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Ok, let's recap what happened
last episode.

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After his hard work, Tianqi finally
earned some recognition at his job.

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But the same day Nana got reprimanded.
Tianqi couldn't wait to share his news.

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But it ended in a big blow up.

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Do you even know how sad I've been lately?

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I've been feeling so worthless.

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In other news, Carmon and Hao have been
making good progress.

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Baking cakes, wiping sweat, brushing
shoulders, rolling sleeves, tucking hair.

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And at the end of last week, Curry started
planning a group dinner.

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Not sure what he has up his sleeve.
Let's take a look.

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Episode 9 (First Half), Week 9
Even Youthful People Have To Grow Up

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Hey Dad, uh... is this right?

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I thought you said this was easy!
I feel ridiculous right now.

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I worried it won't be ready in time,
she's leaving for work soon.

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-Morning!
-Good morning!

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-What are you doing?
-Making brown sugar mochi.

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It looks a little ridiculous.

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-What's this stuff?
-That's my mochi...

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-Ok.
-I'm frying it. Stand back.

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My first time frying.

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-It's good, it's good.
-Awesome.

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Do you wanna wear an apron or something?

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Sure.

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Wait, is it...

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-Yeah, the chopsticks are wet.
-Yeah.

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Thank you, thank you.

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I feel bad for you.

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-Come on.
-One more try. Stand back.

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-How about I try?
-I'll help you with the apron.

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Thank you.

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[panelist] Like an old couple.
[panelist] They match.

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Actually it looks alright,
when it's fried.

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Really? I didn't expect that.

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Hasn't your work been stressful lately?
Eating some of these should help you.

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-Were you making them for me?
-Of course!

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But it's honestly just silly, I don't
know. It might turn out really badly.

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My dad's been coaching me remotely.

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Then... looks like it might've been better
to coach you in person.

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It's a mess.

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I should've like, filmed myself just now
so my dad could walk me though it.

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If you've never made this, why'd you
work so hard to do it today?

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My dad made me. Because
my dad once used this...

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to win over my mom.

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Ok.

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[panelist] "Ok."
[panelist] "Win over my mom".

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[panelist] That actually looks decent.

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Quick, try it while it's hot.

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Is it... is it good?

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-It's not bad.
-You look pained.

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Is this cooked through? It is.

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-Sorry.
-No, no, no.

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-How long did this take you?
-I thought it would take 20 minutes.

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But then...yeah, I ended up rolling the
dough for like, over an hour.

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-Yeah...
-But you never cook.

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Yeah. And my dad was teaching me.
I feel like he hasn't made it for ages.

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Chu Mengna (Nana)
Student, 22 years old

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Wang Tianqi
Salesperson, 26 years old

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Wu Kawen (Carmon)
Designer, 29 years old

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Liu Keli (Curry)
Entrepreneur, 29 years old

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Li Xing (Hao)
Manager, 35 years old

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Chen Liuming (Ming)
Financial Advisor, 26 years old

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[panelist] "Happy Dinner
from Handsome Curry"

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[panelist] Why's he dressed up?
[panelist] What's happening?

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[panelist] His cooking looks so good.
[panelist] Wow, this crab...

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[panelist] Making me hungry.

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Comrades! Dinner time!

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Coming!

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Smells so good!

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What's the occasion?

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-I'm made a feast tonight.
-What's the special day?

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Curry, you look so handsome today!

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I'm your...tonight I'm your
private catering chef.

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You're so official.

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You even made non-Szechuan food tonight.

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So official...and you're dressed to
the nines.

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Today is a very important date.

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He's confessing.

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-No, no.
-Shit, I said it too loudly.

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Where are the others?

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-Tianqi!
-Coming, coming.

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-Can I sit in the middle tonight?
-Ok.

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Ok? Save this seat for me.

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-Then...ok.
-Ok.

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Should we ask Ming where she is?

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She should be back soon, I
texted her just now.

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Seems like there's something to celebrate.

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You can say that.

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I think she's back.

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-Hello!
-You're back!

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There's a big surprise waiting for you.

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We're...waiting for you to come drink.

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Don't be nervous,
swirling the glass like that.

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-Take it easy.
-No, I'm letting it breathe.

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Just letting it breathe a little.

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-Easy, easy.
-Yeah, yeah.

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-You need a clear head.
-Hello!

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-Hi!
-What do you think?

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-This...
-Look--

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-They're all your favorite dishes.
-It's prawns! My favorite!

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-Did you make all this yourself?
-Yes.

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Shanghai food.

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You're so amazing. I can't believe
it's all of my favorite dishes.

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Yeah?

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You've got skills, Curry.
Well done, well done.

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Alright, thank you.

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Why so official today? I thought when
you said group dinner you meant we were

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gonna gather for a spicy stir
fry hot pot or something. Like that.

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Actually tonight is a...I think a
very secret and special occasion.

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-When he says "secret" now I get scared.
-Yeah.

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What if ten dogs suddenly come
running out?

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So it's like this. So--

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regarding the reason it's secret and
special, I think we should eat first.

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-Keep us in suspense.
-The suspense is crucial.

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Anyways, I'm very happy that we have
a new gentleman and lady.

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And it's our first time eating together
as a group. Alright? Let's drink to that.

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-Alright! Yay!
-Here.

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So happy to meet you guys!

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-How should we drink?
-You mean bottom's up? Or...what?

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-Classy.
-Ok, ok.

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-How about this? I'll empty it.
-You're showing off?

