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Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applauses)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I asked to turn up the light\Nso that I can see you as well.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are talking about \Nrelationships after all.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the most important thing\Nin a relationship, man
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is to see your wife.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can see who is married\Nin a restaurant,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or who is dating.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If a man is dating a woman\Nhe's looking right at her.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's got one goal.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laugher)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And once he's climbed\Nthat mountain you can relax.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see the married man \Nlooking around.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Quite often somebody else got \Nhis attention.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Haven't seen her before.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It doesn't mean \Nhe doesn't love her
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,his wife.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It just mean he's never\Nsaw that before.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We all do this as we are going\Nto vacations
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to lovely spots, new places
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,getting off the plain here in Bend\Nit was blown away
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by the beautifull mountain.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's exiting.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because someone new and different
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it stimulates our brain chemical\Ncalled dopamine.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And dopamine gives us motivation,\Nit gives us pleasure
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it gives us focus.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it gives us, happiness in a\Nrelationship, passion.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we fall in love with somebody
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is literally like we are high \Non drugs.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe you don't remember
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you've been married for\N28 years like I have,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but, I remided living\Nwith my youngest daughter
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who is in that first \N"falling in love stage"
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with her "live in".
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're planning! They're planning!
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But she is a modern woman,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she wants to be completely financial\Nself-sufficient
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before she gets married.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As the new woman!
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She wants to be sufficient.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes! Yes! We all wanna be \Nself sufficient.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We all wanna be independent,\Nand then from place of wholeness
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,come together.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a new world.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I'm gonna talk\Nabout that new world today.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The most important thing \Nto understand is
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this brain chemical thing\Ndopamine.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'Cause when you haven't met someone,\Nbefore you are getting to know them
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all the ingredients are there\Nto stimulate dopamine.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Newness.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And there's no history.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Where are we going with this?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What's gonna happen?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that stimulates this \Nbrain chemical
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and in man, dopamine stimulates\Na hormone calls testosterone.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, men testosterone\Nlevels are searching.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The average man in 50\Nhave half testoterone levels he had
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as a young man.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It starts to drop.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lot of things contribute to that,\Nbut one of the things is: marriage.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, I'm 62 but \NI went to the 50's with my friends
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and several of my friends got divorce
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the came alive!
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not recomending divorce \Nto come alive.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I am recomending learning\Nnew relationships skills
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to come alive in \Nyour marriage.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it's like, when you \Nwere somebody new
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just going to somewhere new,\Nbeing with somebody new
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it stimulates dopamine,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and for men dopamine\Nstimulates testosterone.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And for men, testosterone\Nlowers stress.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't mean stress in your life,\Nlife is always stressful.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Problems are everywhere.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But how do we react to life\Nis depending
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on our hormone\Nrespondes to life.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And for men, testosterone\Nis the hormone
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that helps men keeps \Ntheir stress levels down.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most people don't know this\Nbut, I learned this...
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,30 years ago I was reading...
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,20 years ago, maybe 30 \Nsomething in there
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was about to see the movie\N"The Grumpty Old Man"
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I was also reading \Nthe differences
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,between young man and old man
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was that men testosterone level\Ngo down.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then, I made the link.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Gumpty Old Man.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Think about men when\Nthey haven't been laid for a while.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They get grumpty.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we always thought \Nthat testosterone caused
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all that irrability.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But actually for men, it's estrogen.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's all those grumpty\Nold man
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have super high \Nestrogen levels
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and low testosterone.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who knew?!
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One of the biggest \Nrisk factors for heart disease,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,prostate cancer for men\Nis low testosterone.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All men, with depression\Nhave low testosterone.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's why depression \Nis very different
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from man than \Nfrom woman.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Depression for a man\Nis that feeling
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"nobody wants me", \N"I am not needed anymore",
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"basically, I'm out of work",
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"nobody there to respond for me"
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"nobody there for me to fix,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,help, serve, support".
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, been out of work \Nis the major depression for man
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or being in a marriage\Nwhere you feel you can't
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do anything to make\Nyour partner happy.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I get to see it as a marriage\Ncounselor for over 30 years
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people often on their last exit.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'Cause I am famous people say:
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Oh, you gotta see him"
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so I get the tough cases.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it's a challenge.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what I hear again and again\Nfor man.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I take the man outside,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What is the problem here?,\Nwhat's going on here?,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we can fix one problem,\Nwhat would that be?"
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"John, the only problem here is \Nmy wife is not happy".
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's it.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, I do these seminars, workshops\Nfor like 4 days
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we started out\Nmen in one room, women in the other.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Without my influence, the men\Nwrite down complaints about
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their wifes, relationships, women\Nin one room.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Women do it in another room.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then we spend the whole 4 days\Nworking on that.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And men have one sheet,\Nand women have 5.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And men's list is one or two words.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Critical, complaints, nags, punishes,\Nnot interested in sex"
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's the longest one they\Ncome out with.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's a list over there.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And women got all this lists,\Nget a big long list
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,everything is a long sentences,\Nand if this thing and all that stuff.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And men go\N"See?"
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I got a few claps which \NI'm not asking for
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but that's what excites man.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I made a difference.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So men love their dogs so much.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I come home, \Nmy dog is happy and I'm alive!
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It touches something so deep\Ninside of every man
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That the whole evolution of men\Nwhere like out there
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the dangerous world.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you came home alive, they \Ncelebrate it.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now it's like \N"Oh, he's back".
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You know, you left the lights\Non the living room last night
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before you left"
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's what I get!
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If she was just happy...
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What a man thinks
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"If she was just the way she was\Nwhen I married her".
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,See, when man get married\Nthey stay the same,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as If you can.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And realize women would never\Nbe the same.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They are like the weather.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's always changing!
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sunshine, blue clouds, puffy clouds
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,blue sky, puffy clouds.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Rain storms, lightning strikes,\Nhurracains.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Tornadoes!
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now If you are from Mars
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have this instincts that\Nyou are the worst thing
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you were with the Venusian.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,See, in Mars when there's tornadoes,\Nwhat do we do?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We find a ditch and lay low.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not what women expect\Nyou to do.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When that tornadoe comes in \Nyou are supposed to stand in there.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Is something the matter?"
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And If you read it in my books
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when every cell in your body says
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I can't take it anymore"
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I gotta find a ditch and lay low"
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Let me get my car and drive\Nsomewhere"