1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,490 STEFAN: So what is gender dysphoria, 2 00:00:02,490 --> 00:00:04,490 where does it come from, and what is it actually 3 00:00:04,490 --> 00:00:06,510 like to experience gender dysphoria? 4 00:00:06,510 --> 00:00:07,267 I'm Stefan. 5 00:00:07,267 --> 00:00:09,350 I'm a trans man, and I'm here to talk to you today 6 00:00:09,350 --> 00:00:10,795 about everything gender dysphoria. 7 00:00:10,795 --> 00:00:13,592 [MUSIC PLAYING] 8 00:00:13,592 --> 00:00:15,050 Dysphoria comes from the Greek word 9 00:00:15,050 --> 00:00:18,390 dusphoría, which means a state of discomfort or unease. 10 00:00:18,390 --> 00:00:20,840 Gender dysphoria is when a person feels distress 11 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:22,460 because their gender identity does not 12 00:00:22,460 --> 00:00:24,668 match up with the gender they were assigned at birth. 13 00:00:24,668 --> 00:00:27,630 There are three main kinds of dysphoria-- physical dysphoria, 14 00:00:27,630 --> 00:00:30,030 social dysphoria, and mental dysphoria. 15 00:00:30,030 --> 00:00:32,612 Physical dysphoria is when a trans person feels distress 16 00:00:32,612 --> 00:00:34,070 because their body doesn't match up 17 00:00:34,070 --> 00:00:35,580 with the gender they truly are. 18 00:00:35,580 --> 00:00:38,580 For example, trans men often have dysphoria about our chests. 19 00:00:38,580 --> 00:00:40,520 This is because this physical trait doesn't 20 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:42,060 align with our true male genders, 21 00:00:42,060 --> 00:00:44,550 and this can cause us to feel discomfort and stress. 22 00:00:44,550 --> 00:00:47,000 We can fix that by having top surgery, which 23 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:49,070 is a procedure that removes breast tissue 24 00:00:49,070 --> 00:00:51,510 and creates a more masculine-appearing chest. 25 00:00:51,510 --> 00:00:54,270 The second type of dysphoria is social dysphoria. 26 00:00:54,270 --> 00:00:56,150 This is when a trans person feels distress 27 00:00:56,150 --> 00:00:58,610 in social situations because they might be misgendered 28 00:00:58,610 --> 00:01:00,860 or mistaken for the gender they were assigned at birth 29 00:01:00,860 --> 00:01:02,900 rather than their true gender. 30 00:01:02,900 --> 00:01:05,330 This is made worse when other people don't make the effort 31 00:01:05,330 --> 00:01:07,678 to use a trans person's correct name and pronouns. 32 00:01:07,678 --> 00:01:09,470 Being referred to with the correct pronouns 33 00:01:09,470 --> 00:01:11,090 is a great feeling, because it shows 34 00:01:11,090 --> 00:01:13,200 you're recognized as how you feel on the inside 35 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:14,940 by people on the outside. 36 00:01:14,940 --> 00:01:17,490 When someone uses your old name, it's called deadnaming, 37 00:01:17,490 --> 00:01:19,750 and it can feel horrible as a trans person. 38 00:01:19,750 --> 00:01:22,110 Deadnaming makes social dysphoria even worse 39 00:01:22,110 --> 00:01:23,170 for trans people. 40 00:01:23,170 --> 00:01:25,410 Lastly, we have mental dysphoria, also 41 00:01:25,410 --> 00:01:27,005 called emotional dysphoria. 42 00:01:27,005 --> 00:01:28,380 This is when a trans person feels 43 00:01:28,380 --> 00:01:30,588 distress because of their worries about transitioning 44 00:01:30,588 --> 00:01:33,720 and the disconnect between their true gender and assigned gender. 45 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:35,485 This can be the hardest kind of dysphoria 46 00:01:35,485 --> 00:01:37,110 to escape because it's something that's 47 00:01:37,110 --> 00:01:38,820 always lingering in your mind. 48 00:01:38,820 --> 00:01:40,500 Trans people can be badly affected 49 00:01:40,500 --> 00:01:42,440 by dysphoria mentally as well. 50 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:44,550 If left untreated, dysphoria can lead 51 00:01:44,550 --> 00:01:46,870 to social isolation, poor mental health, 52 00:01:46,870 --> 00:01:49,800 and in some cases, self-harm and suicide. 53 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:52,260 One way trans people help lessen their dysphoria 54 00:01:52,260 --> 00:01:55,180 is by altering their appearance to reflect their true gender. 55 00:01:55,180 --> 00:01:57,190 This can be done by changing their hair, 56 00:01:57,190 --> 00:02:00,060 wearing more gendered clothes, or binding or padding 57 00:02:00,060 --> 00:02:00,780 their chest. 58 00:02:00,780 --> 00:02:02,910 Gender dysphoria can also be alleviated 59 00:02:02,910 --> 00:02:04,390 by medically transitioning. 60 00:02:04,390 --> 00:02:06,480 This includes taking hormones and having 61 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:09,630 gender-reaffirming surgeries to make our bodies match our gender 62 00:02:09,630 --> 00:02:10,360 identities. 63 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:12,670 Not all trans people have surgery or take hormones, 64 00:02:12,670 --> 00:02:13,170 though. 65 00:02:13,170 --> 00:02:16,420 It's not a required part of being transgender or non-binary. 66 00:02:16,420 --> 00:02:19,210 If you or someone you know is struggling with dysphoria, 67 00:02:19,210 --> 00:02:20,880 check the link in the description below 68 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:23,010 to find a list of organizations that can help. 69 00:02:23,010 --> 00:02:26,360 [MUSIC PLAYING] 70 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:36,000