WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:01.693 Oh my God, you know what's crazy? 00:00:02.539 --> 00:00:09.568 This is it. (Music) 00:00:09.568 --> 00:00:11.490 A viral New York Times article featured 00:00:11.490 --> 00:00:13.420 36 questions that could supposedly make 00:00:13.420 --> 00:00:14.907 any two people fall in love. 00:00:14.907 --> 00:00:16.849 We wanted to see what would happen 00:00:16.849 --> 00:00:17.749 if we asked these questions to two 00:00:17.749 --> 00:00:20.803 complete strangers on a blind date. 00:00:20.803 --> 00:00:23.519 Jaylee: Hi, my name is Jaylee Dawkins 00:00:23.519 --> 00:00:25.923 and I'm single. I've actually never been 00:00:25.923 --> 00:00:28.753 in a relationship. Yeah. So, I've been on 00:00:28.753 --> 00:00:30.995 dates, but I've never had a boyfriend, so 00:00:30.995 --> 00:00:32.884 I'm like low-key single my whole life? 00:00:32.884 --> 00:00:35.633 (laughs) But I'm 21 so it's not crazy. 00:00:35.633 --> 00:00:36.443 I think. 00:00:36.443 --> 00:00:38.830 Mikey: My name is Mikey Miller and I am 00:00:38.830 --> 00:00:40.124 single as a pringle. 00:00:40.124 --> 00:00:41.097 Filmer: Are you nervous? 00:00:41.097 --> 00:00:44.109 You know, more so than I thought 00:00:44.109 --> 00:00:46.975 I would. A little bit. But I'm good on 00:00:46.975 --> 00:00:48.510 dates. This year I've given a lot of 00:00:48.510 --> 00:00:50.738 attention to myself, and haven't really 00:00:50.738 --> 00:00:52.794 made myself available. But I think, uhh 00:00:52.794 --> 00:00:55.680 I think I'm good. I think I'm ready. Ya. 00:00:55.680 --> 00:00:55.930 (humming) Hello. How are you? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 Jaylee: Good, how are you? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 Mikey: Well. Good to meet you. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 Jaylee: Ya, same. You too. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 Mikey: What's your name? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Jaylee. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Jaylee? Mikey, nice to... 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Mikey, nice to meet you. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: It's like a long... hollywood... 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 suspense... 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: (laughs) What, waiting for me? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 Or like, growing up, you mean? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Ya, growing up 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Do I grab a card first? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Well I think the Tea for Two warrents 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 tea. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: (laughs) Ok. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: So... I shall pour you some 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Yes please. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 (both sip tea) 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Oh, it's really good tea. You ready? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: I think. (reads card) Umm... 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 If you could wake up tomorrow having 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 gained one quality or ability, what would 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 it be? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Is it weird that I thought of a 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 superpower first? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: I don't know 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: (laughs) I would love to teleport 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 because I commute every day to school. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 Like, and then also I really wanna travel, 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 so, like, that would just be amazing. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Yeah. Are there limitations to, uh, 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 teleporting? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: I dunno. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Parameters you have to stay within? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Why put limits on teleportation? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 (both laugh) 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Uh, well, ok. One quality... 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: I'll go sappy, 'cause it's like, kind 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 of a sappy person. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: ok. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Ummm I think like having the upmost 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 like empathy and having kind of, like umm, 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 unconditional positive regard for people 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 and-and myself honestly. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: (reading card) Take one minute and tell 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 your partner your life story, as much 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 detail as possible. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Jeez. Grew up, super silly, jock. Yeah, 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 didn't really start questioning myself 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 until I lost a lot of people in my life 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Mhmm 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Really really quickly, and they were 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 all under the age of, like 50. I'm talking 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 like 7 people probably. And then it 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 wasn't until then that I started to really 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 question things. Started experimenting 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 more. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Mhmm 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Moved here. Life goes fast... Is that a 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 minute? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 (both laugh) 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: You're like, that's it, that's life story. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: yeah. Here I am. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Umm, ever since I was a kid, I wanted 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 to have my own business. I was kinda 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 trying to figure out what that was when I 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 was growing up. First I wanted to be a 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 chef, and I was like obsessed with- 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: No way. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Yeah, I was obsessed with Gordon Ramsay 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 Still am. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: I worked in one of his restaurants 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: REALLY?! 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Yes, (in Gordon Ramsey accent) Golden. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: I'm so- 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: He's my favorite person ever. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: (laughs) 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Alright 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: And then, I don't know, I wanted to go 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 in accounting, which was completely 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 different. I wanted to have, like, a dog 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 daycare. And then I was like, "You know 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 what? I really love fashion." And then 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 that was- but this was like- I figured 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 that out when I was 10. So then I'm like 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 "Ok. That's what I'm going for." (laughs) 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: You seem super passionate about a lot 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 of things. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Yeah. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: ya. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: I try to keep an open mind. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 (reading card) um, what is your most 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 terrible memory? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 Growing up, I was not close to my sister. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 Uh, and then she had to get surgery. I 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 don't know, like one day- this happened 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 when I was really young too. So, no one 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 was telling me anything. When you go home 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 and someone who was there all the time 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 'cause you're in close quarters, is, like, 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 missing 'cause nobody wanted to let you 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 know. I mean, yeah, you're a kid- 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Yeah, they were trying to protect you 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: But a lot of- a lot of things could 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 have gone wrong. But, luckily, it went 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 right. You know? It was weird because I 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 was like, "I hate my sister", but then she 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 was gone and I was like, "I kinda love my 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 sister". 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: right. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: (laughs) Yeah. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Terrible memory. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Yeah. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: I mentioned I lost a whole bunch of 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 people in a short amount of time. The 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 eerie thing is, they were all, like, 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 getting the phone calls about them. They 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 were all the same feeling, where like my 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 mom would call me. It was always my mom. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 And I would pick up, and, it's not like I 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 had a feeling before answering it, but as 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 soon as you, like, answer the phone, you 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 could feel her on the other line. And then 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 like every time- this sucks I don't wanna 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 cry in front of everybody, ha, that'd be 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 weird- But like you hear- my mom would be 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 crying. And it happened over and over and 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 over in the span of a couple years. