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Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.67,0:00:02.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Life on Earth, creation itself
Dialogue: 0,0:00:02.50,0:00:04.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is the byproduct of sexual energy.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:04.66,0:00:07.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is undeniable that creation,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:07.23,0:00:09.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,conception, and sexual
Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.04,0:00:11.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,energy go hand in hand.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:11.03,0:00:13.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Therefore it is undeniable
Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.94,0:00:17.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that manifestation of our desires
Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.41,0:00:20.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and sexual energy go hand in hand.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.70,0:00:53.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What does this mean for those of us
Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.100,0:00:55.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who are practicing the art of manifestation?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.91,0:00:57.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It means that sexual focus is
Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.98,0:00:59.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one of the most powerful tools for
Dialogue: 0,0:00:59.34,0:01:01.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,manifestation that you can possibly imagine.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.69,0:01:03.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To understand more about this
Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.64,0:01:05.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,watch my video on YouTube titled
Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.23,0:01:07.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"How to use an Orgasm to Manifest"
Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.29,0:01:10.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nothing matters more than
Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.86,0:01:12.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what you're focusing on and feeling
Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.33,0:01:14.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the experience of in the moment of orgasm.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.22,0:01:16.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What you focus on especially on
Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.30,0:01:18.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a feeling based level is what you
Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.32,0:01:21.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are trying to conceive and manifest into your reality
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.76,0:01:24.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the minute of orgasm the accumulated
Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.19,0:01:26.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,energy that is built up is released.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.73,0:01:28.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That powerful burst of energy is released
Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.92,0:01:31.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,towards what you desire to create within
Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.64,0:01:33.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the subconscious intention of
Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.14,0:01:35.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,manifesting it into your reality
Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.85,0:01:37.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even the most unconscious people
Dialogue: 0,0:01:37.91,0:01:39.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,walking the planet today instinctively
Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.50,0:01:41.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feel that link between sex and creation
Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.92,0:01:42.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and manifestation.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.89,0:01:44.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even the most unconscious
Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.75,0:01:45.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people walking the
Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.70,0:01:46.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,planet today also feel
Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.83,0:01:47.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the undeniable link
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.83,0:01:49.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,between desire and sex.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.59,0:01:52.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But this is a world where most people
Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.80,0:01:53.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are unconscious and so what does
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.94,0:01:55.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that mean? It means that most people,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.64,0:01:57.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even though they feel the link between
Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.39,0:01:59.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,desire and sex aren't aware of what
Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.72,0:02:01.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their actual desires are.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:02.52,0:02:04.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They feel a strong desire for something
Dialogue: 0,0:02:04.64,0:02:06.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but don't understand why they feel such
Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.88,0:02:08.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a strong desire for that thing.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.78,0:02:11.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this is why we fail
Dialogue: 0,0:02:11.64,0:02:12.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at fundamental level
Dialogue: 0,0:02:12.93,0:02:15.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to understand what exactly is
Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.94,0:02:17.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,behind sexual fetishes.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.49,0:02:20.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I'm going to tell you the secret
Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.11,0:02:22.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to whats behind sexual fetishes.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.40,0:02:25.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The secret is that
Dialogue: 0,0:02:25.51,0:02:27.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,behind all sexual fetishes
Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.83,0:02:31.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is a desire that someone has something
Dialogue: 0,0:02:31.58,0:02:33.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they want to experience, usually
Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.72,0:02:35.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an emotional state but that they
Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.69,0:02:38.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feel utterly powerless to manifest
Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.41,0:02:40.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,into their day to day reality.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.24,0:02:43.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They are fixated on that desire
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.54,0:02:45.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,subconsciously and thus fixated
Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.55,0:02:47.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on that fetish. And yes,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.83,0:02:49.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the secret even applies to
Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.15,0:02:52.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,very weird fetishes. For the sake
Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.49,0:02:53.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of your understanding I'm going
Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.74,0:02:54.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to give you some examples.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:54.70,0:02:57.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's start with mazophilia.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.15,0:03:00.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is a sexual fetish where people
