0:00:00.639,0:00:02.378 Well, good afternoon. 0:00:02.378,0:00:04.393 How many of you 0:00:04.393,0:00:07.160 took the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge? 0:00:07.160,0:00:08.690 (Applause) 0:00:08.690,0:00:10.950 Woo hoo! 0:00:10.950,0:00:14.038 Well, I have to tell you, from [br]the bottom of our hearts, 0:00:14.038,0:00:16.818 thank you so very, very much. 0:00:16.818,0:00:19.469 Do you know to date the ALS Association 0:00:19.469,0:00:24.787 has raised 125 million dollars? 0:00:24.787,0:00:28.363 Woo hoo! (Applause) 0:00:31.239,0:00:34.513 It takes me back to the summer of 2011. 0:00:34.513,0:00:36.602 My family, my kids had all grown up. 0:00:36.602,0:00:38.228 We were officially empty nesters, 0:00:38.228,0:00:41.199 and we decided, let's [br]go on a family vacation. 0:00:41.199,0:00:43.306 Jenn, my daughter, and my son-in-law 0:00:43.306,0:00:44.880 came down from New York. 0:00:44.880,0:00:46.342 My youngest, Andrew, 0:00:46.342,0:00:48.897 he came down from his home in Charlestown 0:00:48.897,0:00:50.675 where he was working in Boston, 0:00:50.675,0:00:51.916 and my son Pete, 0:00:51.916,0:00:54.858 who had played at [br]Boston College, baseball, 0:00:54.858,0:00:57.682 had played baseball [br]professionally in Europe, 0:00:57.682,0:01:02.559 and had now come home and was selling[br]group insurance, he also joined us. 0:01:02.559,0:01:03.981 And one night, I found myself 0:01:03.981,0:01:05.602 having a beer with Pete, 0:01:05.602,0:01:08.270 and Pete was looking at [br]me and he just said, 0:01:08.270,0:01:10.460 "You know, Mom, I don't know, 0:01:10.460,0:01:14.459 selling group insurance [br]is just not my passion." 0:01:14.459,0:01:20.087 He said, "I just don't feel [br]I'm living up to my potential. 0:01:20.087,0:01:23.266 I don't feel this is my mission in life." 0:01:23.266,0:01:26.707 And he said, "You know, [br]oh by the way, Mom, 0:01:26.707,0:01:29.512 I have to leave early from vacation 0:01:29.512,0:01:33.956 because my inter-city league team [br]that I play for made the playoffs, 0:01:33.956,0:01:38.665 and I have to get back to Boston [br]because I can't let my team down. 0:01:38.665,0:01:41.880 I'm just not as passionate about my job 0:01:41.880,0:01:44.146 as I am about baseball." 0:01:44.146,0:01:47.269 So off Pete went, and [br]left the family vacation — 0:01:47.269,0:01:48.985 break a mother's heart — 0:01:48.985,0:01:53.297 and he went, and we [br]followed four days later 0:01:53.297,0:01:55.943 to see the next playoff game. 0:01:55.943,0:01:58.573 We're at the playoff game, [br]Pete's at the plate, 0:01:58.573,0:02:00.974 and a fastball's coming in, 0:02:00.974,0:02:03.290 and it hits him on the wrist. 0:02:03.290,0:02:05.540 Oh, Pete. 0:02:05.540,0:02:08.274 His wrist went completely limp, like this. 0:02:08.274,0:02:09.790 So for the next six months, 0:02:09.790,0:02:12.470 Pete went back to his home in Southie, 0:02:12.470,0:02:15.417 kept working that unpassionate job, 0:02:15.417,0:02:16.813 and was going to doctors 0:02:16.813,0:02:18.686 to see what was wrong with this wrist 0:02:18.686,0:02:20.556 that never came back. 0:02:20.556,0:02:22.522 Six months later, in March, 0:02:22.522,0:02:24.485 he called my husband [br]and me, and he said, 0:02:24.485,0:02:26.487 "Oh, Mom and Dad, we have a doctor 0:02:26.487,0:02:29.491 that found a diagnosis for that wrist. 0:02:29.491,0:02:32.647 Do you want to come with the[br]doctor's appointment with me?" 0:02:32.647,0:02:34.620 I said, "Sure, we'll come in." 0:02:34.620,0:02:37.736 That morning, Pete, John and I 0:02:37.736,0:02:40.234 all got up, got dressed, got in our cars — 0:02:40.234,0:02:41.571 three separate cars 0:02:41.571,0:02:43.338 because we were going to go to work 0:02:43.338,0:02:46.547 after the doctor's appointment to[br]find out what happened to the wrist. 