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No, it's like this. I have to drink a
glass before I can fully tell you guys

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why today is such a secret and special
occasion.

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-We're excited.
-Right.

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Curry's surprises always make me...

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This guy.

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-I'm emptying a second glass.
-Another?

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How many glasses
before you tell us?

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-Three glasses.
-Three?

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-Ok.

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I feel... kind of....

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-I'm doing it.
-So excited.

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-We're all waiting.
-I'm so excited.

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Ok, so you've talked it all up.
Now the big reveal.

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What is it?

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Alright.

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I'll explain to you all now why today is
so secret and so special.

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This meal I've prepared expresses all the
feelings I have about living here.

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Including all of the...gratitude I feel
towards each of you and...

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Why are you getting sad all of a sudden?

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Actually it's like this. So I've
recently received some good news.

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My company's first webseries is finally
ready for wide release.

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So in the last week we've been busy with
a flurry of operations work.

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Afterwards, the staff strongly advised
me to come back home to work with them.

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So, uh...

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it's like this--

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I...weighed out the pros and cons.

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Actually up until this year, I was a
failed entrepreneur.

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And I decided to put my all into this
pivot. It's been a lot of pressure.

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I want very badly to succeed.
To show all of my friends.

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To show all my former collaborators.
To show my parents.

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So to me, my career is everything.

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So you've decided to leave the house?

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Yes.

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So when are you leaving?

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Probably within these next two days.

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Because they really do need me there.

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I understand.

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Actually the reason I moved here in the
first place was because of my staff.

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And my family. They thought I
was too strong-willed.

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And I wasn't giving them any
personal space at home.

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I was hoping that through living here
and being with all of you,

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I'd be able to change myself a little.

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And I could learn how to get
along with people. So I hope...

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I'll be able to respect my staff's
opinions more.

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And the other reason I moved in here was
because I ended a relationship in May.

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I've been single since then, for
about half a year.

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But as luck will have it, on that day you
moved in I was the one who let you in.

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I thought it was the takeout!

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And then she walked in, and I really
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compared to other three girls
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she gave me a very different...

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...just a different feeling.

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So...

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it really gave me good vibes.

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So, so in this time that we've shared,
I've been trying to get closer, like--

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So I was trying... when I cooked on
the first day,

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or when I wanted to train for
the marathon with you...

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Although really I've wanted
to do a marathon for a while now.

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And then when I took you to the dog
breeder,

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and when I cooked tonight's dinner

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it's, um...

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how adults do romance.

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I believe it's a slow process
of getting to know one another.

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In fact, my real intention is to find that
truly compatible person.

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So I think taking the time to get to know
each other is not a bad thing.

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Thank you. Thank you for giving me this

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this...energy and excitement to
want to to do things for a woman.

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So sweet.

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-No, no, no..
-Sorry, sorry, I'm kidding!

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Of course, I said all of this stuff
without your permission.

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I hope you won't mind.

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But to tell the truth, when it comes to
personality,

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I think that Ming and I are
two birds of a feather.

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Where do you get all this confidence?

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Just--

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Not confidence, just... why would you...

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I actually think that you and I are very
different types of people.

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Okay.

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Because I'm a really, really slow-moving
person. I'm very even-tempered.

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But you're more the impatient type,
you get angry more easily. Right?

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Right?
-Right, right.

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Actually, I'm a little afraid of men
who are emotionally very up and down.

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Because I don't know when you might
just...lose control.

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You're a little...you're really a little
like my dad.

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[panelist] She's tactfully rejecting him.
[panelist] She's so tactful!

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[panelist] He's gonna cry.

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I also think you're still growing
in your career right now.

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In my work, I also meet a lot of
entrepreneurs like you.

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Entrepreneurs really aren't cut out for
romance.

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What I said probably sounds like
a rejection. But from my perspective,

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I really hope you can
focus on your career.

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[panelist] Aw, he's crying!

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Because...maybe it's selfish.
Because I want to be, for my own partner,

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I always want him to put
me above his career.

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Because you know how I said before, I
had a really bad relationship?

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And the problem was just one thing --
he always put his work before me.

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When he had to choose, he always
chose...he always chose his work.

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I don't ever want to be in a relationship
or a romance like that again.

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I think it would really hurt me.

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I think what I'm looking for in
a boyfriend might...I might lean towards

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men like Hao. That type.

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[panelist] She's still dropping hints
to Hao!

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-Here, have some.
-Oh, thank you.

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[panelist] Feeding Carmon! Nice!

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[panelist] This whole dynamic is amazing.

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But it's still a bit of a pity.

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He's hurt.

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I just don't get why he didn't pull her
aside to say this part.

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Why did he put the others through that?
-Just to make everyone feel bad.

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That was a mess.

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-I'm cringing so hard.
-That ruined my day.

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That ruined your day?
You're a little sensitive!

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I'm sorry! But seeing you makes my
day good again.

238
00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:08,540
If you say that ruined your day,
that makes me feel bad!

239
00:19:08,540 --> 00:19:11,860
My day is ruined and my happiness is gone,
I'm so sad!

240
00:19:13,060 --> 00:19:15,340
-You're too much.
-I agree.

241
00:19:15,340 --> 00:19:19,860
-He really is a good person.
-When he's hurt, we also feel...

242
00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:22,660
-But we all know he...
-Had it coming.

243
00:19:22,660 --> 00:19:24,480
-Just--
-No--

244
00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:28,140
It's just that his actions really...

245
00:19:28,140 --> 00:19:30,180
You guys are the worst. You two.

