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Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[clap]
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- That was a really good clap, that didn't\Neven look like it would be a good clap
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I know!\N- Did you do that here?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Yes I did like this-\N[Clap]
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Gasp] Why does that sound better than\Nthis? [clap]
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[clap] This is why they show it in movies\Nwhen people clap like this
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I thought it was just fancy clapping but\Nthat's how you should clap!
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- We don't need Gabbie!\N- They do it in post!
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,♪ [JBU theme] ♪
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Thank you so much for coming back Renee\N- I'm so excited to be back
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,-This is Renee Arielle, a friend and also\Nan internet person
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[laughs] Yup, you know last time I started\Noff being like
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'oh, my life is a mess' but I didn't talk\Nabout how I lost my job?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,-Yeah\Nor what I did and I watched it back
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I'm like, they probably have no idea\Nwhat I was talking about
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Why would they know anything about you?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Today I wanna talk about how do you get\Nout of a toxic relationship?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- That's a good question\N- Move. Change your name. [Phone ding]
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Allison! Your phone!\N- It's because the food is gonna come!
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ok fine\N- And I have to answer the phone call!
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- What's a mukbang?\N- It's a [sigh]
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- You sound like my aunt\N- It's a type of youtube video
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where people eat while they talk\N- It's very popular
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's very popular so you could do it\N- Ok cool
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you mean your aunt that lives alone on\Nthe farm that you're not aloud to talk
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about in front of me?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- So anyway how do you get out of a\Ntoxic relationship?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wanna to bring this up because I think\Nthat recently
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- What?\Nmaybe Renee's been struggling with this
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- [stuttering] I don't know why, that's\Nweird that you... yeah a little bit
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's one of thsoe things that when you\Nhaven't gone through it or haven't had
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a friend go through it, you don't under-\Nyou're like 'Just leave! Walk away!'
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it's harder than that!
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Because you start to equate the past\Nwith the present or the future
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so if it was good for one month two years\Nago, you're like 'but that month!'
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What if we get that month back!\N- That's all you keep doing
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You strive for a moment in time that\Njust doesn't exist anymore
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The person your partner was in that time\Ndoesn't exist anymore
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's issues that aren't gonna be solved\Nbut in your mind you're like
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'But what if?'
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Allison always says 'You gotta think about\Nwhat's going on right now
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and not romanticize the past or hope for\Nthe future' right?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I don't remember saying that, but it's\Nvery smart!
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One thing that my therapist taught me\Nthat is really helpful is that
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with people who give you attention and\Nthen take it away, that's addicting
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- yeah\NIt has the exact same effect on your body
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as like drugs, or like anything else\Npeople get addicted to
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and so you feel so helpless, and you're\Nlike 'I don't understand why I can't just
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cut this person out', but it's because\Nthey have created it so that you are
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,addicted to them
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- For me, it would be like, all in,\Nacting like nothing's wrong,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then out of nowhere:\Nstone cold
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Wow!\Nand like, leaves
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[stammering] And I'd be so confused,\Nmy brain wouldn't catch up with what was
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,happening, and I was just so confused, and\NI wanted answers
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and at first you're able to distance\Nyourself, but after time it's cray what
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you will forget\N- Yes! and forgive