WEBVTT 00:00:04.791 --> 00:00:09.568 It's hard to overstate the massive cultural impact of the Barbie movie 00:00:09.706 --> 00:00:12.317 "Hi Barbie" "Hi Ken" 00:00:12.835 --> 00:00:17.944 The film Enchanted audiences, wowed critics, sparked heated debates 00:00:17.944 --> 00:00:22.372 and made a truly obscene amount of money at the box office 00:00:22.372 --> 00:00:27.747 "Barbie continues breaking records with over 1 billion dollars at the global box office" 00:00:27.747 --> 00:00:30.135 It's an impressive cultural achievement 00:00:30.135 --> 00:00:36.418 especially considering that the film doubles as a featured-length for a line of plastic dolls 00:00:36.853 --> 00:00:41.973 There was, however, one group who were decidedly unenthusiastic 00:00:43.425 --> 00:00:46.709 "Despite all the bubbly pink fun, the movie's become a target" 00:00:46.709 --> 00:00:48.880 "of some right-wing personalities" 00:00:48.880 --> 00:00:53.095 "They are preaching empowerment by making men look weak and dumb" 00:00:53.095 --> 00:00:56.243 "Feminist diatribe about the evils of the modern patriarchy" 00:00:56.243 --> 00:00:59.681 "It's a trojan horse to to teach girls daddy is really a dummy" 00:00:59.681 --> 00:01:01.075 "or domineering idiots" 00:01:01.075 --> 00:01:03.852 "It's feminist garbage and it's really about hating men" 00:01:03.852 --> 00:01:06.532 And Ken is like stupid and unlikable" 00:01:06.532 --> 00:01:11.039 "This is an assault on not just Ken, but all men" 00:01:11.524 --> 00:01:14.867 If you've seen the movie, you might be confused 00:01:14.867 --> 00:01:17.724 because the Barbie script goes out of it's way 00:01:17.724 --> 00:01:19.886 to show Ken in a sympathetic light 00:01:20.744 --> 00:01:24.846 If anything, the movie might be a little too sympathetic to Ken 00:01:24.846 --> 00:01:27.345 "I think I owe you an apology" "Huh?" 00:01:27.345 --> 00:01:31.509 Now it's tempting to dismiss this clearly performative outrage 00:01:31.509 --> 00:01:35.507 as just another attempt to fan the flame of the culture war 00:01:35.899 --> 00:01:38.311 But there is something really poisonous 00:01:38.311 --> 00:01:43.180 under-pinning this backlash that I do think is worth taking seriously 00:01:43.699 --> 00:01:47.004 One word in particular seem to touch a nerve 00:01:47.341 --> 00:01:49.387 "Well, I haven't seen Barbie yet, uh" 00:01:49.387 --> 00:01:51.378 "but I've seen people talking about the number of times they use" 00:01:51.378 --> 00:01:52.753 "the word patriarchy in it" 00:01:52.753 --> 00:01:56.423 "Feminism and the patriarchy and fighting it and all that" 00:01:56.540 --> 00:02:00.905 "And actually call it the patriarchy in the film that phrase is used many times" 00:02:00.905 --> 00:02:04.033 "If you take a shot every time Barbie says the word 'patriarchy' 00:02:04.033 --> 00:02:05.764 you will pass out before the movie ends" 00:02:05.764 --> 00:02:08.743 "As we learned that the use of word 'patriarchy' no less than ten times in this film" 00:02:08.829 --> 00:02:12.481 "The patriarchy is a big part of this Barbie film" 00:02:12.481 --> 00:02:16.117 "The word is used endlessly in the movie, even though most people" 00:02:16.117 --> 00:02:21.125 "including me actually, have no real idea of what patriarchy really means" 00:02:22.201 --> 00:02:25.247 That is a truly staggering level of defensiveness 00:02:25.247 --> 00:02:27.438 especially coming from people who 00:02:27.438 --> 00:02:31.221 don't really seem to understand what the word even means 00:02:32.257 --> 00:02:37.192 While there are many legitimate criticisms of the Barbie movie's feminism or lack thereof 00:02:37.192 --> 00:02:39.966 this video essay is not going to address those questions 00:02:39.966 --> 00:02:42.764 Instead, we're going to use the movie as a sort of primary 00:02:42.764 --> 00:02:46.078 to help explain what patriarchy actually is 00:02:46.078 --> 00:02:51.036 what it isn't and how it ends up harming everyone including men 00:02:52.523 --> 00:02:53.481 "Watch your flank" 00:02:53.674 --> 00:02:55.965 To have any kind of productive conversation 00:02:55.965 --> 00:02:58.030 we have to get over that defensiveness 00:02:58.030 --> 00:03:01.924 that so many mem feel whenever they come across the word patriarchy 00:03:01.924 --> 00:03:03.932 "This is a real hornets nest in here" 00:03:03.932 --> 00:03:08.381 Contrary to popular belief, patriarchy is not a synonym for men 00:03:08.381 --> 00:03:11.564 nor is it a code word for masculinity 00:03:11.564 --> 00:03:14.279 and it certainly has nothing to do with hating men 00:03:14.279 --> 00:03:16.601 "Yeah, I'm, I... confused about that" 00:03:17.559 --> 00:03:20.261 General confusion about what patriarchy means 00:03:20.261 --> 00:03:22.035 is perhaps not surprising 00:03:22.035 --> 00:03:25.709 given that the word very rarely appears in popular media 00:03:26.333 --> 00:03:30.023 When the term has been used it's traditionally been as a joke 00:03:30.023 --> 00:03:32.809 to mock feminists or feminism 00:03:32.809 --> 00:03:37.093 "Let's take off our brows and burn them in defiance of the misogynistic patriarchy" 00:03:37.093 --> 00:03:39.408 "you know what I think I have to meet Harvey, but um" 00:03:39.408 --> 00:03:41.143 "maybe we can burn our underwear together later" 00:03:41.419 --> 00:03:44.706 "When the last time we had a conversation over 3 minutes it was about" 00:03:44.706 --> 00:03:47.843 "the patriarchal bias of the Mr. Roger's show" 00:03:47.843 --> 00:03:50.840 "Well, with King Friday lording it over all the Lesser puppets" 00:03:50.840 --> 00:03:52.189 "What did I miss?" 00:03:52.832 --> 00:03:56.064 "The oppressive patriarchal values that dictate our education" 00:03:56.064 --> 00:03:56.921 "good" 00:03:56.921 --> 00:03:59.457 It's only after the rise of the me too movement 00:03:59.457 --> 00:04:01.647 that we begin to see a shift in this pattern 00:04:02.509 --> 00:04:03.712 "Stay out of it Courtney" 00:04:03.712 --> 00:04:06.130 "You stay out of it. I'm dismantling the patriarchy this year" 00:04:06.130 --> 00:04:08.215 "and I'm not afraid to start with you" 00:04:08.215 --> 00:04:12.263 These days the word is most often written for snarky teenage characters 00:04:12.562 --> 00:04:14.608 "So you were Guided by Lon chivalry" 00:04:14.608 --> 00:04:17.551 "a tool of the patriarchy to extract my undying gratitude?" 