the Bedrock of any Union has to be our love for God and that must supersede everything else because Who who how many people are in the marriage it's just you your spouse and God other people can't dictate how you decide to live your life and if you allow other opinions or other uh maybe different cultural issues or any family issues or any kind of opinions to to have precedence in that early stage you're setting yourself up for for problems and that reminds me of something that Prophet T Joshua said he said that when when we were under training there he said marriage is all about decency and decency is about the Holy Spirit in your life so all of us are on a process the holy spirit is working a process in our heart and definitely the right time brings the right person we shouldn't be looking we've said that before we shouldn't be going around looking actively we should be looking for the presence of God looking for the Holy Spirit to come and abide in our hearts cuz that will is what will create that decency within us a Godly home does not just happen it is built there's only one Foundation the word of God God said to man it's not good for man to be alone the Bible says he made him an helper like him like him holy spirit makes you walk you don't see yourself you see yourself in your wife and she see herself in you that's the mystery when Adam looked and saw Eve he say Flesh of My Flesh and Bones of my bone one Spirit one thought one heart one mind Victory forever today we want to talk about the foundation of our life yes the foundation of our life is our home and this is a time of year that so many people they want to change their life in some way so many of us want to enter a new year with a new resolution looking at how we can change areas of our life that we know are not really on the right path righteousness begins at home and where is home well home is all about our family life that's where Purity begins and that's where we can set our life right and from there everything else will follow and it's such an important topic because if we don't get this right then it's a a big mistake that can Cloud everything else in life this is tandi and Cuda and it's a wonderful blessing to have them with us here today they are friends and partners of the U and we consider them part of the family and today we actually want to listen to their story I believe it will really impact you and impact your faith to know that when you put your life right in God's standard then you open the door to His blessings in your life and why are we having this interview today because so many people are in a situation where maybe they can't seem to choose the right thing because they can't see clearly or Reason clearly because when we live outside of God's standard we are living out outside of the light of God we're actually in darkness and that's why we can't see the way to go or how to follow the right way but once you take that decision in righteousness to obey God's word and set your life right you will see that that strength of conviction will come and that is definitely been the case in their life and I've I'm a witness to see what God has done in their life and I'm so happy for them and we want to share it with you because we believe we're blessed to bless others amen amen absolutely so you're both welcome so much thank you thank you for having us yeah truly God is alive and he works wonders in our lives and if he can do it for them he can do it for you so Tandy can you just tell us let's start from you in a in a nutshell in a summary at the beginning how has God transformed your relationship and your life through obeying God's word and what was love life like before before that happened okay um so yeah um hearing from God and and F in God's will for our lives and listening to God obeying God has transformed my life our lives greatly um I'll just give a little bit of insight of what life was like before um outside of God's Will and um you know in our relationship we were trying to do the right thing but obviously not doing the right thing uh we were not married we were more or less you know as plainly put living in sin you're not living according to to the word of God and there was a lot of confusion because of that when you're not obeying God's word it does bring a lot of confusion there was uh a few tests and tribulations in the relationship um we had a lot of um outside opinion from family members from you know friends everyone had their own opinions it was bringing confusion into our relationship um at one point we were not sure if we were meant to be together if we're going to be together um it was a case of are we going to keep going or are we going to break up um and at that point where there was a lot of confusion um you were also expecting a child wow so that that made everything even the more confusing it made everything even more confusing um to the point where when you listen to outside opinions that are not um Godly I came to the point where I actually thought well I'll be able to live the you know a single woman's life I can be a single mother I can do things for myself I don't need Cuda in my life and that's when um God stepped in and and things started to happen to bring us to University of God so through my sister who is a partner with the the University of God we came into contact with yourselves and uh Prophet Rin and the way God works is such a wonderful way because it puts things into such a timeline that we can try as much as you can to do things our way but when God says it's time for me to step in and do things his way it works in such a smooth and wonderful way so um when it came to the time when we came into contact with yourselves um we received guidance and we received you know a lot of confirmation of what we were already thinking and feeling that actually you know we were meant to be together we need to get married do things the right way and see what God will do for you that's the the words that the prophet um Rin had given to us do the right thing follow God's word obey God and see what he'll do for you and surely yes you know after we listened things started to to fall into place in a wonderful way so we got married first of all this year we got married and um we found out that we were expecting and after we had lost the first baby we received a word from Prophet Rasin that God is going to give you another boy wow so we got the confirmation that yes you