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Life on Earth, creation itself

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is the byproduct of sexual energy.

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It is undeniable that creation,

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conception, and sexual

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energy go hand in hand.

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Therefore it is undeniable

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that manifestation of our desires

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and sexual energy go hand in hand.

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What does this mean for those of us

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who are practicing the art of manifestation?

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It means that sexual focus is

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one of the most powerful tools for

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manifestation that you can possibly imagine.

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To understand more about this

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watch my video on YouTube titled

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"How to use an Orgasm to Manifest"

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Nothing matters more than

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what you're focusing on and feeling

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the experience of in the moment of orgasm.

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What you focus on especially on

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a feeling based level is what you

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are trying to conceive and manifest into your reality

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In the minute of orgasm the accumulated

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energy that is built up is released.

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That powerful burst of energy is released

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towards what you desire to create within

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the subconscious intention of

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manifesting it into your reality

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Even the most unconscious people

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walking the planet today instinctively

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feel that link between sex and creation

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and manifestation.

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Even the most unconscious

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people walking the

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planet today also feel

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the undeniable link

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between desire and sex.

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But this is a world where most people

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are unconscious and so what does

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that mean? It means that most people,

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even though they feel the link between

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desire and sex aren't aware of what

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their actual desires are.

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They feel a strong desire for something

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but don't understand why they feel such

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a strong desire for that thing.

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And this is why we fail

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at fundamental level

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to understand what exactly is

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behind sexual fetishes.

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But I'm going to tell you the secret

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to whats behind sexual fetishes.

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The secret is that

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behind all sexual fetishes

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is a desire that someone has something

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they want to experience, usually

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an emotional state but that they

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feel utterly powerless to manifest

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into their day to day reality.

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They are fixated on that desire

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subconsciously and thus fixated

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on that fetish. And yes,

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the secret even applies to

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very weird fetishes. For the sake

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of your understanding I'm going

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to give you some examples.

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Let's start with mazophilia.

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This is a sexual fetish where people

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are attracted to the cycle of birth.

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Either conception, pregnancy, birth,

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or a combination of One, Two,

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or all Three. Most people with this

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fetish fixate on one part of the cycle.

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I was working with a woman who's

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fetish was centered around birth

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specifically when we got down to

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exactly what she was fixated on

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during her sexual fantasizing

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It was how the man in the situation

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completely recognized her pain and

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was completely unconditionally present

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with it comforting her through it.

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When we got deep into her childhood

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we found out that she was being abused

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badly as a child by someone outside the

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family and the most painful part

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of the abuse was that her mother

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and father did not see it.

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itself they refused to really accept and

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acknowledge her pain

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that was a result of it.

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they minimized it and validated it

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shamed her for it and withdrew from her.

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But when she was young, she watched a

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program on television on birth and when

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she saw the image of a husband

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supporting his wife through the process

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of labor she felt what

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she had always wanted.

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no-one will minimize your pain

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validate it, shame you for it, or

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withdraw from you when your in it.

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She was desperate for that exact

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reaction from her attachment figures

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in response to her pain.

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All of this was subconscious so

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it took place on the somatic level as

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just the sensation of looking at and

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feeling in her body as a result of what

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she's always wanted.

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developed this fetish it wasn't a

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mental understanding of

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what she actually wanted.

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As a result, what is a person who's

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not really conscious about what they

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actually want gonna do?

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Their going to thing "Oh, my gosh

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that scenario,

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if I create that scenario,

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I'll be able to get what I desperatly

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need through that scenario because

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it's impossible to conceive of getting

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that thing that they want

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through any other scenario.

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get that need satisfied was to

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actually give birth. So, she thought

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about it every time she masturbated

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and eventually it became a full blown fetish.

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Unconsciously by fixating sexual and

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through orgasm on that experience

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she was trying to manifest

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it into reality desperatly!

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Now, this is the

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reality behind all fetishes.

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I want you to keep in mind

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that you could have one fetish

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have different reasons or emotional

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experiences they are trying to manifest

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through that one fetish.

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However, there are undeniable trends.

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Undeniable similarities in terms of

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what experience people are trying

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desperately to manifest in the their

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reality by fixating on it sexually.

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I will explain some common trends.

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Let's begin with a guy who is obsessed

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with blow-jobs; that's his fetish.

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A common trend you see in men who's

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fetish is blow-jobs they are lacking the

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feeling of being the center of attention.

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They are lacking the sensation of

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being special of having somebody

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adore them to such a degree that

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they give to them freely without

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wanting anything in return.

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where their attachment figures were

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absorbed in themselves and in their

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own drama or self centered interests

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and whom they felt like

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an invisible accessory to.

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closest they can come.

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Because of their beliefs that they

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can't get in any other way to creating

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that somatic state which

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they are so desperate for.

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boys who have a foot fetish.

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to mothers who were very very busy.