246
00:19:31,620 --> 00:19:32,720
I'm distancing myself.

247
00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:36,160
No, really, in my head I already think
of him as my friend.

248
00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:39,220
Really? You'd treat a friend like that?

249
00:19:40,700 --> 00:19:44,080
If your friend got rejected you'd say he
had it coming? You'd say that?

250
00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:47,660
He did the wrong thing, but you do feel
really bad for him.

251
00:19:47,660 --> 00:19:49,580
-Do you?
-I do. I feel bad.

252
00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:54,140
-But actually we guessed that he'd leave.
-Yeah.

253
00:19:54,140 --> 00:19:57,820
But we didn't expect him to shoot
his shot at the last minute like that.

254
00:19:57,820 --> 00:20:01,240
And he just completely...
it was just awful to watch.

255
00:20:01,870 --> 00:20:04,050
Never confess with others
watching, ok?

256
00:20:04,050 --> 00:20:05,820
Never ever confess like that.

257
00:20:05,820 --> 00:20:09,410
It was terrible. I was just thinking that
if I were Ming, I'd be speechless.

258
00:20:09,410 --> 00:20:12,480
I'd be sitting there holding my glass
and he'd be going on and on

259
00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:15,260
and I'd be thinking, why are
you doing this right now?

260
00:20:15,260 --> 00:20:18,120
-Yeah, it's so bad.
-Just stop talking. Just stop.

261
00:20:18,120 --> 00:20:20,780
Yeah, he made that girl so uncomfortable.

262
00:20:20,780 --> 00:20:25,060
Really uncomfortable. It puts a lot
of pressure on the other person.

263
00:20:25,060 --> 00:20:29,500
But Ming really...handled it well.
-She wasn't having it.

264
00:20:29,500 --> 00:20:35,710
She was feeling the heat, but she still
rejected Curry very commendably.

265
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:39,860
I don't think she really rejected him
because of his career. She just said that

266
00:20:39,860 --> 00:20:43,700
to let him down gently. I could
see the gears in her head whirring, like

267
00:20:43,700 --> 00:20:47,460
what can I say right now to make this
less awkward and give him some dignity?

268
00:20:47,460 --> 00:20:51,000
-Then what's her real reason?
-It's because she just doesn't like him.

269
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,100
-That's true.
-And did you guys notice

270
00:20:53,100 --> 00:20:56,420
how high and mighty he acted when he was
confessing?

271
00:20:56,420 --> 00:20:58,340
Like a boss
commending his subordinate.

272
00:20:58,340 --> 00:21:00,960
He's not confessing.
He's announcing.

273
00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:03,620
I'm announcing that I like you.

274
00:21:03,620 --> 00:21:06,280
Do you think he only has one
way of expressing himself?

275
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:10,700
Yes. So, Curry, I have some advice for
you. If you have to say something,

276
00:21:10,700 --> 00:21:13,280
don't start with the word "actually."

277
00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:18,260
There's a genre of comedy called "improv
comedy." And in improv, we have a rule.

278
00:21:18,260 --> 00:21:21,560
It's called "Yes, and." No matter what
someone else says,

279
00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:24,000
you have to respond with "yes, and..."

280
00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:27,640
If you practice this, it'll help you.
-It will.

281
00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:29,220
-It helps you in work too.
-Yes.

282
00:21:29,220 --> 00:21:33,900
-In teamwork.
-And with your staff troubles too.

283
00:21:33,900 --> 00:21:35,500
-Yes.
-Yeah.

284
00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:40,490
In his meetings, somebody probably says
something and he says "Actually..."

285
00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:44,340
The word "actually" is not a good word
to start off with.

286
00:21:44,940 --> 00:21:48,260
If someone says something, just reply
to their thought, alright?

287
00:21:48,260 --> 00:21:50,860
Just a teeny suggestion, don't
be mad at me!

288
00:21:50,860 --> 00:21:54,340
When he hears this he's going to go,
"Actually Li Dan, it's like this..."

289
00:21:56,460 --> 00:22:01,780
I think Curry might've never met someone
like Ming before.

290
00:22:01,780 --> 00:22:03,460
-Mature.
-So he really fell for her.

291
00:22:03,460 --> 00:22:05,650
Ming's not the same type of
person as Curry.

292
00:22:05,650 --> 00:22:07,750
She's the person Curry
wants to become.

293
00:22:07,750 --> 00:22:11,920
She said what I'm looking for
in a boyfriend is someone like Hao.

294
00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:13,400
And when Hao heard that,

295
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:16,820
-Quick, give her food.
-Quick, give her food.

296
00:22:16,820 --> 00:22:18,900
Brother Hao, ladies and gentleman!

297
00:22:18,900 --> 00:22:21,160
-That was all-out battle right there.
-Amazing.

298
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:24,020
-Hao's confessions have all been private.
-Yes.

299
00:22:24,020 --> 00:22:26,460
-Way better.
-And they happened organically.

300
00:22:26,460 --> 00:22:28,380
They weren't like
elaborate ceremonies.

301
00:22:28,380 --> 00:22:30,690
He just does his thing, makes
the cake, mochi

302
00:22:30,690 --> 00:22:33,520
and then suddenly says,
"This is how my dad wooed my mom."

303
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:36,520
It's just the two of them, very intimate.
He didn't announce it.

304
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:39,880
He wasn't like "today I've made
a secret and special mochi for you."

305
00:22:40,500 --> 00:22:44,960
And let's be honest-- his mochi, his
cooking skills are far below Curry's.