Dialogue: 0,0:03:00.60,0:03:03.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are attracted to the cycle of birth.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.42,0:03:06.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Either conception, pregnancy, birth,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.99,0:03:10.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or a combination of One, Two,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:10.20,0:03:13.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or all Three. Most people with this
Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.04,0:03:15.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fetish fixate on one part of the cycle.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:16.68,0:03:18.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was working with a woman who's
Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.19,0:03:19.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fetish was centered around birth
Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.65,0:03:21.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,specifically when we got down to
Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.26,0:03:22.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,exactly what she was fixated on
Dialogue: 0,0:03:22.86,0:03:24.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,during her sexual fantasizing
Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.43,0:03:26.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was how the man in the situation
Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.21,0:03:28.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,completely recognized her pain and
Dialogue: 0,0:03:28.28,0:03:29.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was completely unconditionally present
Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.85,0:03:31.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with it comforting her through it.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.81,0:03:33.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we got deep into her childhood
Dialogue: 0,0:03:33.81,0:03:35.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we found out that she was being abused
Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.45,0:03:37.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,badly as a child by someone outside the
Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.36,0:03:39.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,family and the most painful part
Dialogue: 0,0:03:39.07,0:03:40.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the abuse was that her mother
Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.28,0:03:41.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and father did not see it.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.81,0:03:44.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not only could she not see the abuse
Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.01,0:03:45.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,itself they refused to really accept and
Dialogue: 0,0:03:45.70,0:03:46.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,acknowledge her pain
Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.68,0:03:48.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that was a result of it.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.13,0:03:50.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When she was unhappy and hurting
Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.24,0:03:51.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they minimized it and validated it
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.59,0:03:53.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,shamed her for it and withdrew from her.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.48,0:03:55.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But when she was young, she watched a
Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.91,0:03:57.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,program on television on birth and when
Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.64,0:03:58.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she saw the image of a husband
Dialogue: 0,0:03:58.84,0:04:00.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,supporting his wife through the process
Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.25,0:04:02.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of labor she felt what
Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.43,0:04:03.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she had always wanted.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.63,0:04:06.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is a circumstance where
Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.30,0:04:08.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,no-one will minimize your pain
Dialogue: 0,0:04:08.57,0:04:10.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,validate it, shame you for it, or
Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.26,0:04:11.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,withdraw from you when your in it.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.98,0:04:14.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She was desperate for that exact
Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.13,0:04:15.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,reaction from her attachment figures
Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.93,0:04:17.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in response to her pain.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.18,0:04:20.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All of this was subconscious so
Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.02,0:04:22.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it took place on the somatic level as
Dialogue: 0,0:04:22.20,0:04:24.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just the sensation of looking at and
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.72,0:04:26.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feeling in her body as a result of what
Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.02,0:04:27.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she's always wanted.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.47,0:04:29.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Of course at this point when she
Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.42,0:04:30.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,developed this fetish it wasn't a
Dialogue: 0,0:04:30.88,0:04:31.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mental understanding of
Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.80,0:04:33.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what she actually wanted.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.08,0:04:36.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As a result, what is a person who's
Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.17,0:04:37.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not really conscious about what they
Dialogue: 0,0:04:37.63,0:04:39.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,actually want gonna do?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:39.43,0:04:41.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Their going to thing "Oh, my gosh
Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.47,0:04:42.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that scenario,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:42.65,0:04:44.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if I create that scenario,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:44.24,0:04:45.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll be able to get what I desperatly
Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.79,0:04:48.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,need through that scenario because
Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.05,0:04:50.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's impossible to conceive of getting
Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.22,0:04:51.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that thing that they want
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.39,0:04:53.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,through any other scenario.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:53.93,0:04:55.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In other words the only way to
Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.31,0:04:56.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,get that need satisfied was to
Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.30,0:04:59.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,actually give birth. So, she thought
Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.61,0:05:00.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about it every time she masturbated
Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.95,0:05:02.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and eventually it became a full blown fetish.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.12,0:05:06.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Unconsciously by fixating sexual and
Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.19,0:05:07.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,through orgasm on that experience
Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.61,0:05:08.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she was trying to manifest
Dialogue: 0,0:05:08.98,0:05:11.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it into reality desperatly!
Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.57,0:05:12.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, this is the
Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.95,0:05:14.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,reality behind all fetishes.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:15.55,0:05:17.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want you to keep in mind
Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.03,0:05:18.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you could have one fetish
Dialogue: 0,0:05:18.70,0:05:20.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And two different people could
Dialogue: 0,0:05:20.56,0:05:22.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have different reasons or emotional
Dialogue: 0,0:05:22.25,0:05:24.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,experiences they are trying to manifest
Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.29,0:05:26.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,through that one fetish.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:26.31,0:05:30.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,However, there are undeniable trends.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:30.63,0:05:34.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Undeniable similarities in terms of
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.05,0:05:36.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what experience people are trying
Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.18,0:05:37.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,desperately to manifest in the their
Dialogue: 0,0:05:37.67,0:05:41.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,reality by fixating on it sexually.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.73,0:05:44.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I will explain some common trends.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:44.50,0:05:46.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's begin with a guy who is obsessed
Dialogue: 0,0:05:46.91,0:05:48.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with blow-jobs; that's his fetish.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.18,0:05:51.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A common trend you see in men who's
Dialogue: 0,0:05:51.96,0:05:54.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fetish is blow-jobs they are lacking the
Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.54,0:05:56.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feeling of being the center of attention.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:56.56,0:05:58.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They are lacking the sensation of
Dialogue: 0,0:05:58.96,0:06:01.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,being special of having somebody
Dialogue: 0,0:06:01.18,0:06:02.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,adore them to such a degree that
Dialogue: 0,0:06:02.94,0:06:05.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they give to them freely without
Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.18,0:06:06.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,wanting anything in return.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:06.98,0:06:08.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They usually grew up in family's
Dialogue: 0,0:06:08.88,0:06:10.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where their attachment figures were
Dialogue: 0,0:06:10.20,0:06:11.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,absorbed in themselves and in their
Dialogue: 0,0:06:11.96,0:06:14.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,own drama or self centered interests
Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.06,0:06:14.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and whom they felt like
Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.92,0:06:16.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an invisible accessory to.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.91,0:06:19.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A blowjob brings them the
Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.05,0:06:20.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,closest they can come.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:20.71,0:06:23.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because of their beliefs that they
Dialogue: 0,0:06:23.06,0:06:25.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can't get in any other way to creating
Dialogue: 0,0:06:25.33,0:06:26.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that somatic state which
Dialogue: 0,0:06:26.48,0:06:27.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they are so desperate for.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:28.30,0:06:30.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Many people especially
Dialogue: 0,0:06:30.12,0:06:32.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,boys who have a foot fetish.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:32.92,0:06:35.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These children were often born
Dialogue: 0,0:06:35.25,0:06:37.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to mothers who were very very busy.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:37.34,0:06:39.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oftentimes these are boys who are
Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.54,0:06:41.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not the first child in the family
Dialogue: 0,0:06:41.13,0:06:42.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Potentially they are way
Dialogue: 0,0:06:42.33,0:06:43.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,further down the line.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:43.30,0:06:44.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so they are dealing with
Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.55,0:06:47.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a mom who is preoccupied.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:47.33,0:06:49.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, what do we do with little
Dialogue: 0,0:06:49.25,0:06:50.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,babies when we're super preoccupied
Dialogue: 0,0:06:50.85,0:06:53.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as mom's? If were not keeping them in
Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.32,0:06:54.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cribs we lay them on
Dialogue: 0,0:06:54.53,0:06:56.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their tummies on the floor.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:56.91,0:06:59.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These babies desperatly wanted
Dialogue: 0,0:06:59.51,0:07:01.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the pleasure of closeness and one
Dialogue: 0,0:07:01.61,0:07:04.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on one connection/undivided
Dialogue: 0,0:07:04.16,0:07:05.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,attention from their moms.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:05.97,0:07:08.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the closes they could get to that
Dialogue: 0,0:07:08.07,0:07:09.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ecstasy of one on one
Dialogue: 0,0:07:09.10,0:07:10.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,absorption was their feet.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:10.76,0:07:13.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Think about a busy mom with
