1 00:00:00,690 --> 00:00:02,723 Hi, everyone. 2 00:00:02,723 --> 00:00:06,861 In this unit, we are focusing on the big question 3 00:00:06,861 --> 00:00:09,449 of how we can be happy, 4 00:00:09,449 --> 00:00:11,420 and what you're doing right now 5 00:00:11,420 --> 00:00:14,871 in this particular unit that you're working on 6 00:00:14,871 --> 00:00:19,193 is really tackling that question head-on. 7 00:00:19,193 --> 00:00:21,414 It's one of the great questions, of course: 8 00:00:21,414 --> 00:00:24,457 What can we do to be happy? 9 00:00:24,457 --> 00:00:29,768 And one of the great aims of life, I think, is to try to figure out how to be happy. 10 00:00:29,768 --> 00:00:31,780 So we're studying that and 11 00:00:31,780 --> 00:00:36,610 we're trying out some things related to that in this unit. 12 00:00:36,610 --> 00:00:41,490 I'm reading through the application assignments that you're working on here, 13 00:00:41,490 --> 00:00:44,760 and I find myself really humbled. 14 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:46,901 you might remember that the major task 15 00:00:46,901 --> 00:00:52,905 is to expose yourself to an episode 16 00:00:52,905 --> 00:00:56,316 of a podcast series called "The Science of Happiness," 17 00:00:56,316 --> 00:01:00,080 in which there is a happiness guinea pig 18 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:04,590 that tries out a research-supported happiness practice. 19 00:01:04,590 --> 00:01:09,790 And then to listen to that and then to try out the practice for yourself 20 00:01:09,790 --> 00:01:11,337 and, in the discussion boards, 21 00:01:11,337 --> 00:01:14,770 to write about how that goes for you. 22 00:01:14,770 --> 00:01:16,152 And so, I feel humbled by it 23 00:01:16,152 --> 00:01:21,837 because what I'm reading is really amazing to me. 24 00:01:21,837 --> 00:01:24,992 I see a lot of students thinking really critically 25 00:01:24,992 --> 00:01:28,216 about what they need in their lives, 26 00:01:28,216 --> 00:01:31,700 where they might feel like they're not happy 27 00:01:31,700 --> 00:01:33,601 and choosing episodes that match that, 28 00:01:33,601 --> 00:01:38,234 and then trying out practices, and based upon what I'm reading, 29 00:01:38,234 --> 00:01:41,310 really benefiting from the practices. 30 00:01:41,310 --> 00:01:45,331 So I feel really encouraged by that. 31 00:01:45,331 --> 00:01:48,396 I think it's probably a good time for me to acknowledge 32 00:01:48,396 --> 00:01:54,820 that I have kind of a hidden agenda here in some ways in this course. 33 00:01:54,820 --> 00:01:59,459 Now, of course, in an Introduction to Psychology survey course like this, 34 00:01:59,459 --> 00:02:02,386 I want you to become familiar 35 00:02:02,386 --> 00:02:06,644 with what psychology is all about and the different topics that are studied 36 00:02:06,644 --> 00:02:12,080 and the knowledge that we have created about behavior. 37 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:16,760 I want to learn to think critically about research and claims about behavior. 38 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:21,320 I want you to apply some of what has been learned to your own life, 39 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:25,496 and that's where this application assignment 40 00:02:25,496 --> 00:02:28,950 (as many of the other application assignments) relate. 41 00:02:28,950 --> 00:02:30,347 You're trying out things 42 00:02:30,347 --> 00:02:33,180 that come from psychology, that come from research, 43 00:02:33,180 --> 00:02:36,142 and trying to see how it might relate to your life and then 44 00:02:36,142 --> 00:02:41,355 see if maybe it can somehow improve your experience of life. 45 00:02:41,355 --> 00:02:46,350 But beyond that, there's another kind of wish I have for you in this course, 46 00:02:46,350 --> 00:02:50,859 and that's to expose you to different ways of learning. 