1 00:00:00,001 --> 00:00:04,269 My first intention this morning is that I would like to be 2 00:00:06,434 --> 00:00:09,266 fearless in speaking the truth. 3 00:00:10,250 --> 00:00:16,358 I was with our teacher when he spoke at the World Bank in 2013. 4 00:00:16,863 --> 00:00:20,359 In that giant atrium that many of you know in Washington, D.C. 5 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:24,817 Our teacher was so fearless in speaking the truth. 6 00:00:26,042 --> 00:00:28,278 If I could have one percent of that this morning, 7 00:00:28,375 --> 00:00:29,873 I would be very happy. 8 00:00:29,926 --> 00:00:33,574 So I will do my best to be fearless in speaking the truth. 9 00:00:33,625 --> 00:00:37,529 I will also do my best to speak from a place of love and care. 10 00:00:40,676 --> 00:00:42,613 As Christiana was saying earlier: 11 00:00:42,738 --> 00:00:45,265 I think some of the issues of our time 12 00:00:45,292 --> 00:00:49,936 bring up an energy of anger and injustice. 13 00:00:50,435 --> 00:00:52,035 And we're all human. 14 00:00:52,084 --> 00:00:53,764 I think I feel that, too. 15 00:00:54,876 --> 00:00:57,347 And I think ... 16 00:01:02,014 --> 00:01:05,021 Part of the deep work that each of us need to do 17 00:01:05,250 --> 00:01:08,322 and that's my work this morning as I speak to you, 18 00:01:08,408 --> 00:01:13,209 is to have my love at least as strong as my anger and my sense of injustice. 19 00:01:15,666 --> 00:01:18,199 So I hope my siblings will support me. 20 00:01:18,351 --> 00:01:21,026 There's a bell master, Brother [name]. 21 00:01:21,375 --> 00:01:23,078 If I get a little too passionate, 22 00:01:23,150 --> 00:01:27,067 I'm sure he will help me with a wake-up sound of the bell 23 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:33,983 to remind me to keep my heart really open as I share today. 24 00:01:35,513 --> 00:01:37,674 I also want to share with joy 25 00:01:38,833 --> 00:01:39,833 sometimes ... 26 00:01:41,500 --> 00:01:46,212 our spiritual practise can seem like a really serious endeavour. 27 00:01:46,474 --> 00:01:50,251 But for me, to understand myself and the world, 28 00:01:50,399 --> 00:01:52,734 to cultivate insight, 29 00:01:53,542 --> 00:01:56,678 to start to see what Right Action could look like, 30 00:01:57,358 --> 00:01:58,837 what a source of joy! 31 00:01:58,919 --> 00:02:00,664 That is a wonderful thing to be doing 32 00:02:00,732 --> 00:02:03,248 and a great use of our time and energy. 33 00:02:03,398 --> 00:02:06,668 So. Even though ethics is a really tough topic, 34 00:02:06,992 --> 00:02:09,209 I hope to bring joy to it this morning. 35 00:02:11,750 --> 00:02:15,654 And finally, I also deeply aspire in this talk to kind of ... 36 00:02:19,006 --> 00:02:21,662 get out of the way myself, to step aside, 37 00:02:21,885 --> 00:02:23,565 and let the dharma speak. 38 00:02:24,500 --> 00:02:27,846 In Buddhism, when we speak about non-self, 39 00:02:28,291 --> 00:02:30,224 it's really a lived practise. 40 00:02:30,375 --> 00:02:33,737 I don't think that I'm a separate self saying these things. 41 00:02:34,289 --> 00:02:37,734 Any sense of me and mine I want to put to the side 42 00:02:38,009 --> 00:02:41,760 so I can just simply share some of the wisdom 43 00:02:41,959 --> 00:02:48,439 of 2500 years that I happen to have been learning 44 00:02:48,916 --> 00:02:52,275 and continue to learn in this community. 45 00:02:54,021 --> 00:02:56,566 So this is also not really my talk. 46 00:02:56,824 --> 00:02:58,501 It's a collective talk. 47 00:03:00,166 --> 00:03:04,483 So, with that spirit, we can listen to three sounds of the bell. 48 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:07,259 Sometimes we're being a bit efficient. 49 00:03:07,378 --> 00:03:08,764 We're just having one. 50 00:03:09,209 --> 00:03:13,817 But this morning it would be beautiful to enjoy three sounds of the bell 51 00:03:14,795 --> 00:03:19,692 and listening to the bell truly as a practise of systems change 52 00:03:20,419 --> 00:03:24,400 can we find our freedom in the sound of the bell, 53 00:03:24,675 --> 00:03:30,502 can we touch what is most sacred and precious in life. 54 00:03:41,907 --> 00:03:48,529 [sound of the bell] 55 00:04:16,029 --> 00:04:23,441 [sound of the bell] 56 00:04:55,292 --> 00:05:02,812 [sound of the bell] 57 00:05:31,153 --> 00:05:33,339 Thank you, everybody. 58 00:05:34,565 --> 00:05:39,256 There is actually a bodhisattva of crying in the Buddhist tradition. 59 00:05:39,666 --> 00:05:42,859 I was wondering where my tears are coming from. 60 00:05:43,249 --> 00:05:47,733 I realised it was the tears of the earth and then they flowed even stronger. 61 00:05:50,261 --> 00:05:51,261 Okay. 62 00:05:55,792 --> 00:05:58,609 In our dharma sharing yesterday, 63 00:05:58,666 --> 00:06:03,458 someone gave rise to an intention to be a good ancestor. 64 00:06:03,917 --> 00:06:08,817 We had asked our group: What's the most important thing for you? 65 00:06:09,414 --> 00:06:12,208 What is most important in your life? 66 00:06:12,413 --> 00:06:17,150 What do you want to commit your time and energy to? 67 00:06:18,098 --> 00:06:19,098 Thank you. 68 00:06:19,583 --> 00:06:23,531 For every bodhisattva that cries there is a bodhisattva with tissues. 69 00:06:23,635 --> 00:06:24,635 [laughter] 70 00:06:31,256 --> 00:06:35,734 What would it mean to be a good ancestor? 71 00:06:38,541 --> 00:06:42,863 And what would it mean to be a good descendant 72 00:06:43,029 --> 00:06:45,275 of those who have come before us? 73 00:06:46,736 --> 00:06:49,136 We stand on the shoulders of giants. 74 00:06:54,569 --> 00:06:56,583 Those that came before us in the recent past, 75 00:06:57,667 --> 00:07:00,775 but also those that came before us a long, long time ago. 76 00:07:03,155 --> 00:07:06,441 The wise ones. The wiser ones, maybe. 77 00:07:09,917 --> 00:07:12,050 Someone also asked in our group: 78 00:07:12,158 --> 00:07:15,091 What's the Buddhist understanding of time? 79 00:07:18,750 --> 00:07:22,274 And for us, as we've picked up, 80 00:07:22,500 --> 00:07:28,714 we say that the present moment contains the past. 81 00:07:29,512 --> 00:07:31,468 And it contains the future. 82 00:07:36,100 --> 00:07:39,487 My tears are the tears of the past and the tears of the future. 83 00:07:42,250 --> 00:07:45,921 Our actions now ... 84 00:07:47,068 --> 00:07:51,405 already contain all of the past conditioning in them. 85 00:07:55,932 --> 00:07:58,773 The way we walk as though we're in a hurry. 86 00:08:01,617 --> 00:08:04,040 They say our sense of urgency and time 87 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:07,262 came with the invention of the clock in the industrial revolution. 88 00:08:08,796 --> 00:08:11,730 Our speed of walking carries history within it. 89 00:08:15,250 --> 00:08:17,662 And when we can take a step in freedom now, 90 00:08:18,624 --> 00:08:22,625 we're transforming the rushing and running and striving 91 00:08:23,084 --> 00:08:24,444 of our ancestors. 92 00:08:25,500 --> 00:08:27,608 And we're making it a little bit more possible 93 00:08:27,795 --> 00:08:34,250 that future generations will also be able to walk in peace and freedom. 94 00:08:36,541 --> 00:08:42,317 When we imagine the kind of society all of us are working to make possible 95 00:08:42,617 --> 00:08:46,358 for the future: A just society, a more equitable society, 96 00:08:49,389 --> 00:08:51,410 an inclusive society, 97 00:08:51,652 --> 00:08:55,068 whether we're contributing to that as a monastic 98 00:08:55,584 --> 00:08:57,517 or as someone with the B team 99 00:08:57,891 --> 00:09:00,375 or someone with Global Optimism 100 00:09:01,064 --> 00:09:02,591 or Project Everyone. 101 00:09:02,784 --> 00:09:05,558 All the organisations represented here. 102 00:09:07,393 --> 00:09:10,246 We have in mind a kind of society 103 00:09:10,275 --> 00:09:12,071 and those future generations 104 00:09:12,667 --> 00:09:15,995 that we want to make possible with our actions today. 105 00:09:16,500 --> 00:09:19,400 We want to believe such a future is possible. 106 00:09:22,917 --> 00:09:24,843 In Buddhism, 107 00:09:25,331 --> 00:09:27,864 we believe that in the present moment, 108 00:09:27,963 --> 00:09:31,583 we have immense energy and agency, 109 00:09:31,608 --> 00:09:33,702 immense kind of capacity, 110 00:09:34,542 --> 00:09:37,331 to create the preconditions for that future. 111 00:09:37,387 --> 00:09:41,025 and in a way to create that future with this present. 112 00:09:53,694 --> 00:09:55,692 What is it that we think that we do 113 00:09:57,417 --> 00:09:59,559 when we're being alive? 114 00:10:00,255 --> 00:10:02,149 What is it we're talking about 115 00:10:02,260 --> 00:10:06,311 when we talk about life and how we're spending our life? 116 00:10:10,018 --> 00:10:13,917 In some of the settings in which some of us might find ourselves 117 00:10:14,083 --> 00:10:15,443 most of the time, 118 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:19,706 life might be about productivity 119 00:10:20,792 --> 00:10:23,705 or profit, or innovation, 120 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:25,617 or agility. 121 00:10:26,677 --> 00:10:30,109 KPIs? Apparently it's a thing. 122 00:10:34,375 --> 00:10:37,095 In Buddhism, we naturally have a different sense 123 00:10:37,167 --> 00:10:40,067 of what we're doing with our time and energy. 124 00:10:47,069 --> 00:10:48,680 [KARMA] 125 00:10:49,061 --> 00:10:51,595 We speak about something called karma. 126 00:10:55,470 --> 00:10:59,143 I know some of you think something when you see that word. 127 00:10:59,296 --> 00:11:04,751 But actually, it's a technical term that simply means 'action'. 128 00:11:04,856 --> 00:11:07,176 The energy of action. 129 00:11:07,361 --> 00:11:11,733 All of us are producing karma in every moment. 130 00:11:13,107 --> 00:11:15,414 And we speak about triple action. 131 00:11:21,408 --> 00:11:23,528 Our way of thinking. 132 00:11:23,671 --> 00:11:25,531 [THINKING] 133 00:11:26,660 --> 00:11:28,802 Our way of speaking. 134 00:11:29,291 --> 00:11:30,633 [SPEAKING] 135 00:11:31,452 --> 00:11:33,475 And our way of acting. 136 00:11:33,633 --> 00:11:35,347 [ACTING] 137 00:11:38,950 --> 00:11:41,698 Our thoughts go out into the world 138 00:11:42,789 --> 00:11:46,642 and kind of ripple out and continue us. 139 00:11:48,422 --> 00:11:50,816 The reason we say that thinking is important 140 00:11:51,625 --> 00:11:55,017 is because we are cultivating those seeds in our mind, 141 00:11:55,212 --> 00:11:58,150 our thinking, all the time. 142 00:11:58,433 --> 00:12:00,898 I think many of you in this room are the kind of people, 143 00:12:01,097 --> 00:12:04,734 if you have a good idea, it's a very quick channel 144 00:12:04,956 --> 00:12:07,089 to then say it and implement it. 145 00:12:08,890 --> 00:12:12,584 Our ideas are really important. Our ideas, our values, 146 00:12:12,791 --> 00:12:14,609 our way of seeing the world. 147 00:12:15,250 --> 00:12:18,488 It gives rise to what we say and to action. 148 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:22,557 We really do call thinking a kind of action. 149 00:12:26,248 --> 00:12:30,290 Our teacher used to like quoting Jean Paul Sartre. 150 00:12:31,129 --> 00:12:34,704 L'homme est la somme de ses actes. 151 00:12:35,315 --> 00:12:38,427 Man is the sum of his actions. 152 00:12:40,735 --> 00:12:45,373 Each one of us, the imprint we leave on the world, 153 00:12:45,653 --> 00:12:51,946 is primarily, exclusively 154 00:12:52,042 --> 00:12:59,357 the legacy of our thinking, speaking, and acting. 155 00:13:00,339 --> 00:13:01,940 Our way of being. 156 00:13:14,452 --> 00:13:16,367 In our professional life, 157 00:13:16,375 --> 00:13:18,222 we might end up focusing so much on acting, 158 00:13:19,496 --> 00:13:24,195 and it can be a really interesting exercise to ask ourselves: 159 00:13:24,368 --> 00:13:29,674 What do I think my professional legacy is going to be? 160 00:13:32,264 --> 00:13:35,042 And is that what's on our gravestone? 161 00:13:43,592 --> 00:13:45,801 I was contemplating this 162 00:13:47,580 --> 00:13:49,834 when I first became practising in Plum Village. 163 00:13:50,103 --> 00:13:53,117 At that time, I was working in the BBC newsroom 164 00:13:53,369 --> 00:13:55,815 in political news, of all things. 