Dialogue: 0,0:07:13.05,0:07:13.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a baby on the floor.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:14.53,0:07:16.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She walks around the room
Dialogue: 0,0:07:16.42,0:07:18.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The closest that he gets to his mother
Dialogue: 0,0:07:18.24,0:07:19.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is her feet
Dialogue: 0,0:07:19.17,0:07:21.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe chasing after her crawling.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:21.91,0:07:24.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or seeing her come close
Dialogue: 0,0:07:24.90,0:07:26.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When she's walking by
Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.29,0:07:28.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or having her tickle them
Dialogue: 0,0:07:28.53,0:07:30.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with her feet as she walks by.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:30.14,0:07:31.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As a result, they believe
Dialogue: 0,0:07:31.79,0:07:32.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they cannot get that
Dialogue: 0,0:07:32.89,0:07:34.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in day to day life with a woman
Dialogue: 0,0:07:34.09,0:07:36.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the closest they can get is feet
Dialogue: 0,0:07:36.35,0:07:38.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Feet becomes the symbol of that feeling
Dialogue: 0,0:07:38.42,0:07:39.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,experience they desperatly want.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:39.68,0:07:42.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Of the pleasure of one-on-one absorption
Dialogue: 0,0:07:42.41,0:07:43.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Intimacy and connection
Dialogue: 0,0:07:43.71,0:07:46.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, let's talk S&M
Dialogue: 0,0:07:46.54,0:07:48.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay, let's pretend you have somebody
Dialogue: 0,0:07:48.60,0:07:51.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who during sexual interaction
Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.27,0:07:52.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their fetish is being abused
Dialogue: 0,0:07:52.91,0:07:55.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What's the common trend there?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:55.80,0:07:58.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These people show a trend towards having
Dialogue: 0,0:07:58.34,0:07:59.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a past where they have to be in control.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:59.83,0:08:01.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Responsible in situations
Dialogue: 0,0:08:01.29,0:08:02.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where they didn't
Dialogue: 0,0:08:02.09,0:08:03.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,want to be or weren't ready to be.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:03.31,0:08:04.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And strong even when
Dialogue: 0,0:08:04.89,0:08:05.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they felt like collapsing
Dialogue: 0,0:08:05.87,0:08:06.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,under preasure
Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.71,0:08:09.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most of these people had parents
Dialogue: 0,0:08:09.67,0:08:11.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who would not stand for weakness
Dialogue: 0,0:08:11.85,0:08:13.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They wouldn't tolerate it,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:13.54,0:08:15.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's not acceptable.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.04,0:08:17.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so this person had to muscle up
Dialogue: 0,0:08:17.20,0:08:18.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And just get on with it.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:19.89,0:08:22.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This weakness was punished with
Dialogue: 0,0:08:22.01,0:08:24.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,withdrawal, invalidation, or shaming
Dialogue: 0,0:08:24.26,0:08:25.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So what's the result
Dialogue: 0,0:08:25.88,0:08:27.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The result is an adult who's
Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.75,0:08:29.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,designed for pressure
Dialogue: 0,0:08:29.07,0:08:30.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Control is pressure
Dialogue: 0,0:08:30.92,0:08:32.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,responsibility is pressure
Dialogue: 0,0:08:32.99,0:08:35.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And god do we ever want to get rid of it.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:36.66,0:08:38.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,By being abused during sex they get to
Dialogue: 0,0:08:38.94,0:08:39.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lose control
Dialogue: 0,0:08:39.88,0:08:42.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and with that sense of control the
Dialogue: 0,0:08:42.16,0:08:43.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,weight of responsibility comes off
Dialogue: 0,0:08:43.63,0:08:45.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their shoulders and is assumed
Dialogue: 0,0:08:45.07,0:08:46.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by the dominant partner.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.38,0:08:47.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They can let go completely
Dialogue: 0,0:08:47.94,0:08:50.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They can feel the relief of weakness
Dialogue: 0,0:08:50.16,0:08:51.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in a way that will not leave them
Dialogue: 0,0:08:51.43,0:08:53.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,alone for being that way because it is
Dialogue: 0,0:08:53.46,0:08:55.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what the dominant partner wants.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:55.28,0:08:57.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A sexual fetish around being abused
Dialogue: 0,0:08:57.96,0:08:59.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is their attempt to manifest being able
Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.89,0:09:00.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to let go of pressure,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:00.90,0:09:02.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,responsibility, and control
Dialogue: 0,0:09:02.51,0:09:03.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and still be loved by
Dialogue: 0,0:09:03.78,0:09:05.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,someone in that state
Dialogue: 0,0:09:05.12,0:09:06.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Instead of abandoned, shamed,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:06.78,0:09:08.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or invalidated for it.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:08.19,0:09:09.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So let's look at the
Dialogue: 0,0:09:09.53,0:09:11.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,flip side of the coin shall we?