meant to be together you're meant to you know go and get married do the right thing but also on top of that God is going to give you another child and for sure it came to pass that you know it felt pregnant it was a boy wow and even in that whole pregnancy it was such a smooth pregnancy um the medical professionals had their opinions but God said no don't listen to any of that he protected the pregnancy all the way through and by God's grace and blessings we have our son with us today wow oh wow that's that's such a wonderful wonderful testimony and I I just want to take you back a bit CU you mentioned about how there was a pressure that were even thought there was a Temptation that you were thinking because if everything was so tough in your life and you were confused where you thought well even if I'm a single mom it's okay I don't need uh uh the father of the child in my life you know I I can do it alone and I think that's such a dangerous lie of Satan isn't it because especially in this day and age where so many people are thinking they're empowered to maybe just do it alone and they don't know that this is against God's law because there's a way God does things for a purpose and you know for for a child uh to come into the world with you know a mother father together grounded in God that's just God's plan because that's the and we can see how that's under attack in this day and age because it is the Bedrock of society and the Bedrock of of of Christian life and that's why we're talking today about the foundation of life and what I love so much about God is that God can always turn our situation around even if we make mistakes with our life even if we maybe take some wrong decisions in our life which I'm sure everyone has at some point taken a wrong decision God can turn everything around that's what the Bible says in Romans 8 vers 28 that God will turn everything around for the good of those who love him and are called according to his purpose so if we truly know that we're in God's purpose in our life God can turn any situation around so it's never too late to put our life right and obey the will of God is always the best decision at the beginning why was it difficult because some people might say well it's obvious if maybe you're already expecting why would you not want to get married and be together what was some of the the pressures or the difficulties or the obstacles at that point when you couldn't see clearly in your life that seemed to be stopping you from doing that it it just felt like there was a blockage um in terms of us moving forward in our relationship like I said we we genuinely love each other dearly and we wanted to be together but it was just that blockage of not being able to see past a certain point that if you get married and get married under God's law that's the right thing to do we well I can speak for myself I I fall to the pressures of society to think well if this is not going to happen you you tend to feel like there's um pressure to get married by a certain age or you need to have your children by a certain age you need to do certain things and that's a lie you God's timing is you know really Incredible God can give you a life even after you 30s or after 40s where to say in your 20s you should be L by now and and things like that oh yeah I understand what you mean so you felt maybe because you'd gone past that stage and you thought well already um if I'm not married now what's the point yeah it's gone ship is gone yeah and I oh that's a really good point you know so we we should not be governed by by pressures of of of age or timing whereas we should trust God's process because you mentioned that You' know each other for a very long time but now if you compare your relationship now that you can see God's worked in your life and you've come to that stage cu the right time has really brought the right person and and that's what we can see the the the fruit of that yeah yeah absolutely it's incredible because once you are walking under God's path under God's Direction you have such peace in your life I can't describe it to the viewers enough that chaos and the chaotic lifestyle and the uncertainties it's like walking through thick mud but when God steps into your life he takes you out of that mud and he puts you on good ground and you're able to have a smoother easier journey and I I can't describe it enough that difference of living in the world and living under the The Obedience of God it's a blessing to walk Under The Obedience of God Amen so Cuda we'd like to hear from you from your from your perspective um what was it like before in terms of not being able to see clearly or or to you know in terms of your role because you know the Bible's very clear about the role of of of the man and the father you know uh why was it you couldn't see clearly at that time and how did God now bring that that light of Revelation to you and what gave you the conviction to follow God despite pressures telling you otherwise thank you Ruth uh I think for me before to uh come to be with handy and be with handy I was in Tero I was not at peace I was looking for an answer but God was pushing me in a particular direction but it's not a direction that I was expecting due to family guidance due to Conventional everything that we know in the world was against that so God is showing me this direction and everyone is up in fighting that direction and I'm stuck here and I'm thinking what do I do so I was not a peace uh Tero I was praying fasting and praying but still God is pushing me that direction and still with the direction then I don't want to go so it's uh it went on for a while until uh one time I was praying and fasting and uh God showed me in a dream he showed me the man of God uh Prophet Rasin he showed me the man of God and I showed us connecting with each other and and uh a year later we came to be in contact through our sister who a partner in in your ministry as well so that you know um when I got to be in touch with you guys uh and speak to the prophet the man of God and he assured me that the way God was showing me was the right way even though I was trying to fight it all these years um he gave me peace inside me M and he gave me direction he gave me what I needed to do because when God speaks he gives you Direction it gives you follow steps to follow so I followed what he told me to do and from then my wife and I uh she's now my wife uh things