165 00:13:57,577 --> 00:14:01,668 And I had heard this line: 166 00:14:04,204 --> 00:14:06,524 I'm definitely going to get sick 167 00:14:06,712 --> 00:14:08,263 I cannot escape sickness, 168 00:14:08,341 --> 00:14:11,248 I'm definitely going to get old, I cannot escape old age, 169 00:14:11,288 --> 00:14:14,232 I'm definitely gonna die, I can't escape death. 170 00:14:15,105 --> 00:14:20,472 I'm certainly going to be separated from all and everyone I love. 171 00:14:23,313 --> 00:14:27,075 And the fifth point: Only my actions 172 00:14:28,321 --> 00:14:31,905 of body, speech and mind are the ground on which I stand. 173 00:14:32,716 --> 00:14:34,176 My actions. 174 00:14:35,256 --> 00:14:38,123 I was working in the newsroom and I thought: Gosh. 175 00:14:44,990 --> 00:14:47,523 I thought: If I continue working here, 176 00:14:49,375 --> 00:14:52,065 how will my life be summed up? 177 00:14:52,319 --> 00:14:53,919 Suddenly I realised, 178 00:14:53,929 --> 00:15:03,188 maybe my gravestone would just say my name and something like: BBC Editor. 179 00:15:06,082 --> 00:15:08,349 It was an interesting realisation. 180 00:15:08,580 --> 00:15:11,567 Because if any of you have ever worked with the BBC, 181 00:15:11,679 --> 00:15:14,178 "Editor" is a big thing. 182 00:15:14,488 --> 00:15:18,275 It's kind of the holy grail for everyone working there. 183 00:15:22,042 --> 00:15:25,370 And I wanted my life to be about much more than that. 184 00:15:25,474 --> 00:15:29,634 I realised that when we think about our professional achievements, 185 00:15:29,659 --> 00:15:32,555 it can be so disillusioning. 186 00:15:37,263 --> 00:15:42,474 Maybe the realm of our action is not exactly what we think it is. 187 00:15:42,900 --> 00:15:44,991 We often speak about impact. 188 00:15:45,125 --> 00:15:46,805 I want to have impact. 189 00:15:47,792 --> 00:15:51,466 [name]'s favourite phrase is "scale & speed". Speed and scale. 190 00:15:51,625 --> 00:15:53,305 Speed. Scale. Impact. 191 00:15:57,667 --> 00:16:00,467 How is that going to be on your gravestone? 192 00:16:01,958 --> 00:16:06,192 This policy document. This report. Getting this funding. 193 00:16:08,501 --> 00:16:13,930 In Buddhism we really say that our continuation 194 00:16:13,974 --> 00:16:20,007 and kind of our impact is so much deeper than the ends of what we achieve. 195 00:16:20,189 --> 00:16:22,722 It's also the How of How we get there. 196 00:16:22,747 --> 00:16:23,875 The means. 197 00:16:26,776 --> 00:16:31,611 If we could describe our way of being like a candle, 198 00:16:37,875 --> 00:16:47,482 and our thinking and speaking and acting is radiating out in the world. 199 00:16:50,708 --> 00:16:53,041 The quality of our ... 200 00:17:13,878 --> 00:17:14,998 Loving action. 201 00:17:19,417 --> 00:17:23,658 How we think, speak and act is also ... 202 00:17:23,753 --> 00:17:26,626 If you think of a candle radiating light. 203 00:17:26,651 --> 00:17:30,593 That light is also shining on the candle itself. 204 00:17:33,250 --> 00:17:37,039 When we say something that is not quite true, 205 00:17:37,667 --> 00:17:41,635 that is affecting our consciousness, it's affecting our selves. 206 00:17:42,161 --> 00:17:43,934 When we do an action 207 00:17:44,021 --> 00:17:52,170 that doesn't quite have full integrity and alignment with our own personal values, 208 00:17:53,269 --> 00:17:55,468 that is affecting us. 209 00:17:59,625 --> 00:18:03,357 It is affecting, maybe, how we can sleep at night. 210 00:18:05,704 --> 00:18:09,367 Whether we have anxiety or despair. 211 00:18:10,708 --> 00:18:14,845 But when we can act, speak and think in such a way 212 00:18:14,870 --> 00:18:17,386 that's really in alignment with our values, 213 00:18:17,411 --> 00:18:20,078 we can kind of be coherent to ourselves. 214 00:18:21,375 --> 00:18:23,575 And here's something interesting. 215 00:18:23,833 --> 00:18:30,525 If we get too preoccupied by thinking that our main actions 216 00:18:30,989 --> 00:18:33,295 are our professional actions, we may miss the fact 217 00:18:33,432 --> 00:18:39,702 that perhaps our deepest transmission is maybe in the way we are as a person. 218 00:18:41,500 --> 00:18:46,073 For example to our children, to our family members. 219 00:18:48,005 --> 00:18:50,712 How we are with feelings of anger. 220 00:18:50,958 --> 00:18:54,164 How we are with feelings of anxiety. 221 00:18:55,667 --> 00:19:01,283 How we are with craving and habits. 222 00:19:01,667 --> 00:19:09,142 In fact, all the time, we are imprinting that on the next generation. 223 00:19:11,494 --> 00:19:15,014 Maybe your greatest legacy is not your professional one, 224 00:19:15,202 --> 00:19:18,402 but the family and people that we are with at home. 225 00:19:18,492 --> 00:19:22,392 And maybe you spend more time with your colleagues than with your kids. 226 00:19:22,828 --> 00:19:25,964 And so maybe that patterning and that transmission 227 00:19:25,989 --> 00:19:28,589 is actually happening in the workplace. 228 00:19:28,801 --> 00:19:34,549 And we are participating in increasing the energy of impatience. 229 00:19:34,890 --> 00:19:40,775 The energy of not-enough-ness. 230 00:19:41,105 --> 00:19:43,940 I'll come to that in a moment. 231 00:19:45,542 --> 00:19:49,579 And we are not transmitting what we were learning about on the first day, 232 00:19:49,667 --> 00:19:53,605 which is the power of presence. A quality of presence. 233 00:19:54,375 --> 00:19:59,001 So we may be looking in the wrong place for our legacy. 234 00:20:00,619 --> 00:20:04,549 For our transmission, our continuation. 235 00:20:04,700 --> 00:20:07,033 These are all great Buddhist words. 236 00:20:07,105 --> 00:20:11,585 The way we continue in the world, what we transmit to people around us. 237 00:20:17,708 --> 00:20:20,757 And one reason why this is important, 238 00:20:20,782 --> 00:20:23,688 it comes back to something to do with systems change 239 00:20:23,728 --> 00:20:27,056 and something we heard from Brother Spirit yesterday. 240 00:20:28,083 --> 00:20:34,543 Which is that we can take actions to mitigate the problems of our time. 241 00:20:34,833 --> 00:20:39,982 We can take actions to adapt our economic systems and infrastructure. 242 00:20:41,212 --> 00:20:44,476 But ultimately, that third pillar of transformation, 243 00:20:44,648 --> 00:20:46,328 transforming the system, 244 00:20:46,664 --> 00:20:49,990 are the humans who will be in that system. 245 00:20:50,542 --> 00:20:57,249 In 20 years, 50 years, 100 years, 150 years. 246 00:20:58,750 --> 00:21:03,863 How will those humans be responding to the challenges of their time? 247 00:21:04,442 --> 00:21:07,309 We can't even anticipate all the challenges. 248 00:21:08,208 --> 00:21:14,523 But what if we could establish a way of being that we learn and train in, 249 00:21:14,563 --> 00:21:18,896 and cultivate, and that is what we are transmitting? 250 00:21:18,936 --> 00:21:24,853 As the ultimate kind of toolkit, life-kit, life support system 251 00:21:25,083 --> 00:21:27,261 for the generations to come 252 00:21:27,286 --> 00:21:31,734 so that they will know how to breathe in a crisis. 253 00:21:32,980 --> 00:21:40,781 So they will know how to walk in such a way that they can enjoy a forest. 254 00:21:41,797 --> 00:21:46,246 We may be so busy protecting forests 255 00:21:47,208 --> 00:21:52,172 that we're not able to transmit to our children how to enjoy a forest 256 00:21:52,220 --> 00:21:55,425 and walk in freedom through a forest. 257 00:21:57,065 --> 00:22:01,926 In what I'm trying to share, maybe, actually, 258 00:22:01,958 --> 00:22:06,566 what's more important is to help the children know how to walk in freedom 259 00:22:06,632 --> 00:22:10,200 and enjoy a forest, so that they can protect forests 260 00:22:10,208 --> 00:22:13,464 in 50 years or 100 years or 150 years. 261 00:22:13,610 --> 00:22:18,311 Maybe, maybe, more important than saving one tiny corner 262 00:22:18,661 --> 00:22:20,341 with one campaign now. 263 00:22:21,215 --> 00:22:25,763 It's something about ... We hate using computer metaphors. 264 00:22:25,859 --> 00:22:29,849 But like the operating system of collective consciousness. 265 00:22:29,992 --> 00:22:33,896 That is where we need to insert our program of transformation. 266 00:22:34,098 --> 00:22:39,624 How we're processing, how we're running, how we're creating and responding to life. 267 00:22:39,958 --> 00:22:43,926 That's where it's very important to invest our time and energy. 268 00:22:44,333 --> 00:22:47,067 And that has something to do with ethics. 269 00:22:51,708 --> 00:22:57,615 I'd like to phone a friend and ask Brother Phap Huu to help me. 270 00:22:57,702 --> 00:23:01,329 Sorry, Who Wants To Be A Millionaire reference. 271 00:23:01,956 --> 00:23:04,223 It may come out of the blue there. 272 00:23:05,607 --> 00:23:08,807 Brother Phap Huu will help me draw a little circle. 273 00:23:09,309 --> 00:23:11,293 [laughter] 274 00:23:21,632 --> 00:23:23,632 Thank you, brother, thank you. 275 00:23:26,015 --> 00:23:30,628 We are doing our best to come back to our selves. 276 00:23:30,653 --> 00:23:33,869 Some of us have had the question: What does this actually mean? 277 00:23:33,995 --> 00:23:40,140 It means to listen, for example, what is most important to us. 278 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:45,200 On that first day we were learning about listening to our breathing 279 00:23:45,232 --> 00:23:49,072 and our body, and what our breathing and body are telling us. 280 00:23:50,083 --> 00:23:52,692 SOS. I'm here. 281 00:23:52,722 --> 00:23:54,402 Please take care of me. 282 00:23:54,427 --> 00:23:58,075 You've completely forgotten about me, your body. I'm here. 283 00:23:59,333 --> 00:24:01,800 Coming back to take care of our body. 284 00:24:02,292 --> 00:24:05,025 Coming back to take care of our feelings, 285 00:24:06,458 --> 00:24:08,992 including the most uncomfortable ones: 286 00:24:09,125 --> 00:24:12,033 Grief, anxiety, despair. 287 00:24:13,485 --> 00:24:14,925 Jealousy, craving. 288 00:24:16,542 --> 00:24:21,839 It's a 101 human life skill. Can we handle these feelings? 289 00:24:24,989 --> 00:24:27,456 And then, can we generate well-being? 290 00:24:27,481 --> 00:24:31,273 Can we know what is being most important to us? 291 00:24:31,298 --> 00:24:38,246 And we may, in the last couple of days, have had some new insights already 292 00:24:38,309 --> 00:24:40,857 about what's important to us. 293 00:24:42,875 --> 00:24:46,023 And then we had the lines coming out. 294 00:24:50,165 --> 00:24:53,557 Brother Phap Huu thinks I can draw some small circles. 295 00:24:58,500 --> 00:24:59,500 Almost. 296 00:25:00,375 --> 00:25:02,759 We are helping our loved ones. 297 00:25:03,489 --> 00:25:05,847 When we leave this retreat, 298 00:25:05,872 --> 00:25:09,811 we're not going out to then fix the people we love. 299 00:25:09,836 --> 00:25:13,456 And tell them that they need to eat in silence for five minutes with us, 300 00:25:13,647 --> 00:25:17,236 or sit in meditation with us every morning, 301 00:25:17,414 --> 00:25:21,257 or walk with us. 302 00:25:22,010 --> 00:25:26,565 What we would like to do is to help them listen to themselves. 303 00:25:27,288 --> 00:25:32,906 And with those practises of deep listening that we've been learning, 304 00:25:33,192 --> 00:25:36,059 simply the way we show up with our presence, 305 00:25:36,375 --> 00:25:39,565 will help our loved ones, our colleagues, 306 00:25:39,867 --> 00:25:41,884 listen to themselves. 307 00:25:42,417 --> 00:25:45,454 We are a kind of witness, a companion, a friend. 308 00:25:45,518 --> 00:25:48,950 We're showing up in such a way ... 309 00:25:49,035 --> 00:25:56,144 It's not showing off. It's simply being there to allow them to feel at ease. 310 00:25:56,295 --> 00:26:01,208 Calm and able to hear what's going on for them. 311 00:26:02,684 --> 00:26:05,851 Thay, our teacher, said ... 312 00:26:13,652 --> 00:26:18,476 We can then imagine that our family, 313 00:26:18,593 --> 00:26:22,950 it can also be our friendship network, 314 00:26:22,974 --> 00:26:25,374 it can be those people we live with. 315 00:26:25,420 --> 00:26:28,220 Our teacher described it as our home base. 316 00:26:28,245 --> 00:26:32,880 He called it the base or the foundation of our operations. 