1 00:00:21,060 --> 00:00:26,369 (Bell) 2 00:00:29,229 --> 00:00:32,282 (FRENCH) Why do I feel so free? 3 00:00:34,208 --> 00:00:38,284 Sometimes I wonder if I am not lacking all discipline. 4 00:00:39,613 --> 00:00:44,167 I would like to know how to tell the difference 5 00:00:44,167 --> 00:00:48,978 between the moments where I really listen to myself and respect myself 6 00:00:48,978 --> 00:00:52,019 and the moments where I let myself go. 7 00:00:58,473 --> 00:01:01,410 I often feel that I have a lot of freedom. 8 00:01:02,511 --> 00:01:06,651 But sometimes I wonder if I am lacking self discipline. 9 00:01:06,651 --> 00:01:10,740 So how can I know the difference between 10 00:01:10,740 --> 00:01:14,154 listening to myself and respecting myself, 11 00:01:15,990 --> 00:01:23,164 and just letting myself do anything I like without any kind of boundaries? 12 00:01:26,233 --> 00:01:29,990 How can I find a balance between freedom and self respect 13 00:01:29,990 --> 00:01:32,730 and also appropriate action? 14 00:01:38,401 --> 00:01:44,872 There are many of us that have the same kind of experiences. 15 00:01:45,689 --> 00:01:48,716 Sometimes we are doing very well, 16 00:01:48,716 --> 00:01:52,653 we practice the five mindfulness trainings perfectly, 17 00:01:52,653 --> 00:01:55,002 sometimes not so perfectly. 18 00:02:00,012 --> 00:02:05,920 I think we should not think of the practice 19 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:09,233 too much in terms of discipline. 20 00:02:11,206 --> 00:02:15,970 Because the practice can be pleasant and joyful. 21 00:02:17,655 --> 00:02:20,888 We do not have to force ourselves to practice. 22 00:02:27,073 --> 00:02:29,351 It is like walking meditation. 23 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:35,924 You don't have to force yourself to walk slowly, to make efforts. 24 00:02:38,081 --> 00:02:42,245 Because the practice of walking meditation can be very pleasant. 25 00:02:42,684 --> 00:02:45,157 And every step can bring you joy, 26 00:02:46,322 --> 00:02:47,884 pleasure, 27 00:02:49,445 --> 00:02:51,025 peace 28 00:02:52,032 --> 00:02:53,655 touching life deeply. 29 00:02:55,298 --> 00:02:57,522 And if we practice like that, 30 00:03:03,732 --> 00:03:08,065 if we keep practicing like that it becomes a habit. 31 00:03:11,229 --> 00:03:13,080 And we want to practice. 32 00:03:13,473 --> 00:03:17,237 We do not want to impose the practice on ourselves. 33 00:03:20,176 --> 00:03:24,827 Whether Thay is alone or Thay is with a group of people 34 00:03:24,827 --> 00:03:27,382 he walks very much the same way. 35 00:03:28,925 --> 00:03:31,358 Because it gives him pleasure 36 00:03:32,287 --> 00:03:34,021 And he is ... 37 00:03:36,334 --> 00:03:39,217 He is profiting, 38 00:03:53,861 --> 00:03:56,625 profiting from the... 39 00:03:57,146 --> 00:04:02,408 ... from the hours, the minutes, the days that are given to him to live. 40 00:04:04,249 --> 00:04:11,069 He does not want to waste, 'gaspiller', any moment. 41 00:04:12,829 --> 00:04:17,537 He wants to live each moment of his life deeply. 42 00:04:19,235 --> 00:04:23,298 And these moments can be both nourishing and healing 43 00:04:23,553 --> 00:04:29,624 not only for him but for his disciples, for his friends and for his society. 44 00:04:31,417 --> 00:04:36,435 So you don't have to impose the practice on yourself. 45 00:04:38,365 --> 00:04:42,118 It becomes a habit rather than a discipline. 46 00:04:43,430 --> 00:04:46,708 And the second thing is that you need a Sangha. 47 00:04:49,388 --> 00:04:52,404 Because with a Sangha, with a practice Sangha 48 00:04:52,404 --> 00:05:00,964 we are reminded to go back to our practice in case we forget to enjoy. 49 00:05:04,124 --> 00:05:07,060 Because the practice is also the enjoyment. 50 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:12,927 Very often the conditions of happiness are there 51 00:05:15,047 --> 00:05:16,770 but we are not there. 52 00:05:17,090 --> 00:05:22,094 We do not know how to recognise them and make good use of them 53 00:05:22,210 --> 00:05:25,149 to be happy right here and right now. 54 00:05:25,881 --> 00:05:29,620 We are seeking pleasure and happiness in the future. 55 00:05:30,204 --> 00:05:31,761 That is a waste. 56 00:05:32,099 --> 00:05:39,605 So in that case, if there is a brother, a sister around you who practices well, 57 00:05:39,605 --> 00:05:43,203 you are reminded to go back 58 00:05:44,183 --> 00:05:49,023 and seek pleasure, happiness and freedom right there and right then. 59 00:05:49,584 --> 00:05:54,082 And that is the practice of taking refuge in the Sangha. 60 00:05:54,726 --> 00:06:01,611 Everyone of us, in order to maintain our practice, to support our practice, 61 00:06:02,170 --> 00:06:09,017 should try to set up a group of practitioners in our area, 62 00:06:09,017 --> 00:06:10,898 so that we can take refuge. 63 00:06:11,405 --> 00:06:16,092 We can profit from the group energy, 64 00:06:17,492 --> 00:06:21,050 in order to advance on our path of practice. 65 00:06:24,348 --> 00:06:25,778 (FRENCH) Good luck! 66 00:06:27,343 --> 00:06:29,041 Good luck my dear! 67 00:06:29,381 --> 00:06:31,402 (Laughing) 68 00:06:40,604 --> 00:06:56,488 (Bell)