started moving so smoothly we got married uh we had had disappointment before but we got married and got blessed us and it's just been blessing upon blessing since then and I have heard so much peace in my heart and I'm so happy in this marriage you know it's not it's something that you do not get if you do not follow God's way and uh before I didn't and uh now I can tell the difference yeah and uh it's uh just when you pray and ask God God will answer the Bible says it's a reward of those who diligently seek Him amen yes so he's actually telling you which way to go directing us he's ready to do then he's waiting for us to come to him and ask CU he is his our best interested heart exactly so when you come to God and ask he loves that he give you show you Direction but it's up to you to follow it up no it's true obeying God at first seems hard until we come to realize that all he asks is actually for our good for our good yeah to give us the life that's P them free one area you mentioned I think it's so important because when it comes to matters of relationship husband and wife you know no one can come and tell you oh this is your wife this is your husband um it it has to be a conviction that's already in your heart and anything anyone tells you as a word from God it should only confirm confir what what God has already put in your heart um because at the end of the day the relationship is between you your husband or your wife and God no one else is in that relationship it's not like you can say oh you told me this is my wife now there's a problem you the one to blame you know so we should really guard against that um that temptation to just say oh because this person says is my wife this person says my husband or or I had a dream or or someone can say oh this person is your wife or your husband no you God will always speak to our heart the question is are we listening yes the question is is our heart in the right place to receive and hear the voice of God and then like you mentioned are we ready to obey that voice yes and I think that's what you really did you you were seeking God and once you Reed that confirmation that look this is the right for you when you set your life right together you will see how God will bless you yes and you've seen the before and after so you you can tell the difference between when you're living you're having a relationship outside of God's God's standard it's just confusion you mentioned turmoil although you might love the person emotions are just bound up with so many other things have peace you never have peace and um and can can you tell us as well a bit about the the decision to get married because I know people can also identify with this um what were the maybe some of the obstacles you had to overcome just tell us a bit about that because I think people can probably relate as well the the number one thing is um uh tradition yeah tradition coming from Africa and we do things a certain way and uh everyone expects you to go along that way but if you ask them why do we do this and that and that no one can tell you that because it's tradition like the Bible Apostle Paul said passed on from our elders all all the way down but no one really knows what's happening but God does not do tradition you understand so God gave us particular a particular route to follow do this in my kingdom you do this in Tradition in the world you do that but in the Kingdom for my marriage blessed by me ordained by me brought together by me this is how we do it so we followed God's voice we didn't listen to any outside influence yeah we followed what God has directed us to do and uh it's just been blessing after blessing wow so there is outside pressure there's always going to be tradition there's always going to be outside influence but when God gives you the directive I pray you follow that and that's the only way to your blessing to your happiness in your marriage yeah and I think that's what a lot of people might find difficulty with is the outside pressures from family and and friends especially with these traditions and cultures that you know they they're not really um there's nothing wrong with tradition and culture of course but some some specifics are not the right way of of doing things God way is very direct if you follow God's way honestly it will just be so straightforward you'll have peace your life will transform and um that's exactly what happened to us yeah wow yeah I I I really think you've you've said it all in that aspect and I think people can do well to to learn from your experience because it all happens so quickly that's another thing you know so many people think oh I don't have enough money to get married or it's not the right time because I need to have this amount and you know when it comes to a matter of marriage it's a heart decision and once your heart has made that decision and God has sealed it then you know it it's it's not about having a specific standard that needs to be met in order to get married whatever standard that might be set by Society or by family or by pressure or by competition or anything it's God is the witness to that marriage and the most important thing is that God is the witness I've seen what God has done in your life you know God provided you of a wonderful place to live and then you know you you you lost your baby but God gave you another boy just as the prophet said and um tell us about as well you said the pregnancy went so smoothly I know that even even the details of how and when the baby was born tell us about that like how God intervened in that area oh that was incredible um so a few days it was a few days before um our son was born we actually received um word from prophet rasim and he was very specific he said said get ready on Thursday it was Monday and he said Thursday wow and he said get ready on Thursday and that that wasn't the due date that you'd been given by th yeah Thursday yes so and exactly as as he had said it um as he had received the word from God and passed on that word to us happened exactly that way uh Thursday at midnight Wednesday midnight rather entering into Thursday morning that's when the contraction started exactly on time and our son was born um Thursday morning wow and I know even because of the previous complication that they were the medical professionals were were worried maybe they wanted to induce you and and I remember he said no that's not going to happen to you