317 00:26:33,210 --> 00:26:40,464 And this could even be your team at work that you spend quite some time with. 318 00:26:41,583 --> 00:26:45,530 The wellness of this body, 319 00:26:46,117 --> 00:26:49,898 this collection of human beings, 320 00:26:50,886 --> 00:26:56,081 is the base of our operations to then influence our society. 321 00:26:56,303 --> 00:26:59,644 And you can imagine: Society is here somewhere. 322 00:27:03,082 --> 00:27:05,164 We've spoken a lot about collaboration. 323 00:27:05,268 --> 00:27:09,428 I know that's essential to all the organisations represented here. 324 00:27:10,708 --> 00:27:14,228 The quality of collaboration, we could even say harmony, 325 00:27:14,718 --> 00:27:21,612 will determine the quality of our impact on the collective. 326 00:27:23,096 --> 00:27:27,960 So here, we have practises of listening, and loving speech 327 00:27:28,627 --> 00:27:30,944 and conflict resolution. 328 00:27:33,167 --> 00:27:40,305 Also the practise at a collective level of embracing pain and suffering. 329 00:27:41,623 --> 00:27:45,207 There can be pain and suffering at the level of a family. 330 00:27:45,274 --> 00:27:49,769 When a family member is not well, or dying, or passing away. 331 00:27:50,293 --> 00:27:56,480 There can be pain and suffering in a team when a project falls through. 332 00:27:57,424 --> 00:28:00,392 Or when a project is undermined. 333 00:28:01,417 --> 00:28:08,192 Think of the challenge of the ESG framework. 334 00:28:08,217 --> 00:28:12,031 That brings up a lot of emotions in lots of people. 335 00:28:13,265 --> 00:28:19,825 And we need to be able to take care of these emotions at the level of our teams. 336 00:28:19,896 --> 00:28:23,273 To share our despair, to share our grief, 337 00:28:23,360 --> 00:28:26,260 to help each other handle the strong emotions 338 00:28:28,042 --> 00:28:33,793 in order to be able to arrive at collective insight for a new way out. 339 00:28:34,952 --> 00:28:40,196 And, as been shared already, there's no shortage of intelligence in this room. 340 00:28:40,902 --> 00:28:43,235 In our teams, in our organisations. 341 00:28:43,260 --> 00:28:46,466 And no shortage of good will, of good intention. 342 00:28:59,167 --> 00:29:02,175 I spoke about what we would like for the future, 343 00:29:03,136 --> 00:29:08,753 and how we can live it in our own life now to make it more possible in the future. 344 00:29:10,583 --> 00:29:13,847 We have the example of being able to walk in freedom 345 00:29:13,872 --> 00:29:15,619 or enjoy a forest, 346 00:29:16,103 --> 00:29:19,904 or see an apple for the miracle that an apple is. 347 00:29:20,797 --> 00:29:23,672 My deepest wish would be 348 00:29:23,697 --> 00:29:28,386 that people can enjoy an apple deeply in 100 years' time 349 00:29:29,496 --> 00:29:32,027 and know it for the miracle it is. 350 00:29:34,500 --> 00:29:38,105 And for that I need to eat an apple in that way now 351 00:29:39,168 --> 00:29:42,432 and share with others how to eat an apple like that. 352 00:29:44,917 --> 00:29:49,990 When we speak about actions and projects, 353 00:29:50,299 --> 00:29:54,203 that are ethical projects for more ethical business practises, 354 00:29:56,792 --> 00:30:01,031 that we want to happen by others or in the future, 355 00:30:01,484 --> 00:30:04,367 in our way of operating as a team, 356 00:30:04,517 --> 00:30:06,784 to get those good social outcomes, 357 00:30:07,886 --> 00:30:10,652 the kind of values that we're aiming for in our project 358 00:30:10,938 --> 00:30:14,906 need to be there in the way that we're approaching the project. 359 00:30:15,375 --> 00:30:17,175 Inclusiveness, for example. 360 00:30:17,335 --> 00:30:18,335 Or equity. 361 00:30:18,792 --> 00:30:21,864 Do we have inclusiveness and equity in our teams? 362 00:30:26,333 --> 00:30:29,791 Transparency, accountability. 363 00:30:31,251 --> 00:30:36,408 Thay sometimes described this as transforming our team or our organisation 364 00:30:36,599 --> 00:30:38,551 into a community. 365 00:30:38,958 --> 00:30:44,003 Into a community that is embodying the values we want to see in the world. 366 00:30:44,833 --> 00:30:49,329 I'm sure you have wonderful mission statements already. 367 00:30:49,575 --> 00:30:51,642 But as a kind of reality check, 368 00:30:51,763 --> 00:30:55,027 are the values in our organisation in full alignment 369 00:30:55,055 --> 00:30:57,801 with the impact we're trying to have in the world? 370 00:30:57,826 --> 00:31:01,432 The values of how we work together, how we listen to each other, 371 00:31:01,583 --> 00:31:04,276 how we include each others' ideas. 372 00:31:06,575 --> 00:31:11,434 To ensure that as a team, as an organisation, 373 00:31:11,459 --> 00:31:15,323 we are already embodying the values we want to bring. 374 00:31:15,585 --> 00:31:22,601 and not falling into the trap the kind of toxic systems of the world 375 00:31:22,626 --> 00:31:24,493 that we're trying to change. 376 00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:28,585 So how can our way of working for change already resist 377 00:31:28,656 --> 00:31:33,073 some of the pernicious practises out in the world? 378 00:31:35,740 --> 00:31:38,140 This relates even to things like ... 379 00:31:42,833 --> 00:31:44,246 Communications. 380 00:31:44,271 --> 00:31:47,407 I say this as someone who used to be a journalist. 381 00:31:49,458 --> 00:31:52,507 Are we honest in our communications? 382 00:31:55,999 --> 00:32:03,297 Are we telling the whole truth about the impact of our company on the world? 383 00:32:05,043 --> 00:32:10,142 And if we have that kind of integrity of speech within our own company, 384 00:32:10,452 --> 00:32:16,111 then we can inspire other organisations who are struggling much more 385 00:32:17,182 --> 00:32:21,690 to see that we really embody these values of deep honesty. 386 00:32:29,250 --> 00:32:33,218 I want to speak about something that Christiana mentioned to me 387 00:32:34,333 --> 00:32:37,448 a few days ago when I was asking: 388 00:32:37,536 --> 00:32:42,555 What is keeping this particular constellation of people awake at night? 389 00:32:44,087 --> 00:32:47,773 Christiana was silent for a long time. 390 00:32:48,781 --> 00:32:52,712 And one of the threads that Christiana offered 391 00:32:53,140 --> 00:32:57,950 was perhaps a feeling of deep frustration. 392 00:32:59,736 --> 00:33:01,669 That we are good people here. 393 00:33:02,003 --> 00:33:03,870 And you are doing good work. 394 00:33:03,899 --> 00:33:06,099 And you are even doing your best. 395 00:33:06,417 --> 00:33:10,531 But somehow, it's just not moving the needle. 396 00:33:10,611 --> 00:33:14,707 It's just not having the kind of change that we know is possible. 397 00:33:14,875 --> 00:33:20,599 And we can't quite get our head around all the obstacles 398 00:33:20,653 --> 00:33:24,139 and why this is just so hard. 399 00:33:27,042 --> 00:33:30,562 So one thing that we as Buddhist practitioners can offer 400 00:33:30,750 --> 00:33:33,871 to this feeling of frustration is: 401 00:33:35,497 --> 00:33:40,005 Be ready for indirect consequences to your work. 402 00:33:40,667 --> 00:33:46,688 Maybe the success of that project, campaign, initiative or partnership, 403 00:33:47,949 --> 00:33:52,857 maybe measuring the work that you're doing on a daily basis 404 00:33:52,882 --> 00:33:56,674 by the outcome of that one project is not the right place to look 405 00:33:56,714 --> 00:33:58,936 for your impact in the world. 406 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:04,369 The fact that you are already bringing a good intention 407 00:34:04,488 --> 00:34:07,869 to the way you live your own life, 408 00:34:09,208 --> 00:34:13,751 the fact that you are already collaborating in our teams 409 00:34:14,125 --> 00:34:20,259 with generosity, inclusiveness, presence, listening, values, 410 00:34:21,238 --> 00:34:26,329 that is already action that is fully radiating into the world 411 00:34:26,354 --> 00:34:29,618 and into the people around you at home, and at work. 412 00:34:30,375 --> 00:34:33,740 That is already saying: It is worth trying. 413 00:34:34,986 --> 00:34:39,623 Your daily actions can already be embodying the message: 414 00:34:39,964 --> 00:34:42,097 What we are doing now is not OK. 415 00:34:42,605 --> 00:34:45,613 And each one of us can do our part to change it. 416 00:34:45,638 --> 00:34:49,542 That is a patterning, a legacy, that we're leaving in society. 417 00:34:51,792 --> 00:34:54,327 And I'd like to invite Brother Phap Huu again. 418 00:34:54,382 --> 00:35:00,523 We're gonna recall our circle of the first day on seeds. 419 00:35:08,417 --> 00:35:10,217 Thank you so much, brother. 420 00:35:11,667 --> 00:35:15,083 We were understanding there's this thing called store consciousness. 421 00:35:15,131 --> 00:35:16,559 [STORE C.] 422 00:35:16,819 --> 00:35:20,507 This is a model of our mind and we have the seeds ... 423 00:35:21,208 --> 00:35:27,343 And all of us have all the seeds in the depths of our consciousness. 424 00:35:29,654 --> 00:35:32,321 Our actions, every day, the way we speak, 425 00:35:32,432 --> 00:35:37,113 the way we listen, the way we walk, 426 00:35:37,350 --> 00:35:40,644 the ideals we give rise to, the value, 427 00:35:40,825 --> 00:35:45,299 we are watering good seeds in our consciousness. 428 00:35:45,521 --> 00:35:47,454 And Sister Hero also said, 429 00:35:47,561 --> 00:35:54,134 this is both collective and individual. 430 00:36:02,050 --> 00:36:05,280 In Buddhism we say that we trust -- 431 00:36:05,304 --> 00:36:07,876 it's been all about trust this morning -- 432 00:36:08,489 --> 00:36:13,140 that all seeds will ripen in time. 433 00:36:13,165 --> 00:36:15,780 In their own time. 434 00:36:16,434 --> 00:36:18,515 Some seeds ripen right away. 435 00:36:18,801 --> 00:36:20,706 Others need longer. 436 00:36:21,127 --> 00:36:25,785 We may now be in the process of cultivating seeds 437 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:29,456 that don't just take one season around the sun to bloom 438 00:36:30,192 --> 00:36:37,142 not just 17 years like some cicadas that, I think, have a 17-year lifecycle. 439 00:36:39,341 --> 00:36:44,013 Maybe there are some seeds that will take more than a generation to ripen. 440 00:36:46,583 --> 00:36:51,021 What if now, the fact that we can be here, 441 00:36:51,665 --> 00:36:56,144 is the ripening of seeds from one generation ago? 442 00:36:57,684 --> 00:36:59,417 Maybe two generations ago? 443 00:37:01,416 --> 00:37:05,402 My grandfather was the first person in my family to buy a book on meditation 444 00:37:05,442 --> 00:37:07,070 in the 1970s. 445 00:37:07,875 --> 00:37:11,696 I feel like I'm a ripening across two generations. 446 00:37:11,958 --> 00:37:13,892 That even I just can be here. 447 00:37:14,417 --> 00:37:17,003 And my grandfather didn't, in his whole life, 448 00:37:17,028 --> 00:37:19,361 have a chance to go on one retreat. 449 00:37:19,626 --> 00:37:22,159 It still wasn't available in his time. 450 00:37:22,208 --> 00:37:27,405 I think he started getting sick in 1991. 451 00:37:28,436 --> 00:37:30,250 Before the internet. 452 00:37:31,857 --> 00:37:36,017 He didn't know there were places where he could go to learn meditation. 453 00:37:36,917 --> 00:37:40,117 The wonderful thing about the ripening of seeds is: 454 00:37:40,337 --> 00:37:46,801 Our life now, our actions and careers are already the ripening from the past. 455 00:37:47,467 --> 00:37:52,499 And we can trust that we may not see all the fruits in our own lifetime. 456 00:37:52,619 --> 00:37:54,686 But the good seeds we water now 457 00:37:55,003 --> 00:37:57,203 will continue to ripen over time. 458 00:37:59,583 --> 00:38:01,103 So the question is: 459 00:38:01,792 --> 00:38:04,513 What seeds are we watering? 460 00:38:09,750 --> 00:38:13,053 When we were learning about mind, 461 00:38:13,109 --> 00:38:19,216 and Sister Hero explained 462 00:38:19,626 --> 00:38:22,977 that there's a part of our mind called 'manas' 463 00:38:23,223 --> 00:38:26,521 which is the grasping part of our mind. 464 00:38:26,617 --> 00:38:31,545 Which always wants to take care of me and mine. 465 00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:35,132 Me and mine, it's to have, to hold. 466 00:38:35,815 --> 00:38:37,569 To protect. 467 00:38:38,792 --> 00:38:40,490 To appropriate. 468 00:38:41,754 --> 00:38:42,754 To extract. 