1 00:00:00,925 --> 00:00:05,877 The Silicon Valley and the internet gave me superpowers, 2 00:00:05,877 --> 00:00:08,975 tools to go to battle with, 3 00:00:08,975 --> 00:00:11,872 a suit to take bullets with 4 00:00:11,872 --> 00:00:16,270 and a giant signal in the sky that told me when it was time to fight. 5 00:00:17,251 --> 00:00:20,481 Now, I can't actually prove any of this. 6 00:00:20,903 --> 00:00:22,904 I am not "scientist," 7 00:00:22,904 --> 00:00:24,356 I don't have "facts." 8 00:00:25,199 --> 00:00:28,538 In fact, my Rotten Tomato score is running around 50 percent right now, 9 00:00:28,538 --> 00:00:30,251 so I'm not sure why they let me in. 10 00:00:30,251 --> 00:00:31,284 (Laughter) 11 00:00:31,649 --> 00:00:35,273 But if we're talking about colliding with a power 12 00:00:35,273 --> 00:00:36,756 that's bigger than us, 13 00:00:36,756 --> 00:00:38,395 then I'm in the right place, 14 00:00:38,395 --> 00:00:39,809 because this last year, 15 00:00:39,809 --> 00:00:43,519 I had an interesting year with a movie called "Crazy Rich Asians" that I did -- 16 00:00:43,519 --> 00:00:44,523 (Applause and cheers) 17 00:00:44,523 --> 00:00:45,764 Thank you, thank you. 18 00:00:46,532 --> 00:00:49,670 And if we're talking about connection specifically today, 19 00:00:49,670 --> 00:00:52,175 then I know my story is only possible 20 00:00:52,175 --> 00:00:56,201 because of a collection of connections that happened throughout my life, 21 00:00:56,201 --> 00:00:58,916 and so hopefully by telling a little bit of my story, 22 00:00:58,916 --> 00:01:02,241 it will help someone else find their path a little sooner than I did. 23 00:01:02,712 --> 00:01:08,329 My story begins when I opened the holy book for the first time ... 24 00:01:08,329 --> 00:01:10,073 the holy book of gadgets, of course, 25 00:01:10,073 --> 00:01:11,094 "Sharper Image." 26 00:01:11,094 --> 00:01:12,091 (Laughter) 27 00:01:12,091 --> 00:01:13,571 Yes, those who know. 28 00:01:13,772 --> 00:01:17,163 It was a magical magazine of dreams 29 00:01:17,163 --> 00:01:20,943 and had things in there that you knew could not possibly exist, 30 00:01:20,943 --> 00:01:22,048 but it was right there. 31 00:01:22,048 --> 00:01:23,100 You could order it -- 32 00:01:23,100 --> 00:01:24,101 come in the mail. 33 00:01:24,101 --> 00:01:26,785 And some things that probably should have never existed, 34 00:01:26,785 --> 00:01:30,052 like "Gregory," a lifelike, portable mannequin 35 00:01:30,052 --> 00:01:32,891 who deters crime by his strong, masculine appearance. 36 00:01:32,891 --> 00:01:33,891 This is a real -- 37 00:01:33,891 --> 00:01:34,892 (Laughter) 38 00:01:34,892 --> 00:01:36,480 This is a real thing, by the way. 39 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:37,480 (Laughter) 40 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:41,560 But my eyes were set on the Video Edit Sima 2. 41 00:01:41,766 --> 00:01:44,267 This thing was so cool at the age of 10. 42 00:01:44,497 --> 00:01:47,415 You could connect all your VHS players together 43 00:01:47,415 --> 00:01:48,707 and cut something together, 44 00:01:48,707 --> 00:01:51,635 so I called my parents and convinced them to buy this for me. 45 00:01:51,635 --> 00:01:52,945 But before I get into that, 46 00:01:52,945 --> 00:01:55,338 let me give you a little rundown about my parents. 