0:00:17.924,0:00:20.038 I'm obsessed with the question: 0:00:21.568,0:00:23.838 "What makes a good teacher great?" 0:00:25.228,0:00:28.767 I've collected 26,000 responses[br]to this question, 0:00:29.677,0:00:31.517 in eight different schools, 0:00:32.057,0:00:34.318 from the poorest schools in Los Angeles, 0:00:34.448,0:00:38.806 to suburban schools in Texas,[br]to elite private schools abroad. 0:00:39.976,0:00:42.704 And after 24 years of teaching students, 0:00:43.314,0:00:45.465 I'm still perplexed by this question. 0:00:46.291,0:00:47.675 Today, I'm going to teach you 0:00:47.675,0:00:50.335 the lessons I learned[br]from those thousands of students, 0:00:51.245,0:00:56.266 and learn what I found out from them[br]if we just listen to students. 0:00:56.646,0:00:58.055 The thing about it is 0:00:58.055,0:01:00.725 that during my time[br]of asking kids this question, 0:01:00.725,0:01:05.341 I realized that we don't ask this question[br]for a particular reason: 0:01:05.719,0:01:08.298 schools are afraid. 0:01:09.146,0:01:12.523 Based on fear, they don't really[br]want to know what kids think. 0:01:13.166,0:01:16.432 Partially because they don't think[br]kids will take it serious. 0:01:16.977,0:01:19.848 I'm going to share with you[br]one of the most profound quotes, 0:01:19.848,0:01:22.211 answers to this question[br]that I've ever received. 0:01:22.881,0:01:24.521 [A great teacher eats apples] 0:01:24.521,0:01:25.562 (Laughter) 0:01:25.712,0:01:28.280 Now, I know what you're thinking. 0:01:28.540,0:01:30.551 Doesn't this prove my point? 0:01:32.288,0:01:33.997 "Great teachers eat apples." 0:01:35.077,0:01:38.741 When I first saw this,[br]I dismissed it as silliness, 0:01:39.949,0:01:42.377 but it appeared again and again. 0:01:43.093,0:01:44.103 So I thought, 0:01:44.103,0:01:47.870 "There's got to be something to this,[br]but what are they trying to tell me?" 0:01:48.759,0:01:52.511 So one day, I decided[br]I would start eating apples. 0:01:53.789,0:01:59.980 I ate them in the morning, at lunch,[br]during class, in the hall. 0:02:01.464,0:02:04.164 Kids began to give me apples. 0:02:05.464,0:02:08.575 The'd see me eating them[br]and say, "You're eating an apple!" 0:02:09.715,0:02:10.755 "I know!" 0:02:11.415,0:02:14.562 They would smile, and I would smile back. 0:02:15.771,0:02:18.693 It wasn't until I understood[br]that kids wanted to see me 0:02:18.693,0:02:21.390 as somebody who is willing[br]to receive a gift from them, 0:02:22.090,0:02:25.022 that the apple was a symbol[br]for our relationship. 0:02:25.732,0:02:28.140 There was goodness in that, and trust. 0:02:29.121,0:02:33.722 But for a long time, I wasn't listening[br]and I hadn't understood this. 0:02:35.496,0:02:37.009 [A great teacher is chill] 0:02:37.019,0:02:38.839 They have their own language. 0:02:40.609,0:02:42.649 When they say, "A great teacher is chill," 0:02:42.649,0:02:45.226 what they really mean is:[br]"Don't take it too serious. 0:02:46.308,0:02:50.219 Be calm in all situations.[br]Don't get overwhelmed." 0:02:51.379,0:02:52.749 (Laughter) 0:02:53.189,0:02:57.110 They have a way of speaking to us[br]about what they really want to tell us, 0:02:57.581,0:02:59.861 but we have to listen. 0:03:00.171,0:03:01.172 Right? 0:03:01.172,0:03:04.830 I'm the father of two grown kids. 0:03:04.870,0:03:07.501 They're out of school now and in college. 0:03:07.857,0:03:10.563 But when they were at home[br]and they were teenagers, 0:03:10.563,0:03:12.729 I had to learn a whole new language. 0:03:13.410,0:03:16.040 When they would come home[br]from school, I might ask them: 0:03:16.040,0:03:20.761 "How was your day?"