469 00:38:44,792 --> 00:38:46,925 And we had some characteristics, 470 00:38:46,950 --> 00:38:49,775 which I will just remind us of. 471 00:38:51,250 --> 00:38:52,757 Appropriating, 472 00:38:59,125 --> 00:39:00,680 surviving, 473 00:39:02,343 --> 00:39:04,077 survival instinct, 474 00:39:12,875 --> 00:39:14,343 avoiding pain, 475 00:39:18,167 --> 00:39:19,527 seeking pleasure, 476 00:39:35,375 --> 00:39:40,128 ignoring the danger of seeking pleasure, 477 00:39:49,583 --> 00:39:51,917 ignoring the goodness of suffering, 478 00:40:06,708 --> 00:40:10,319 and ignoring the law of moderation. 479 00:40:18,792 --> 00:40:23,265 This is a couple of thousand years' worth of Buddhist insight -- 480 00:40:23,583 --> 00:40:28,127 one and a half thousand years. It came from a later phase of Buddhism -- 481 00:40:29,792 --> 00:40:32,347 about how our mind works. 482 00:40:32,792 --> 00:40:38,748 And when we saw this on the board the other day, 483 00:40:40,250 --> 00:40:44,090 I don't know how many of you saw that this doesn't only apply 484 00:40:44,115 --> 00:40:46,422 only at the individual level. 485 00:40:47,575 --> 00:40:51,809 Is this not quite an accurate description 486 00:40:52,022 --> 00:40:57,456 of how humanity is living as a species 487 00:40:57,481 --> 00:40:59,093 on this Earth? 488 00:40:59,118 --> 00:41:01,118 We're appropriating the Earth. 489 00:41:01,501 --> 00:41:03,930 We're exploiting it. 490 00:41:05,112 --> 00:41:09,200 We think of our survival as being separate 491 00:41:09,231 --> 00:41:12,175 of the survival of other species and the Earth. 492 00:41:15,133 --> 00:41:22,585 As a species, we like to avoid pain and we definitely seek pleasure. 493 00:41:24,254 --> 00:41:27,619 And we ignore the danger of seeking pleasure. 494 00:41:28,626 --> 00:41:31,293 And we ignore the goodness of suffering. 495 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:36,761 So these ones, number 3 to 7, 496 00:41:38,054 --> 00:41:41,654 is our culture of consumerism. 497 00:41:44,208 --> 00:41:45,208 Right there. 498 00:41:46,890 --> 00:41:54,630 We consume because we can't bear the feeling of pain inside. 499 00:41:54,813 --> 00:41:58,299 We consume to cover up our suffering. 500 00:42:01,823 --> 00:42:07,432 We think we need more things because we think that we're not enough. 501 00:42:07,725 --> 00:42:09,295 What we have is not enough. 502 00:42:09,581 --> 00:42:16,434 And there's an economic system that reminds us, that tells us 503 00:42:16,459 --> 00:42:19,225 that we don't have enough, all the time. 504 00:42:34,750 --> 00:42:36,550 I was doing my anger check. 505 00:42:36,750 --> 00:42:38,683 I'm going to speak from love. 506 00:42:45,469 --> 00:42:49,532 [sound of the bell] 507 00:43:16,458 --> 00:43:18,658 I'm also going to tell the truth. 508 00:43:19,208 --> 00:43:21,327 In pursuit of profit, 509 00:43:22,142 --> 00:43:24,808 marketing departments all over the world 510 00:43:24,833 --> 00:43:27,100 tell us that we don't have enough. 511 00:43:29,750 --> 00:43:32,283 According to the insights of Buddhism, 512 00:43:32,308 --> 00:43:34,218 we do have enough. 513 00:43:34,457 --> 00:43:36,390 The present moment is enough. 514 00:43:36,833 --> 00:43:39,571 Each one of us is enough. 515 00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:42,580 Our presence, the presence of our loved ones, 516 00:43:43,031 --> 00:43:45,631 to be able to walk deeply on the Earth, 517 00:43:45,682 --> 00:43:49,884 listen to the birds and trees, is enough to be happy. 518 00:43:50,805 --> 00:43:54,021 We can live very simply and be happy. 519 00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:57,867 I've heard quite a few of you say this week: 520 00:43:57,875 --> 00:44:01,928 It's been so powerful to touch simplicity in these days. 521 00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:04,600 To not be needing these devices so much. 522 00:44:04,625 --> 00:44:07,889 To not having to buy things online while we're here. 523 00:44:08,405 --> 00:44:11,305 Our level of consumerism has gone right down. 524 00:44:11,330 --> 00:44:14,466 And yet, our level of happiness has gone right up. 525 00:44:15,008 --> 00:44:17,198 We are touching the truth 526 00:44:17,261 --> 00:44:20,589 that we have more than enough conditions to be happy. 527 00:44:22,672 --> 00:44:27,905 Our teacher once said something, I find it very deep, 528 00:44:27,929 --> 00:44:29,757 and quite brave. 529 00:44:30,417 --> 00:44:36,682 He said: It's because as a species we don't know what true happiness is. 530 00:44:38,404 --> 00:44:41,137 That is why we are destroying our planet. 531 00:44:44,333 --> 00:44:45,613 It's quite deep. 532 00:44:45,721 --> 00:44:48,674 We don't know and haven't learned 533 00:44:48,699 --> 00:44:52,436 how to touch true happiness in our daily life. 534 00:44:55,123 --> 00:44:58,619 We consume to cover up our pain. 535 00:44:58,644 --> 00:45:02,500 We're seeking pleasure to cover up our pain 536 00:45:02,525 --> 00:45:06,173 because we don't know how to find happiness in simplicity. 537 00:45:06,212 --> 00:45:07,777 So we consume. 538 00:45:08,251 --> 00:45:12,267 And that culture of consumerism is destroying our planet. 539 00:45:19,333 --> 00:45:22,648 This means it's really important 540 00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:27,178 to be able to touch the wonder of the present moment 541 00:45:27,250 --> 00:45:30,450 in order to touch happiness in a really simple way. 542 00:45:30,958 --> 00:45:35,273 And it's really important that each one of us 543 00:45:35,344 --> 00:45:37,944 learns how to handle a painful feeling. 544 00:45:38,348 --> 00:45:41,420 So that the first response to our painful feeling 545 00:45:41,445 --> 00:45:43,055 is not consuming. 546 00:45:44,952 --> 00:45:49,337 Mindfulness can be our first response to a painful feeling. 547 00:45:49,789 --> 00:45:54,144 Being present. Meeting our self, this is us, coming back: 548 00:45:54,318 --> 00:45:56,521 The way out is in. 549 00:45:56,542 --> 00:46:00,646 Meeting our self and our painful feelings 550 00:46:00,750 --> 00:46:03,736 with tenderness, with kindness, 551 00:46:04,141 --> 00:46:06,725 with curiosity. 552 00:46:13,138 --> 00:46:17,369 In terms of ethics, it means that 553 00:46:19,188 --> 00:46:26,144 an ethical corporation is one that is not participating 554 00:46:27,327 --> 00:46:31,051 in enhancing this mechanism. 555 00:46:36,392 --> 00:46:41,361 But is helping people realise that we have enough. 556 00:46:42,167 --> 00:46:45,809 Helping people nourish true happiness. 557 00:46:46,549 --> 00:46:50,240 Helping people handle painful feelings. 558 00:46:51,667 --> 00:46:54,867 And we might say: Oh, that's the role of education. 559 00:46:55,128 --> 00:46:56,995 That is the role of society. 560 00:46:57,028 --> 00:47:00,404 The role of ... something else. 561 00:47:00,958 --> 00:47:05,646 But if our corporations are truly in the service 562 00:47:06,805 --> 00:47:08,805 of something more than profit, 563 00:47:08,917 --> 00:47:12,049 ideally in the service of humanity, 564 00:47:12,208 --> 00:47:15,108 and even bigger, in the service of the planet, 565 00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:21,970 we would need to be aware of this ethical dimension to our operations 566 00:47:22,001 --> 00:47:23,608 as an enterprise. 567 00:47:30,777 --> 00:47:33,771 It's also really interesting, 568 00:47:35,589 --> 00:47:40,380 we also have agency and sovereignty as individuals 569 00:47:40,738 --> 00:47:45,244 to free ourselves from the systems of our own creation. 570 00:47:46,379 --> 00:47:49,964 According to the insights of Buddhism, we don't make the system, 571 00:47:50,139 --> 00:47:56,041 or other corporations, or some culture of consumerism outside of us, 572 00:47:56,042 --> 00:47:57,722 responsible for this. 573 00:47:58,792 --> 00:48:04,265 With the energy of mindfulness, we expand our zone of free will. 574 00:48:05,249 --> 00:48:08,095 We get to choose what to consume, 575 00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:09,333 how to live. 576 00:48:09,361 --> 00:48:12,871 We can set our self free from these machines, 577 00:48:12,896 --> 00:48:16,490 systems, mechanisms of our own creation. 578 00:48:18,292 --> 00:48:19,972 And that is why for us, 579 00:48:20,208 --> 00:48:25,017 mindfulness has to do with awakening and freedom. 580 00:48:25,391 --> 00:48:27,524 It gives us so much more agency. 581 00:48:28,325 --> 00:48:31,365 When we can transform this for ourselves, 582 00:48:31,667 --> 00:48:38,101 because of this, the impact we're having with our presence, 583 00:48:38,292 --> 00:48:40,625 we are forming it for our children. 584 00:48:40,650 --> 00:48:42,692 For our friends. 585 00:48:42,717 --> 00:48:45,073 I remember our teacher saying: 586 00:48:45,097 --> 00:48:50,217 One of the greatest skills we can develop in our time in Plum Village is to learn 587 00:48:50,357 --> 00:48:54,128 how to generate a moment of happiness. 588 00:48:55,042 --> 00:48:58,755 Because learning to generate a moment of happiness 589 00:48:58,780 --> 00:49:02,044 has something to do with handling a painful feeling. 590 00:49:02,069 --> 00:49:03,936 The two kind of go together. 591 00:49:03,961 --> 00:49:07,801 We need a moment of happiness when we're feeling low or down. 592 00:49:09,382 --> 00:49:11,382 Or when we're feeling neutral. 593 00:49:11,500 --> 00:49:15,365 Numb. A bit 'meh'. 594 00:49:17,333 --> 00:49:22,482 The skill of generating a moment of happiness 595 00:49:22,625 --> 00:49:25,492 is one of the best skills we can learn here. 596 00:49:25,750 --> 00:49:30,244 Because when we know how to create a moment of happiness, 597 00:49:33,703 --> 00:49:37,206 we can create such a moment for our family. 598 00:49:38,182 --> 00:49:41,638 We can create such a moment for the teams we work with. 599 00:49:41,833 --> 00:49:44,167 Or for our organisation as a whole. 600 00:49:46,136 --> 00:49:50,303 It doesn't take much to create a moment of happiness. 601 00:49:50,469 --> 00:49:56,690 Thay even said we can create a moment of happiness 602 00:49:57,583 --> 00:50:00,190 whenever we want. 603 00:50:01,579 --> 00:50:02,939 It's a tough one. 604 00:50:02,964 --> 00:50:05,067 But I'm working on it. 605 00:50:05,329 --> 00:50:09,192 It is possible to really ask myself this question. 606 00:50:10,851 --> 00:50:13,651 If I'm feeling neutral, if I'm feeling low, 607 00:50:13,682 --> 00:50:16,896 if I'm feeling not happy, not well, 608 00:50:17,929 --> 00:50:21,051 I ask myself: What can I do in this moment? 609 00:50:22,035 --> 00:50:26,195 On this retreat we've been learning many ways that we can do that. 610 00:50:26,916 --> 00:50:32,198 Relaxing the body when the discomfort we find is a physical discomfort. 611 00:50:32,223 --> 00:50:34,738 Anxiety, restlessness, tension. 612 00:50:35,039 --> 00:50:37,906 That's when we can practise deep relaxation. 613 00:50:38,333 --> 00:50:41,789 And on our app there are lots of recordings you can use 614 00:50:41,814 --> 00:50:44,014 as you go home from this retreat. 615 00:50:45,464 --> 00:50:49,123 Sharing a meal with friends. In person. 616 00:50:49,271 --> 00:50:53,678 Not eating alone is a source of joy and happiness. 617 00:50:54,125 --> 00:50:59,029 But also, learning, when we're eating alone, 618 00:50:59,474 --> 00:51:01,407 to not feel that we're alone. 619 00:51:01,704 --> 00:51:05,672 But to really see the whole planet and cosmos and Mother Earth, 620 00:51:06,167 --> 00:51:12,277 the miracle of life, in our sandwich, in our lunchbox, in our food. 621 00:51:12,317 --> 00:51:16,293 And to say: I will use my eye of insight 622 00:51:16,375 --> 00:51:21,343 that even in this moment, a part of me feels so alone to eat alone. 623 00:51:21,763 --> 00:51:24,363 But I know that is not the whole truth. 624 00:51:24,547 --> 00:51:28,698 I know that the whole cosmos is supporting my lunch. 625 00:51:28,975 --> 00:51:32,055 The whole cosmos is supporting my apple. 626 00:51:32,826 --> 00:51:37,321 And using the eye of insight, we can flip a moment of loneliness 627 00:51:37,393 --> 00:51:42,577 into a moment of happiness and connection with the whole planet, the whole cosmos. 628 00:51:51,750 --> 00:51:55,142 So when we speak about what seeds we've been watering, 629 00:52:02,917 --> 00:52:07,269 the name of these seeds, for those, who have missed the presentation, 630 00:52:07,557 --> 00:52:11,374 it could be fear. It could be anxiety. 