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Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text
Dialogue: 0,0:00:01.50,0:00:03.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Half bell)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:06.72,0:00:17.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:34.01,0:00:34.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dear Thay,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:34.92,0:00:39.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have two different questions \Nfrom friends who are asking about
Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.76,0:00:46.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how to help very young people recognize \Nthe continuation with their father
Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.76,0:00:51.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when they haven't had\Nany personal relationship with him?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.16,0:00:55.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One person asks:
Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.35,0:01:00.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'This summer in the children's program,\Nwe had boys who cannot know their father,'
Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.63,0:01:04.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'because they were born from \Nartificial insemination.'
Dialogue: 0,0:01:06.38,0:01:11.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'How can I help them to feel \Ntheir father inside of them?'
Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.19,0:01:15.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Another person asked in French:
Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.44,0:01:21.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'How do you explain to a teenager \Nthe continuation of father to son'
Dialogue: 0,0:01:22.93,0:01:26.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'when he has never been\Nrecognized by his father'
Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.96,0:01:29.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'since the time he was conceived.'
Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.09,0:01:38.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are people who have fathers\Nthat are still alive,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.69,0:01:46.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they cannot \Nconnect with their fathers.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.66,0:01:57.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Communication is blocked.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:02.82,0:02:07.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And they don't want to be \Nwith their fathers.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.62,0:02:12.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They are not interested in \Nthe person of their father.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.88,0:02:16.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is the truth, in many cases.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.99,0:02:21.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But there are those who\Nhave never seen their father,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.85,0:02:26.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but who are capable of ...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.92,0:02:35.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,being in communication with their fathers,\Nthanks to the practice.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.23,0:02:46.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They are helped to recognize \Nthe father in themselves.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.93,0:02:55.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your way of walking, your way of smiling, \Nyour way of acting, reacting,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.40,0:02:59.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,reflects very much the way of your father.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.59,0:03:07.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And looking into yourself deeply,\Nyou can recognize your father.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.72,0:03:16.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have traits of your father.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:16.52,0:03:21.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we can also help a person to do that:
Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.95,0:03:25.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Darling, you smile \Nexactly like your father."
Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.47,0:03:34.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"The way you reacted, is very much like\Nthe way your father reacted."
Dialogue: 0,0:03:34.80,0:03:37.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can help a person like that.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.08,0:03:50.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Especially when we talk about \Nthe positive characteristics of
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.28,0:03:54.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the father to the young man \Nor the young woman.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.39,0:04:08.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you are a lady,\Npregnant for the first time,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.40,0:04:14.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and your baby is very small\Ninside of you.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.95,0:04:20.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have not yet seen\Na picture of your baby.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:28.93,0:04:32.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And yet you can talk to \Nyour baby with love.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.29,0:04:35.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You already have love.\NYou can talk to your baby:
Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.70,0:04:39.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Darling, I know you are there,\NI am so happy."
Dialogue: 0,0:04:39.88,0:04:42.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can practise the second mantra,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:42.83,0:04:44.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughs)
Dialogue: 0,0:04:47.56,0:04:51.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the first mantra:\N"Darling, I am here for you."
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.92,0:04:55.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Darling, I know you are there\Nand I am very happy."
Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.59,0:05:02.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Both you and the future father can...
Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.13,0:05:08.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,talk to the embryo inside as a person.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:08.86,0:05:11.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And love is very real.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.14,0:05:14.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And talking can be very real also, \Nfull of love.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.54,0:05:19.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you don't need\Nan appearance to talk to.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.12,0:05:34.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So even if we have not seen our father \Nphysically, we can talk to him.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.82,0:05:41.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the fact is that \Nhe is in every cell of your body.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:42.86,0:05:46.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you can smile to your father in\Nevery cell of your body and say:
Dialogue: 0,0:05:47.37,0:05:51.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Daddy, I know you are there \Nin every cell of my body."
Dialogue: 0,0:05:53.62,0:05:56.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"And I know that..."