[br]and they would say, "Fine," 0:03:21.863,0:03:25.093 which usually meant:[br]"It was not bad. It was pretty good. 0:03:25.375,0:03:27.162 Nothing happened eventful. 0:03:27.162,0:03:29.322 I probably learned something.[br]Maybe I didn't." 0:03:30.032,0:03:35.340 But if they came home[br]and said, "Fine," what they meant was: 0:03:35.340,0:03:40.172 "It wasn't really great, but don't ask me,[br]because you wouldn't understand anyways." 0:03:41.722,0:03:44.311 If I asked them how their day was[br]and they said "OK," 0:03:45.399,0:03:49.602 what they were trying to tell me was:[br]"It wasn't good at at all, 0:03:49.602,0:03:52.131 and you should probably[br]ask me more questions, 0:03:52.131,0:03:54.431 but don't expect me to answer." 0:03:54.431,0:03:55.730 (Laughter) 0:03:55.730,0:03:59.829 Kids have their own language;[br]they have their own way of thinking. 0:04:00.735,0:04:02.674 They want us to think like them 0:04:02.674,0:04:05.208 and understand[br]what's inside of their head. 0:04:06.477,0:04:10.326 They have so many ways[br]of thinking that things are great. 0:04:10.906,0:04:13.973 They want us to see[br]their world inside of them. 0:04:14.500,0:04:16.464 But they don't want us to act like them; 0:04:16.464,0:04:20.335 they want us to be calm[br]and protect them and keep them safe. 0:04:20.754,0:04:22.372 Kids have a way of communicating, 0:04:22.372,0:04:25.575 and adults just haven't spent[br]the time listening. 0:04:26.132,0:04:27.485 But what if we did? 0:04:28.065,0:04:31.015 What if we really listen[br]deeply to students? 0:04:32.688,0:04:33.988 One of the things I noticed 0:04:33.988,0:04:36.758 after all the years[br]of collecting these responses 0:04:37.181,0:04:39.793 is that there is patterns that emerge. 0:04:40.763,0:04:43.702 When I asked the question[br]of what makes a good teacher great, 0:04:44.214,0:04:48.725 oftentimes I heard,[br]"A great teacher loves to teach." 0:04:48.995,0:04:52.404 70 percent of the time, the quote[br]or the answer that followed was: 0:04:52.404,0:04:54.734 "A great teacher loves to learn." 0:04:55.603,0:04:59.862 The reason this is significant[br]is they don't see this happening. 0:04:59.984,0:05:03.195 They don't see teachers[br]learning in front of them. 0:05:03.728,0:05:05.432 They see them teaching, 0:05:05.432,0:05:08.244 but they wish they would learn[br]along with them. 0:05:08.544,0:05:09.554 Think about it. 0:05:09.554,0:05:13.084 Principals hire teachers[br]to be content experts, 0:05:13.345,0:05:17.694 to have all of the knowledge,[br]not to be learners. 0:05:18.285,0:05:20.264 But what if they did? 0:05:20.274,0:05:24.007 What if you showed up in the classroom,[br]and the teacher had something prepared, 0:05:24.007,0:05:26.874 said, "I don't know exactly[br]what we're going to do today, 0:05:26.874,0:05:28.681 but I can't wait to learn with you." 0:05:28.701,0:05:30.630 Or that they saw their teacher struggle 0:05:30.630,0:05:32.792 through something[br]they didn't actually know 0:05:32.792,0:05:35.437 and then eventually discover the answer. 0:05:36.399,0:05:40.066 Kids want to be inspired by this idea[br]that learning is important. 0:05:40.673,0:05:42.656 But they don't see it in schools. 0:05:43.126,0:05:45.576 [A great teacher isn't a teacher] 0:05:45.576,0:05:48.285 When I saw this quote:[br]"A great teacher isn't a teacher," 0:05:48.285,0:05:50.070 I actually was a little bit offended. 0:05:50.701,0:05:53.057 "What do you mean?! I'm a teacher!" 0:05:53.057,0:05:54.744 They're like, "We know." 0:05:56.043,0:05:58.023 What they were trying to tell me is: 0:05:58.364,0:06:01.577 a great teacher isn't in the classroom. 