631 00:52:11,708 --> 00:52:13,308 It could be despair. 632 00:52:13,465 --> 00:52:15,532 But it also could be happiness. 633 00:52:15,833 --> 00:52:18,357 Gratitude, mindfulness. 634 00:52:23,148 --> 00:52:24,480 Generosity. 635 00:52:27,174 --> 00:52:31,168 A question for all of us is: 636 00:52:31,549 --> 00:52:35,470 What seeds are we watering in our daily life? 637 00:52:36,010 --> 00:52:39,594 And what has that got to do with transforming the system, 638 00:52:39,619 --> 00:52:41,638 transforming our society? 639 00:52:43,513 --> 00:52:45,380 Many of us, on this retreat, 640 00:52:45,427 --> 00:52:50,587 we've had a feeling of fear, or anger, or panic, 641 00:52:54,766 --> 00:52:57,481 things aren't moving fast enough. 642 00:52:58,148 --> 00:53:01,132 Scale and speed! 643 00:53:06,838 --> 00:53:10,248 These may be seeds in our organisation. 644 00:53:10,273 --> 00:53:13,985 The collective consciousness of our organisation and teams. 645 00:53:14,042 --> 00:53:16,204 Maybe it can be a really good exercise. 646 00:53:16,243 --> 00:53:17,923 How are we all feeling? 647 00:53:17,948 --> 00:53:20,148 Could you go home with your teams 648 00:53:20,173 --> 00:53:24,992 and have a whiteboard and name the compost, name the mud? 649 00:53:26,418 --> 00:53:28,785 Maybe everyone has to write it privately on a post-it note 650 00:53:28,810 --> 00:53:30,285 and then you collect it up. 651 00:53:30,310 --> 00:53:35,920 Maybe you need an equal number of positive ones to negative ones. 652 00:53:36,777 --> 00:53:39,492 What seeds are we watering? 653 00:53:44,376 --> 00:53:48,325 I'm going to write 'culture of consumerism' here. 654 00:53:48,968 --> 00:53:53,769 [CULTURE OF CONSUMERISM] 655 00:53:55,875 --> 00:54:01,023 Maybe our culture of consumerism is watering the seed of craving in us. 656 00:54:01,618 --> 00:54:03,138 So one question is: 657 00:54:03,833 --> 00:54:09,059 When we talk about having free will to live differently on our planet, 658 00:54:09,250 --> 00:54:11,694 how can we guard our mind 659 00:54:13,472 --> 00:54:19,029 from the collective consciousness watering our seed of craving all the time? 660 00:54:19,125 --> 00:54:23,541 Every time we see an advertisement, it's watering the seed of craving. 661 00:54:24,125 --> 00:54:27,261 "If you have this product, you will feel happier." 662 00:54:27,406 --> 00:54:32,112 "If you have this product, you will be cool and acceptable." 663 00:54:32,917 --> 00:54:34,597 "You will have status." 664 00:54:35,167 --> 00:54:39,234 "Having this product is a mark of power or influence." 665 00:54:40,075 --> 00:54:43,147 These seeds are being watered in us all the time. 666 00:54:43,962 --> 00:54:47,017 The power of mindfulness is that it gives us the freedom 667 00:54:47,081 --> 00:54:48,761 to choose to be different 668 00:54:48,786 --> 00:54:52,972 and to operate outside of this culture of consumerism. 669 00:54:59,795 --> 00:55:03,257 In Buddhism we speak about fuel. 670 00:55:04,678 --> 00:55:07,115 What is driving us? 671 00:55:07,353 --> 00:55:10,902 Our deepest intention or volition. 672 00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:15,416 We can also speak about that as a seed in our consciousness. 673 00:55:15,958 --> 00:55:19,692 For example ... Some of us might have been this: 674 00:55:19,898 --> 00:55:25,853 I'm going to have that kind of car and my own house by the time I'm 30. 675 00:55:25,917 --> 00:55:30,351 That is a volition and intention that we set at a certain point 676 00:55:30,557 --> 00:55:32,327 and it drives us. 677 00:55:33,833 --> 00:55:40,416 We may have a volition and intention to get a certain amount of money, 678 00:55:41,511 --> 00:55:45,402 a certain paygrade, maybe a certain status. 679 00:55:47,768 --> 00:55:51,715 In Buddhism we have a practise of deep inquiry 680 00:55:51,740 --> 00:55:54,664 around what our volitions are. 681 00:55:54,688 --> 00:55:56,688 It's kind of a technical term. 682 00:55:57,158 --> 00:55:58,825 Volition. 683 00:56:02,802 --> 00:56:04,669 What is our deepest concern? 684 00:56:06,417 --> 00:56:10,656 Actually, according to the wise ones in Buddhism, 685 00:56:11,101 --> 00:56:18,224 Money, status, power, and even, kind of, sensual pleasures, 686 00:56:18,648 --> 00:56:20,088 they don't cut it. 687 00:56:20,113 --> 00:56:24,511 It might be what you crave or think you crave, 688 00:56:24,769 --> 00:56:28,571 or society tells you you should crave, 689 00:56:29,467 --> 00:56:32,539 but it might not be what's most important to you. 690 00:56:32,599 --> 00:56:34,773 What you really want. 691 00:56:35,313 --> 00:56:39,273 What you really want to offer. 692 00:56:39,829 --> 00:56:42,696 And I have the feeling that for many of you, 693 00:56:42,750 --> 00:56:46,194 one of the flavours of your volition is you want to be of service. 694 00:56:46,368 --> 00:56:52,345 Of service to society, to support inclusiveness, 695 00:56:52,376 --> 00:56:54,437 non-discrimination, 696 00:56:54,462 --> 00:56:57,178 for your life to help people fall in love with the Earth, 697 00:56:57,203 --> 00:56:58,640 and protect the planet. 698 00:56:58,700 --> 00:57:02,055 To have a more equitable economic system. 699 00:57:02,095 --> 00:57:05,100 That is a fantastic volition. 700 00:57:05,180 --> 00:57:10,357 We say that our volition is like a fire in our, kind of, belly. 701 00:57:10,382 --> 00:57:13,582 And we have to feed it and keep it alive every day. 702 00:57:15,375 --> 00:57:18,895 And we have to really know what is most important to us. 703 00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:25,119 And maybe the How of how we're doing our deepest dreams -- 704 00:57:25,144 --> 00:57:28,472 sometimes we also call volition our deepest desire -- 705 00:57:31,753 --> 00:57:33,947 [DEEPEST DESIRE] 706 00:57:36,317 --> 00:57:40,678 The How of realising is as important as the What. 707 00:57:40,861 --> 00:57:44,484 If we sacrifice our friends and family and health 708 00:57:44,896 --> 00:57:47,296 in order to take care of the planet, 709 00:57:49,958 --> 00:57:52,692 maybe we haven't taken care of the planet 710 00:57:52,875 --> 00:57:55,775 in the way that future generations need us to. 711 00:57:56,083 --> 00:57:58,983 Maybe that isn't the way to be a good ancestor 712 00:57:59,008 --> 00:58:01,748 for the future of the planet, because we're patterning in 713 00:58:01,922 --> 00:58:05,826 not taking care of our health, sacrificing friends and family, 714 00:58:05,851 --> 00:58:08,251 we're patterning that in to society. 715 00:58:13,951 --> 00:58:17,791 A really deep insight that Thay had about volition and desire 716 00:58:18,071 --> 00:58:24,251 is that it is a way to transform manas. 717 00:58:24,276 --> 00:58:27,513 He used a technical term: We sublimate manas 718 00:58:27,583 --> 00:58:32,996 in the service of our good intention, our deepest desire. 719 00:58:33,083 --> 00:58:37,486 He had the image that manas had kind of appropriated -- 720 00:58:39,216 --> 00:58:41,599 if you remember this energy of appropriating -- 721 00:58:41,917 --> 00:58:45,309 a part of store consciousness in saying: "This is me." 722 00:58:45,563 --> 00:58:47,083 "This is me, here." 723 00:58:48,417 --> 00:58:51,017 And he said that we can transform manas 724 00:58:51,042 --> 00:58:52,457 into a lotus. 725 00:58:53,357 --> 00:58:57,470 And that it can be a lotus of serving society, 726 00:58:57,644 --> 00:58:59,858 serving the world. 727 00:59:00,218 --> 00:59:03,107 And we take our survival instinct, 728 00:59:03,132 --> 00:59:06,524 which Sister Hero described as the energy of vitality. 729 00:59:08,750 --> 00:59:10,551 We have a life force 730 00:59:11,952 --> 00:59:14,085 that becomes our deepest desire. 731 00:59:14,542 --> 00:59:17,898 That, then, is self-reinforcing. 732 00:59:18,565 --> 00:59:22,003 We take care of our pain. 733 00:59:22,083 --> 00:59:25,091 We take care of generating moments of happiness. 734 00:59:25,174 --> 00:59:28,438 We understand the goodness of embracing the compost. 735 00:59:28,501 --> 00:59:31,401 We understand that we don't want to waste time 736 00:59:31,432 --> 00:59:33,763 on streaming and screens. 737 00:59:34,458 --> 00:59:36,792 We understand the law of moderation 738 00:59:36,817 --> 00:59:39,182 because we have got something much more important to do 739 00:59:39,207 --> 00:59:41,274 with our waking days and hours. 740 00:59:47,136 --> 00:59:51,843 I would like to read a part of ... 741 00:59:52,057 --> 00:59:54,724 We have an ethical code in Plum Village. 742 00:59:55,012 --> 01:00:00,267 We will now go into the applied ethics part of everything I've been saying. 743 01:00:00,878 --> 01:00:04,904 We have a particular ethical principle 744 01:00:18,233 --> 01:00:21,689 which we can describe as having the right kind of fuel. 745 01:00:25,067 --> 01:00:27,192 [RIGHT FUEL] 746 01:00:29,583 --> 01:00:31,263 And this is what it says: 747 01:00:32,083 --> 01:00:36,541 Aware of the suffering caused by unmindful consumption, 748 01:00:37,184 --> 01:00:40,317 I'm committed to cultivating good health, 749 01:00:40,500 --> 01:00:42,180 both physical and mental, 750 01:00:42,396 --> 01:00:47,609 for myself, my family and my society 751 01:00:48,276 --> 01:00:52,279 by practising mindful eating, drinking and consuming. 752 01:00:52,946 --> 01:00:57,442 Consuming edible foods, sensory impressions, 753 01:00:57,743 --> 01:01:01,327 consuming volition -- because we say it's a kind of food, 754 01:01:01,352 --> 01:01:05,551 it gets us out of bed in the morning, just like the coffee. 755 01:01:05,833 --> 01:01:09,039 And consuming consciousness. 756 01:01:09,064 --> 01:01:14,120 What's really interesting in Buddhism is that we say we consume our environment. 757 01:01:14,145 --> 01:01:16,612 The consciousness of our environment. 758 01:01:16,636 --> 01:01:20,668 That's why, if our team is struggling and having a lot of fear and anxiety, 759 01:01:20,693 --> 01:01:23,327 we will feel fear and anxiety. 760 01:01:23,772 --> 01:01:27,356 If there is a lot of despair and loneliness in the world, 761 01:01:28,125 --> 01:01:31,389 say after the pandemic, if we say that it increased, 762 01:01:31,417 --> 01:01:33,950 as some of the research seems to show. 763 01:01:33,975 --> 01:01:38,027 That collective consciousness is going to affect our individual consciousness. 764 01:01:38,052 --> 01:01:40,452 We're feeling not only our own pain, 765 01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:42,409 but the pain of our society. 766 01:01:42,472 --> 01:01:46,287 It's as though we're eating collective consciousness. 767 01:01:48,012 --> 01:01:51,591 Here's another line from this principle of right fuel. 768 01:01:51,875 --> 01:01:55,011 I am determined -- so, aware of the suffering 769 01:01:55,083 --> 01:01:56,966 caused by unmindful consumption -- 770 01:01:57,180 --> 01:02:01,273 I am determined not to try to cover up loneliness, 771 01:02:01,298 --> 01:02:05,930 anxiety, or other suffering, by losing myself in consumption 772 01:02:06,250 --> 01:02:08,438 I will contemplate interbeing 773 01:02:08,501 --> 01:02:11,811 and consume in a way that preserves peace, 774 01:02:11,900 --> 01:02:15,876 joy and wellbeing in my body and consciousness 775 01:02:16,164 --> 01:02:19,613 and in the collective body and consciousness 776 01:02:19,756 --> 01:02:23,914 of my family, my society, and the Earth. 777 01:02:25,875 --> 01:02:29,940 When we speak about individual transformation 778 01:02:30,170 --> 01:02:32,313 and systems transformation, 779 01:02:32,479 --> 01:02:34,869 our systems are an expression 780 01:02:34,916 --> 01:02:38,289 of individuals, of humanity. 781 01:02:40,369 --> 01:02:42,896 When we transform our own way of consuming, 782 01:02:42,921 --> 01:02:48,674 we have the right to ask of the organisations we're in 783 01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:53,242 as a business: Are we helping people 784 01:02:53,333 --> 01:02:57,746 consume in a way that preserves peace, joy, and wellbeing? 785 01:02:59,042 --> 01:03:01,308 These ethics start with ourselves, 786 01:03:01,333 --> 01:03:03,942 but apply to our livelihoods, too. 787 01:03:07,605 --> 01:03:09,843 We have another ethical principle. 788 01:03:09,875 --> 01:03:11,555 It's about simplicity. 789 01:03:11,581 --> 01:03:13,986 We could call it Deep Simplicity. 