47 00:02:50,859 --> 00:02:53,320 I have assigned you a textbook, of course, 48 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:58,668 but I also have, I think, assigned to you a variety of less traditional ways 49 00:02:58,668 --> 00:03:00,475 of learning material in this course -- 50 00:03:00,475 --> 00:03:05,850 TED Talks, many different kinds of podcasts, articles, and things like that -- 51 00:03:05,850 --> 00:03:11,380 and one of my goals there is for you to kind of check out 52 00:03:11,380 --> 00:03:13,218 these different popular ways 53 00:03:13,218 --> 00:03:16,156 of learning about psychology and culture and living well 54 00:03:16,156 --> 00:03:21,540 so that when the course is over, you can continue that if you want to. 55 00:03:21,540 --> 00:03:25,650 Now, I know you get points for doing all of this now and 56 00:03:25,650 --> 00:03:29,297 there's an instrumental motive that you have, 57 00:03:29,297 --> 00:03:30,889 but I'm hoping you realize 58 00:03:30,889 --> 00:03:34,728 that there is also an intrinsic internal motive 59 00:03:34,728 --> 00:03:39,624 to learning about psychology and culture and living well 60 00:03:39,624 --> 00:03:43,710 that go beyond the value of points. 61 00:03:43,710 --> 00:03:44,847 You know, I hope -- 62 00:03:44,847 --> 00:03:46,361 Maybe this goes without saying, 63 00:03:46,361 --> 00:03:48,710 but there's benefit to learning 64 00:03:48,710 --> 00:03:51,886 about the new research that's coming out about happiness 65 00:03:51,886 --> 00:03:56,525 and you might want to consider continue learning about that 66 00:03:56,525 --> 00:04:00,543 after the semester is over even if you don't get any points for it. 67 00:04:00,543 --> 00:04:04,460 I know that in my life, 68 00:04:04,460 --> 00:04:08,850 there was a time where my wife and I, at night before we went to sleep, 69 00:04:08,850 --> 00:04:14,570 would oftentimes watch a TED Talk for many months and then we would talk about that, 70 00:04:14,570 --> 00:04:17,359 and that really enriched our lives. 71 00:04:17,359 --> 00:04:21,400 And regularly now, we listen to podcasts, 72 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:25,070 and many of the podcast series that you've been exposed to in this course -- 73 00:04:25,070 --> 00:04:27,240 many from National Public Radio, 74 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:30,250 you've got this one on The Science of Happiness -- 75 00:04:30,250 --> 00:04:35,935 we listen to those when we go to the gym, when we're driving in the car, or whatever, 76 00:04:35,935 --> 00:04:39,231 we talk about those, we try out different activities. 77 00:04:39,231 --> 00:04:42,212 So on my phone, I have a podcast app 78 00:04:42,212 --> 00:04:46,520 (which most of you probably have access to also) and 79 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:49,445 and I just have my favorite podcast series there, 80 00:04:49,445 --> 00:04:51,116 and when a new episode comes up, 81 00:04:51,116 --> 00:04:53,890 it notifies me that there's a new episode that's available 82 00:04:53,890 --> 00:04:56,790 kind of like if you're watching Netflix 83 00:04:56,790 --> 00:04:59,211 and there's a new series, new episodes available, 84 00:04:59,211 --> 00:05:01,390 I find out about that, I listen to it, 85 00:05:01,390 --> 00:05:07,222 and it gives me something a little bit more productive to think about, I think, 86 00:05:07,222 --> 00:05:11,570 when I am at the gym or driving in the car. 87 00:05:11,570 --> 00:05:16,671 It generates interesting conversation with my wife and my family, my friends, and I. 88 00:05:16,671 --> 00:05:21,499 So that's a possibility, and I hope maybe being in this course and 89 00:05:21,499 --> 00:05:25,270 being exposed to these different ways of learning might encourage you to 90 00:05:25,270 --> 00:05:29,590 think about how you might continue learning after the semester is over. 91 00:05:29,590 --> 00:05:31,735 Now in the reflection assignment 92 00:05:31,735 --> 00:05:34,428 that you're doing right now related to happiness, 93 00:05:34,428 --> 00:05:39,300 there are a lot of really classic questions being posed and 94 00:05:39,300 --> 00:05:42,680 I thought I would take a few minutes here and just give a little context 95 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:46,290 for the study of happiness by addressing some of those questions 96 00:05:46,290 --> 00:05:50,980 So, of course, one of the one of the classic questions is: What is happiness? 