0:02:46.547,0:02:49.109 We walked into the [br]neurologist's office, sat down, 0:02:49.109,0:02:50.976 four doctors walk in, 0:02:50.976,0:02:53.020 and the head neurologist sits down. 0:02:53.020,0:02:56.060 And he says, "Well, Pete, we've[br]been looking at all the tests, 0:02:56.060,0:02:59.473 and I have to tell you, [br]it's not a sprained wrist, 0:02:59.473,0:03:01.854 it's not a broken wrist, 0:03:01.854,0:03:03.900 it's not nerve damage in the wrist, 0:03:03.900,0:03:05.712 it's not an infection, 0:03:05.712,0:03:09.480 it's not Lyme disease." 0:03:09.480,0:03:13.140 And there was this deliberate [br]elimination going up, 0:03:13.140,0:03:14.723 and I was thinking to myself, 0:03:14.723,0:03:18.040 where is he going with this? 0:03:18.040,0:03:20.210 Then he put his hands on his knees, 0:03:20.210,0:03:23.361 he looked right at my [br]27-year-old kid, and said, 0:03:23.361,0:03:26.577 "I don't know how to [br]tell a 27-year-old this: 0:03:26.577,0:03:30.472 Pete, you have ALS." 0:03:30.472,0:03:32.654 ALS? 0:03:32.654,0:03:37.379 I had had a friend whose [br]80-year-old father had ALS. 0:03:37.379,0:03:39.440 I looked at my husband, he looked at me, 0:03:39.440,0:03:41.982 and then we looked at the [br]doctor, and we said, "ALS? 0:03:41.982,0:03:44.218 Okay, what treatment? Let's go. 0:03:44.218,0:03:47.523 What do we do? Let's go." 0:03:47.523,0:03:50.407 And he looked at us, and he[br]said, "Mr. and Mrs. Frates, 0:03:50.407,0:03:52.356 I'm sorry to tell you this, 0:03:52.356,0:03:56.884 but there's no treatment [br]and there's no cure." 0:03:56.884,0:03:59.729 We were the worst culprits. 0:03:59.729,0:04:02.264 We didn't even understand 0:04:02.264,0:04:04.313 that it had been 75 years since Lou Gehrig 0:04:04.313,0:04:09.805 and nothing had been done [br]in the progress against ALS. 0:04:09.805,0:04:12.975 So we all went home, and Jenn and Dan 0:04:12.975,0:04:15.166 flew home from Wall Street, 0:04:15.166,0:04:17.787 Andrew came home from Charlestown, 0:04:17.787,0:04:20.217 and Pete went to B.C. to pick up 0:04:20.217,0:04:23.436 his then-girlfriend Julie [br]and brought her home, 0:04:23.436,0:04:25.369 and six hours later after diagnosis, 0:04:25.369,0:04:28.125 we're sitting around [br]having a family dinner, 0:04:28.125,0:04:30.460 and we're having small chat. 0:04:30.460,0:04:33.279 I don't even remember [br]cooking dinner that night. 0:04:33.279,0:04:39.646 But then our leader, Pete, set the vision, 0:04:39.646,0:04:42.802 and talked to us just like [br]we were his new team. 0:04:42.802,0:04:46.493 He said, "There will be [br]no wallowing, people." 0:04:46.493,0:04:48.814 He goes, "We're not looking back, 0:04:48.814,0:04:50.869 we're looking forward. 0:04:50.869,0:04:56.623 What an amazing opportunity [br]we have to change the world. 0:04:56.623,0:04:58.958 I'm going to change the face 0:04:58.958,0:05:02.111 of this unacceptable situation of ALS. 0:05:02.111,0:05:03.969 We're going to move the needle, 0:05:03.969,0:05:08.393 and I'm going to get it in front[br]of philanthropists like Bill Gates." 0:05:08.393,0:05:11.899 And that was it. We [br]were given our directive. 0:05:11.899,0:05:14.130 So in the days and months that followed, 0:05:14.130,0:05:17.417 within a week, we had [br]our brothers and sisters 0:05:17.417,0:05:19.568 and our family come to us, 0:05:19.568,0:05:22.063 that they were already [br]creating Team Frate Train. 