0:06:02.903,0:06:03.973 Think about it. 0:06:04.193,0:06:07.263 Think about a time that you have[br]some enduring understanding, 0:06:07.263,0:06:09.082 a time when you learned something 0:06:09.082,0:06:11.423 that you still remember[br]and you use to this day, 0:06:11.423,0:06:15.464 like throwing a baseball or riding a bike. 0:06:16.264,0:06:18.450 I remember learning[br]to ride a bike from my mom 0:06:18.450,0:06:20.076 when I was five years old. 0:06:20.736,0:06:22.835 She took off the training[br]wheels of my bike, 0:06:23.403,0:06:25.429 she got behind me, and began to push. 0:06:25.981,0:06:27.719 And we ran, and we ran, 0:06:27.726,0:06:31.133 until she finally let go,[br]and I began to ride a bike. 0:06:32.072,0:06:35.202 That's what I did;[br]that's how I learned to ride a bike. 0:06:35.743,0:06:39.583 I can still ride a bike to this day[br]from that moment. 0:06:40.779,0:06:44.360 But can you imagine if I tried to learn[br]to bike from my mom in a classroom, 0:06:44.399,0:06:45.809 what it would look like? 0:06:45.809,0:06:47.437 [Copy this[br]Bike riding 101] 0:06:47.437,0:06:49.224 (Laughter) 0:06:49.324,0:06:53.295 "Son, first, you need to learn[br]all the parts of a bike. 0:06:54.296,0:06:58.085 There's the pedals and the crank,[br]and there's a chain that turns the wheel. 0:06:58.477,0:07:00.624 You have to have a significant force; 0:07:00.704,0:07:03.815 once the force has enough momentum,[br]you can keep your balance. 0:07:04.907,0:07:06.484 That's how a bike works. 0:07:07.492,0:07:10.822 I want you to learn all the parts,[br]be able to label them and draw them. 0:07:10.822,0:07:13.349 Then you're going to learn[br]and write a research paper 0:07:13.349,0:07:14.957 about the history of bike riding. 0:07:14.962,0:07:16.362 (Laughter) 0:07:16.712,0:07:21.023 All the important elements,[br]the adventure, the development of bikes. 0:07:21.463,0:07:24.514 And at the end of that,[br]you're going to take a final examination. 0:07:24.845,0:07:28.146 If you pass and get an A,[br]you can ride a bike. 0:07:28.216,0:07:30.085 (laughter) 0:07:30.490,0:07:33.016 At five years old,[br]I think I would've said, 0:07:33.166,0:07:34.836 "Never mind, I'll just walk." 0:07:34.836,0:07:36.147 (Laughter) 0:07:36.777,0:07:39.025 This is exactly what we do to children. 0:07:39.964,0:07:42.508 We put them in a classroom and tell them, 0:07:42.518,0:07:45.266 "This is what I want you to learn.[br]It's important. Do it." 0:07:45.901,0:07:48.620 And kids know that it's not true, 0:07:48.620,0:07:51.520 that we don't really value[br]learning this way. 0:07:52.540,0:07:56.360 So no wonder they're disruptive,[br]or bored, or disengaged. 0:07:57.288,0:08:01.909 Kids want us to be teachers[br]that aren't teachers. 0:08:02.551,0:08:05.011 I want to tell you a story about Yvette.[br] 0:08:05.430,0:08:09.191 "A great teacher understands[br]that they have a life outside of school." 0:08:09.640,0:08:11.263 They really do. 0:08:11.460,0:08:14.829 They want us to know[br]that their life in school 0:08:14.829,0:08:18.208 is way more different[br]than the life outside of school. 0:08:20.053,0:08:23.432 I just thought, "Well,[br]how hard is your life? 0:08:23.741,0:08:27.951 Your job is to do school;[br]my job is to teach." 0:08:28.990,0:08:30.727 Yvette was a tough student,[br] 0:08:31.502,0:08:35.112 She was feisty, and she had[br]an infamous reputation. 0:08:35.785,0:08:38.365 She walked around[br]with a jacket to prove it. 0:08:39.172,0:08:42.798 Whenever she walked around,[br]the kids would follow. 0:08:43.244,0:08:45.953 She would come in and sit[br]in the front row and lean 0:08:45.953,0:08:49.174 just so that she can have[br]eye contact to intimidate me. 0:08:49.596,0:08:52.787 She would call me "mister"[br]and not even use my full name. 0:08:53.426,0:08:57.156 When she'd get up to go to the bathroom,[br]all the girls would follow. 