47 00:01:55,338 --> 00:01:58,123 They came to the United States when they were young, 48 00:01:58,123 --> 00:01:59,925 they're from Taiwan in China 49 00:01:59,925 --> 00:02:02,908 and they settled in Los Altos, California -- 50 00:02:02,908 --> 00:02:05,198 the Silicon Valley before the Silicon Valley -- 51 00:02:05,198 --> 00:02:08,445 and they started a restaurant called Chef Chu's. 52 00:02:08,703 --> 00:02:11,438 50 years later, today, they still work at the restaurant, 53 00:02:11,438 --> 00:02:12,485 they're still there, 54 00:02:12,485 --> 00:02:13,586 and I grew up there, 55 00:02:13,586 --> 00:02:14,592 so it was great. 56 00:02:14,592 --> 00:02:15,771 Talk about connection -- 57 00:02:15,771 --> 00:02:17,583 this place was a hub of connection. 58 00:02:17,583 --> 00:02:22,059 People coming there to celebrate birthdays, anniversaries, business deals, 59 00:02:22,059 --> 00:02:23,279 eating, drinking -- 60 00:02:23,279 --> 00:02:24,284 connection. 61 00:02:24,284 --> 00:02:26,284 And I got to grow up in that environment. 62 00:02:26,418 --> 00:02:29,717 And my parents always said America is the greatest place in the world. 63 00:02:29,717 --> 00:02:30,787 You can -- 64 00:02:30,787 --> 00:02:34,943 if you love anything, you can work hard and you can accomplish anything you want. 65 00:02:35,150 --> 00:02:38,033 So, they raised five all-American kids. 66 00:02:38,706 --> 00:02:39,904 I am the youngest -- 67 00:02:39,904 --> 00:02:43,493 you can see I'm the one with the eyes closed there -- 68 00:02:43,493 --> 00:02:46,625 and they named actually my sister and I, Jennifer and Jonathan, 69 00:02:46,625 --> 00:02:49,895 after Jennifer and Jonathan Hart from that TV show "Hart to Hart." 70 00:02:49,895 --> 00:02:52,203 (Laughter) 71 00:02:52,203 --> 00:02:54,579 So that's how much they loved America, apparently. 72 00:02:55,164 --> 00:02:57,590 And they thought that we were The Kennedys -- 73 00:02:57,590 --> 00:02:58,703 my mom specifically -- 74 00:02:58,703 --> 00:03:01,354 so she dressed us up all the time like each other 75 00:03:01,354 --> 00:03:04,864 and she put us in etiquette classes and ballroom dance classes, 76 00:03:04,864 --> 00:03:08,574 made sure that we had the right dental plan -- 77 00:03:08,574 --> 00:03:10,270 (Laughter) 78 00:03:10,270 --> 00:03:11,675 This is a real picture of me. 79 00:03:11,675 --> 00:03:12,682 That is not fake. 80 00:03:12,682 --> 00:03:13,986 Thank God for that one. 81 00:03:14,716 --> 00:03:18,129 And I was in charge of the video camera every time we went on vacations, 82 00:03:18,129 --> 00:03:21,306 so I would collect all these videos and had nothing to do with it. 83 00:03:21,306 --> 00:03:23,852 Thus, the Sima Video Edit 2. 84 00:03:24,213 --> 00:03:25,961 I convinced them to get it for me, 85 00:03:25,961 --> 00:03:28,690 and I spent all night trying to wrangle 86 00:03:28,690 --> 00:03:30,983 all the VCRs from my brother's and sister's room, 87 00:03:30,983 --> 00:03:31,982 tangled in wires, 88 00:03:31,982 --> 00:03:33,757 and now I had something to show them. 89 00:03:33,757 --> 00:03:36,057 So I brought them into the living room one night, 90 00:03:36,057 --> 00:03:38,186 it was probably 1991, somewhere around there, 91 00:03:38,186 --> 00:03:40,074 and I sit them down in the living room, 92 00:03:40,074 --> 00:03:41,585 my heart was pounding, 93 00:03:41,585 --> 00:03:42,974 my breaths were deep -- 94 00:03:42,974 --> 00:03:44,473 sort of like right now -- 95 00:03:44,473 --> 00:03:45,974 and I pressed play 96 00:03:45,974 --> 00:03:49,264 and something extraordinary happened actually. 97 00:03:49,749 --> 00:03:50,833 They cried. 98 00:03:51,723 --> 00:03:52,724 And cried. 