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Dialogue: 0,0:00:14.87,0:00:20.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's been said if you never want\Nto have sex again, get married.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:20.37,0:00:22.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.62,0:00:27.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sex is one of the most contentious\Nissues in marriage today,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.58,0:00:29.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,second only to finances.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.12,0:00:32.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are many married couples
Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.02,0:00:35.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that have not had sex\Nfor months, even years,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:35.70,0:00:40.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that's OK as long as they are OK\Nwith it and happily married.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:40.76,0:00:46.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The problem arises when one person\Nin the relationship wants sex,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.14,0:00:48.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the other doesn't.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.78,0:00:54.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,According to a national newspaper survey\Nof approximately 10,000 respondents
Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.05,0:00:55.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- mostly married men -
Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.74,0:01:00.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,75% were satisfied in their relationship,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.74,0:01:05.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but more than 50%\Nwere dissatisfied with their sex lives.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.57,0:01:08.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are having sex\N- don't get me wrong -
Dialogue: 0,0:01:08.42,0:01:12.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we are just having sex at the wrong time,\Nand with the wrong people;
Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.89,0:01:14.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll get to that later.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.80,0:01:16.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.58,0:01:20.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are having sex before we get married,\Nten years on average,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.49,0:01:25.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so we are effectively\Nin a long-term relationship
Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.10,0:01:31.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and potentially, quite sexually bored\Nbefore we even mess up the marital bed.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.08,0:01:34.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that has its consequences.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.71,0:01:39.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most brides today do not have sex\Non their wedding nights,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.39,0:01:43.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and 50% of men would not\Nhave married their spouse
Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.50,0:01:48.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,had they known their marriage\Nwas going to be sexless.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.06,0:01:51.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, everybody wants to know
Dialogue: 0,0:01:51.18,0:01:54.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just how much sex\Nare married people having
Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.56,0:01:59.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whether they are in heterosexual\Nrelationships or same-sex unions.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.59,0:02:03.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You all want to know what's going on\Nat the Joneses; well, not much.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.97,0:02:05.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.18,0:02:13.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Only about 7% of married couples\Nset the sheets ablaze.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.100,0:02:17.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most married couples have sex
Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.22,0:02:21.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a little bit more than once a week\Nfor the first decade of their marriage.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.60,0:02:23.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It decreases after that.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.16,0:02:25.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So they have sex about 58 times a year.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.32,0:02:32.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And 20% of marriages meet the criteria\Nas a sexless marriage,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.15,0:02:38.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that, defined by the experts,\Nis sex less than ten times a year.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.52,0:02:43.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So why aren't we having sex\Nin our marriages?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.05,0:02:46.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's a little-known\Nchemical in the brain
Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.67,0:02:49.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,conveniently called PEA or 'PEA, '
Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.99,0:02:56.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it's responsible for the elation,\Nthe excitement, and the euphoria
Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.32,0:03:02.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you feel when you meet somebody\Nthat you are sexually interested in.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.72,0:03:05.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a fantastic feeling.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:05.65,0:03:09.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This chemical is gorging\Nthrough your blood vessels.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.48,0:03:14.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are so happy; that's\Nhow powerful this little chemical is.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:14.01,0:03:17.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But what happens after two years
Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.07,0:03:21.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that chemical diminishes\Nas does sexual frequency.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.98,0:03:23.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's just about the time
Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.57,0:03:26.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you might get married\Nor may have conflict in your relationship,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.21,0:03:31.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that is why communication\Nis key to great sex.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.76,0:03:33.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There is another reason
Dialogue: 0,0:03:33.54,0:03:35.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we are not having sex\Nin our relationship,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.02,0:03:40.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that has to do\Nwith the sex education that we provide.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.19,0:03:43.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'd like to share a story about myself.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.20,0:03:48.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I was a teenager, my mother\Ncame racing into my bedroom, and she said,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.62,0:03:50.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Maureen, please, tell me
Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.55,0:03:53.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have not allowed a boy\Nto French-kiss you."
