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Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.00,0:00:03.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[This talk contains graphic language\Nand descriptions of sexual violence]
Dialogue: 0,0:00:03.48,0:00:04.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Viewer discretion is advised]
Dialogue: 0,0:00:04.93,0:00:07.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ashley Judd, stupid fucking slut."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.72,0:00:12.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You can't sue someone\Nfor calling them a cunt."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.92,0:00:15.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"If you can't handle the Internet,\Nfuck off, whore."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.12,0:00:19.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I wish Ashley Judd\Nwould die a horrible death.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.72,0:00:22.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She is the absolute worst."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.12,0:00:25.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ashley Judd, you're the reason\Nwomen shouldn't vote."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.04,0:00:28.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"'Twisted' is such a bad movie,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.60,0:00:30.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't even want to rape it."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.52,0:00:33.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Whatever you do,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:33.76,0:00:36.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't tell Ashley Judd.\NShe'll die alone with a dried out vagina."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.56,0:00:40.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"If I had to fuck an older woman,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:40.96,0:00:42.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,oh my God,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.24,0:00:44.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would fuck the shit out of Ashley Judd,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.44,0:00:47.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that bitch is hot af.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.72,0:00:50.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The unforgivable shit I would do to her."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.48,0:00:58.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Online misogyny is a global\Ngender rights tragedy,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:59.16,0:01:02.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it is imperative that it ends.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:02.08,0:01:05.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.68,0:01:12.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Girls' and women's voices,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.44,0:01:16.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and our allies' voices\Nare constrained in ways
Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.28,0:01:18.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that are personally, economically,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.32,0:01:20.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,professionally and politically damaging.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.96,0:01:22.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when we curb abuse,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.64,0:01:25.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we will expand freedom.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.32,0:01:29.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am a Kentucky basketball fan,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.04,0:01:31.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so on a fine March day last year,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.12,0:01:33.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was doing one of the things I do best:
Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.72,0:01:35.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was cheering for my Wildcats.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.68,0:01:37.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The daffodils were blooming,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:37.08,0:01:40.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the referees were not blowing\Nthe whistle when I was telling them to.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.56,0:01:41.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.84,0:01:44.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Funny, they're very friendly\Nto me before the opening tip,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.60,0:01:46.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they really ignore me during the game.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.68,0:01:47.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.72,0:01:51.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Three of my players were bleeding,\Nso I did the next best thing ...
Dialogue: 0,0:01:51.20,0:01:52.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I tweeted.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.44,0:01:55.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[@ArkRazorback dirty play can kiss\Nmy team's free throw making a --
Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.64,0:01:58.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,@KySportsRadio @marchmadness\N@espn Bloodied 3 players so far.]
Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.60,0:02:02.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is routine for me to be treated\Nin the ways I've already described to you.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:02.28,0:02:03.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It happens to me every single day
Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.92,0:02:06.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on social media platforms\Nsuch as Twitter and Facebook.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.56,0:02:08.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Since I joined Twitter in 2011,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.96,0:02:12.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,misogyny and misogynists\Nhave amply demonstrated
Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.00,0:02:14.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they will dog my every step.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.00,0:02:17.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My spirituality, my faith,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.40,0:02:19.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,being a hillbilly --\NI can say that, you can't --
Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.71,0:02:21.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all of it is fair game.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.92,0:02:26.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I have responded to this\Nwith various strategies.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.08,0:02:27.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've tried engaging people.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.44,0:02:32.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This one guy was sending me\Nhypersexual, nasty stuff,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.08,0:02:34.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and there was a girl in his avatar.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.76,0:02:36.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wrote him back and said ...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.72,0:02:39.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Is that your daughter?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:40.00,0:02:42.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I feel a lot of fear\Nthat you may think about
Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.24,0:02:43.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and talk to women this way."
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.92,0:02:45.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he surprised me by saying,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.40,0:02:47.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You know what?\NYou're right. I apologize."
Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.84,0:02:50.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sometimes people\Nwant to be held accountable.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.36,0:02:54.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This one guy was musing\Nto I don't know who
Dialogue: 0,0:02:54.08,0:02:56.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that maybe I was the definition of a cunt.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.96,0:02:58.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was married to a Scot for 14 years,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.80,0:03:02.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so I said, "Cunt means many\Ndifferent things in different countries --
Dialogue: 0,0:03:02.40,0:03:03.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.64,0:03:06.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I'm pretty sure you epitomize\Nthe global standard of a dick."
Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.76,0:03:07.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:03:08.00,0:03:10.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.52,0:03:15.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've tried to rise above it,\NI've tried to get in the trenches,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.52,0:03:18.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but mostly I would scroll through\Nthese social media platforms
Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.48,0:03:21.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with one eye partially closed,\Ntrying not to see it,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.12,0:03:23.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but you can't make\Na cucumber out of a pickle.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.28,0:03:25.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What is seen goes in.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:25.76,0:03:26.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's traumatic.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.40,0:03:30.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I was always secretly hoping\Nin some part of me
Dialogue: 0,0:03:30.12,0:03:32.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that what was being said to me\Nand about me wasn't ...
Dialogue: 0,0:03:34.24,0:03:35.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,true.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.04,0:03:39.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because even I,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:39.16,0:03:42.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an avowed, self-declared feminist,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.24,0:03:45.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who worships at the altar of Gloria --
Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.00,0:03:47.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.44,0:03:50.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,internalize the patriarchy.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.00,0:03:52.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is really critical.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:52.56,0:03:55.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Patriarchy is not boys and men.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.36,0:03:58.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is a system\Nin which we all participate,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:58.12,0:03:59.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,including me.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.48,0:04:04.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,On that particular day, for some reason,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.44,0:04:06.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that particular tweet\Nafter the basketball game
Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.00,0:04:09.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,triggered something called a "cyber mob."
Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.60,0:04:15.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This vitriolic, global outpouring\Nof the most heinous hate speech:
Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.64,0:04:17.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,death threats, rape threats.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.60,0:04:18.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And don't you know,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.84,0:04:21.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when I was sitting at home\Nalone in my nightgown,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.20,0:04:23.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I got a phone call,\Nand it was my beloved former husband,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:23.92,0:04:25.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he said on a voice mail,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:25.28,0:04:26.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Loved one ...
Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.80,0:04:30.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what is happening to you is not OK."
Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.12,0:04:36.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And there was something about him\Ntaking a stand for me that night ...
Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.64,0:04:40.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that allowed me\Nto take a stand for myself.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.72,0:04:41.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I started to write.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:42.64,0:04:45.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I started to write about sharing the fact
Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.40,0:04:47.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I'm a survivor\Nof all forms of sexual abuse,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:47.76,0:04:49.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,including three rapes.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:49.20,0:04:51.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the hate speech\NI get in response to that --
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.48,0:04:54.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,these are just some of the comments\Nposted to news outlets.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.92,0:04:58.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Being told I'm a "snitch" is really fun.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.00,0:05:03.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Jay: She enjoyed every second of it!!!!!]
Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.08,0:05:04.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Audience: Oh, Lord Jesus.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.32,0:05:08.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ashley Judd: Thank you, Jesus.\NMay your grace and mercy shine.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:08.16,0:05:10.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I wrote this feminist op-ed,\Nit is entitled,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.48,0:05:14.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Forget Your Team:
Dialogue: 0,0:05:14.28,0:05:17.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It Is Your Online Gender Violence\NToward Girls And Women
Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.12,0:05:19.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That Can Kiss My Righteous Ass."
Dialogue: 0,0:05:19.64,0:05:21.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.20,0:05:23.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.46,0:05:26.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I did that alone,\Nand I published it alone,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:26.68,0:05:28.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because my chief advisor said,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:28.16,0:05:29.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Please don't,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.40,0:05:32.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the rain of retaliatory garbage\Nthat is inevitable --
Dialogue: 0,0:05:32.20,0:05:33.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I fear for you."