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Yeah. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: I have a tattoo from, like, sss- my full- 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 my best friend growing up. She was 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 basically my sister. Ummm. And lost her in 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 a car accident. She was at a party, not 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 drinking. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Mhmm 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: And came home. Wasn't driving, the 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 person that was driving, wasn't drinking, 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 and it was just like snowy Pennsylvania. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 Dark roads. Her side hit a tree and we 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 lost her. Like, even thinking about it, 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 you just like have that feeling in your 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 gut. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Yeah. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: You know what I mean? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Yeah. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Umm, fff, yeah. That's gotta be the 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 worse one. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Alright, let's see. (reading card) Ok. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 Complete this sentence: I wish I had 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 someone with whom I could share _________. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 Oh my God, you know what's crazy? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 This is it. Like I love tea, and I'm not a 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 coffee person, and I'm like, "I literally-" 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: You don't like coffee, wow. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Maybe I shouldn't say that... 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Finally we disagree on something. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: (laughs) 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: I couldn't love coffee more. But I love 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 tea. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: I know, I love tea. And I'm like, 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 even if you don't like it, you still have 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 to be here and drink it. (laughs) 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: I'm totally down for tea. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 What would- what do I want to share 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 something with? Traveling for sure. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 There's a huge part of me that wants to 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 travel by myself. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Mhmm 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: But I think, you know falling in love 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 with somebody or whatever and then 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 traveling and having that experience. I 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 think those experiences are probably 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 incomparable to anything else. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Yeah? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 (reading card) What is true love? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Wow. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: (laughs) 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Uhhh. Somebody that's like honest with 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 you, and that's not gonna just tell you 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 whatever you want. I'll never have a 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 relationship that's, like, you know, 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 passive in any way. And I'll never go in 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 kinda thinking that, I want you to make me 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 whole. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Mhmm 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: 'cause I think that's a mistake that a 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 lot of people make. They go into it 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 thinking that- well, like, they need- well 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 they want to fill a void. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Oh, I agree. I agree with that. Umm I 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 was gonna say, like, I was like, "that's 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 kinda like friendships too." 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 Like, I know a lot of people who weren't 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 friends with the person that they're with, 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 basically just went straight into dating, 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 which I'm like, "how does that happen?" 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 I would like wanna get to know the person 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 as a friend or, like, a best friend, and 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 everyone's like, "friendzone, nooo" But 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 it's like, if your partner is not your 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 best friend, like, what are you doing? You 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 have to be able to go through all these 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 things with someone to like grow and like 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 love them for who they are. You know? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Ya. (reading card) Alternate sharing 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 something you consider a positive 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 characteristic about your partner. Share a 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 total of three items. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Oooh. Ok, go ahead. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Oooh. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: (laughs) 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: We're like amigos, maybe? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 Umm, your openness. I'm- I'm not gonna do 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 anything physical 'cause I feel like 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 that's a cop-out. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Mhmm 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: And it's already, you know, we already 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 know. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: (laughs) ya. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Uhh, but super open, which I admire. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 The whole passion thing is really 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 important. I also admire. What's a good 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 three? Really trying not to go physical. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: (laughs) 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: I feel like it's a cop-out but you do 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 have a nice smile. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Thank you. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: I'll tap that. I'll tap after that 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 (laughs) 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: What? The last one? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Yeah. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: I'll take it though. I'm gonna steal 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 yours. I appreciate your openness. I think 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 that's so important. Your like really, 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 like, humble and you could talk about 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 things that you wouldn't really want to 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 talk to with a stranger. You know? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Ya, that's not me at all, man. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: (laughs) 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: I don't know if that's a good thing or 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 a bad thing but it's the way I am. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: You're really funny. Like, that's- and 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 that's awesome 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Thanks 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Because it's nice to meet someone with 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 a sense of humor. (laughs) 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Ya. (reading card) K. Last question. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 You ready? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Ok, yes. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Would you go on a second date with your 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 partner? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Ooohh. Ya. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 (both laugh) 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Short and sweet. I like it. I 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 appreciate it. We don't need a second date, 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 just marriage, right? 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: I guess, yeah. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: (laughs) See, that's what I'm saying, 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 riding the line between, like, what's 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 funny and, like, "ahh that was low, Mike" 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 (both laugh) 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Yeah, so I got- naa I should probably 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 not do that. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: (laughs) 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: Let's hug it out. Bro, bruh. Nice to 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 meet ya. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: Ya, nice to meet you. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: I feel like we should hold hands and 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 kinda do this. 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 J: (laughs) 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 M: (laughs too) 99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999 Jason: Hey guys, Jason here. 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