Dialogue: 0,0:03:54.58,0:03:58.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She was feeling terrible\Nthat the sex education came a bit late.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:58.73,0:04:02.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I was feeling horrifically guilty,\Nas an Irish Catholic girl,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.44,0:04:04.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I'd French-kissed a number of boys
Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.66,0:04:06.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.07,0:04:07.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by that stage.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.01,0:04:11.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We teach girls and women
Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.84,0:04:15.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that sex is dirty,\Nand sex is bad, or it's over rated.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.15,0:04:19.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We say, "You're just going to get\Na sexual-transmitted infection anyway,"
Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.60,0:04:20.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or, "You may get pregnant!"
Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.91,0:04:24.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This whole fear-base thing\Nfrightens women from enjoying sex,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.12,0:04:29.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we never talk about pleasure\Nor orgasm with girls and women.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.17,0:04:34.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And in fact, some women say,\N"Orgasm's not important,"
Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.18,0:04:38.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that the journey is just as good\Nas the destination.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.07,0:04:39.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I disagree.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:39.68,0:04:40.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.93,0:04:42.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Of course.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:42.48,0:04:45.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am the one who French-kissed\Nall the boys, as an Irish Catholic girl.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.93,0:04:47.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:04:47.18,0:04:48.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.90,0:04:54.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's like getting on a train\Nwith your lover,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:54.84,0:04:58.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you are going to the most pleasurable\Nplace on the planet.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.70,0:05:00.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are so excited.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.32,0:05:04.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are getting lubed up with all\Nthe free drinks they are giving you.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.10,0:05:05.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is amazing!
Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.20,0:05:08.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And just before you reach\Nyour destination,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:09.38,0:05:11.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he gets off, and you don't.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.87,0:05:13.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.24,0:05:14.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You get my point.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:14.69,0:05:15.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.51,0:05:18.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:05:20.90,0:05:24.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The sex education\Nwe have for boys and men:
Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.56,0:05:26.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's entirely different.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:26.62,0:05:31.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a global program, it's free,\Nit's accessible to everybody,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.95,0:05:35.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it's known as internet pornography.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.60,0:05:36.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Fantastic!
Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.91,0:05:41.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it does nothing to teach\Nmen and boys about intimacy
Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.41,0:05:44.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is really important to men and boys,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:44.54,0:05:48.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or how to make love to anybody.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.40,0:05:54.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Also, we have a paucity of information\Nabout sexual health
Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.87,0:05:58.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for LGBTQI community,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:58.82,0:06:01.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we need to add to that.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:01.91,0:06:05.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Marriage can rapidly go\Nfrom a holy matrimony to holy hell
Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.89,0:06:10.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with the finances, the kids,\Nthe houses, the illness.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:10.00,0:06:12.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, you may have signed up\Nfor sickness and health,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.59,0:06:15.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but that was long before\Nyou'd ever witnessed a man cold.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:15.93,0:06:17.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:06:17.07,0:06:18.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And...
Dialogue: 0,0:06:18.11,0:06:19.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:06:21.14,0:06:23.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And how about that richer or poorer thing?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:23.97,0:06:26.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ladies, we are going to have\Nto start going for richer.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:26.96,0:06:32.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most women today are working\Ninside and outside of the home.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:32.12,0:06:34.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are doing the lion's share\Nof the housework
Dialogue: 0,0:06:34.39,0:06:38.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because according to research,\Nmen don't feel they are that good at it.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:38.36,0:06:41.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we are bridging the gap
Dialogue: 0,0:06:41.21,0:06:44.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,between growing children\Nand aging parents.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.27,0:06:48.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are exhausted doing it all\Nand never doing it.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:48.19,0:06:52.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when we are doing it,\Nwe are checking our smartphones.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:52.71,0:06:56.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,10% of people check\Ntheir smartphones during sex
Dialogue: 0,0:06:56.64,0:06:58.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:06:58.45,0:07:02.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,35% immediately afterward.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:03.88,0:07:07.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are connected to the Internet
Dialogue: 0,0:07:07.49,0:07:08.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:07:11.90,0:07:14.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Cheers) (Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:07:21.45,0:07:27.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are connected to the Internet\Nand disconnected from our would-be lovers.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:27.88,0:07:29.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe this is the reason
Dialogue: 0,0:07:29.68,0:07:36.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that the most common sex position\Nfor married couples is doggy style.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:37.18,0:07:38.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, no, no!