Dialogue: 0,0:05:57.56,0:06:04.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"that my appearance has many things \Nthat are similar to your appearance."
Dialogue: 0,0:06:06.38,0:06:08.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I am your continuation."
Dialogue: 0,0:06:09.16,0:06:10.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"And in the past ..."
Dialogue: 0,0:06:17.01,0:06:20.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"you have transmitted to me\Nmany good things,"
Dialogue: 0,0:06:21.71,0:06:24.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"and maybe some things\Nthat are not so positive."
Dialogue: 0,0:06:24.51,0:06:26.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I accept everything."
Dialogue: 0,0:06:27.37,0:06:29.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"And with the practice of the Dharma,"
Dialogue: 0,0:06:29.44,0:06:35.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I can develop the positive elements \Nthat you have transmitted to me"
Dialogue: 0,0:06:36.31,0:06:43.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"and I can transform the negative things\Nthat you have transmitted to me."
Dialogue: 0,0:06:43.73,0:06:46.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can talk to your father like that.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:49.90,0:06:54.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because you have had a chance\Nto encounter the Buddhadharma,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:54.73,0:06:56.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is why you can do that.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:58.28,0:07:02.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Develop the positive things and \Ntransform the negative things.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:07.48,0:07:08.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And also...
Dialogue: 0,0:07:10.91,0:07:17.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Loving kindness is born from that\Nkind of relationship, but also compassion.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:33.12,0:07:38.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Compassion, because compassion \Ncan be born in your heart.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:40.57,0:07:48.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If your father does not recognize you,\Nwants to ignore you,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:49.66,0:07:53.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because he has \Na huge block of suffering in him,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:00.11,0:08:04.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the seed of love in him has not had \Nany chance to be watered.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:06.78,0:08:08.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is why he behaves like that.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:09.97,0:08:15.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If someone knows how to water\Nthat seed of love in him,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:16.59,0:08:20.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that seed will have a chance to manifest.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:21.43,0:08:23.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But so far, no one has helped him.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:25.35,0:08:28.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So if you look in that way, \Nyou are not angry at your father anymore.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:31.40,0:08:35.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you know that there is \Na seed of love in your father.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:35.13,0:08:40.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He might have been loving and shown \Nhis interest and his love to you
Dialogue: 0,0:08:40.54,0:08:43.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but he did not have the chance.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:43.01,0:08:46.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He did not encounter \Na Dharma brother, a Dharma sister
Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.92,0:08:56.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who helped him to make \Nthat seed of love in him manifest.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:57.58,0:09:04.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everyone has that seed of love,\Nbut his seed of love has not had a chance.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:07.64,0:09:11.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So meditating like that,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:11.87,0:09:16.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you accept your father\Nand you have compassion towards him.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:16.10,0:09:20.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have the chance to encounter\Nthe Buddhadharma.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:25.38,0:09:30.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are able to water that seed in you,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:31.82,0:09:36.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you will be ... loving,\Nyou will recognize your child,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:36.99,0:09:40.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You will support your child,\Nyou love your child.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:42.34,0:09:46.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if you succeed within yourself,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:48.77,0:09:52.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you already have begun to transform \Nyour father inside of you.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:54.99,0:09:57.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And having transformed \Nthe father inside of you,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:59.32,0:10:03.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have more chance to transform \Nthe father outside of you.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:03.74,0:10:07.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because the father outside \Nis not the all of your father.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:11.88,0:10:13.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He is inside of you.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:13.46,0:10:20.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you have the power,\Nthe capacity, the chance
Dialogue: 0,0:10:20.30,0:10:24.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to transform the father within.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:24.12,0:10:26.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your father in you\Nrecognizes you and loves you.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:26.66,0:10:28.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that is your practice.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:28.42,0:10:32.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And after having succeeded in that, \Nyou don't suffer anymore
Dialogue: 0,0:10:32.25,0:10:35.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you have more chance \Nto help the father outside.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:41.36,0:10:43.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Half bell)
Dialogue: 0,0:10:46.46,0:11:03.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell)