WEBVTT 00:00:00.672 --> 00:00:02.502 Life on Earth, creation itself 00:00:02.502 --> 00:00:04.662 is the byproduct of sexual energy. 00:00:04.662 --> 00:00:07.232 It is undeniable that creation, 00:00:07.232 --> 00:00:09.042 conception, and sexual 00:00:09.042 --> 00:00:11.032 energy go hand in hand. 00:00:11.032 --> 00:00:13.942 Therefore it is undeniable 00:00:13.942 --> 00:00:17.412 that manifestation of our desires 00:00:17.412 --> 00:00:20.372 and sexual energy go hand in hand. 00:00:52.699 --> 00:00:53.999 What does this mean for those of us 00:00:53.999 --> 00:00:55.909 who are practicing the art of manifestation? 00:00:55.909 --> 00:00:57.979 It means that sexual focus is 00:00:57.979 --> 00:00:59.339 one of the most powerful tools for 00:00:59.339 --> 00:01:01.689 manifestation that you can possibly imagine. 00:01:01.689 --> 00:01:03.639 To understand more about this 00:01:03.639 --> 00:01:05.229 watch my video on YouTube titled 00:01:05.229 --> 00:01:07.649 "How to use an Orgasm to Manifest" 00:01:09.288 --> 00:01:10.858 Nothing matters more than 00:01:10.858 --> 00:01:12.328 what you're focusing on and feeling 00:01:12.328 --> 00:01:14.218 the experience of in the moment of orgasm. 00:01:14.218 --> 00:01:16.298 What you focus on especially on 00:01:16.298 --> 00:01:18.318 a feeling based level is what you 00:01:18.318 --> 00:01:21.058 are trying to conceive and manifest into your reality 00:01:21.764 --> 00:01:24.194 In the minute of orgasm the accumulated 00:01:24.194 --> 00:01:26.724 energy that is built up is released. 00:01:26.730 --> 00:01:28.920 That powerful burst of energy is released 00:01:28.920 --> 00:01:31.640 towards what you desire to create within 00:01:31.640 --> 00:01:33.140 the subconscious intention of 00:01:33.140 --> 00:01:35.330 manifesting it into your reality 00:01:35.849 --> 00:01:37.909 Even the most unconscious people 00:01:37.909 --> 00:01:39.499 walking the planet today instinctively 00:01:39.499 --> 00:01:41.919 feel that link between sex and creation 00:01:41.919 --> 00:01:42.889 and manifestation. 00:01:42.889 --> 00:01:44.749 Even the most unconscious 00:01:44.749 --> 00:01:45.699 people walking the 00:01:45.699 --> 00:01:46.829 planet today also feel 00:01:46.829 --> 00:01:47.829 the undeniable link 00:01:47.829 --> 00:01:49.589 between desire and sex. 00:01:49.589 --> 00:01:52.799 But this is a world where most people 00:01:52.799 --> 00:01:53.939 are unconscious and so what does 00:01:53.939 --> 00:01:55.639 that mean? It means that most people, 00:01:55.639 --> 00:01:57.389 even though they feel the link between 00:01:57.389 --> 00:01:59.719 desire and sex aren't aware of what 00:01:59.719 --> 00:02:01.229 their actual desires are. 00:02:02.525 --> 00:02:04.645 They feel a strong desire for something 00:02:04.645 --> 00:02:06.875 but don't understand why they feel such 00:02:06.875 --> 00:02:08.415 a strong desire for that thing. 00:02:09.779 --> 00:02:11.639 And this is why we fail 00:02:11.639 --> 00:02:12.929 at fundamental level 00:02:12.929 --> 00:02:15.939 to understand what exactly is 00:02:15.939 --> 00:02:17.489 behind sexual fetishes. 00:02:17.489 --> 00:02:20.109 But I'm going to tell you the secret 00:02:20.109 --> 00:02:22.049 to whats behind sexual fetishes. 