0:05:22.063,0:05:24.971 Uncle Dave, he was the webmaster; 0:05:24.971,0:05:27.318 Uncle Artie, he was the accountant; 0:05:27.318,0:05:30.097 Auntie Dana, she was the graphic artist; 0:05:30.097,0:05:32.648 and my youngest son, Andrew, 0:05:32.648,0:05:35.635 quit his job, left his [br]apartment in Charlestown 0:05:35.635,0:05:39.601 and says, "I'm going to take care [br]of Pete and be his caregiver." 0:05:39.601,0:05:42.942 Then all those people, [br]classmates, teammates, 0:05:42.942,0:05:45.449 coworkers that Pete had inspired 0:05:45.449,0:05:47.607 throughout his whole life, 0:05:47.607,0:05:51.715 the circles of Pete all started[br]intersecting with one another, 0:05:51.715,0:05:55.959 and made Team Frate Train. 0:05:55.959,0:05:58.060 Six months after diagnosis, 0:05:58.060,0:06:03.047 Pete was given an award at a [br]research summit for advocacy. 0:06:03.047,0:06:05.976 He got up and gave a very eloquent speech, 0:06:05.976,0:06:08.582 and at the end of the [br]speech, there was a panel, 0:06:08.582,0:06:11.480 and on the panel were these[br]pharmaceutical executives 0:06:11.480,0:06:13.890 and biochemists and clinicians 0:06:13.890,0:06:16.260 and I'm sitting there and [br]I'm listening to them 0:06:16.260,0:06:19.482 and most of the content [br]went straight over my head. 0:06:19.482,0:06:21.760 I avoided every science [br]class I ever could. 0:06:21.760,0:06:24.654 But I was watching these people,[br]and I was listening to them, 0:06:24.654,0:06:27.388 and they were saying, [br]"I, I do this, I do that," 0:06:27.388,0:06:31.319 and there was a real [br]unfamiliarity between them. 0:06:31.319,0:06:34.632 So at the end of their talk, the panel, 0:06:34.632,0:06:36.465 they had questions and answers, 0:06:36.465,0:06:38.562 and boom, my hand went right up, 0:06:38.562,0:06:39.867 and I get the microphone, 0:06:39.867,0:06:41.871 and I look at them and I say, "Thank you. 0:06:41.871,0:06:44.270 Thank you so much for working in ALS. 0:06:44.270,0:06:45.995 It means so very much to us." 0:06:45.995,0:06:47.800 I said, "But I do have to tell you 0:06:47.800,0:06:49.741 that I'm watching your body language 0:06:49.741,0:06:51.862 and I'm listening to what you're saying. 0:06:51.862,0:06:57.233 It just doesn't seem like there's a whole [br]lot of collaboration going on here. 0:06:57.233,0:07:00.375 And not only that, where's the flip chart 0:07:00.375,0:07:05.157 with the action items and the [br]follow-up and the accountability? 0:07:05.157,0:07:09.149 What are you going to do [br]after you leave this room?" 0:07:09.149,0:07:11.984 And then I turned around 0:07:11.984,0:07:18.750 and there was about 200 pairs [br]of eyes just staring at me. 0:07:18.750,0:07:22.310 And it was that point that I realized 0:07:22.310,0:07:26.781 that I had talked about [br]the elephant in the room. 0:07:26.781,0:07:29.892 Thus my mission had begun. 0:07:29.892,0:07:32.862 So over the next couple of years, 0:07:32.862,0:07:35.500 Pete — we've had our highs and our lows. 0:07:35.500,0:07:37.938 Pete was put on a compassionate use drug. 0:07:37.938,0:07:41.121 It was hope in a bottle for [br]the whole ALS community. 0:07:41.121,0:07:43.330 It was in a phase III trial. 0:07:43.330,0:07:47.916 Then six months later, the [br]data comes back: no efficacy. 0:07:47.917,0:07:50.388 We were supposed to [br]have therapies overseas, 0:07:50.388,0:07:52.537 and the rug was [br]pulled out from under us. 0:07:52.537,0:07:54.482 So for the next two years, 0:07:54.482,0:07:58.764 we just watched my son [br]be taken away from me, 0:07:58.764,0:08:02.435 little by little every day. 0:08:02.435,0:08:04.952 Two and a half years ago, 0:08:04.952,0:08:08.110 Pete was hitting home [br]runs at baseball fields. 0:08:08.110,0:08:11.940 Today, Pete's completely paralyzed. 0:08:11.940,0:08:14.306 He can't hold his head up any longer. 0:08:14.306,0:08:16.920 He's confined to a motorized wheelchair. 