[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:04.46,0:00:09.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kam nje shoqe ne Facebook,\Njeta e te ciles duket perfekte. Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.39,0:00:11.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ajo jeton ne nje shtepi te bukur. Dialogue: 0,0:00:11.77,0:00:14.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe ka nje karriere mjaft te sukseshme. Dialogue: 0,0:00:14.46,0:00:15.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe ajo dhe familja e saj shkojne sebashku Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.66,0:00:19.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne te gjithe ato adventura\Ninteresante fundajvave Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.27,0:00:20.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe betohem qe marrin Dialogue: 0,0:00:20.78,0:00:22.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nje fotograf profesional bashke me to. Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.88,0:00:24.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Te qeshura) Dialogue: 0,0:00:24.23,0:00:26.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sepse pavaresisht \Nku shkojne apo cfare bejne, Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.56,0:00:29.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,e gjithe familja thjesht duket e bukur. Dialogue: 0,0:00:29.50,0:00:33.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe gjithmone poston se sa e bekuar eshte, Dialogue: 0,0:00:33.27,0:00:36.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe sa mirenjohese eshte per jeten qe ka. Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.27,0:00:39.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Une marr ndjesine qe ajo nuk i thote keto Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.18,0:00:43.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,vetem per hir te Facebook-ut \Npor i ka me te vertete. Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.51,0:00:48.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sa nga ju keni nje shoqe te tille? Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.56,0:00:50.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe sa nga ju Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.51,0:00:53.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pak a shume nuk ju pelqen\Nai person ndonjehere? Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.41,0:00:56.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Te qeshura) Dialogue: 0,0:00:56.22,0:00:58.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Te gjithe e bejme kete, apo jo? Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.80,0:01:00.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Eshte veshtire te mos e besh. Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.74,0:01:04.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por menyra e te menduarit \Nna kushton ne dicka. Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.55,0:01:06.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe per kete dua te ju flas sot - Dialogue: 0,0:01:06.96,0:01:10.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eshte cfare zakonet tona te keqija\Nna kushtojne ne. Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.88,0:01:13.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ndoshta levizni faqen e Facebook-ut Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.22,0:01:15.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe mendoni, "E cfare neqoftese\Ni rrotulloj syte? Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.69,0:01:18.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Eshte vetem pese sekonda. Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.22,0:01:20.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Si mund te lendoj dicka e tille?" Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.58,0:01:22.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kerkuesit kane gjetur Dialogue: 0,0:01:22.25,0:01:25.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,se te kesh zili miqte e tu ne Facebook, Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.21,0:01:28.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,te con ne depresion. Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.08,0:01:32.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ajo eshte vetem nje nga kurthet\Nqe mendjet tone mund te na vejne. Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.02,0:01:35.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jeni ankuar ndonjehere per shefin tuaj? Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.46,0:01:37.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ose keni pare jetet e miqeve tuaj \Ndhe keni menduar, Dialogue: 0,0:01:37.79,0:01:40.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Pse kane kaq shume fat"? Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.47,0:01:43.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nuk mund te ndaloni\Nse menduari ashtu,apo jo? Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.03,0:01:45.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Menyra e te menduarit \Nduket e vogel ne ate moment. Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.86,0:01:49.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne fakt,mund te ju bej ju te ndiheni\Nmire ne moment. Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.69,0:01:55.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por ajo menyre mendimi esht duke konsumuar\Nfuqine tuaj mendore. Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.05,0:01:57.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ka tre lloje besimesh destruktive Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.77,0:01:59.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,qe na bejne ne te ndihemi me pak efektive, Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.85,0:02:03.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe na vjedhin fuqine tone mendore. Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.06,0:02:07.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,E para eshte besimet jo te shendetshme\Nper veten tone. Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.85,0:02:10.