1 00:00:02,050 --> 00:00:03,079 (Half bell) 2 00:00:09,562 --> 00:00:18,374 (Bell) 3 00:00:31,413 --> 00:00:33,218 (FRENCH) I would like to say 4 00:00:33,356 --> 00:00:37,673 that certain people were not ok to play a game called 'Werewolves'. 5 00:00:39,504 --> 00:00:44,132 There are adults who say that it is a bad game. 6 00:00:44,215 --> 00:00:48,180 You should not play it here, because you play with death. 7 00:00:48,906 --> 00:00:50,285 You cannot do that. 8 00:00:50,584 --> 00:00:55,741 And other people say it is very good, because it's a game and you play together. 9 00:00:57,067 --> 00:01:00,385 So the question is: Is it good or not? 10 00:01:01,090 --> 00:01:05,154 What teaching can you give on this argument? 11 00:01:09,758 --> 00:01:11,136 (ENGLISH) Dear Thay, 12 00:01:11,136 --> 00:01:14,222 our friend is saying that there is a certain game. 13 00:01:14,986 --> 00:01:17,502 Some of the young people like to play it. 14 00:01:17,512 --> 00:01:20,398 It is called 'Loups-Garous', 'Werewolves.' 15 00:01:22,553 --> 00:01:26,750 Some of the adults said that they should not play this game, 16 00:01:27,515 --> 00:01:30,089 because it has something to do with death. 17 00:01:30,661 --> 00:01:34,437 And other people say that it can be a good game to play. 18 00:01:35,092 --> 00:01:38,193 So how can they resolve this question? 19 00:01:38,558 --> 00:01:44,164 And what kind of teaching can be helpful to make them understand about this? 20 00:01:46,681 --> 00:01:48,559 Do you want to say more about the game? 21 00:01:50,367 --> 00:01:56,504 (Mumbling) 22 00:02:04,106 --> 00:02:05,841 It is just a simple game. 23 00:02:05,841 --> 00:02:12,484 You have to choose at the end of a round whom you want to kill. 24 00:02:15,045 --> 00:02:18,385 There are some special characters like witches. 25 00:02:20,313 --> 00:02:24,596 And there is a vote and that vote decides who is a werewolf. 26 00:02:25,381 --> 00:02:29,544 So you have to keep the people and hopefully kill the werewolf. 27 00:02:29,698 --> 00:02:33,242 So that is why some people who have children say 28 00:02:33,242 --> 00:02:36,956 they have to kill, to choose whom they want to kill. 29 00:02:36,956 --> 00:02:39,151 And you have to defend yourself saying: 30 00:02:39,151 --> 00:02:41,433 "I am not the werewolf. Please don't kill me!" 31 00:02:41,433 --> 00:02:43,837 And all the children together have to say: 32 00:02:43,837 --> 00:02:46,779 "I think this one is the werewolf. We should kill him." 33 00:02:46,779 --> 00:02:48,862 But maybe he is innocent. 34 00:02:48,868 --> 00:02:50,742 And the object of this game is that 35 00:02:50,742 --> 00:02:54,058 the werewolves win when they kill all the normal people. 36 00:02:54,058 --> 00:02:58,592 Or the normal people win when they kill all the werewolves. 37 00:03:03,916 --> 00:03:07,912 Sister Hai Nghiem, can you help answer that question for Thay? 38 00:03:07,914 --> 00:03:11,547 (Crowd laughs) 39 00:03:12,945 --> 00:03:14,784 Maybe Thay Phap Luu also. 40 00:03:26,794 --> 00:03:29,403 Do you kill or pretend to kill? 41 00:03:32,891 --> 00:03:35,109 Do you really want to kill? 42 00:03:40,790 --> 00:03:43,299 Microphone for sister Hai Nghiem. 43 00:04:06,458 --> 00:04:08,215 Dear Thay, dear Sangha 44 00:04:12,007 --> 00:04:15,051 I have played this game in the past (laughs). 45 00:04:17,506 --> 00:04:22,283 So I feel I know the spirit of the game a little bit. 46 00:04:38,326 --> 00:04:44,441 What is inspiring for me when I play this game for children or young people... 47 00:04:48,867 --> 00:04:50,563 is that you play roles. 48 00:04:54,087 --> 00:04:59,027 Either we are an innocent villager, or we are a werewolf, 49 00:04:59,446 --> 00:05:02,437 or we are a witch or we are a little girl. 50 00:05:07,481 --> 00:05:11,792 Obviously in these roles there is the good and the evil. 51 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:19,503 The innocent people, they represent the good. 52 00:05:19,864 --> 00:05:22,086 They want to save their lives. 53 00:05:24,697 --> 00:05:28,591 The werewolves in this game represent the evil. 54 00:05:29,173 --> 00:05:31,473 They want to make victims. 55 00:05:36,459 --> 00:05:42,233 There are also some roles in this game where people actually save other people's lives 56 00:05:42,970 --> 00:05:44,593 or you can... 57 00:05:48,452 --> 00:05:53,947 or you can act in such a way that will kill more people at the same time. 58 00:05:59,517 --> 00:06:04,438 Of course you pretend this, you don't have to actually make victims. 