00:02:23.399 --> 00:02:25.509 The secret is that 00:02:25.509 --> 00:02:27.829 behind all sexual fetishes 00:02:27.829 --> 00:02:31.579 is a desire that someone has something 00:02:31.579 --> 00:02:33.719 they want to experience, usually 00:02:33.719 --> 00:02:35.689 an emotional state but that they 00:02:35.689 --> 00:02:38.409 feel utterly powerless to manifest 00:02:38.409 --> 00:02:40.049 into their day to day reality. 00:02:41.239 --> 00:02:43.539 They are fixated on that desire 00:02:43.539 --> 00:02:45.549 subconsciously and thus fixated 00:02:45.549 --> 00:02:47.829 on that fetish. And yes, 00:02:47.829 --> 00:02:49.149 the secret even applies to 00:02:49.149 --> 00:02:52.489 very weird fetishes. For the sake 00:02:52.489 --> 00:02:53.739 of your understanding I'm going 00:02:53.739 --> 00:02:54.699 to give you some examples. 00:02:54.699 --> 00:02:57.149 Let's start with mazophilia. 00:02:57.149 --> 00:03:00.599 This is a sexual fetish where people 00:03:00.599 --> 00:03:03.419 are attracted to the cycle of birth. 00:03:03.419 --> 00:03:06.989 Either conception, pregnancy, birth, 00:03:06.989 --> 00:03:10.199 or a combination of One, Two, 00:03:10.199 --> 00:03:13.039 or all Three. Most people with this 00:03:13.039 --> 00:03:15.629 fetish fixate on one part of the cycle. 00:03:16.676 --> 00:03:18.186 I was working with a woman who's 00:03:18.186 --> 00:03:19.646 fetish was centered around birth 00:03:19.646 --> 00:03:21.256 specifically when we got down to 00:03:21.256 --> 00:03:22.856 exactly what she was fixated on 00:03:22.856 --> 00:03:24.426 during her sexual fantasizing 00:03:24.426 --> 00:03:26.206 It was how the man in the situation 00:03:26.206 --> 00:03:28.276 completely recognized her pain and 00:03:28.276 --> 00:03:29.846 was completely unconditionally present 00:03:29.846 --> 00:03:31.326 with it comforting her through it. 00:03:31.806 --> 00:03:33.806 When we got deep into her childhood 00:03:33.806 --> 00:03:35.446 we found out that she was being abused 00:03:35.446 --> 00:03:37.356 badly as a child by someone outside the 00:03:37.356 --> 00:03:39.066 family and the most painful part 00:03:39.066 --> 00:03:40.276 of the abuse was that her mother 00:03:40.276 --> 00:03:41.806 and father did not see it. 00:03:41.806 --> 00:03:44.006 Not only could she not see the abuse 00:03:44.006 --> 00:03:45.696 itself they refused to really accept and 00:03:45.696 --> 00:03:46.676 acknowledge her pain 00:03:46.676 --> 00:03:48.126 that was a result of it. 00:03:48.126 --> 00:03:50.236 When she was unhappy and hurting 00:03:50.236 --> 00:03:51.586 they minimized it and validated it 00:03:51.586 --> 00:03:53.476 shamed her for it and withdrew from her. 00:03:53.476 --> 00:03:55.906 But when she was young, she watched a 00:03:55.906 --> 00:03:57.636 program on television on birth and when 00:03:57.636 --> 00:03:58.836 she saw the image of a husband 00:03:58.836 --> 00:04:00.246 supporting his wife through the process 00:04:00.246 --> 00:04:02.426 of labor she felt what 00:04:02.426 --> 00:04:03.626 she had always wanted. 00:04:03.626 --> 00:04:06.296 This is a circumstance where 00:04:06.296 --> 00:04:08.566 no-one will minimize your pain 00:04:08.566 --> 00:04:10.256 validate it, shame you for it, or 00:04:10.256 --> 00:04:11.976 withdraw from you when your in it. 00:04:11.976 --> 00:04:14.126 She was desperate for that exact 00:04:14.126 --> 00:04:15.926 reaction from her attachment figures 00:04:15.926 --> 00:04:17.176 in response to her pain. 00:04:17.176 --> 00:04:20.016 All of this was subconscious so 00:04:20.016 --> 00:04:22.196 it took place on the somatic level as 00:04:22.196 --> 00:04:24.716 just the sensation of looking at and 00:04:24.716 --> 00:04:26.016 feeling in her body as a result of what 00:04:26.017 --> 00:04:27.227 she's always wanted. 