Dialogue: 0,0:07:38.18,0:07:39.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not what you're thinking.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:39.61,0:07:41.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Get your minds out of the gutter.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:41.56,0:07:45.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is the one where he is\Non all his fours and begs,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:45.02,0:07:46.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and she plays dead.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:46.80,0:07:48.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:07:53.22,0:07:57.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have a clinical practice where I see\Npatients that have sexual dysfunction,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:57.63,0:08:00.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and there are two questions\Nthat I ask everybody.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:00.45,0:08:03.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The first one is,\N"Are you sexually active?"
Dialogue: 0,0:08:03.11,0:08:04.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's obvious.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:04.70,0:08:09.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I ask women,\Nthey never say yes or no
Dialogue: 0,0:08:09.84,0:08:11.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- well, they never say yes -
Dialogue: 0,0:08:11.27,0:08:12.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they never say yes or no.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:13.06,0:08:15.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They say, "Sometimes,"
Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.15,0:08:19.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Sort of," "I am not sure," "He is"
Dialogue: 0,0:08:19.03,0:08:20.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:08:20.71,0:08:24.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or they say, "I am married."
Dialogue: 0,0:08:24.44,0:08:27.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I say, "Well, that means no to me."
Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.35,0:08:30.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They say, "Yes, sure. Right. it is no."
Dialogue: 0,0:08:30.61,0:08:35.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most men complain\Nthat women never initiate sex.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:37.07,0:08:40.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The reason for this\Nis because, once again,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:40.75,0:08:43.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the sex education we provide to women.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:44.14,0:08:45.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Women falsely believe
Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.20,0:08:51.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that female sexual interest, desire,\Nprecedes sexual activity,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:51.78,0:08:53.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when in actuality,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:54.21,0:08:59.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is sexual activity that prompts\Nsexual interest and desire.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.75,0:09:05.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sexual arousal emerges\Nas a result of sexual activity.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:07.82,0:09:13.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, you guys, I know,\Nintimacy is important to you.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:14.41,0:09:17.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The most important question\Nthat reflects this,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:17.25,0:09:18.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I receive from you,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:18.87,0:09:22.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is, "How much masturbation\Nis too much masturbation?"
Dialogue: 0,0:09:22.74,0:09:23.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:09:23.93,0:09:30.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I just say, "Well,\Nas long as you can go to work
Dialogue: 0,0:09:30.14,0:09:32.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:09:32.28,0:09:34.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you should be fine."
Dialogue: 0,0:09:34.70,0:09:36.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then I realize
Dialogue: 0,0:09:38.60,0:09:42.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that that's perhaps\Nall that what you are doing at work.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:42.45,0:09:44.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:09:44.07,0:09:47.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I know intimacy is important.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:48.00,0:09:50.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You want to come home,\Nand you want to make love to your wife
Dialogue: 0,0:09:50.92,0:09:52.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you are in a heterosexual relationship.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:52.93,0:09:58.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So after a long\Nand quite possibly very hard day,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:59.51,0:10:03.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you come home to a bit of chaos, perhaps,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:03.04,0:10:07.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but you've just got sex on the mind,\Nand she says, "Did you remember the milk?"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:07.96,0:10:12.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you are like,\N"Darn! The milk! I forgot the milk!"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:12.02,0:10:14.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't beat yourselves up about it;
Dialogue: 0,0:10:14.22,0:10:15.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if not for the milk,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:15.25,0:10:19.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we have Facebook, hormones,\N"I am feeling a little tired tonight,"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.41,0:10:22.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"My stomach is sticking out, I am feeling\Nkind of fat, can't do it tonight,"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:22.100,0:10:25.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Didn't we have sex last month?"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.02,0:10:27.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you are like,\N"That was actually last year!"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:27.36,0:10:28.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:10:28.50,0:10:31.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You don't get it.\NI mean, literally, you don't get it.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:31.35,0:10:35.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But you're like, "She is amazing,\Nshe works in and outside of the home,"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:35.66,0:10:39.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"She does a great job\Nwith the kids," "She volunteers,"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:39.09,0:10:42.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She even has time for girls' nights out.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:42.64,0:10:47.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I brought a friend home\Nafter one such girls' night out.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.87,0:10:53.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As we approached her house, drove up,\Nshe looked up to her bedroom window,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:53.22,0:10:55.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she saw that the lights were on,\Nand she said,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:55.48,0:10:59.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Argh! Donny is waiting up for me.\NDo me a favor.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:59.09,0:11:00.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Drive around the block a few times
Dialogue: 0,0:11:00.90,0:11:01.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:11:01.93,0:11:03.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,until the light goes out."