Dialogue: 0,0:05:33.64,0:05:35.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I trust girls and I trust women,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.76,0:05:37.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I trust our allies.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:37.36,0:05:39.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was published, it went viral,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:39.04,0:05:41.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it proves that every single day
Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.16,0:05:44.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,online misogyny is a phenomenon\Nendured by us all,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:44.68,0:05:45.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all over the world,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:45.92,0:05:47.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and when it is intersectional,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:47.68,0:05:48.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is worse.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:48.92,0:05:50.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sexual orientation, gender identity,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:50.88,0:05:52.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,race, ethnicity, religion --
Dialogue: 0,0:05:52.72,0:05:53.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you name it,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:53.96,0:05:56.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it amplifies the violence\Nendured by girls and women,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:56.52,0:05:58.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and for our younger girls, it is worse.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:01.08,0:06:02.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's clearly traumatizing.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:02.84,0:06:06.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our mental health,\Nour emotional well-being
Dialogue: 0,0:06:06.04,0:06:07.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are so gravely affected
Dialogue: 0,0:06:07.52,0:06:08.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because the threat of violence
Dialogue: 0,0:06:09.00,0:06:13.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is experienced\Nneurobiologically as violence.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:13.24,0:06:16.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The cortisol shoots up,\Nthe limbic system gets fired,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.32,0:06:18.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we lose productivity at work.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.92,0:06:21.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And let's talk about work.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:21.68,0:06:24.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our ability to work is constrained.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:25.20,0:06:29.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Online searches of women applying for jobs\Nreveal nude pictures of them,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:29.92,0:06:32.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,false allegations they have STDs,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:32.76,0:06:37.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their addresses indicating\Nthat they are available for sex
Dialogue: 0,0:06:38.00,0:06:39.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with real examples
Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.56,0:06:43.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of people showing up\Nat this house for said sex.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.08,0:06:48.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our ability to go to school is impaired.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:49.12,0:06:51.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,96 percent of all postings
Dialogue: 0,0:06:51.56,0:06:54.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of sexual images of our young people ...
Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.56,0:06:57.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,girls.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:57.04,0:06:58.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our girls.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:58.68,0:07:02.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our boys are two to three\Ntimes more likely --
Dialogue: 0,0:07:02.56,0:07:03.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nonconsensually --
Dialogue: 0,0:07:04.56,0:07:06.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to share images.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:07.60,0:07:09.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I want to say a word\Nabout revenge porn.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:10.40,0:07:12.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Part of what came out of this tweet
Dialogue: 0,0:07:12.68,0:07:15.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was my getting connected\Nwith allies and other activists
Dialogue: 0,0:07:15.52,0:07:18.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who are fighting\Nfor a safe and free internet.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:18.88,0:07:21.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We started something\Ncalled the Speech Project;
Dialogue: 0,0:07:21.44,0:07:23.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,curbing abuse, expanding freedom.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:23.96,0:07:26.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that website\Nprovides a critical forum,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:27.28,0:07:31.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because there is no global, legal thing
Dialogue: 0,0:07:31.84,0:07:33.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to help us figure this out.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:33.36,0:07:36.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But we do provide on that website\Na standardized list of definitions,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:37.00,0:07:40.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because it's hard to attack\Na behavior in the right way
Dialogue: 0,0:07:40.12,0:07:43.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if we're not all sharing\Na definition of what that behavior is.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:43.56,0:07:48.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I learned that revenge porn\Nis often dangerously misapplied.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:48.36,0:07:51.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is the nonconsensual\Nsharing of an image
Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.68,0:07:56.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,used tactically to shame\Nand humiliate a girl or woman
Dialogue: 0,0:07:56.16,0:07:58.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that attempts to pornography us.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:58.80,0:08:02.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our natural sexuality is --
Dialogue: 0,0:08:02.68,0:08:05.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't know about yours --\Npretty gorgeous and wonderful.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.08,0:08:09.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And my expressing it\Ndoes not pornography make.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.36,0:08:12.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:08:16.24,0:08:17.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I have all these resources
Dialogue: 0,0:08:17.72,0:08:21.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I'm keenly aware\Nso many people in the world do not.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:21.68,0:08:24.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was able to start\Nthe Speech Project with colleagues.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:25.32,0:08:27.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can often get a social media\Ncompany's attention.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.84,0:08:30.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have a wonderful visit\Nto Facebook HQ coming up.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:33.72,0:08:36.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hasn't helped the idiotic\Nreporting standards yet ...