99 00:03:52,731 --> 00:03:56,281 They cried not because it was the most amazing home video edit ever -- 100 00:03:56,281 --> 00:03:57,757 although it was pretty good -- 101 00:03:57,757 --> 00:03:58,944 (Laughter) 102 00:03:58,944 --> 00:04:04,253 but because they saw our family as a normal family that fit in 103 00:04:04,253 --> 00:04:06,504 and belonged on the screen in front of them, 104 00:04:06,504 --> 00:04:10,873 just like the movies that they worshipped and the TV shows that they named us after. 105 00:04:11,525 --> 00:04:13,876 I remember as the youngest of these five kids 106 00:04:13,876 --> 00:04:15,717 feeling heard for the first time. 107 00:04:15,871 --> 00:04:18,407 There was this place where all these things in my head 108 00:04:18,407 --> 00:04:20,977 could go into the great, electric somewhere-out-there 109 00:04:20,977 --> 00:04:22,041 and exist and escape, 110 00:04:22,041 --> 00:04:23,538 and I knew from this moment on, 111 00:04:23,538 --> 00:04:25,609 I wanted to do this for the rest of my life, 112 00:04:25,609 --> 00:04:27,775 whether I was going to get paid for it or not. 113 00:04:27,775 --> 00:04:30,132 So I had this passion and now I needed some tools, 114 00:04:30,132 --> 00:04:31,571 and my dad went to work. 115 00:04:31,571 --> 00:04:35,143 He continued to brag about my home video editing skills 116 00:04:35,143 --> 00:04:37,101 to the customers at Chef Chu's, 117 00:04:37,101 --> 00:04:39,143 and luckily this is the Silicon Valley, 118 00:04:39,143 --> 00:04:41,240 so they're working on stuff, 119 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:42,388 hardware and software -- 120 00:04:42,388 --> 00:04:43,718 these are all engineers -- 121 00:04:43,718 --> 00:04:47,505 and they offered to give me things for digital video editing. 122 00:04:47,505 --> 00:04:50,140 This is like the mid-'90s, early '90's, 123 00:04:50,140 --> 00:04:52,723 where this stuff didn't exist for kids like me. 124 00:04:52,981 --> 00:04:57,254 So I'd get these beta software and hardware from places like HP and Sun 125 00:04:57,254 --> 00:04:59,991 and Russel Brown at Adobe. 126 00:05:00,375 --> 00:05:02,071 And I had no manual, 127 00:05:02,071 --> 00:05:04,803 so I'd figure it out and I fell in love with it even more. 128 00:05:04,866 --> 00:05:08,970 I went to USC School of Cinematic Arts and started to go there, 129 00:05:08,970 --> 00:05:12,581 and my mom and dad would always call me randomly and remind me 130 00:05:12,581 --> 00:05:16,485 that I've got to do movies about my Chinese heritage. 131 00:05:16,895 --> 00:05:20,340 That China was going to be a huge market for movies one day -- 132 00:05:20,340 --> 00:05:21,912 I was like, "Yeah right, guys" -- 133 00:05:21,912 --> 00:05:23,426 (Laughter) 134 00:05:23,426 --> 00:05:24,898 Always listen to your parents. 135 00:05:24,898 --> 00:05:28,093 (Laughter) 136 00:05:28,093 --> 00:05:31,000 I wanted to be Zemeckis, Lucas and Spielberg. 137 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:34,190 The last thing I wanted to talk about was my own cultural identity, 138 00:05:34,190 --> 00:05:35,455 my ethnicity. 139 00:05:35,797 --> 00:05:37,786 And honestly, I had no one else to talk -- 140 00:05:37,786 --> 00:05:40,528 there was no one at school that I could really open up to, 141 00:05:40,528 --> 00:05:42,539 and even if I did, like, what would I say? 142 00:05:42,539 --> 00:05:44,765 So I ignored it and I moved on with my life. 143 00:05:45,014 --> 00:05:47,080 Cut to 15 years later, 144 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:48,227 I made it in Hollywood. 145 00:05:48,227 --> 00:05:50,042 I got discovered by Spielberg, 146 00:05:50,042 --> 00:05:53,568 I worked with The Rock and Bruce Willis and Justin Bieber. 