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne kemi te tendencen te ndjehemi keq \Nper veten tone. Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.72,0:02:14.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe pse eshte OK te merzitemi \Nkur dicka e keqe ndodh, Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.42,0:02:16.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Keqardhja per veten shkon larg. Dialogue: 0,0:02:16.22,0:02:19.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Eshte kur fillon te terheqesh fatin e keq. Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.08,0:02:20.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kur mendon gjera si, Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.67,0:02:23.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Pse keto gjera gjithmone me ndodhin mua?" Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.04,0:02:25.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Nuk duhet te merrem me ate." Dialogue: 0,0:02:25.88,0:02:27.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ajo menyre e te menduarit\Nju mban te ngecur, Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.76,0:02:29.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ju mban te fokusuar tek problemi, Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.89,0:02:33.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ju mban larg gjetjes se zgjidhjes. Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.16,0:02:35.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe atehere kur nuk mund\Nte krijoni nje zgjidhje, Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.25,0:02:39.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gjithmone mund te beni nje hap per te\Npermiresuar jeten tuaj ose dikujt tjeter. Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.46,0:02:40.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por ju nuk mund ta beni ate Dialogue: 0,0:02:40.65,0:02:45.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kur jeni te zene \Nduke ju ardhur keq per veten. Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.16,0:02:48.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lloji i dyte i besimit destruktiv\Neshte ajo cfare ju frenon Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.81,0:02:52.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eshte besimet e pashendetshme\Nrreth te tjereve. Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.08,0:02:54.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne mendojme se njerzit e tjere \Nmund te na kontrollojne, Dialogue: 0,0:02:54.51,0:02:57.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe dhurojme shume nga energjia jone. Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.85,0:03:00.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por si te rritur qe jetojme\Nne nje vend te lire, Dialogue: 0,0:03:00.70,0:03:04.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ka disa gjera ne jete qe mund te beni. Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.48,0:03:07.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Keshtu qe kur thoni, \N"Kam per te punuar vete," Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.26,0:03:09.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dorezoni energjine tuaj. Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.45,0:03:12.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Po, ndoshta do te kete pasoje\Nneqoftese nuk punoni vone, Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.37,0:03:15.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,por perseri eshte nje zgjedhje. Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.68,0:03:19.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ose kur thoni, "Vjehra ime me cmend," Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.76,0:03:22.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ju dorezoni energjine tuaj. Dialogue: 0,0:03:22.26,0:03:25.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ajo ndoshta nuk eshte personi\Nme i mire ne bote, Dialogue: 0,0:03:25.17,0:03:27.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,por e keni ne dore vete\Nse si do ti pergjigjeni asaj, Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.19,0:03:31.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sepse ti je ne kontroll. Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.42,0:03:35.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lloji i trete eshte besimi\Ni pa shendetshem qe ju frenon Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.02,0:03:38.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eshte besimet e pa shendetshme per boten. Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.53,0:03:41.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne kemi tendencen te mendojme \Nse bota na ka borxh dicka. Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.29,0:03:44.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne mendojme, "Neqoftese punoj fort, Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.08,0:03:47.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,atehere meritoj sukses." Dialogue: 0,0:03:47.08,0:03:49.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por te presesh suksesin te vije tek ti, Dialogue: 0,0:03:49.26,0:03:52.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,si ndonje cmim i ardhur nga qielli Dialogue: 0,0:03:52.21,0:03:56.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do te coj vetem ne zhgenjim. Dialogue: 0,0:03:56.43,0:03:59.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por e di qe eshte e veshtire te largosh \Nzakonet e keqija mendore. Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.38,0:04:01.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Eshte e veshtire te heqesh dore\Nnga ato besime te pashendetshme Dialogue: 0,0:04:01.63,0:04:04.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,qe i kemi pasur me vete per shume gjate. Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.73,0:04:07.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por nuk mund ta perballoni ti largoni. Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.85,0:04:11.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sepse heret apo vone,\Ndo te vije nje kohe ne jeten tuaj Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.48,0:04:16.