Dialogue: 0,0:08:38.88,0:08:44.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I actually pay someone\Nto scrub my social media feeds,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:44.80,0:08:46.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,attempting to spare my brain
Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.96,0:08:51.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the daily iterations\Nof the trauma of hate speech.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:51.20,0:08:52.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And guess what?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:52.44,0:08:53.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I get hate speech for that.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:53.84,0:08:55.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Oh, you live in an echo chamber."
Dialogue: 0,0:08:55.48,0:08:56.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, guess what?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:56.76,0:08:59.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Having someone post a photograph\Nof me with my mouth open
Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.48,0:09:01.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,saying they "can't wait\Nto cum on my face,"
Dialogue: 0,0:09:01.56,0:09:03.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have a right to set that boundary.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:03.84,0:09:05.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:09:09.64,0:09:12.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this distinction\Nbetween virtual and real is specious
Dialogue: 0,0:09:12.76,0:09:13.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because guess what --
Dialogue: 0,0:09:14.00,0:09:16.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that actually happened to me\Nonce when I was a child,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:16.52,0:09:19.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and so that tweet brought up that trauma,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:19.12,0:09:20.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I had to do work on that.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:20.92,0:09:24.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But you know what we do?\NWe take all of this hate speech,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:24.12,0:09:26.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we disaggregate it,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:26.84,0:09:28.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we code it,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:28.24,0:09:30.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we give that data
Dialogue: 0,0:09:30.12,0:09:32.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that we understand\Nthe intersectionality of it:
Dialogue: 0,0:09:32.84,0:09:34.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when I get porn,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:34.12,0:09:35.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when it's about political affiliation,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:36.00,0:09:38.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when it's about age,\Nwhen it's about all of it.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:39.04,0:09:40.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're going to win this fight.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:42.76,0:09:44.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are a lot of solutions --
Dialogue: 0,0:09:45.72,0:09:46.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thank goodness.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:47.36,0:09:49.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going to offer just a few,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:49.52,0:09:54.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and of course I challenge you\Nto create and contribute your own.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.36,0:09:58.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Number one: we have to start\Nwith digital media literacy,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:58.64,0:10:02.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and clearly it must have a gendered lens.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:02.20,0:10:04.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kids, schools, caregivers, parents:
Dialogue: 0,0:10:04.72,0:10:05.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's essential.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:06.40,0:10:07.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Two ...
Dialogue: 0,0:10:08.64,0:10:10.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,shall we talk about our friends in tech?
Dialogue: 0,0:10:11.64,0:10:13.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Said with dignity and respect,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:14.28,0:10:19.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the sexism in your workplaces must end.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.28,0:10:21.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:10:21.76,0:10:22.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Cheers)
Dialogue: 0,0:10:23.76,0:10:24.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,EDGE,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.00,0:10:27.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the global standard for gender equality,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:27.88,0:10:29.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is the minimum standard.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:29.44,0:10:31.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And guess what, Silicon Valley?