147 00:05:53,568 --> 00:05:58,037 I even came to the TED stage to present my dance company LXD, 148 00:05:58,037 --> 00:05:59,399 and it was great. 149 00:05:59,743 --> 00:06:01,168 And then a couple years ago, 150 00:06:01,168 --> 00:06:03,436 I felt a little bit lost, creatively. 151 00:06:04,008 --> 00:06:05,889 The engine was going down a little bit, 152 00:06:05,889 --> 00:06:08,710 and I got a sign ... 153 00:06:08,710 --> 00:06:11,607 I heard from voices from the sky ... 154 00:06:11,607 --> 00:06:13,189 or more it was like, birds. 155 00:06:13,413 --> 00:06:14,612 OK, fine, it was Twitter. 156 00:06:14,612 --> 00:06:15,711 And Twitter -- 157 00:06:15,711 --> 00:06:17,563 (Laughter) 158 00:06:17,563 --> 00:06:19,135 It was Constance Wu on Twitter, 159 00:06:19,135 --> 00:06:20,884 it was Daniel Dae Kim, 160 00:06:20,884 --> 00:06:23,276 it was Jenny Yang, who's here today, 161 00:06:23,276 --> 00:06:24,383 it was Alan Yang -- 162 00:06:24,383 --> 00:06:27,764 all of these people who were writing their frustrations 163 00:06:27,764 --> 00:06:30,071 with representation in Hollywood. 164 00:06:30,433 --> 00:06:31,750 And it really hit me. 165 00:06:32,043 --> 00:06:34,545 I thought these things but never really registered -- 166 00:06:34,545 --> 00:06:35,921 I was really focused on -- 167 00:06:35,921 --> 00:06:37,618 and I felt lucky to be working, 168 00:06:37,618 --> 00:06:38,932 and so then I realized -- 169 00:06:38,932 --> 00:06:40,620 yeah, what is wrong with Hollywood? 170 00:06:40,620 --> 00:06:41,953 Why aren't they doing this? 171 00:06:41,953 --> 00:06:45,895 And then I looked at myself in the mirror and realized I am Hollywood. 172 00:06:45,895 --> 00:06:46,899 I literally -- 173 00:06:46,899 --> 00:06:48,930 I popped my collar before I came out here, 174 00:06:48,930 --> 00:06:50,494 that's how Hollywood I am. 175 00:06:50,494 --> 00:06:51,486 (Laughter) 176 00:06:51,486 --> 00:06:52,494 Is it still up? 177 00:06:52,494 --> 00:06:53,493 OK, good. 178 00:06:53,493 --> 00:06:54,983 (Applause) 179 00:06:56,932 --> 00:06:59,382 For all these years I felt I had been given so much, 180 00:06:59,382 --> 00:07:02,966 and what was I giving back to the film business that I loved? 181 00:07:03,557 --> 00:07:04,715 I felt lucky to be here, 182 00:07:04,715 --> 00:07:07,924 but at this moment, I realized that I was not just lucky to be here, 183 00:07:07,924 --> 00:07:09,787 I had the right to be here. 184 00:07:09,787 --> 00:07:11,461 No, I earned the right to be here. 185 00:07:11,461 --> 00:07:12,807 All those sleepless nights, 186 00:07:12,807 --> 00:07:14,711 all those parties I missed on Fridays, 187 00:07:14,711 --> 00:07:18,370 every friend and girlfriend I lost because I was editing -- 188 00:07:18,370 --> 00:07:22,103 I earned the right to be here not just to have a voice but to say something, 189 00:07:22,103 --> 00:07:23,491 and say something important, 190 00:07:23,491 --> 00:07:25,493 and I had, actually, the power -- 191 00:07:25,493 --> 00:07:29,523 the superpower to change things if I really, really wanted to. 192 00:07:31,871 --> 00:07:33,892 When you try to tell stories about yourself 193 00:07:33,892 --> 00:07:36,561 and people who look like you and look like your familiy, 194 00:07:36,561 --> 00:07:37,561 it can be scary, 195 00:07:37,561 --> 00:07:39,875 and all those feelings of being alone came back. 196 00:07:39,875 --> 00:07:41,559 But the internet is what told me -- 197 00:07:41,559 --> 00:07:44,821 sent the sign that there was going to be a whole army waiting for me 198 00:07:44,821 --> 00:07:46,760 to support me and to love me for it. 199 00:07:47,115 --> 00:07:51,386 And so I found Kevin Kwan's amazing novel, "Crazy Rich Asians" 200 00:07:51,386 --> 00:07:52,402 and we went to work. 201 00:07:52,402 --> 00:07:54,274 We put this movie together. 