0:00:00.000,0:00:02.490 STEFAN: So what is[br]gender dysphoria, 0:00:02.490,0:00:04.490 where does it come from,[br]and what is it actually 0:00:04.490,0:00:06.510 like to experience[br]gender dysphoria? 0:00:06.510,0:00:07.267 I'm Stefan. 0:00:07.267,0:00:09.350 I'm a trans man, and I'm[br]here to talk to you today 0:00:09.350,0:00:10.795 about everything[br]gender dysphoria. 0:00:10.795,0:00:13.592 [MUSIC PLAYING] 0:00:13.592,0:00:15.050 Dysphoria comes[br]from the Greek word 0:00:15.050,0:00:18.390 dusphoría, which means a[br]state of discomfort or unease. 0:00:18.390,0:00:20.840 Gender dysphoria is when[br]a person feels distress 0:00:20.840,0:00:22.460 because their gender[br]identity does not 0:00:22.460,0:00:24.668 match up with the gender[br]they were assigned at birth. 0:00:24.668,0:00:27.630 There are three main kinds of[br]dysphoria-- physical dysphoria, 0:00:27.630,0:00:30.030 social dysphoria,[br]and mental dysphoria. 0:00:30.030,0:00:32.612 Physical dysphoria is when a[br]trans person feels distress 0:00:32.612,0:00:34.070 because their body[br]doesn't match up 0:00:34.070,0:00:35.580 with the gender they truly are. 0:00:35.580,0:00:38.580 For example, trans men often[br]have dysphoria about our chests. 0:00:38.580,0:00:40.520 This is because this[br]physical trait doesn't 0:00:40.520,0:00:42.060 align with our[br]true male genders, 0:00:42.060,0:00:44.550 and this can cause us to[br]feel discomfort and stress. 0:00:44.550,0:00:47.000 We can fix that by[br]having top surgery, which 0:00:47.000,0:00:49.070 is a procedure that[br]removes breast tissue 0:00:49.070,0:00:51.510 and creates a more[br]masculine-appearing chest. 0:00:51.510,0:00:54.270 The second type of dysphoria[br]is social dysphoria. 0:00:54.270,0:00:56.150 This is when a trans[br]person feels distress 0:00:56.150,0:00:58.610 in social situations because[br]they might be misgendered 0:00:58.610,0:01:00.860 or mistaken for the gender[br]they were assigned at birth 0:01:00.860,0:01:02.900 rather than their true gender. 0:01:02.900,0:01:05.330 This is made worse when other[br]people don't make the effort 0:01:05.330,0:01:07.678 to use a trans person's[br]correct name and pronouns. 0:01:07.678,0:01:09.470 Being referred to with[br]the correct pronouns 0:01:09.470,0:01:11.090 is a great feeling,[br]because it shows 0:01:11.090,0:01:13.200 you're recognized as how[br]you feel on the inside 0:01:13.200,0:01:14.940 by people on the outside. 0:01:14.940,0:01:17.490 When someone uses your old[br]name, it's called deadnaming, 0:01:17.490,0:01:19.750 and it can feel horrible[br]as a trans person. 0:01:19.750,0:01:22.110 Deadnaming makes social[br]dysphoria even worse 0:01:22.110,0:01:23.170 for trans people. 0:01:23.170,0:01:25.410 Lastly, we have[br]mental dysphoria, also 0:01:25.410,0:01:27.005 called emotional dysphoria. 0:01:27.005,0:01:28.380 This is when a[br]trans person feels 0:01:28.380,0:01:30.588 distress because of their[br]worries about transitioning 0:01:30.588,0:01:33.720 and the disconnect between their[br]true gender and assigned gender. 0:01:33.720,0:01:35.485 This can be the hardest[br]kind of dysphoria 0:01:35.485,0:01:37.110 to escape because[br]it's something that's 0:01:37.110,0:01:38.820 always lingering in your mind. 0:01:38.820,0:01:40.500 Trans people can[br]be badly affected 0:01:40.500,0:01:42.440 by dysphoria mentally as well. 0:01:42.440,0:01:44.550 If left untreated,[br]dysphoria can lead 0:01:44.550,0:01:46.870 to social isolation,[br]poor mental health, 0:01:46.870,0:01:49.800 and in some cases,[br]self-harm and suicide. 0:01:49.800,0:01:52.260 One way trans people help[br]lessen their dysphoria 0:01:52.260,0:01:55.180 is by altering their appearance[br]to reflect their true gender. 0:01:55.180,0:01:57.190 This can be done by[br]changing their hair, 0:01:57.190,0:02:00.060 wearing more gendered[br]clothes, or binding or padding 0:02:00.060,0:02:00.780 their chest. 0:02:00.780,0:02:02.910 Gender dysphoria can[br]also be alleviated 0:02:02.910,0:02:04.390 by medically transitioning. 0:02:04.390,0:02:06.480 This includes taking[br]hormones and having 0:02:06.480,0:02:09.630 gender-reaffirming surgeries to[br]make our bodies match our gender 0:02:09.630,0:02:10.360 identities. 0:02:10.360,0:02:12.670 Not all trans people have[br]surgery or take hormones, 0:02:12.670,0:02:13.170 though. 0:02:13.170,0:02:16.420 It's not a required part of[br]being transgender or non-binary. 0:02:16.420,0:02:19.210 If you or someone you know[br]is struggling with dysphoria, 0:02:19.210,0:02:20.880 check the link in[br]the description below 0:02:20.880,0:02:23.010 to find a list of[br]organizations that can help. 0:02:23.010,0:02:26.360 [MUSIC PLAYING] 0:02:26.360,0:02:36.000