it's hard to overstate the massive cultural impact of the Barbie movie Hi Barbie Hi Ken the film Enchanted audiences wowed critics sparked heated debates and made a truly obscene amount of money at the box office Barbie continues breaking records with over 1 billion dollars at the global box office it's an impressive cultural achievement especially considering that the film doubles as a feature-length commercial for a line of plastic dolls there was however one group who were decidedly unenthusiastic Despite all the bubbly pink fun the movie's become a target of some right-wing personalities they are preaching empowerment by making men look weak and dumb feminist diet tribe about the evils of the modern patriarchy It's a trojan horse to to teach girls daddy is really a dummy or domineering idiots It's feminist garbage and it's really about hating men And Ken is like stupid and unlikable This is an assault on not just Ken but all men If you've seen the movie you might be confused Because the Barbie script goes out of it's way to show Ken in a sympathetic light If anything the movie might be a little too sympathetic to Ken "I think I owe you an apology" "Huh?" Now it's tempting to dismiss this clearly performative outrage as just another attempt to fan the flame of the culture war But there is something really poisonous under-pinning this backlash that I do think is worth taking seriously One word in particular seem to touch a nerve "Well I haven't seen Barbie yet, but I've seen people talking about the number of times they use the word patriarchy in it" "Feminism and the patriarchy and fighting it, and all that" "And actually to call it the patriarchy in the film that phrase is used many times" "If you take a shot every time Barbie says the word 'patriarchy', you will pass out before the movie ends" "As we learned that the use of word 'patriarchy' no less than ten times in this film" "The patriarchy is a big part of this Barbie film" "The word is used endlessly in the movie even though most people even me actually has no idea that what 'patriarchy' really means" That is a truly staggering level of defensiveness