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not the first child in the family

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further down the line.

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a mom who is preoccupied.

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as mom's? If were not keeping them in

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cribs we lay them on

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their tummies on the floor.

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These babies desperatly wanted

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the pleasure of closeness and one

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on one connection/undivided

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attention from their moms.

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ecstasy of one on one

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absorption was their feet.

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a baby on the floor.

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with her feet as she walks by.

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they cannot get that

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in day to day life with a woman

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but the closest they can get is feet

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Feet becomes the symbol of that feeling

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experience they desperatly want.

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Of the pleasure of one-on-one absorption

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Okay, let's pretend you have somebody

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who during sexual interaction

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their fetish is being abused

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What's the common trend there?

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These people show a trend towards having

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a past where they have to be in control.

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where they didn't

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want to be or weren't ready to be.

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they felt like collapsing

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under preasure

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who would not stand for weakness

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it's not acceptable.

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And so this person had to muscle up

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withdrawal, invalidation, or shaming

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By being abused during sex they get to

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lose control

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and with that sense of control the

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weight of responsibility comes off

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their shoulders and is assumed

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by the dominant partner.

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They can let go completely

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They can feel the relief of weakness

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in a way that will not leave them

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alone for being that way because it is

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what the dominant partner wants.

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A sexual fetish around being abused

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is their attempt to manifest being able

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to let go of pressure,

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responsibility, and control

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and still be loved by

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someone in that state

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or invalidated for it.

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flip side of the coin shall we?

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love to abuse during sex

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trend towards having childhoods

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where they were put in positions

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of complete and utter powerlessness

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common fetish for especially men who

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grew up in situations where they were

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chronically physically abused.

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where they felt no control

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and their weakness was exploited

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by abusing during sex they get to feel

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the relief and safety

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of a sense of control

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personal power and sovereignty

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Where other people's experience

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gets to be in their hands

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They believe they cannot experience

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this in daily life and so they

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fixate on that sexual experience in a

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subconscious attempt to manifest

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the experience of control,

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personal power, sovereignty and

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other people fate being in their hands.

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In their day to day life.

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Now for the sake of really,

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really stretching your awareness

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and going into territory that for

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some people maybe scary or

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uncharted we are going to go even darker.

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I'm going to explain

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the fetish of necrophilia.

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Necrophilia, as some of you may know

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is a sexual fetish that is centered

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around sex with dead bodies.

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Now when it comes to necrophilia,

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you've got several subgroups

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One of those main subgroups

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these days is people who kill and

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then have sex with the bodies.

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But, that's not the most common

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form of necrophiliac

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and though you will see

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the dynamic that I'm going

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to talk to you about

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In the subgroup of the people that kill

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and then have sex with dead bodies

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Let's explore the dynamic that exists

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In people who don't kill

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Who basically get jobs in

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positions where they have access

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to dead bodies

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and that's when they engage

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in their sexual fetish

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What's going on with these people?

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If you go into their perspective

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what you find to be the common trend

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is that these people

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most of them are incredible social phobic

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They don't understand how

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to interact with people

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They experience extremely poor self esteem

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and many times

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this poor self esteem

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has set in as a result

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of a severe loss

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As a result they often

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experienced extreme trauma

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around the experience of being rejected

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or of being pushed away

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Or of having someone they want

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not give themselves to them

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By having sex with a dead body

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It is impossible for them to be resisted

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or pushed away

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In their minds the person

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who is in fact dead

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cannot refuse, resist, reject,

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push them away, or refuse

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to give themselves to them

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And many times it must be said

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that this rejection trauma

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involves a perception or the

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actuality that someone that they wanted

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has died

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Thus, some necrophiliacs fantasize

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that by having sex they

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are reviving the dead body

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This type of necrophiliac does not

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believe it is possible to have

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what they really want.

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Which is to fully have

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The opposite of lose someone who

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will not ever reject them

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and will instead completely draw

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them close with no resistance whatsoever.

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For the sake of your own awareness

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take a look at your sexual trends

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take an even closer look

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if you have a fetish

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a fixation sexually

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that you can't get over

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and try to look at that desire

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that is subconscious that is

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inherent in that act of sexuality

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that you have a belief tell you

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you can't manifest into

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your day to day reality

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What hidden cry is lurking

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underneath your fetish?

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The reality we don't want to

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accept is that no matter whether

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we judge as right or wrong moral,

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or immoral, healthy or unhealthy

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Underneath every single one of them

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is this strong desire to have

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an experience that a person

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doesn't feel like their capable

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of creating in their day to day life

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It is only when we realize that

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that we can actually break through

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to compassion and understanding

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and have any hope of actually creating

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what it is we want to create in our life

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But directly instead of indirectly

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We can only call ourselves conscious

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and compassionate when we recognize

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the hidden cry that

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exists beneath every fetish

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Have a good week!