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it's hard to overstate the massive

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cultural impact of the Barbie movie

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Hi Barbie

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Hi Ken

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the film Enchanted audiences wowed critics

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sparked heated debates

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and made a truly obscene amount of money

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at the box office

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Barbie continues breaking records

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with over 1 billion dollars

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at the global box office

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it's an impressive cultural achievement

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especially considering that the film

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doubles as a feature-length commercial

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for a line of plastic dolls

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there was however one group

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who were decidedly unenthusiastic

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Despite all the bubbly pink fun

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the movie's become a target

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of some right-wing personalities

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they are preaching empowerment

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by making men look weak and dumb

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feminist diet tribe about the evils of

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the modern patriarchy

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It's a trojan horse to to teach girls

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daddy is really a dummy or

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domineering idiots

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It's feminist garbage and

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it's really about hating men

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And Ken is like stupid and unlikable

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This is an assault on not just Ken

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but all men

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If you've seen the movie

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you might be confused

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Because the Barbie script goes out of

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it's way to show Ken

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in a sympathetic light

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If anything the movie might be

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a little too sympathetic to Ken

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"I think I owe you an apology"

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"Huh?"
Now it's tempting to dismiss this

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clearly performative outrage

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as just another attempt to fan the flame

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of the culture war

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But there is something really poisonous

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under-pinning this backlash

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that I do think is worth taking seriously

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One word in particular

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seem to touch a nerve

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"Well I haven't seen Barbie yet,

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but I've seen people talking about

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the number of times they use

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the word patriarchy in it"

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"Feminism and the patriarchy

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and fighting it, and all that"

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"And actually to call it the patriarchy

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in the film that phrase is used many times"

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"If you take a shot every time

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Barbie says the word 'patriarchy',

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you will pass out before the movie ends"

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"As we learned that the use of word

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'patriarchy' no less than ten times

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in this film"

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"The patriarchy is a big part of this

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Barbie film"

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"The word is used endlessly in the movie

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even though most people

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even me actually has no idea that

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what 'patriarchy' really means"

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That is a truly staggering

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level of defensiveness especially

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coming from people who don't really

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seem to understand what the word

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even means

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while there are many legitimate criticisms

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of the Barbie movie's feminism

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or lack thereof

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this video essay is not going to

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address those questions

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instead we're going to use the movie

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as a sort of primary to help explain

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what patriarchy actually is

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what it isn't and how it ends up

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harming everyone including men

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"Watch your flank"

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to have any kind of

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productive conversation

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we have to get over that defensiveness

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that so many men feel whenever

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they they come across

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the word patriarchy

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"this is a real hornets nest in here"

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contrary to popular belief

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patriarchy is not a synonym for men

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nor is it a code word for masculinity

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and it certainly has nothing to do with

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hating men

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"yeah I am confused about that"

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General confusion about

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what patriarchy means is perhaps

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not surprising given that the word

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very rarely appears in popular media

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when the term has been used

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it's traditionally been as a joke

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to mock feminists or feminism

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"let's take off our brows and burn them

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in defiance of the misogynistic patriarchy"

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"you know what I think

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I have to meet Harvey

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but um maybe we can burn

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our underwear together later"

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"when the last time we had a conversation

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over 3 minutes it was about

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the patriarchal bias of

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the Mr Rogers show

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well with King Friday lording it

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over all the Lesser puppets

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what did I miss

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the oppressive patriarchal values

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that dictate our education" "good"

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It's only after the rise of the me too

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movement that we begin to see

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a shift in this pattern

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"stay out of it Courtney

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you stay out of it

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I'm dismantling the patriarchy this year

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and I'm not afraid to start with you"

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These days the word is most often

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written for snarky teenage characters

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"So you were Guided by Lon chivalry

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a tool of the patriarchy to extract

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my undying gratitude?"