202 00:07:54,792 --> 00:07:55,918 All-Asian cast -- 203 00:07:55,918 --> 00:07:59,012 the first all-Asian cast in 25 years with a contemporary story -- 204 00:07:59,012 --> 00:08:02,427 (Applause and cheers) 205 00:08:02,427 --> 00:08:06,700 But when we started it was not a guarantee at all. 206 00:08:07,290 --> 00:08:09,299 There was no comp for this kind of movie. 207 00:08:10,175 --> 00:08:11,909 Every time we did surveys and stuff, 208 00:08:11,909 --> 00:08:13,820 the audiences weren't going to show up. 209 00:08:13,820 --> 00:08:17,345 In fact, even in our test screenings where you give free tickets to people 210 00:08:17,345 --> 00:08:19,088 to watch your movie, 211 00:08:19,088 --> 00:08:21,068 we had a one to 25 ratio, 212 00:08:21,068 --> 00:08:23,396 meaning after 25 asked, only one person said yes, 213 00:08:23,396 --> 00:08:25,524 which is super low for these types of things. 214 00:08:25,622 --> 00:08:28,565 Asian people who knew the book didn't trust Hollywood at all, 215 00:08:28,565 --> 00:08:32,273 Asian people who didn't know the book thought the title was offensive, 216 00:08:32,273 --> 00:08:36,402 and other people who weren't Asian just didn't think it was for them. 217 00:08:36,402 --> 00:08:38,431 So we were pretty screwed. 218 00:08:39,128 --> 00:08:41,607 Luckily, Warner Brothers didn't turn away from us. 219 00:08:41,607 --> 00:08:44,110 But then the electric somewhere struck again, 220 00:08:44,110 --> 00:08:49,972 and this army of Asian-American writers, reporters, bloggers 221 00:08:49,972 --> 00:08:55,005 who over the years had worked their way up through their respective publications, 222 00:08:55,005 --> 00:08:56,951 went to work, unbeknownst to me. 223 00:08:56,951 --> 00:08:58,495 And they started to post things. 224 00:08:58,633 --> 00:09:02,366 Also, some tech founders out here started to post stuff on social media, 225 00:09:02,366 --> 00:09:05,904 write stuff about us in articles in the "LA Times," 226 00:09:05,904 --> 00:09:08,663 in "The Hollywood Reporter" and "Entertainment Weekly." 227 00:09:08,663 --> 00:09:14,202 It was like this grassroots uprising of making ourselves news. 228 00:09:14,659 --> 00:09:16,583 One amazing thing to witness. 229 00:09:17,527 --> 00:09:23,256 And the swell of support turned into this conversation online 230 00:09:23,256 --> 00:09:27,346 between all these Asian Americans where we could actually debate and discuss 231 00:09:27,346 --> 00:09:28,943 what stories we wanted to tell, 232 00:09:28,943 --> 00:09:30,653 what stories should be told or not, 233 00:09:30,653 --> 00:09:31,649 what kind of -- 234 00:09:31,649 --> 00:09:33,610 are we allowed to make fun of ourselves? 235 00:09:33,610 --> 00:09:34,864 What about casting? 236 00:09:34,864 --> 00:09:36,234 What are we allowed to do? 237 00:09:36,234 --> 00:09:37,554 And we didn't agree -- 238 00:09:37,554 --> 00:09:38,944 and we still don't, 239 00:09:38,944 --> 00:09:40,661 but that wasn't the point. 240 00:09:40,661 --> 00:09:42,985 The point was the conversation was happening. 241 00:09:43,389 --> 00:09:47,219 And this conversation stream became an infrastructure. 242 00:09:47,219 --> 00:09:50,854 It took all these different groups that were trying to achieve the same thing 243 00:09:50,854 --> 00:09:54,262 and put us all together in this connective tissue. 