WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.490 STEFAN: So what is gender dysphoria, 00:00:02.490 --> 00:00:04.490 where does it come from, and what is it actually 00:00:04.490 --> 00:00:06.510 like to experience gender dysphoria? 00:00:06.510 --> 00:00:07.267 I'm Stefan. 00:00:07.267 --> 00:00:09.350 I'm a trans man, and I'm here to talk to you today 00:00:09.350 --> 00:00:10.795 about everything gender dysphoria. 00:00:10.795 --> 00:00:13.592 [MUSIC PLAYING] 00:00:13.592 --> 00:00:15.050 Dysphoria comes from the Greek word 00:00:15.050 --> 00:00:18.390 dusphoría, which means a state of discomfort or unease. 00:00:18.390 --> 00:00:20.840 Gender dysphoria is when a person feels distress 00:00:20.840 --> 00:00:22.460 because their gender identity does not 00:00:22.460 --> 00:00:24.668 match up with the gender they were assigned at birth. 00:00:24.668 --> 00:00:27.630 There are three main kinds of dysphoria-- physical dysphoria, 00:00:27.630 --> 00:00:30.030 social dysphoria, and mental dysphoria. 00:00:30.030 --> 00:00:32.612 Physical dysphoria is when a trans person feels distress 00:00:32.612 --> 00:00:34.070 because their body doesn't match up 00:00:34.070 --> 00:00:35.580 with the gender they truly are. 00:00:35.580 --> 00:00:38.580 For example, trans men often have dysphoria about our chests. 00:00:38.580 --> 00:00:40.520 This is because this physical trait doesn't 00:00:40.520 --> 00:00:42.060 align with our true male genders, 00:00:42.060 --> 00:00:44.550 and this can cause us to feel discomfort and stress. 00:00:44.550 --> 00:00:47.000 We can fix that by having top surgery, which 00:00:47.000 --> 00:00:49.070 is a procedure that removes breast tissue 00:00:49.070 --> 00:00:51.510 and creates a more masculine-appearing chest. 00:00:51.510 --> 00:00:54.270 The second type of dysphoria is social dysphoria. 00:00:54.270 --> 00:00:56.150 This is when a trans person feels distress 00:00:56.150 --> 00:00:58.610 in social situations because they might be misgendered 00:00:58.610 --> 00:01:00.860 or mistaken for the gender they were assigned at birth 00:01:00.860 --> 00:01:02.900 rather than their true gender. 00:01:02.900 --> 00:01:05.330 This is made worse when other people don't make the effort 00:01:05.330 --> 00:01:07.678 to use a trans person's correct name and pronouns. 00:01:07.678 --> 00:01:09.470 Being referred to with the correct pronouns 00:01:09.470 --> 00:01:11.090 is a great feeling, because it shows 00:01:11.090 --> 00:01:13.200 you're recognized as how you feel on the inside 00:01:13.200 --> 00:01:14.940 by people on the outside. 00:01:14.940 --> 00:01:17.490 When someone uses your old name, it's called deadnaming, 00:01:17.490 --> 00:01:19.750 and it can feel horrible as a trans person. 00:01:19.750 --> 00:01:22.110 Deadnaming makes social dysphoria even worse 00:01:22.110 --> 00:01:23.170 for trans people. 00:01:23.170 --> 00:01:25.410 Lastly, we have mental dysphoria, also 00:01:25.410 --> 00:01:27.005 called emotional dysphoria. 00:01:27.005 --> 00:01:28.380 This is when a trans person feels 00:01:28.380 --> 00:01:30.588 distress because of their worries about transitioning 00:01:30.588 --> 00:01:33.720 and the disconnect between their true gender and assigned gender. 00:01:33.720 --> 00:01:35.485 This can be the hardest kind of dysphoria 00:01:35.485 --> 00:01:37.110 to escape because it's something that's 00:01:37.110 --> 00:01:38.820 always lingering in your mind. 00:01:38.820 --> 00:01:40.500 Trans people can be badly affected 00:01:40.500 --> 00:01:42.440 by dysphoria mentally as well. 00:01:42.440 --> 00:01:44.550 If left untreated, dysphoria can lead 00:01:44.550 --> 00:01:46.870 to social isolation, poor mental health, 00:01:46.870 --> 00:01:49.800 and in some cases, self-harm and suicide. 00:01:49.800 --> 00:01:52.260 One way trans people help lessen their dysphoria 00:01:52.260 --> 00:01:55.180 is by altering their appearance to reflect their true gender. 00:01:55.180 --> 00:01:57.190 This can be done by changing their hair, 00:01:57.190 --> 00:02:00.060 wearing more gendered clothes, or binding or padding 00:02:00.060 --> 00:02:00.780 their chest. 00:02:00.780 --> 00:02:02.910 Gender dysphoria can also be alleviated 00:02:02.910 --> 00:02:04.390 by medically transitioning. 00:02:04.390 --> 00:02:06.480 This includes taking hormones and having 00:02:06.480 --> 00:02:09.630 gender-reaffirming surgeries to make our bodies match our gender 00:02:09.630 --> 00:02:10.360 identities. 00:02:10.360 --> 00:02:12.670 Not all trans people have surgery or take hormones, 00:02:12.670 --> 00:02:13.170 though. 00:02:13.170 --> 00:02:16.420 It's not a required part of being transgender or non-binary. 00:02:16.420 --> 00:02:19.210 If you or someone you know is struggling with dysphoria, 00:02:19.210 --> 00:02:20.880 check the link in the description below 00:02:20.880 --> 00:02:23.010 to find a list of organizations that can help. 00:02:23.010 --> 00:02:26.360 [MUSIC PLAYING] 00:02:26.360 --> 00:02:36.000