0:08:57.827,0:09:01.108 Eventually, I learnt from Yvette[br]what she needed to learn. 0:09:01.398,0:09:04.099 And I thought I became[br]pretty good at what I was doing. 0:09:05.480,0:09:08.417 I noticed one day, she stopped[br]turning in her homework. 0:09:08.978,0:09:11.996 She had become a great leader[br]in the classroom: 0:09:12.272,0:09:15.864 she turned in her homework,[br]she participated in class; 0:09:16.272,0:09:18.001 she actually was quite good. 0:09:18.001,0:09:20.340 So when this happened,[br]I was surprised. 0:09:20.622,0:09:24.567 So I went up to her and said,[br]"Yvette, I'm very disappointed in you." 0:09:25.492,0:09:28.750 She said, "I know mister; I'm sorry." 0:09:30.542,0:09:32.806 "I expect it turned in tomorrow." 0:09:33.249,0:09:38.350 Tomorrow came, and just a few sheets[br]of unfinished work were turned in. 0:09:39.631,0:09:43.836 I also went up to her and said,[br]"Yvette, this is disappointing." 0:09:46.286,0:09:48.995 She said, "I normally do[br]my homework in the bathroom 0:09:48.995,0:09:51.431 because it's the quietest[br]place in my house, 0:09:53.223,0:09:57.268 but this week the electricity[br]was turned off, and it's dark in there. 0:09:58.468,0:10:00.170 I had a candle, but it burned out. 0:10:01.296,0:10:02.380 And I'm sorry." 0:10:03.429,0:10:05.908 She gazed down, not her prideful self. 0:10:06.809,0:10:08.516 I had missed the point.[br] 0:10:08.776,0:10:12.467 I had not listened when she said,[br]"I'm trying, mister." 0:10:13.268,0:10:15.695 I heard the words, but I didn't listen. 0:10:16.375,0:10:19.189 Great teachers notice[br]when there's a struggle. 0:10:19.815,0:10:23.920 They don't make assumptions[br]about what kids can and cannot do. 0:10:24.914,0:10:29.305 They wait and watch,[br]and they rescue them when they're stuck. 0:10:30.605,0:10:33.692 Good teachers hear them,[br]but they don't listen. 0:10:35.009,0:10:37.645 I'll never forget Yvette,[br]and I'm grateful 0:10:37.756,0:10:40.380 because whenever I see[br]an answer of a student like that, 0:10:40.380,0:10:42.925 I remember her, and I listen. 0:10:43.950,0:10:45.145 [A great teacher sings] 0:10:45.145,0:10:49.191 This was the most perplexing answer[br]I think I ever received. 0:10:51.001,0:10:54.913 It happened every year for ten years;[br]at least one student would put this. 0:10:55.700,0:10:57.520 "A great teacher sings." 0:10:58.841,0:11:00.514 What are they talking about? 0:11:00.611,0:11:01.889 I can't sing. 0:11:02.140,0:11:06.389 So I started thinking,[br]"Wait a second. What do they mean?" 0:11:06.920,0:11:10.884 It wasn't until Danny turned it in[br]as one of his responses. 0:11:12.527,0:11:14.190 He was the class clown. 0:11:14.740,0:11:17.547 You know he was the one[br]that when we took the class picture, 0:11:17.547,0:11:19.680 he put ear fingers behind your head. 0:11:20.270,0:11:22.298 He would make faces[br]at me during lectures 0:11:22.298,0:11:23.328 so I would laugh. 0:11:23.667,0:11:25.784 Everything was a joke to Danny. 0:11:26.266,0:11:28.687 So, when he turned in his responses, 0:11:29.401,0:11:32.607 and they were all serious[br]and actually really good, 0:11:33.005,0:11:35.568 I was surprised when this[br]showed up in the middle. 0:11:36.155,0:11:39.330 But I knew there was something to it;[br]I just didn't know what. 0:11:40.557,0:11:43.686 So the next day,[br]I put the agenda on the board, 0:11:43.986,0:11:47.560 listing all the activities of the day,[br]the expectations, and the homework. 