00:04:27.470 --> 00:04:29.420 Of course at this point when she 00:04:29.420 --> 00:04:30.880 developed this fetish it wasn't a 00:04:30.880 --> 00:04:31.800 mental understanding of 00:04:31.800 --> 00:04:33.270 what she actually wanted. 00:04:34.079 --> 00:04:36.169 As a result, what is a person who's 00:04:36.169 --> 00:04:37.629 not really conscious about what they 00:04:37.629 --> 00:04:39.429 actually want gonna do? 00:04:39.429 --> 00:04:41.469 Their going to thing "Oh, my gosh 00:04:41.469 --> 00:04:42.649 that scenario, 00:04:42.649 --> 00:04:44.239 if I create that scenario, 00:04:44.239 --> 00:04:45.789 I'll be able to get what I desperatly 00:04:45.789 --> 00:04:48.049 need through that scenario because 00:04:48.049 --> 00:04:50.219 it's impossible to conceive of getting 00:04:50.219 --> 00:04:51.389 that thing that they want 00:04:51.389 --> 00:04:53.369 through any other scenario. 00:04:53.933 --> 00:04:55.313 In other words the only way to 00:04:55.313 --> 00:04:56.303 get that need satisfied was to 00:04:56.303 --> 00:04:59.613 actually give birth. So, she thought 00:04:59.613 --> 00:05:00.953 about it every time she masturbated 00:05:00.953 --> 00:05:02.673 and eventually it became a full blown fetish. 00:05:03.117 --> 00:05:06.187 Unconsciously by fixating sexual and 00:05:06.187 --> 00:05:07.607 through orgasm on that experience 00:05:07.607 --> 00:05:08.977 she was trying to manifest 00:05:08.977 --> 00:05:11.067 it into reality desperatly! 00:05:11.570 --> 00:05:12.950 Now, this is the 00:05:12.950 --> 00:05:14.891 reality behind all fetishes. 00:05:15.551 --> 00:05:17.031 I want you to keep in mind 00:05:17.031 --> 00:05:18.701 that you could have one fetish 00:05:18.701 --> 00:05:20.561 And two different people could 00:05:20.561 --> 00:05:22.251 have different reasons or emotional 00:05:22.251 --> 00:05:24.291 experiences they are trying to manifest 00:05:24.291 --> 00:05:26.311 through that one fetish. 00:05:26.311 --> 00:05:30.191 However, there are undeniable trends. 00:05:30.631 --> 00:05:34.051 Undeniable similarities in terms of 00:05:34.051 --> 00:05:36.181 what experience people are trying 00:05:36.181 --> 00:05:37.671 desperately to manifest in the their 00:05:37.671 --> 00:05:41.201 reality by fixating on it sexually. 00:05:41.731 --> 00:05:44.501 I will explain some common trends. 00:05:44.501 --> 00:05:46.911 Let's begin with a guy who is obsessed 00:05:46.911 --> 00:05:48.861 with blow-jobs; that's his fetish. 00:05:49.175 --> 00:05:51.955 A common trend you see in men who's 00:05:51.955 --> 00:05:54.535 fetish is blow-jobs they are lacking the 00:05:54.535 --> 00:05:56.555 feeling of being the center of attention. 00:05:56.555 --> 00:05:58.955 They are lacking the sensation of 00:05:58.955 --> 00:06:01.185 being special of having somebody 00:06:01.185 --> 00:06:02.945 adore them to such a degree that 00:06:02.945 --> 00:06:05.175 they give to them freely without 00:06:05.175 --> 00:06:06.645 wanting anything in return. 