[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applauses) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I asked to turn up the light\Nso that I can see you as well. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are talking about \Nrelationships after all. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the most important thing\Nin a relationship, man Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is to see your wife. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can see who is married\Nin a restaurant, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or who is dating. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If a man is dating a woman\Nhe's looking right at her. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's got one goal. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laugher) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And once he's climbed\Nthat mountain you can relax. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see the married man \Nlooking around. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Quite often somebody else got \Nhis attention. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Haven't seen her before. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It doesn't mean \Nhe doesn't love her Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,his wife. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It just mean he's never\Nsaw that before. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We all do this as we are going\Nto vacations Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to lovely spots, new places Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,getting off the plain here in Bend\Nit was blown away Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by the beautifull mountain. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's exiting. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because someone new and different Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it stimulates our brain chemical\Ncalled dopamine. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And dopamine gives us motivation,\Nit gives us pleasure Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it gives us focus. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it gives us, happiness in a\Nrelationship, passion. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we fall in love with somebody Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is literally like we are high \Non drugs. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe you don't remember Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you've been married for\N28 years like I have, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but, I remided living\Nwith my youngest daughter Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who is in that first \N"falling in love stage" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with her "live in". Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're planning! They're planning! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But she is a modern woman, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she wants to be completely financial\Nself-sufficient Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before she gets married. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As the new woman! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She wants to be sufficient. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes! Yes! We all wanna be \Nself sufficient. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We all wanna be independent,\Nand then from place of wholeness Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,come together. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a new world. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I'm gonna talk\Nabout that new world today. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The most important thing \Nto understand is Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this brain chemical thing\Ndopamine. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'Cause when you haven't met someone,\Nbefore you are getting to know them Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all the ingredients are there\Nto stimulate dopamine. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Newness. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And there's no history. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Where are we going with this? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What's gonna happen? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that stimulates this \Nbrain chemical Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and in man, dopamine stimulates\Na hormone calls testosterone. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, men testosterone\Nlevels are searching. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The average man in 50\Nhave half testoterone levels he had Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as a young man. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It starts to drop. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lot of things contribute to that,\Nbut one of the things is: marriage. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, I'm 62 but \NI went to the 50's with my friends Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and several of my friends got divorce Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the came alive! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not recomending divorce \Nto come alive. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I am recomending learning\Nnew relationships skills Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to come alive in \Nyour marriage. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it's like, when you \Nwere somebody new Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just going to somewhere new,\Nbeing with somebody new Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it stimulates dopamine, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and for men dopamine\Nstimulates testosterone. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And for men, testosterone\Nlowers stress. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't mean stress in your life,\Nlife is always stressful. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Problems are everywhere. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But how do we react to life\Nis depending Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on our hormone\Nrespondes to life. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And for men, testosterone\Nis the hormone Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that helps men keeps \Ntheir stress levels down. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most people don't know this\Nbut, I learned this... Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,30 years ago I was reading... Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,20 years ago, maybe 30 \Nsomething in there Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was about to see the movie\N"The Grumpty Old Man" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I was also reading \Nthe differences Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,between young man and old man Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was that men testosterone level\Ngo down. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then, I made the link. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Gumpty Old Man. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Think about men when\Nthey haven't been laid for a while. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They get grumpty. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we always thought \Nthat testosterone caused Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all that irrability. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But actually for men, it's estrogen. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's all those grumpty\Nold man Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have super high \Nestrogen levels Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and low testosterone. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who knew?! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One of the biggest \Nrisk factors for heart disease, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,prostate cancer for men\Nis low testosterone. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All men, with depression\Nhave low testosterone. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's why depression \Nis very different Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from man than \Nfrom woman. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Depression for a man\Nis that feeling Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"nobody wants me", \N"I am not needed anymore", Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"basically, I'm out of work", Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"nobody there to respond for me" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"nobody there for me to fix, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,help, serve, support". Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, been out of work \Nis the major depression for man Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or being in a marriage\Nwhere you feel you can't Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do anything to make\Nyour partner happy. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I get to see it as a marriage\Ncounselor for over 30 years Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people often on their last exit. