[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.00,0:00:08.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There is no relationship that is free from misunderstanding. Dialogue: 0,0:00:08.40,0:00:14.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There is no relationship that is free from the opportunity of conflict Dialogue: 0,0:00:14.83,0:00:19.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or the temptation of confrontation. Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.60,0:00:23.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's part of every normal relationship. Dialogue: 0,0:00:23.50,0:00:28.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But please, people of God, Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.03,0:00:31.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when such disagreements come, Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.33,0:00:36.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,especially when emotions are heightened, Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.30,0:00:43.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do not remind each other of the past. It's a trap! Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.80,0:00:47.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When there is that conflict, disagreement or misunderstanding, Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.73,0:00:53.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't remind each other of the past - past hurt, past pain, past wrong. Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.80,0:00:56.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No. It's a trap of the devil. Dialogue: 0,0:00:56.93,0:01:04.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Each time you remind each other of that past pain, hurt or mistake, Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.80,0:01:12.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you are reopening the wounds God has already provided healing for. Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.53,0:01:17.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are polluting the cleansing process Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.57,0:01:22.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of Christ's Word in your heart. Dialogue: 0,0:01:22.30,0:01:25.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are championing the devil's conclusions Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.80,0:01:29.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about your life, marriage, family.