00:04:17.551 --> 00:04:20.132 "Mhm, you know most people just say thank you" 00:04:20.132 --> 00:04:25.657 It's meant to identify them as brash, rebellious or naively idealistic 00:04:25.657 --> 00:04:29.316 though not necessarily wrong in their observations 00:04:29.316 --> 00:04:33.246 "I think marriage is just a patriarchal system designed to make women less autonomous" 00:04:33.246 --> 00:04:37.054 "You become your husband's property, you have to bear his children" 00:04:37.841 --> 00:04:39.852 "You even have to take his name" 00:04:39.852 --> 00:04:43.333 "Hey, didn't you say that prom was a postcolonial..." "A postcolonial patriarchal construct" 00:04:43.601 --> 00:04:44.342 "It is" 00:04:44.342 --> 00:04:47.116 "But we would go as a group as a form of protest" 00:04:47.724 --> 00:04:50.941 "Hey hey, ho ho, patriarchy has got to go" 00:04:51.143 --> 00:04:54.668 "Hey hey, ho ho, patriarchy has got to go" 00:04:55.523 --> 00:05:00.187 Even in this new limited context, the word is still delivered as a punch line 00:05:00.187 --> 00:05:02.048 "I'm jus... I mean is that it?" 00:05:02.048 --> 00:05:04.892 and its meaning is left intentionally vague 00:05:04.892 --> 00:05:06.818 "It's called Little Women and it's about four sisters" 00:05:06.818 --> 00:05:08.946 "who overcome poverty and the patriarchy..." 00:05:08.946 --> 00:05:10.908 "Nope, dolls" 00:05:10.908 --> 00:05:13.730 The lack of specificity guarantees that 00:05:13.730 --> 00:05:17.384 only those who are already in the know will get the joke 00:05:17.554 --> 00:05:19.825 "Down with the patriarchy!" 00:05:20.171 --> 00:05:21.499 "Idiot, ah" 00:05:21.722 --> 00:05:25.948 Everyone else is left either bewildered or extremely threatened 00:05:26.093 --> 00:05:28.420 "Why didn't Barbie tell me about patriarchy?" 00:05:28.425 --> 00:05:31.780 "which to my understanding is where men and horses run everything?" 00:05:32.057 --> 00:05:34.321 "I'll silver away!" 00:05:34.321 --> 00:05:37.566 Sorry, Ken, but there are no horses involved 00:05:37.931 --> 00:05:41.555 Although, it does kind of make sense why he might think that 00:05:42.147 --> 00:05:45.903 "That's not fair is it? You know is it the fault of the patriarchy?" 00:05:45.903 --> 00:05:49.035 "Also, what is a patriarchy?" 00:05:50.746 --> 00:05:55.131 In its modern usage, patriarchy refers to a type of society 00:05:55.131 --> 00:05:59.059 that's constructed to promote male power and authority 00:06:01.104 --> 00:06:04.832 In sociological terms, it's what's called a social system 00:06:04.832 --> 00:06:06.790 rooted in four distinct principles 00:06:07.005 --> 00:06:11.711 "a society is patriarchal to the degree that it's male-dominated" 00:06:11.711 --> 00:06:18.135 "male centered, male identified and organized around an obsession with control" 00:06:18.668 --> 00:06:21.283 We're going to go over what all of that means in detail 00:06:21.283 --> 00:06:23.886 but the important thing to remember about social systems 00:06:23.886 --> 00:06:28.270 is that we are not those systems and those systems are not us 00:06:28.270 --> 00:06:31.168 "Because Barbie land is now Kenland" 00:06:31.168 --> 00:06:36.694 So, in the Barbie movie The Kens have a coup and Implement patriarchy 00:06:36.694 --> 00:06:40.876 But the Kens as a group are not patriarchy itself 00:06:40.876 --> 00:06:42.497 "Here I'm just a dude" 00:06:42.497 --> 00:06:46.513 The Kens make patriarchy happen by doing it 00:06:47.247 --> 00:06:52.321 When they stop participating the social system effectively ceases to exist 00:06:53.886 --> 00:06:57.450 In the same way that we can describe a board game and its rules 00:06:57.450 --> 00:07:02.186 without saying anything about the personality of the individual players 00:07:02.186 --> 00:07:06.220 so, too, can we talk about the system of patriarchy and how it works 00:07:06.220 --> 00:07:09.100 without condemning every individual man 00:07:10.369 --> 00:07:15.134 Now keep in mind that the Barbie movie focuses mostly on straight white characters 00:07:15.138 --> 00:07:19.521 but patriarchy impacts people in different ways based on their sexuality 00:07:19.521 --> 00:07:22.636 and race, class or geographical location 00:07:22.636 --> 00:07:24.534 "Is there a problem officers?" 00:07:24.852 --> 00:07:26.151 Moving forward in this video 00:07:26.151 --> 00:07:29.168 I'm going to be heavily borrowing from a book called The Gender Knot 00:07:29.168 --> 00:07:31.982 by sociologist Alan G Johnson 00:07:32.691 --> 00:07:35.411 Since the devil is in the details, let's use Kenland 00:07:35.411 --> 00:07:36.504 "Kendom" 00:07:36.504 --> 00:07:37.001 "Kendom" 00:07:37.001 --> 00:07:37.774 "Kendom Land" 00:07:37.774 --> 00:07:39.374 "Land of the..." "Land of the free of the men" 00:07:39.374 --> 00:07:40.921 "Right. Well, this place" 00:07:40.921 --> 00:07:45.288 Let's use Kendom land to help illustrate how patriarchy works 00:07:45.288 --> 00:07:47.161 "I shall seek my fortune there" 00:07:47.161 --> 00:07:48.271 "Alright" 00:07:48.543 --> 00:07:53.456 The first characteristic of a patriarchal society is that it's male dominated 00:07:53.624 --> 00:07:55.488 This is relatively straightforward 00:07:55.599 --> 00:08:00.932 All it means is that "positions of