[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's hard to overstate the massive\Ncultural impact of the Barbie movie Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hi Barbie" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hi Ken" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The film Enchanted audiences wowed critics\Nsparked heated debates Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and made a truly obscene amount of money\Nat the box office Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Barbie continues breaking records\Nwith over 1 billion dollars Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at the global box office Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's an impressive cultural achievement,\Nespecially considering that the film Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,doubles as a feature-length commercial\Nfor a line of plastic dolls Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There was however one group\Nwho were decidedly unenthusiastic Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Despite all the bubbly pink fun,\Nthe movie's become a target" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"of some right-wing personalities" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"They are preaching empowerment\Nby making men look weak and dumb" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Feminist (diet tribe?) about the evils of\Nthe modern patriarchy" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"It's a trojan horse to to teach girls\Ndaddy is really a dummy" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"or domineering idiots" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"It's feminist garbage and\Nit's really about hating men" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Ken is like stupid and unlikable" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"This is an assault on not just Ken,\Nbut all men" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you've seen the movie\Nyou might be confused Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because the Barbie script goes\Nout of it's way Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to show Ken in a sympathetic light Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If anything the movie might\Nbe a little too sympathetic to Ken Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I think I owe you an apology"\N"Huh?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now it's tempting to dismiss this\Nclearly performative outrage Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as just another attempt to fan the flame\Nof the culture war Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But there is something really poisonous Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,under-pinning this backlash\Nthat I do think is worth taking seriously Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One word in particular\Nseem to touch a nerve Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, I haven't seen Barbie yet, um" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"but I've seen people talking about\Nthe number of times they use" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"the word patriarchy in it" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Feminism and the patriarchy\Nand fighting it, and all that" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"And actually to call it the patriarchy in\Nthe film that phrase is used many times" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"If you take a shot every time\NBarbie says the word 'patriarchy', Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you will pass out before the movie ends" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"As we learned that the use of word\N'patriarchy' no less than ten times in this film" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"The patriarchy is a big part of\Nthis Barbie film" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"The word is used endlessly in the movie\Neven though most people" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"even me actually has no idea that\Nwhat 'patriarchy' really means" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is a truly staggering\Nlevel of defensiveness Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,especially coming from people who Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't really seem to understand \Nwhat the word even means Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,While there are many legitimate criticisms\Nof the Barbie movie's feminism or lack thereof Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this video essay is not going to\Naddress those questions Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Instead, we're going to use the movie\Nas a sort of primary Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to help explain\Nwhat patriarchy actually is Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what it isn't and how it ends up\Nharming everyone including men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Watch your flank" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To have any kind of\Nproductive conversation Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we have to get over that defensiveness Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that so many mem feel whenever\Nthey come across the word patriarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"This is a real hornets nest in here" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Contrary to popular belief\Npatriarchy is not a synonym for men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nor is it a code word for masculinity Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it certainly has nothing to do\Nwith hating men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"yeah I am confused about that" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,General confusion about what\Npatriarchy means Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is perhaps not surprising Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,given that the word\Nvery rarely appears in popular media Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When the term has been used\Nit's traditionally been as a joke Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to mock feminists or feminism Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"let's take off our brows and burn them\Nin defiance of the misogynistic patriarchy" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"you know what I think\NI have to meet Harvey, but um" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"maybe we can burn\Nour underwear together later" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"when the last time we had a conversation\Nover 3 minutes it was about" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"the patriarchal bias of\Nthe Mr. Roger's show" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well with King Friday lording it\Nover all the Lesser puppets" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What did I miss?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"The oppressive patriarchal values\Nthat dictate our education" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"good" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's only after the rise of\Nthe me too movement Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we begin to see\Na shift in this pattern Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Stay out of it Courtney" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You stay out of it.\NI'm dismantling the patriarchy this year" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"and I'm not afraid to start with you" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These days the word is most often\Nwritten for snarky teenage characters Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"So you were Guided by Lon chivalry" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"a tool of the patriarchy to extract\Nmy undying gratitude?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"mhm, you know\Nmost people just say thank you" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's meant to identify them as brash,\Nrebellious or naively idealistic Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,though not necessarily wrong\Nin their observations Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I think marriage is just a patriarchal system\Ndesigned to make women less autonomous" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You become your husband's property,\Nyou have to bear his children" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"you even have to take his name" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hey, didn't you say that prom was a..."\N"A postcolonial patriarchal construct" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"It is" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"But we would go as a group\Nas a form of protest" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hey hey, ho ho,\Npatriarchy has got to go" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hey hey, ho ho,\Npatriarchy has got to go" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even in this new limited context\Nthe word is still delivered as a punch Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I'm jus... I mean is that it?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and its meaning is left\Nintentionally vague Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"it's called Little Women\Nand it's about four sisters" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"who overcome poverty\Nand the patriarchy..." Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Nope, dolls" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The lack of specificity guarantees that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,only those who are already in the know\Nwill get the joke Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Down with the patriarchy" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Idiots ah" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everyone else is left\Neither bewildered or extremely threatened Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why didn't Barbie tell me\Nabout patriarchy?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Which to my understanding is where men\Nand horses run everything?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I'll silver away!" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sorry, Ken, but there are no horses involved Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Although, it does kind of make sense\Nwhy he might think that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"That's not fair is it? You know\Nis it the fault of the patriarchy?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Also, what is a patriarchy?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In its modern usage\Npatriarchy refers to a type of society Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's constructed to promote\Nmale power and authority Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in sociological terms it's what's called\Na social system Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,rooted in four distinct principles Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a society is patriarchal to the degree\Nthat it's male-dominated Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,male centered, male identified and\Norganized around an obsession with control Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're going to go over\Nwhat all of that means in detail Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the important thing to remember\Nabout social systems Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that we are not those systems\Nand those systems are not us Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Because Barbie land, is now Kenland" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So in the Barbie movie The Kens have a (coup?)\Nand Implement patriarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the Kens as a group are\Nnot patriarchy itself Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Here I'm just a dude" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The Kens make patriarchy happen\Nby doing it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When they stop participating the\Nsocial system effectively ceases to exist Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the same way that we can describe\Na board game and its rules Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without saying anything about\Nthe personality of the individual players Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so, too, can we talk about\Nthe system of patriarchy and how it works Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without condemning every individual man Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now keep in mind that the Barbie movie\Nfocuses mostly on Straight White characters Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but patriarchy impacts people in\Ndifferent ways based on their sexuality Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and race, class or geographical location Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Is there a problem offices?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Moving forward in this video Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going to be heavily borrowing from a\Nbook called The Gender Knot Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by sociologist Alan G Johnson Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Since the devil is in the details,\Nlet's use Kenland Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Kendom" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Kendom" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Kendomland" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Land of the..."\N"Land of the free of the men" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Right. Well, this place" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's use Kendomland to help illustrate\Nhow patriarchy works Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I shall seek my fortune there" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Alright" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The first characteristic of a patriarchal\Nsociety is that it's male dominated Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is relatively straightforward Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All it means is that positions of authority\Nare generally reserved for men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Basically when you look up in\Nthe various hierarchies of society Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you'll tend to see more and more men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The Barbie movie gives us a vivid illustration\Nof what male dominance looks like Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are presented with a montage of images\Nfeaturing powerful and important men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's notable that up until recently Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,women have largely been\Nexcluded from these fields Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I'll take a high level,\Nhigh paying job with influence, please" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Okay you'll need at least an NBA" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ken also learns an important lesson Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when he demands to be given\Na powerful position Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he has unceremoniously rejected Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No I won't let you do\Njust one appendectomy" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"But I'm a man" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"But not a doctor" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Please" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is because male dominance does not\Nmean that every individual man is powerful Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I'm a man with no power\Ndoes that make me a woman?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In fact most men living in patriarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,will never acquire\Na formal position of power Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"This is bad. This is really bad" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Instead they'll spend their entire lives\Nlaboring under the boot of Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,other more powerful men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Are any women in charge?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Despite what this\NMattel boardroom scene implies Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not impossible for a woman to\Nascend to the top in patriarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It just means it'll be much much harder\Nfor women to gain and maintain power Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and she will be tokenized and regarded as\Na special exception to the rule Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I love you guys" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Unlike in the fantasy world of Barbie land Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there has never been\Na female president of the United States Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"How come you're so amazing?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No comment. Ah ha ha ha"\N Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But even when a woman eventually\Ndoes win that position Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it will not mean that patriarchy is over Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because patriarchy is a dynamic\Nand resilient system Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It has evolved and changed\Nover the decades Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and indeed centuries Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thanks to countless women who have fought\Nhard for a few seats at the table Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the table is still male-dominated Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You guys are clearly\Nnot doing patriarchy very well" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No. Ha ha. No, we're uh,\Nwe're doing it well, yeah" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"We're just uh, hide it better now" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The second aspect of a patriarchal society\Nis that it's male centered Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This simply means\Nthat the focus of attention Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is primarily on men and boys\Nand what they do Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One of the reasons Barbie land\Nis so visually