WEBVTT 00:00:07.090 --> 00:00:10.838 I think everyone has these three zones. 00:00:10.838 --> 00:00:17.321 Their comfort zone, their learning zone, and their panic zone. 00:00:17.722 --> 00:00:22.645 And I think our most defining moments, and our greatest lessons 00:00:22.999 --> 00:00:26.425 come when we take risks to move 00:00:26.425 --> 00:00:28.898 from comfort into learning 00:00:28.898 --> 00:00:33.206 and maybe, to the edge of panic. 00:00:33.583 --> 00:00:39.633 Now, I'm on this stage, because I did not go to grad school. 00:00:39.763 --> 00:00:41.685 Instead, about five years ago, 00:00:41.685 --> 00:00:44.419 after working with middle school, and high school students, 00:00:44.419 --> 00:00:49.719 when I was curious about the intersection of for profit, and for purpose businesses. 00:00:49.719 --> 00:00:55.059 I was almost going to go to a traditional grad school to get a master's in business. 00:00:55.059 --> 00:00:59.229 But the costs were too high, and the style didn't fit me. 00:00:59.229 --> 00:01:03.354 So, I decided I would try to design my own education. 00:01:03.354 --> 00:01:07.720 By doing twelve projects in twelve months around the world. 00:01:07.720 --> 00:01:11.171 I would source these projects by talking to companies in design, 00:01:11.171 --> 00:01:13.180 business and social change. 00:01:13.180 --> 00:01:18.039 And I would try to find one project I could complete over the course of the month. 00:01:18.039 --> 00:01:23.143 I would fund my year by creating a newsletter that my friends and family could subscribe to 00:01:23.143 --> 00:01:24.777 at ten dollars a month. 00:01:24.777 --> 00:01:28.684 And I would share my learnings with them each month. 00:01:28.684 --> 00:01:32.570 Now, as I was travelling to fulfill this idea, 00:01:32.570 --> 00:01:35.597 I had met all kinds of amazing people. 00:01:35.597 --> 00:01:38.677 Who started talking to me about the ideas they had, 00:01:38.677 --> 00:01:44.550 to learn in a different kind of way, or to create change, to take leaps of their own. 00:01:44.550 --> 00:01:48.976 So, I created an invitation for those people, to send stories 00:01:48.976 --> 00:01:51.091 about the leaps they were taking, the risks they were taking, 00:01:51.091 --> 00:01:54.346 to learn, grow, and create change in their communities. 00:01:54.346 --> 00:01:56.461 And I promised that if at the end of the year, 00:01:56.461 --> 00:02:00.005 I had enough stories, we would take those stories and make a book. 00:02:00.005 --> 00:02:02.318 And at the end of the year, sure enough, we created a book 00:02:02.318 --> 00:02:04.731 called "THE LEAPYEAR PROJECT", of those stories. 00:02:04.731 --> 00:02:06.991 And this kind of became my dissertation. 00:02:06.991 --> 00:02:09.595 I also needed a place to graduate. 00:02:09.595 --> 00:02:11.529 Some way to end my year. 00:02:11.529 --> 00:02:13.920 And there was a TED conference happening in Chicago. 00:02:13.920 --> 00:02:17.256 So I put a cap and gown on, and that was my graduation. 00:02:17.256 --> 00:02:19.474 And in 2013, after this was all over, 00:02:19.474 --> 00:02:23.995 We launched a school, a place where people could come and design 00:02:23.995 --> 00:02:27.253 their education through experiences, in their field of study. 00:02:27.253 --> 00:02:30.370 We called it the "EXPERIENCE INSTITUTE" 00:02:30.370 --> 00:02:33.840 I even got to meet Oprah. 00:02:33.840 --> 00:02:36.295 Now, this is pretty traditional. Me trying to explain 00:02:36.295 --> 00:02:39.581 some sort of audacious idea to someone who is 00:02:39.611 --> 00:02:41.868 much more successful and powerful. 00:02:41.868 --> 00:02:44.115 And really probably doesn't actually care about what I'm saying. 00:02:44.115 --> 00:02:48.947 This is a good picture of that year. 00:02:48.947 --> 00:02:54.471 Now, that was one of the most transformative years of my life. 00:02:54.471 --> 00:02:58.409 I learned about my industry, the things I cared about, 00:02:58.409 --> 00:03:00.010 and about myself. 