306
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:47,540
If you compare it like that,
it's kind of painful.

307
00:22:47,540 --> 00:22:50,020
But since he communicates well,
it doesn't matter.

308
00:22:50,020 --> 00:22:54,760
And Hao texting his dad-- that gesture
made me think he really likes Carmon.

309
00:22:55,080 --> 00:23:00,460
It's so dedicated. He'd seek out his
dad to ask him about making the dough.

310
00:23:01,820 --> 00:23:05,960
Then let's watch the rest of Curry's
departure. Sigh, our Curry...

311
00:23:06,380 --> 00:23:08,100
We feel sorry for you, but...

312
00:23:08,100 --> 00:23:11,390
-But what can we do...
-We don't know what to do with you.

313
00:23:26,900 --> 00:23:28,120
It sucks.

314
00:23:42,860 --> 00:23:43,620
What?

315
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:48,920
Just, ugh, another person gone...

316
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:51,800
and so suddenly, why is it always
so sudden?

317
00:23:53,740 --> 00:23:55,460
One meal, and he's gone like that.

318
00:23:57,100 --> 00:23:58,560
Do you think...

319
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:00,600
Curry...

320
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:04,300
Like, why did he leave so suddenly?

321
00:24:05,740 --> 00:24:08,940
Didn't he say like, his team
needed him?

322
00:24:10,060 --> 00:24:12,440
But I honestly think that isn't

323
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:16,700
something he absolutely
needs to leave for.

324
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:23,140
So I actually think like, no matter
how much his team needs him,

325
00:24:23,140 --> 00:24:28,080
he definitely wouldn't have left like this
if Ming had shown a little interest.

326
00:24:31,420 --> 00:24:34,820
I think the two of them probably had
some kind of private conversation

327
00:24:34,820 --> 00:24:36,780
that made Curry finally...
give up.

328
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:42,120
I hope his work goes well at least.

329
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:47,000
Hang on, I got a call.

330
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:54,040
Hello?

331
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:10,280
What's up?

332
00:25:21,260 --> 00:25:23,840
My professor just called me.

333
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:24,920
Your professor?

334
00:25:25,740 --> 00:25:27,080
What did she say?

335
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:28,220
She said...

336
00:25:33,380 --> 00:25:36,860
So you know how I
was trying out that role?

337
00:25:36,860 --> 00:25:41,420
She just switched me out for someone else
again.

338
00:25:41,420 --> 00:25:43,060
Why?

339
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:48,480
She didn't like your acting?

340
00:25:53,700 --> 00:25:55,660
Because you didn't make me zhajiangmian.

341
00:25:57,860 --> 00:25:58,640
I...

342
00:26:00,300 --> 00:26:02,480
You know who actually called
me just now?

343
00:26:03,380 --> 00:26:04,740
It wasn't your professor?

344
00:26:05,100 --> 00:26:08,540
No, I was playing a joke on you!
Guess who it was. Just guess.

345
00:26:10,120 --> 00:26:12,160
How am I supposed to guess? Your mom.

346
00:26:12,940 --> 00:26:18,620
I just got a call from Professor Lai
Sheng Chuan's office.

347
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:20,520
Are you kidding?

348
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:21,920
The one from the play?

349
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:24,160
Yes! The director of that
play we watched!

350
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:27,620
-Why would he call you?
-Because Chen Jianbin, Teacher Chen...

351
00:26:27,620 --> 00:26:32,620
He's one of the panelists for SH Share
Life, and he got me an audition!

352
00:26:35,460 --> 00:26:36,800
You're so amazing.

353
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:41,690
-Wow, amazing!
-So Teacher Chen, you connected her?

354
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:45,620
-Can you get me a connection too?
-I want to act too, Teacher Chen!

355
00:26:49,460 --> 00:26:52,860
-Is this really happening?
-Congrats, congrats!

356
00:26:52,860 --> 00:26:53,660
-Did that hurt?
-It hurt.
-Is this really happening?
-Congrats, congrats!

357
00:26:53,660 --> 00:26:55,760
-Did that hurt?
-It hurt.

358
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:59,040
Really?? I have to work my hardest, you
have to make me.

359
00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:01,760
-I will.
-I'll work hard!

360
00:27:03,420 --> 00:27:06,360
Hey, if you... you said you're about
to make it now...

361
00:27:10,120 --> 00:27:12,660
Do you remember when we discussed
what would happen...

362
00:27:12,660 --> 00:27:15,735
when the two of us finally achieved
something...in our work?

363
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:18,600
What did you say?

364
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:20,220
Please say that again?

365
00:27:22,420 --> 00:27:26,140
-Oh, so you're denying it now?
-What are you...what are you saying?

366
00:27:26,140 --> 00:27:28,100
No, didn't you say back then, how
when

367
00:27:28,100 --> 00:27:31,140
the two of us had more stable careers...
right?

368
00:27:32,300 --> 00:27:33,760
Then we would...?

369
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:38,720
Then we would what?

370
00:27:41,180 --> 00:27:44,660
Date! It's not romantic if you make
me say it.

371
00:27:46,180 --> 00:27:47,820
You have to say what you mean!

372
00:27:48,540 --> 00:27:52,760
Then...wait until I get the part. Wait,
what if I don't get it?

373
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:56,460
If you don't...we should
still date, I think.

374
00:27:56,460 --> 00:27:58,760
-Why?
-I don't care about that!