790 01:03:15,541 --> 01:03:18,081 [DEEP SIMPLICITY] 791 01:03:22,667 --> 01:03:29,047 The last few days, we've touched simplicity in so many ways. 792 01:03:29,384 --> 01:03:31,575 We've done all sorts of normal things. 793 01:03:31,600 --> 01:03:33,899 I hope you noticed everything we did is quite normal. 794 01:03:33,924 --> 01:03:35,683 We walked. We ate. 795 01:03:35,708 --> 01:03:37,388 We had conversations. 796 01:03:37,413 --> 01:03:41,750 We listened to presentations. 797 01:03:41,775 --> 01:03:44,190 We sat. We laid down. 798 01:03:45,268 --> 01:03:48,767 But we did it in a way that was restful and healing. 799 01:03:49,641 --> 01:03:52,121 One question coming away from this retreat is: 800 01:03:52,152 --> 01:03:57,456 How can I have more of this restful simplicity in my daily life? 801 01:03:58,496 --> 01:04:01,585 If we have the advantage of working from home, 802 01:04:02,143 --> 01:04:04,865 maybe you, after having lunch, 803 01:04:04,889 --> 01:04:09,497 you can follow a ten or twenty minute relaxation on the Plum Village app. 804 01:04:09,542 --> 01:04:12,142 That's a great joy of working from home. 805 01:04:12,250 --> 01:04:16,400 In the newsroom, I had to use the toilet cubicle 806 01:04:16,425 --> 01:04:19,615 for my body scan relaxations. 807 01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:22,949 Luckily, the toilets were very fancy. 808 01:04:25,635 --> 01:04:28,492 That's where I did my deep relaxation 809 01:04:28,611 --> 01:04:29,978 in moments of crisis. 810 01:04:30,003 --> 01:04:35,503 This is another thing: Relaxation can be applied in moments of real panic. 811 01:04:35,828 --> 01:04:43,099 I used to work on a live TV show and we lost our guest at 9 am. 812 01:04:43,182 --> 01:04:45,529 And we broadcast at 2 pm. 813 01:04:45,855 --> 01:04:49,529 My boss just said: "Find a replacement!" 814 01:04:50,324 --> 01:04:51,805 And I was like ... (gulps). 815 01:04:51,917 --> 01:04:54,351 I realised I wasn't breathing and thought: I know what to do. 816 01:04:54,557 --> 01:04:59,660 So I went to sit on the toilet and do my deep relaxation. 817 01:05:01,684 --> 01:05:05,660 And it's amazing because the mind that exited that body scan 818 01:05:05,685 --> 01:05:09,404 after 10 or 15 minutes was so much clearer and calmer. 819 01:05:09,833 --> 01:05:13,033 It had so much more resources to solve the problem. 820 01:05:13,444 --> 01:05:15,690 So, deep relaxation 821 01:05:15,788 --> 01:05:17,660 a bit of a tip here. 822 01:05:17,851 --> 01:05:20,251 You can use it in moments of crisis. 823 01:05:22,662 --> 01:05:27,218 So: Deep Simplicity. We've had rest and deep relaxation. 824 01:05:27,694 --> 01:05:29,708 We've also had time in nature. 825 01:05:32,477 --> 01:05:36,192 It's very important to spend time in the world we want to save. 826 01:05:36,274 --> 01:05:40,017 That's what we want to transmit to future generations. 827 01:05:40,042 --> 01:05:43,632 A love and an intimacy with the world we want to protect. 828 01:05:44,363 --> 01:05:46,908 So, coming back home from this retreat, 829 01:05:47,003 --> 01:05:48,695 how will you make sure -- 830 01:05:48,720 --> 01:05:52,059 maybe it needs to be a scheduled item in your calendar 831 01:05:52,390 --> 01:05:54,121 called: Time in nature. 832 01:05:54,660 --> 01:05:57,049 Whether it is one tree near your office, 833 01:05:57,074 --> 01:06:00,680 this one park, one corner of garden. 834 01:06:01,355 --> 01:06:03,648 The plants on your window sill. 835 01:06:03,673 --> 01:06:07,173 And you sit and enjoy being with the plants while having a cup of tea. 836 01:06:07,402 --> 01:06:11,728 How will you spend time, in silence, with nature, 837 01:06:12,546 --> 01:06:15,295 and enjoy that simple happiness 838 01:06:15,852 --> 01:06:18,996 that feeling of enough-ness. 839 01:06:21,631 --> 01:06:23,914 Another element of this retreat 840 01:06:23,939 --> 01:06:26,263 that has made the simplicity so delicious 841 01:06:26,347 --> 01:06:29,910 has been that we've enjoyed this retreat in person. 842 01:06:29,958 --> 01:06:31,670 With other people. 843 01:06:31,827 --> 01:06:34,486 We are social beings. 844 01:06:34,986 --> 01:06:39,073 How, as teams, with family, with friends, 845 01:06:39,133 --> 01:06:42,653 can we make an effort, or organise our life differently, 846 01:06:43,493 --> 01:06:48,478 so that we truly have in-person quality time together? 847 01:06:49,000 --> 01:06:51,293 I would say that is an ethical principle. 848 01:06:52,057 --> 01:06:53,684 To show up. 849 01:06:54,407 --> 01:06:58,029 In Buddhism, community is so important. 850 01:06:58,371 --> 01:07:00,626 One of our principles of being in community 851 01:07:00,667 --> 01:07:02,533 is to gather under one roof. 852 01:07:03,614 --> 01:07:06,514 So we have to gather in person, in real life, 853 01:07:06,543 --> 01:07:08,810 under one roof, with those we love. 854 01:07:09,472 --> 01:07:11,692 This life is very short. 855 01:07:12,232 --> 01:07:13,950 Life is very short. 856 01:07:14,650 --> 01:07:19,420 It is truly nourishing and fulfilling to be with people we care about. 857 01:07:23,158 --> 01:07:25,674 I spoke about enough-ness. 858 01:07:29,557 --> 01:07:32,470 In Buddhism, we say: 859 01:07:33,128 --> 01:07:36,345 this is partly because of something I said at the beginning 860 01:07:36,417 --> 01:07:39,855 about the present moment containing the past and the future, 861 01:07:40,672 --> 01:07:42,636 that is why we can say 862 01:07:42,809 --> 01:07:46,714 that this moment is enough. 863 01:07:47,999 --> 01:07:50,055 It is enough. 864 01:07:52,032 --> 01:07:56,432 In this moment, each one of us is enough. 865 01:07:57,006 --> 01:07:58,529 I am enough. 866 01:07:59,122 --> 01:08:00,765 You are enough. 867 01:08:05,813 --> 01:08:09,027 As Brother Spirit shared, there was that line: 868 01:08:09,441 --> 01:08:12,535 You already are what you want to become. 869 01:08:13,870 --> 01:08:17,386 This insight belongs to the ultimate dimension. 870 01:08:19,585 --> 01:08:22,021 The insight of enough-ness. 871 01:08:24,272 --> 01:08:27,994 In our daily life, each one of us 872 01:08:28,398 --> 01:08:32,432 needs to find a way to kind of cycle into 873 01:08:32,829 --> 01:08:36,347 that beautiful ultimate dimension and spend some time 874 01:08:37,025 --> 01:08:39,044 in a moment of enough-ness. 875 01:08:40,327 --> 01:08:44,359 Maybe five minutes in the morning, while you enjoy a cup of tea. 876 01:08:45,758 --> 01:08:52,009 It may be the ten minutes of relaxation after a really difficult work morning. 877 01:08:53,312 --> 01:08:56,384 It might be sitting down for a meal with family and friends 878 01:08:56,409 --> 01:08:58,876 and just saying silently to yourself: 879 01:08:59,054 --> 01:09:00,886 This is enough. 880 01:09:01,188 --> 01:09:03,021 This IS enough. 881 01:09:03,556 --> 01:09:05,210 We are enough. 882 01:09:06,234 --> 01:09:10,603 And that sense of living in the present moment 883 01:09:10,667 --> 01:09:13,675 is ultimately the only moment that is available. 884 01:09:14,256 --> 01:09:17,567 It's a truism, but it's still so true! 885 01:09:18,860 --> 01:09:21,716 That future is not there and will never be there. 886 01:09:21,741 --> 01:09:24,208 There will only be present moments. 887 01:09:24,295 --> 01:09:26,650 And if we can't enjoy this present moment, 888 01:09:26,675 --> 01:09:30,416 how will future generations ever know how to enjoy a present moment? 889 01:09:31,736 --> 01:09:35,549 So we cycle in to this insight of enough-ness. 890 01:09:35,732 --> 01:09:38,101 This is enough. I am enough. 891 01:09:38,126 --> 01:09:40,432 And we make it a training and a practise. 892 01:09:40,457 --> 01:09:42,686 In Buddhism we speak about koans. 893 01:09:42,980 --> 01:09:44,525 Write it on a piece of paper. 894 01:09:44,625 --> 01:09:47,450 Maybe Brother Phap Huu can do some calligraphies. 895 01:09:47,855 --> 01:09:52,448 Put it somewhere where you might like to sit and enjoy a cup of tea. 896 01:09:52,567 --> 01:09:57,325 And you breathe and touch that insight that you are enough. 897 01:09:57,557 --> 01:10:00,938 Because if we spend 24 hours a day 898 01:10:01,319 --> 01:10:03,319 feeling that we're not enough. 899 01:10:03,527 --> 01:10:06,297 We are corroding our humanity 900 01:10:06,322 --> 01:10:09,330 and corroding our access to the wonders of life. 901 01:10:10,456 --> 01:10:12,676 It's a real training. 902 01:10:13,470 --> 01:10:17,958 There was something a journalist once asked our teacher. 903 01:10:17,958 --> 01:10:23,910 "Are you an optimist or a pessimist when it comes to environmental issues? 904 01:10:24,681 --> 01:10:27,918 It was a journalist from The Independent in the UK. 905 01:10:28,902 --> 01:10:34,355 And I thought: How will Thay handle this? 906 01:10:35,307 --> 01:10:39,240 Thay was very tired during the whole interview. 907 01:10:39,526 --> 01:10:43,110 Thay was quiet for a very long time and suddenly he went: 908 01:10:43,345 --> 01:10:45,365 An optimist! 909 01:10:46,105 --> 01:10:49,406 And I thought: OK! What is he going to say now? 910 01:10:50,780 --> 01:10:52,319 And he said: 911 01:10:56,265 --> 01:11:02,382 We can be at peace because we know we've done our best. 912 01:11:03,771 --> 01:11:07,841 We are doing our best and we know we have done our best. 913 01:11:09,137 --> 01:11:11,216 In his optimism 914 01:11:11,375 --> 01:11:16,494 was also the seed of trust in the ripening of his seeds. 915 01:11:17,994 --> 01:11:21,539 We do our best and that is why we can have peace. 916 01:11:21,564 --> 01:11:24,494 And that is why you can guard for yourself 917 01:11:24,519 --> 01:11:27,720 five minutes of saying "I am enough." 918 01:11:27,944 --> 01:11:30,976 "We are enough." "My team is enough." 919 01:11:31,095 --> 01:11:33,242 "My organisation is enough." 920 01:11:33,495 --> 01:11:35,821 Because we are doing our best. 921 01:11:36,257 --> 01:11:38,511 And that is why we can have peace. 922 01:11:38,992 --> 01:11:40,856 And at the same time, 923 01:11:41,525 --> 01:11:43,978 we can cycle out of the ultimate 924 01:11:44,494 --> 01:11:47,835 and always challenge ourselves: "Am I doing my best?" 925 01:11:48,180 --> 01:11:50,847 And our friends can also challenge us. 926 01:11:51,685 --> 01:11:54,160 So we spend time in the ultimate. 927 01:11:54,185 --> 01:11:56,454 It's very nice, every day, a few minutes. 928 01:11:57,071 --> 01:12:00,079 And we come back out and really keep challenging 929 01:12:00,147 --> 01:12:02,269 in that pragmatic, historical realm 930 01:12:03,095 --> 01:12:04,410 "What else could we do?" 931 01:12:04,435 --> 01:12:07,162 But not with a feeling of scarcity, 932 01:12:07,187 --> 01:12:09,148 but one of possibility. 933 01:12:09,211 --> 01:12:11,013 What else could we do? 934 01:12:16,206 --> 01:12:17,968 And we can ask ourselves: 935 01:12:18,333 --> 01:12:21,311 Are we asking the right questions? 936 01:12:21,375 --> 01:12:23,980 about our culture of consumerism? 937 01:12:24,123 --> 01:12:29,166 Are we asking the right questions about economic systems? 938 01:12:30,541 --> 01:12:32,143 That is quite a challenge. 939 01:12:32,303 --> 01:12:34,242 And I think in the B Team as an organisation, 940 01:12:34,267 --> 01:12:36,599 this is something you're concerned with. 941 01:12:36,676 --> 01:12:40,263 I think, with Global Optimism, this is what you're concerned with. 942 01:12:40,312 --> 01:12:43,027 Are we asking the right questions of the problem? 943 01:12:43,075 --> 01:12:45,236 Have we defined the problem? 944 01:12:46,465 --> 01:12:49,688 If we want to challenge or transform 945 01:12:50,550 --> 01:12:55,819 our individualistic, consumerist, capitalist culture, 946 01:12:56,086 --> 01:13:00,184 we can ask questions I heard this morning: Is there enough love in it? 947 01:13:01,294 --> 01:13:03,521 What is the role of love there? 948 01:13:03,625 --> 01:13:07,593 Is there love in our organisations? Is there love in our teams? 949 01:13:07,668 --> 01:13:10,625 How can we bring compassion into this? 950 01:13:11,617 --> 01:13:15,043 How can we question things that we're not yet questioning? 951 01:13:17,210 --> 01:13:21,904 In this principle of Deep Simplicity, we say: 952 01:13:22,461 --> 01:13:28,140 Aware of the suffering caused by exploitation, social injustice, 953 01:13:28,307 --> 01:13:30,807 stealing and oppression, 954 01:13:47,111 --> 01:13:51,259 Aware of the suffering caused by exploitation, social injustice, 955 01:13:51,283 --> 01:13:53,203 stealing and oppression, 956 01:13:53,228 --> 01:13:56,701 i am committed to practising generosity 957 01:13:56,947 --> 01:14:00,539 in my thinking, speaking and acting. 