244 00:09:54,908 --> 00:09:56,248 And again, not perfect, 245 00:09:56,248 --> 00:10:00,391 but the start of how we determine our own representation on the big screen. 246 00:10:01,852 --> 00:10:04,581 It became more physical when I went to the movie theater. 247 00:10:05,054 --> 00:10:07,712 I'll never forget going opening weekend, 248 00:10:07,712 --> 00:10:09,081 and I went into the theater, 249 00:10:09,081 --> 00:10:10,368 and it's not just Asians -- 250 00:10:10,368 --> 00:10:11,544 all types of people -- 251 00:10:11,544 --> 00:10:12,751 and I go in and sit down, 252 00:10:12,751 --> 00:10:14,495 and people laughed, 253 00:10:14,495 --> 00:10:16,353 people cried, 254 00:10:16,353 --> 00:10:19,154 and when I went into the lobby, 255 00:10:19,154 --> 00:10:20,326 people stayed. 256 00:10:20,809 --> 00:10:22,642 It's like they didn't want to leave. 257 00:10:22,858 --> 00:10:24,609 They just hugged each other, 258 00:10:24,609 --> 00:10:25,707 high-fived each other, 259 00:10:25,707 --> 00:10:26,710 took selfies, 260 00:10:26,710 --> 00:10:27,711 they debated it, 261 00:10:27,711 --> 00:10:28,773 they laughed about it. 262 00:10:28,773 --> 00:10:30,058 All these different things. 263 00:10:30,468 --> 00:10:33,704 I had such an intimate relationship with this movie, 264 00:10:33,704 --> 00:10:36,350 but I didn't understand when we were making it 265 00:10:36,350 --> 00:10:39,960 what we were making until it was happening -- 266 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:45,059 that it was the same thing that my parents felt when they watched our family videos 267 00:10:45,059 --> 00:10:46,630 in that living room that day. 268 00:10:46,836 --> 00:10:50,240 Seeing us on the screen has a power to it, 269 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:52,666 and the only way I can describe it is pride. 270 00:10:53,097 --> 00:10:56,618 I have always understood this word intellectually -- 271 00:10:56,618 --> 00:10:58,754 I've probably talked about this word, 272 00:10:58,754 --> 00:11:00,744 but to actually feel pride -- 273 00:11:00,744 --> 00:11:02,731 and those of you who have felt it know -- 274 00:11:02,731 --> 00:11:07,087 it's like you just want to like, touch everybody and grab and run around. 275 00:11:07,087 --> 00:11:08,523 It's like a very -- 276 00:11:08,523 --> 00:11:09,560 I can't explain -- 277 00:11:09,560 --> 00:11:11,407 it's just a very physical feeling, 278 00:11:11,407 --> 00:11:15,428 all because of a long pattern of connection. 279 00:11:16,631 --> 00:11:19,161 Film was a gift given to me, 280 00:11:19,161 --> 00:11:21,717 and through the years I've learned a lot of things. 281 00:11:21,717 --> 00:11:24,809 You can plan, you can write scripts, you can do your storyboards, 282 00:11:24,809 --> 00:11:26,930 but at a certain point, 283 00:11:26,930 --> 00:11:29,206 your movie will speak back to you, 284 00:11:29,206 --> 00:11:31,437 and it's your job to listen. 285 00:11:31,744 --> 00:11:34,427 It's this living organism and it sort of presents itself, 286 00:11:34,427 --> 00:11:37,172 so you better catch it before it slips through your hands, 287 00:11:37,172 --> 00:11:39,723 and that's the most exciting part about making movies. 288 00:11:39,723 --> 00:11:42,315 When I look at life, it's not that different actually. 289 00:11:42,315 --> 00:11:46,595 I've been led through these sort of breadcrumbs of connections 290 00:11:46,595 --> 00:11:47,774 through people, 291 00:11:47,774 --> 00:11:48,963 through circumstances, 292 00:11:48,963 --> 00:11:50,254 through luck. 293 00:11:50,578 --> 00:11:55,164 And it changed when I realized that once you start listening 294 00:11:55,164 --> 00:11:57,690 to the silent beats and the messy noises around you, 295 00:11:57,690 --> 00:12:01,479 you realize that there's this beautiful symphony already written for you. 296 00:12:01,898 --> 00:12:04,168 A direct line to your destiny. 