375
00:28:01,900 --> 00:28:09,280
Then...for now, can you just support me
as I jump this last hurdle?

376
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:10,000
Sure.

377
00:28:13,940 --> 00:28:15,520
-Then it's a deal.
-Pinky swear.

378
00:28:20,620 --> 00:28:23,140
-Do your best.
-I'll do my best.

379
00:28:38,180 --> 00:28:41,580
-It's so sudden. Teacher Liu leaving.
-Yeah.

380
00:28:42,860 --> 00:28:46,100
What he said today was so sudden too.
Kind of scary.

381
00:28:49,220 --> 00:28:54,780
To tell the truth, because...
I've known Curry for while now.

382
00:28:56,340 --> 00:29:01,100
I have a love-hate relationship with him.
But now that he's really leaving

383
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:03,420
I still feel...really sad.

384
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:09,180
I think he's a good guy. But he's just...

385
00:29:10,540 --> 00:29:11,980
not really my type.

386
00:29:11,980 --> 00:29:16,540
I think Hao feels a lot more relatable,
and we understand each other better,

387
00:29:16,540 --> 00:29:21,980
and there's so much more to talk about.
I feel like I can learn a lot from Hao.

388
00:29:21,980 --> 00:29:23,420
And that's important to me.

389
00:29:23,860 --> 00:29:27,560
So did you reject Curry because of Hao,
or...

390
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:37,780
No, I just think...I'll see where it goes.

391
00:29:37,780 --> 00:29:38,660
Go on some dates.

392
00:29:41,460 --> 00:29:43,880
Only if you don't mind, of course...

393
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:47,160
No, no. There's nothing between 
me and him, really.

394
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:51,520
-Hello.
-Hi!

395
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:52,620
I'm back.

396
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:56,480
-You look adorable.
-Yeah, but aren't you hot?

397
00:29:58,500 --> 00:30:02,020
-What's this?
-I thought...I expected

398
00:30:02,020 --> 00:30:03,660
the vibe to feel sad in here.

399
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:08,920
-I'm still a little bit sad.
-Yeah, of course you'd feel a little sad.

400
00:30:10,100 --> 00:30:11,420
We'll adjust to it.

401
00:30:13,260 --> 00:30:16,370
But, I think Curry was really serious
about you.

402
00:30:16,370 --> 00:30:19,300
He put so much thought into pursuing you.

403
00:30:19,300 --> 00:30:21,460
It's not gonna happen.

404
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:24,420
I think at my age, I'm already...

405
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:28,650
I wouldn't...I wouldn't like a guy just 
because he puts in a lot of effort

406
00:30:28,650 --> 00:30:33,160
and tries really hard for me.
I just can't do that anymore.

407
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,980
I wanted to make it clear tonight
because I was worried

408
00:30:36,980 --> 00:30:40,860
he'd keep thinking about it...
and...well, yeah, I just feel...

409
00:30:41,820 --> 00:30:46,480
But actually saying it clearly like that
is better for both of you.

410
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,140
Yeah, I think it's better to end it as
soon as I can.

411
00:30:49,140 --> 00:30:53,620
So we can all still be friends.
It feels natural, I think.

412
00:30:53,740 --> 00:30:57,400
So what you're saying is,
there's no chance for the two of you.

413
00:31:05,700 --> 00:31:08,340
I know exactly what I want.

414
00:31:25,660 --> 00:31:31,480
Alright, my friends! Welcome to KEEP
Live Classes. Let's start today's workout.

415
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:35,180
Three...two...one...go.

416
00:31:40,580 --> 00:31:45,080
[panelist] He's leaving!
[panelist] Seeing this makes me emotional.

417
00:32:16,460 --> 00:32:19,140
My name's Liu Keli, everyone
calls me Curry.

418
00:32:19,500 --> 00:32:21,000
-Curry?
-Yes.

419
00:32:28,580 --> 00:32:29,820
Eat up, eat up.

420
00:32:31,380 --> 00:32:33,620
Coming through. Let me through
in the middle.

421
00:32:33,620 --> 00:32:36,980
Here, give me.
Thank you to our head chef, Teacher Liu!

422
00:32:36,980 --> 00:32:38,900
-Cheers!
-Nice.

423
00:32:39,100 --> 00:32:41,360
I've decided to take you all camping 
tomorrow.

424
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:44,660
Go, Er Lang, run! Go, go!

425
00:32:47,090 --> 00:32:49,760
Our main purpose tonight is to be happy,
okay?

426
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:54,000
-Hello!
-Hello.

427
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:57,360
Hello, I'm the new house mate.

428
00:32:57,620 --> 00:33:00,920
-My name's Ming, hello.
-Hello hello.

429
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:04,960
My heart's melting.

430
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:12,070
Thank you for giving me this...energy and
excitement

431
00:33:12,070 --> 00:33:17,440
to want to to do things for a woman.

432
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:20,240
I actually think we're very different
types of people.

433
00:33:22,700 --> 00:33:24,790
Ok.

434
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:37,160
Hey.

435
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:40,480
You scared me! Why are you up so early?

436
00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:42,300
-Yeah, I'm leaving.
-You're leaving?

437
00:33:42,300 --> 00:33:43,780
-Yeah.
-Now?

438
00:33:43,780 --> 00:33:45,920
-Yeah.
-Then, let's call the others.

439
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:48,180
-They're sleeping, still...
-Let them sleep.

440
00:33:48,180 --> 00:33:51,180
-It's okay.
-I already texted them all. Its' okay.