97 00:05:50,980 --> 00:05:53,795 What do we mean by the term "happiness"? 98 00:05:53,795 --> 00:05:57,140 And I think that's a really important question 99 00:05:57,140 --> 00:06:01,350 because people use that word (happiness) in many different ways. 100 00:06:01,350 --> 00:06:06,350 Now in psychology, the study of human happiness has been 101 00:06:06,350 --> 00:06:12,910 influenced by a model of happiness where happiness is considered to be 102 00:06:12,910 --> 00:06:15,985 consisting of 3 different types of happiness, 103 00:06:15,985 --> 00:06:18,600 3 different aspects of happiness. 104 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:21,270 One is positive emotion, 105 00:06:21,270 --> 00:06:24,462 so part of happiness is feeling good, 106 00:06:24,462 --> 00:06:27,730 feeling happy, feeling joyful, feeling grateful, feeling awe, 107 00:06:27,730 --> 00:06:33,060 feeling content, laughing, feeling amused, that kind of stuff. 108 00:06:33,060 --> 00:06:36,810 That is different than a second aspect of happiness, 109 00:06:36,810 --> 00:06:41,650 which is more the absence, the lack of. 110 00:06:41,650 --> 00:06:45,740 The management of negative emotion or stress, 111 00:06:45,740 --> 00:06:48,820 so we've kind of discussed this 112 00:06:48,820 --> 00:06:51,050 in different ways during this course. 113 00:06:51,050 --> 00:06:56,310 There of course are uses. 114 00:06:56,310 --> 00:07:00,300 There is benefit sometimes to having some degree 115 00:07:00,300 --> 00:07:06,720 of sadness or fear or anger or stress in our lives. 116 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:11,740 These negative states do serve a function. 117 00:07:11,740 --> 00:07:17,670 But I do think that we would all probably agree that a life overwhelmed 118 00:07:17,670 --> 00:07:22,750 by a sadness or fear or anger or stress is probably not a real happy life. 119 00:07:22,750 --> 00:07:29,553 So a second element of happiness is having some management or control 120 00:07:29,553 --> 00:07:32,811 or maintenance of the extent 121 00:07:32,811 --> 00:07:36,366 to which we feel those kinds of negative experiences in life. 122 00:07:36,366 --> 00:07:42,751 And then a third aspect is kind of a broad appraisal of satisfaction, 123 00:07:42,751 --> 00:07:46,464 where we look at our whole lives as a whole 124 00:07:46,464 --> 00:07:49,290 and we feel satisfied, 125 00:07:49,290 --> 00:07:54,632 or sometimes people say they feel like their life has meaning or a purpose. 126 00:07:54,632 --> 00:07:58,761 And so those three different elements of happiness 127 00:07:58,761 --> 00:08:00,648 in some ways paint a picture 128 00:08:00,648 --> 00:08:06,940 of what we mean by happiness in this study. 129 00:08:06,940 --> 00:08:10,560 Now, one interesting aspect of this is, 130 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:14,220 those three different aspects of happiness do not always go together. 131 00:08:14,220 --> 00:08:17,393 So one of the classic research studies, for instance, is, 132 00:08:17,393 --> 00:08:19,419 when people have children, 133 00:08:19,419 --> 00:08:24,362 they are a little bit lower on average on positive emotion, 134 00:08:24,362 --> 00:08:28,854 a little bit higher on average on negative emotion and stress 135 00:08:28,854 --> 00:08:32,300 because having children is difficult. 136 00:08:32,300 --> 00:08:35,985 But having children is oftentimes seen 137 00:08:35,985 --> 00:08:41,470 as the single most meaningful aspect of life. 138 00:08:41,470 --> 00:08:45,730 And so, that's why we consider those different elements of happiness because 139 00:08:45,730 --> 00:08:48,630 they potentially are unique. 140 00:08:48,630 --> 00:08:52,784 Now another classic question I see being raised 141 00:08:52,784 --> 00:08:56,293 (and maybe this follows from what I'm saying here already) is: 142 00:08:56,293 --> 00:08:58,489 What causes happiness? 