Dialogue: 0,0:09:11.14,0:09:12.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's look at people who
Dialogue: 0,0:09:12.34,0:09:14.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,love to abuse during sex
Dialogue: 0,0:09:14.81,0:09:15.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's their fetish
Dialogue: 0,0:09:16.60,0:09:18.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These people show a common
Dialogue: 0,0:09:18.50,0:09:20.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,trend towards having childhoods
Dialogue: 0,0:09:20.29,0:09:21.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where they were put in positions
Dialogue: 0,0:09:21.53,0:09:24.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of complete and utter powerlessness
Dialogue: 0,0:09:24.42,0:09:26.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's one reason why this is such a good
Dialogue: 0,0:09:26.87,0:09:29.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,common fetish for especially men who
Dialogue: 0,0:09:29.96,0:09:32.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,grew up in situations where they were
Dialogue: 0,0:09:32.65,0:09:34.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,chronically physically abused.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:34.62,0:09:36.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Usually by a father
Dialogue: 0,0:09:36.60,0:09:38.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Having been put in situations
Dialogue: 0,0:09:38.36,0:09:39.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where they felt no control
Dialogue: 0,0:09:39.74,0:09:41.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and their weakness was exploited
Dialogue: 0,0:09:41.36,0:09:45.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by abusing during sex they get to feel
Dialogue: 0,0:09:45.12,0:09:46.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the relief and safety
Dialogue: 0,0:09:46.52,0:09:47.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of a sense of control
Dialogue: 0,0:09:47.82,0:09:50.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,personal power and sovereignty
Dialogue: 0,0:09:50.38,0:09:51.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Where other people's experience
Dialogue: 0,0:09:51.88,0:09:53.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gets to be in their hands
Dialogue: 0,0:09:53.08,0:09:54.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,instead of the other way around
Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.76,0:09:58.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They believe they cannot experience
Dialogue: 0,0:09:58.01,0:09:59.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this in daily life and so they
Dialogue: 0,0:09:59.40,0:10:01.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fixate on that sexual experience in a
Dialogue: 0,0:10:01.13,0:10:03.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,subconscious attempt to manifest
Dialogue: 0,0:10:03.21,0:10:05.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the experience of control,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:05.11,0:10:07.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,personal power, sovereignty and
Dialogue: 0,0:10:07.34,0:10:09.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,other people fate being in their hands.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:10.31,0:10:11.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In their day to day life.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:12.64,0:10:14.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now for the sake of really,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:14.33,0:10:16.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,really stretching your awareness
Dialogue: 0,0:10:16.77,0:10:18.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and going into territory that for
Dialogue: 0,0:10:18.62,0:10:20.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,some people maybe scary or
Dialogue: 0,0:10:20.38,0:10:22.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,uncharted we are going to go even darker.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:22.91,0:10:24.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going to explain
Dialogue: 0,0:10:24.83,0:10:27.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the fetish of necrophilia.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:28.07,0:10:30.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Necrophilia, as some of you may know
Dialogue: 0,0:10:30.66,0:10:32.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is a sexual fetish that is centered
Dialogue: 0,0:10:32.29,0:10:34.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,around sex with dead bodies.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:35.61,0:10:37.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now when it comes to necrophilia,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:37.87,0:10:39.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you've got several subgroups
Dialogue: 0,0:10:39.98,0:10:41.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One of those main subgroups