Dialogue: 0,0:11:03.100,0:11:09.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I said, "Listen! You get in there\Nand make love to your husband,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:09.27,0:11:11.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before somebody else does."
Dialogue: 0,0:11:11.18,0:11:15.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because that is one thing\Nthat will increase a woman's sexual desire
Dialogue: 0,0:11:15.66,0:11:18.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when someone else wants her man.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.74,0:11:21.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Still unconvinced, she said,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:22.92,0:11:27.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I decided to extol\Nthe health and beauty benefits
Dialogue: 0,0:11:27.25,0:11:29.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that sex has for a woman:
Dialogue: 0,0:11:30.18,0:11:35.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a youthful glow, better sleep,\Nwrinkle-free skin.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:35.97,0:11:37.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Keep driving," she said.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:37.92,0:11:39.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:11:40.06,0:11:43.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There is a device that will increase\Nanybody's sexual desire,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:43.93,0:11:47.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that happens to be\Nthe Mercedes-Benz 4matic convertible SL
Dialogue: 0,0:11:47.32,0:11:48.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:11:48.32,0:11:50.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it comes in 64 colors.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:50.68,0:11:52.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But if that doesn't do it,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:52.48,0:11:56.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the desire to have a baby will rev up\Nany woman's sex drive.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:56.55,0:12:00.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The problem is having that baby\Nis likely to kill it
Dialogue: 0,0:12:00.09,0:12:04.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,along with any marital eroticism\Na couple may have had
Dialogue: 0,0:12:05.51,0:12:08.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because a lot of people believe
Dialogue: 0,0:12:08.04,0:12:12.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,motherhood and being sexual\Nis incongruous.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:13.53,0:12:19.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,John followed me on Linkedln for two years\Nbefore he mustered up the courage
Dialogue: 0,0:12:20.08,0:12:22.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to make an appointment\Nabout his sexless marriage.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:22.99,0:12:25.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He'd been married for seven years,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:25.11,0:12:28.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they had never\Nconsummated the relationship.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:29.08,0:12:32.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Their parents were pressuring them\Nto have children
Dialogue: 0,0:12:32.54,0:12:34.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they wanted grandchildren.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:35.57,0:12:38.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When they came into my clinical practice,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:38.39,0:12:42.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the second question that I ask everybody\Nthat enters my clinical practice,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:42.83,0:12:44.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,most unfortunately, is,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:44.64,0:12:50.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Have you ever experienced sexual abuse\Nor unwanted sexual advances as a child?"
Dialogue: 0,0:12:51.51,0:12:54.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This was the first time\Nthis gentleman had learned
Dialogue: 0,0:12:54.22,0:12:57.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that his wife had experienced\Nsexual abuse, as a six-year-old,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:57.60,0:13:00.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at the hands of her best friend's father.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:00.45,0:13:04.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She thought sex was dirty, she hated sex.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:05.08,0:13:09.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We need a worldwide moratorium\Non ending sexual violence on our children,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:09.54,0:13:11.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,boys and girls,\Nbecause it happens to both.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:11.60,0:13:12.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:13:21.60,0:13:25.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Healing from sexual abuse\Ntakes a lifetime.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:27.92,0:13:29.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ella had lived a lifetime.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:30.64,0:13:35.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A widow, she said she wasn't\Nsexually active, but she hoped to be.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:35.42,0:13:38.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I thought, "Fantastic!\NSomebody is going to have sex here!"