yeah yeah that's exactly what happened as well so I was not induced um everything went smoothly W thank you Jesus and yeah it was a perfect birth and even the name yes even the name the name was um when was it given to us um before birth was before bir before he was born before so before our son was born we also receive confirmation of his name that's the name um as he's known by God as his name as he will be known in heaven that's his real name that's what we will given James James James so it's um it's it's a it's uh it's wonderful to receive these uh confirmation and guidance from the men of God and from you as well because uh this is what uh builds our faith as well as we walk along this journey because um uh he said the boy will be born on Thursday whereas they wanted to Inu you on Saturday so uh God Made A Way and then he said no uh man of God said you know what I don't want this I'm praying to God and then he called and said Thursday the baby's coming don't do anything don't go anywhere I said ah okay so and Thursday or Wednesday midnight constructions began uh Thursday morning baby came baby arrived healthy wonderful baby nothing wrong with him and U yeah it's just G so beautifully wow yeah it's it's amazing it's amazing no complications we had um fears from the prior birth we had our worries uh so every little thing we were worried but uh everything came to pass just the man of go saying I think your your case really highlights the fact that when you put your life in the standard of God you are open to God's blessings but whereas if we're actually living outside God's standard we don't know why maybe we're open Us opening ourselves up to attack and and and problems because we're not under the protection of God so this means our life will really go smoother when we go by the way of the Holy Bible which is the the law that God has given us and like we said it's not always easy there are always pressures and difficulties and it always seems to be easier to go the other way but great blessing comes with going the way of God and I can really see the peace in your life uh I can see that peace radiating from you not just in your beautiful child but also in in the way you relate with each each other and I think that's what brings that security and that is what um that is what the god ordained institution of marriage is all about you know we are stronger together and we were never meant to go it all alone and having obviously gone through I mean I'm on the Journey of motherhood as well myself and I can't even imagine how difficult this would be to do alone you know or outside the the the blessing of the institution of marriage so you know at this time of year when all of us it's a time of family we come together when we appreciate what God has done in our lives it's good for us to actually examine ourselves and think we should value the foundation of life and make sure our foundation is right if our foundation is Right everything else will be right so I'd like to give you opportunity to give some advice now if you would like to advise people from the from your heart from your life experience what advice would you give my advice for the viewers would be to log on to the University of God podcast and have a look and listen to the podcast titled don't give up because it most resonates with the situation that we've been through um people might feel like they have lost time or you know they don't have time to get married it's too late to have children it's too late to um get married and and be in a relationship am I with the right person is this the right thing but if you just listen to God God's will for your life he will give you conviction he will answer your prayers and to never give up don't fall to society's um standards or what society says or dictates about what things should be um a lot of fear is um instilled into people by by other people's words other people's opinions the only opinion that matters the most is God's opinion God will always set you on to the right path once you're under his will things will fall into to place you'll have peace and things will just go so much smoother in your life and um there's there's no turning back honestly what about you Cuda what what would your word of advice be um my advice to people listening is that uh people are getting married every day people are getting married everywhere but for the wrong reasons people are already marriages for the wrong reasons I want to say to you before you get married ask God pray and ask God and wait for God wait for God never run to marry without god pushing you to get married there's a difference between the marriage for the world and the marriage for the kingdom what you want is a marriage for the kingdom this one will give you peace and bring blessing to your family so I know a lot of people who've gone off and got married had relationships had kids but it's not God's Direction and I know a lot of people been divorced now separated and things like that because they went T without God's guidance it wasn't a marriage in the kingdom it was outside the Kingdom so I want to say to people God God's direction is the best and God's timing is the best don't feel like you have to rush and because everyone around you is getting married I also have to jump in no you don't uh pray and ask God uh ghost timing is the best ghost timing is the best it will give you the peace the happiness and the blessing uh so I know a lot of people are already divorced already separated but I say to them also ask God pray and ask God for direction since we we've come to be in contact with uh brother Rin and you it's um God is assured me that I'm in I'm in the correct I'm going the right direction I'm in on the correct path assured me and uh assured me over and over again that I am on the on the correct road and this is this gives me peace because uh everything can be going wrong but you know he I'm going the right direction you understand this is the one thing that you need to be in the will of God no it's true great peace that comes in in being in the will of God and it's like you can handle any challenge that comes your way because you know you're not alone you know that God is with you in that challenge and it's never too late to make God's word the standard for our life we we've never gone too far the wrong way for us to turn around and actually say I'm going to put my life right that decision can start today