authority are generally reserved for men" 00:08:01.802 --> 00:08:05.877 Basically, when you look up in the various hierarchies of society 00:08:05.877 --> 00:08:08.401 you'll tend to see more and more men 00:08:10.221 --> 00:08:15.505 The Barbie movie gives us a vivid illustration of what male dominance looks like 00:08:16.041 --> 00:08:21.383 We are presented with a montage of images featuring powerful and important men 00:08:22.054 --> 00:08:24.435 It's notable that up until recently 00:08:24.435 --> 00:08:27.908 women have largely been excluded from these fields 00:08:28.911 --> 00:08:31.451 "I'll take a high level, high paying job with influence, please" 00:08:31.451 --> 00:08:32.845 "Okay you'll need at least an NBA" 00:08:32.845 --> 00:08:35.194 Ken also learns an important lesson 00:08:35.194 --> 00:08:37.624 when he demands to be given a powerful position 00:08:37.624 --> 00:08:40.152 he has unceremoniously rejected 00:08:40.152 --> 00:08:43.774 "No, I won't let you do just one appendectomy" 00:08:43.774 --> 00:08:44.472 "But I'm a man" 00:08:44.472 --> 00:08:45.223 "But not a doctor" 00:08:45.223 --> 00:08:45.736 "Please" 00:08:45.736 --> 00:08:46.449 "No" 00:08:47.229 --> 00:08:53.656 This is because male dominance does not mean that every individual man is powerful 00:08:53.656 --> 00:08:56.055 "I'm a man with no power does that make me a woman?" 00:08:56.055 --> 00:08:58.390 In fact most men living in patriarchy 00:08:58.390 --> 00:09:01.180 will never acquire a formal position of power 00:09:01.180 --> 00:09:03.227 "This is bad. This is really bad" 00:09:03.227 --> 00:09:04.290 "What?" 00:09:04.290 --> 00:09:08.048 Instead, they'll spend their entire lives laboring under the boot of 00:09:08.048 --> 00:09:09.997 other more powerful men 00:09:10.846 --> 00:09:12.721 "Are any women in charge?" 00:09:13.451 --> 00:09:16.542 Despite what this Mattel boardroom scene implies 00:09:16.542 --> 00:09:20.908 It's not impossible for a woman to ascend to the top in patriarchy 00:09:20.908 --> 00:09:25.615 It just means it'll be much much harder for women to gain and maintain power 00:09:25.883 --> 00:09:30.102 and she will be tokenized and regarded as a special exception to the rule 00:09:30.597 --> 00:09:32.272 "I love you guys" 00:09:32.272 --> 00:09:34.406 Unlike in the fantasy world of Barbie land 00:09:34.406 --> 00:09:37.486 there has never been a female president of the United States 00:09:37.627 --> 00:09:39.227 "How come you're so amazing?" 00:09:39.227 --> 00:09:41.111 "No comment. Ah ha ha ha" 00:09:41.111 --> 00:09:44.102 But even when a woman eventually does win that position 00:09:44.102 --> 00:09:47.423 it will not mean that patriarchy is over 00:09:47.426 --> 00:09:50.728 Because patriarchy is a dynamic and resilient system 00:09:50.728 --> 00:09:53.525 It has evolved and changed over the decades 00:09:53.525 --> 00:09:54.863 and indeed centuries 00:09:54.863 --> 00:09:59.660 thanks to countless women who have fought hard for a few seats at the table 00:09:59.568 --> 00:10:02.518 but the table is still male-dominated 00:10:03.048 --> 00:10:06.210 "You guys are clearly not doing patriarchy very well" 00:10:06.210 --> 00:10:10.434 "No. Ha ha. No, we're uh, we're doing it well, yeah" 00:10:10.434 --> 00:10:12.806 "We're just uh, hide it better now" 00:10:15.041 --> 00:10:19.502 The second aspect of a patriarchal society is that it's male centered 00:10:19.502 --> 00:10:21.944 This simply means that "the focus of attention 00:10:21.944 --> 00:10:25.613 is primarily on men and boys and what they do" 00:10:26.384 --> 00:10:29.445 One of the reasons Barbie land is so visually startling 00:10:29.445 --> 00:10:33.447 is because it's a rare vision of a female centered world 00:10:34.601 --> 00:10:37.165 It's something we almost never see in Hollywood 00:10:37.165 --> 00:10:40.532 outside of cheesy Sci-Fi movies from the 1950s 00:10:40.532 --> 00:10:42.523 "Landing on an unknown planet" 00:10:42.523 --> 00:10:45.595 "they are captured by long limb beauties" 00:10:46.241 --> 00:10:48.578 "When they say take me to your leader 00:10:48.578 --> 00:10:51.444 "and they take them to a creature like this" 00:10:51.444 --> 00:10:54.197 "you know they're on planet Venus" 00:10:54.823 --> 00:10:55.958 "Hi Barbie" 00:10:56.590 --> 00:10:57.919 "Yeah, space!" 00:10:58.224 --> 00:11:01.455 In Barbie Land the focus of attention is naturally 00:11:01.455 --> 00:11:04.222 placed on the Barbies and what they do 00:11:04.222 --> 00:11:08.280 but after the coup, the Kens immediately push the Barbies aside 00:11:08.881 --> 00:11:14.653 and put themselves and masculinity at the center of absolutely everything 00:11:14.653 --> 00:11:16.734 "Everything, basically everything" 00:11:16.734 --> 00:11:20.157 "exists to expand and elevate the presence of men" 00:11:20.526 --> 00:11:25.045 This is an exaggerated reflection of our own male centered world 00:11:25.615 --> 00:11:29.306 All you have to do is turn on the news or go to the movies 00:11:29.306 --> 00:11:33.419 and you'll be inundated with endless stories centering men 00:11:35.589 --> 00:11:37.791 "A symbol to the nation" 00:11:38.506 --> 00:11:40.947 "A hero to the world" 00:11:42.833 --> 00:11:45.814 "A beacon of hope, shining up" 00:11:46.438 --> 00:11:50.694 Obviously, this doesn't mean that women are never centered under patriarchy 00:11:51.011 --> 00:11:54.714 But when they are it's often framed as a woman's story 00:11:54.714 --> 00:11:57.117 rather than a human story 00:11:57.818 --> 00:11:59.496 The Barbie movie for example 00:11:59.496 --> 00:12:02.768 is very specifically a story about the gendered experience 00:12:02.768 --> 00:12:04.602 of being a woman in society 00:12:05.239 --> 00:12:08.481 "Anxiety, panic attacks and OCD sold separately" 00:12:09.089 --> 00:12:11.656 We can contrast that with a movie like Oppenheimer 00:12:12.177 --> 00:12:16.236 which is a story about becoming death the destroyer of worlds 00:12:16.970 --> 00:12:20.416 Yes this destroyer of worlds happens to be a man 00:12:20.416 --> 00:12:23.790 but notice the story isn't focused on the gendered experience 00:12:23.790 --> 00:12:25.890 of being a man in society 00:12:27.810 --> 00:12:32.313 In fact, all of Christopher Nolan's film center very important men 00:12:32.681 --> 00:12:34.791 but none are about their gender 00:12:35.114 --> 00:12:40.376 They are built as stories representative of the human experience writ large 00:12:41.548 --> 00:12:44.512 Greta Gerwig's movies on the other hand all center women 00:12:44.512 --> 00:12:50.274 and are very explicitly about being a woman trying to navigate a man's world 00:12:50.857 --> 00:12:52.035 "Very well" 00:12:52.035 --> 00:12:53.108 [Inaudible] 00:12:53.458 --> 00:12:56.049 That's not a criticism of either director by the way 00:12:56.049 --> 00:12:59.665 It's just a stark illustration of what male centered means 00:13:00.092 --> 00:13:04.030 In patriarchy men are viewed as the default for human 00:13:04.030 --> 00:13:09.466 and therefore, male experiences are framed as an exploration of the human condition 00:13:10.242 --> 00:13:12.142 While women's experiences are 00:13:12.142 --> 00:13:15.798 first and foremost, framed as being about womanhood 00:13:17.878 --> 00:13:18.983 "Okay" 00:13:19.453 --> 00:13:23.776 Incidentally this deep-seated cultural expectation of male centrality 00:13:23.776 --> 00:13:27.652 helps explain the waves of backlash against any entertainment 00:13:27.652 --> 00:13:32.463 that's made for a general audience but doesn't center men or masculinity 00:13:34.755 --> 00:13:37.555 Male identification is a little more complicated 00:13:37.555 --> 00:13:40.610 but it is a critical piece of the patriarchal puzzle 00:13:40.880 --> 00:13:44.921 It means that "core cultural ideas about what is considered good," 00:13:44.921 --> 00:13:49.723 "desirable, preferable or normal are culturally associated" 00:13:49.723 --> 00:13:53.607 "with how we think about men, manhood and masculinity" 00:13:55.293 --> 00:14:00.239 This is why professions that elevate qualities like toughness, competitiveness 00:14:00.239 --> 00:14:05.780 strength, control, rationality and invulnerability are so highly valued 00:14:05.780 --> 00:14:08.345 and highly paid in our society 00:14:09.186 --> 00:14:10.032 "Monsters" 00:14:10.032 --> 00:14:12.545 While occupations that revolve around qualities 00:14:12.545 --> 00:14:16.950 thought of as feminine like compassion, sharing or caregiving 00:14:16.600 --> 00:14:20.004 tend to be systematically devalued and underfunded 00:14:20.004 --> 00:14:21.965 "You know Greg's in medicine too, Larry" 00:14:21.965 --> 00:14:23.563 "Oh, really what field?" 00:14:23.746 --> 00:14:24.438 "Uh, nursing" 00:14:24.739 --> 00:14:25.510 [Laughter] 00:14:27.210 --> 00:14:31.832 In the Barbie movie, The Kens establish an aggressively male identified society 00:14:32.878 --> 00:14:36.259 They do this by stripping Barbie land of its feminine identity 00:14:36.259 --> 00:14:40.999 and superimposing a version of hyper masculinity that seems to have been 00:14:40.999 --> 00:14:43.181 lifted from 1980s action movies 00:14:44.654 --> 00:14:48.177 They replace all the pink furniture with black leather recliners 00:14:48.531 --> 00:14:51.833 drape everything in obnoxious cowboy motifs 00:14:51.833 --> 00:14:54.919 and litter the landscape with gym equipment and sporting gear 00:14:55.211 --> 00:14:57.377 "Don't question it just roll with it, tiny baby" 00:14:58.622 --> 00:14:59.847 "He call me baby?" 00:14:59.847 --> 00:15:03.769 But male identification goes much deeper than aesthetics 00:15:04.174 --> 00:15:08.999 When Ken decides to embrace patriarchy, his behavior shifts accordingly 00:15:08.999 --> 00:15:12.285 as he tries to project male identified values 00:15:12.421 --> 00:15:15.500 "You can stay if you want, as my bride wife" 00:15:15.500 --> 00:15:18.020 "or my long-term low commitment distant girlfriend" 00:15:18.020 --> 00:15:21.401 He buries self-doubt and hides his hurt feelings 00:15:21.401 --> 00:15:23.566 behind a layer of false bravado 00:15:23.566 --> 00:15:24.938 "Bruski beer me?" 00:15:25.163 --> 00:15:27.743 "I will not Bruski beer you" 00:15:27.743 --> 00:15:29.644 "Ha ha ha, that's fine" 00:15:29.980 --> 00:15:34.438 Under patriarchy the concept of leadership and indeed power itself 00:15:34.438 --> 00:15:37.856 is closely identified with masculinity 00:15:38.812 --> 00:15:43.551 It follows then that all men are socially elevated by default 00:15:43.935 --> 00:15:48.428 while women and feminine things are devalued and seen as inferior 00:15:48.730 --> 00:15:49.822 "Oh you got fries with that?" 00:15:49.822 --> 00:15:52.038 "If I said you had a hot body would you hold it against me?" 00:15:52.038 --> 00:15:55.892 This means that even men who don't hold any institutional power 00:15:55.892 --> 00:15:59.349 can still see themselves as superior to women 00:16:00.497 --> 00:16:02.238 That point is underscored 00:16:02.238 --> 00:16:05.930 when we see that the Kens are generally inept at running society 00:16:05.930 --> 00:16:08.163 "Go face day drunk right now" [laughter] 00:16:08.371 --> 00:16:09.632 [inaudible] 00:16:09.832 --> 00:16:14.013 They spend their time day drinking, playing games, and goofing off 00:16:14.691 --> 00:16:16.400 "Every night is boy's night" 00:16:16.621 --> 00:16:19.932 And yet they still see themselves as superior 00:16:19.932 --> 00:16:23.539 simply by virtue of being men living in a patriarchy 00:16:23.951 --> 00:16:26.928 "You're like I can't believe how great this place is!" 00:16:26.928 --> 00:16:29.907 In Kendom land, all the Barbies are reduced to servants 00:16:29.907 --> 00:16:33.354 "Where are my hungry boys who want snacks" 00:16:33.704 --> 00:16:37.306 But in the real world a small number of women can gain power 00:16:37.306 --> 00:16:40.218 even inside of male identified systems 00:16:40.618 --> 00:16:44.663 However, in order to do so they must prove themselves worthy 00:16:44.663 --> 00:16:49.579 by appearing to be just as aggressive, competitive and even less emotional 00:16:49.579 --> 00:16:52.356 than any man in that same position 00:16:52.785 --> 00:16:56.988 In other words, even though they are women they must adopt and perform 00:16:56.988 --> 00:16:59.966 male-identified patriarchal values 00:17:02.589 --> 00:17:07.145 The fourth and final feature of patriarchy is "an obsession with control" 00:17:07.145 --> 00:17:11.877 "as a core value around which social and personal life are organized" 00:17:11.877 --> 00:17:16.967 "Men maintain their privilege by controlling both women and other men" 00:17:16.967 --> 00:17:18.579 "who might threaten it" 00:17:20.478 --> 00:17:23.926 The Barbie movie downplays it but men's violence against women 00:17:23.926 --> 00:17:26.141 and the everpresent threat thereof 00:17:26.141 --> 00:17:27.558 "Give us a smile, blondie" 00:17:27.558 --> 00:17:30.670 is a critical element in maintaining patriarchal control 00:17:30.670 --> 00:17:34.698 "I'm not getting any of that. I feel that can only be described as admired" 00:17:35.425 --> 00:17:39.236 "but not ogled and there's no undertone of violence" 00:17:39.236 --> 00:17:41.703 "Mine very much has an undertone of violence" 00:17:41.873 --> 00:17:44.295 Control can also be achieved in other ways 00:17:44.295 --> 00:17:46.741 and since the Kens don't really understand violence 00:17:46.741 --> 00:17:51.112 they use coercion and manipulation to control daily life in Barbie land 00:17:51.429 --> 00:17:52.759 "What is wrong with them?" 00:17:52.759 --> 00:17:55.784 "We just explain to them the immaculate impeccable seamless gaunlet of logic" 00:17:55.784 --> 00:17:57.566 "that is patriarchy and they crumbled" 00:17:57.566 --> 00:18:00.360 Not the Kens take over every institution 00:18:00.360 --> 00:18:02.493 they also take control of the Dream Houses 00:18:02.493 --> 00:18:07.566 "This shall henceforth be known as Ken's Mojo Dojo Kasa house" 00:18:07.566 --> 00:18:11.680 and they manipulate the Barbies into embracing their new status 00:18:11.680 --> 00:18:12.682 as objectified servants 00:18:12.682 --> 00:18:14.874 "Anyone need a Bruski beer?" 00:18:15.054 --> 00:18:17.585 "What are you doing? You're a doctor" 00:18:17.585 --> 00:18:19.601 "I like being a helpful decoration" 00:18:19.601 --> 00:18:23.063 The illusion of intellectual and rational superiority 00:18:23.063 --> 00:18:28.100 is critical to enforcing the myth that men are in control of every situation 00:18:28.100 --> 00:18:29.734 "Let me show you" "Here, let me show you" 00:18:29.734 --> 00:18:32.008 "Here, let us show you" 00:18:32.008 --> 00:18:35.293 and therefore deserve their privilege status 00:18:35.546 --> 00:18:36.826 "Now you listen to me" 00:18:36.826 --> 00:18:39.436 This is emblematic of how men in the real world 00:18:39.436 --> 00:18:42.974 will often compensate for feelings of personal inadequacy 00:18:42.974 --> 00:18:46.494 by exercising extreme control over those closest to them 00:18:46.494 --> 00:18:49.330 "You are going to be home at 6 o'clock every night" 00:18:49.330 --> 00:18:52.238 "and you are going to have dinner ready on this table" 00:18:52.424 --> 00:18:55.258 Especially women and children 00:18:55.432 --> 00:18:56.254 "No" 00:18:56.552 --> 00:18:59.957 [Kens play "Push"] "I wanna push you around. Well, I will" 00:18:59.957 --> 00:19:03.805 Returning to The Gender Knot: "Men are assumed and expected" 00:19:03.805 --> 00:19:09.172 "to be in control at all times to be unemotional except for anger and rage" 00:19:09.172 --> 00:19:13.519 "to present themselves as invulnerable, autonomous, independent" 00:19:13.519 --> 00:19:19.030 "strong, rational, logical, dispassionate, knowledgeable, always right" 00:19:19.030 --> 00:19:24.115 "and in command of every situation especially those involving women" 00:19:24.115 --> 00:19:25.805 [Barbie chuckles] 00:19:26.137 --> 00:19:27.319 "Who are you texting?" 00:19:27.319 --> 00:19:29.231 "Huh?" "Who are you texting?" 00:19:30.069 --> 00:19:30.729 "No one" 00:19:30.729 --> 00:19:32.431 "Hmm, let me just" 00:19:32.431 --> 00:19:33.311 [Ken giggles] 00:19:33.311 --> 00:19:34.321 "Ken!" 00:19:34.321 --> 00:19:37.578 This obsession with control is so strong in our culture 00:19:37.578 --> 00:19:42.471 that any man who is perceived as not exerting enough control over women 00:19:42.917 --> 00:19:46.096 is likely to be ridiculed as pussy whipped, packed 00:19:46.096 --> 00:19:48.867 or tethered to the old balling chain 00:19:49.858 --> 00:19:53.181 Notice that there are no equivalent derogatory terms for men 00:19:53.181 --> 00:19:57.908 who do control women only for men who don't 00:19:59.772 --> 00:20:05.240 The obsession with control manifests in countless ways, big and small 00:20:05.240 --> 00:20:10.468 "We would love it, if you could just get into that giant box" 00:20:10.468 --> 00:20:14.429 But, control over women, their bodies and their sexuality 00:20:14.429 --> 00:20:16.937 is a core tenant under patriarchy 00:20:17.635 --> 00:20:19.829 "Get in the box! You Jezebel" 00:20:20.689 --> 00:20:23.411 Recall that the Kens take control of the government 00:20:23.411 --> 00:20:27.729 and use its power to actively exclude the Barbies from civic life 00:20:27.729 --> 00:20:30.388 "That's right. In just 48 hours all the Kens will head to the polls" 00:20:30.388 --> 00:20:34.276 "and vote to change the constitution to a government for the Kens of the Kens," 00:20:34.276 --> 00:20:35.621 "and by the Kens!" 00:20:36.538 --> 00:20:40.633 Since these are children's toys, the Barbies can't reproduce 00:20:40.633 --> 00:20:42.565 Well, aside from Midge that one time 00:20:42.777 --> 00:20:45.357 But, the rest of the Barbies can't have babies 00:20:45.736 --> 00:20:48.305 but if they could the Kens would have no doubt 00:20:48.305 --> 00:20:52.816 curtailed their reproductive rights just like in the real world 00:20:54.545 --> 00:20:59.560 The social system I've just described is very obviously oppressive to women 00:20:59.928 --> 00:21:02.899 But while patriarchy definitely benefits men 00:21:02.899 --> 00:21:08.360 it's paradoxically a poison chalice because it robs men of their full humanity 00:21:08.360 --> 00:21:11.214 "Okay, here's the deal. It's not just about how they see us" 00:21:11.214 --> 00:21:13.458 "it's about how they see themselves" 00:21:13.458 --> 00:21:16.740 We only have time to scratch the surface on this topic 00:21:16.740 --> 00:21:19.319 but embedded in Ken's story, we can find a few hints 00:21:19.319 --> 00:21:22.170 as to how patriarchy ends up harming men 00:21:23.772 --> 00:21:28.240 Even though Hollywood loves to play on themes of a war between the genders 00:21:28.352 --> 00:21:30.590 that framing misses a critical point 00:21:30.590 --> 00:21:34.522 because patriarchy is not a competition between men and women 00:21:35.329 --> 00:21:38.357 Rather, it's an endless competition for dominance 00:21:38.357 --> 00:21:42.997 wherein men are pitted against each other for a place in what R. W. Connell calls: 00:21:42.997 --> 00:21:45.743 "the hierarchy of masculinities" 00:21:47.199 --> 00:21:50.216 The white heterosexual hyper masculine ideal 00:21:50.216 --> 00:21:52.334 is at the top of the hierarchy 00:21:52.844 --> 00:21:56.550 All other forms of manhood especially those in any way associated with 00:21:56.550 --> 00:22:01.426 homosexuality or femininity are pushed further down on the hierarchy 00:22:01.426 --> 00:22:03.857 "When you're slapped, you'll take it and like it" 00:22:06.117 --> 00:22:10.297 Recall that when the Kens go to war it isn't against the Barbies 00:22:10.971 --> 00:22:12.773 it's against the other Kens 00:22:13.029 --> 00:22:14.111 "We go to war" 00:22:15.358 --> 00:22:16.277 "Against the Barbies?" 00:22:16.277 --> 00:22:17.100 "No, against the Kens" 00:22:17.100 --> 00:22:18.101 "But we are the Kens" 00:22:18.101 --> 00:22:19.259 "The other Kens" 00:22:19.397 --> 00:22:22.919 Up until this point, I've been mining the Barbies movie to help illustrate 00:22:22.919 --> 00:22:24.756 how patriarchy works 00:22:25.012 --> 00:22:27.961 But the usefulness of the film's narrative is limited 00:22:27.961 --> 00:22:30.483 especially when it comes to male competition 00:22:30.632 --> 00:22:33.101 "Looks this beach is a little too much beach for you, Ken" 00:22:33.101 --> 00:22:36.281 "If I wasn't severely injured, I would beach you off right now, Ken" 00:22:36.281 --> 00:22:37.927 " I'll beach you up with you any day, Ken" 00:22:37.927 --> 00:22:39.417 You may remember for example 00:22:39.417 --> 00:22:43.665 that long before they ever discover what patriarchy even is 00:22:43.665 --> 00:22:47.390 Ken and Ken are engaged in a bitter competition 00:22:47.390 --> 00:22:50.442 over control of Barbie's time and attention 00:22:51.082 --> 00:22:53.074 "Bet you can't do a flip like that, Ken" 00:22:53.436 --> 00:22:55.467 This is where the Barbies script is perhaps 00:22:55.467 --> 00:22:57.527 a little too clever for its own good 00:22:57.747 --> 00:23:01.323 Because it's many overlapping metaphors and allegories 00:23:01.323 --> 00:23:04.975 leave us with some mixed messages about the Kens 00:23:05.819 --> 00:23:09.503 The rivalry between the Kens may work as a sort of gender flipped 00:23:09.503 --> 00:23:13.705 commentary on how women are taught to seek validation through male attention 00:23:13.705 --> 00:23:19.091 "I only exist within the warmth of your gaze" 00:23:19.091 --> 00:23:24.406 It is less successful however, as part of the film's larger critique of patriarchy 00:23:24.530 --> 00:23:28.502 because the Ken's competitive rivalry carries with it some uncomfortable 00:23:28.502 --> 00:23:29.649 echoes of male entitle 00:23:29.889 --> 00:23:32.836 "I bet you're scared and I bet she doesn't even wanted to go" 00:23:32.836 --> 00:23:37.669 And that behavior is not attributed to patriarchy in the first half of the movie 00:23:37.669 --> 00:23:40.097 which is confusing because it definitely should be 00:23:40.097 --> 00:23:40.776 "Hi, Barbie" 00:23:40.776 --> 00:23:41.442 [Ken groans] 00:23:41.442 --> 00:23:42.436 "Hi, Ken" 00:23:42.436 --> 00:23:43.379 "Hi, Ken" 00:23:43.448 --> 00:23:45.807 The thing about being obsessed with control 00:23:45.807 --> 00:23:48.035 is that it traps men in a cycle of fear 00:23:48.378 --> 00:23:49.343 "Hi, Barbie" 00:23:50.152 --> 00:23:51.003 "Hi, Ken" 00:23:51.003 --> 00:23:55.425 The more men value control, the more they're afraid of losing it 00:23:56.804 --> 00:24:01.187 This leaves men riddled with anxiety about not measuring up to other men 00:24:01.842 --> 00:24:06.786 which means they can never truly feel secure in their own masculinity 00:24:06.985 --> 00:24:11.416 "I made a double bet with Ken and you can't make me look uncool in front of Ken" 00:24:11.416 --> 00:24:12.630 "Ken's not cool!" 00:24:12.854 --> 00:24:13.843 "He is to me" 00:24:13.843 --> 00:24:16.338 In the movie the patriarchal battle for dominance 00:24:16.338 --> 00:24:19.246 culminates in an absurdest dream ballet 00:24:19.994 --> 00:24:23.416 but in reality the consequences can be deadly serious 00:24:25.216 --> 00:24:30.355 Most