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'Cause I am famous people say: Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Oh, you gotta see him" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so I get the tough cases. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it's a challenge. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what I hear again and again\Nfor man. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I take the man outside, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What is the problem here?,\Nwhat's going on here?, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we can fix one problem,\Nwhat would that be?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"John, the only problem here is \Nmy wife is not happy". Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's it. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, I do these seminars, workshops\Nfor like 4 days Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we started out\Nmen in one room, women in the other. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Without my influence, the men\Nwrite down complaints about Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their wifes, relationships, women\Nin one room. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Women do it in another room. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then we spend the whole 4 days\Nworking on that. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And men have one sheet,\Nand women have 5. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And men's list is one or two words. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Critical, complaints, nags, punishes,\Nnot interested in sex" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's the longest one they\Ncome out with. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's a list over there. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And women got all this lists,\Nget a big long list Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,everything is a long sentences,\Nand if this thing and all that stuff. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And men go\N"See?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I got a few claps which \NI'm not asking for Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but that's what excites man. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I made a difference. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So men love their dogs so much. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I come home, \Nmy dog is happy and I'm alive! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It touches something so deep\Ninside of every man Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That the whole evolution of men\Nwhere like out there Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the dangerous world. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you came home alive, they \Ncelebrate it. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now it's like \N"Oh, he's back". Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You know, you left the lights\Non the living room last night Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before you left" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's what I get! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If she was just happy... Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What a man thinks Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"If she was just the way she was\Nwhen I married her". Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,See, when man get married\Nthey stay the same, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as If you can. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And realize women would never\Nbe the same. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They are like the weather. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's always changing! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sunshine, blue clouds, puffy clouds Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,blue sky, puffy clouds. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Rain storms, lightning strikes,\Nhurracains. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Tornadoes! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now If you are from Mars Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have this instincts that\Nyou are the worst thing Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you were with the Venusian. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,See, in Mars when there's tornadoes,\Nwhat do we do? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We find a ditch and lay low. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not what women expect\Nyou to do. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When that tornadoe comes in \Nyou are supposed to stand in there. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Is something the matter?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And If you read it in my books Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when every cell in your body says Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I can't take it anymore" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I gotta find a ditch and lay low" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Let me get my car and drive\Nsomewhere" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Instead, you stand there,\Njust keep looking. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when there's\Na break you say: Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Huh. Tell me more". Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She is like\N"I am married to Superman!" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you can do that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I teach people \Nhow to do that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have to, at least,\Nknow what you are trying to do here. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'Cause many have been married\Nthat say: Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No matter what I say or do\Nit makes it worst". Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I say\N"that's because what you say Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and do is wrong". Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It just doesn't work! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You've just told me it \Ndoesn't work, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it doesn't work! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, what does work? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nothing. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nothing! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can not make \Na woman happy! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can not change the weather. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It changes by itself. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Women are grown ups Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they can feel better. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They can get happier Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they know how to do it. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just they way of doing it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is different from ours. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All I have to do when I am stress\Nis sit down. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Man have a switch right here. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As soon as you sit down\N(laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,blood flows stops to your brain. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They did some experiments on that. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They put women at the end of the day\Nsit down Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and men on the way\Nsitting down. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And they measure the brain activity. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Women sit down,\Ntheir brain speed up. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,More blood flow. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you say: "What are\Nyou thinking?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and she says, which any woman\Nin this room can predict Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, sitting on this couch I'm\Nthinking of all the things Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I should be doing, that I am not doing\Nwhile I am doing this silly experiment". Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then, they do the man Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the man sitting there Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you look at the scans\Nnothing is happening! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is it broken? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What is this?! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And she is like\N"What?!" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you ask him:\N"What are you thinking?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you now all know that\Nanswer to that question Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you've been married! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He says: "Nothing!" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And now he has evidence. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"See, honey?, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not whithholding from you!" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I don't have big secrets, \NI'm not hiding my problems from you Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm trying to forget them! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why do we have to talk about them?!" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'Cause one of the primary ways \Nman cope with stress Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and remember, what the hormone\Nthat lower stress for men? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Testosterone. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So what's the hormone \Nthat lowers stress for men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is testosterone. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If, I got all this problems in my life\Nand I am solving them Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am releasing testosterone. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it is keeping my \Nstress levels down. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At the end of the day, \NI still have all this Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,unmet problems, right? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All this problems I haven't solved Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so know that I'm not solving problems\Nmy stress levels goes up! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can't do anything about it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm home, I can't do anything\Nabout it. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So stress goes up. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So how have men adapted\Nto deal with problems Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can't do anything about\Nonce you are sitting. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Forget it! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can turn our brains off! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have an off switch. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Women don't. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They can not forget anything! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here is a simple test in\N"Gender intelligence" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who has a bigger, better memory? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Women or men? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Women! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is proven! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The hippocampus in a \Nwoman's brain Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is twice as big as in a man's brain. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The second store is like a library Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,recording everything on \Nthe first floor. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,On the second floor she records\Nevery mistake Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you've ever made. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And something she can't do\Nmuch about it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is when she is stress, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when she is stress Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,blood flow goes to\Nthat second floor. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Elevator, she goes up Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she forgets every good thing\Nyou've ever done Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and remembers every mistake\Nyou've made! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And how does she gets\Noff that floor? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She's gotta lower her stress. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She can not forget it! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So what does she do? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What's the woman reaction? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just measure the brain! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's wonderful \Nbrain studies now! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Under moderate stress Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,women's brains have \N8 times more blood flow Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to the emotional part of the brain Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which then goes to the\Nhippocampus. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She's bombardment \Nwith memories! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For men, he forgets everything. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I'm not saying that\Nwomen are more emotional Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than man. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm saying that, \Nunder moderate stress Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,woman have a stronger \Nemotional reaction. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Under big stress, men have\Na stronger emotional reaction. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what's big stress for man? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A problem you can't solve\Nand can't forget. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's big stress for man. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A problem you can't solve Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you can't forget. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No matter how much \Nfootball games you are watching Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not matter how much news \Nyou are watching, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not much how many pressing\Nweights in the gym you are doing Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can't forget that problems. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So now your stress levels\Nare shooting up. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, for man.\NThat's a big problem! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, historically,\Nevolutionary wise Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lions, tigers, bears Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lions, tigers, bears, men \Nhave a big reaction! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And by the way biologically\Nwhat's happening? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When soon as the man feels \Npowerless Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,his testosterone converts\Nthe estrogen and floods Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,his brain with fear and anger. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's when go to the female hormones Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they loose control of their\Nmasculine hormones Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their testosterone levels drop. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Literally, testosterone converts\Nintro estrogen through Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an enzyme called aromatase. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, If I... I'm a man! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Testosterone driven. Every man\Nhas to have 30 Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,times more testosterone\Nthan your average woman Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to get up on stage to\Ndo anything! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Without that he's that guy: Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ugh, I don't wanna work anymore Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I just wanna go play, watch TV\Nand do nothing". Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every loser I have ever\Ncounseled I say: Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why did you do that?" \N"I felt like it" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why don't you do this?"\N"I don't feel like it" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What we do want feelings Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's a wonderful evolutionary \Nlift. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Man have to always reason \Nfirst and then Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,checked it out with your feelings. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why do I say that? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'Cause I counsel losers \Na lot! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And they follow their feelings\Ninstead of things, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"But does that makes sense"?\N"I don't care" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You gotta start caring if \Nyou are a man about Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what makes sense and\Nthen check it out Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with your feelings. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And for woman, \Nyou gotta check out Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what is my feeling first\Nwhich will access into your intuition Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then what makes sense. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are complements \Nto each other. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we see the wiring in \Nthe brain is the same. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The intuitive center over here, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the emotional center\Nover here Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,called the right interior\Nparietal lobe in a woman Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which has to do with \Npersonal relationships. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Has to do with:\N"What are you eating today?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What should we have\Nfor food today?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What should I wear?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Look what she is wearing" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What do our children need?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What do the people need?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What does the earth need?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What does our family need?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"How can I improve\Nthis relationship?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's all relational activities. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I discovered that on vacation with\Nmy 3 daughters and Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my wife in Hawaii. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As we're sitting round\Nwith nothing to do Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I listened to their conversations Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What we are gonna eat?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Where we are gonna eat?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What we gotta wear?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What do you wear, can \NI wear that?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not there when they are limited \Nto that at all, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but when they are relaxing. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,See? That's what I am\Ntalking about! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is how women relax. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They go to the right part\Nof the brain, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that stimulates estrogen Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it also stimulates a magic\Nhormone Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that most people are not \Naware of Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,called: oxytocin. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oxytocin is the hormone\Nthat lower stress in women. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This was an amazing discovery! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What that... 12 years ago \Nthey start finding this out. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just to brag a moment\Nbecause I am from Mars. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Talking about 30 years ago. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I discovered it. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I read an article about \Noxytocin women produce Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when they see babys. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You now, back in the day Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you are learning how to \Nbeing their bonding with Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your children at birth. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Huge amounts of oxytocin \Ncomes up, and you bond. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, then I went in this mall\Njust watching women, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,watchin men, I used to sit\Nthere and just watch. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There was a chair. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And in those days, when women\Nhad a lot more oxytocin Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than they have now. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And those days a woman\Ncarrying a baby along Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like this, women would\Ngather, "Oh!" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The same response my wife\Nwould make Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when I bought her a rose. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when I put my arm around her Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we saw something sweet\Nin a movie Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I realize "Ah, this is\Nwhat makes women smile". Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now we have the science\Nbehind it. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oxytocin lowers stress\Nfor women. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then we found out\Noxytocin allows women Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to have climax in\Nthe bedroom. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That perks up\Nman's ears. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There is a pill,\Noxytocin pill Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,synthetic oxytocin. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You give it to her, she'll\Nbe really turned on Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it's been proven, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,next stage she\Nshoots you. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'Cause drugs takes you up\Nand then bring you down. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, by understanding this \Ntwo dynamics Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we are living in a world today\Nwhere there's lot of stress. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what we wanna do is Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have equality, mutual respect\Nmutual appresiation Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but we are facing a new challenge Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as women are more in \Nthe workplace Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feeling more independent\Ntestosterone gets produce Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's nothing wrong with \Ntestosterone Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in a woman's body. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Some women are just born with more,\N Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so they are over here saying:\N"John, what are you talking about? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't care what I wear". Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But most women have,\N90% of women have this Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,low testosterone high estrogen Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and oxytocin is the hormone\Nin all women Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that lowers cortisol for them. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Cortisol, the stress hormone. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, If you give a man\Nan inyection oxytocin Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he goes to sleep. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because after climax, he's\Nwel... Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,After he has climax\Nhas released oxytocin Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what does he do? He goes\Nright to sleep. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the bottom line is anything that\Noxytocin producing Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,after you've done it 3 or 4\Ntimes, kinda puts Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a man to sleep. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Which puts a real damper on relationships Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,unless men figures out that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I do oxytocin things, for my wife Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not just doing oxytocin \Nproducing things for her Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am solving a problem. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when I solve a problem\Ntestosterone levels go up. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So my wife is talking,\NI am in the storm Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I say, "Tell me more" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my testosterone stage is up\N'cause I know how Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to make it work. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I know what I am doing is Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,helping her create more oxytocin. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Planning dates, bringing flowers\Ngiving cards Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all the "samples" of valentines days Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you do regularly on a little score. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just a little bit. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She's always looking ahead.\NSo, special time. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That causes her oxytocin levels\Nto rise up Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to lowe her stress. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that, her stress levels don't \Nshoot up. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'Cause right now woman stress\Nlevels by study Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is on average as twice as high\Nas men's Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and for time higher at home. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's shocking,\Nit's shocking. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what we can do\Nis realize our relationships Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can help us to lower Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the stress level in women \Nby learning new skills Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,learning new skills to Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,creae oxytocin in her. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Better communication\Nsee her, hear her. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Notice when she gets\Nher hair cut. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Those little things. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I'm gonna finish here Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with the little things that\Nare so important. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Men's testosterone\Nis so important Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've never given\Nsuch a short talk in my life. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I'll finis with\N3 take aways, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,simple easy take aways. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I didn't do my slideshow- Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The...\N(laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was going to be:\N"Staying focus in a hipper world" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But...\N(laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applauses) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But as soon as somebody laugh\Nthey brought out the best of me Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you got the \Nbest of me, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you've been\Nthe best. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I want you to\Ngive you 3 thoughts Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to go away with. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For man,\Nthere's someting man made. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Man need formulas,\Nwe need systems. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The left brain,\Nby the way, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for men, left interior\Nparieal lobe Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is twice as big\Nfor women. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's solving problem\Nfixing the toaster Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,arranging the computer,\Ntechnical things. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you are fixing things,\Nthat stimulates testosterone. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Solving problem,\Nnuturing things. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That you all\Nhave a combination of Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,men and female \Nin all of us. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But here is how you\Nnuture the female hormones, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the male hormones. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A secret most men \Ndon't know. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yo can bring her two\Ndozen roses Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and a man brain \Nhe calculates on the left brain Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"That's 24 roses,\Nthat should be 24 points". Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If roses cause oxytocin Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that should be \Na huge surge. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's 1 point of oxytocin. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we have to know. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you bring one rose,\Nguess what happens? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,1 point of oxytocin. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,6 roses, \Nguess what she get? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,1 point of oxytocin. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hunded roses?\NMaybe 2 points of oxytocin. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Little things make \Na big difference for women. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So it's not the big stuff,\Nthe big stuff's fine. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You go to work,\Nyou do better and better work Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you think \N"Ok, I never have to bring roses again!" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To go to work\Nyou get 1 point. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You come home \Nyou get 1 point. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yo are married\N1 point for that! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's it,\N3 points a day! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And she is doing\Nthe same thing Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so the score is even\Nwhen you get home. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And she made you dinner\Nand there's candle lights burning Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh my God,\Nyou are in a big trouble! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'Cause she gets a point\Nfor matching napkins with plates. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If she says:\N"I made your favourite meal" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you are in a big trouble! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'Cause she gets herself\Nall this points Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for knowing what you like. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Going to the store and \Nbuying what you like. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not what she likes,\Nbut what you like. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All of those selfless\Nsacrifices. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She's given herself points,\Nshe looks at you Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,33 to 3. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She's going:\N"Who is this guy?!" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"He's a zero!" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,33 minus 3 is\N30 to zero. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So... Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So do lots \Nof little things. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hughs 4 times a day. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Affecion. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Compliments. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Try to notice things. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Plane dates. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This are all\Nbig oxytocin producers. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've read 17 books \Non this subject. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, for man. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What can you do\Nto keep this testosterone Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,levels up, women? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You want that man alive,\Ndynamic! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here's 3 little things. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Rembemer the little things. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The little things sometimes\Nhave a big effect on men too. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When he is talking,\Nhe pauses Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,find authenticity inside. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here is 3 phrases to use\Nevery day. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you'll watch his chest\Npop up like Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Yes". Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You say to him \Nas he pauses Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"That makes sense", Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's walking around like\N(Applauses) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And is his mind\Nhe is thinking Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why did I say?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The next phrase:\N"Good idea" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think I'm ready for\Nmy next Ted Talk! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's going\Ngood idea, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,worth share it\Nwith others, right? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then the magic phrase\Nthat every men Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,craves to hear \Nonce he gets married Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh my god,\Nit's such a deficit for us. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Whenever you can say it,\Nsay it women. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't hold it back Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you don't realise\Nhow important it is. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just with a big smile\Non your face, say: Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You are right!". Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you all\Nso very much. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I hope this is \Nan idea worth sharing. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applauses) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you very much\N(Applauses) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laugh and applauses)