00:06:06.975 --> 00:06:08.875 They usually grew up in family's 00:06:08.875 --> 00:06:10.205 where their attachment figures were 00:06:10.205 --> 00:06:11.965 absorbed in themselves and in their 00:06:11.965 --> 00:06:14.065 own drama or self centered interests 00:06:14.065 --> 00:06:14.925 and whom they felt like 00:06:14.925 --> 00:06:16.465 an invisible accessory to. 00:06:16.913 --> 00:06:19.053 A blowjob brings them the 00:06:19.053 --> 00:06:20.213 closest they can come. 00:06:20.708 --> 00:06:23.058 Because of their beliefs that they 00:06:23.058 --> 00:06:25.328 can't get in any other way to creating 00:06:25.328 --> 00:06:26.478 that somatic state which 00:06:26.478 --> 00:06:27.738 they are so desperate for. 00:06:28.298 --> 00:06:30.118 Many people especially 00:06:30.118 --> 00:06:32.168 boys who have a foot fetish. 00:06:32.919 --> 00:06:35.249 These children were often born 00:06:35.249 --> 00:06:37.339 to mothers who were very very busy. 00:06:37.339 --> 00:06:39.539 Oftentimes these are boys who are 00:06:39.539 --> 00:06:41.129 not the first child in the family 00:06:41.129 --> 00:06:42.329 Potentially they are way 00:06:42.329 --> 00:06:43.299 further down the line. 00:06:43.299 --> 00:06:44.549 And so they are dealing with 00:06:44.549 --> 00:06:47.329 a mom who is preoccupied. 00:06:47.329 --> 00:06:49.249 Now, what do we do with little 00:06:49.249 --> 00:06:50.849 babies when we're super preoccupied 00:06:50.849 --> 00:06:53.319 as mom's? If were not keeping them in 00:06:53.319 --> 00:06:54.529 cribs we lay them on 00:06:54.529 --> 00:06:56.019 their tummies on the floor. 00:06:56.906 --> 00:06:59.506 These babies desperatly wanted 00:06:59.506 --> 00:07:01.606 the pleasure of closeness and one 00:07:01.606 --> 00:07:04.156 on one connection/undivided 00:07:04.156 --> 00:07:05.496 attention from their moms. 00:07:05.973 --> 00:07:08.073 But the closes they could get to that 00:07:08.073 --> 00:07:09.103 ecstasy of one on one 00:07:09.103 --> 00:07:10.443 absorption was their feet. 00:07:10.760 --> 00:07:13.050 Think about a busy mom with 00:07:13.050 --> 00:07:13.880 a baby on the floor. 00:07:14.532 --> 00:07:16.422 She walks around the room 00:07:16.422 --> 00:07:18.242 The closest that he gets to his mother 00:07:18.242 --> 00:07:19.172 is her feet 00:07:19.172 --> 00:07:21.912 Maybe chasing after her crawling. 00:07:21.912 --> 00:07:24.902 Or seeing her come close 00:07:24.902 --> 00:07:26.292 When she's walking by 00:07:26.292 --> 00:07:28.532 Or having her tickle them 00:07:28.532 --> 00:07:30.142 with her feet as she walks by. 00:07:30.142 --> 00:07:31.792 As a result, they believe 00:07:31.792 --> 00:07:32.892 they cannot get that 00:07:32.892 --> 00:07:34.092 in day to day life with a woman 00:07:34.092 --> 00:07:36.352 but the closest they can get is feet 00:07:36.352 --> 00:07:38.422 Feet becomes the symbol of that feeling 00:07:38.422 --> 00:07:39.682 experience they desperatly want. 00:07:39.682 --> 00:07:42.412 Of the pleasure of one-on-one absorption 00:07:42.412 --> 00:07:43.712 Intimacy and connection 00:07:43.712 --> 00:07:46.022 Now, let's talk S&M 00:07:46.541 --> 00:07:48.601 Okay, let's pretend you have somebody 00:07:48.601 --> 00:07:51.271 who during sexual interaction 00:07:51.271 --> 00:07:52.911 their fetish is being abused 00:07:52.911 --> 00:07:55.391 What's the common trend there? 00:07:55.798 --> 00:07:58.338 These people show a trend towards having 00:07:58.338 --> 00:07:59.828 a past where they have to be in control. 00:07:59.828 --> 00:08:01.288 Responsible in situations 00:08:01.288 --> 00:08:02.088 where they didn't 00:08:02.088 --> 00:08:03.308 want to be or weren't ready to be. 00:08:03.308 --> 00:08:04.888 And strong even when 00:08:04.888 --> 00:08:05.868 they felt like collapsing 00:08:05.868 --> 00:08:06.648 under preasure 00:08:07.713 --> 00:08:09.673 Most of these people had parents 00:08:09.673 --> 00:08:11.853 who would not stand for weakness 00:08:11.853 --> 00:08:13.543 They wouldn't tolerate it, 00:08:13.543 --> 00:08:15.043 it's not acceptable. 00:08:15.043 --> 00:08:17.203 And so this person had to muscle up 00:08:17.203 --> 00:08:18.993 And just get on with it. 00:08:19.888 --> 00:08:22.008 This weakness was punished with 00:08:22.008 --> 00:08:24.048 withdrawal, invalidation, or shaming 00:08:24.256 --> 00:08:25.876 So what's the result 00:08:25.876 --> 00:08:27.746 The result is an adult who's 00:08:27.746 --> 00:08:29.066 designed for pressure 00:08:29.066 --> 00:08:30.916 Control is pressure 00:08:30.916 --> 00:08:32.986 responsibility is pressure 00:08:32.986 --> 00:08:35.676 And god do we ever want to get rid of it. 00:08:36.663 --> 00:08:38.943 By being abused during sex they get to 00:08:38.943 --> 00:08:39.883 lose control 00:08:39.883 --> 00:08:42.163 and with that sense of control the 00:08:42.163 --> 00:08:43.633 weight of responsibility comes off 00:08:43.633 --> 00:08:45.073 their shoulders and is assumed 00:08:45.073 --> 00:08:46.383 by the dominant partner. 00:08:46.383 --> 00:08:47.943 They can let go completely 00:08:47.943 --> 00:08:50.163 They can feel the relief of weakness 00:08:50.163 --> 00:08:51.433 in a way that will not leave them 00:08:51.433 --> 00:08:53.463 alone for being that way because it is 00:08:53.463 --> 00:08:55.283 what the dominant partner wants. 00:08:55.283 --> 00:08:57.963 A sexual fetish around being abused 00:08:57.963 --> 00:08:59.893 is their attempt to manifest being able 00:08:59.893 --> 00:09:00.903 to let go of pressure, 00:09:00.903 --> 00:09:02.513 responsibility, and control 00:09:02.513 --> 00:09:03.783 and still be loved by 00:09:03.783 --> 00:09:05.123 someone in that state 00:09:05.123 --> 00:09:06.783 Instead of abandoned, shamed, 00:09:06.783 --> 00:09:08.193 or invalidated for it. 00:09:08.193 --> 00:09:09.533 So let's look at the 00:09:09.533 --> 00:09:11.143 flip side of the coin shall we? 00:09:11.143 --> 00:09:12.343 Let's look at people who 00:09:12.343 --> 00:09:14.813 love to abuse during sex 00:09:14.813 --> 00:09:15.983 That's their fetish 00:09:16.603 --> 00:09:18.503 These people show a common 00:09:18.503 --> 00:09:20.293 trend towards having childhoods 00:09:20.293 --> 00:09:21.533 where they were put in positions 00:09:21.533 --> 00:09:24.423 of complete and utter powerlessness 00:09:24.423 --> 00:09:26.873 That's one reason why this is such a good 00:09:26.873 --> 00:09:29.963 common fetish for especially men who 00:09:29.963 --> 00:09:32.653 grew up in situations where they were 00:09:32.653 --> 00:09:34.623 chronically physically abused. 