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Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.00,0:00:03.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[This talk contains graphic language\Nand descriptions of sexual violence]
Dialogue: 0,0:00:03.47,0:00:04.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Viewer discretion is advised]
Dialogue: 0,0:00:04.91,0:00:06.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ashley Judd,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:06.13,0:00:08.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,stupid fucking slut."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.99,0:00:13.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You can't sue someone\Nfor calling them a cunt.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.14,0:00:14.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you can't handle the Intenet,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:14.69,0:00:16.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fuck off, whore."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.27,0:00:19.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I wish Ashley Judd would\Ndie a horrible death.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.97,0:00:21.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She is the absolute worst."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.21,0:00:25.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ashley Judd, you're the reason\Nwomen shouldn't vote."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.18,0:00:28.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"'Twisted' is such a bad movie,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.94,0:00:31.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't even want to rape it."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.63,0:00:33.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Whatever you do,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:33.63,0:00:37.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't tell Ashley Judd she'll\Ndie alone with a dried out vagina."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.81,0:00:41.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"If I had to fuck an older woman,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.25,0:00:42.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,oh my God,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.38,0:00:44.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would fuck the shit out of Ashley Judd,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.87,0:00:47.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that bitch is hot AF.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.96,0:00:51.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The unforgivable shit I would do to her."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.80,0:00:59.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Online misogyny is a global\Ngender rights tragedy,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:59.28,0:01:02.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it is imperative that it ends.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:02.82,0:01:05.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.98,0:01:12.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Girls' and women's voices,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.70,0:01:16.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and our allies' voices\Nare constrained in ways
Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.58,0:01:18.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that are personally, economically,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.65,0:01:21.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,professionally and politically [damaging],
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.35,0:01:24.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and when we curb abuse,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.08,0:01:26.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we will expand freedom.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.45,0:01:29.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am a Kentucky basketball fan,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.35,0:01:31.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so on a fine March day last year,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.51,0:01:34.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was doing one of the things I do best:
Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.07,0:01:35.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was cheering for my Wildcats.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.83,0:01:37.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The daffodils were blooming,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:37.22,0:01:40.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the referees were not blowing\Nthe whistle when I was telling them to.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.66,0:01:41.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.91,0:01:44.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Funny, they're very friendly\Nto me before the opening [tip],
Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.74,0:01:46.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they really ignore me during the game.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.76,0:01:47.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.76,0:01:49.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Three of my players were bleeding,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.44,0:01:51.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so I did the next-best thing ...
Dialogue: 0,0:01:51.30,0:01:52.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I tweeted.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.30,0:01:55.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[@ArkRazorback dirty play can kiss\Nmy team's free throw making a --
Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.44,0:01:58.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,@KySportsRadio @marchmadness\N@espn Bloodied 3 players so far.]
Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.36,0:02:01.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is routine for me to be treated\Nin the ways I've already described to you.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.98,0:02:03.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It happens to me every single day
Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.57,0:02:06.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on social media platforms\Nsuch as Twitter and Facebook.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.61,0:02:09.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Since I joined Twitter in 2011,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.27,0:02:13.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,misogyny and misogynists\Nhave amply demonstrated
Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.31,0:02:15.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they will dog my every step.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.28,0:02:16.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My spirituality,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:16.83,0:02:17.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my faith --
Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.83,0:02:19.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,being a hillbilly, I can say that,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.46,0:02:20.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can't --
Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.46,0:02:22.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all of it is fair game.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.13,0:02:26.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I have responded to this\Nwith various strategies.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.27,0:02:27.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've tried engaging people.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.71,0:02:32.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This one guy was sending me\Nhypersexual, nasty stuff,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.30,0:02:34.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and there was a girl in his avatar.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.88,0:02:37.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wrote him back and said ...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.98,0:02:40.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Is that your daughter?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:40.29,0:02:42.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I feel a lot of fear that you\Nmay think about
Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.62,0:02:44.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and talk to women this way."
Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.16,0:02:45.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he surprised me by saying,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.62,0:02:46.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You know what?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.62,0:02:47.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're right.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.62,0:02:48.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I apologize."
Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.62,0:02:51.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sometimes people want\Nto be held accountable.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.46,0:02:54.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This one guy was musing\Nto I don't know who
Dialogue: 0,0:02:54.37,0:02:56.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that maybe I was the definition of a cunt.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.14,0:02:59.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was married to a Scot for 14 years,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:59.03,0:03:02.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so I said, "Cunt means many different\Nthings in different countries --
Dialogue: 0,0:03:02.73,0:03:03.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.73,0:03:07.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I'm pretty sure you epitomize\Nthe global standard of a dick."
Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.11,0:03:08.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:03:08.40,0:03:09.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.65,0:03:13.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've tried to rise above it,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.99,0:03:15.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've tried to get in the trenches,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.65,0:03:18.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but mostly I would scroll through\Nthese social media platforms
Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.58,0:03:20.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with one eye partially closed,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.47,0:03:21.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,trying not to see it,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.50,0:03:24.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but you can't make\Na cucumber out of a pickle.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.45,0:03:26.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What is seen goes in.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.05,0:03:27.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's traumatic.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.56,0:03:30.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I was always secretly hoping\Nin some part of me
Dialogue: 0,0:03:30.45,0:03:35.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that what was being said to me\Nand about me wasn't true.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.35,0:03:39.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because even I,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:39.43,0:03:43.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an avowed, self-declared feminist,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.57,0:03:46.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who worships at the altar of Gloria --
Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.18,0:03:47.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.54,0:03:51.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,internalize the patriarchy.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.35,0:03:52.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is really critical.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:52.77,0:03:55.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Patriarchy is not boys and men.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.60,0:03:58.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is a system in which\Nwe all participate,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:58.39,0:03:59.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,including me.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.38,0:04:03.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,On that particular day,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.81,0:04:04.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for some reason,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.81,0:04:07.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that particular tweet\Nafter the basketball game
Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.30,0:04:09.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,triggered something called a cyber mob.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.87,0:04:15.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This vitriolic, global outpouring\Nof the most heinous hate speech:
Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.69,0:04:17.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,death threats, rape threats --
Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.73,0:04:18.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and don't you know,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.73,0:04:21.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when I was sitting at home\Nalone in my nightgown,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.02,0:04:22.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I got a phone call,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:22.02,0:04:24.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it was my beloved former husband,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.15,0:04:25.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he said on a voicemail,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:25.52,0:04:28.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Loved one ...
Dialogue: 0,0:04:28.06,0:04:30.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what is happening to you is not OK."
Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.45,0:04:33.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And there was something about him\N
Dialogue: 0,0:04:33.83,0:04:38.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,taking a stand for me that night ...
Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.94,0:04:40.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that allowed me\Nto take a stand for myself.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.98,0:04:42.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I started to write.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:42.97,0:04:46.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I started to write about sharing\Nthe fact that I'm a survivor
Dialogue: 0,0:04:46.47,0:04:47.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of all forms of sexual abuse,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:47.96,0:04:49.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,including three rapes.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:49.40,0:04:51.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the hate speech\NI get in response to that --
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.86,0:04:55.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,these are just some of the comments\Nposted to news outlets.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:57.18,0:04:59.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Being told I'm a "snitch" is really fun.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.05,0:05:03.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Jay: She enjoyed every second of it!!!!!]
Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.06,0:05:04.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Audience) Jesus.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.06,0:05:05.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,AJ: Thank you, Jesus.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:05.83,0:05:07.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,May your grace and mercy shine.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:08.36,0:05:09.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I wrote this feminist op-ed,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:09.99,0:05:14.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is entitled, "Forget Your Team:
Dialogue: 0,0:05:14.57,0:05:17.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is Your Online Gender Violence\NToward Girls and Women
Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.43,0:05:20.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that Can Kiss My Righteous Ass."
Dialogue: 0,0:05:20.67,0:05:21.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laugther)
Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.67,0:05:23.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.70,0:05:25.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I did that alone,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:25.83,0:05:27.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I published it alone,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.04,0:05:29.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because my chief advisor\Nsaid, "Please don't,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.59,0:05:32.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the rain of retaliatory garbage\Nthat is inevitable --
Dialogue: 0,0:05:32.52,0:05:33.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I fear for you."