startling Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is because it's a rare vision of\Na female centered world Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's something we almost never\Nsee in Hollywood Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,outside of cheesy Sci-Fi movies\Nfrom the 1950s Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Landing on an unknown planet" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"they are captured by long limb beauties" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"When they say take me to your leader Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"and they take them to\Na creature like this" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"you know they're on planet Venus" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hi Barbie" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Yeah, space" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In Barbie Land the focus of\Nattention is naturally Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,placed on the Barbies and what they do Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But after the coup, the Kens immediately\Npush the Barbies aside Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and put themselves and masculinity\Nat the center of absolutely everything Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Everything basically everything" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Exists to expand and elevate\Nthe presence of men" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is an exaggerated reflection of\Nour own male centered world Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All you have to do is turn on the news\Nor go to the movies Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you'll be inundated\Nwith endless stories centering men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"A symbol to the nation" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"a hero to the world" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"The Beacon of Hope, shining up" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Obviously, this doesn't mean that\Nwomen are never centered under patriarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But when they are\Nit's often framed as a woman's story Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,rather than a human story Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The Barbie movie for example Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is very specifically a story about the\Ngendered experience Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of being a woman in society Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Anxiety, panic attacks \Nand OCD sold separately" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can contrast that\Nwith a movie like Oppenheimer Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is a story about becoming death\Nthe destroyer of worlds Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes this destroyer of worlds\Nhappens to be a man Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But notice the story isn't focused on the\Ngendered experience Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of being a man in society Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In fact, all of Christopher Nolan's film\Ncenter very important men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but none are about their gender Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They are built as stories representative\Nof the human experience writ large Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Greta Gerwig's movies on the other hand\Nall center women Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and are very explicitly about being a\Nwoman trying to navigate a man's world Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Very well" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Inaudible] Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's not a criticism of\Neither director by the way Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's just a stark illustration of what\Nmale centered means Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In patriarchy men are viewed as\Nthe default for human Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and therefore, male experiences are framed\Nas an exploration of the human condition Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,While women's experiences are Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,first and foremost, framed as\Nbeing about womanhood Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Okay" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Incidentally this deep-seated \Ncultural expectation of male centrality Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,helps explain the waves of \Nbacklash against any entertainment Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's made for a general audience \Nbut doesn't center men or masculinity Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Male identification \Nis a little more complicated Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it is a critical piece \Nof the patriarchal puzzle Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It means that core cultural ideas \Nabout what is considered good, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,desirable, preferable or normal\Nare culturally associated Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with how we think about men,\Nmanhood and masculinity Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this is why professions that elevate \Nqualities like toughness, competitiveness Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,strength, control, rationality \Nand invulnerability are so highly valued Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and highly paid in our society Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Monsters" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,While occupations that revolve\Naround qualities Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thought of as feminine like\Ncompassion, sharing or caregiving Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,tend to be systematically\Ndevalued and underfunded Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You know Greg's in medicine too, Larry" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Oh really what field?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Uh, nursing" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Laughter] Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the Barbie movie, The Kens establish\Nan aggressively male identified society Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They do this by stripping \NBarbie land of its feminine identity Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and superimposing a version of hyper\Nmasculinity that seems to have been Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lifted from 1980s action movies Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They replace all the pink furniture with\Nblack leather recliners Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,drape everything in obnoxious \Ncowboy motifs Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and litter the landscape with gym\Nequipment and sporting gear Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Don't question it \Njust roll with, tiny baby" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"He call me baby?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But male identification goes\Nmuch deeper than aesthetics Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When Ken decides to embrace patriarchy\Nhis behavior shifts accordingly Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as he tries to project\Nmale identified values Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You can stay if you want,\Nas my bride wife" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"or my long-term low commitment\Ndistanced girlfriend" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He buries self-doubt and hides \Nhis hurt feelings Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,behind a layer of false bravado Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Bruski beer me?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I will not Bruski beer you" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ha ha ha, that's fine" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Under patriarchy the concept of leadership\Nand indeed power itself Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is closely identified with masculinity Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It follows then that all men are\Nsocially elevated by default Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while women and feminine things\Nare devalued and seen as inferior Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Oh you got fries with that shit?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"If I said you had a hot body\Nwould you hold it?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This means that even men\Nwho don't hold any institutional power Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can still see themselves\Nas superior to women Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That point is underscored Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when we see that the Kens\Nare generally inept at running Society Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Go face day drunk right now"\N[Laughter] Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"(?)" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They spend their time day drinking,\Nplaying games, and goofing off Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Every night is boy's night" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And yet they still see themselves \Nas superior Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,simply by virtue of being men \Nliving in a patriarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You're like I can't believe how great \Nthis place is" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In Kendom land all the Barbies \Nare reduced to servants Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Where are my hungry boys who want snacks" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But in the real world a small number of \Nwomen can gain power Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even inside of male identified systems Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,However in order to do so they\Nmust prove themselves worthy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by appearing to be just as aggressive\Ncompetitive and even less emotional Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than any man in that same position Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In other words, even though they are women\Nthey must adopt and perform Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,male identified patriarchal values Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The fourth and final feature of patriarchy\Nis an obsession with control Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as a core value around which social and \Npersonal life are organized Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Men maintain their privilege by \Ncontrolling both women and other men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who might threaten it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The Barbie movie downplays it \Nbut men's violence against women Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the everpresent threat thereof Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Give us a smile, blondie" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is a critical element in maintaining \Npatriarchal control Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I'm not getting any of that. I feel\Nthat can only be described as admired" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"but not (?) and there's no \Nundertone of violence" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Mine very much has an \Nundertone of violence" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Control can also be achieved in other ways Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and since the Kens don't really \Nunderstand violence Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they use coercion and manipulation\Nto control daily life in Barbie land Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What is wrong with them?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"We just explain to them the immaculate\Nimpeccable seamless gaunlet of logic" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"that is patriarchy and they crumbled" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not the Kens take over \Nevery institution Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they also take control of the Dream Houses Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"This shall henceforth be known as \NKen's Mojo Dojo Kasa house" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they manipulate the Barbies into \Nembracing their new status Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as objectified servants Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Anyone need a Bruski beer?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What are you doing? You're a doctor" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I like being a helpful decoration Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The illusion of intellectual\Nand rational superiority Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is critical to enforcing the myth \Nthat men are in control of every situation Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Let me show you"\N"Here, let me show you" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Here, let us show you" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and therefore deserve their \Nprivilege status Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Now you listen to me" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is emblematic of how men \Nin the real world Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,will often compensate for feelings of \Npersonal inadequacy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by exercising extreme control\Nover those closest to them Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You are going to be home at 6 o'clock \Nevery night" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"and you are going to have dinner\Nready on this table" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Especially women and children Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I don't want to push you around" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Returning to The Gender Knot:\N"Men are assumed and expected Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to be in control at all times\Nto be unemotional except for anger and rage Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to present themselves as invulnerable,\Nautonomous, independent Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,logical, dispassionate,\Nknowledgeable, always right Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and in command of every situation\Nespecially those involving women" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Laughter] Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Who are you texting?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Huh?"\N"Who are you texting?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No one" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hmm, let me just" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[giggle] Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ken!" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This obsession with control is\Nso strong in our culture Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that any man who is perceived\Nas not exerting enough control over women Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is likely to be ridiculed as \Npussy whipped, packed Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or tethered to the old balling chain Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Notice that there are no equivalent \Nderogatory terms for men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who do control women\Nonly for men who don't Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The obsession with control manifests\Nin countless ways, big and small Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"We would love it, if you could just\Nget into that giant box" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, control over women, their bodies\Nand their sexuality Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is a core tenant under patriarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Get in the box! You Jezebel" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Recall that the Kens take control\Nof the government Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and use its power to actively exclude\Nthe Barbies from civic life Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"That's right. In just 48 hours \Nall the Kens will head to the polls" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"and vote to change the Constitution to \Na government for the Kens of the Kens," Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"and by the Kens!" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Since these are children's toys\Nthe Barbies can't reproduce Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, aside from Midge that one time Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, the rest of the Barbies\Ncan't have babies Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but if they could the Kens\Nwould have no doubt Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,curtailed their reproductive rights\Njust like in the real world Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The social system I've just described\Nis very obviously oppressive to women Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But while patriarchy definitely\Nbenefits men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's paradoxically a poison chalice\Nbecause it robs men of their full humanity Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Okay, here's the deal.