0:08:16.920,0:08:19.138 He can no longer swallow or eat. 0:08:19.138,0:08:21.033 He has a feeding tube. 0:08:21.033,0:08:23.698 He can't speak. 0:08:25.239,0:08:28.775 He talks with eye gaze technology 0:08:28.775,0:08:30.726 and a speech generating device, 0:08:30.726,0:08:32.195 and we're watching his lungs, 0:08:32.195,0:08:35.200 because his diaphragm [br]eventually is going to give out 0:08:35.200,0:08:39.978 and then the decision will be made[br]to put him on a ventilator or not. 0:08:39.978,0:08:49.586 ALS robs the human of all their physical [br]parts, but the brain stays intact. 0:08:49.586,0:08:54.207 So July 4th, 2014, 0:08:54.207,0:08:58.615 75th year of Lou Gehrig's [br]inspirational speech comes, 0:08:58.615,0:09:04.159 and Pete is asked by MLB.com to write[br]an article in the Bleacher Report. 0:09:04.159,0:09:11.252 And it was very significant, because he [br]wrote it using his eye gaze technology. 0:09:11.252,0:09:17.501 Twenty days later, [br]the ice started to fall. 0:09:17.501,0:09:22.176 On July 27th, Pete's [br]roommate in New York City, 0:09:22.176,0:09:24.785 wearing a Quinn For The Win shirt, 0:09:24.785,0:09:28.635 signifying Pat Quinn, another [br]ALS patient known in New York, 0:09:28.635,0:09:30.686 and B.C. shorts 0:09:30.686,0:09:35.178 said, "I'm taking the ALS [br]Ice Bucket Challenge," 0:09:35.178,0:09:37.958 picked up the ice, put it over his head. 0:09:37.958,0:09:42.166 "And I'm nominating ..." [br]And he sent it up to Boston. 0:09:42.166,0:09:45.590 And that was on July 27th. 0:09:45.590,0:09:48.161 Over the next couple [br]of days, our news feed 0:09:48.161,0:09:50.696 was full of family and friends. 0:09:50.696,0:09:53.374 If you haven't gone back,[br]the nice thing about Facebook 0:09:53.374,0:09:55.587 is that you have the dates, you can go back. 0:09:55.587,0:09:59.558 You've got to see Uncle Artie's [br]human Bloody Mary. 0:09:59.558,0:10:02.704 I'm telling you, it's one of the best ones, 0:10:02.704,0:10:05.666 and that was probably in day two. 0:10:05.666,0:10:09.636 By about day four, Uncle [br]Dave, the webmaster, 0:10:09.636,0:10:11.609 he isn't on Facebook, 0:10:11.609,0:10:14.496 and I get a text from him, [br]and it says, "Nancy, 0:10:14.496,0:10:17.390 what the hell is going on?" 0:10:17.390,0:10:20.987 Uncle Dave gets a hit [br]every time Pete's website 0:10:20.987,0:10:24.010 is gone onto, and his [br]phone was blowing up. 0:10:24.010,0:10:25.865 So we all sat down and we realized, 0:10:25.865,0:10:29.717 money is coming in — how amazing. 0:10:29.717,0:10:32.261 So we knew awareness [br]would lead to funding, 0:10:32.261,0:10:35.239 we just didn't know it would[br]only take a couple of days. 0:10:35.239,0:10:40.396 So we got together, put our best [br]501(c)(3)s on Pete's website, 0:10:40.396,0:10:42.505 and off we went. 0:10:42.505,0:10:45.686 So week one, Boston media. 0:10:45.686,0:10:48.154 Week two, national media. 0:10:48.154,0:10:50.608 It was during week two [br]that our neighbor next door 0:10:50.608,0:10:53.000 opened up our door and threw a pizza 0:10:53.000,0:10:55.360 across the kitchen floor, saying, 0:10:55.360,0:10:58.299 "I think you people might [br]need food in there." 0:10:58.299,0:11:00.504 (Laughter) 0:11:00.504,0:11:04.520 Week three, celebrities — [br]Entertainment Tonight, 0:11:04.520,0:11:06.586 Access Hollywood. 0:11:06.586,0:11:12.741 Week four, global — BBC, Irish Radio. 0:11:12.741,0:11:15.663 Did anyone see "Lost In Translation"? 0:11:15.663,0:11:17.852 My husband did Japanese television. 0:11:17.852,0:11:19.562 It was interesting. 0:11:19.562,0:11:21.614 (Laughter) 0:11:21.614,0:11:27.376 And those videos, the popular ones. 0:11:27.376,0:11:31.864 Paul Bissonnette's [br]glacier video, incredible. 