0:11:48.126,0:11:53.326 And instead of actually reading them,[br]very seriously, I sang, 0:11:53.516,0:11:54.712 (Laughter) 0:11:54.792,0:11:57.875 in an operatic style, big as I could. 0:11:58.967,0:12:02.227 The eyes of the students were wide,[br]their mouths dropped. 0:12:02.237,0:12:03.597 (Laughter) 0:12:05.633,0:12:08.153 But you know what happened[br]at the end of that? 0:12:08.403,0:12:11.265 I expected pointing and laughing. 0:12:11.982,0:12:15.800 But the classroom erupted[br]in cheers and applause. 0:12:16.504,0:12:18.441 There was a standing ovation. 0:12:19.254,0:12:20.894 I could not believe it. 0:12:21.284,0:12:24.915 At the end of class, they walked out,[br]gave me high fives and handshakes, 0:12:24.917,0:12:26.279 and here came Danny. 0:12:26.599,0:12:30.416 He walked in, and he leaned in,[br]and patted me on the shoulder, and said, 0:12:30.416,0:12:32.474 "I told you a great teacher sings." 0:12:32.504,0:12:34.976 (Laughter) 0:12:35.196,0:12:38.396 (Applause) 0:12:42.157,0:12:47.236 Great teachers make themselves[br]humble before their students. 0:12:48.378,0:12:49.610 They take risks. 0:12:51.570,0:12:53.730 They put aside their fear to try. 0:12:54.850,0:12:57.709 They trust that they are going[br]to be supported if they fail. 0:12:58.651,0:13:01.102 But they don't see this;[br]they see experts, remember? 0:13:01.102,0:13:02.419 Content experts. 0:13:03.263,0:13:05.023 What if we hire teachers 0:13:05.313,0:13:09.559 not to be deep understanders[br]of content, knowledge keepers, 0:13:09.562,0:13:12.414 but deep understanders of students? 0:13:13.201,0:13:15.981 How our schools[br]would change and transform? 0:13:17.042,0:13:22.523 But it's no wonder students don't care[br]or that teachers don't really listen. 0:13:22.924,0:13:24.914 Because they have never been taught. 0:13:25.343,0:13:28.015 But what if we did listen? 0:13:29.408,0:13:32.855 You see, we spend three years[br]of a student's life, 0:13:33.606,0:13:35.264 teaching students to read. 0:13:35.924,0:13:39.503 About 12 years of those students' lives,[br]teaching them to write. 0:13:40.406,0:13:43.451 Maybe if they're lucky,[br]they get a semester or half a year 0:13:44.367,0:13:46.287 learning to public speak. 0:13:47.148,0:13:52.967 But they get virtual zero years[br]of formal listening instruction. 0:13:55.246,0:13:56.365 Zero. 0:13:56.618,0:13:57.368 Think about it. 0:13:57.368,0:13:59.714 When was the last time[br]you were at a dinner party, 0:13:59.714,0:14:02.874 and someone asked a question:[br]"So what do you do for a living?" 0:14:03.179,0:14:06.015 and the response was,[br]"Oh, I'm a listening teacher. 0:14:06.395,0:14:09.013 I teach advanced listening[br]at the high school events, 0:14:09.416,0:14:12.701 listening communications,[br]or beginning listener for elementary?" 0:14:12.701,0:14:13.981 We don't hear this. 0:14:14.452,0:14:18.411 Because we just don't believe[br]that in schools it's important, 0:14:18.651,0:14:19.663 though in the world, 0:14:19.663,0:14:23.871 listening is one of the number one skills[br]essential for business and life. 0:14:24.157,0:14:26.229 And we just don't teach it. 0:14:26.683,0:14:29.222 We need to listen to our students. 0:14:30.951,0:14:33.880 In our classrooms are the future. 0:14:35.588,0:14:40.614 The Maya Angelous, the Mother Theresas,[br]the Elon Musks of the world. 0:14:41.174,0:14:42.502 And can you imagine[br] 0:14:42.911,0:14:49.450 if we took the time to ask those students,[br]"What would make a good teacher great?" 0:14:50.689,0:14:52.279 and then we actually listened, 0:14:52.979,0:14:56.001 we could transform schools and education. 0:14:57.091,0:14:58.391 Thank you. 0:14:58.391,0:15:01.690 (Applause)