Dialogue: 0,0:13:39.30,0:13:41.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But she said, "The problem, Maureen,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:42.90,0:13:46.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that these old guys\Ncan't get it up anymore."
Dialogue: 0,0:13:46.91,0:13:50.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I said, "Well, Ella, you might have\Nto go for a younger guy."
Dialogue: 0,0:13:50.01,0:13:52.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She said, "What's younger\Nwhen you are 84?"
Dialogue: 0,0:13:52.29,0:13:53.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:13:53.43,0:13:54.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"70?"
Dialogue: 0,0:13:54.47,0:13:55.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:14:00.30,0:14:02.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Yes," some of you are saying.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:02.22,0:14:04.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The hard truth is
Dialogue: 0,0:14:04.28,0:14:09.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that men in their 30s and 40s\Nmay experience erectile dysfunction.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:09.73,0:14:13.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ella is going to have to go\Nfor a millennial.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:13.45,0:14:15.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:14:18.13,0:14:20.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you are all probably thinking,\N"What's the big deal?
Dialogue: 0,0:14:20.88,0:14:23.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why treat my erectile dysfunction?"
Dialogue: 0,0:14:23.07,0:14:26.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, I liken the penis to a plane.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:26.36,0:14:29.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If the pilot can't get\Nthe plane up in the air
Dialogue: 0,0:14:29.78,0:14:32.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and keep the plane\Nin the air for the entire trip,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:32.67,0:14:35.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's probably a problem with the engine.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:35.58,0:14:37.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So if you can't get your penis up
Dialogue: 0,0:14:37.75,0:14:41.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and keep it up\Nfor the entire sexual experience,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:41.92,0:14:44.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's likely a problem with your engine.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:44.37,0:14:46.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, that's your heart.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:46.75,0:14:49.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Erectile dysfunction\Nis the canary in the coal mine,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:49.34,0:14:52.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it may signify cardiovascular disease.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:52.18,0:14:54.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It may also indicate diabetes.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:54.93,0:14:57.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, these two medical conditions,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:57.19,0:15:01.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in addition to low testosterone,\Nstress, substance use and abuse,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:01.76,0:15:06.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,excessive alcohol consumption,\Nunresolved conflict, financial issues,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:06.61,0:15:09.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all of those may contribute\Nto low sexual desire,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:09.41,0:15:12.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you may end up in a sexless marriage.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:13.50,0:15:16.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,George presented to my clinical practice:
Dialogue: 0,0:15:16.57,0:15:20.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at age 40, he decided to settle down.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:20.30,0:15:25.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He was marrying a beautiful\Nand accomplished woman
Dialogue: 0,0:15:25.87,0:15:27.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in a few months.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:27.44,0:15:29.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's only one problem:
Dialogue: 0,0:15:30.00,0:15:31.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,George was gay!
Dialogue: 0,0:15:31.19,0:15:32.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:15:32.85,0:15:38.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,George could not bear to tell\Nhis family that he was gay,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:38.69,0:15:42.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because he felt it would have\Nshamed the entire family.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:42.57,0:15:46.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I said, "George, you are going to end up\Nin a sexless marriage!"
Dialogue: 0,0:15:46.19,0:15:48.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He said, "Tell me something I don't know!"
Dialogue: 0,0:15:49.18,0:15:51.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, George said to me his plan was this,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:52.82,0:15:57.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, when my parents die,\NI'm then going to divorce this woman,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:57.67,0:16:00.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I'm going to marry\Nthe man that I love."
Dialogue: 0,0:16:00.51,0:16:03.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I said, "George,\Nyou are not thinking straight!"