that decision can start now in your heart because it's in our heart that that decision needs to be made because if it doesn't come from the heart it won't stand the test of time because any relationship has challenges within this world definitely they'll be full of there'll be challenges along the way but when we're together with God you know you mentioned something you said a marriage outside of God's kingdom is not really a marriage it's true it's a cohabitation it's two people living together but they're not one the only way we can be one is when Jesus is the center of that unity and I really want to thank you both of you for those words of advice that you've giving because you're speaking from your own experience and all of us we have life experience but the best way we can Channel our life is not by the experience of others or even by our own experience but by what God's word says our life will always always go smoother when we go by the way of the word of God it's never too late to make our life align with the word of God never it might not be easy but it's always the best decision There's Hope yeah there's always hope yeah amen there is always hope so at this season where we're remembering the hope of the world that was born we want to encourage everyone to set their life right and if you can't see clearly maybe you're confused about what's going on take time out to pray and seek God's will the experience that they're giving you they made that decision once they made that hard decision they obeyed God's word and you can see blessing after blessing after blessing so it's not just to know the will of God you have to obey it and once you obey the will of God and continue to obey the will of God that means you're under God's protection and the door is open to his Blessing in your life remember God will never open the the gates of of blessing to those who keep their Bible shut and why do I mean their Bible shut I mean the word of God shut in their heart meaning the word of God has no place in their heart so make sure the word of God has a place in your heart because that is how the blessing of God can come into your life and lastly people might say oh but I I want a personal encounter too with Prophet Rasin and I I want to encounter you personally as well why can't that happen to me you know the way a manner God works in our lives always differs you know God arranged divinely that you would come into contact with this ministry and come into contact with myself and rasine and it was a god connection connection and when when it's a god Connection in your life you know that God will open the way so if God has if if God has ministered to you to be involved in in this ministry that God has given us the University of God then please get involved like um Tandy said you know there's a surface level and there's a deeper level you can go and you know you too you also made that decision you too you also partners with the uog and why do I say this because so many people want to go on a deeper level but you can even by joining the app by subscribing to the app you can have access to those um you know those Zoom meetings we do once a month and and some we can have maybe different encounters with you that God wants so there's different ways we can go deeper with God so don't be on a surface level if you know that God has put you in contact with this ministry and it's God that's done that then come closer in and be part of the family we can't wait to see God work in your life and we know that surely your own testimony is just a moment away once you make that heart decision to put your life right and obey the will of God then definitely Obed is a way of blessing amen amen amen this is beautiful baby James and he actually had the the privilege many of us would have loved that privilege to start life out being dedicated to God and I think we're going to show you some glimpses of that as well to bless you the message there will really bless you it's really uh all the scriptures there take them to heart and you can also speak them over your child it's never too late as I said I I was also blessed by that ceremony that little James had thank thank you Jesus amen amen thank you thank you Jesus [Music] this is the seed of Tomorrow a blessed child today by the special grace of God we are going to officiate his naming ceremony to dedicate this CH to the Lord as it with the case of our Lord Jesus Christ in the temple in Jesus name father in the name of Jesus we thank you Lord Jesus we thank you for this day you are the alpha you are the Omega we thank you for this Divine appointment Lord we remember in the scriptures that the Messiah the Son of God came through Virgin and the scripture says Jesus was dedicated before God in the temple of the Lord father you have said every child and the eth day should be presented to the Lord today Father in respect to the scriptures here is my brother here is my sister with this offering you have given him by grace to dedicate this child to the god of Heaven in the name of Jesus the blood of Jesus this child is a child of Destiny Lord we Comm the child to you and pray you bless his journey to life a New Journey has started Lord walk this child throughout life in your name Jesus by your grace in Jesus name we pray amen amen hallelujah so naming a baby must come from God the names are important before God God sent all the animals to Adam to see how he's going to name them and he gave name to all the animal names are important before God name hides your destiny sometimes so right now we are going to take our proof text that whatever we do here should be in accordance to the scriptures let's go to the Book of Luke Chapter 2 we read that from verse 14 glory to God in the highest and on Earth peace Good Will toward men so it was when the Angels had gone away from them into heaven that the Shepherds said to one another let us now go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has come to pass which the Lord has made known to us and they came with haste and found Mary and Joseph and the Babe lying in a Manger now when they had seen him they made widely known the saying which was told them concerning this child and all those who heard it marveled at those things which were told them by the Shepherds but Mary kept all these things and pondered them in her heart then the Shepherds returned glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen as it was told