1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,000 Une jam Xhessi, dhe kjo eshte valixhja ime. 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:06,000 Por perpara se tju tregoj se cfare kam brenda, 3 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:09,000 do bej nje rrefim public, 4 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:11,000 dhe kjo eshte qe, 5 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:13,000 jam e fiksuar me kostumet. 6 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:15,000 Me pelqen shume te gjej, te vesh, 7 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:17,000 dhe tani kohet e fundit, 8 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:19,000 te fotografoj dhe te fus ne blog, 9 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,000 nje veshje krejt ndryshe me shume ngjyra 10 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:24,000 per cdo rast. 11 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:26,000 Por nuk blej asnje gje te re. 12 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,000 I blej te gjitha rrobat e mia ne dyqane te dores se dyte 13 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:31,000 nga pazaret dhe dyqane me gjera te perdorura. 14 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:33,000 Aww, faleminderit. 15 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,000 Blerja e dores se dyte 16 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,000 me lejon te zvogeloj impaktin 17 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:40,000 qe veshjet e mia kane mbi ambjentin 18 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:42,000 dhe ne portofolin tim. 19 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,000 Ne fakt me jep mundesine te takoj tere ata njerez te mire; 20 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:47,000 parate e mia shkojne per nje qellim te mire; 21 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:49,000 dukem ndyshe nga te tjeret; 22 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:52,000 dhe e ben pazarin si e gjuetia ime personale per thesare. 23 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:54,000 Po them, cfare do gjej une sot? 24 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:56,000 Do jete masa ime? 25 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:58,000 Do pelqej ngjyren? 26 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:01,000 Do jete nen $20? 27 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:03,000 Nese te gjitha pergjigjet jane "PO", 28 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:05,000 ndihem sikur kam fituar. 29 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:08,000 Le ti rikthehem valixhes time 30 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:10,000 dhe tju them se cfare kam brenda me vete 31 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,000 per kete jave emocionuese ne TED. 32 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:16,000 Cfare mund te sjelle me vete dikush me tere keto veshje? 33 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:19,000 Keshtuqe do tju tregoj tamam se cfare kam sjelle. 34 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:22,000 Kam shtate pale te brendshme 35 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:25,000 dhe aq. 36 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:28,000 Te brendshme per nje jave 37 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,000 dhe aq kam vene ne valixhe. 38 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:33,000 E dija qe mund te gjeja 39 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:35,000 te gjitha te tjerat qe mund te doja te vishja 40 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:38,000 kur te arrija ketu ne Palm Springs. 41 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:40,000 Dhe meqe ju nuk me njihni 42 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,000 si gruaja qe ecen neper TED thjesht ne te brendshmet - 43 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:44,000 (te qeshura) 44 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,000 do te thote qe kam gjetur ca gjera. 45 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:49,000 Tani dua tju tregoj keto veshje per nje jave. 46 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:51,000 Ju pelqen? 47 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:53,000 (Duartrokitje) 48 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:55,000 Duke bere kete, 49 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:58,000 Do tju them gjithashtu disa mesime te vogla nga jeta 50 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,000 qe, po deshe besoni, i kam mesuar 51 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:03,000 nga keto aventura duke veshur asnje gje te re. 52 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:05,000 Te fillojme me te Djelen. 53 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:07,000 E quaj kete tiger ne shkelqim. 54 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:11,000 Nuk duhet te harxhosh shume para qe te dukesh bukur. 55 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:14,000 Afersisht cdo here mund te dukesh fenomenale me me pak se 50 dollar. 56 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:16,000 E gjithe kjo veshje, dhe me xhaketen, 57 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,000 ishte 55 dollar, 58 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:20,000 dhe ishte veshja me e shtrenjete 59 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,000 qe vesha gjate gjithe javes. 60 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:25,000 E Hena: Ngjyra eshte e fuqishme. 