[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.00,0:00:01.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,, Dialogue: 0,0:00:01.06,0:00:05.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have 422 friends,\Nyet I am lonely. Dialogue: 0,0:00:05.50,0:00:08.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I speak to all of them\Neveryday, yet none of them Dialogue: 0,0:00:08.35,0:00:09.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,really know me. Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.10,0:00:12.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,, Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.36,0:00:13.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The problem I have\Nsits in the spaces Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.90,0:00:17.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,between looking into their\Neyes or at a name on a screen. Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.52,0:00:19.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I took a step back\Nand opened my eyes. Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.37,0:00:22.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I looked around and realized\Nthat this media we call social Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.27,0:00:25.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is anything but, when\Nwe open our computers Dialogue: 0,0:00:25.54,0:00:27.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it's our doors we shut. Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.73,0:00:30.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All this technology we\Nhave, it's just an illusion. Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.94,0:00:33.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Community, companionship,\Na sense of inclusion. Dialogue: 0,0:00:33.46,0:00:37.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yet, when you step away from\Nthis device of delusion, Dialogue: 0,0:00:37.45,0:00:40.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you awaken to see a\Nworld of confusion. Dialogue: 0,0:00:40.56,0:00:43.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A world where we're slaves to\Nthe technology we mastered, Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.45,0:00:46.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where information gets sold\Nby some rich greedy bastard. Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.45,0:00:49.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A world of self-interest,\Nself-image self-promotion, Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.42,0:00:50.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where we all share\Nour best bits, Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.80,0:00:54.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but leave out the emotion. Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.45,0:00:57.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're at our most happy\Nwith an experience we share. Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.76,0:01:00.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But is it the same,\Nif no one is there? Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.54,0:01:03.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Be there for your friends\Nand they'll be there too, Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.15,0:01:06.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but no one will be, if\Na group message will do. Dialogue: 0,0:01:06.88,0:01:09.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We edit and exaggerate,\Ncrave adulation. Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.76,0:01:12.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We pretend not to notice\Nthe social isolation. Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.34,0:01:15.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We put our words into order\Nuntil our lives are glistening. Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.55,0:01:17.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We don't even know if\Nanyone is listening. Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.84,0:01:20.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Being alone isn't the problem,\Nlet me just emphasize. Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.05,0:01:22.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you read a book, paint a\Npicture, or do some exercise, Dialogue: 0,0:01:22.45,0:01:24.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're being productive\Nand present, not reserved Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.49,0:01:25.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and recluse. Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.36,0:01:27.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're being awake and\Nattentive and putting your time Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.61,0:01:28.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to good use. Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.55,0:01:30.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So when you're in public\Nand you start to feel alone, Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.91,0:01:33.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,put your hands behind your\Nhead, step away from the phone. Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.73,0:01:36.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You don't need to stare at\Nyour menu or your contact list. Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.16,0:01:37.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just talk to one another. Dialogue: 0,0:01:37.57,0:01:39.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Learn to coexist. Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.03,0:01:41.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can't stand to hear the\Nsilence of a busy commuter Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.20,0:01:44.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,train where no one wants to talk\Nfor the fear of looking insane. Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.74,0:01:45.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're becoming unsocial. Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.94,0:01:48.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It no longer satisfies to\Nengage with one another Dialogue: 0,0:01:48.73,0:01:50.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and look into someone's eyes. Dialogue: 0,0:01:50.86,0:01:53.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're surrounded by children\Nwho, since they were born, Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.38,0:01:55.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have watched us living like\Nrobots and think it's the norm. Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.88,0:01:58.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not very likely you'll\Nmake world's greatest dad Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.09,0:02:01.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you can't entertain a\Nchild without using an iPad. Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.57,0:02:03.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I was a child\NI'd never be home. Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.20,0:02:05.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Be out with my friends, on\Nour bikes we would roam. Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.32,0:02:07.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'd wear holes in my trainers\Nand graze up my knees. Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.85,0:02:10.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We'd build our own clubhouse\Nhigh up in the trees. Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.39,0:02:11.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now the park's so\Nquiet it gives me Dialogue: 0,0:02:11.92,0:02:15.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a chill, see no children outside\Nand the swings hanging still. Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.91,0:02:18.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's no skipping, no\Nhopscotch, no church, Dialogue: 0,0:02:18.16,0:02:19.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and no steeple. Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.30,0:02:22.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're a generation of idiots,\Nsmartphones, and dumb people. Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.45,0:02:26.