297 00:12:04,791 --> 00:12:06,022 Your superpower. 298 00:12:06,474 --> 00:12:10,645 Now, film was a gift given to me, 299 00:12:10,645 --> 00:12:15,333 sort of spurned on by my parents and supported by my community. 300 00:12:15,683 --> 00:12:18,732 I got to be who I wanted to be when I needed to be it. 301 00:12:19,636 --> 00:12:21,982 My mom posted something on Facebook the other day, 302 00:12:21,982 --> 00:12:26,077 which is usually really bad things to say out loud -- 303 00:12:26,077 --> 00:12:28,234 scary, she should not have a Facebook, but -- 304 00:12:28,234 --> 00:12:29,857 (Laughter) 305 00:12:29,857 --> 00:12:30,954 she posted this thing, 306 00:12:30,954 --> 00:12:31,947 and it was a meme, 307 00:12:31,947 --> 00:12:33,676 you know, one of those funny things, 308 00:12:33,676 --> 00:12:36,776 and it said, "You can't change someone who doesn't want to change, 309 00:12:36,776 --> 00:12:39,309 but never underestimate the power of planting a seed." 310 00:12:39,309 --> 00:12:41,910 And as I was doing the finishing touches on this talk, 311 00:12:41,910 --> 00:12:44,729 I realized that all the powerful connections in my life 312 00:12:44,729 --> 00:12:50,859 were through generosity and kindness and love and hope. 313 00:12:51,035 --> 00:12:54,429 So when I think about my movies "Crazy Rich Asians" and "In the Heights" 314 00:12:54,429 --> 00:12:56,139 which I'm working on right now -- 315 00:12:56,139 --> 00:12:57,442 (Applause and cheers) 316 00:12:57,442 --> 00:12:58,776 Yes, it's a good one. 317 00:12:59,590 --> 00:13:04,238 All I want to do is show joy and hope in them, 318 00:13:04,238 --> 00:13:07,635 because I refuse to believe that our best days are behind us, 319 00:13:07,635 --> 00:13:09,655 but in fact, around the corner. 320 00:13:10,077 --> 00:13:11,383 Because you see love -- 321 00:13:11,383 --> 00:13:14,099 love is the superpower that was given to me. 322 00:13:14,324 --> 00:13:18,366 Love is the superpower that was passed onto me. 323 00:13:19,079 --> 00:13:23,308 Love is the only thing that can stop a speeding bullet 324 00:13:23,308 --> 00:13:24,880 before it even exits the chamber. 325 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:27,373 Love is the only thing that can leap over a building 326 00:13:27,373 --> 00:13:31,069 and have a whole community look up into the sky, 327 00:13:31,069 --> 00:13:32,436 join hands, 328 00:13:32,436 --> 00:13:36,268 and have the courage to face something that's impossibly bigger than themselves. 329 00:13:37,027 --> 00:13:39,642 So I have a challenge for myself and for anyone here. 330 00:13:39,773 --> 00:13:42,459 As you're working on your thing, 331 00:13:42,459 --> 00:13:43,559 on your company, 332 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:45,454 and you're forging this thing to life, 333 00:13:45,454 --> 00:13:48,011 and you're making the impossible possible, 334 00:13:48,011 --> 00:13:51,925 let's just not forget to be kind to each other, 335 00:13:51,925 --> 00:13:55,179 because I believe that is the most powerful form of connection 336 00:13:55,179 --> 00:13:56,682 we can give to this planet. 337 00:13:56,682 --> 00:13:59,741 In fact, our future depends on it. 338 00:14:00,069 --> 00:14:01,462 Thank you. 339 00:14:01,462 --> 00:14:04,009 (Applause and cheers) 340 00:14:04,009 --> 00:14:05,014 Thank you. 341 00:14:05,014 --> 00:14:07,301 (Applause)