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"mhm, you know

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most people just say thank you"

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it's meant to identify them as brash

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rebellious or naively idealistic

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though not necessarily wrong

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in their observations

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"I think marriage is

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just a patriarchal system designed to

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make women less autonomous

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you become your husband's property

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you have to bear his children

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you even have to take his name"

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hey didn't you say that prom was a

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a postcolonial patriarchal construct

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it is

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but we would go as a group

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as a form of protest

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hey hey ho ho

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patriarchy has got to go

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hey hey ho ho

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patriarchy has got to go"

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even in this new limited context

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the word is still delivered as a punch

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"I'm jus... I mean is that it?"

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and its meaning is left

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intentionally vague

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"it's called Little Women

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and it's about four sisters

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who overcome poverty and the patriarchy"

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"Nope, dolls"

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the lack of specificity guarantees that

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only those who are already in the know

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will get the joke

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"Down with the patriarchy"

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"Idiots ah"

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everyone else is left

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either bewildered or extremely threatened

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"why didn't Barbie tell

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me about patriarchy?"

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"Which to my understanding

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is where men and horses

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run everything"

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"I silver away"

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Sorry Ken but there are no horses involved

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although it does kind of make sense

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why he might think that.

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"that's not fair is it?"

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"It's the fault of the patriarchy"

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"also what is a patriarchy?"

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patriarchy refers to a type of society

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that's constructed to promote

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male power and authority

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in sociological terms it's what's called

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a social system rooted in

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four distinct principles

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a society is patriarchal to the degree

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that it's male-dominated male centered

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male identified and organized

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around an obsession with control

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we're going to go over

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what all of that means in detail

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but the important thing to remember

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about social systems is that

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we are not those systems

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and those systems are not us

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"Because Barbie land, is now Kenland"

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So in the Barbie movie

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The Kens have a coup

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and Implement patriarchy

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but the Kens as a group

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are not patriarchy itself

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"Here I'm just a dude"

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The Kens make patriarchy happen

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by doing it

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the social system effectively

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In the same way that we can describe

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Without saying anything about the

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personality of the individual players

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so too can we talk about

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the system of patriarchy

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and how it works without condemning

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every individual man

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Now keep in mind that the Barbie movie

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focuses mostly on Straight White characters

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but patriarchy impacts people in

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different ways based on their sexuality

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race, class or geographical location

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"Is there a problem offices?"

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Moving forward in this video

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I'm going to be heavily borrowing

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from a book called the gender knot

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by sociologist Alan G Johnson

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Since the devil is in the details

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let's use Kenland

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"Kendom"

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"Kendom"

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"Kendomland"

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"Land of the"
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"Right. Well, this place"

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how patriarchy works

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"I shall seek my fortune there"
"Alright"

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The first characteristic of a patriarchal

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society is that it's male dominated

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this is relatively straightforward

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all it means is that positions of authority

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are generally reserved for men

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the various hierarchies of society

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you'll tend to see more and more men

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the Barbie movie gives us a vivid illustration

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of what male dominance looks like

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We are presented with a montage of images

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featuring powerful and important men

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It's notable that up until recently

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women have largely been

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excluded from these fields

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"I'll take a highlight level"

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"high paying job with influence, please"

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"Okay you'll need at least an NBA"

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Ken also learns an important lesson

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when he demands to be

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given a powerful position

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he has unceremoniously rejected

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"No I won't let you do"

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"just one appendectomy"

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"But I'm a man"

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"But not a doctor"

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"Please" "No"

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This is because male dominance

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does not mean that

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every individual man is powerful

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"I'm a man with no power"

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"does that make me a woman?"

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In fact most men living in patriarchy

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will never acquire

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a formal position of power

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"This is bad this is really bad"

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"What?"

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Instead they'll spend their entire lives

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laboring under the boot of

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other more powerful men

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"Are any women in charge?"

