WEBVTT 00:00:18.482 --> 00:00:21.065 When every time you see that person, 00:00:21.065 --> 00:00:23.568 it just hurts inside of you? 00:00:23.568 --> 00:00:27.611 Cindy, all I can really do is give you 00:00:27.611 --> 00:00:32.754 the example of Christ. 00:00:32.754 --> 00:00:34.821 They hurt Christ. 00:00:34.821 --> 00:00:37.682 They pressed thorns on His brow. 00:00:37.682 --> 00:00:40.846 They scourged Him. 00:00:40.846 --> 00:00:43.958 They put spikes through His hands and His feet. 00:00:43.958 --> 00:00:46.798 They hung Him on a cross. They crucified Him. 00:00:46.815 --> 00:00:48.190 And in the midst of all that, 00:00:48.190 --> 00:00:49.995 He said, "Father, forgive them. 00:00:49.995 --> 00:00:52.583 They know not what they do." 00:00:52.583 --> 00:00:55.342 He wept over the very city 00:00:55.342 --> 00:00:57.849 that would call for His crucifixion. 00:00:57.849 --> 00:01:00.682 Those who would spit on Him. 00:01:00.682 --> 00:01:08.022 Those who would smite Him and strike Him. 00:01:08.022 --> 00:01:10.624 And I always think of Mark 10:21. 00:01:10.624 --> 00:01:13.231 You've got the rich, young ruler. 00:01:13.231 --> 00:01:16.360 He rejected Christ. 00:01:16.360 --> 00:01:22.290 It says, "Jesus, looking at him, loved him." 00:01:22.290 --> 00:01:24.213 Incredible words. 00:01:24.213 --> 00:01:27.161 Jesus loved Him. 00:01:27.161 --> 00:01:31.998 You say, well yeah, Jesus loves His children. 00:01:31.998 --> 00:01:34.146 Jesus loves those that believe in Him. 00:01:34.146 --> 00:01:38.110 This guy rejected Him. 00:01:38.110 --> 00:01:42.289 It says He loved him. 00:01:42.289 --> 00:01:45.776 Cindy, the greatest thing you can do 00:01:45.776 --> 00:01:54.511 is just contemplate Christ. 00:01:54.511 --> 00:02:03.202 Not just how other people wronged Christ 00:02:03.202 --> 00:02:06.689 and He had compassion on them, 00:02:06.689 --> 00:02:13.125 but Cindy, how you have wronged Christ. 00:02:13.125 --> 00:02:16.855 The fact is that no matter what anybody has done to you, 00:02:16.855 --> 00:02:18.370 what you have done to God 00:02:18.370 --> 00:02:20.403 and what you have done to Christ 00:02:20.403 --> 00:02:23.709 is far worse. 00:02:23.709 --> 00:02:25.598 We need to remember the parable. 00:02:25.598 --> 00:02:28.690 Do you guys remember the parable that deals with this? 00:02:28.690 --> 00:02:30.964 What is it? Matthew 18? 00:02:30.964 --> 00:02:33.457 The unmerciful servant. 00:02:33.457 --> 00:02:37.232 If Christ has forgiven you this massive, 00:02:37.232 --> 00:02:40.972 untold debt, 00:02:40.972 --> 00:02:44.367 and you cannot forgive your fellow man, 00:02:44.367 --> 00:02:49.412 some small thing that he has done to you, 00:02:49.412 --> 00:02:51.243 then you'll not be forgiven. 00:02:51.243 --> 00:02:53.321 That's what Scripture says. 00:02:53.321 --> 00:02:55.622 And that's how it's likened. 00:02:55.622 --> 00:02:58.643 God forgives us a massive debt. 00:02:58.643 --> 00:03:02.744 And what others have done to us is but a small one. 00:03:02.744 --> 00:03:05.252 Are we going to stiffen up 00:03:05.252 --> 00:03:08.037 and refuse to forgive others 00:03:08.037 --> 00:03:11.530 when God has forgiven us so much?