Dialogue: 0,0:10:41.67,0:10:42.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,these days is people who kill and
Dialogue: 0,0:10:42.98,0:10:44.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then have sex with the bodies.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:44.14,0:10:46.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, that's not the most common
Dialogue: 0,0:10:46.02,0:10:47.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,form of necrophiliac
Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.18,0:10:49.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and though you will see
Dialogue: 0,0:10:49.89,0:10:51.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the dynamic that I'm going
Dialogue: 0,0:10:51.21,0:10:52.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to talk to you about
Dialogue: 0,0:10:52.36,0:10:54.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the subgroup of the people that kill
Dialogue: 0,0:10:54.75,0:10:56.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then have sex with dead bodies
Dialogue: 0,0:10:56.39,0:11:00.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's explore the dynamic that exists
Dialogue: 0,0:11:00.25,0:11:02.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In people who don't kill
Dialogue: 0,0:11:03.07,0:11:05.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who basically get jobs in
Dialogue: 0,0:11:05.36,0:11:06.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,positions where they have access
Dialogue: 0,0:11:06.65,0:11:07.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to dead bodies
Dialogue: 0,0:11:07.64,0:11:08.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that's when they engage
Dialogue: 0,0:11:08.79,0:11:09.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in their sexual fetish
Dialogue: 0,0:11:09.79,0:11:11.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What's going on with these people?
Dialogue: 0,0:11:12.51,0:11:14.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you go into their perspective
Dialogue: 0,0:11:14.37,0:11:16.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what you find to be the common trend
Dialogue: 0,0:11:16.33,0:11:18.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that these people
Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.00,0:11:21.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,most of them are incredible social phobic
Dialogue: 0,0:11:21.29,0:11:23.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They don't understand how
Dialogue: 0,0:11:23.27,0:11:24.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to interact with people
Dialogue: 0,0:11:25.08,0:11:27.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They experience extremely poor self esteem
Dialogue: 0,0:11:27.90,0:11:29.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and many times
Dialogue: 0,0:11:29.17,0:11:31.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this poor self esteem
Dialogue: 0,0:11:31.14,0:11:32.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has set in as a result
Dialogue: 0,0:11:32.21,0:11:33.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of a severe loss
Dialogue: 0,0:11:34.31,0:11:35.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As a result they often
Dialogue: 0,0:11:35.67,0:11:37.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,experienced extreme trauma
Dialogue: 0,0:11:37.29,0:11:39.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,around the experience of being rejected
Dialogue: 0,0:11:39.62,0:11:41.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or of being pushed away
Dialogue: 0,0:11:41.26,0:11:43.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or of having someone they want
Dialogue: 0,0:11:43.32,0:11:45.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not give themselves to them
Dialogue: 0,0:11:45.03,0:11:47.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,By having sex with a dead body
Dialogue: 0,0:11:47.41,0:11:49.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is impossible for them to be resisted
Dialogue: 0,0:11:49.49,0:11:50.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or pushed away
Dialogue: 0,0:11:50.82,0:11:52.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In their minds the person
Dialogue: 0,0:11:52.38,0:11:53.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who is in fact dead
Dialogue: 0,0:11:53.48,0:11:55.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cannot refuse, resist, reject,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:55.36,0:11:56.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,push them away, or refuse
Dialogue: 0,0:11:56.84,0:11:58.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to give themselves to them
Dialogue: 0,0:11:58.72,0:12:00.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And many times it must be said
Dialogue: 0,0:12:00.77,0:12:01.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that this rejection trauma
Dialogue: 0,0:12:01.79,0:12:03.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,involves a perception or the
Dialogue: 0,0:12:03.25,0:12:05.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,actuality that someone that they wanted