told them mhm and when 8 days were completed for the circumcision of the child his name was called Jesus the name given by the angel before he was conceived in the womb the name Jesus came from the angel from above that should be the case of this chch today so I want to explain to you that right from the beginning of creation God said to man it's not good for man to be alone the Bible says he made and helper like him like him and God blessed them to multiply I want to everybody to understand that the will of God in giving that instruction was not to populate the world but to fill the world with Godly Christian homes Godly homes what do I mean by Godly homes people that walk in the light of righteousness and obedience to God people that walk in fellowship with God let by the Holy Spirit sanctification and blessed that's what God wanted but when sin came we saw unrighteousness came violence came to the extent God sent the flood to whole humankind but God said his plan is righteousness to bring man back to him mean righteousness is the backbone of a Nation righteousness is the backbone of a whole world in righteousness that's what God is looking at when God looks on the earth he's looking for the righteous person the righteous are those who make God they Delight those who live by faith following his ways and instructions for their lives so this child we talking about today is this call it the seed of tomorrow because God is a god of generation there is a plan of God for this child hidden to you but Mary saw by the angel that this small Child Called Jesus will be the savior of the world when John the Baptist was born it was revealed that he is the Elijah to come a Prophet this child can be the history maker tomorrow a prophet or an evangelist God knows in his Mercy now for the will of God the purpose of God to be fulfilled we have a duty a responsibility as parents so the seed needs to be watered by you to enter the promise of God to release this child into his Divine Destiny what do we need the word of God this word of God is a bridge to the future of this child that is why righteousness does not just happen it is built a Godly house a Godly home does not just happen it is built you are here because both of you you believe in Jesus your faith in his name to walk in his way and status and then his grace will come upon your children because God is got a family the scripture say believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and we shall be saved you and all your family the question is Godly homes are built on three pillars who are the mother the father and the children that is it now how is it built there's only one Foundation the word of God who is building it your plant but your responsibility is to water today we are planting a seed today we are preaching the word we are planting the seed this child is listing in the spirit but your duty is to water the seed that's the duty of the parents how do you water it by training this child in the way of the Lord with the word of God so what does the scripture says Ruth take us to the Book of Proverbs CH 22:6 this is how the holy spirit is the one that builds this house the Holy Spirit uses the word of God to act upon our soul to produce the beauty the fruit of the spirit in our lives so righteousness does not just happen it is built it starts little right now right now Hallelujah he's listening to me right now it is starting this is why when you're preaching the word of God in the home this child is listening list speak the word of God it's not your duty whether he understand or not one day this child will still begin to speak English nobody give me dictionary the same way the word of God will plant the seed and allow the Holy Spirit to give the increas let's listen to proverb 22:6 and verse1 15 train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it TR the CH what in the way he should go mhm and when he is old he will not depart from it mean the right time to plant the seity is now verse 15 M foolishness is bound up in the heart of a childh the rod of Correction will drive it far from him when we say correction is not beating correction is the word of God why do you need correction no one is born righteous correction makes future possible when this little begin to grow he will observe the way you behave in the house he will look at you he will learn from you the school start at home the way you handle matters the way you handle situation he's observing he's learning you are planting a seed by the way you talk by the way you behave by the way you handle situations so do you need to go on camera the scripture says training in the way of the Lord so when he grow old he never forget [Music] it by the time you plant that seed you watch the seed the increase belongs to the Holy Spirit not you something is growing something is building up Beyond Your Capacity as a father as a mother you will spend your financial resources give your best education for this child right but there is something that up to God his spiritual life his future holy spirit will will fulfill that one that protection Holy Ghost Will D it his future belongs to God one day he will leave your home he will go to university he will work he will marry and have children that's generation God is not looking at now God is looking at 20 years 30 years to come that's good for you so whatever we are doing today we are just planting the seed but God knows the seed that will come from this child God knows so that's why your duty is to plant the seed with the r word of God now I said to you who is building the house Holy Spirit how by speaking to you now the Holy Spirit first will speak to the wife let's see what holy spirit is speaking to Madame go to the book of Ephesians chapter 5 from verse 22 to 24 what I want to say that all the scriptures I'm going to mention came from Apostle Paul Apostle Peter why because the early churches were churches house churches can't you see it wasn't the building that we have today they went into a household a household of faith and that's where the churches started and that's why all this instruction came from houses at the end of each episod Paul will speak to the father speak to the mother and speak to the children okay let's go Ephesians 5:22 let's listen to what the spirit of God says to the wife to build this house wives submit to your own husbands as to the Lord for the husband is head of the wife as also Christ is