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Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text
Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.88,0:00:07.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you know of any relationship
Dialogue: 0,0:00:07.96,0:00:11.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is not currently right,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:11.05,0:00:18.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you are to endeavor yourself to mend it.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.46,0:00:19.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.90,0:00:23.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're the one that's supposed to fix it.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:23.36,0:00:25.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we won't, if I know
Dialogue: 0,0:00:25.76,0:00:29.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that something's wrong in a relationship
Dialogue: 0,0:00:29.92,0:00:32.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I'm like a horse or a mule
Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.00,0:00:34.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that Psalm 32 says don't be that way -
Dialogue: 0,0:00:34.12,0:00:36.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't be stubborn and refuse -
Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.18,0:00:37.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if I know something's wrong
Dialogue: 0,0:00:37.93,0:00:40.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I won't fix it,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:40.14,0:00:43.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then I should stop
Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.90,0:00:45.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,expecting God to speak to me;
Dialogue: 0,0:00:45.75,0:00:47.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I should stop reading books;
Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.34,0:00:49.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I should stop talking about missions;
Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.27,0:00:51.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I should stop all the talk
Dialogue: 0,0:00:51.80,0:00:53.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and first get things right
Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.44,0:00:55.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before I pursue anymore.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.22,0:00:56.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If God's shown me something
Dialogue: 0,0:00:56.86,0:00:58.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I don't walk in the light of it -
Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.68,0:01:00.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't obey what He's shown me -
Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.26,0:01:02.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,why should He say anymore to me?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:02.72,0:01:05.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why if He puts a finger on me
Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.68,0:01:07.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about a relationship
Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.20,0:01:08.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I know it's got to be right -
Dialogue: 0,0:01:08.80,0:01:10.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I know for sure
Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.86,0:01:12.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if John Dees and I -
Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.04,0:01:13.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which we've never had any of this -
Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.77,0:01:16.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but if we had a dilemma \Nin our relationship
Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.59,0:01:20.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we both knew something \Nwasn't right between us -
Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.34,0:01:22.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had hurt him, I had sinned against him,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:22.95,0:01:24.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or the other way around,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.46,0:01:26.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we both knew we were going to
Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.14,0:01:28.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,see each other today for the first time,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.15,0:01:29.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I promise you,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.58,0:01:30.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he would be coming to me,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.80,0:01:31.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'd be coming to him
Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.91,0:01:33.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we would get it right
Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.20,0:01:35.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before we started singing, wouldn't we?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.87,0:01:38.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How easy it is to come into church
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.64,0:01:40.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and a relationship not be right
Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.71,0:01:45.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then we want to sing the songs of God.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.54,0:01:47.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you come to worship
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.32,0:01:50.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you come to bring \Nyour gift to the altar
Dialogue: 0,0:01:50.52,0:01:53.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and there remember that your brother
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.50,0:01:54.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has ought against you,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.86,0:01:57.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,stop your singing, stop your worship.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.54,0:01:59.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Go get it right and then come
Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.88,0:02:02.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and offer your gift.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:02.77,0:02:03.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How about it?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.96,0:02:07.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is every relationship right?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.49,0:02:10.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You ought not to go to bed tonight
Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.60,0:02:15.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without making sure of it
Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.92,0:02:18.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because your bones might start rotting
Dialogue: 0,0:02:18.92,0:02:21.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and your strength might start drying up
Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.59,0:02:23.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like the heat of the summer.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.05,0:02:26.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you keep silent about it -
Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.58,0:02:30.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it seems like we heard that not long ago.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.24,0:02:32.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see, what happens is -
Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.86,0:02:34.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,here's what we do.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.15,0:02:36.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's a problem in a relationship
Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.03,0:02:38.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we begin to rationalize and justify
Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.92,0:02:40.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and make mental excuses.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:40.62,0:02:42.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, it will take care of itself."
Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.74,0:02:45.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, it won't.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.33,0:02:47.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, it will create more problems
Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.47,0:02:49.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than it will solve if I go to him."
Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.34,0:02:51.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, it won't.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.60,0:02:54.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, it's just going to \Nhave to be that way."
Dialogue: 0,0:02:54.03,0:02:55.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, it doesn't.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.95,0:02:59.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, there's been too much time passed."
Dialogue: 0,0:02:59.88,0:03:02.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, there hasn't.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:02.90,0:03:05.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, there's too many \Ndifferences between us."
Dialogue: 0,0:03:05.53,0:03:07.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, there are not.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.28,0:03:09.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe I've left out your excuse,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.66,0:03:12.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but still the answer is
Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.06,0:03:15.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is always right, always right,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.08,0:03:16.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to make things right.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:16.66,0:03:19.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is always wrong to leave a relationship
Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.48,0:03:22.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,damaged somehow.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:22.38,0:03:24.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the reason some true Christians
Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.06,0:03:26.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,won't get relationships right -
Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.09,0:03:27.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think there's three major reasons.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.81,0:03:31.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Number one, it's too scary.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.08,0:03:33.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's scary to go to someone
Dialogue: 0,0:03:33.22,0:03:34.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and say, brother,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:34.44,0:03:37.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think there's been something between us.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.42,0:03:38.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It isn't right.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.84,0:03:41.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm sorry. I don't want \Nthat to be that way.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.27,0:03:44.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's scary to do that, isn't it?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.78,0:03:46.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.47,0:03:48.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's fearful.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.22,0:03:51.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's way outside some people's \Ncomfort zones to do that.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.36,0:03:56.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It scares people to \Ninitiate making things right.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:56.42,0:04:01.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Secondly, it's too painful to go
Dialogue: 0,0:04:01.03,0:04:04.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and to say, listen,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.24,0:04:06.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we've not been right in our relationship.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.63,0:04:10.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's too painful for some people.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.21,0:04:14.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thirdly, some people are just too proud.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.52,0:04:17.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They want to leave it on the other person.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.11,0:04:20.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The other person may not \Neven know there's a problem.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.78,0:04:22.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you've wronged them,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:22.08,0:04:24.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you feel like you've \Nsinned against them,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.32,0:04:29.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or you feel legitimately \Nthat they did wrong you,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.27,0:04:31.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but you're too proud to go.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.74,0:04:36.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Too scared, too painful, too proud.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.30,0:04:39.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so you leave it undone.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:39.97,0:04:43.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen, things undealt with
Dialogue: 0,0:04:43.56,0:04:46.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,will only do damage down the road.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:46.04,0:04:47.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To hear the remainder of the sermon,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:47.92,0:04:50.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,search for "Every Relationship Right."