1 00:00:07,090 --> 00:00:10,478 I think everyone has these three zones: 2 00:00:10,478 --> 00:00:16,670 their comfort zone, their learning zone, and their panic zone. 3 00:00:17,212 --> 00:00:22,639 And I think our most defining moments and our greatest lessons 4 00:00:22,639 --> 00:00:28,678 come when we take risks to move from comfort into learning 5 00:00:28,678 --> 00:00:32,885 and maybe, to the edge of panic. 6 00:00:33,583 --> 00:00:39,016 Now, I'm on this stage because I did not go to grad school. 7 00:00:39,353 --> 00:00:41,205 Instead, about five years ago, 8 00:00:41,205 --> 00:00:44,289 after working with middle school, and high school students, 9 00:00:44,289 --> 00:00:49,719 when I was curious about the intersection of for-profit and for-purpose businesses, 10 00:00:49,719 --> 00:00:54,809 I was almost going to go to a traditional grad school to get a master's in business, 11 00:00:54,809 --> 00:00:58,879 but the costs were too high, and the style didn't fit me. 12 00:00:58,879 --> 00:01:03,004 So, I decided I would try to design my own education 13 00:01:03,004 --> 00:01:07,540 by doing twelve projects in twelve months around the world. 14 00:01:07,540 --> 00:01:11,001 I would source these projects by talking to companies in design, 15 00:01:11,001 --> 00:01:12,910 business and social change, 16 00:01:12,910 --> 00:01:15,819 and I would try to find one project I could complete 17 00:01:15,819 --> 00:01:17,589 over the course of the month. 18 00:01:17,589 --> 00:01:20,393 I would fund my year by creating a newsletter 19 00:01:20,393 --> 00:01:24,487 that my friends and family could subscribe to, at ten dollars a month, 20 00:01:24,487 --> 00:01:28,254 and I would share my learnings with them each month. 21 00:01:28,254 --> 00:01:32,320 Now, as I was travelling to fulfill this idea, 22 00:01:32,320 --> 00:01:35,237 I had met all kinds of amazing people 23 00:01:35,237 --> 00:01:38,217 who started talking to me about the ideas they had 24 00:01:38,217 --> 00:01:41,530 to learn in a different kind of way, or to create change, 25 00:01:41,530 --> 00:01:44,250 to take leaps of their own. 26 00:01:44,250 --> 00:01:48,716 So, I created an invitation for those people to send stories 27 00:01:48,716 --> 00:01:51,701 about the leaps and risks they were taking to learn, grow, 28 00:01:51,701 --> 00:01:53,836 and create change in their communities. 29 00:01:53,836 --> 00:01:57,071 And I promised that if, at the end of the year, I had enough stories, 30 00:01:57,071 --> 00:01:59,615 we would take those stories and make a book. 31 00:01:59,615 --> 00:02:02,338 And at the end of the year, sure enough, we created a book 32 00:02:02,338 --> 00:02:04,621 called The Leap Year Project, of those stories, 33 00:02:04,621 --> 00:02:06,991 and this kind of became my dissertation. 34 00:02:06,991 --> 00:02:11,209 I also needed a place to graduate, some way to end my year. 35 00:02:11,209 --> 00:02:13,750 And there was a TED Conference happening in Chicago. 36 00:02:13,750 --> 00:02:16,866 So I put a cap and gown on, and that was my graduation. 37 00:02:16,866 --> 00:02:21,204 And in 2013, after this was all over, we launched a school, 38 00:02:21,204 --> 00:02:24,565 a place where people could come and design their education 39 00:02:24,565 --> 00:02:27,613 through experiences in their field of study. 40 00:02:27,613 --> 00:02:30,120 We called it the Experience Institute. 41 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:33,410 I even got to meet Oprah. (Laughter) 42 00:02:33,410 --> 00:02:35,175 Now, this is pretty traditional: 43 00:02:35,175 --> 00:02:38,201 me trying to explain some sort of audacious idea 44 00:02:38,201 --> 00:02:41,188 to someone who is much more successful and powerful 45 00:02:41,188 --> 00:02:44,205 and really probably doesn't actually care about what I'm saying. 46 00:02:44,205 --> 00:02:46,537 This is a good picture of that year. 47 00:02:46,537 --> 00:02:48,031 (Laughter) 48 00:02:48,737 --> 00:02:54,261 Now, that was one of the most transformative years of my life. 49 00:02:54,261 --> 00:02:58,139 I learned about my industry, the things I cared about, 50 00:02:58,139 --> 00:02:59,550 and about myself. 