Dialogue: 0,0:12:05.84,0:12:06.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has died
Dialogue: 0,0:12:07.82,0:12:10.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thus, some necrophiliacs fantasize
Dialogue: 0,0:12:10.94,0:12:13.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that by having sex they
Dialogue: 0,0:12:13.12,0:12:14.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are reviving the dead body
Dialogue: 0,0:12:15.28,0:12:17.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This type of necrophiliac does not
Dialogue: 0,0:12:17.34,0:12:19.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,believe it is possible to have
Dialogue: 0,0:12:19.97,0:12:20.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what they really want.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:20.92,0:12:22.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Which is to fully have
Dialogue: 0,0:12:22.60,0:12:26.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The opposite of lose someone who
Dialogue: 0,0:12:26.22,0:12:28.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,will not ever reject them
Dialogue: 0,0:12:28.08,0:12:29.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and will instead completely draw
Dialogue: 0,0:12:29.58,0:12:31.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,them close with no resistance whatsoever.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:32.51,0:12:35.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For the sake of your own awareness
Dialogue: 0,0:12:35.23,0:12:37.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,take a look at your sexual trends
Dialogue: 0,0:12:37.60,0:12:39.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,take an even closer look
Dialogue: 0,0:12:39.57,0:12:40.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you have a fetish
Dialogue: 0,0:12:40.78,0:12:42.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a fixation sexually
Dialogue: 0,0:12:42.38,0:12:43.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you can't get over
Dialogue: 0,0:12:43.32,0:12:46.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and try to look at that desire
Dialogue: 0,0:12:46.46,0:12:48.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is subconscious that is
Dialogue: 0,0:12:48.65,0:12:50.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,inherent in that act of sexuality
Dialogue: 0,0:12:50.68,0:12:53.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you have a belief tell you
Dialogue: 0,0:12:53.52,0:12:54.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can't manifest into
Dialogue: 0,0:12:54.98,0:12:56.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your day to day reality
Dialogue: 0,0:12:56.94,0:12:58.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What hidden cry is lurking
Dialogue: 0,0:12:58.66,0:12:59.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,underneath your fetish?
Dialogue: 0,0:12:59.72,0:13:02.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The reality we don't want to
Dialogue: 0,0:13:02.84,0:13:04.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,accept is that no matter whether
Dialogue: 0,0:13:04.82,0:13:06.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we judge as right or wrong moral,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:06.96,0:13:09.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or immoral, healthy or unhealthy
Dialogue: 0,0:13:09.40,0:13:11.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Underneath every single one of them
Dialogue: 0,0:13:11.76,0:13:14.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is this strong desire to have
Dialogue: 0,0:13:14.18,0:13:16.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an experience that a person
Dialogue: 0,0:13:16.72,0:13:18.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,doesn't feel like their capable
Dialogue: 0,0:13:18.06,0:13:19.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of creating in their day to day life
Dialogue: 0,0:13:20.44,0:13:22.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is only when we realize that
Dialogue: 0,0:13:22.88,0:13:25.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we can actually break through
Dialogue: 0,0:13:25.67,0:13:27.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to compassion and understanding
Dialogue: 0,0:13:27.60,0:13:30.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and have any hope of actually creating
Dialogue: 0,0:13:30.12,0:13:31.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what it is we want to create in our life
Dialogue: 0,0:13:31.82,0:13:34.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But directly instead of indirectly
Dialogue: 0,0:13:36.39,0:13:38.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can only call ourselves conscious
Dialogue: 0,0:13:38.87,0:13:41.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and compassionate when we recognize
Dialogue: 0,0:13:41.22,0:13:43.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the hidden cry that
Dialogue: 0,0:13:43.10,0:13:44.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,exists beneath every fetish
Dialogue: 0,0:13:45.39,0:13:46.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Have a good week!