441
00:33:55,860 --> 00:33:59,300
Come on, see me out. Don't, don't...
don't call them. No need.

442
00:34:03,020 --> 00:34:06,420
Anyways, what I said still stands.
That we're parting ways now in order

443
00:34:06,420 --> 00:34:08,920
to have a happier reunion someday.

444
00:34:11,940 --> 00:34:17,960
I'm rushing to leave because I have to 
work this morning. They're all waiting.

445
00:34:19,100 --> 00:34:22,580
Yesterday I feel like everyone 
already said what they needed to say.

446
00:34:22,580 --> 00:34:27,320
I don't really want to make everyone upset
again just to see me off.

447
00:34:30,739 --> 00:34:35,300
-I feel kind of bad.
-It's fine!

448
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:39,280
What's there to feel bad about?
Come on, see me to the door!

449
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:40,639
Alright.
I'll help take this.

450
00:34:40,639 --> 00:34:42,940
-Ok, thank you.
-Ok.

451
00:34:46,540 --> 00:34:50,880
-So you're starting work this afternoon?
-I'm starting work this morning.

452
00:34:51,300 --> 00:34:54,620
-Then I wish you all the best.
-Sure.

453
00:34:55,540 --> 00:34:59,090
Anyways once my work settles 
down a bit

454
00:34:59,090 --> 00:35:02,180
we can all grab a meal, or 
go out somewhere.

455
00:35:02,180 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaking of meals, thank you...
for all those meals you made.

456
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,580
-They really were amazing.
-No need to thank me.

457
00:35:08,030 --> 00:35:10,080
It's just part of living 
together, right?

458
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:12,340
-Ok.
-Here, I'll see you out.

459
00:35:12,620 --> 00:35:14,980
Hang on, this...

460
00:35:16,100 --> 00:35:17,020
Let me hang it.

461
00:35:19,700 --> 00:35:20,460
It's okay!

462
00:35:25,060 --> 00:35:26,700
-I'll help you.
-Here, I got it.

463
00:35:26,700 --> 00:35:28,860
-It's okay.
-Ok.

464
00:35:29,980 --> 00:35:33,640
-Ok.
-Cool. This is it, then?

465
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:37,440
-Bye!
-Alright, it's okay.

466
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:38,620
-Ok.
-Cool.

467
00:35:38,620 --> 00:35:39,800
-Bye!
-Bye!

468
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,840
-Good luck with everything.
-Ok, goodbye!

469
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:45,040
I'm going! Ok.

470
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,860
[panelist] He welcomed her in, she's
seeing him out.

471
00:35:48,860 --> 00:35:51,320
[panelist] Poetic.
[panelist] Very poetic.

472
00:36:37,860 --> 00:36:38,940
Is it cold?

473
00:36:39,580 --> 00:36:42,200
It's okay, it's better on the bike.

474
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:45,740
-The weather just changed like that.
-Yeah.

475
00:36:46,180 --> 00:36:47,940
How come you seem down today?

476
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:49,860
You know how Curry left?

477
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:58,260
My first impression of him felt so
different from my feelings about him now.

478
00:36:58,260 --> 00:37:01,680
At first I just thought he was a
bull-headed, stubborn Leo.

479
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:06,540
I don't know how to say it...

480
00:37:06,540 --> 00:37:09,360
-I'm getting tired.
-Do you wanna walk a little?

481
00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:10,060
Ok.

482
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:20,100
Don't worry, it's...it's not like
we won't see him again. Right?

483
00:37:22,380 --> 00:37:25,920
But I do feel...I do feel sorry that he
didn't even say goodbye.

484
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:32,060
-Sit for a bit, let's sit for a bit, ok?
-Ok.

485
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:47,860
Cold?

486
00:37:50,060 --> 00:37:53,060
-You're not cold?
-I'm not, I just biked. I'm hot.

487
00:37:53,060 --> 00:37:54,210
You're really not cold?

488
00:37:54,210 --> 00:37:58,490
I'm really not, I'm hot. 
I'm gonna be sweaty soon.

489
00:37:59,960 --> 00:38:04,040
Thank you. You're really not cold?

490
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:05,840
Nope. It's no big deal.

491
00:38:07,300 --> 00:38:11,300
You eat.
This one's really cute, it suits you.

492
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:14,040
-Thanks.
-Or do you want chocolate?

493
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:15,100
I'll take this.

494
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:35,620
To be honest...like...

495
00:38:36,900 --> 00:38:42,000
what happened between Curry and Ming,
I was thinking about it...

496
00:38:46,900 --> 00:38:48,820
I feel...

497
00:38:50,900 --> 00:38:54,100
like...I feel like I might...

498
00:38:56,070 --> 00:38:59,360
I might be in a similar situation.
Because I do have some thoughts

499
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,030
I wanted to share with you.

500
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:11,580
I don't know how to say it.

501
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:23,100
I think...like, seeing Curry and Ming made
me realize...

502
00:39:23,340 --> 00:39:26,940
I feel like they miscommunicated
and I don't want to be like that with you.

503
00:39:26,940 --> 00:39:30,680
Like how they were. Because I really think
you're such a great person.

504
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:33,480
You're so caring and mature.

505
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:38,500
I think you're beyond perfect.
Just a really, really good man.

506
00:39:40,340 --> 00:39:44,760
These days we've been hanging out,
I've really...tried hard to...

507
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:49,480
be open-minded about things. I think
I've been giving myself a chance.

508
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:53,780
So I've tried hard to...understand you
and get closer to you.