Dialogue: 0,0:10:31.68,0:10:33.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If L'Oréal in India,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:33.68,0:10:35.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the Philippines, in Brazil
Dialogue: 0,0:10:35.88,0:10:37.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and in Russia can do it,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:37.80,0:10:39.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can, too.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:40.52,0:10:42.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Enough excuses.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:43.20,0:10:46.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Only when women have critical mass\Nin every department at your companies,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.00,0:10:49.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,including building platforms\Nfrom the ground up,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:49.84,0:10:54.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,will the conversations\Nabout priorities and solutions change.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:54.20,0:10:56.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And more love for my friends in tech:
Dialogue: 0,0:10:56.28,0:11:00.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,profiteering off misogyny\Nin video games must end.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:00.80,0:11:04.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm so tired of hearing you\Ntalk to me at cocktail parties --
Dialogue: 0,0:11:04.28,0:11:06.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like you did a couple\Nweeks ago in Aspen --
Dialogue: 0,0:11:06.64,0:11:09.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about how deplorable #Gamergate was,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:09.60,0:11:12.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you're still making\Nbillions of dollars off games
Dialogue: 0,0:11:12.24,0:11:15.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that maim and dump women for sport.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:15.48,0:11:18.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Basta! -- as the Italians would say.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.04,0:11:19.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Enough.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:19.32,0:11:22.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:11:23.24,0:11:26.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our friends in law enforcement\Nhave much to do,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:26.76,0:11:28.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because we've seen
Dialogue: 0,0:11:28.40,0:11:32.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that online violence\Nis an extension of in-person violence.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:34.24,0:11:35.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In our country,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:36.00,0:11:40.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,more girls and women have been\Nmurdered by their intimate partners
Dialogue: 0,0:11:40.80,0:11:42.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than died on 9/11
Dialogue: 0,0:11:42.60,0:11:47.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and have died since\Nin Afghanistan and Iraq combined.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:47.24,0:11:49.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it's not cool to say that,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:49.36,0:11:50.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it is true.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:51.36,0:11:55.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We care so much geopolitically\Nabout what men are doing over there
Dialogue: 0,0:11:55.28,0:11:56.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to women over there ...
Dialogue: 0,0:11:57.48,0:11:58.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In 2015,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:59.84,0:12:06.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,72,828 women used intimate\Npartner violence services in this country.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:06.12,0:12:09.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is not counting the girls\Nand women and boys who needed them.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:11.16,0:12:13.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Law enforcement must be empowered
Dialogue: 0,0:12:14.28,0:12:16.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with up-to-date internet technology,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:16.52,0:12:19.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the devices and an understanding\Nof these platforms --
Dialogue: 0,0:12:19.76,0:12:20.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how they work.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:21.48,0:12:24.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The police wanted to be helpful\Nwhen Amanda Hess called
Dialogue: 0,0:12:24.24,0:12:26.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about the death threat\Nshe was getting on Twitter,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:26.80,0:12:28.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they couldn't really when they said,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:28.96,0:12:30.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What's Twitter?"
Dialogue: 0,0:12:32.64,0:12:36.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our legislators must write\Nand pass astute legislation
Dialogue: 0,0:12:36.56,0:12:38.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that reflects today's technology
Dialogue: 0,0:12:38.48,0:12:41.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and our notions of free and hate speech.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:42.28,0:12:46.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In New York recently, the law\Ncould not be applied to a perpetrator
Dialogue: 0,0:12:46.84,0:12:49.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because the crimes\Nmust have been committed --
Dialogue: 0,0:12:49.04,0:12:50.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even if it was anonymous --
Dialogue: 0,0:12:50.40,0:12:54.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they must have been committed\Nby telephone, in mail,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:54.88,0:12:56.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by telegraph --
Dialogue: 0,0:12:56.32,0:12:57.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:13:01.00,0:13:03.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The language must be\Ntechnologically neutral.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:05.36,0:13:07.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So apparently,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:07.20,0:13:09.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've got a pretty bold voice.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:09.52,0:13:11.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, let's talk about our friends ...
Dialogue: 0,0:13:12.08,0:13:13.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,white men.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:15.16,0:13:17.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have a role to play\Nand a choice to make.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:18.64,0:13:20.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can do something,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:20.80,0:13:22.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or you can do nothing.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:24.28,0:13:25.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're cool in this room,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:25.56,0:13:27.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but when this goes out, everyone will say,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:27.58,0:13:29.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Oh my God, she's a reverse racist."
