue: 0,0:05:09.37,0:05:12.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Lara, it's not who you know or what you know, Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.10,0:05:15.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's how you work. How hard, how smart. Dialogue: 0,0:05:15.12,0:05:18.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because if you do it right,\Nyou'll learn what you need to know. Dialogue: 0,0:05:18.37,0:05:21.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you'll meet who you should along the way. Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.83,0:05:24.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the Middle East there's a word for all the influence, Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.38,0:05:27.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all the benefits you get from knowing the right people Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.60,0:05:29.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and being able to pull strings. Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.07,0:05:31.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That word is: wasta. Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.12,0:05:32.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It gets used a lot. Dialogue: 0,0:05:32.83,0:05:35.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How did that guy get a visa? Wasta. Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.01,0:05:37.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How did that girl get into collage? Wasta. Dialogue: 0,0:05:37.41,0:05:41.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How did those guys build a factory on the beach? Wasta. Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.67,0:05:45.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everybody hates it, everybody wants it. Dialogue: 0,0:05:45.41,0:05:48.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the truth is, if you work hard and you work smart, Dialogue: 0,0:05:48.31,0:05:51.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can build your network, work your wasta, Dialogue: 0,0:05:51.32,0:05:54.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,use your wasta for good and not for evil. Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.06,0:05:55.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But if you just through your hands up Dialogue: 0,0:05:55.94,0:05:58.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because you weren't born into the wastocracy, Dialogue: 0,0:05:58.06,0:06:01.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's giving up way too soon. Dialogue: 0,0:06:01.96,0:06:06.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No. 4: You miss 100% of the shots you don't take, Dialogue: 0,0:06:06.19,0:06:08.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and some of the ones you do. Dialogue: 0,0:06:08.32,0:06:10.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's borrowing some of the Wayne Gretzky's, Dialogue: 0,0:06:10.24,0:06:13.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the idea is that you have to try with abandon Dialogue: 0,0:06:13.92,0:06:16.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and bounce back unscared and unscarred Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.17,0:06:18.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when it doesn't work out. Dialogue: 0,0:06:18.30,0:06:20.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have to remind myself that every time Dialogue: 0,0:06:20.47,0:06:22.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I try for a high profile interview. Dialogue: 0,0:06:22.80,0:06:25.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wanted to interview the president of Somalia. Dialogue: 0,0:06:25.69,0:06:28.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That meant putting in a request, finding his people, Dialogue: 0,0:06:28.42,0:06:29.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,contact who knew his people, Dialogue: 0,0:06:29.82,0:06:32.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,getting to the Horn of Africa with cameramen, Dialogue: 0,0:06:32.01,0:06:34.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then sitting around and waiting. Dialogue: 0,0:06:34.56,0:06:36.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when you're in the middle of trying Dialogue: 0,0:06:36.74,0:06:38.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you not sure if it's going to workout, Dialogue: 0,0:06:38.60,0:06:40.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it can feel pretty bad. Dialogue: 0,0:06:40.60,0:06:44.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it can feel much worse if it doesn't work out. Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.41,0:06:47.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That time it did. But other times it doesn't. Dialogue: 0,0:06:47.54,0:06:50.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the key is to bounce back. Dialogue: 0,0:06:50.01,0:06:52.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Treat the wins like the losses. Dialogue: 0,0:06:52.05,0:06:53.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just figure that you getting some of lifes' Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.74,0:06:56.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,necessary fails out of the way. Dialogue: 0,0:06:56.04,0:07:00.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can't weaken and you can't stop trying. Dialogue: 0,0:07:00.48,0:07:05.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No. 5, my favorite: People are better than you think. Dialogue: 0,0:07:05.53,0:07:08.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're not angels, they're not perfect, Dialogue: 0,0:07:08.10,0:07:10.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they're better than you think. Dialogue: 0,0:07:10.29,0:07:12.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's because most of the time Dialogue: 0,0:07:12.08,0:07:14.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we tend to fill in the blanks Dialogue: 0,0:07:14.04,0:07:17.