958 01:14:01,192 --> 01:14:03,732 I am determined not to steal 959 01:14:03,928 --> 01:14:08,200 and not to possess anything that should belong to others. 960 01:14:08,829 --> 01:14:10,583 And I will share my time, 961 01:14:10,875 --> 01:14:14,075 energy and material resources 962 01:14:14,319 --> 01:14:16,289 with those who are in need. 963 01:14:17,385 --> 01:14:19,984 There's a bit more, and then another line is: 964 01:14:20,126 --> 01:14:23,055 I am committed to practising Right Livelihood. 965 01:14:23,666 --> 01:14:27,324 so that I can help reduce the suffering of living beings on Earth 966 01:14:28,069 --> 01:14:31,087 and stop contributing to climate change. 967 01:14:33,309 --> 01:14:37,380 This second ethical principle, we can practise and embody 968 01:14:37,581 --> 01:14:42,569 as an individual, but we can also apply it at an organisational level. 969 01:14:46,368 --> 01:14:49,781 I was very happy to discover that the B Team 970 01:14:49,934 --> 01:14:53,257 has some responsible tax principles. 971 01:14:53,924 --> 01:14:57,470 I don't know if there's anyone here who's involved in that particular project. 972 01:14:57,517 --> 01:14:59,509 OK! Thank you so much! 973 01:14:59,730 --> 01:15:05,353 So, it's a wonderful way of applying this ethical principle 974 01:15:05,448 --> 01:15:07,289 to organisations. 975 01:15:07,391 --> 01:15:11,908 How can organisations be transparent and have transparent tax practises? 976 01:15:12,051 --> 01:15:15,517 That it's not all about avoiding and obfuscating 977 01:15:15,667 --> 01:15:20,208 and calibrating, but there's genuine ethical integrity 978 01:15:20,250 --> 01:15:24,858 at the organisational level about the need to contribute back to society. 979 01:15:25,479 --> 01:15:30,657 This is applying the line "I'm determined not to steal 980 01:15:30,682 --> 01:15:34,214 and not to possess anything that should belong to others." 981 01:15:34,254 --> 01:15:39,140 We can say that the principle of taxation applied by a democratic system 982 01:15:40,506 --> 01:15:43,180 is about equity. It's about inclusion. 983 01:15:43,205 --> 01:15:46,539 We can't say that that profit belongs only to that company. 984 01:15:47,460 --> 01:15:51,658 Just like the whole cosmos is in the flower, or the apple, 985 01:15:51,667 --> 01:15:54,000 the whole cosmos is in that profit. 986 01:15:54,053 --> 01:15:58,305 So we share back that profit with the spirit of reciprocity. 987 01:15:59,876 --> 01:16:03,934 We could also apply that principle of reciprocity maybe to 988 01:16:05,023 --> 01:16:07,741 I'm just going to throw out some ideas, they may be controversial, 989 01:16:07,773 --> 01:16:10,148 but I'll be brave, 990 01:16:10,476 --> 01:16:13,404 salary ratios in organisations. 991 01:16:13,508 --> 01:16:16,551 Between the top of the organisation and the bottom. 992 01:16:16,655 --> 01:16:19,321 Maybe there can be some ethical principles. 993 01:16:19,353 --> 01:16:21,797 We're taking the work on the tax framework 994 01:16:21,874 --> 01:16:25,404 Can we also have another ethical framework about salaries? 995 01:16:26,597 --> 01:16:29,111 And with this ethical principle -- 996 01:16:29,136 --> 01:16:33,716 I will hand you all out a copy of this sheet, don't worry. 997 01:16:33,855 --> 01:16:36,743 With this ethical principle, we can say 998 01:16:36,825 --> 01:16:40,672 that fossil fuel subsidies are not ethically OK. 999 01:16:41,817 --> 01:16:44,954 It is a simple moral truth. 1000 01:16:46,008 --> 01:16:48,986 This gives us the language to describe that. 1001 01:16:49,440 --> 01:16:53,543 It is not possible to use shared resources 1002 01:16:53,987 --> 01:16:57,067 to subsidise something that is destroying the planet. 1003 01:16:57,417 --> 01:16:59,571 That is ethically not acceptable. 1004 01:17:00,276 --> 01:17:02,603 And as Buddhists, 1005 01:17:02,750 --> 01:17:05,563 we can feel fearless just to name it. 1006 01:17:05,588 --> 01:17:10,527 And we can support others to also name it in the language of ethics. 1007 01:17:13,523 --> 01:17:15,923 I know that being bold and brave 1008 01:17:16,000 --> 01:17:17,904 is part of the B Team's mission. 1009 01:17:17,929 --> 01:17:19,769 I'm just kind of going there. 1010 01:17:20,767 --> 01:17:24,095 There has been some interesting research. 1011 01:17:24,133 --> 01:17:27,287 I recently saw a paper published last year. 1012 01:17:29,230 --> 01:17:34,656 about how our economic system is still globally inequitable. 1013 01:17:34,883 --> 01:17:37,829 There was some very powerful research 1014 01:17:38,485 --> 01:17:42,027 revealing the drain from the Global South 1015 01:17:42,083 --> 01:17:45,525 through the unequal exchange of resources. 1016 01:17:46,678 --> 01:17:48,890 There was a very powerful way 1017 01:17:48,915 --> 01:17:54,966 of measuring labour, land, resources, investment, 1018 01:17:55,037 --> 01:17:58,565 that is being done in the Global South to make it possible 1019 01:17:58,590 --> 01:18:00,590 to have the economies of the Global North. 1020 01:18:00,674 --> 01:18:02,398 And this paper concluded 1021 01:18:02,671 --> 01:18:05,004 that colonialism is still operating 1022 01:18:05,105 --> 01:18:06,986 at the economic level 1023 01:18:07,010 --> 01:18:10,082 however much we tell ourselves stories otherwise. 1024 01:18:11,462 --> 01:18:13,662 We could apply this ethical principle 1025 01:18:13,708 --> 01:18:15,849 to a commentary on that. 1026 01:18:18,128 --> 01:18:21,976 With this ethical principle also about not taking, 1027 01:18:22,989 --> 01:18:26,109 not stealing, not taking, being generous, 1028 01:18:26,375 --> 01:18:29,966 we can recognise that we live on a finite planet. 1029 01:18:30,022 --> 01:18:34,769 And that must mean: Finite growth of a certain kind. 1030 01:18:35,357 --> 01:18:39,432 We cannot have infinite growth on a finite planet. 1031 01:18:41,677 --> 01:18:45,043 I also remember a journalist ... I can't remember if it was you, Jo. 1032 01:18:45,068 --> 01:18:46,932 I don't know if Jo is sitting here somewhere. 1033 01:18:46,972 --> 01:18:50,758 I wasn't hearing his loud laughter. So maybe that's why. 1034 01:18:51,594 --> 01:18:56,094 I think it might have been Jo who asked Thay once 1035 01:18:56,255 --> 01:18:59,109 when Thay was teaching at Nottingham University in the UK, 1036 01:18:59,167 --> 01:19:01,815 and he asked him: "But Thay ... 1037 01:19:02,220 --> 01:19:04,186 you do like growth as a principle. 1038 01:19:04,292 --> 01:19:06,425 You want to grow your monastery. 1039 01:19:06,450 --> 01:19:08,470 You want to grow your reach and impact. 1040 01:19:08,495 --> 01:19:10,637 You want lots of people to hear your dharma. 1041 01:19:10,805 --> 01:19:13,321 So you can't be anti-growth." 1042 01:19:14,093 --> 01:19:17,924 And Thay, he smiled. He quite likes people being cheeky. 1043 01:19:18,835 --> 01:19:21,317 He smiled and said: 1044 01:19:21,823 --> 01:19:25,611 "That is true. But we know what we want to grow. 1045 01:19:27,467 --> 01:19:30,294 We want to grow compassion. We want to grow wisdom. 1046 01:19:30,458 --> 01:19:34,361 We want to grow community spirit, a sense of community. 1047 01:19:35,353 --> 01:19:38,654 And yes, we might need to grow in terms of resources. 1048 01:19:38,696 --> 01:19:40,464 But in the service of that. 1049 01:19:41,258 --> 01:19:45,290 We're not seeking growth for growth's sake or for profit itself." 1050 01:19:48,125 --> 01:19:49,757 (whispers) OK, I know. 1051 01:19:50,393 --> 01:19:53,154 We have a couple of other principles. 1052 01:19:53,552 --> 01:19:55,741 One is reverence for life. 1053 01:19:57,042 --> 01:20:03,961 [REVERENCE FOR LIFE] 1054 01:20:23,131 --> 01:20:28,249 Reverence for life also involves the spirit of non-violence 1055 01:20:28,464 --> 01:20:30,091 and not killing. 1056 01:20:30,432 --> 01:20:33,563 Not extracting. Not exploiting. 1057 01:20:36,635 --> 01:20:39,928 Aware of the suffering caysed by the destruction of life, 1058 01:20:39,958 --> 01:20:44,458 I'm committed to cultivating the insight of interbeing and compassion 1059 01:20:44,483 --> 01:20:47,291 and learning ways to protect the lives of people, 1060 01:20:47,364 --> 01:20:50,205 animals, plants and minerals. 1061 01:20:50,848 --> 01:20:53,190 I'm determined not to kill, 1062 01:20:53,468 --> 01:20:55,148 not to let others kill, 1063 01:20:55,302 --> 01:20:58,502 and not to support any active killing in the world 1064 01:20:58,675 --> 01:21:01,614 in my thinking, or in my way of life. 1065 01:21:02,936 --> 01:21:05,851 Seeing that harmful actions 1066 01:21:07,079 --> 01:21:09,493 arise from anger, 1067 01:21:10,069 --> 01:21:13,938 fear, greed, and intolerance, 1068 01:21:14,797 --> 01:21:18,307 which in turn come from dualistic and discriminative thinking, 1069 01:21:19,402 --> 01:21:23,202 I commit to cultivating 1070 01:21:23,578 --> 01:21:26,767 openness, non-discrimination, 1071 01:21:26,831 --> 01:21:28,918 and non-attachment to views 1072 01:21:29,236 --> 01:21:32,184 in order to help transform violence, 1073 01:21:32,319 --> 01:21:37,351 fanaticism and dogmatism in myself and in the world. 1074 01:21:38,987 --> 01:21:40,789 This is how we as Buddhists 1075 01:21:40,917 --> 01:21:43,650 apply the principle of Reverence for Life. 1076 01:21:45,663 --> 01:21:49,178 So caring for the world can be an intellectual idea, 1077 01:21:49,864 --> 01:21:53,269 or it can be a practise that we express with our body. 1078 01:21:56,510 --> 01:21:59,710 So we invite you to ask yourself this question. 1079 01:22:00,009 --> 01:22:02,767 I care for society, I care for the Earth, 1080 01:22:03,037 --> 01:22:07,067 how are my bodily actions showing that? 1081 01:22:09,750 --> 01:22:13,523 As you have realised, we do believe 1082 01:22:13,833 --> 01:22:17,861 that a plant-based diet is one very 1083 01:22:19,075 --> 01:22:23,898 possible and yet radical step that each one of us can go towards. 1084 01:22:24,502 --> 01:22:27,996 We're not judging or being dogmatic about it, 1085 01:22:28,021 --> 01:22:30,686 which is also a principle of this training. 1086 01:22:31,862 --> 01:22:33,542 In ethics, we're saying: 1087 01:22:33,792 --> 01:22:36,258 That is a direction we can all go in. 1088 01:22:36,283 --> 01:22:39,343 And it's an easy way to practise non-violence 1089 01:22:39,724 --> 01:22:41,164 in our daily life. 1090 01:22:45,958 --> 01:22:47,904 When we speak about 1091 01:22:51,254 --> 01:22:52,871 non-violence here, 1092 01:22:53,911 --> 01:23:00,126 sometimes we might think that this just relates to physical violence. 1093 01:23:00,913 --> 01:23:06,159 But we would also say that our thinking can be violent and extractive. 1094 01:23:07,129 --> 01:23:08,888 Our speaking can be violent. 1095 01:23:09,531 --> 01:23:13,160 As well as our behaviour. 1096 01:23:13,185 --> 01:23:15,585 Here, it could be our way of consuming. 1097 01:23:18,417 --> 01:23:20,538 We're also not absolutist. 1098 01:23:20,563 --> 01:23:23,569 This is a very interesting principle about Buddhist ethics. 1099 01:23:23,667 --> 01:23:25,467 If I had three hours today, 1100 01:23:25,492 --> 01:23:28,972 I could share with you some more of the criteria 1101 01:23:29,033 --> 01:23:33,124 about how we apply our principles in different situations. 1102 01:23:34,139 --> 01:23:39,387 One of them is that we never apply them in an absolutist, puritanical way. 1103 01:23:40,207 --> 01:23:43,690 And I know that in the B Team 1104 01:23:43,964 --> 01:23:48,816 and in many corporations who would like to go good things, 1105 01:23:48,841 --> 01:23:53,129 the danger is that you end up in the center of a circular firing squad. 1106 01:23:53,517 --> 01:23:56,410 Others are always pointing the finger 1107 01:23:56,436 --> 01:23:59,303 and we may have a fear of ethical principles 1108 01:23:59,329 --> 01:24:01,278 because we don't want them to become a stick 1109 01:24:01,303 --> 01:24:03,765 that we beat other people with. 1110 01:24:04,303 --> 01:24:06,970 So in the Buddhist principles of ethics, 1111 01:24:08,302 --> 01:24:09,982 they are not a stick. 1112 01:24:10,306 --> 01:24:12,973 We like to describe them as a North Star. 1113 01:24:13,042 --> 01:24:15,427 A direction of travel. 