51 00:02:59,550 --> 00:03:02,012 And Experience Institute has been my life's work, 52 00:03:02,012 --> 00:03:05,083 inviting people of all ages to design their education 53 00:03:05,083 --> 00:03:08,180 through experience and mentorship. 54 00:03:09,070 --> 00:03:12,743 But I think those photos, they are all beautiful, 55 00:03:12,743 --> 00:03:14,655 and they show energy and excitement. 56 00:03:14,655 --> 00:03:18,451 I think they only tell one part of the story. 57 00:03:18,966 --> 00:03:22,220 Photos like this help give another picture, 58 00:03:22,692 --> 00:03:24,535 when I was in Orange County, 59 00:03:24,535 --> 00:03:27,730 trying to find a place to stay, not sure where I would stay, 60 00:03:27,730 --> 00:03:31,478 and finding a couch in a garage of a friend of a friend, 61 00:03:31,478 --> 00:03:33,414 and having to sleep there for a while. 62 00:03:33,414 --> 00:03:36,747 And what you don't see is the number of ants on that couch; 63 00:03:36,747 --> 00:03:38,007 (Laughter) 64 00:03:38,007 --> 00:03:42,322 or the motorcycle that would start every morning at 6:30, 65 00:03:42,322 --> 00:03:44,619 and that would be my alarm; 66 00:03:45,133 --> 00:03:48,607 or downsizing most of my things, getting rid of them, selling them, 67 00:03:48,607 --> 00:03:51,087 so I could afford the year, and so I could stay light 68 00:03:51,087 --> 00:03:54,907 and carry nothing more than just a couple of bags as I traveled; 69 00:03:55,363 --> 00:03:57,544 getting to the end of the year 70 00:03:57,544 --> 00:04:02,544 and realizing that writing a book, prepping for a TED talk, 71 00:04:02,544 --> 00:04:06,971 and trying to start a school is really overwhelming. 72 00:04:07,935 --> 00:04:10,064 Now, ever since Leap Year, 73 00:04:10,064 --> 00:04:16,726 I've been exploring the risk it takes to move from comfort into learning, 74 00:04:16,726 --> 00:04:22,703 and the transformative impact it has on an individual's life and career. 75 00:04:23,056 --> 00:04:28,868 What I never expected to find was the role that panic plays in learning. 76 00:04:29,247 --> 00:04:32,218 It's the space where you come face to face with your fears. 77 00:04:32,218 --> 00:04:36,371 and not just your fear's bloated versions of those fears, 78 00:04:36,371 --> 00:04:39,077 things that don't even really exist. 79 00:04:39,077 --> 00:04:44,143 It's a part of learning that's necessary, but it's rarely discussed. 80 00:04:44,597 --> 00:04:47,919 Now, for a second, let's go back to those zones. 81 00:04:47,919 --> 00:04:51,477 There's an influential psychologist named Lev Vygotsky. 82 00:04:51,477 --> 00:04:55,748 He talks about the zone of proximal development. 83 00:04:55,748 --> 00:05:01,015 The comfort zone isn't necessarily about your resources, what you have. 84 00:05:01,015 --> 00:05:04,176 It's about your abilities, about not being challenged. 85 00:05:04,176 --> 00:05:05,408 You know what you know, 86 00:05:05,408 --> 00:05:07,904 and you're right in the middle of what you know 87 00:05:07,904 --> 00:05:11,853 and, doing just that, there isn't really a sense of challenge. 88 00:05:11,853 --> 00:05:14,408 In the learning zone, there is a challenge, 89 00:05:14,408 --> 00:05:18,055 but you don't have everything you need to meet that challenge. 90 00:05:18,055 --> 00:05:20,371 You may have pieces of it, 91 00:05:20,371 --> 00:05:24,421 but you need other people to help you piece those things together 92 00:05:24,421 --> 00:05:26,485 and if, you get that help, you'll succeed. 93 00:05:26,485 --> 00:05:31,059 and, if you don't get that help, you'll zip right through to the panic zone. 94 00:05:31,059 --> 00:05:36,757 And the panic zone is where you feel alone, overwhelmed, afraid. 95 00:05:36,757 --> 00:05:38,259 You've lost confidence here. 96 00:05:38,259 --> 00:05:40,648 You can't learn here. You don't function well. 97 00:05:40,648 --> 00:05:43,312 This is the head-in-hands moment. 