00:03:00.010 --> 00:03:02.172 And "Experience Institute" has been my life's work, 00:03:02.172 --> 00:03:05.253 inviting people of all ages to design their education 00:03:05.253 --> 00:03:09.410 through experience and mentorship. 00:03:09.410 --> 00:03:12.923 But, I think those photos, they are all beautiful, 00:03:12.923 --> 00:03:15.225 and they show energy and excitement. 00:03:15.225 --> 00:03:19.316 I think they only tell one part of the story. 00:03:19.316 --> 00:03:23.042 Photos like this help give another picture. 00:03:23.042 --> 00:03:26.925 When I was in Orange County, trying to find a place to stay, 00:03:26.925 --> 00:03:30.030 not sure where I would stay and finding a couch and a garage 00:03:30.030 --> 00:03:31.988 of a friend of a friend. 00:03:31.988 --> 00:03:33.914 And having to sleep there for a while. 00:03:33.914 --> 00:03:38.347 And what you don't see is the number of ants on that couch. 00:03:38.347 --> 00:03:42.722 Or the motorcycle that would start every morning at 6:30. 00:03:42.722 --> 00:03:45.793 And that would be my alarm. 00:03:45.793 --> 00:03:49.027 Or downsizing most of my things, getting rid of them, selling them, 00:03:49.027 --> 00:03:51.547 so I could afford the year, and so I could stay light. 00:03:51.547 --> 00:03:55.763 And carry nothing more than just a couple of bags, since I travel. 00:03:55.763 --> 00:03:59.384 Getting to the end of the year, and realizing that 00:03:59.384 --> 00:04:04.811 writing a book, preparing for a TED talk, and trying to start a school 00:04:04.811 --> 00:04:07.581 is really overwhelming. 00:04:07.935 --> 00:04:13.354 Now, I ever since sleep here, I've been exploring the risk it takes 00:04:13.354 --> 00:04:17.116 to move from comfort into learning. 00:04:17.116 --> 00:04:23.566 and the transformative impact it has on an individual's life and career. 00:04:23.566 --> 00:04:29.737 What I never expected to find was the role that panic plays in learning. 00:04:29.737 --> 00:04:32.438 It's the space where you come face to face with your fears. 00:04:32.438 --> 00:04:36.761 And not just your fear's bloated versions of those fears. 00:04:36.761 --> 00:04:39.437 Things that don't even really exist. 00:04:39.437 --> 00:04:42.274 It's a part of learning that's necessary. 00:04:42.274 --> 00:04:45.097 But it's rarely discussed. 00:04:45.097 --> 00:04:48.299 Now for a second, lets go back to those zones. 00:04:48.299 --> 00:04:51.857 There's an influential psychologist named Lev Vygotsky. 00:04:51.857 --> 00:04:55.348 He talks about the zone of proximal development. 00:04:55.348 --> 00:05:01.345 the comfort zone isn't necessarily about your resources, what you have. 00:05:01.345 --> 00:05:03.266 It's about your abilities. 00:05:03.266 --> 00:05:04.856 About not being challenged. 00:05:04.856 --> 00:05:06.978 You know what you know, and you're right in the middle of 00:05:06.978 --> 00:05:08.344 what you know. 00:05:08.344 --> 00:05:11.940 And doing just that, there isn't really a sense of challenge. 00:05:12.433 --> 00:05:14.878 In the learning zone, there is a challenge. 00:05:14.878 --> 00:05:18.445 But you don't have everything you need to meet that challenge. 00:05:18.445 --> 00:05:20.701 You may have pieces of it. 00:05:20.701 --> 00:05:24.961 But you need other people to help you piece those things together. 00:05:24.961 --> 00:05:26.915 And if you get that help, you will succeed. 00:05:26.915 --> 00:05:31.629 If you don't get that help, you will zip right through to the panic zone. 00:05:31.629 --> 00:05:37.429 And the panic zone is where you feel alone, overwhelmed, afraid. 00:05:37.429 --> 00:05:38.409 You've lost confidence here. 00:05:38.409 --> 00:05:40.404 You can't learn here. 00:05:40.404 --> 00:05:41.258 You don't function well. 00:05:41.258 --> 00:05:43.772 This is the head in hands moment. 