509
00:39:55,920 --> 00:40:00,200
I was thinking...
maybe it could work.

510
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:02,280
Maybe...it would be ok.

511
00:40:03,780 --> 00:40:05,050
But...

512
00:40:08,060 --> 00:40:10,298
but I need to be honest with myself.

513
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:19,020
Before I came to the share house,
I thought about the type of guy

514
00:40:19,020 --> 00:40:21,240
I wanted and I had some specific...

515
00:40:21,240 --> 00:40:23,180
-Standards.
-Standards.

516
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:26,580
Like...youthfulness, and

517
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:28,260
Youthfulness.

518
00:40:28,260 --> 00:40:32,080
A really outgoing smile,
a sunny smile, that type of guy.

519
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:39,740
I think...I just wanted to let you know,
and tell you...a little...more clearly...

520
00:40:39,740 --> 00:40:46,300
like...I've already held out 
for twenty-nine years.

521
00:40:48,740 --> 00:40:53,100
So if I've tried something and felt like
it doesn't work for me, I think

522
00:40:53,100 --> 00:40:55,170
I'll cut my losses.

523
00:40:56,380 --> 00:41:01,600
I feel like it's unfair to you. But...if 
something doesn't work, it is what it is.

524
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:12,820
I think...

525
00:41:13,620 --> 00:41:17,040
I'm really grateful for your attention,
but it seems like I can only...

526
00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:21,980
take a step back. As in, like,
you and me going back to being friends.

527
00:41:21,980 --> 00:41:23,060
Like that.

528
00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:32,200
But you really are a very, very good man.
Really, really.

529
00:42:05,860 --> 00:42:08,360
It's cold. Should we go back?

530
00:42:08,700 --> 00:42:10,300
Let's go back, okay?

531
00:42:10,300 --> 00:42:12,480
Give me the water, ok. I'll pack it up.

532
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:13,300
I got it.

533
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:20,980
-Let's go.
-Ok. I'll give you this.

534
00:42:20,980 --> 00:42:22,500
No worries! You wear it.

535
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:24,480
Let's go.

536
00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:33,880
-Carmon!
-What's up?

537
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:38,920
Even youthful people have to 
grow up someday.

538
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:45,400
[panelist] Even youthful people have to 
grow up someday.

539
00:43:14,900 --> 00:43:18,500
[panelist] The heartbroken little kid.

540
00:43:45,100 --> 00:43:49,920
Even youthful people have to grow up.
That sentence was kind of a critique.

541
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,600
-Yes.
-Carmon, you too will have to grow up.

542
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:56,220
Just because you've held out for 29 years
doesn't mean you get 29 more.

543
00:43:56,220 --> 00:44:00,220
But I really didn't expect Carmon
to not like Li Xing.

544
00:44:00,220 --> 00:44:02,740
Mostly because before this, the two 
of them were so..

545
00:44:02,740 --> 00:44:04,640
She was trying, 
she said she tried.

546
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:07,380
But after trying for a while,
she realizes she still

547
00:44:07,380 --> 00:44:08,700
can't see herself with him.

548
00:44:08,700 --> 00:44:12,240
Or she feels like, when she and him
get into more intimate territory...

549
00:44:12,240 --> 00:44:15,040
she feels like...it doesn't feel right.

550
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:19,440
Let's discuss something. Is someone 
like Hao a youthful person, in your eyes?

551
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:21,760
-I don't care about youthfulness.
-He's not.

552
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:25,220
What I mean by "youthfulness" is what
that word means to her.

553
00:44:25,220 --> 00:44:27,120
Which is someone like Binshen.

554
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:30,280
-She wants a youthful-looking person.
-Yeah, appearance-wise.

555
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:34,180
Binshen isn't an example of youthfulness.
You can only call adults "youthful"

556
00:44:34,180 --> 00:44:38,120
in this way. A youth with a sense
of youthfulness...

557
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:39,100
-is called a youth.

558
00:44:39,100 --> 00:44:43,180
What's the...what's the point of that?
You may as well say they're young!

559
00:44:43,180 --> 00:44:46,500
What's a youth without youthfulness?
Aren't all youths youthful?

560
00:44:46,500 --> 00:44:50,300
After I heard Carmon say that, I felt like
she must like a guy like me.

561
00:44:53,720 --> 00:44:57,540
Did you seriously just say that
about yourself? Shameless!

562
00:44:57,540 --> 00:44:59,960
Wait, hold on. Da Xun, show us a
youthful smile.

563
00:44:59,960 --> 00:45:01,320
Let me see. A sunny smile.

564
00:45:03,720 --> 00:45:07,220
I can't, I can't do it intentionally.
You can't force youthfulness.

565
00:45:07,220 --> 00:45:11,340
Yes, yes. What he said is exactly right.
You can't force youthfulness.

566
00:45:11,340 --> 00:45:14,730
But do you think he's normally like,
youthful?

567
00:45:15,780 --> 00:45:16,680
Your reaction...

568
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:20,800
-Me and Li Dan, who's more youthful?
-You two both have variety-show-ness.

569
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:23,120
You don't have any youthfulness.

570
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:25,640
How can you say that? I just said...

571
00:45:26,580 --> 00:45:30,720
-I'm not much for comparison.
-We're the same age.

572
00:45:31,100 --> 00:45:33,180
-You're the same...
-What are you saying?

573
00:45:33,180 --> 00:45:37,540
No, I'm not...I'm the same age as that
girl-- oh no, I'm a year older than her.