00:09:34.623 --> 00:09:36.403 Usually by a father 00:09:36.605 --> 00:09:38.355 Having been put in situations 00:09:38.355 --> 00:09:39.745 where they felt no control 00:09:39.745 --> 00:09:41.355 and their weakness was exploited 00:09:41.355 --> 00:09:45.115 by abusing during sex they get to feel 00:09:45.115 --> 00:09:46.525 the relief and safety 00:09:46.525 --> 00:09:47.825 of a sense of control 00:09:47.825 --> 00:09:50.375 personal power and sovereignty 00:09:50.375 --> 00:09:51.885 Where other people's experience 00:09:51.885 --> 00:09:53.075 gets to be in their hands 00:09:53.075 --> 00:09:54.705 instead of the other way around 00:09:55.760 --> 00:09:58.010 They believe they cannot experience 00:09:58.010 --> 00:09:59.400 this in daily life and so they 00:09:59.400 --> 00:10:01.130 fixate on that sexual experience in a 00:10:01.130 --> 00:10:03.210 subconscious attempt to manifest 00:10:03.210 --> 00:10:05.110 the experience of control, 00:10:05.110 --> 00:10:07.340 personal power, sovereignty and 00:10:07.340 --> 00:10:09.950 other people fate being in their hands. 00:10:10.306 --> 00:10:11.946 In their day to day life. 00:10:12.642 --> 00:10:14.332 Now for the sake of really, 00:10:14.332 --> 00:10:16.772 really stretching your awareness 00:10:16.772 --> 00:10:18.622 and going into territory that for 00:10:18.622 --> 00:10:20.382 some people maybe scary or 00:10:20.382 --> 00:10:22.472 uncharted we are going to go even darker. 00:10:22.912 --> 00:10:24.832 I'm going to explain 00:10:24.832 --> 00:10:27.202 the fetish of necrophilia. 00:10:28.068 --> 00:10:30.658 Necrophilia, as some of you may know 00:10:30.658 --> 00:10:32.288 is a sexual fetish that is centered 00:10:32.288 --> 00:10:34.368 around sex with dead bodies. 00:10:35.613 --> 00:10:37.873 Now when it comes to necrophilia, 00:10:37.873 --> 00:10:39.983 you've got several subgroups 00:10:39.983 --> 00:10:41.673 One of those main subgroups 00:10:41.673 --> 00:10:42.983 these days is people who kill and 00:10:42.983 --> 00:10:44.143 then have sex with the bodies. 00:10:44.143 --> 00:10:46.023 But, that's not the most common 00:10:46.023 --> 00:10:47.183 form of necrophiliac 00:10:47.183 --> 00:10:49.893 and though you will see 00:10:49.893 --> 00:10:51.213 the dynamic that I'm going 00:10:51.213 --> 00:10:52.363 to talk to you about 00:10:52.363 --> 00:10:54.753 In the subgroup of the people that kill 00:10:54.753 --> 00:10:56.393 and then have sex with dead bodies 00:10:56.393 --> 00:11:00.253 Let's explore the dynamic that exists 00:11:00.253 --> 00:11:02.013 In people who don't kill 00:11:03.067 --> 00:11:05.357 Who basically get jobs in 00:11:05.357 --> 00:11:06.647 positions where they have access 00:11:06.647 --> 00:11:07.637 to dead bodies 00:11:07.637 --> 00:11:08.787 and that's when they engage 00:11:08.787 --> 00:11:09.787 in their sexual fetish 00:11:09.787 --> 00:11:11.647 What's going on with these people? 00:11:12.510 --> 00:11:14.370 If you go into their perspective 00:11:14.370 --> 00:11:16.330 what you find to be the common trend 00:11:16.330 --> 00:11:18.000 is that these people 00:11:18.000 --> 00:11:21.290 most of them are incredible social phobic 00:11:21.290 --> 00:11:23.270 They don't understand how 00:11:23.270 --> 00:11:24.380 to interact with people 00:11:25.082 --> 00:11:27.902 They experience extremely poor self esteem 00:11:27.902 --> 00:11:29.172 and many times 00:11:29.172 --> 00:11:31.142 this poor self esteem 00:11:31.142 --> 00:11:32.212 has set in as a result 00:11:32.212 --> 00:11:33.852 of a severe loss 00:11:34.313 --> 00:11:35.673 As a result they often 00:11:35.673 --> 00:11:37.293 experienced extreme trauma 00:11:37.293 --> 00:11:39.623 around the experience of being rejected 00:11:39.623 --> 00:11:41.263 or of being pushed away 00:11:41.263 --> 00:11:43.323 Or of having someone they want 00:11:43.323 --> 00:11:45.033 not give themselves to them 00:11:45.033 --> 00:11:47.413 By having sex with a dead body 00:11:47.413 --> 00:11:49.493 It is impossible for them to be resisted 00:11:49.493 --> 00:11:50.543 or pushed away 00:11:50.815 --> 00:11:52.385 In their minds the person 00:11:52.385 --> 00:11:53.475 who is in fact dead 00:11:53.475 --> 00:11:55.355 cannot refuse, resist, reject, 00:11:55.355 --> 00:11:56.845 push them away, or refuse 00:11:56.845 --> 00:11:58.465 to give themselves to them 00:11:58.721 --> 00:12:00.771 And many times it must be said 00:12:00.771 --> 00:12:01.791 that this rejection trauma 00:12:01.791 --> 00:12:03.251 involves a perception or the 00:12:03.251 --> 00:12:05.841 actuality that someone that they wanted 00:12:05.841 --> 00:12:06.961 has died 00:12:07.815 --> 00:12:10.935 Thus, some necrophiliacs fantasize 00:12:10.935 --> 00:12:13.125 that by having sex they 00:12:13.125 --> 00:12:14.605 are reviving the dead body 00:12:15.281 --> 00:12:17.341 This type of necrophiliac does not 00:12:17.341 --> 00:12:19.971 believe it is possible to have 00:12:19.971 --> 00:12:20.921 what they really want. 00:12:20.921 --> 00:12:22.601 Which is to fully have 00:12:22.601 --> 00:12:26.221 The opposite of lose someone who 00:12:26.221 --> 00:12:28.081 will not ever reject them 00:12:28.081 --> 00:12:29.581 and will instead completely draw 00:12:29.581 --> 00:12:31.651 them close with no resistance whatsoever. 00:12:32.507 --> 00:12:35.227 For the sake of your own awareness 00:12:35.227 --> 00:12:37.597 take a look at your sexual trends 00:12:37.597 --> 00:12:39.567 take an even closer look 00:12:39.567 --> 00:12:40.777 if you have a fetish 00:12:40.777 --> 00:12:42.377 a fixation sexually 00:12:42.377 --> 00:12:43.317 that you can't get over 00:12:43.317 --> 00:12:46.457 and try to look at that desire 00:12:46.457 --> 00:12:48.647 that is subconscious that is 00:12:48.647 --> 00:12:50.677 inherent in that act of sexuality 00:12:50.677 --> 00:12:53.517 that you have a belief tell you 00:12:53.517 --> 00:12:54.977 you can't manifest into 00:12:54.977 --> 00:12:56.167 your day to day reality 00:12:56.935 --> 00:12:58.655 What hidden cry is lurking 00:12:58.655 --> 00:12:59.725 underneath your fetish? 00:12:59.725 --> 00:13:02.845 The reality we don't want to 00:13:02.845 --> 00:13:04.825 accept is that no matter whether 00:13:04.825 --> 00:13:06.955 we judge as right or wrong moral, 00:13:06.955 --> 00:13:09.395 or immoral, healthy or unhealthy 00:13:09.395 --> 00:13:11.765 Underneath every single one of them 00:13:11.765 --> 00:13:14.175 is this strong desire to have 00:13:14.175 --> 00:13:16.725 an experience that a person 00:13:16.725 --> 00:13:18.055 doesn't feel like their capable 00:13:18.055 --> 00:13:19.765 of creating in their day to day life 00:13:20.440 --> 00:13:22.880 It is only when we realize that 00:13:22.880 --> 00:13:25.670 that we can actually break through 00:13:25.670 --> 00:13:27.600 to compassion and understanding 00:13:27.600 --> 00:13:30.120 and have any hope of actually creating 00:13:30.120 --> 00:13:31.820 what it is we want to create in our life 00:13:31.820 --> 00:13:34.770 But directly instead of indirectly 00:13:36.393 --> 00:13:38.873 We can only call ourselves conscious 00:13:38.873 --> 00:13:41.223 and compassionate when we recognize 00:13:41.223 --> 00:13:43.103 the hidden cry that 00:13:43.103 --> 00:13:44.823 exists beneath every fetish 00:13:45.386 --> 00:13:46.726 Have a good week!