98 00:05:43,312 --> 00:05:46,212 And the only way to move back from panic 99 00:05:46,212 --> 00:05:48,550 is to have help to get into the learning zone, 100 00:05:48,550 --> 00:05:53,959 but normally, we just want to shut down and go all the way back to comfort. 101 00:05:54,471 --> 00:06:00,125 Now, learning is where our most transformative moments happen: 102 00:06:00,468 --> 00:06:05,477 when we meet somebody who is incredibly helpful, 103 00:06:05,477 --> 00:06:07,843 or when we overcome a challenge. 104 00:06:07,843 --> 00:06:11,578 If I were to ask you when you learned your most valuable lessons, 105 00:06:11,578 --> 00:06:13,200 you would talk about a challenge, 106 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:16,368 you would talk about someone who helped you through that. 107 00:06:16,368 --> 00:06:19,157 But comfort isn't a bad thing. 108 00:06:19,157 --> 00:06:24,278 In fact, the goal of learning is to expand the comfort zone, 109 00:06:24,278 --> 00:06:28,600 this is where we become more confident, more comfortable as we move through life, 110 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:32,516 whatever it throws at us, and not getting to the panic zone. 111 00:06:32,516 --> 00:06:34,516 So, if that's the goal of learning, 112 00:06:34,516 --> 00:06:37,420 if what we're trying to do is figure out how we can be people 113 00:06:37,420 --> 00:06:40,607 who are more confident no matter what life throws at us, 114 00:06:40,607 --> 00:06:44,327 how do we expand the comfort zone? 115 00:06:44,745 --> 00:06:47,475 How do we push back the panic zone? 116 00:06:48,033 --> 00:06:54,003 Now, the grand paradox is that the only way to expand comfort 117 00:06:54,003 --> 00:06:56,073 is by leaving it. 118 00:06:56,638 --> 00:06:58,451 So that's what we have to figure out, 119 00:06:58,451 --> 00:07:02,814 designing the leaps that move us from comfort into learning, 120 00:07:02,814 --> 00:07:05,782 and when those leaps are necessary in our lives. 121 00:07:05,782 --> 00:07:10,247 How do we make space for them in our education systems and our workplaces? 122 00:07:10,247 --> 00:07:14,090 So I have three hunches. It starts with discovery. 123 00:07:14,090 --> 00:07:18,962 Now, discovery is just a matter of asking questions: 124 00:07:18,969 --> 00:07:21,852 the question you have, as you move through the day, 125 00:07:21,852 --> 00:07:23,959 about how to make something better, 126 00:07:23,959 --> 00:07:27,127 about how to increase the thing that gives you hope, 127 00:07:27,127 --> 00:07:30,131 one of those moments that you want to improve something, 128 00:07:30,131 --> 00:07:33,218 make something, or change something. 129 00:07:33,218 --> 00:07:36,545 Those questions begin pushing you to the edge of comfort, 130 00:07:36,545 --> 00:07:41,512 in trying to figure out what things you might want to do next. 131 00:07:41,512 --> 00:07:45,057 Now, as those questions and hopes surface, 132 00:07:45,057 --> 00:07:48,129 the thing that happens next is you begin exploring: 133 00:07:48,129 --> 00:07:52,924 "What is it I could do? How do I learn?," and defining those projects. 134 00:07:52,924 --> 00:07:56,044 Now, for some people, school is the risk they take, 135 00:07:56,044 --> 00:07:57,482 they move into that setting, 136 00:07:57,482 --> 00:08:01,147 but for others, the question is, "Should I try to build something? 137 00:08:01,147 --> 00:08:04,272 Should I travel or do a research project? 138 00:08:04,272 --> 00:08:07,871 Or should I just try to work with an expert in the field?" 139 00:08:08,508 --> 00:08:11,548 The more specific that project becomes, 140 00:08:11,548 --> 00:08:14,689 the more parameters, the time frames, the deliverables, 141 00:08:14,689 --> 00:08:17,352 the more other people can start seeing what you're doing 142 00:08:17,352 --> 00:08:20,403 and you can invite them into it, which leads to the second thing, 143 00:08:20,403 --> 00:08:22,392 that you need to bring other people, 144 00:08:22,392 --> 00:08:25,586 you need to invite other people into learning. 