61 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:28,000 Eshte afersisht fiziologjikisht e pamundur 62 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:31,000 te jesh ne humor te keq kur ke veshur pantallona te kuqe. 63 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,000 (Te qeshura) 64 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:36,000 Nese je i gëzuar 65 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:39,000 do terhiqni njerez te tjere te gëzuar. 66 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,000 E Marte: 67 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:44,000 Pershtatshmeria eshte shume e mbivleresuar. 68 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:46,000 Kam kaluar nje pjese te madhe te jetes 69 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,000 duke u munduar te jem vetvetja 70 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:50,000 dhe ne te njeten kohe te pershtatem. 71 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,000 Thjesht jetoni si vetja juaj. 72 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:55,000 Nese e rrethon veten me njerez e duhur, 73 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,000 ata jo vetem qe do te te kuptojne, 74 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:59,000 po dhe do te vleresojne. 75 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:01,000 E Merkura: 76 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:03,000 Sillu si femija qe ke brenda. 77 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:05,000 Ndonjehere njerezit me thone 78 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,000 qe duket sikur po loz me rroba, 79 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:11,000 ose qe i dukem si femija e tyre 7 vjece. 80 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,000 Me pelqen te buzeqesh 81 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:15,000 dhe te them "Faleminderit". 82 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:17,000 E Enjte: 83 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,000 Besimi eshte shume i rendesishem. 84 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:21,000 Nese mendon qe dukesh mire ne dicka, 85 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:23,000 pothuasje me siguri qe dukeni mire. 86 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:25,000 Dhe po mendove qe nuk dukesh bukur ne nje veshje, 87 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:27,000 gjithashtu ke te drejte. 88 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:31,000 U rrita me nje mama qe me mesoi kete gje cdo dite. 89 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,000 Por nuk ishte deri sa u bera 30 vjece 90 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:35,000 qe me te vertete mesova se cfare do te thoshte. 91 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:38,000 Dhe do t'jua shpjegoj dhe juve ne nje sekond. 92 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:41,000 Po mendove qe je njeri i bukur, 93 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:44,000 ne shpirt dhe ne dukje, 94 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:47,000 do te dukesh mire me cdo veshje. 95 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:49,000 Keshtu qe nuk ka asnje arsye per ndonje nga ne ketu ne audience. 96 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:52,000 Mund te veshim cfare do qe duam e te shkelqejme. 97 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,000 Faleminderit. 98 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:57,000 (Duartrokitje) 99 00:03:57,000 --> 00:04:00,000 E Premte: nje e vertete universale - pese fjale: 100 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:05,000 Teminat e arta shkojne me te gjitha. 101 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:08,000 Dhe me ne fund, e Shtuna: 102 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:10,000 Te zhvillosh stilin personal te vecante 103 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:13,000 eshte nje menyre shume e bukur per ti treguar botes dicka per ty 104 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,000 pa thene asnje fjale. 105 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:17,000 E kam pare kohe pas kohe 106 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:19,000 me njerez qe jane afruar te takohen kete jave 107 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,000 thjesht nga veshjet e mia. 108 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,000 Dhe kemi patur diskutime te bukura. 109 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,000 Dhe e di qe sigurisht keto rroba nuk do futen dot 110 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:27,000 brenda ne valixhen time te vogel. 111 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:29,000 Keshtuqe perpara se te kthehem ne Brooklyn, 112 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:31,000 do ti dhuroj te gjitha. 113 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:34,000 Sepse mesimi qe po mundohem te mesoj vete kete jave 114 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:37,000 eshte qe nuk eshte keq te ti le gjerat te shkojne. 115 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:39,000 Nuk me duhet te lidhem emocionalisht me keto gjera, 116 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,000 sepse afer meje, 117 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,000 do te kete gjithmone, 118 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,000 nje veshje tjeter me ngjyra te forta, 119 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:47,000 veshje me shkëlqim 120 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,000 duke pritur per mua, 121 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:51,000 nese i shikoj ato me dashuri. 122 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:53,000 Faleminderit shume. 123 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:56,000 (Duartrokitje) 124 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:58,000 Faleminderit. 125 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:03,000 (Duartrokitje)