\NIt's not just about how they see us" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"it's about how they see themselves" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We only have time to scratch the surface\Non this topic Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But embedded in Ken's story,\Nwe can find a few hints Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as to how patriarchy ends up harming men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even though Hollywood loves to play on\Nthemes of a war between the genders Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that framing misses a critical point Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because patriarchy is not\Na competition between men and women Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Rather, it's an endless competition\Nfor dominance Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,wherein men are pitted against each other\Nfor a place in what RW Connell calls: Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"the hierarchy of masculinities" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The white heterosexual hyper\Nmasculine ideal Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is at the top of the hierarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All other forms of manhood especially\Nthose in any way associated with Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,homosexuality or femininity\Nare pushed further down on the hierarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"When you're slapped, you'll\Ntake it and like it" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Recall that when the Kens go to war\Nit isn't against the Barbies Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's against the other Kens Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"We go to war" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Against the Barbies?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No, against the Kens" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"But we are the Kens" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"The other Kens" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Up until this point, I've been mining\Nthe Barbies movie to help illustrate Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how patriarchy works Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the usefulness of the film's\Nnarrative is limited Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,especially when it comes to\Nmale competition Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Looks this beach is a little\Ntoo much beach for you, Ken" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"If I wasn't severely injured,\NI would beach you off right now, Ken" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,," I'll beach you up with you any day, Ken" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You may remember for example Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that long before they ever discover\Nwhat patriarchy even is Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ken and Ken are engaged\Nin a bitter competition Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,over control of Barbie's\Ntime and attention Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Bet you can't do a flip like that, Ken" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is where the Barbies script\Nis perhaps Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a little too clever for its own good Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because it's many overlapping\Nmetaphors and allegories Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,leave us with some mixed messages\Nabout the Kens Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the rivalry between the Kens\Nmay work as a sort of gender flipped Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,commentary on how women are taught\Nto seek validation through male attention Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I only exist within \Nthe warmth of your gaze" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is less successful however, as part of \Nthe film's larger critique of patriarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because the Ken's competitive rivalry \Ncarries with it some uncomfortable Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,echoes of male entitle Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I bet you're scared and \NI bet she doesn't even wanted to go" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that behavior is not attributed to\Npatriarchy in the first half of the movie Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is confusing because it\Ndefinitely should be Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hi, Barbie" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[grunt] Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hi, Ken" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hi, Ken" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The thing about being obsessed\Nwith control Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that it traps men in a cycle of fear Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hi, Barbie" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hi, Ken" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The more men value control,\Nthe more they're afraid of losing it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This leaves men riddled with anxiety\Nabout not measuring up to other men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which means they can never truly feel\Nsecure in their own masculinity Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I made a double bet with Ken and you can't\Nmake me look uncool in front of Ken" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ken's not cool" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"He is to me" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the movie the patriarchal battle\Nfor dominance Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,culminates in an absurdest dream ballet Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but in reality the consequences\Ncan be deadly serious Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most violence in the real world\Nis perpetrated by men against other men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This Grim reality is part of why the\NBarbie's plan to overthrow patriarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by tricking the Kens into fighting\Neach other is so wildly misguided Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You play on their egos and their\Npetty jealousies" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"and you turn them against each other" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,While the scene is undoubtedly funny\Nand the song choice, absolutely perfect Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,aggressive competitive male behavior is\Na core feature of patriarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not a bug that can be exploited Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"And now they destroy themselves" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And for the record, men's violence\Nis definitely not something Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that women manipulate men into doing Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Something else the movie doesn't show Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is how the enormous pressures patriarchy\Nplaces on men can lead to self harm Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,either directly or indirectly through\Naddiction and other risky behaviors Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The prohibition on expressing vulnerability\Ncompounds the problem Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by making it difficult, if not impossible,\Nfor men to ask for help Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or build emotional support networks Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ken?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Oh hey, Barbie" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hi" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"How much of that did you see?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Of course all people need love,\Nintimacy and nurture Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But since patriarchy devalues caregiving\Nand labels it as feminine Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,many men feel compelled to sacrifice\Ntheir emotional sides Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in order to preserve \Ntheir identity as real men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As a result, many guys, especially\Nstraight guys Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,falsely believe that women are\Nsomehow responsible Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Oh, but I don't want you here" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Is it Ken?