145 00:08:25,586 --> 00:08:27,353 It's not a solo project. 146 00:08:27,353 --> 00:08:30,439 There is going to be times when you don't know what to do, 147 00:08:30,439 --> 00:08:32,818 and you're going to need the help of others. 148 00:08:32,818 --> 00:08:37,065 During Leap Year, I found myself not only needing companies 149 00:08:37,065 --> 00:08:39,512 to give me a chance to work with them, 150 00:08:39,512 --> 00:08:41,719 to learn with them and to create with them; 151 00:08:41,719 --> 00:08:44,303 I needed my community to guide me through times 152 00:08:44,303 --> 00:08:47,909 when I got stuck, or to support me emotionally. 153 00:08:47,909 --> 00:08:51,264 This included everyone from my own family, my mother, 154 00:08:51,264 --> 00:08:53,644 to mentors and friends. 155 00:08:54,498 --> 00:08:59,228 This photo, the story of this photo isn't that I hit the panic zone. 156 00:08:59,228 --> 00:09:02,427 The story of this photo is that someone took the photo. 157 00:09:02,427 --> 00:09:04,586 They were in the room with me, right? 158 00:09:04,586 --> 00:09:08,184 They were the people who walked me back from the panic zone 159 00:09:08,184 --> 00:09:09,352 into the learning zone, 160 00:09:09,352 --> 00:09:12,271 and helped me finish at the end of that year. 161 00:09:13,128 --> 00:09:17,422 Now, I think there is something more to community 162 00:09:17,422 --> 00:09:20,298 than just emotional support. 163 00:09:20,298 --> 00:09:22,439 I think they become our audience, 164 00:09:22,439 --> 00:09:27,607 they become the people who validate and celebrate the things we learn, 165 00:09:27,607 --> 00:09:32,651 which leads to the third hunch: how do we share the projects we go into, 166 00:09:32,651 --> 00:09:35,350 the things we're learning and doing? 167 00:09:35,350 --> 00:09:36,641 For me, during Leap Year, 168 00:09:36,641 --> 00:09:41,269 it was nothing more than a weekly blog post, monthly newsletter 169 00:09:41,269 --> 00:09:45,419 and, at the end of the year, creating a book and a presentation, 170 00:09:45,419 --> 00:09:49,546 but for you, you don't need a big book or a stage. 171 00:09:49,546 --> 00:09:52,363 What you need is just regular checkpoints, 172 00:09:52,363 --> 00:09:55,569 places where people can see what you're working on, 173 00:09:55,569 --> 00:09:59,958 can give you feedback and can celebrate when you finish. 174 00:10:00,610 --> 00:10:05,110 Discover. Invite. Share. 175 00:10:05,709 --> 00:10:08,040 So, I didn't go to grad school, 176 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:12,957 but I designed one of the most transformative chapters of my life. 177 00:10:12,957 --> 00:10:15,505 My comfort zone expanded, 178 00:10:15,505 --> 00:10:16,985 but, maybe more importantly, 179 00:10:16,985 --> 00:10:21,325 I learned how to navigate between comfort, into learning, 180 00:10:21,325 --> 00:10:25,323 and to push on the edge of panic. 181 00:10:26,084 --> 00:10:30,729 Now, 2016 is actually another leap year, 182 00:10:30,729 --> 00:10:34,895 and I think in Portuguese they call this "ano bissexto," 183 00:10:34,895 --> 00:10:39,762 where there's an extra day, and there is a title to the year. 184 00:10:39,762 --> 00:10:40,914 And we're curious: 185 00:10:40,914 --> 00:10:46,347 what would happen if people in 2016 decided to design a project of their own, 186 00:10:46,347 --> 00:10:52,086 to move between comfort into learning, to design a leap, however big or small? 187 00:10:52,086 --> 00:10:54,139 And if we do, 188 00:10:54,139 --> 00:10:57,142 whether you're in high school, or college, or in a workplace, 189 00:10:57,142 --> 00:11:01,751 whatever leap you take, what would happen to learning? 190 00:11:01,751 --> 00:11:03,711 What would happen to the education space 191 00:11:03,711 --> 00:11:07,343 when we realize we can create learning, we can design it, 192 00:11:07,343 --> 00:11:11,191 just by taking a few leaps? 193 00:11:12,288 --> 00:11:16,336 So, what leap will you take? 194 00:11:17,098 --> 00:11:19,023 (Applause)