143 00:08:58,489 --> 00:09:01,570 And something that we have discussed at different points, 144 00:09:01,570 --> 00:09:04,757 that you've been exposed to at different points, is this myth 145 00:09:04,757 --> 00:09:09,070 about external circumstances dictating how our life goes. 146 00:09:09,070 --> 00:09:11,884 I think a lot of people (in our culture, especially) 147 00:09:11,884 --> 00:09:16,429 believe that external circumstances determine how well we do in life, 148 00:09:16,429 --> 00:09:19,500 including how happy we are. 149 00:09:19,500 --> 00:09:22,842 And the research shows that that's generally not the case. 150 00:09:22,842 --> 00:09:28,610 For instance, a lot of people believe money is necessary to living well 151 00:09:28,610 --> 00:09:34,875 or being happy or possessions or being physically attractive or being famous. 152 00:09:34,875 --> 00:09:39,970 Sometimes even, you know, you think about things like health or education, 153 00:09:39,970 --> 00:09:43,747 a lot of people believe you have to have those extra circumstances 154 00:09:43,747 --> 00:09:47,820 in order to live a good life or be happy, 155 00:09:47,820 --> 00:09:50,480 and there's some research support for that, 156 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:58,514 but it's relatively a weak predictor of happiness, so about 10 percent 157 00:09:58,514 --> 00:10:04,011 of the individual differences among us in terms of happiness can be explained 158 00:10:04,011 --> 00:10:08,483 by the presence of all these external circumstances combined, 159 00:10:08,483 --> 00:10:12,339 which means that overall, 160 00:10:12,339 --> 00:10:16,719 there are a lot of people who have a lot of money who are not that happy; 161 00:10:16,719 --> 00:10:22,890 and there are a lot of people who don't have a lot of money who are very happy. 162 00:10:22,890 --> 00:10:25,680 And same thing with all these other variables I mentioned. 163 00:10:25,680 --> 00:10:29,202 some people have really nice cars and aren't that happy. 164 00:10:29,202 --> 00:10:32,881 Some people have really poor health but 165 00:10:32,881 --> 00:10:37,544 have found a way to be happy, so it's a very complicated picture 166 00:10:37,544 --> 00:10:39,832 and it's an interesting and important finding 167 00:10:39,832 --> 00:10:42,121 when we think about our lives because 168 00:10:42,121 --> 00:10:47,151 it seems like a lot of people are really instrumentally motivated to acquire 169 00:10:47,151 --> 00:10:52,071 these external circumstances; and in some ways they're basing their lives, then, 170 00:10:52,071 --> 00:10:57,011 on a myth in that those extra no circumstances that they think will make 171 00:10:57,011 --> 00:10:59,491 them happy oftentimes don't. 172 00:10:59,491 --> 00:11:01,971 There's something else that seems to be 173 00:11:01,971 --> 00:11:07,843 involved in happiness to a greater extent than having external circumstances. 174 00:11:07,843 --> 00:11:12,019 Now we go back to the nature/nurture debate and we consider, you know: 175 00:11:12,019 --> 00:11:15,204 What would explain something like happiness? 176 00:11:15,204 --> 00:11:18,479 And there is a nature element and there is a nurture element. 177 00:11:18,479 --> 00:11:23,806 The nature element, as is true for basically every human trait, 178 00:11:23,806 --> 00:11:26,301 is there is a genetic predisposition. 179 00:11:26,301 --> 00:11:30,771 So some people find it easier to be happier than others. 180 00:11:30,771 --> 00:11:33,641 This kind of fits with our study of psychological disorders. 181 00:11:33,641 --> 00:11:36,606 Some people are more naturally depressed or sad. 182 00:11:36,606 --> 00:11:39,839 Some people are more naturally afraid or anxious. 183 00:11:39,839 --> 00:11:42,586 Some people are naturally more addicted. 184 00:11:42,586 --> 00:11:45,606 Some people are naturally more stress-sensitive, alright? 185 00:11:45,606 --> 00:11:47,670 So that all fits with that, 186 00:11:47,670 --> 00:11:49,836 and a good chunk of our happiness 187 00:11:49,836 --> 00:11:53,361 can be explained by a genetic predisposition. 