Dialogue: 0,0:16:03.35,0:16:04.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:16:09.55,0:16:13.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sex is the barometer\Nof the state of affairs in a marriage.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:13.56,0:16:20.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People who live in sexless marriages\Nreport feeling frustrated, unloved,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:20.23,0:16:25.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,undesirable, unattractive,\Nand the worst of all, lonely.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:25.57,0:16:29.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And loneliness has been shown\Nto increase vascular resistance,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:29.91,0:16:34.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,elevate blood pressure,\Nand lead to an early death.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:35.46,0:16:38.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are more likely to die from loneliness
Dialogue: 0,0:16:38.76,0:16:43.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than you are from obesity\Nor excessive alcohol consumption.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:43.80,0:16:46.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I educate women, and I say,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:46.16,0:16:50.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"If you are not having sex\Nwith your husband, someone else may,"
Dialogue: 0,0:16:50.80,0:16:52.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they get upset, and they say
Dialogue: 0,0:16:52.70,0:16:55.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I am blaming women\Nfor men's bad behavior,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:55.69,0:16:59.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when in actuality,\NI am doing a community service.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:59.57,0:17:00.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see?
Dialogue: 0,0:17:00.58,0:17:05.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Men in sexless marriages cheat\Nto remain in that marriage, in general.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:05.63,0:17:09.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And women cheat\Nto leave a sexless marriage.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:09.42,0:17:11.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And women cheat, too.\NNobody ever thinks we do.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:11.93,0:17:14.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are just sneakier about it,\Nwe just don't get caught.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:14.56,0:17:15.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:17:15.58,0:17:17.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or socialize very differently.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:17.52,0:17:19.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is one thing we have on you, guys.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:19.41,0:17:20.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:17:21.69,0:17:25.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Women cheat with other men,\Nand women cheat with other women.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:26.10,0:17:29.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And technology has made cheating\Naccessible for everybody:
Dialogue: 0,0:17:29.74,0:17:32.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from the politician\Nto the stay-at-home parent.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:32.77,0:17:38.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That quick swipe right can lead\Nto an online passionate love affair;
Dialogue: 0,0:17:39.02,0:17:42.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from texting to sexting,\Nto secret phone conversations.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:42.94,0:17:45.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The more two people communicate online,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:45.63,0:17:49.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the more likely\Nan in-person encounter will occur.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:49.83,0:17:53.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But you can always blame your genes.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:54.03,0:17:58.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The gene DRD4\Nhas been isolated in cheaters.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:58.39,0:18:04.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the sexless marriage's just\Nthe environment to turn on that gene.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:04.49,0:18:07.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's based on a system\Nof pleasure and reward.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:08.14,0:18:11.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The stakes are high,\Nthe rewards, substantial.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:11.50,0:18:17.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is the perfect cocktail\Nto turn that love drug back on, PEA,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:17.58,0:18:19.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the cycle begins again.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:20.10,0:18:25.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Historically, marriage was\Nnot based on mutual love
Dialogue: 0,0:18:25.42,0:18:28.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But rather it was an institution\Nto acquire, of all things,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:28.83,0:18:33.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in-laws, property, and physical labor.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:33.60,0:18:36.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But at the turn\Nof the 20th century, in America,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:36.92,0:18:41.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,egalitarian ideals and the emerging\NHollywood movie industry
Dialogue: 0,0:18:42.02,0:18:45.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,burdened marriages\Nwith promising romantic love forever.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:45.23,0:18:48.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And now we are living forever.\NFantastic! Congratulations!
Dialogue: 0,0:18:48.08,0:18:51.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You get to have sex with the same person\Nfor the rest of your life!
Dialogue: 0,0:18:52.18,0:18:55.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The second most common question\Nthat I hear from patients
Dialogue: 0,0:18:55.25,0:18:57.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is, "When does sex end?"
Dialogue: 0,0:18:57.65,0:19:01.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A 44-year-old asked me; he said,\N"When does sex end, Maureen? 65?"
Dialogue: 0,0:19:01.62,0:19:04.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I answered him this way,\N"A 22-year-old asked me,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:04.51,0:19:09.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'When does sex end, Maureen? 35?'\NEverybody is older, until you get there."