Dialogue: 0,0:05:33.72,0:05:34.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I trust girls,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.89,0:05:35.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I trust women,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.97,0:05:37.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I trust our aliies.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:37.51,0:05:38.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was published,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:38.51,0:05:39.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it went viral,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:39.51,0:05:41.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it proves that every single day
Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.44,0:05:44.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,online misogyny is a phenomenon\Nendured by us all,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:44.78,0:05:45.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all over the world,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:45.90,0:05:47.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and when it is intersectional,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:47.87,0:05:49.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is worse.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.04,0:05:50.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sexual orientation,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:50.15,0:05:51.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gender identity,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:51.15,0:05:53.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,race, ethnicity, religion --
Dialogue: 0,0:05:53.08,0:05:54.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you name it,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.08,0:05:56.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it amplifies the violence\Nendured by girls and women,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:56.85,0:05:58.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and for our younger girls,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:58.14,0:05:59.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is worse.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:01.31,0:06:02.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's clearly traumatizing.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:02.98,0:06:04.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our mental health,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:04.67,0:06:06.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our emotional well-being,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:06.41,0:06:07.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are so gravely effected
Dialogue: 0,0:06:07.90,0:06:09.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because the threat of violence\N
Dialogue: 0,0:06:09.38,0:06:13.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is experienced\Nneurobiologically as violence.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:13.54,0:06:14.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The cortisol shoots up,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.74,0:06:16.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the limbic system gets fired,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.57,0:06:18.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we lose productivity at work.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:20.02,0:06:22.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And let's talk about work.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:22.04,0:06:24.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our ability to work is constrained.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:25.44,0:06:30.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Online searches of women applying for jobs\Nreveal nude pictures of them,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:30.16,0:06:31.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,false allegations --
Dialogue: 0,0:06:31.45,0:06:32.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they have STDs --
Dialogue: 0,0:06:32.87,0:06:38.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their addresses indicating\Nthat they are available for sex
Dialogue: 0,0:06:38.30,0:06:39.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with real examples
Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.86,0:06:43.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of people showing up\Nat this house for said sex.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.43,0:06:48.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our ability to go to school is impaired.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:49.34,0:06:51.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,96 percent of all postings
Dialogue: 0,0:06:51.90,0:06:55.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of sexual images\N[in] our young people ...
Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.78,0:06:57.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,girls.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:57.12,0:06:58.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our girls.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:59.05,0:07:02.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our boys are two-to-three\Ntimes more likely --
Dialogue: 0,0:07:02.80,0:07:04.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,non-consensually --
Dialogue: 0,0:07:04.93,0:07:06.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to share images.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:07.93,0:07:10.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want to say a word about revenge porn.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:10.55,0:07:13.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Part of what came out of this tweet
Dialogue: 0,0:07:13.03,0:07:15.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was my getting connected with allies\Nand other activists
Dialogue: 0,0:07:15.77,0:07:18.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who are fighting for a safe\Nand free Internet.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:19.18,0:07:21.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We started something\Ncalled the Speech Project;
Dialogue: 0,0:07:21.76,0:07:22.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,curbing abuse,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:22.98,0:07:24.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,expanding freedom.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:24.33,0:07:27.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that website provides\Na critical forum,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:27.62,0:07:33.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because there is no global, legal thing\Nto help us figure this out.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:33.57,0:07:37.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But we do provide on that website\Na standardized list of definitions,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:37.28,0:07:40.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because it's hard to attack\Na behavior in the right way
Dialogue: 0,0:07:40.36,0:07:43.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if we're not all sharing a definition\Nof what that behavior is.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:43.81,0:07:48.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I learned that revenge porn\Nis often dangerously misapplied.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:48.52,0:07:52.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is the non-consensual\Nsharing of an image
Dialogue: 0,0:07:52.02,0:07:56.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,used tactically to shame\Nand humiliate a girl or woman
Dialogue: 0,0:07:56.40,0:07:58.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that attempts to pornography us.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:59.08,0:08:02.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our natural sexuality is --
Dialogue: 0,0:08:02.92,0:08:04.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't know about yours --
Dialogue: 0,0:08:04.22,0:08:06.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pretty gorgeous and wonderful.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.42,0:08:10.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And my expressing it does not\Npornography make.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.75,0:08:12.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:08:16.40,0:08:17.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I have all these resources,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:17.96,0:08:19.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I'm keenly aware --
Dialogue: 0,0:08:19.12,0:08:21.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so many people in the world do not.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:22.04,0:08:25.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was able to start\Nthe Speech Project with colleagues.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:25.57,0:08:28.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can often get a social media\Ncompany's attention.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:28.12,0:08:31.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have a wonderful visit\Nto Facebook HQ coming up.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:33.93,0:08:38.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hasn't helped the idiotic\Nreporting standards yet ...