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,, Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.01,0:02:28.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So look up from your phone. Dialogue: 0,0:02:28.25,0:02:29.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Shut down the display. Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.52,0:02:32.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Take in your surroundings,\Nmake the most of today. Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.45,0:02:34.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just one real\Nconnection is all it Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.46,0:02:37.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can take, to show you the\Ndifference that being there Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.52,0:02:40.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can make. Dialogue: 0,0:02:40.95,0:02:43.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Be there in the moment\Nthat she gives you the look Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.38,0:02:44.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you remember forever. Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.67,0:02:46.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's when love overtook. Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.37,0:02:48.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The time she'll first hold your\Nhand or first kiss your lips, Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.91,0:02:51.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the time you first disagree,\Nbut still love her to bits. Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.76,0:02:53.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The time you don't\Nhave to tell hundreds Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.44,0:02:55.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of what you've just done,\Nbecause you want to share Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.56,0:02:57.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this moment with just this one. Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.56,0:02:59.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The time you'll\Nsell your computer Dialogue: 0,0:02:59.37,0:03:01.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so you can buy a ring, for\Nthe girl of your dreams Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.86,0:03:03.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who is now the real thing. Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.57,0:03:06.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The time you'll want to start\Na family, and the moment when Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.69,0:03:10.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you first hold your little girl,\Nand get to fall in love again. Dialogue: 0,0:03:10.55,0:03:14.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The time she keeps you up at\Nnight and all you want is rest. Dialogue: 0,0:03:14.15,0:03:18.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The time you wipe away the tears\Nas your baby flees the nest. Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.84,0:03:22.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The time your baby girl returns\Nwith a boy for you to hold, Dialogue: 0,0:03:22.21,0:03:24.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the time he\Ncalls you granddad Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.01,0:03:27.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and makes you feel real old. Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.25,0:03:28.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The time you take\Nin all you've made, Dialogue: 0,0:03:28.80,0:03:30.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just by giving life attention. Dialogue: 0,0:03:30.36,0:03:32.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And how you're glad\Nyou didn't waste it Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.36,0:03:35.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by looking down\Nat some invention. Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.18,0:03:38.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The time you hold your wife's\Nhand, sit down beside her bed. Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.99,0:03:42.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You tell her that you love\Nher, lay a kiss upon her head. Dialogue: 0,0:03:42.32,0:03:44.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She then whispers\Nto you quietly, Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.42,0:03:46.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as her heart gives a\Nfinal beat, that she's Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.88,0:03:49.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lucky she got stopped by\Nthat lost boy in the street. Dialogue: 0,0:03:49.92,0:03:55.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,, Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.06,0:03:57.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But none of these\Ntimes ever happened. Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.45,0:03:59.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You never had any of this. Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.43,0:04:01.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you're too\Nbusy looking down, Dialogue: 0,0:04:01.80,0:04:03.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you don't see the\Nchances you miss. Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.51,0:04:08.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,, Dialogue: 0,0:04:08.77,0:04:10.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So look up from your phone. Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.20,0:04:11.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Shut down those displays. Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.31,0:04:14.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have a finite existence,\Na set number of days. Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.31,0:04:16.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't waste your life\Ngetting caught in the net, Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.53,0:04:19.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as when the end comes,\Nnothing is worse than regret. Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.46,0:04:21.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm guilty too of being\Npart of this machine, Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.87,0:04:24.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this digital world, we\Nare heard but not seen. Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.00,0:04:26.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Where we type as we talk\Nand we read as we chat. Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.95,0:04:31.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Where we spend hours together\Nwithout making eye contact. Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.17,0:04:33.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So don't give into a life\Nwhere you follow the hype. Dialogue: 0,0:04:33.41,0:04:34.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Give people your love. Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.63,0:04:36.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't give them your like. Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.09,0:04:39.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Disconnect from the need\Nto be heard and defined. Dialogue: 0,0:04:39.09,0:04:40.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Go out into the world. Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.61,0:04:41.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Leave distractions behind. Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.79,0:04:45.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,, Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.55,0:04:46.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look up from your phone. Dialogue: 0,0:04:46.99,0:04:48.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Shut down that display. Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.46,0:04:50.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Stop watching this video. Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.02,0:04:52.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Live life the real way. Dialogue: 0,0:04:52.35,0:04:58.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,