violence in the real world is perpetrated by men against other men 00:24:32.156 --> 00:24:37.259 This Grim reality is part of why the Barbie's plan to overthrow patriarchy 00:24:37.259 --> 00:24:42.095 by tricking the Kens into fighting each other is so wildly misguided 00:24:42.205 --> 00:24:45.205 "You play on their egos and their petty jealousies" 00:24:45.205 --> 00:24:47.404 "and you turn them against each other" 00:24:47.404 --> 00:24:51.974 While the scene is undoubtedly funny and the song choice, absolutely perfect 00:24:51.974 --> 00:24:57.523 aggressive competitive male behavior is a core feature of patriarchy 00:24:57.523 --> 00:24:59.639 not a bug that can be exploited 00:25:00.679 --> 00:25:02.849 "And now they destroy themselves" 00:25:02.849 --> 00:25:06.399 And for the record, men's violence is definitely not something 00:25:06.399 --> 00:25:09.105 that women manipulate men into doing 00:25:10.452 --> 00:25:12.512 Something else the movie doesn't show 00:25:12.512 --> 00:25:17.068 is how the enormous pressures patriarchy places on men can lead to self harm 00:25:17.068 --> 00:25:21.475 either directly or indirectly through addiction and other risky behaviors 00:25:23.945 --> 00:25:28.154 The prohibition on expressing vulnerability compounds the problem 00:25:28.154 --> 00:25:31.794 by making it difficult, if not impossible, for men to ask for help 00:25:31.794 --> 00:25:33.835 or build emotional support networks 00:25:34.890 --> 00:25:35.635 "Ken?" 00:25:35.635 --> 00:25:36.544 "Oh hey, Barbie" 00:25:36.544 --> 00:25:37.276 "Hi" 00:25:37.276 --> 00:25:38.651 "How much of that did you see?" 00:25:38.651 --> 00:25:43.419 Of course all people need love, intimacy and nurture 00:25:44.700 --> 00:25:50.010 But since patriarchy devalues caregiving and labels it as feminine 00:25:50.010 --> 00:25:53.840 many men feel compelled to sacrifice their emotional sides 00:25:53.840 --> 00:25:56.980 in order to preserve their identity as real men 00:25:57.925 --> 00:26:00.839 As a result, many guys, especially straight guys 00:26:00.839 --> 00:26:04.102 falsely believe that women are somehow responsible 00:26:04.345 --> 00:26:06.512 "Oh, but I don't want you here" 00:26:07.012 --> 00:26:07.754 "Is it Ken?" 00:26:08.231 --> 00:26:09.976 "Ken's just a really good friend" 00:26:09.976 --> 00:26:10.462 "Goodnight" 00:26:10.462 --> 00:26:16.257 That being rejected is tantamount to women holding emotional intimacy hostage 00:26:16.257 --> 00:26:20.160 when in reality it's not women but patriarchy 00:26:20.160 --> 00:26:24.497 that's blocking men's access to emotional and physical intimacy 00:26:25.399 --> 00:26:29.318 So when Barbie refuses Ken's advances he becomes resentful 00:26:29.318 --> 00:26:30.565 He lashes out 00:26:30.565 --> 00:26:32.823 "No you failed me!" 00:26:33.275 --> 00:26:36.449 And he ends up harming everyone, including himself 00:26:36.449 --> 00:26:38.269 [Ken bursts out of cry] 00:26:38.269 --> 00:26:39.953 "Don't look at me" 00:26:41.803 --> 00:26:44.157 In her excellent book: The Will to Change 00:26:44.157 --> 00:26:47.791 Bell Hooks doesn't mince words when describing what happens to men 00:26:47.791 --> 00:26:49.453 inside of patriarchy 00:26:49.773 --> 00:26:54.501 "Teaching boys to despise their vulnerability is one way to socialize them" 00:26:54.501 --> 00:26:57.878 "to engage in self-inflicted soul murder" 00:26:59.705 --> 00:27:03.803 It's no wonder then that Ken isn't really happy living in patriarchy 00:27:04.188 --> 00:27:08.649 In fact, in Kendom land he was even further alienated from Barbie 00:27:08.732 --> 00:27:12.139 From his own feelings and from the other Kens 00:27:14.074 --> 00:27:16.566 Part of this interview with Julia Fox 00:27:16.566 --> 00:27:18.633 where she's hooked up to a polygraph machine 00:27:18.633 --> 00:27:20.914 became a viral meme on Tik Tok 00:27:20.914 --> 00:27:24.242 "I hate the patriarchy. There's a lot of really good men" 00:27:24.242 --> 00:27:25.264 "Answer the question" 00:27:25.264 --> 00:27:27.124 "Do I hate men? No" 00:27:27.432 --> 00:27:28.578 "That's a lie" 00:27:29.281 --> 00:27:32.101 The viral audio snippet stopped there 00:27:32.101 --> 00:27:36.570 But when we play the rest of it her answer is Illuminating and nuanced 00:27:36.992 --> 00:27:41.999 "There's a lot of men that benefit from the systemic oppression of women" 00:27:41.999 --> 00:27:47.279 "in our culture and society and religions. And I do wish that" 00:27:47.279 --> 00:27:49.685 "more men could stand up for us" 00:27:49.685 --> 00:27:53.720 She explains that she obviously does not hate all individual men 00:27:53.963 --> 00:27:58.291 What she hates is the fact that most men do absolutely nothing 00:27:58.291 --> 00:28:00.878 to help end the oppression of women 00:28:01.199 --> 00:28:05.528 So what can men do to make a difference in ending this system? 00:28:05.528 --> 00:28:06.901 "The Kens. They found us" 00:28:07.988 --> 00:28:11.857 Let's use Allan as our proxy for this part of the discussion 00:28:11.857 --> 00:28:15.085 since he's the only guy who joins the Barbies' revolution 00:28:15.175 --> 00:28:17.597 Well, aside from these two brief cameos 00:28:17.597 --> 00:28:18.344 "Sugar daddy?" 