Dialogue: 0,0:13:30.52,0:13:34.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That quote was said\Nby a white man, Robert Moritz,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:34.12,0:13:36.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,chairperson, PricewaterhouseCoopers,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:36.56,0:13:38.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he asked me to include it in my talk.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:40.96,0:13:43.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We need to grow support lines\Nand help groups,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:44.48,0:13:46.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so victims can help each other
Dialogue: 0,0:13:47.24,0:13:50.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when their lives and finances\Nhave been derailed.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:50.08,0:13:54.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We must as individuals disrupt\Ngender violence as it is happening.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:54.48,0:13:56.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,92 percent of young people
Dialogue: 0,0:13:56.28,0:13:58.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,29 and under witness it.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:58.72,0:14:01.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,72 percent of us have witnessed it.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:02.08,0:14:03.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We must have the courage and urgency
Dialogue: 0,0:14:03.84,0:14:06.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to practice stopping it\Nas it is unfolding.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:08.24,0:14:09.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And lastly,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:10.72,0:14:11.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,believe her.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:13.60,0:14:14.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Believe her.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:14.84,0:14:17.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:14:21.72,0:14:25.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is fundamentally\Na problem of human interaction.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:26.56,0:14:30.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And as I believe that human interaction\Nis at the core of our healing,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:30.72,0:14:34.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,trauma not transformed\Nwill be trauma transferred.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:35.60,0:14:38.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Edith Wharton said,\N"The end is latent in the beginning,"
Dialogue: 0,0:14:38.72,0:14:43.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so we are going to end this talk\Nreplacing hate speech with love speech.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:43.72,0:14:45.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because I get lonely in this,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:45.68,0:14:47.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I know that we are allies.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:48.64,0:14:50.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I recently learned
Dialogue: 0,0:14:50.32,0:14:54.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about how gratitude and affirmations\Noffset negative interactions.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:54.96,0:14:58.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It takes five of those\Nto offset one negative interaction,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:58.44,0:14:59.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and gratitude in particular --
Dialogue: 0,0:14:59.92,0:15:02.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,free, available globally\Nany time, anywhere,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:02.64,0:15:04.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to anyone in any dialect --
Dialogue: 0,0:15:04.76,0:15:07.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it fires the pregenual anterior cingulate,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:08.00,0:15:09.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a watershed part of the brain
Dialogue: 0,0:15:09.84,0:15:12.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that floods it with great, good stuff.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:12.48,0:15:15.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I'm going to say\Nawesome stuff about myself.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:15.12,0:15:17.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would like for you\Nto reflect it back to me.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:17.48,0:15:19.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It might sound something like this --
Dialogue: 0,0:15:19.64,0:15:21.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:15:21.12,0:15:25.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am a powerful and strong woman,\Nand you would say, "Yes, you are."
Dialogue: 0,0:15:25.16,0:15:26.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Audience: Yes, you are.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:26.84,0:15:28.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ashley Judd: My mama loves me.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:28.60,0:15:30.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A: Yes, she does.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:30.04,0:15:32.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,AJ: I did a great job with my talk.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:32.12,0:15:33.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A: Yes, you did.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:33.76,0:15:36.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,AJ: I have a right to be here.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:36.92,0:15:38.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A: Yes, you do.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:38.72,0:15:39.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,AJ: I'm really cute.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:39.96,0:15:41.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:15:41.24,0:15:42.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A: Yes, you are.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:42.72,0:15:44.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,AJ: God does good work.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:44.48,0:15:46.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A: Yes, He does.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:46.28,0:15:48.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,AJ: And I love you.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:48.04,0:15:50.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you so much\Nfor letting me be of service.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:51.32,0:15:52.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bless you.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:52.56,0:15:57.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)