1114 01:24:16,449 --> 01:24:18,393 The applying of which 1115 01:24:18,553 --> 01:24:22,811 has a lot of space in it, a lot of compassion and patience. 1116 01:24:22,875 --> 01:24:24,883 A lot of openness. 1117 01:24:24,976 --> 01:24:29,446 And that first of all these principles are something that we ourselves do 1118 01:24:29,458 --> 01:24:34,261 as individuals, as teams, and as organisations. 1119 01:24:34,497 --> 01:24:36,669 So we kind of walk the talk. 1120 01:24:37,048 --> 01:24:40,767 The ethical principles are something we can have a conversation around. 1121 01:24:40,882 --> 01:24:45,355 But we don't use them to blame, to judge, or to punish. 1122 01:24:45,796 --> 01:24:47,948 That's something about Buddhist ethics. 1123 01:24:49,476 --> 01:24:51,572 Very briefly. 1124 01:24:52,704 --> 01:24:56,602 We've learnt a lot about another one 1125 01:24:56,625 --> 01:24:59,779 which is about compassionate communication. 1126 01:24:59,841 --> 01:25:01,774 [COMPASSIONATE COMMUNICATION] 1127 01:25:02,532 --> 01:25:04,814 I won't say much more about that. 1128 01:25:05,987 --> 01:25:07,371 But for us, 1129 01:25:09,916 --> 01:25:13,928 our way of communicating in integrity and honesty 1130 01:25:15,426 --> 01:25:18,120 while also being skillful 1131 01:25:19,950 --> 01:25:23,688 and patient, and aware of the impact of our words, 1132 01:25:24,071 --> 01:25:26,418 and we've learnt a lot about that this week. 1133 01:25:26,443 --> 01:25:29,307 The final principle is about True Love. 1134 01:25:29,332 --> 01:25:31,166 [TRUE LOVE] 1135 01:25:31,191 --> 01:25:34,135 What's really interesting about Buddhist ethics 1136 01:25:34,302 --> 01:25:37,059 is that we include our intimate relationships 1137 01:25:37,178 --> 01:25:43,813 in the orbit of our ethical action. 1138 01:25:45,375 --> 01:25:47,375 How we are with those we love. 1139 01:25:47,400 --> 01:25:49,717 Are we able to respect our partner? 1140 01:25:49,788 --> 01:25:52,997 Can we allow them to be different? 1141 01:25:53,284 --> 01:25:55,849 Can we embrace their shortcomings? 1142 01:25:55,943 --> 01:25:58,151 Can we help them transform their suffering? 1143 01:25:58,971 --> 01:26:02,031 How can we see them as a wonder of life? 1144 01:26:02,056 --> 01:26:04,174 How can we not take them for granted? 1145 01:26:10,500 --> 01:26:14,276 When we say what can Buddhists contribute to a global ethic, 1146 01:26:14,750 --> 01:26:18,828 we might say that maybe the B Team 1147 01:26:18,875 --> 01:26:25,503 could develop some kind of compassionate ethics 1148 01:26:26,324 --> 01:26:30,020 to bring -- and I will now pass around -- 1149 01:26:47,749 --> 01:26:49,654 For some of the home team, 1150 01:26:50,033 --> 01:26:51,632 You don't need to see them. 1151 01:26:51,695 --> 01:26:54,604 I only printed 40 copies to save paper. 1152 01:26:54,771 --> 01:26:58,890 Those are the five mindfulness trainings, the Plum Village vision 1153 01:26:58,998 --> 01:27:03,198 of ethics and what we could call global spirituality. 1154 01:27:04,088 --> 01:27:06,904 Wouldn't it be an interesting challenge 1155 01:27:07,487 --> 01:27:12,751 to see if there could be a written code just like the tax principles? 1156 01:27:13,255 --> 01:27:16,454 If there could be a written code to express the kind of ethics 1157 01:27:16,493 --> 01:27:19,426 we would like to see in our corporate world. 1158 01:27:21,686 --> 01:27:23,826 So this text that you see, 1159 01:27:23,851 --> 01:27:26,818 our teacher has been evolving over time 1160 01:27:26,843 --> 01:27:30,827 and he was very passionate about renewing it in 2009, 1161 01:27:30,900 --> 01:27:34,990 and the latest update was last year. 1162 01:27:35,034 --> 01:27:37,556 It's something we're continuing to evolve. 1163 01:27:37,581 --> 01:27:38,999 It's a living document. 1164 01:27:40,534 --> 01:27:45,278 We should not be afraid to define our values. 1165 01:27:45,958 --> 01:27:51,031 I think sometimes, because we're here in Europe 1166 01:27:51,097 --> 01:27:55,495 oh, I don't want to say that, what do I want to say? 1167 01:27:56,744 --> 01:28:00,498 In the Judeo-Christian north, is that what I want to say? 1168 01:28:01,898 --> 01:28:04,978 We're in a slightly post-religious era. 1169 01:28:05,382 --> 01:28:10,482 And we get very afraid about defining ethics 1170 01:28:10,583 --> 01:28:12,583 and a moral compass. 1171 01:28:13,124 --> 01:28:17,763 Our teacher has taught our community that we don't need to be afraid 1172 01:28:17,825 --> 01:28:21,150 about saying what is right and what is wrong 1173 01:28:21,175 --> 01:28:22,516 in the light of suffering. 1174 01:28:22,542 --> 01:28:24,862 So as you see each of those principles, 1175 01:28:24,887 --> 01:28:29,035 it's framed by awareness of the suffering caused by certain actions. 1176 01:28:29,578 --> 01:28:31,901 Based on our insight into suffering, 1177 01:28:32,042 --> 01:28:34,506 we can come up with behaviours 1178 01:28:34,559 --> 01:28:39,021 to reduce suffering in ourselves, our family and the world. 1179 01:28:39,948 --> 01:28:43,250 And it's OK to define harmful behaviours. 1180 01:28:45,046 --> 01:28:47,469 Sometimes we can feel that we don't want to shame others. 1181 01:28:47,500 --> 01:28:49,868 Something I've learnt here in this community 1182 01:28:49,956 --> 01:28:53,130 is that we can say: "That behaviour is not OK" 1183 01:28:53,314 --> 01:28:55,309 while still loving the person. 1184 01:28:56,681 --> 01:28:59,153 We love the person for who they are 1185 01:28:59,193 --> 01:29:02,698 and we recognise that all humans have shortcomings. 1186 01:29:03,165 --> 01:29:04,765 And yet we can still 1187 01:29:07,646 --> 01:29:11,772 point out that this or that action is not correct 1188 01:29:11,797 --> 01:29:13,585 and it's not ethical. 1189 01:29:13,701 --> 01:29:16,645 And as a society, we have to have that courage 1190 01:29:16,670 --> 01:29:18,873 to have an open conversation. 1191 01:29:19,649 --> 01:29:21,383 And to trust in ourselves. 1192 01:29:21,542 --> 01:29:24,408 And to trust in the wisdom of our ancestors. 1193 01:29:28,438 --> 01:29:31,963 I want to finish with something that our teacher said. 1194 01:29:32,802 --> 01:29:35,571 It came up in our group the other day. 1195 01:29:39,143 --> 01:29:44,499 In the realm of ethics and spirituality, 1196 01:29:45,743 --> 01:29:50,575 we cannot allow "others" 1197 01:29:52,269 --> 01:29:56,179 to monopolise God and spirituality. 1198 01:29:57,149 --> 01:30:01,796 And to use it in the service of intolerance, 1199 01:30:02,056 --> 01:30:08,253 hatred, discrimination, dogmatism, even craving and greed. 1200 01:30:09,277 --> 01:30:14,717 We cannot allow others to monopolise, he even used the word "hijack", 1201 01:30:15,224 --> 01:30:17,815 to hijack God and spirituality 1202 01:30:18,003 --> 01:30:20,355 in the service of those things. 1203 01:30:21,575 --> 01:30:24,692 I may be thinking that the others here ... 1204 01:30:24,958 --> 01:30:27,890 I don't know if I need to spell it out. 1205 01:30:28,957 --> 01:30:32,705 If we think of the conservative Christian right, 1206 01:30:33,897 --> 01:30:37,706 we can ask: Have they hijacked God 1207 01:30:38,204 --> 01:30:45,105 in the service of intolerance, hatred, discrimination, dogmatism 1208 01:30:45,294 --> 01:30:47,732 and even craving or greed? 1209 01:30:47,892 --> 01:30:51,307 To take care of themselves, their own survival, 1210 01:30:51,444 --> 01:30:53,247 the survival of the few. 1211 01:30:53,653 --> 01:30:55,681 The few who have the same beliefs. 1212 01:30:55,875 --> 01:30:59,021 The same values. The same ethnicity. 1213 01:31:02,328 --> 01:31:07,244 And our teacher was asked 1214 01:31:07,532 --> 01:31:12,029 after John Kerry lost the election in 2005, 1215 01:31:12,451 --> 01:31:13,995 a very narrow margin, 1216 01:31:14,974 --> 01:31:15,974 by some counts, 1217 01:31:18,375 --> 01:31:19,853 he was asked: 1218 01:31:21,894 --> 01:31:23,670 How is it possible? 1219 01:31:24,323 --> 01:31:30,478 Why did ... why did the goodness of the country fail in that moment? 1220 01:31:31,482 --> 01:31:35,024 That was 2005. We've all lived through 2016. 1221 01:31:35,174 --> 01:31:39,821 It was traumatic for people in the US and traumatic for people in the UK. 1222 01:31:43,621 --> 01:31:45,398 This is what Thay said: 1223 01:31:45,675 --> 01:31:50,451 "I think if the Democratic Party didn't succeed this time, 1224 01:31:51,144 --> 01:31:54,450 it is because they lacked a spiritual dimension. 1225 01:31:56,513 --> 01:31:59,979 They allowed the other side to monopolise God, 1226 01:32:00,304 --> 01:32:03,492 to hijack God, in the direction of division, 1227 01:32:03,863 --> 01:32:07,716 hate, discrimination, non-tolerance. 1228 01:32:09,178 --> 01:32:13,380 And they want to suggest the other side is condoning 1229 01:32:14,958 --> 01:32:19,563 all sorts of things that they claim go against the will of God." 1230 01:32:20,518 --> 01:32:24,318 And Thay said: "This is fundamentalist thinking. 1231 01:32:25,270 --> 01:32:27,151 It's dangerous thinking." 1232 01:32:27,614 --> 01:32:29,041 And then he said: 1233 01:32:29,766 --> 01:32:32,842 "We need a God of compassion. 1234 01:32:32,878 --> 01:32:35,621 We need a God of non-discrimination. 1235 01:32:36,100 --> 01:32:40,286 A God of tolerance. We need a God of love. 1236 01:32:41,301 --> 01:32:44,565 And if we don't come together and practise together, 1237 01:32:44,669 --> 01:32:49,514 in order to bring the spiritual dimension into our daily life, 1238 01:32:50,052 --> 01:32:52,852 I guess that we will not be able to succeed 1239 01:32:53,248 --> 01:32:54,902 in our future attempts. 1240 01:32:57,250 --> 01:33:02,155 To be spiritual is not something very far from our daily life." 1241 01:33:02,728 --> 01:33:04,906 So if you've never heard our teacher speak, 1242 01:33:05,012 --> 01:33:09,403 he used God as a way to describe the ultimate dimension. 1243 01:33:09,778 --> 01:33:12,208 His God is very inclusive. 1244 01:33:13,949 --> 01:33:17,210 Of the gods that many of us might recognise in our upbringing 1245 01:33:17,235 --> 01:33:19,785 and that many of us still hold dear. 1246 01:33:22,052 --> 01:33:25,892 So, to be spiritual is something not far from our daily life. 1247 01:33:26,133 --> 01:33:28,978 "We are spiritual in the way we drink our tea," he said. 1248 01:33:29,199 --> 01:33:30,719 In the way we walk. 1249 01:33:32,314 --> 01:33:35,969 In the way, when people say something with hatred and anger, 1250 01:33:36,182 --> 01:33:40,061 our response can carry spirituality in it. 1251 01:33:40,836 --> 01:33:43,209 That's the compassionate communication. 1252 01:33:44,664 --> 01:33:46,344 "That is spirituality. 1253 01:33:46,369 --> 01:33:48,914 That is a training. That is life." 1254 01:33:51,833 --> 01:33:54,781 And then he said: "This is why peace 1255 01:33:54,843 --> 01:33:59,931 social justice and equality should always begin with ourselves. 1256 01:34:00,590 --> 01:34:03,617 We have to learn to deal with ourselves, 1257 01:34:03,705 --> 01:34:06,105 to handle ourselves with compassion, 1258 01:34:06,677 --> 01:34:09,941 so that we can be with our families with compassion 1259 01:34:10,154 --> 01:34:12,554 and help other families do the same. 1260 01:34:12,650 --> 01:34:15,550 And that is the spirit of community-building. 1261 01:34:17,235 --> 01:34:18,291 Even ... " 1262 01:34:18,316 --> 01:34:20,350 This is a really amazing line. 1263 01:34:20,457 --> 01:34:24,804 "Even if you have a perfect analysis of the situation. 1264 01:34:26,108 --> 01:34:29,735 Even if you have a plan of action that is perfect. 1265 01:34:30,325 --> 01:34:34,180 Without this kind of spiritual training or practise, 1266 01:34:34,583 --> 01:34:39,448 without a spiritual dimension to your way of being and doing, 1267 01:34:40,103 --> 01:34:42,579 I don't think that you can succeed." 1268 01:34:44,559 --> 01:34:45,559 And then he said: 1269 01:34:45,757 --> 01:34:47,321 (laughs) "Thank you." 1270 01:34:47,356 --> 01:34:48,656 [laughter] 1271 01:34:49,294 --> 01:34:51,103 I would also like to thank you. 1272 01:34:51,183 --> 01:34:55,353 Thank you for your patience. For listening to me. 1273 01:34:59,792 --> 01:35:03,964 I have done my best. And that is why I can be at peace. 1274 01:35:11,049 --> 01:35:14,170 [sound of the bell] 1275 01:35:31,209 --> 01:35:35,351 [sound of the bell] 1276 01:35:53,100 --> 01:35:57,050 [sound of the bell] 1277 01:36:12,142 --> 01:36:13,738 [chime]