574
00:45:37,540 --> 00:45:38,880
Me and Ming.

575
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:43,280
Yeah, like, Ming definitely isn't
very youthful. Ming is really mature.

576
00:45:43,720 --> 00:45:50,360
I think I can accept the part where Carmon
says it just doesn't feel right to her.

577
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:55,320
But I don't really understand why her 
standards are so appearance-based.

578
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,600
-Yeah.
-That part was just...

579
00:45:57,600 --> 00:45:58,680
Shocking.

580
00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:01,680
-Kind of shocking.
-Yeah.

581
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:04,240
-Because that's not something...
-A 29 year old...

582
00:46:04,240 --> 00:46:06,910
Yeah, what kind of criteria is that
for a partner?

583
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:09,620
I personally think standards are just
excuses.

584
00:46:09,620 --> 00:46:13,300
People don't really have standards. If
I say you don't meet my standards...

585
00:46:13,300 --> 00:46:17,140
"Today I'm looking for youthfulness."
It just means you're not a good fit.

586
00:46:17,140 --> 00:46:21,240
That's what that means. It's like Ming
saying that stuff about Curry's career.

587
00:46:21,240 --> 00:46:24,600
She's just not into him. But she can't say
"I'm not into you, sorry."

588
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:29,400
I think Carmon's like that other girl.
She needs someone to take care of.

589
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:32,850
She wants to give love, not receive love.

590
00:46:32,850 --> 00:46:35,320
So many people date just to suffer,
I've realized.

591
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:39,480
You can't change them. But Ming clearly
isn't the type that likes to suffer.

592
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:42,610
No, Ming wants Li Xing to do the suffering
for her, I feel like.

593
00:46:42,720 --> 00:46:46,820
I feel like she just wants to 
chase and conquer.

594
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:49,800
One more thing -- we have to applaud
Teacher Chen.

595
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:56,330
Teacher Chen! I want to act too!

596
00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:59,060
-I want to act!
-I want to act too!

597
00:46:59,060 --> 00:47:01,000
Teacher Chen, do you think I...

598
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:03,700
You're already acting, give me a chance,
would you?

599
00:47:03,700 --> 00:47:05,140
She's just auditioning.

600
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:07,280
-I can audition!
-I want to audition!

601
00:47:08,020 --> 00:47:10,080
-Alright.
-How about me?

602
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,340
Director Lai will be thrilled about this.

603
00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:15,920
Teacher Chen, get them auditions. 
See if they actually go.

604
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:18,660
-They definitely won't.
-I would. I'd go.

605
00:47:18,660 --> 00:47:20,700
So...it was you who connected her?

606
00:47:21,620 --> 00:47:23,040
-True to your word.
-Amazing.

607
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:26,720
-It's just an audition.
-This opportunity is special for her.

608
00:47:26,720 --> 00:47:27,440
Indeed.

609
00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:30,320
Then a round of applause for Teacher Chen.

610
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:31,060
So great.

611
00:47:31,380 --> 00:47:33,560
Teacher Chen, a god.

612
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:36,000
True to his word.

613
00:47:38,240 --> 00:47:39,660
What are you doing?

614
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:43,020
-This kind of thing...
-That's him being youthful!

615
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:45,640
A five-year-old youth.

616
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:47,960
Give her an audition!

617
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:50,200
I get it. "Youthfulness" is when
you aggravate people 
[T/N: a pun].

618
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:53,080
Yes, get this youth out of here!

619
00:47:54,100 --> 00:47:56,580
Ok, let's watch the next segment!

620
00:48:05,740 --> 00:48:08,300
[panelist] A youth!
[panelist] A new youth!

621
00:48:08,860 --> 00:48:11,320
[panelist] Youthfulness!

622
00:48:11,660 --> 00:48:13,100
This is a little too youthful!

623
00:48:13,900 --> 00:48:16,620
Isn't this Kaede Rukawa?
This guy's too youthful!
[T/N: an anime character]

624
00:48:19,740 --> 00:48:22,780
-This guy's on a team, right?
-Yeah, it's Kaede Rukawa.

625
00:48:22,780 --> 00:48:25,740
-He's good.
-But what does his smile look like?

626
00:48:27,860 --> 00:48:28,860
This is too youthful.

627
00:48:28,860 --> 00:48:30,240
If his smile's okay...

628
00:48:30,240 --> 00:48:33,240
-Youth! This is a real youth!
-Youth! Basketball youth!

629
00:48:33,240 --> 00:48:36,380
-How can Carmon not like this one?
-Yeah, just what she ordered!

630
00:48:36,380 --> 00:48:39,880
-Straight out of a manga.
-He does look hot.

631
00:48:40,100 --> 00:48:43,360
He meets the criteria for youthfulness.
Pale, thin.

632
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:44,700
Tall!

633
00:48:44,700 --> 00:48:46,740
-We haven't seen his face yet.
-Athletic!

634
00:48:46,740 --> 00:48:50,380
This casting team's amazing. Whatever
you want, they'll get for you.

635
00:48:50,380 --> 00:48:54,620
You're picky? Well we got what you wanted,
let's see who's got the real problem.

636
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:57,520
Okay! That's it for today!
We'll stop rambling.

637
00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:01,900
Let's see how this new youth fits into
our Shanghai Share Life. Bye bye!

638
00:49:01,900 --> 00:49:03,800
See you next episode!

639
00:49:04,372 --> 00:49:08,372
[Translated and timed by cissy]
[Reviewed by soph]