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- Kama bado unasumbukana na kibali,

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fikiria tu badala ya kuanzisha ngono,

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unawatengezea kikombe cha chai.

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Unasema: "Hey, ungependa kikombe cha chai?"

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Na wataenda: "Oh Mungu Wangu, ndio!

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"Ningependa sana kikombe cha chai! Ahsante!"

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Kisha unajua wanataka kikombe cha chai.

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Ukisema, "Ungependa kikombe cha chai?"

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Na wako kama:"Sina uhakika kikamilifu."

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Basi unaeza watengezea kikombe cha chai,

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ama la, lakini uwe mwangalifu;

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wanaeza kosa kuikunywa.

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Na wasipoinywa, basi -

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- na hapa ndipo pahali muhimu -

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- usiwalazimishe kunywa.

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Kwa sababu wewe ndio uliyeitengeneza haimaanishi

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uko na haki ya kuwaona wakiinywa.

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Na wakisema, "Hapana, ahsante."

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basi usiwatengezee chai, kabsaa.

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Usiwategenzee chai.

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Usiwafanye wakunywe chai,

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usiwakasirikie

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kwa kukataa kutaka chai

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hawataki chai tu, sawa?

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Wanaeza sema: "Ndio, tafadhali,

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"Huu ndi ukarimu wako"

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Na alafu chai itakapo wasili,

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hawataki chai kabsaa.

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Kwa ukweli iyo inaudhi kwa sababu umejitolea

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nguvu ya kutengeneza chai,

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lakini hawako katika wajibu ya kukunywa chai.

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Walitaka chai, sahii hawataki.

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Watu wengine hubadilisha mawazo katika ule muda

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inachukua birika, kuandaa chai

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na kuongeza maziwa.

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na ni sawa kwa watu kubadilisha mawazo.

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Na bado huna haki ya kuwaona

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wakiinywa.

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And kama hawana fahamu, usiwatengezee kahawa.

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Watu hawana fahamu hawataki chai, na

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hawawezi jibu hilo swali, "Unataka chai?"

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kwa sababu hawana famahu.

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Sawa, labda walikuwa na fahamu wakati uliwauliza

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kama wanataka chai, na

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wakasema ndio, lakini katika wakati uliokuchukua

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kuchemsha birika, kuandaa hio chai na

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uongeza maziwa , hawana fahamu sahi.

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Unafaa kueka chai chini,

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hakikisha huyu

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Na hii ndio sehemu muhimu tena

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Usiwalazimishe wanywe kahawa!

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Walisema ndio angali, lakini watu wasio timamu

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hawataki chai.

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Kama mtu alisema ndio atakunywa chai, akanza

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kuinywa alafu akazimia

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kabla wamalize kuinywa, usiendelee

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kumwaga ndani mwa kinywa zao

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Peleka chai mbali, na uhakikishe ako salama.

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Kwa sababu watu wasio fahamu hawataki chai, nimamini.

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Kama kuna mtu alisema ndio kwa chai karibu na

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nyumba yako siku ya Juma Mosi, hio haimaanishi wanakutaka

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uwatengenezee chai kila wakati.

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Hawataki uje karibu na

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kwao bila kutarajiwa na uwatengezee chai,

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uwalazimishe kuinywa, ukisema:

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"Lakini ulisema unahitaji chai wiki iliopita."

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Ama waamke wapatae unawamwagia

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chai chini mwa vinywa vyao, ukisema:

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"Lakini ulisema unahitaji chai jana usiku."

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Kama unaeza elewa kabsaa namna ya

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upuzi kulazimisha watu kuchukua

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chai wakati hawataki kunywa chai, na

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unaweza kuelewa wakati watu

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hawataki chai, basi je, ni ugumu upi upo

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kuelewa inapokuja kwa ngono?

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Iwapo ni chai ama ngono,

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kibali ni kila kitu.

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Na juu ya huo wajibu, ninaenda

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kujitengezea kikombe cha chai.