Dialogue: 0,0:08:39.39,0:08:45.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I actually pay someone to scrub\Nmy social media feeds,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:45.14,0:08:47.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,attempting to spare my brain
Dialogue: 0,0:08:47.14,0:08:51.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the daily iterations\Nof the trauma of hate speech.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:51.37,0:08:52.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And guess what?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:52.71,0:08:54.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I get hate speech for that.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:54.05,0:08:55.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Oh, you live in an echo chamber."
Dialogue: 0,0:08:55.69,0:08:56.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, guess what?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:56.82,0:08:59.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Having someone post a photograph\Nof me with my mouth open
Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.49,0:09:01.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,saying they "can't wait\Nto cum on my face,"
Dialogue: 0,0:09:01.60,0:09:03.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have a right to set that boundary.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:04.11,0:09:05.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:09:10.16,0:09:12.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This distinction between virtual\Nand real is specious
Dialogue: 0,0:09:12.98,0:09:14.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because guess what --
Dialogue: 0,0:09:14.34,0:09:16.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that actually happened to me\Nonce when I was a child,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:16.81,0:09:19.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and so that tweet brought up that trauma,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:19.52,0:09:21.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I had to do work on that.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:21.12,0:09:22.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But you know what we do?
Dialogue: 0,0:09:22.30,0:09:24.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We take all of this hate speech,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:24.55,0:09:27.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we disaggregate it,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:27.22,0:09:28.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we code it,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:28.66,0:09:30.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we give that data
Dialogue: 0,0:09:30.49,0:09:33.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that we understand\Nthe intersectionality of it:
Dialogue: 0,0:09:33.18,0:09:34.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when I get porn,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:34.18,0:09:36.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when it's about political affiliation,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:36.00,0:09:37.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when it's about age,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:37.01,0:09:38.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when it's about all of it.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:39.24,0:09:41.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're going to win this fight.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:43.11,0:09:45.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are a lot of solutions --
Dialogue: 0,0:09:45.87,0:09:47.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thank goodness.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:47.76,0:09:49.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going to offer just a few,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:49.79,0:09:54.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and of course I challenge you\Nto create and contribute your own.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.47,0:09:56.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Number one:
Dialogue: 0,0:09:56.47,0:09:58.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we have to start\Nwith digital media literacy,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:58.92,0:10:02.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and clearly it must have a gendered lens.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:02.39,0:10:04.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kids, schools, caregivers, parents:
Dialogue: 0,0:10:04.84,0:10:06.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's essential.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:06.72,0:10:08.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Two ...
Dialogue: 0,0:10:08.90,0:10:11.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,shall we talk about our friends in tech?
Dialogue: 0,0:10:11.94,0:10:14.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Said with dignity and respect,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:14.62,0:10:19.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the sexism in your workplaces must end.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.80,0:10:21.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:10:21.77,0:10:23.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Cheers)
Dialogue: 0,0:10:24.11,0:10:25.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,EDGE,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.50,0:10:28.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the global standard for gender equality,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:28.06,0:10:29.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is the minimum standard.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:29.82,0:10:31.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And guess what, Silicon Valley?
