0:00:21.060,0:00:26.369 (Bell) 0:00:29.229,0:00:32.282 (FRENCH)[br]Why do I feel so free? 0:00:34.208,0:00:38.284 Sometimes I wonder if[br]I am not lacking all discipline. 0:00:39.613,0:00:44.167 I would like to know how[br]to tell the difference 0:00:44.167,0:00:48.978 between the moments where I really[br]listen to myself and respect myself 0:00:48.978,0:00:52.019 and the moments[br]where I let myself go. 0:00:58.473,0:01:01.410 I often feel that I have a lot of freedom. 0:01:02.511,0:01:06.651 But sometimes I wonder[br]if I am lacking self discipline. 0:01:06.651,0:01:10.740 So how can I know the difference between 0:01:10.740,0:01:14.154 listening to myself and respecting myself, 0:01:15.990,0:01:23.164 and just letting myself do anything[br]I like without any kind of boundaries? 0:01:26.233,0:01:29.990 How can I find a balance between[br]freedom and self respect 0:01:29.990,0:01:32.730 and also appropriate action? 0:01:38.401,0:01:44.872 There are many of us that have[br]the same kind of experiences. 0:01:45.689,0:01:48.716 Sometimes we are doing very well, 0:01:48.716,0:01:52.653 we practice the five mindfulness[br]trainings perfectly, 0:01:52.653,0:01:55.002 sometimes not so perfectly. 0:02:00.012,0:02:05.920 I think we should not[br]think of the practice 0:02:06.600,0:02:09.233 too much in terms of discipline. 0:02:11.206,0:02:15.970 Because the practice[br]can be pleasant and joyful. 0:02:17.655,0:02:20.888 We do not have to[br]force ourselves to practice. 0:02:27.073,0:02:29.351 It is like walking meditation. 0:02:30.080,0:02:35.924 You don't have to force yourself[br]to walk slowly, to make efforts. 0:02:38.081,0:02:42.245 Because the practice of walking meditation[br]can be very pleasant. 0:02:42.684,0:02:45.157 And every step can bring you joy, 0:02:46.322,0:02:47.884 pleasure, 0:02:49.445,0:02:51.025 peace 0:02:52.032,0:02:53.655 touching life deeply. 0:02:55.298,0:02:57.522 And if we practice like that, 0:03:03.732,0:03:08.065 if we keep practicing like that[br]it becomes a habit. 0:03:11.229,0:03:13.080 And we want to practice. 0:03:13.473,0:03:17.237 We do not want to impose[br]the practice on ourselves. 0:03:20.176,0:03:24.827 Whether Thay is alone or[br]Thay is with a group of people 0:03:24.827,0:03:27.382 he walks very much the same way. 0:03:28.925,0:03:31.358 Because it gives him pleasure 0:03:32.287,0:03:34.021 And he is ... 0:03:36.334,0:03:39.217 He is profiting, 0:03:53.861,0:03:56.625 profiting from the... 0:03:57.146,0:04:02.408 ... from the hours, the minutes, the days[br]that are given to him to live. 0:04:04.249,0:04:11.069 He does not want to waste,[br]'gaspiller', any moment. 0:04:12.829,0:04:17.537 He wants to live[br]each moment of his life deeply. 0:04:19.235,0:04:23.298 And these moments can be[br]both nourishing and healing 0:04:23.553,0:04:29.624 not only for him but for his disciples,[br]for his friends and for his society. 0:04:31.417,0:04:36.435 So you don't have to impose[br]the practice on yourself. 0:04:38.365,0:04:42.118 It becomes a habit[br]rather than a discipline. 0:04:43.430,0:04:46.708 And the second thing[br]is that you need a Sangha. 0:04:49.388,0:04:52.404 Because with a Sangha,[br]with a practice Sangha 0:04:52.404,0:05:00.964 we are reminded to go back to[br]our practice in case we forget to enjoy. 0:05:04.124,0:05:07.060 Because the practice[br]is also the enjoyment. 0:05:09.720,0:05:12.927 Very often the conditions[br]of happiness are there 0:05:15.047,0:05:16.770 but we are not there. 0:05:17.090,0:05:22.094 We do not know how to recognise them[br]and make good use of them 0:05:22.210,0:05:25.149 to be happy right here and right now. 0:05:25.881,0:05:29.620 We are seeking pleasure[br]and happiness in the future. 0:05:30.204,0:05:31.761 That is a waste. 0:05:32.099,0:05:39.605 So in that case, if there is a brother,[br]a sister around you who practices well, 0:05:39.605,0:05:43.203 you are reminded to go back 0:05:44.183,0:05:49.023 and seek pleasure, happiness and freedom[br]right there and right then. 0:05:49.584,0:05:54.082 And that is the practice of[br]taking refuge in the Sangha. 0:05:54.726,0:06:01.611 Everyone of us, in order to maintain[br]our practice, to support our practice, 0:06:02.170,0:06:09.017 should try to set up a group[br]of practitioners in our area, 0:06:09.017,0:06:10.898 so that we can take refuge. 0:06:11.405,0:06:16.092 We can profit from the group energy, 0:06:17.492,0:06:21.050 in order to advance on[br]our path of practice. 0:06:24.348,0:06:25.778 (FRENCH)[br]Good luck! 0:06:27.343,0:06:29.041 Good luck my dear! 0:06:29.381,0:06:31.402 (Laughing) 0:06:40.604,0:06:56.488 (Bell)