Dialogue: 0,0:19:09.47,0:19:12.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am here to tell you that sex never ends.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:13.05,0:19:15.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you are healthy, you can have
Dialogue: 0,0:19:15.25,0:19:16.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Cheers)
Dialogue: 0,0:19:16.62,0:19:18.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:19:20.81,0:19:22.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you are healthy,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:22.02,0:19:25.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can have a great sex life\Nwell into your 80s and 90s.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:26.65,0:19:29.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sex is good for you. Sex is healthy.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:30.37,0:19:32.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yet, sex is shrouded in shame.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:33.57,0:19:35.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the ancient aristocracies,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:35.19,0:19:36.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the wealthy men
Dialogue: 0,0:19:36.32,0:19:39.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,had courtesans for pleasure\Nand concubines for quick sex.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:39.32,0:19:43.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the way we are going,\Ncomputers will be our concubines;
Dialogue: 0,0:19:43.78,0:19:46.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,internet pornography,\Nour mistress of the day.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:47.32,0:19:52.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Technology is fast replacing\Nhuman connection at high speed.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:53.06,0:19:56.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, how do you rev up\Nthe sexless marriage?
Dialogue: 0,0:19:56.52,0:19:59.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sex is about blood flow, it's exercise.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:00.67,0:20:03.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everyday, you want\Nto have a daily workout.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:03.08,0:20:05.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It increases your agility, your stamina.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:06.30,0:20:09.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Women will experience\Nmore sexual sensation
Dialogue: 0,0:20:10.17,0:20:12.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when blood is flowing to the genitalia.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:12.92,0:20:15.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It also helps to treat\Nerectile dysfunction.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:16.47,0:20:19.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Also, get help for any of the sexual\Ndysfunctions you may have.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:20.06,0:20:23.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Vaginal dryness is an issue\Nthat happens to women
Dialogue: 0,0:20:23.64,0:20:26.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who are on the oral contraceptive pill,\Nwho are breastfeeding,
Dialogue: 0,0:20:26.78,0:20:28.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,perimenopausal, postmenopausal,
Dialogue: 0,0:20:28.70,0:20:30.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and there are treatments for you.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:30.71,0:20:34.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pay more attention to your spouse\Nthan you do to your smartphone.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:34.91,0:20:39.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Spend more time in your bedrooms\Nthan you do in your boardrooms,
Dialogue: 0,0:20:39.60,0:20:43.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or your bedrooms\Nare going to become boardrooms.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:43.02,0:20:44.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:20:44.72,0:20:46.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Deal with your marital issues.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:47.28,0:20:50.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Go to sleep in the same bed,\Nat the same time,
Dialogue: 0,0:20:50.23,0:20:53.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and don't bring anything or anyone\Ninto your marriage,
Dialogue: 0,0:20:53.79,0:20:57.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,except for a great sex toy\Nand a darn good sex therapist.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:57.25,0:20:58.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:21:00.61,0:21:02.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You must establish guidelines
Dialogue: 0,0:21:02.84,0:21:05.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that govern those moments\Nwhen you are struck
Dialogue: 0,0:21:05.88,0:21:08.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by someone's attractiveness\Noutside of your marriage.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:09.53,0:21:11.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But don't think for a second
Dialogue: 0,0:21:11.19,0:21:13.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you have to have sex\Nwith the same person
Dialogue: 0,0:21:13.90,0:21:15.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for the rest of your life.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:15.44,0:21:17.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's not what I mean.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:17.100,0:21:21.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In your mind, that is, fantasy is key.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:22.22,0:21:24.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your brain is your largest sex organ.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:25.23,0:21:29.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And one more thing: I would like\Nto leave you all off with a bang:
Dialogue: 0,0:21:29.83,0:21:31.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:21:31.30,0:21:36.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,settle all marital arguments\Nin the bedroom, naked.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:36.80,0:21:38.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Cheers) (Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:21:38.38,0:21:40.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)