WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:08.400 There is no relationship that is free from misunderstanding. 00:00:08.400 --> 00:00:14.833 There is no relationship that is free from the opportunity of conflict 00:00:14.833 --> 00:00:19.600 or the temptation of confrontation. 00:00:19.600 --> 00:00:23.500 It's part of every normal relationship. 00:00:23.500 --> 00:00:28.033 But please, people of God, 00:00:28.033 --> 00:00:31.333 when such disagreements come, 00:00:31.333 --> 00:00:36.300 especially when emotions are heightened, 00:00:36.300 --> 00:00:43.800 do not remind each other of the past. It's a trap! 00:00:43.800 --> 00:00:47.733 When there is that conflict, disagreement or misunderstanding, 00:00:47.733 --> 00:00:53.800 don't remind each other of the past - past hurt, past pain, past wrong. 00:00:53.800 --> 00:00:56.933 No. It's a trap of the devil. 00:00:56.933 --> 00:01:04.800 Each time you remind each other of that past pain, hurt or mistake, 00:01:04.800 --> 00:01:12.533 you are reopening the wounds God has already provided healing for. 00:01:12.533 --> 00:01:17.566 You are polluting the cleansing process 00:01:17.566 --> 00:01:22.300 of Christ's Word in your heart. 00:01:22.300 --> 00:01:25.800 You are championing the devil's conclusions 00:01:25.800 --> 00:01:29.866 about your life, marriage, family.