59 00:06:05,333 --> 00:06:07,326 It is just a way of speaking. 60 00:06:07,657 --> 00:06:10,342 But some people get animated by the game. 61 00:06:12,711 --> 00:06:15,583 In this game there has to be a lot of talking 62 00:06:15,673 --> 00:06:18,572 to convince the others that you are not a werewolf 63 00:06:18,572 --> 00:06:20,681 and you should not be killed. 64 00:06:25,693 --> 00:06:29,091 Sometimes you are a werewolf and people want to kill you. 65 00:06:29,091 --> 00:06:33,557 Then you lie, because you say: "No no, I am not a werewolf." 66 00:06:38,284 --> 00:06:39,463 So... 67 00:06:40,659 --> 00:06:45,512 I think that sometimes you sort of play with fire in this game: 68 00:06:47,654 --> 00:06:49,107 You lie or... 69 00:06:51,525 --> 00:06:54,511 or you try to kill someone that is innocent. 70 00:07:03,879 --> 00:07:09,114 I think that something we can learn from a game like this is that... 71 00:07:14,045 --> 00:07:18,279 that we can have roles together when we are in a community, 72 00:07:19,092 --> 00:07:20,787 but it does not have to... 73 00:07:23,191 --> 00:07:27,509 it does not have to become...so violent. 74 00:07:30,176 --> 00:07:35,720 Maybe the children could think of a game which is similar to 'Werewolves', 75 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:39,470 where you have to discuss together and you also have roles, 76 00:07:39,496 --> 00:07:41,926 but maybe you won't have to kill people. 77 00:07:41,926 --> 00:07:44,383 Maybe instead of killing... 78 00:07:47,084 --> 00:07:48,797 we can make projects or... 79 00:07:53,676 --> 00:07:56,782 we can gain some wisdom together 80 00:07:59,690 --> 00:08:05,345 or save the...weaker, the needy. 81 00:08:11,411 --> 00:08:14,214 I hope that Thay will contribute something more. 82 00:08:14,214 --> 00:08:16,588 (Crowd laughs) 83 00:08:21,514 --> 00:08:26,230 I think the children can sit down and discuss about this 84 00:08:27,066 --> 00:08:28,835 and come to a conclusion. 85 00:08:32,004 --> 00:08:32,986 If a... 86 00:08:34,779 --> 00:08:41,242 If a game is not approved by a number of people, 87 00:08:41,690 --> 00:08:46,983 then we can change the way of playing so that everyone can accept it. 88 00:08:49,562 --> 00:08:55,762 You know, I came from a country where killing took place every day, every night 89 00:08:55,768 --> 00:08:57,273 and many people died. 90 00:08:58,510 --> 00:09:00,964 One side was the communist. 91 00:09:01,797 --> 00:09:04,416 And one side was the anticommunist. 92 00:09:07,781 --> 00:09:11,084 And they kill each other every day, every night, 93 00:09:11,557 --> 00:09:14,894 because they think of the other side as evil. 94 00:09:17,977 --> 00:09:21,036 And the suffering went on for many, many years. 95 00:09:21,848 --> 00:09:25,333 That is a game, a horrible game. 96 00:09:28,909 --> 00:09:33,246 So our thinking about good and evil is very important. 97 00:09:36,066 --> 00:09:38,508 Do not... 98 00:09:39,003 --> 00:09:41,777 Do not try to say: "This is evil! 99 00:09:45,009 --> 00:09:48,286 And if something is evil we have to kill it." 100 00:09:49,590 --> 00:09:51,161 Do not think like that. 101 00:09:56,728 --> 00:09:58,937 Suppose someone is sick. 102 00:10:00,225 --> 00:10:08,103 He has a kind of virus or bacteria that makes him very sick. 103 00:10:16,219 --> 00:10:17,588 And we want to... 104 00:10:20,781 --> 00:10:22,700 We want to help him or her. 105 00:10:27,106 --> 00:10:34,551 We have to kill the disease, the sickness in him or in her and not kill her, right? 106 00:10:38,684 --> 00:10:47,204 You have to kill the virus, the bacteria and not the person, right? 107 00:10:49,001 --> 00:10:54,032 So when someone is violent because someone is injust, 108 00:10:56,226 --> 00:10:58,966 when someone is a criminal, 109 00:11:01,842 --> 00:11:07,498 we should not try to kill him or her, but we try to kill the violence, 110 00:11:11,060 --> 00:11:13,078 the anger in him or in her. 111 00:11:15,149 --> 00:11:16,520 Do not kill. 112 00:11:17,048 --> 00:11:20,595 That is why during the war in Vietnam Thay wrote a song. 113 00:11:21,644 --> 00:11:24,205 And he asked the young people to sing it on the street. 114 00:11:24,596 --> 00:11:26,372 "Our enemies are not men. 115 00:11:26,665 --> 00:11:29,804 If we kill men, with whom shall we live?" 116 00:11:31,915 --> 00:11:33,888 It became a folk song. 117 00:11:38,410 --> 00:11:42,424 That is why our principle is no killing. 