00:05:43.772 --> 00:05:46.682 And the only way to move back from panic, 00:05:46.682 --> 00:05:49.030 is to have help to get into the learning zone. 00:05:49.030 --> 00:05:51.059 But normally, we just want to shutdown 00:05:51.059 --> 00:05:54.931 and go all the way back to comfort. 00:05:54.931 --> 00:06:00.515 Now, learning is where our most transformative moments happen. 00:06:00.838 --> 00:06:05.755 When we meet somebody who is incredibly helpful. 00:06:06.017 --> 00:06:08.303 Or when we overcome a challenge. 00:06:08.303 --> 00:06:12.018 If I were to ask you when you learned your most valuable lessons, 00:06:12.018 --> 00:06:13.600 you would talk about a challenge. 00:06:13.600 --> 00:06:16.768 You would talk about someone who helped you through that. 00:06:16.768 --> 00:06:19.607 But comfort isn't a bad thing. 00:06:19.607 --> 00:06:24.658 In fact, the goal of learning, is to expand the comfort zone. 00:06:24.658 --> 00:06:27.520 This is where we become more confident, more comfortable. 00:06:27.520 --> 00:06:29.100 As we move through life. 00:06:29.100 --> 00:06:33.316 Whatever it throws at us. And not getting to the panic zone. 00:06:33.316 --> 00:06:35.020 So, if that's the goal of learning. 00:06:35.020 --> 00:06:38.012 If what we're trying to do, is figure out how we can be people 00:06:38.012 --> 00:06:40.857 who are more confident, no matter what life throws at us. 00:06:40.857 --> 00:06:44.895 How do we expand the comfort zone? 00:06:44.895 --> 00:06:48.513 How do we push back the panic zone? 00:06:48.513 --> 00:06:54.563 Now, the grand paradox is that the only way to expand comfort, 00:06:54.563 --> 00:06:57.188 is by leaving it. 00:06:57.188 --> 00:06:58.651 So that's what we have to figure out. 00:06:58.651 --> 00:07:03.234 Designing the leaps that move us from comfort into learning. 00:07:03.234 --> 00:07:06.132 And when those leaps are necessary in our lives. 00:07:06.132 --> 00:07:10.627 How do we make space for them, in our education systems and our workplaces? 00:07:10.627 --> 00:07:12.105 So I have three hunches. 00:07:12.105 --> 00:07:14.350 It starts with discovery. 00:07:14.350 --> 00:07:19.479 Now, discovery is just a matter of asking questions. 00:07:19.479 --> 00:07:22.212 The question you have as you move through the day. 00:07:22.212 --> 00:07:24.439 About how to make something better. 00:07:24.439 --> 00:07:27.487 About how to increase the thing that gives you hope. 00:07:27.487 --> 00:07:30.381 What are those moments that you want to improve something, 00:07:30.381 --> 00:07:33.848 make something, or change something? 00:07:33.848 --> 00:07:36.975 Those questions begin pushing you to the edge of comfort, 00:07:36.975 --> 00:07:41.842 in trying to figure out what things you might want to do next. 00:07:41.842 --> 00:07:45.597 Now as those questions in hopes surface, 00:07:45.597 --> 00:07:48.579 the thing that happens next is you begin exploring. 00:07:48.579 --> 00:07:50.079 What is it you could do? 00:07:50.079 --> 00:07:51.804 How do I learn? 00:07:51.804 --> 00:07:53.114 In defining those projects. 00:07:53.114 --> 00:07:56.604 Now, for some people, school is the risk they take. 00:07:56.604 --> 00:07:57.702 They move into that setting. 00:07:57.702 --> 00:07:59.356 But for others, the question is 00:07:59.356 --> 00:08:01.437 'Should I try to build something?' 00:08:01.437 --> 00:08:04.412 'Should I travel, or do a research project?' 00:08:04.412 --> 00:08:08.938 or 'Should I just try to work with an expert in the field?' 00:08:08.938 --> 00:08:11.988 The more specific that project becomes, 00:08:11.988 --> 00:08:14.020 the more parameters, the time frames, 00:08:14.020 --> 00:08:15.119 the deliverables. 00:08:15.119 --> 00:08:17.352 The more other people can start seeing what you're doing. 00:08:17.352 --> 00:08:19.137 And you can invite them into it. 00:08:19.137 --> 00:08:20.773 Which leads to the second thing. 00:08:20.773 --> 00:08:22.802 That you need to bring other people. 00:08:22.802 --> 00:08:26.106 You need to invite other people into learning. 00:08:26.106 --> 00:08:27.773 It's not a solo project. 