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of what we don't know with the negative. Dialogue: 0,0:07:17.16,0:07:18.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All of us sitting in the audience here, Dialogue: 0,0:07:18.88,0:07:20.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we could see someone who's well-dressed Dialogue: 0,0:07:20.47,0:07:21.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and assume she's a snob, Dialogue: 0,0:07:21.80,0:07:23.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or see someone who is super-busy Dialogue: 0,0:07:23.68,0:07:25.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and assume he's self-obsessed, Dialogue: 0,0:07:25.70,0:07:27.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because we fill the blanks with a negative Dialogue: 0,0:07:27.94,0:07:30.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when we don't have to. Dialogue: 0,0:07:30.17,0:07:32.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For decades under Hosni Mubarak in Egypt, Dialogue: 0,0:07:32.66,0:07:35.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the Coptic Christian minority and Muslim majority Dialogue: 0,0:07:35.27,0:07:37.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,were at each other's throats. Dialogue: 0,0:07:37.67,0:07:40.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There was a lot of distrust, escalating violence, Dialogue: 0,0:07:40.49,0:07:43.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bombings, shootings and whoever was Dialogue: 0,0:07:43.66,0:07:46.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,responsible for it, whoever was behind it, Dialogue: 0,0:07:46.12,0:07:47.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was dropping that blanket of distrust Dialogue: 0,0:07:47.65,0:07:49.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and negative assumption Dialogue: 0,0:07:49.32,0:07:51.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,across those two communities. Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.45,0:07:54.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then the most beautiful moments of the revolution Dialogue: 0,0:07:54.04,0:07:57.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in Tahrir Square: they were up close. Dialogue: 0,0:07:57.36,0:07:59.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You had Christians circling the square, Dialogue: 0,0:07:59.59,0:08:00.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,protecting the core, Dialogue: 0,0:08:00.93,0:08:03.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while the Muslims bowed to the ground in prayer. Dialogue: 0,0:08:03.75,0:08:05.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then for Sunday mass it was the reverse. Dialogue: 0,0:08:05.97,0:08:08.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You had the Muslims protecting the core, Dialogue: 0,0:08:08.06,0:08:10.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while the Christians were bowing in prayer. Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.62,0:08:13.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Once they were up-close and on the same side, Dialogue: 0,0:08:13.75,0:08:17.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they stopped making those negative assumptions. Dialogue: 0,0:08:17.29,0:08:20.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The word for optimist in Armenian Dialogue: 0,0:08:20.15,0:08:23.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is lavades - seer of good. Dialogue: 0,0:08:23.40,0:08:25.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look for the good in people, Dialogue: 0,0:08:25.44,0:08:27.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for your sake and for theirs. Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.65,0:08:29.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am not saying be naive. Dialogue: 0,0:08:29.10,0:08:31.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am not saying don't be careful. Dialogue: 0,0:08:31.34,0:08:33.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm just saying there is no point seeing darkness Dialogue: 0,0:08:33.53,0:08:36.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and shadows when you don't have to. Dialogue: 0,0:08:36.79,0:08:39.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Especially when they are not there. Dialogue: 0,0:08:39.13,0:08:43.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So in conclusion, how do I interpret reality? Dialogue: 0,0:08:43.05,0:08:47.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Turn truth into television or at least try? Dialogue: 0,0:08:47.15,0:08:50.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,By absorbing everything I can about the people Dialogue: 0,0:08:50.05,0:08:52.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the places around me and then doing Dialogue: 0,0:08:52.15,0:08:55.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,everything I can to convey their essence. Dialogue: 0,0:08:55.46,0:08:57.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you do that by flexing Dialogue: 0,0:08:57.69,0:09:02.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your empathy, sincerity,\Nhustle, humility and respect. Dialogue: 0,0:09:02.99,0:09:05.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,By knowing when to ask for help, Dialogue: 0,0:09:05.02,0:09:06.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you're out of your depth, Dialogue: 0,0:09:06.64,0:09:11.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and how to ask for help graciously and gratefully Dialogue: 0,0:09:11.32,0:09:14.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and with the readiness to be proven wrong. Dialogue: 0,0:09:14.08,0:09:15.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's what I've learned in my work. Dialogue: 0,0:09:15.85,0:09:18.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've taken it through my life Dialogue: 0,0:09:18.24,0:09:20.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it's made me so much richer. Dialogue: 0,0:09:20.30,0:09:21.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you. Dialogue: 0,0:09:21.61,0:09:27.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)