head of the church and he is the savior of the body therefore just as the church is subject to Christ so let the wives be be to their husbands in everything let's go to First Peter chapter 3 from verse 1 to6 wives likewise be submissive to your own husbands that even if some do not obey the word they without a word may be won by the conduct of their wives when they observe your chased conduct accompanied by fear do not let your adornment be merely outward arranging the hair wearing gold or putting on fine apparel rather let it be the hidden person of the heart with the incorruptable beauty of a gentle and quiet Spirit which is very precious in the sight of God thank you Colossians ch 3 Verse 18 the last verse wives submit to your own husbands as is fitting in the Lord thank you what do you notice there all these three scriptures we have read mention one word wife submit yourself to your husband I want to say something about the word submission it's called willing submission it's not authoritative it's willing submission to do the will of God because of Christ this means that no matter what may happen pressure and tension situation your strength come from the Lord no matter what happened humble yourself before God don't fight come to Jesus intercede submit to the will of God and God will fight the battle for you because the battle you're going to face we face in life is not in that the home you fighting Satan he will use situation to bring division situation to bring trouble when situation happen we should not fight the wrong battle we sh the right battle what's the ble we come before God In Prayer in humility our character our conduct is enough that's what Peter said even if your husband is an unbeliever misbehave at home do something bad the scripture say show him by the way you act you react what is right by doing what is right in his side and his conscious will tell him he will come and say sorry that's the war of righteousness love is your weapon against pride humility is your weapon against Pride love your weapon against hatred let others attack you not you let others insult you not you response by if you do that Jesus will take over the battle for you and before you realize it Satan is put to shame that is submission I mean the battle you are fighting is with the Lord and Jesus will fight for you in righteousness he will manifest his strength and give you Victory protect your home bless your husband and move on that's what Sarah did that's what Rebecca did that's what Rachel did Sarah did Mighty things for Abraham Rebecca did Mighty things for Isaac and so on look what BBA did to to to Salomon what tamama did so there is a secret and mystery to see what Mary did Joseph want to send her away but God revealed himself through Mary and Mary was absolutely humble she never said anything she could have been ston to death going to the Lord of mes but she kept quiet and God fought the Battle how by sending the angel to vindicate her in the sight of Joseph now let's listen what the holy spirit says to the husand to balance this relationship go to Ephesians chapter 5 from verse 25-32 husbands love your wives just as Christ also loved the church and gave himself for her that he might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of Water by the word now let's go to 1 Peter chapter 3 now from verse 7 husbands likewise dwell with them with understanding giving honor to the wife as to the weaker vessel and as being HS together of the grace of life that your prayers may not be hindered your prayers may not be hindered can you see that the mystery if husband and wife are united in prayer they prayer will come to the throne of God Colossians chap 3 from verse 19 husbands love your wives and do not be bitter towards them you see now love your wife and do not be bitter Ephesians 7 verse 25-32 we have read the Bible says there is a mystery between a husband and a wife the Bible Likens the relationship of marriage to Christ and the church that is why you are one how you are one because you share the same Faith with the same Spirit of Faith holy spirit makes you War this means what is now your your your Victory Holy Spirit what is your strength Holy Spirit what is your guidance Holy Spirit love you don't see yourself you see yourself in your wife and she see herself in you that's the mystery when Adam looked Adam looked and saw Eve he say Flesh of My Flesh and Bones of my B one Spirit one thought one heart one mind Victory forever you see the importance of unity when you are praying a Christian Home Love Of Christ holy spirit is a foundation of such house pride has nothing to do with that house Satan cannot do anything against such such home because Jesus is the foundation Holy Spirits is the foundation so submission and love go together we submit to Jesus right all of us but the love of Christ Keeps Us in life he say my yoke is is not authoritative is love willing submission because of love because I love God I obey him because I love him I accept because I love you I do this act of love now let's see what the spirit of God says to the child he has a word for the child Ephesians 6 verse 1 to 4 children obey your parents in the Lord for this is right honor your father and mother which is the first commandment with promise that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth and you fathers do not provoke your children to wroth but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord wife submission husband love children honor your parents this is the law this the these are the foundation upon which a Godly home is built we saw Jesus how he obeyed Mary and Joseph when they finally made the temple he went and submitted to them in obedience and that's what revealed the glory of God in our lives that's what build righteousness the house of Abraham was built like that Isaac obedient receive the blessing Jacob obedient receive the blessing is the obedient child that receive blessing that's why honor your father and mother so that blessing will come to your life it's a principle that will never change so please train this child on those principles because one day he will leave his father and mother and be United to his wife and what he learned from you that's we going to practice up the time to build righteousness is the his time whatever seed you planted there will yield FR tomorrow that's why we call it the seed of tomorrow so train this child in the way of God when you