188 00:11:53,361 --> 00:11:57,774 That doesn't mean that genetics somehow predestined some people 189 00:11:57,774 --> 00:11:59,621 to be happier than others, though. 190 00:11:59,621 --> 00:12:04,820 In fact, almost an equally -- 191 00:12:04,820 --> 00:12:07,827 Almost as much of a chunk of happiness can be explained 192 00:12:07,827 --> 00:12:13,941 by what's called intentional activity (the activity that we control). 193 00:12:13,941 --> 00:12:18,111 And oftentimes, if you kind of want to understand psychology 194 00:12:18,111 --> 00:12:23,805 kind of as a general discipline, one point that psychologists make 195 00:12:23,805 --> 00:12:26,926 is that we control a lot in our lives. 196 00:12:26,926 --> 00:12:28,647 There's things we don't control, 197 00:12:28,647 --> 00:12:32,836 but even then, we control our attitudes, we control our thoughts, 198 00:12:32,836 --> 00:12:35,022 we control our interpretations. 199 00:12:35,022 --> 00:12:39,523 So there's a lot about happiness we control in terms of our habits 200 00:12:39,523 --> 00:12:43,799 and the activities that we regularly implement in our daily lives. 201 00:12:43,799 --> 00:12:48,311 And that's actually where this application assignment that you're doing fits in. 202 00:12:48,311 --> 00:12:52,356 The research shows that there are certain practices that boost happiness, 203 00:12:52,356 --> 00:12:58,077 boost positive emotion, lessen stress, increase purpose; 204 00:12:58,077 --> 00:13:01,181 and if we regularly engage in those kinds of practices, 205 00:13:01,181 --> 00:13:07,541 we will probably be significantly happier than if we don't engage in those practices. 206 00:13:07,541 --> 00:13:12,995 When we are studying stress in this course, that also kind of fits in. 207 00:13:12,995 --> 00:13:18,419 So an intentional activity that some people engage in that makes stress worse 208 00:13:18,419 --> 00:13:23,044 is when they actively avoid or distract themselves from the stress. 209 00:13:23,044 --> 00:13:27,112 That's where a lot of people engage in unhealthy behaviors, 210 00:13:27,112 --> 00:13:30,634 oftentimes in the long term, that make stress worse. 211 00:13:30,634 --> 00:13:33,905 That's where people, you know, binge on Netflix, 212 00:13:33,905 --> 00:13:39,311 or lose sleep, put off sleep, make sleep less of a priority. 213 00:13:39,311 --> 00:13:42,829 That's where people eat unhealthfully or don't exercise 214 00:13:42,829 --> 00:13:47,540 or use all sorts of substances that are unhealthy for them 215 00:13:47,540 --> 00:13:51,323 because they're trying to avoid or distract themselves 216 00:13:51,323 --> 00:13:56,334 from the negative parts of their lives, the stressful parts of their lives. 217 00:13:56,334 --> 00:14:00,860 Rather, the intentional activities that help people deal with stress 218 00:14:00,860 --> 00:14:06,425 are when people reflect on the underlying sources of the stress 219 00:14:06,425 --> 00:14:12,537 and take action on those to hopefully, over time, decrease stress. 220 00:14:12,537 --> 00:14:17,252 And then also, having some intentional activities that help people 221 00:14:17,252 --> 00:14:22,568 deal with the negative emotions associated with stress. 222 00:14:22,568 --> 00:14:24,787 And that's where, actually, a lot of the things 223 00:14:24,787 --> 00:14:29,626 that we're talking about related to the science of happiness also comes in. 224 00:14:29,626 --> 00:14:33,305 Sometimes, just accepting that you are in a difficult time 225 00:14:33,305 --> 00:14:36,939 sometimes just accepting that you're feeling sad 226 00:14:36,939 --> 00:14:41,454 or angry or afraid or stressed out 227 00:14:41,454 --> 00:14:44,236 just accepting, kind of, the physical experience of it 228 00:14:44,236 --> 00:14:48,031 and knowing that it's uncomfortable but knowing that you can get through it. 229 00:14:48,031 --> 00:14:50,159 Sometimes, that's very helpful. 230 00:14:50,159 --> 00:14:55,199 Exercise, talking with a friend, journaling about your emotion, 231 00:14:55,199 --> 00:14:56,846 praying, meditating... 