0:11:31.864,0:11:34.601 How about the redemption nuns of Dublin? 0:11:34.601,0:11:36.306 Who's seen that one? 0:11:36.306,0:11:38.893 It's absolutely fantastic. 0:11:38.893,0:11:41.110 J.T., Justin Timberlake. 0:11:41.110,0:11:44.879 That's when we knew, that [br]was a real A-list celebrity. 0:11:44.879,0:11:47.770 I go back on my texts, and I can see 0:11:47.770,0:11:52.902 "JT! JT!" My sister texting me. 0:11:52.902,0:11:56.150 Angela Merkel, the chancellor of Germany. 0:11:56.150,0:11:57.956 Incredible. 0:11:57.956,0:12:00.266 And the ALS patients, 0:12:00.266,0:12:03.460 you know what their favorite[br]ones are, and their families'? 0:12:03.460,0:12:05.050 All of them. 0:12:05.050,0:12:09.898 Because this misunderstood and [br]underfunded "rare" disease, 0:12:09.898,0:12:16.378 they just sat and watched people [br]saying it over and over: "ALS, ALS." 0:12:16.378,0:12:19.587 It was unbelievable. 0:12:19.587,0:12:21.630 And those naysayers, 0:12:21.630,0:12:24.469 let's just talk a couple [br]of stats, shall we? 0:12:24.469,0:12:27.107 Okay, so the ALS Association, 0:12:27.107,0:12:31.064 they think by year end,[br]it'll be 160 million dollars. 0:12:31.064,0:12:33.649 ALS TDI in Cambridge, 0:12:33.649,0:12:35.701 they raised three million dollars. 0:12:35.701,0:12:37.143 Well, guess what? 0:12:37.143,0:12:40.437 They had a clinical trial for a drug[br]that they've been developing. 0:12:40.437,0:12:43.553 It was on a three-year track for funding. 0:12:43.553,0:12:45.040 Two months. 0:12:45.040,0:12:47.328 It's coming out starting in two months. 0:12:47.328,0:12:51.268 (Applause) 0:12:53.791,0:12:58.806 And YouTube has reported 0:12:58.806,0:13:05.884 that over 150 countries have posted[br]Ice Bucket Challenges for ALS. 0:13:05.884,0:13:12.455 And Facebook, 2.5 million videos, 0:13:12.455,0:13:15.570 and I had the awesome adventure 0:13:15.570,0:13:18.290 visiting the Facebook campus last week, 0:13:18.290,0:13:21.057 and I said to them, "I know[br]what it was like in my house. 0:13:21.057,0:13:23.677 I can't imagine what it [br]was like around here." 0:13:23.677,0:13:28.390 All she said was, "Jaw-dropping." 0:13:28.390,0:13:33.370 And my family's favorite video? 0:13:33.370,0:13:36.576 Bill Gates. 0:13:36.576,0:13:39.659 Because the night Pete was diagnosed, 0:13:39.659,0:13:47.244 he told us that he was going to get ALS in[br]front of philanthropists like Bill Gates, 0:13:47.244,0:13:48.790 and he did it. 0:13:48.790,0:13:51.260 Goal number one, check. 0:13:51.260,0:13:53.203 Now on to the treatment and cure. 0:13:53.203,0:13:59.498 (Applause) 0:14:02.775,0:14:05.829 So okay, after all of this ice, 0:14:05.829,0:14:07.725 we know that it was much more 0:14:07.725,0:14:10.547 than just pouring buckets of [br]ice water over your head, 0:14:10.547,0:14:12.375 and I really would like to leave you 0:14:12.375,0:14:15.289 with a couple of things that [br]I'd like you to remember. 0:14:15.289,0:14:16.964 The first thing is, 0:14:16.964,0:14:19.190 every morning when you wake up, 0:14:19.190,0:14:22.266 you can choose to live your day in positivity. 0:14:24.249,0:14:26.520 Would any of you blame me 0:14:26.520,0:14:28.859 if I just was in the fetal position 0:14:28.859,0:14:32.096 and pulled the covers [br]over my head every day? 0:14:32.096,0:14:34.308 No, I don't think anybody would blame me, 0:14:34.308,0:14:37.310 but Pete has inspired us to wake up 0:14:37.310,0:14:40.496 every morning and be [br]positive and proactive. 0:14:40.496,0:14:43.300 I actually had to ditch support groups 0:14:43.300,0:14:45.779 because everybody was in there saying that 0:14:45.779,0:14:47.613 spraying their lawns with chemicals, 0:14:47.613,0:14:49.481 that's why they got ALS, 0:14:49.481,0:14:51.440 and I was like, "I don't think so," 0:14:51.440,0:14:55.459 but I had to get away from the negativity. 