are reading the Bible Fellowship in the house let this child be there when you are reading the Bible let the child be there when he Godly music Let the child be there because he's listening and holy spirit will do what you canot do that word will bring the presence of Holy Spirit for the child that's what I wanted to say when you speak word of God Holy Ghost comes but you cannot see him so let the presence of the Holy Ghost come so you can feel this child this child is Sanctified by the parents now he has an angel he connected to Heaven he's innocent so please this is the reason why we said there is a marriage there is a marriage with a difference the marriage which is anchored on God's word husband and wife are one one faith and they follow the instruction of God to train their children in the way of Jesus so when they grow grow old blessings of God is waiting for them in Jesus name so let us pray father we thank you for this word I pray you give them the grace Lord to build their home on the foundation of the Living Word give him the grace Lord to train this little one in your holy ways with your love with your presence with your word in the name of Jesus Amen Madam anybody to to I'm going to car You For the First Time come on sweet little glory be to God in the highest thank you the anointing is working search for your hand Madam you to hold your hands father in the name of Jesus we thank you for the blessing of this child and we commit this family to your care to your grace father I pray you release a special anointing that help them with wisdom with love patience to build the future of this child to take care to love to nurture to protect and to bless and to advise in the name of Jesus Christ give them the grace to do so Lord give them the grace to do so Lord and shelter them under sh of your mercy and protection your name is Jehovah chra you provide for them provide for them in all areas of your life to take care of this child let them never lack in the name of Jesus peace be with you Grace be with you in the might mighty name of Jesus Christ we pray amen my brother tell me what's the name God Almighty has revealed to you concerning this little one the name of the boy is James son of kaka thank you Jesus amen that's the name Jesus reveal Holy Ghost reveal so now we are going to read the scripture and name this baby I'm going to call him by his name I'm talking to him no longer to you anymore so as we read the scripture you say Amen with me okay the Gentiles shall see your righteousness amen and all Kings your glory amen you shall be called by a new name a new name which the mouth of the Lord will name in Jesus name amen repeat after to me James James Jam son of Kakashi son of Kakashi I name you in the name of the father my name in the name of the father in the name of the son in the name of the son and of the Holy Spirit and of the Holy Spirit repeat after me James James son of K son of Kash I name you I name you in the name of the father in the name of the father in the name of the son in the name of the son and of the Holy Spirit and of the Holy Spirit once again James James son of CA son of kak I name you I name you in the name of the father in the name of the father in the name of the son in the name of the son and of the Holy Spirit and of the holy spirit amen amen Lord Jesus as your grace was mighty in the life of apostle James we pray that you release this child in his Divine Destiny in the name of Jesus let his name be recorded in the Book of Life let his name be record in the book of Heaven in the mighty name of Jesus in the blood of Jesus we cover him with the blood of Jesus Holy Spirit take control and lead him to his Destiny in Christ Jesus throughout the Journey of life in Jesus name we pray amen Jesus name amen amen thank you Hallelujah I'm going to pronounce the blessing of God in the life of this child you're going to read it now I'm going to pronounce the blessings of God in your life James let's go to the book of Deuteronomy CH 28 from verse 1 to ver14 now it shall come to pass if you diligently obey the voice of the Lord your God to observe carefully all his Commandments which I command you today that the Lord your God will set you high above all nations of the earth amen amen continue reading verse 14 and all these blessings shall come upon you and overtake you because you obey the voice of the Lord your God amen amen say James bless BL are you James blessed are you in the city and blessed shall you be in the country amen James blessed shall be the fruit of your body the produce of your ground and the increase of your herds amen the increase of your cattle and The Offspring of your flocks amen amen James blessed shall be your basket and your kneading ball amen James blessed shall you be when you come in and blessed shall you be when you go out amen amen the Lord will cause your enemies who rise against you to be defeated before your face shall come out against you one way and flee before you seven ways the Lord will command the blessing on you in your storehouses and in all to which you set your hand amen and he will bless you in the land which the Lord your God is giving you amen the Lord will establish you as a holy people to himself just as he has sworn to you if you keep the Commandments of the Lord your God and walk in his ways amen then all peoples of the Earth shall see that you are called by the name of the Lord amen and they shall be afraid of you and the Lord shall Grant you plenty of goods in the fruit of your body in the increase of your livestock and in the produce of your ground in the land of which the Lord swore to your fathers to give you amen the Lord will open to you his good treasure the Heavens to give you rain to your land in its season and to bless all the work of your hand you shall lend to many nations but you shall not borrow amen am and the Lord will make you the head and not the tail amen you shall be above only and not be beneath amen if you heed the Commandments of the Lord your God which I command you today amen and be careful to observe them amen so you shall not turn aside from any of The Words which I command you this day to the right or to the left amen amen in the name of Jesus in the blood of Jesus so shall it be in Jesus name amen amen this is done named and blessed before God in Jesus name open his eyes again James how are you James Jesus Loves You Jesus loves you the Blessed chel Jesus name [Music]