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Despite what this

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Mattel boardroom scene implies

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It's not impossible for a woman to

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ascend to the top in patriarchy

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It just means it'll be much much harder

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for women to gain and maintain power

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and she will be tokenized and regarded as

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a special exception to the rule

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"I love you guys"

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Unlike in the fantasy world of Barbie land

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there has never been

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a female president of the United States

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"How come you're so amazing?"
"No comment"

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"Ah ha ha ha"

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But even when a woman eventually

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does win that position

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it will not mean that patriarchy is over

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because patriarchy is a dynamic

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and resilient system

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It has evolved and changed

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over the decades and indeed centuries

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Thanks to countless women who

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have fought hard for a few seats

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at the table but the table

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is still male-dominated

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"You guys are clearly"

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"not doing patriarchy very well"

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"Ha ha, no, we're uh"

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"We're doing it well yeah"

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"We're just uh hide it better now"

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The second aspect of a patriarchal society

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is that it's male centered

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This simply means

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that the focus of attention

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is primarily on men and boys

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and what they do

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one of the reasons Barbie land

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is so visually startling is because

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it's a rare vision of

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a female centered world

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It's something we almost never see

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in Hollywood outside of

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cheesy Sci-Fi movies from the 1950s

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"Landing on an unknown planet"

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"they are captured by long limb beauties"

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"When they say take me to your leader"

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"and they take them to a creature like this"

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"you know they're on planet Venus"

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"Hi Barbie" "Yay space"

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In Barbie land the focus of attention

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is naturally placed on the Barbies

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and what they do

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But after the coup the Kens immediately

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push the Barbies aside

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and put themselves and masculinity

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at the center of absolutely everything

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"Everything basically everything"

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"Exists to expand and elevate"

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"the presence of men"

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This is an exaggerated reflection of

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our own male centered world

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All you have to do is turn on the news or

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or go to the movies and you'll be inundated

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with endless stories centering men

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"A symbol to the nation"

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"a hero to the world"

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"The Beacon of Hope shining up"

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Obviously this doesn't mean that

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women are never centered under patriarchy

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But when they are

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it's often framed as a woman's story

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rather than a human story

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The Barbie movie for example is

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very specifically a story about the

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gendered experience of being 
a woman in society

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"Anxiety, panic attacks 
and OCD sold separately"

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We can contrast that

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with a movie like Oppenheimer

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which is a story about becoming death

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the destroyer of worlds

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Yes this destroyer of worlds

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happens to be a man

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But notice the story isn't focused on

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the gendered experience of

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being a man in society

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In fact all of Christopher Nolan's film

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center very important men

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but none are about their gender

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They are built as stories

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representative of the

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human experience (rit?) large

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Greta Gerwig's movies on the other hand

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all Center women and are

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very explicitly about being a woman

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trying to navigate a man's world

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"Very well" [Inaudible]

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That's not a criticism of

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either director by the way

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It's just a stark illustration of

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what male centered means

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In patriarchy men are viewed as

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the default for human and

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Therefore experiences are framed as

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an exploration of the human condition

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While women's experiences are

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first and foremost framed as
being about womanhood

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"Okay"

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Incidentally this deep-seated 
cultural expectation of male centrality

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helps explain the waves of 
backlash against any entertainment

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that's made for a general audience 
but doesn't center men or masculinity

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Male identification 
is a little more complicated

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But it is a critical piece 
of the patriarchal puzzle

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It means that core cultural ideas 
about what is considered

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good, desirable, preferable or normal
are culturally associated with how

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we think about men, manhood and masculinity

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this is why professions that elevate 
qualities like toughness, competitiveness

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strength, control, rationality 
and invulnerability are so highly valued

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and highly paid in our society

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"Monsters"

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While occupations that revolve around 
qualities thought of as feminine

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like compassion,
sharing or caregiving tend to be

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systematically devalued and underfunded

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"You know Greg's in medicine too Larry"

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"Oh really what field?"

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"Uh nursing"
[Laughter]

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In the Barbie movie The Ken establish
an aggressively male identified society

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They do this by stripping 
Barbie land of its feminine identity

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and superimposing a version of hyper
masculinity that seems to have been

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lifted from 1980s action movies

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They replace all the pink furniture with
black leather recliners

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drape everything in obnoxious 
cowboy motifs and litter the landscape

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with gym equipment and sporting gear

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"Don't question it 
just roll with, tiny baby"

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"He call me baby?"