232 00:14:56,846 --> 00:14:58,641 These are all things that help people 233 00:14:58,641 --> 00:15:03,114 work through the most difficult experiences of their lives 234 00:15:03,114 --> 00:15:06,033 that decrease stress. 235 00:15:06,033 --> 00:15:10,560 One of the episodes of the podcast series that I recommended this week 236 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:15,325 is about taking a walk and getting lost in the beauty around you. 237 00:15:15,325 --> 00:15:16,914 That decreases stress. 238 00:15:16,914 --> 00:15:18,586 So these are intentional activities 239 00:15:18,586 --> 00:15:21,901 that make a significant difference in people's lives. 240 00:15:21,901 --> 00:15:25,275 There are intentional activities that help people connect with purpose, 241 00:15:25,275 --> 00:15:27,957 and sometimes, it's as simple as just reflecting on 242 00:15:27,957 --> 00:15:31,755 what you most want to accomplish in your life, what makes your life meaningful, 243 00:15:31,755 --> 00:15:36,581 what makes your life purposeful, what is most important to you 244 00:15:36,581 --> 00:15:40,036 and how that might relate to some of the values you try to carry out 245 00:15:40,036 --> 00:15:43,261 in your everyday life today. 246 00:15:43,261 --> 00:15:45,595 And then, in terms of positive emotion, 247 00:15:45,595 --> 00:15:50,860 there are lots of Intentional activities that can help you have positive emotion. 248 00:15:50,860 --> 00:15:53,747 One of the questions I see in the reflection assignment 249 00:15:53,747 --> 00:15:57,911 is about how you balance work and fun, 250 00:15:57,911 --> 00:15:59,518 particularly for a young person, 251 00:15:59,518 --> 00:16:03,461 where it feels like there's a lot of pressure to do everything at once: 252 00:16:03,461 --> 00:16:06,510 to finish your degree, to not go into debt, 253 00:16:06,510 --> 00:16:09,179 to get, you know -- How do you do that? 254 00:16:09,179 --> 00:16:11,501 It feels like you just work and work and work 255 00:16:11,501 --> 00:16:14,149 and you never have any fun. 256 00:16:14,149 --> 00:16:20,414 And I think, probably, there is a way to balance this 257 00:16:20,414 --> 00:16:24,691 so that you are working throughout your life 258 00:16:24,691 --> 00:16:28,372 and you're also having fun throughout your life. 259 00:16:28,372 --> 00:16:31,641 It makes me think, actually, of how some people 260 00:16:31,641 --> 00:16:34,948 don't really ever travel until they retire, 261 00:16:34,948 --> 00:16:37,423 and then they're not in good enough health 262 00:16:37,423 --> 00:16:40,617 to really benefit from the opportunities to travel. 263 00:16:40,617 --> 00:16:44,601 And so, I have always tried to travel throughout life. 264 00:16:44,601 --> 00:16:48,721 You know, every year, we try to go on some kind of a travel trip, 265 00:16:48,721 --> 00:16:51,091 even if it's just somewhere local. 266 00:16:51,091 --> 00:16:53,180 We try to get around and see new things, 267 00:16:53,180 --> 00:16:56,504 and that's the same thing with fun. 268 00:16:56,504 --> 00:17:01,991 There's a classic quote that comes from a psychologist, Dr. Wayne Dyer, 269 00:17:01,991 --> 00:17:04,177 and the quote is this: 270 00:17:04,177 --> 00:17:10,757 "There is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way." 271 00:17:10,757 --> 00:17:13,102 In other words, 272 00:17:13,102 --> 00:17:16,780 happiness is not something you achieve in the future after you get 273 00:17:16,780 --> 00:17:20,692 external circumstances aligned with what you think will make you happy. 274 00:17:20,692 --> 00:17:23,811 Happiness is something you experience now, 275 00:17:23,811 --> 00:17:30,613 based upon your choices today, your intentional activities today. 276 00:17:30,613 --> 00:17:36,852 And so, I hope that this unit and this topic really helps you reflect on your life 277 00:17:36,852 --> 00:17:42,503 and what you can do to be at your best, to manage stress well, 278 00:17:42,503 --> 00:17:48,376 to experience the best that life has to offer. END