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ken's just a really good friend" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Goodnight" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That being rejected is tantamount to\Nwomen holding emotional intimacy hostage Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when in reality it's not women\Nbut patriarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's blocking men's access to\Nemotional and physical intimacy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So when Barbie refuses Ken's advances\Nhe becomes resentful Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he lashes out Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No you failed me" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he ends up harming everyone,\Nincluding himself Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Cry] Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Don't look at me" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In her excellent book: The Will to\NChange Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bell Hooks doesn't mince words when\Ndescribing what happens to men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,inside of patriarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Teaching boys to despise their\Nvulnerability is one way to socialize them" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"to engage in self-inflicted soul murder" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's no wonder then that Ken isn't really\Nhappy living in patriarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In fact, in Kendom land he was even further\Nalienated from Barbie Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,From his own feelings and\Nfrom the other Kens Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Part of this interview with Julia Fox Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where she's hooked up to\Na polygraph machine Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,became a viral meme on Tik Tok Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I hate the patriarchy there's\Na lot of really good men" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Answer the question" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Do I hate men? No" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"That's a lie" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The viral audio snippet stopped there Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But when we play the rest of it her answer\Nis Illuminating and nuanced Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"There's a lot of men that benefit from\Nthe systemic oppression of women" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"in our culture and society \Nand religions and I do wish that" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"more men could stand up for us" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She explains that she obviously does\Nnot hate all individual men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What she hates is the fact that most men \Ndo absolutely nothing Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to help end the oppression of women Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So what can men do to make a difference\Nin ending this system? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"The Kens.\NThey found us" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's use Allan as our proxy for this\Npart of the discussion Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,since he's the only guy who joins\Nthe Barbies' revolution Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, aside from these two brief cameos Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Sugar daddy?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No no no no, I'm not a sugar daddy.\NThis is sugar and I'm her daddy" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"And I have an earring, a magic earring" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Notice that all three of these\Ncharacters are queer coded Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and despite being men, \Nthey're marginalized Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the hierarchy of masculinities Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Allan in particular, embodies a bunch of\Ncommon mistakes Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that men make when trying to disentangle\Nthemselves from the system of patriarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The first thing Allan does is nothing Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He is a bystander who is nonetheless\Nstill afforded Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a measure of privilege in Kendom Land Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that the Barbies are not Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"And Alan likes to help me give\Nall the Kens foot massages" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No, I don't, I don't like that" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"We love it" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like some men in the real world,\NAlan might not be actively or consciously Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,participating in the oppression of women Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but he doesn't speak out against it either Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The next thing Allan does is\Ntry to escape Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As soon as he spies a way out for himself,\Nhe tries to take it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"How are you?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I'm Allan.\NDon't tell the Ken I'm trying to escape" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I cannot sit on one more leather couch\Nit's going to break my spirit" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The problem is man can't just\Nopt out of patriarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because it's been woven into the very\Nfabric of our whole society Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What, what do we do?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Just get in the car and keep it singing" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The next thing Allan tries is to engage\Nin displays of chivalrous violence Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,After learning the extent of the\Ninjustice women face Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,some men try to distance themselves\Nfrom the problem Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and from any personal culpability\Nby going after particularly, bad men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But patriarchy isn't a person Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you can't punch a a social system\Nin the face Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as much as you might want to Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Guess what happened?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I, I got into a fight I'm fine but I..." Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I think we solved feminism" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Yeah! once and for all" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"It was just like a a total melee,\Nlike on the news" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And most of the time men lashing\Nout in violence isn't helpful Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as it simply replicates\Nthe core values of patriarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Allan fumbles around for a while, but\Neventually he joins the Barbies' revolution Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and figures out how to stand with\Nthem in solidarity Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Notably though, Allan never tries to\Nconfront the Kens Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about what they're doing Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's unfortunate because\Nthe most important thing men can do Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is challenge other men\Non their behavior Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and encourage them to rebel \Nagainst patriarchal expectations Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Despite all the harm it does to women\Nand to men's well-being Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the system of patriarchy remains\Ninvisible to most people Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the Barbie movie for all its flaws,\Nmakes it visible Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is, I'd argue, at the root of why\Nso many right-wing pundits Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,were so extremely threatened\Nby this cartoony fantasy land Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not only does the film acknowledge\Nthe existence of patriarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it dares to suggest that it's not a\Nnatural or inevitable institution Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And in doing so it lays bare the\Nfundamental truth about all social systems Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they can be dismantled Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No Barbie or Ken should be\Nliving in the shadows" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Or Allan" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Choosing to confront such an\Nentrenched system Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can be risky for men and\Nextremely dangerous for women Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nonetheless, all over the world women\Nare challenging patriarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like never before in modern history Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the reality is that every day\Nmore and more men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are choosing to stand with those women\Nto join the struggle for liberation Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and to reclaim their full humanity Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Thank you" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thanks for watching Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Umm, If you like these kind of long form\Nvideo essays Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,please consider going over to Patreon\Nto help back our project there Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've also left a link to Paypal in\Nthe description below Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if 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