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There is no relationship that is free from misunderstanding.

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There is no relationship that is free from the opportunity of conflict

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or the temptation of confrontation.

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It's part of every normal relationship.

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But please, people of God,

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when such disagreements come,

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especially when emotions are heightened,

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do not remind each other of the past. It's a trap!

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When there is that conflict, disagreement or misunderstanding,

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don't remind each other of the past - past hurt, past pain, past wrong.

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No. It's a trap of the devil.

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Each time you remind each other of that past pain, hurt or mistake,

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you are reopening the wounds God has already provided healing for.

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You are polluting the cleansing process

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of Christ's Word in your heart.

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You are championing the devil's conclusions

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about your life, marriage, family.