00:28:18.344 --> 00:28:22.811 "No no no no, I'm not a sugar daddy. This is sugar and I'm her daddy" 00:28:22.811 --> 00:28:24.893 "And I have an earring, a magic earring" 00:28:24.999 --> 00:28:28.083 Notice that all three of these characters are queer coded 00:28:28.083 --> 00:28:30.573 and despite being men, they're marginalized 00:28:30.573 --> 00:28:32.310 in the hierarchy of masculinities 00:28:33.365 --> 00:28:36.631 Allan in particular, embodies a bunch of common mistakes 00:28:36.631 --> 00:28:41.322 that men make when trying to disentangle themselves from the system of patriarchy 00:28:41.823 --> 00:28:45.679 The first thing Allan does is nothing 00:28:46.111 --> 00:28:49.328 He is a bystander who is nonetheless still afforded 00:28:49.328 --> 00:28:51.554 a measure of privilege in Kendom Land 00:28:51.554 --> 00:28:53.457 that the Barbies are not 00:28:53.457 --> 00:28:55.977 "And Alan likes to help me give all the Kens foot massages" 00:28:55.977 --> 00:28:57.347 "No, I don't, I don't like that" 00:28:57.347 --> 00:28:58.673 "We love it" 00:28:58.673 --> 00:29:02.733 Like some men in the real world, Allan might not be actively or consciously 00:29:02.733 --> 00:29:05.285 participating in the oppression of women 00:29:05.285 --> 00:29:07.629 but he doesn't speak out against it either 00:29:10.329 --> 00:29:13.350 The next thing Allan does is try to escape 00:29:13.605 --> 00:29:17.320 As soon as he spies a way out for himself, he tries to take it 00:29:17.320 --> 00:29:17.869 "How are you?" 00:29:17.869 --> 00:29:20.703 "I'm Allan. Don't tell the Ken I'm trying to escape" 00:29:20.703 --> 00:29:23.912 "I cannot sit on one more leather couch it's going to break my spirit" 00:29:23.912 --> 00:29:27.658 The problem is man can't just opt out of patriarchy 00:29:27.959 --> 00:29:31.960 because it's been woven into the very fabric of our whole society 00:29:32.840 --> 00:29:33.765 "What, what do we do?" 00:29:33.765 --> 00:29:35.635 "Just get in the car and keep it singing" 00:29:35.635 --> 00:29:39.913 The next thing Allan tries is to engage in displays of chivalrous violence 00:29:42.073 --> 00:29:45.317 After learning the extent of the injustice women face 00:29:45.317 --> 00:29:48.288 some men try to distance themselves from the problem 00:29:48.288 --> 00:29:53.332 and from any personal culpability by going after particularly bad men 00:29:54.737 --> 00:29:57.007 But patriarchy isn't a person 00:29:57.007 --> 00:30:00.027 and you can't punch a a social system in the face 00:30:00.027 --> 00:30:01.676 as much as you might want to 00:30:03.060 --> 00:30:03.914 "Guess what happened?" 00:30:03.914 --> 00:30:06.390 "I got into a fight. I'm fine, but I..." 00:30:06.390 --> 00:30:08.030 "I think we solved feminism" 00:30:08.030 --> 00:30:09.530 "Yeah! once and for all" 00:30:09.530 --> 00:30:12.156 "It was just like a a total melee, like on the news" 00:30:12.156 --> 00:30:16.352 And most of the time men lashing out in violence isn't helpful 00:30:16.352 --> 00:30:19.597 as it simply replicates the core values of patriarchy 00:30:20.218 --> 00:30:25.057 Allan fumbles around for a while, but eventually he joins the Barbies' revolution 00:30:25.057 --> 00:30:28.146 and figures out how to stand with them in solidarity 00:30:28.735 --> 00:30:32.012 Notably though, Allan never tries to confront the Kens 00:30:32.012 --> 00:30:33.818 about what they're doing 00:30:34.380 --> 00:30:37.631 And that's unfortunate because the most important thing men can do 00:30:37.631 --> 00:30:40.220 is challenge other men on their behavior 00:30:41.043 --> 00:30:44.974 and encourage them to rebel against patriarchal expectations 00:30:47.676 --> 00:30:51.045 Despite all the harm it does to women and to men's well-being 00:30:51.045 --> 00:30:55.036 the system of patriarchy remains invisible to most people 00:30:55.381 --> 00:30:59.339 And the Barbie movie for all its flaws, makes it visible 00:30:59.562 --> 00:31:03.812 This is, I'd argue, at the root of why so many right-wing pundits 00:31:03.812 --> 00:31:07.871 were so extremely threatened by this cartoony fantasy land 00:31:07.872 --> 00:31:11.278 Not only does the film acknowledge the existence of patriarchy 00:31:11.278 --> 00:31:16.078 it dares to suggest that it's not a natural or inevitable institution 00:31:16.469 --> 00:31:21.776 And in doing so it lays bare the fundamental truth about all social systems 00:31:21.776 --> 00:31:23.233 they can be dismantled 00:31:23.233 --> 00:31:27.459 "No Barbie or Ken should be living in the shadows" 00:31:27.459 --> 00:31:28.778 "Or Allan" 00:31:29.090 --> 00:31:31.932 Choosing to confront such an entrenched system 00:31:31.932 --> 00:31:36.288 can be risky for men and extremely dangerous for women 00:31:36.962 --> 00:31:41.437 Nonetheless, all over the world women are challenging patriarchy 00:31:41.437 --> 00:31:44.233 like never before in modern history 00:31:44.563 --> 00:31:48.292 And the reality is that every day more and more men 00:31:48.292 --> 00:31:53.037 are choosing to stand with those women to join the struggle for liberation 00:31:53.037 --> 00:31:55.760 and to reclaim their full humanity 00:31:57.019 --> 00:31:58.464 "Thank you" 00:32:00.645 --> 00:32:01.621 Thanks for watching 00:32:01.621 --> 00:32:04.393 Umm, If you like these kind of long form video essays 00:32:04.393 --> 00:32:07.923 please consider going over to Patreon to help back our project there 00:32:07.923 --> 00:32:10.685 I've also left a link to Paypal in the description below 00:32:10.685 --> 00:32:11.665 if you prefer that 00:32:11.868 --> 00:32:15.314 Uh, these videos are 100% funded by viewers like you 00:32:15.314 --> 00:32:17.634 there are no ads and no corporate sponsorships 00:32:17.634 --> 00:32:20.376 so anything you can do to help out is much appreciated 00:32:20.612 --> 00:32:22.766 I have a whole bunch of other videos in the works 00:32:22.766 --> 00:32:24.880 including one on the myth of the alpha male 00:32:24.880 --> 00:32:28.868 another one on redemption in death, for male characters in Hollywood 00:32:28.868 --> 00:32:32.720 and finally a project on board games and colonialism 00:32:32.720 --> 00:32:35.947 So, if you'd like to see any of those uh, please make sure you subscribe 00:32:35.947 --> 00:32:37.699 leave a like, all the jazz 00:32:37.699 --> 00:32:39.959 and I will see you again next time