Dialogue: 0,0:10:31.94,0:10:33.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If L'Oréal in India,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:33.87,0:10:34.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the Philippines,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:34.99,0:10:36.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in Brazil,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:36.27,0:10:38.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and in Russia can do it,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:38.08,0:10:40.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can, too.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:40.74,0:10:42.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Enough excuses.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:43.51,0:10:47.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Only when women have critical mass\Nin every department at your companies,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.35,0:10:50.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,including building platforms\Nfrom the ground up,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:50.24,0:10:54.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,will the conversations about priorities\Nand solutions change.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:54.38,0:10:56.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And more love for my friends in tech:
Dialogue: 0,0:10:56.72,0:11:00.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,profiteering off misogyny\Nin video games must end.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:01.09,0:11:04.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm so tired of hearing you talk\Nto me at cocktail parties --
Dialogue: 0,0:11:04.49,0:11:06.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like you did a couple\Nweeks ago in Aspen --
Dialogue: 0,0:11:06.96,0:11:09.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about how deplorable #gamergate was
Dialogue: 0,0:11:09.86,0:11:12.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you're still making billions\Nof dollars off games
Dialogue: 0,0:11:12.49,0:11:15.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that maim and dump women for sport.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:15.60,0:11:16.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Basta,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:16.90,0:11:18.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as the Italians would say.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.31,0:11:19.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Enough.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:19.33,0:11:22.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:11:23.64,0:11:27.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our friends in law enforcement\Nhave much to do,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:27.08,0:11:28.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because we've seen
Dialogue: 0,0:11:28.74,0:11:33.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that online violence is an extension\Nof in-person violence.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:34.45,0:11:36.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In our country,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:36.26,0:11:40.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,more girls and women have been\Nmurdered by their intimate partners
Dialogue: 0,0:11:40.98,0:11:43.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than died on 9/11,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:43.00,0:11:47.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and have died since in Afghanistan\Nand Iraq combined.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:47.64,0:11:49.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it's not cool to say that,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:49.64,0:11:51.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it is true.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:51.68,0:11:55.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We care so much geopolitically\Nabout what men are doing over there
Dialogue: 0,0:11:55.43,0:11:57.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to women over there ...
Dialogue: 0,0:11:57.86,0:12:00.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In 2015,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:00.24,0:12:06.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,72,828 women used intimate\Npartner violence services in this country.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:06.29,0:12:10.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is not counting the girls\Nand women and boys who needed them.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:11.31,0:12:14.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Law enforcement must be empowered
Dialogue: 0,0:12:14.56,0:12:16.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with up-to-date Internet technology,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:16.56,0:12:17.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the devices,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:17.56,0:12:19.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and an understanding\Nof these platforms --
Dialogue: 0,0:12:19.95,0:12:21.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how they work.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:21.87,0:12:24.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The police wanted to be helpful\Nwhen Amanda Hesse called
Dialogue: 0,0:12:24.48,0:12:27.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about the death threat\Nshe was getting on Twitter,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:27.14,0:12:29.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they couldn't really when they said,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:29.33,0:12:30.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What's Twitter?"
Dialogue: 0,0:12:32.91,0:12:36.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our legislators must write\Nand pass astute legislation
Dialogue: 0,0:12:36.93,0:12:38.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that reflects today's technology
Dialogue: 0,0:12:38.75,0:12:42.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and our notions of free and hate speech.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:42.49,0:12:43.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In New York recently,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:43.61,0:12:46.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the law could not be applied \Nto a perpetrator
Dialogue: 0,0:12:46.93,0:12:49.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because the crimes must\Nhave been committed --
Dialogue: 0,0:12:49.13,0:12:50.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even if it was anonymous --
Dialogue: 0,0:12:50.47,0:12:55.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they must have been committed\Nby telephone, in mail,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:55.00,0:12:56.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by telegraph --
Dialogue: 0,0:12:56.83,0:12:58.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:13:01.34,0:13:04.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The language must be\Ntechnologically neutral.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:05.56,0:13:07.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So apparently,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:07.41,0:13:09.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've got a pretty bold voice.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:09.82,0:13:12.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, let's talk about your friends ...