0:14:55.459,0:14:58.346 The second thing I want to leave you with 0:14:58.346,0:15:01.160 is the person at the [br]middle of the challenge 0:15:01.160,0:15:04.240 has to be willing to have [br]the mental toughness 0:15:04.240,0:15:07.985 to put themselves out there. 0:15:07.985,0:15:10.210 Pete still goes to baseball games 0:15:10.210,0:15:13.264 and he still sits with his [br]teammates in the dugout, 0:15:13.264,0:15:16.147 and he hangs his gravity feed bag 0:15:16.147,0:15:17.547 right on the cages. 0:15:17.547,0:15:19.317 You'll see the kids, they're [br]up there hanging it up. 0:15:19.317,0:15:20.988 "Pete, is that okay?" "Yup." 0:15:20.988,0:15:24.239 And then they put it [br]right into his stomach. 0:15:24.239,0:15:27.641 Because he wants them to see[br]what the reality of this is, 0:15:27.641,0:15:31.013 and how he's never, ever going to give up. 0:15:31.013,0:15:33.243 And the third thing I [br]want to leave you with: 0:15:33.243,0:15:36.759 If you ever come across a situation 0:15:36.759,0:15:39.898 that you see as so unacceptable, 0:15:39.898,0:15:43.621 I want you to dig down as deep as you can 0:15:43.621,0:15:46.476 and find your best mother bear 0:15:46.476,0:15:48.885 and go after it. 0:15:48.885,0:15:54.438 (Applause) 0:16:22.886,0:16:24.954 Thank you. 0:16:24.954,0:16:28.771 (Applause) 0:16:28.771,0:16:30.430 I know that I'm running over, 0:16:30.430,0:16:32.197 but I've got to leave you with this: 0:16:32.197,0:16:35.371 the gifts that my son has given me. 0:16:35.371,0:16:38.084 I have had 29 years 0:16:38.084,0:16:41.900 of having the honor of being the mother 0:16:41.900,0:16:43.939 of Pete Frates. 0:16:43.939,0:16:48.985 Pete Frates has been inspiring [br]and leading his whole life. 0:16:48.985,0:16:51.257 He's thrown out kindness, 0:16:51.257,0:16:54.897 and all that kindness [br]has come back to him. 0:16:54.897,0:17:01.336 He walks the face of the Earth [br]right now and knows why he's here. 0:17:01.342,0:17:04.190 What a gift. 0:17:04.190,0:17:06.821 The second thing that my son has given me 0:17:06.821,0:17:09.876 is he's given me my mission in life. 0:17:09.876,0:17:11.680 Now I know why I'm here. 0:17:11.680,0:17:14.824 I'm going to save my son, 0:17:14.824,0:17:17.614 and if it doesn't happen in time for him, 0:17:17.614,0:17:20.256 I'm going to work so that no other mother 0:17:20.256,0:17:23.815 has to go through what I'm going through. 0:17:23.815,0:17:26.509 And the third thing, [br]and last but not least 0:17:26.519,0:17:29.546 gift that my son has given me, 0:17:29.546,0:17:31.633 as an exclamation point 0:17:31.633,0:17:33.426 to the miraculous month 0:17:33.426,0:17:37.104 of August 2014: 0:17:37.104,0:17:43.248 That girlfriend that he went to get on [br]the night of diagnosis is now his wife, 0:17:43.248,0:17:51.625 and Pete and Julie have given me my [br]granddaughter, Lucy Fitzgerald Frates. 0:17:51.625,0:17:56.730 Lucy Fitzgerald Frates came two weeks early 0:17:56.730,0:17:58.928 as the exclamation point 0:17:58.928,0:18:03.307 on August 31st, 2014. 0:18:03.307,0:18:04.981 And so — 0:18:04.981,0:18:13.865 (Applause) — 0:18:13.865,0:18:17.509 And so let me leave you with [br]Pete's words of inspiration 0:18:17.509,0:18:24.777 that he would use to classmates,[br]coworkers and teammates. 0:18:24.777,0:18:28.153 Be passionate. 0:18:28.153,0:18:30.660 Be genuine. 0:18:30.660,0:18:33.654 Be hardworking. 0:18:33.654,0:18:37.938 And don't forget to be great. 0:18:37.938,0:18:40.362 Thank you. 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