118 00:11:42,598 --> 00:11:50,465 We do not kill any people, any person, even if he is a terrorist or a criminal. 119 00:11:52,020 --> 00:11:57,140 We want to kill the wrong perception, 120 00:11:58,243 --> 00:11:59,467 and... 121 00:12:00,418 --> 00:12:05,072 and the ignorance, the hate, the fear, the violence in him or in her. 122 00:12:05,072 --> 00:12:07,776 We don't want to kill him or her. 123 00:12:09,097 --> 00:12:12,142 That is why you have to create a kind of game 124 00:12:12,142 --> 00:12:16,888 where we don't kill the person but we kill the evil in that person. 125 00:12:17,611 --> 00:12:21,403 That evil is violence, anger and hate. 126 00:12:22,301 --> 00:12:31,451 But you have to be very skillful to kill the violence, the hate in a person. 127 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:39,872 And with the practice of mindful talking, mindful listening 128 00:12:40,604 --> 00:12:44,627 you can help a person remove anger and violence in him or in her. 129 00:12:45,532 --> 00:12:47,583 You cannot do that with guns. 130 00:12:52,572 --> 00:12:57,446 That is the first thing we have to learn: never kill a man, a woman. 131 00:12:58,340 --> 00:13:01,035 Only kill the evil in him or in her. 132 00:13:02,201 --> 00:13:04,807 But you do not need weapons in order to kill. 133 00:13:06,288 --> 00:13:10,152 You need the practice of compassion of listening. 134 00:13:11,553 --> 00:13:16,932 That is the first part of the answer. The second part of the answer is deeper. 135 00:13:17,689 --> 00:13:21,063 Because you know that nothing is born and nothing dies 136 00:13:21,063 --> 00:13:24,243 that is why you cannot even kill anger. 137 00:13:25,112 --> 00:13:27,914 You transform anger into something else. 138 00:13:29,868 --> 00:13:33,972 You cannot kill a cloud, you can help a cloud to become rain. 139 00:13:35,286 --> 00:13:38,935 So there is a way to transform anger and violence 140 00:13:39,519 --> 00:13:42,224 into something else that is more pleasant, 141 00:13:42,227 --> 00:13:47,002 like compassion, understanding and reconciliation. 142 00:13:47,513 --> 00:13:50,864 And that you can do with the practice of meditation. 143 00:13:50,864 --> 00:13:52,821 That is what we learn here. 144 00:13:56,403 --> 00:13:58,342 We do not even kill... 145 00:14:01,141 --> 00:14:04,801 We do not even want to kill anger or hate 146 00:14:05,648 --> 00:14:08,046 because we know that nothing dies. 147 00:14:08,169 --> 00:14:12,433 But we know we can transform anger and hate into something positive 148 00:14:12,433 --> 00:14:14,332 like understanding and love. 149 00:14:14,924 --> 00:14:20,889 And in Plum Village we learn how to transform anger into compassion. 150 00:14:23,436 --> 00:14:27,179 We learn how to transform violence into gentleness. 151 00:14:30,914 --> 00:14:33,501 And the children can learn. 152 00:14:34,095 --> 00:14:37,361 And when they go back to school, this September, 153 00:14:37,509 --> 00:14:39,596 they know how to deal with 154 00:14:42,874 --> 00:14:46,762 the children who are violent and have a lot of anger in them. 155 00:14:47,606 --> 00:14:50,528 We don't want to punish them or hit them. 156 00:14:50,528 --> 00:14:55,765 But we want to help them to be less violent, less angry. 157 00:14:57,089 --> 00:14:59,752 And you can learn that in Plum Village. 158 00:15:00,083 --> 00:15:03,961 And you can help your fellow students in the class. 159 00:15:07,173 --> 00:15:12,755 Ask your mentors here in Plum Village how to do that. 160 00:15:18,145 --> 00:15:22,779 And create a kind of game that can help us to learn. 161 00:15:25,906 --> 00:15:29,830 This person, this guy, is supposed to be evil. 162 00:15:31,167 --> 00:15:34,177 And people say that we have to kill him. 163 00:15:34,188 --> 00:15:35,623 Can we kill a person? 164 00:15:37,721 --> 00:15:38,566 No! 165 00:15:39,703 --> 00:15:46,497 We have to help him or her not to be violent, not to be angry. 166 00:15:48,034 --> 00:15:49,035 But how? 167 00:15:49,688 --> 00:15:52,243 So we can create many kinds of games. 168 00:15:52,243 --> 00:15:55,338 There are plenty of games, beautiful games. 169 00:15:55,925 --> 00:16:02,398 Why don't we spend our time playing in such a way that we can learn more. 170 00:16:04,310 --> 00:16:05,487 Thank you! 171 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:09,015 (Half bell) 172 00:16:12,477 --> 00:16:21,580 (Bell)