Dialogue: 0,0:13:12.35,0:13:13.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,white men.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:15.37,0:13:18.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have a role to play\Nand a choice to make.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:18.83,0:13:21.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can do something,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:21.14,0:13:23.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or you can do nothing.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:24.38,0:13:25.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're cool in this room,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:25.59,0:13:27.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but when this goes out\Neveryone will say,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:27.50,0:13:29.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Oh my god, she's a reverse racist."
Dialogue: 0,0:13:30.76,0:13:33.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That quote was said by a white man,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:33.30,0:13:34.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Robert Moritz,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:34.50,0:13:36.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,chairperson, PricewaterhouseCoopers,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:36.92,0:13:39.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he asked me to include it in my talk.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:41.30,0:13:44.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We need to grow support lines\Nand help groups,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:44.84,0:13:47.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so victims can help each other
Dialogue: 0,0:13:47.64,0:13:50.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when their lives and finances\Nhave been derailed.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:50.42,0:13:54.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We must as individuals disrupt\Ngender violence as it is happening.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:54.65,0:13:56.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,92 percent of young people,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:56.51,0:13:57.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,29 and under,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:57.51,0:13:58.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,witness it.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:58.95,0:14:01.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,72 percent of us have witnessed it.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:02.30,0:14:04.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We must have the courage and urgency
Dialogue: 0,0:14:04.19,0:14:07.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to practice stopping it\Nas it is unfolding.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:08.47,0:14:10.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And lastly,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:10.99,0:14:12.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,believe her.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:13.74,0:14:14.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Believe her.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:15.33,0:14:18.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:14:22.02,0:14:25.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is fundamentally a problem\Nof human interaction.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:26.86,0:14:31.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I believe that human interaction\Nis at the core of our healing.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:31.04,0:14:35.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Trauma not transformed\Nwill be trauma transferred.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:35.75,0:14:36.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Edith Wharton said,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:36.79,0:14:39.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"The end is latent in the beginning,"
Dialogue: 0,0:14:39.04,0:14:43.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so we are going to end this talk\Nreplacing hate speech with love speech.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:44.00,0:14:46.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because I get lonely in this,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:46.07,0:14:48.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I know that we are allies.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:48.94,0:14:50.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I recently learned
Dialogue: 0,0:14:50.63,0:14:54.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about how gratitude and affirmations\Noffset negative interactions.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:55.28,0:14:58.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It takes five of those to offset\None negative interaction,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:58.61,0:15:00.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and gratitude in particular --
Dialogue: 0,0:15:00.04,0:15:02.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,free, available globally\Nany time, anywhere,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:02.91,0:15:04.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to anyone in any dialect.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:05.07,0:15:08.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It fires the pregenual anterior cingulate,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:08.38,0:15:10.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a watershed part of the brain
Dialogue: 0,0:15:10.09,0:15:12.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that floods it with great, good stuff.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:12.82,0:15:15.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I'm going to say awesome\Nstuff about myself.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:15.43,0:15:17.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would like for you\Nto reflect it back to me.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:17.77,0:15:20.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It might sound something like this --
Dialogue: 0,0:15:20.14,0:15:21.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:15:21.35,0:15:23.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am a powerful and strong woman,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:23.56,0:15:25.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you would say, "Yes, you are."
Dialogue: 0,0:15:25.50,0:15:27.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Audience) Yes, you are.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:27.12,0:15:28.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My mama loves me.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:28.67,0:15:30.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Audience) Yes, she does.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:30.28,0:15:32.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I did a great job with my talk.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:32.47,0:15:33.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Audience) Yes, you did.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:33.92,0:15:36.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have a right to be here.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:37.06,0:15:38.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Audience) Yes, you do.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:38.93,0:15:40.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm really cute.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:40.06,0:15:41.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:15:41.26,0:15:42.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Audience) Yes, you are.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:42.99,0:15:44.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,God does good work.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:44.71,0:15:46.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Audience) Yes, he does.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:46.61,0:15:48.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I love you.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:48.40,0:15:49.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you so much
Dialogue: 0,0:15:49.44,0:15:51.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for letting me be of service.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:51.53,0:15:52.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bless you.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:52.53,0:15:54.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)