00:08:27.773 --> 00:08:30.929 There is going to be times when you don't know what to do. 00:08:30.929 --> 00:08:33.198 And you're going to need the help of others. 00:08:33.198 --> 00:08:37.355 During "LeapYear", I found myself not only needing companies 00:08:37.355 --> 00:08:39.852 to give me a chance to work with them. 00:08:39.852 --> 00:08:42.189 To learn with them. And to create with them. 00:08:42.189 --> 00:08:44.563 I needed my community to guide me through times 00:08:44.563 --> 00:08:48.239 when I got stuck, or to support me emotionally. 00:08:48.239 --> 00:08:50.604 This included everyone from my own family. 00:08:50.604 --> 00:08:54.968 My mother, to mentors and friends. 00:08:54.968 --> 00:08:57.633 This photo, the story of this photo, 00:08:57.633 --> 00:08:59.538 isn't that I hit the panic zone. 00:08:59.538 --> 00:09:02.767 The story of this photo is that someone took the photo. 00:09:02.767 --> 00:09:04.655 They were in the room with me. 00:09:04.655 --> 00:09:05.006 Right? 00:09:05.006 --> 00:09:07.514 They were the people who walked me back from the 00:09:07.514 --> 00:09:09.522 panic zone, into the learning zone. 00:09:09.522 --> 00:09:12.271 And helped me finish at the end of that year. 00:09:13.518 --> 00:09:17.632 Now, I think there is something more to community 00:09:17.632 --> 00:09:20.857 than just emotional support. 00:09:20.857 --> 00:09:22.939 I think they become our audience. 00:09:22.939 --> 00:09:26.438 They become the people who validate, and celebrate 00:09:26.438 --> 00:09:27.937 the things we learn. 00:09:27.937 --> 00:09:29.829 Which leads to the third hunch. 00:09:29.829 --> 00:09:33.021 How do we share the projects we go into? 00:09:33.021 --> 00:09:35.850 The things we're learning and doing. 00:09:35.850 --> 00:09:38.051 For me during "LeapYear", it was nothing more than 00:09:38.051 --> 00:09:41.269 a weekly blog post, monthly newsletter, 00:09:41.269 --> 00:09:45.849 and at the end of the year, creating a book and a presentation. 00:09:45.849 --> 00:09:49.986 But for you, you don't need a big book or a stage. 00:09:49.986 --> 00:09:52.723 What you need is just regular checkpoints. 00:09:52.723 --> 00:09:55.939 Places where people can see what you're working on. 00:09:55.939 --> 00:09:57.436 Can give you feedback. 00:09:57.436 --> 00:10:01.190 And can celebrate when you finish. 00:10:01.190 --> 00:10:06.189 Discover. Invite. Share. 00:10:06.189 --> 00:10:08.480 So, I didn't go to grad school. 00:10:08.480 --> 00:10:13.347 But, I designed one of the most transformative chapters of my life. 00:10:13.347 --> 00:10:15.955 My comfort zone expanded. 00:10:15.955 --> 00:10:19.255 But maybe more importantly, I learned how to navigate 00:10:19.255 --> 00:10:26.524 Between comfort, into learning, and to push on the edge of panic. 00:10:26.524 --> 00:10:31.099 Now, 2016 is actually another leap year. 00:10:31.099 --> 00:10:34.375 And I think in Portuguese, they call this "ano bissexto" 00:10:34.375 --> 00:10:35.238 Right? 00:10:35.238 --> 00:10:40.182 Where there's an extra day, and there is a title to the year. 00:10:40.182 --> 00:10:42.419 And I was curious, what would happen if 00:10:42.434 --> 00:10:46.597 people in 2016 decided to design a project of their own. 00:10:46.597 --> 00:10:48.658 To move between comfort into learning. 00:10:48.658 --> 00:10:52.356 To design a leap, however big or small. 00:10:52.356 --> 00:10:54.559 And if we do, 00:10:54.559 --> 00:10:57.462 whether you're in high school, or college, or in a workplace, 00:10:57.462 --> 00:10:59.736 whatever leap you take. 00:10:59.736 --> 00:11:02.131 What would happen to learning? 00:11:02.131 --> 00:11:05.171 What would happen to the education space, when we realize 00:11:05.171 --> 00:11:07.733 we can create learning, we can design it, 00:11:07.733 --> 00:11:12.016 just by taking a few leaps? 00:11:12.678 --> 00:11:16.790 So, what leap will you take? 00:11:17.098 --> 00:11:21.098 (Applause)