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But male identification goes
much deeper than Aesthetics

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when Ken decides to embrace patriarchy
his behavior shifts accordingly

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as he tries to project
male identified values

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"You can stay if you want
as my bride wife or my long-term"

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"low commitment distance girlfriend"

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He buries self-doubt and hides 
his hurt feelings behind

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a layer of false bravado

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"Bruski beer me?"

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"I will not Bruski beer you"

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"Ha ha ha, that's fine"

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Under patriarchy the concept of leadership
and indeed power itself

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is closely identified with masculinity

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It follows then that all men are
socially elevated by default

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while women and feminine things
are devalued and seen as inferior

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"Oh you got fries with that?"

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"If I said you had a hot body
would you hold it?"

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Against this means that even men
who don't hold any institutional power

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can still see themselves
as superior to women

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That point is underscored
when we seethat the Kens

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are generally inept at running Society

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"Go face day drunk right now"
[Laughter]

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"(?)"

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They spend their time day drinking,
playing games, and goofing off

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"Every night is boy's night"

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And yet they still see themselves 
as superior

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simply by virtue of being men 
living in a patriarchy

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"You're like I can't believe how great 
this place is"

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In Kendom land all the Barbies 
are reduced to servants

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"Where are my hungry boys who want snacks"

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But in the real world a small number of 
women can gain power

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even inside of male identified systems

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However in order to do so they
must prove themselves worthy

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by appearing to be just as aggressive
competitive and even less emotional

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Than any man in that same position

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In other words even though they are women
they must adopt and perform

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male identified patriarchal values

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The fourth and final feature of patriarchy
is an obsession with control

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as a core value around which social and 
personal life are organized

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Men maintain their privilege by 
controlling both women and other men

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who might threaten it

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The Barbie movie downplays it 
but men's violence against women

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and the everpresent threat thereof

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"Give us a smile Blondie"

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is a critical element in maintaining 
patriarchal control

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"I'm not getting any of that I feel
that can only be described as admired"

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"but not (?) and there's no 
undertone of violence"

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"Mine very much has an 
undertone of violence"

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Control can also be achieved in other ways

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and since the Kens don't really 
understand violence

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they use coercion and manipulation
to control daily life in Barbie land

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"What is wrong with them?"

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"We just explain to them the immaculate
impeccable seamless gaunlet of logic"

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"that is patriarchy and they crumbled"

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Not the Kens take over 
for every institution

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they also take control of the dream houses

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"This shall henceforth be known as 
Ken's Mojo Dojo Kasa house"

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and they manipulate the Barbies into 
embracing their new status

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as objectified servants

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"Anyone need a Bruski beer?"

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99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999
"What are you doing? You're a doctor"

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I like being a helpful decoration

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The illusion of intellectual
and rational superiority

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is critical to enforcing the myth 
that men are in control of every situation

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"Let me show you"
"Here let me show you"

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"Here let us show you"

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and therefore deserve their 
privilege status

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"Now you listen to me"

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This is emblematic of how men 
in the real world

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will often compensate for feelings of 
personal inadequacy

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by exercising extreme control
over those closest to them

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"You are going to be home at 6:00 
every night"

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"and you are going to have dinner
ready on this table"

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Especially women and children

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"No"

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"[Singing] I don't want to push you around"

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Returning to the gender knot
men are assumed and expected

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to be in control at all times
to be unemotional except for anger and rage

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to present themselves as invulnerable,
autonomous, independent

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logical, dispassionate,
knowledgeable, always right

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and in command of every situation
especially those involving women

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[Laughter]
"Who are you texting?"

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"Huh?"
"Who are you texting?"

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"No one"
"hmm let me just"

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"Ken"

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This obsession with control is
so strong in our culture that any man

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who is perceived as not exerting enough
control over women

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is likely to be ridiculed as 
pussy whipped packed

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or tethered to the old balling chain

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Notice that there are no equivalent 
derogatory terms for men

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Who do control women