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ku do te nevojisni te mblidhni \Nte gjithe fuqine mendore qe keni. Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.91,0:04:19.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kur isha 23 vjec, Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.07,0:04:23.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mendoja se dija cdo gje per jeten. Dialogue: 0,0:04:23.01,0:04:25.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,U diplomova Dialogue: 0,0:04:25.16,0:04:28.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe mora punen time te pare si terapiste. Dialogue: 0,0:04:28.46,0:04:29.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,U martova. Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.68,0:04:31.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe madje bleva nje shtepi. Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.36,0:04:33.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe mendoja se, "Do te jete shume mire!" Dialogue: 0,0:04:33.36,0:04:36.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Pata nje fillim pabesueshmerisht \Nte sukseshem." Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.46,0:04:39.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Cfare mund te shkonte keq? Dialogue: 0,0:04:39.50,0:04:41.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ajo ndryshoi cdo gje per nje dite Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.46,0:04:44.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kur mora nje telefonate nga motra ime. Dialogue: 0,0:04:44.57,0:04:47.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Me tha qe mami nuk po reagonte Dialogue: 0,0:04:47.86,0:04:50.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe e kishin derguar ne spital. Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.80,0:04:54.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Burri im, Linkolni dhe une hipem ne makine\Ndhe shkuam ne spital Dialogue: 0,0:04:54.93,0:04:57.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nuk mund ta imagjinonim\Ncfare mund te kishte shkuar keq. Dialogue: 0,0:04:57.50,0:04:59.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mami im ishte vetem 51 vjec. Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.32,0:05:04.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nuk kishte pasur ndonje histori\Nproblemesh shendetesore. Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.43,0:05:05.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kur arritem ne spital, Dialogue: 0,0:05:05.90,0:05:10.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,doktoret me shpjeguan \Nse kishte patur nje aneurizem ne tru. Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.07,0:05:13.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe brenda 24 oreve, mamaja ime, Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.02,0:05:17.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,qe zgjohej ne mengjes dhe thoshte,\N"Eshte e mrekullueshme te jesh gjalle," Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.24,0:05:19.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nderroi jete. Dialogue: 0,0:05:19.48,0:05:21.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lajmi ishte shkaterrues per mua. Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.23,0:05:23.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Une dhe Mami kishim qene shume te ngushta. Dialogue: 0,0:05:23.89,0:05:28.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Si nje terapist, ne nje nivel intelektual e dija \Nqe do te perjetoja hidherim. Dialogue: 0,0:05:28.28,0:05:32.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por te diturit dhe te berit \Njane dy gjera shume te ndryshme. Dialogue: 0,0:05:32.87,0:05:38.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mu desh shume kohe te ndihesha\Nsikur po sherohesha, Dialogue: 0,0:05:38.21,0:05:42.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe ne pervjetorin e trete \Nte vdekjes se mamase sime, Dialogue: 0,0:05:42.50,0:05:44.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,disa miq na telefonuan, Dialogue: 0,0:05:44.19,0:05:48.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe ftuan Linkolnin dhe mua\Nne nje ndeshje basketbolli. Dialogue: 0,0:05:48.47,0:05:50.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Koincidentalisht, ndeshja po luhej Dialogue: 0,0:05:50.78,0:05:54.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne ne njejtin stadium kur\Nkisha pare mamin heren e fundit, Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.39,0:05:57.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nje nate para se te nderronte jete. Dialogue: 0,0:05:57.44,0:05:59.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nuk kisha qene atje qe atehere. Dialogue: 0,0:05:59.49,0:06:01.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Madje nuk isha e sigurte \Nneqoftese doja te kthehesha. Dialogue: 0,0:06:01.92,0:06:05.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por Linkolni dhe une folem per te,\Ndhe ne fund thame Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.41,0:06:08.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ndoshta ajo do te ishte nje menyre e mire\Nper te nderuar kujtimin e saj". Dialogue: 0,0:06:08.47,0:06:10.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Keshtu qe shkuam ne loje. Dialogue: 0,0:06:10.32,0:06:13.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe ne fakt kaluam nje kohe \Nshume te mire me miqte tane. Dialogue: 0,0:06:13.49,0:06:15.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Rruges per ne shtepi ate nate, Dialogue: 0,0:06:15.17,0:06:16.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,folem se sa bukur ishte Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.71,0:06:19.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,qe me ne fund te mundeshim \Nte riktheheshim ne ate vend, Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.06,0:06:21.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe kujtonim mamin me nje buzeqeshje, Dialogue: 0,0:06:21.25,0:06:25.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sesa nje nder ato ndjenjat e trishtimit. Dialogue: 0,0:06:25.84,0:06:31.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por pasi arritem ne shtepi,\NLinkolni me tha qe nuk ndihej mire. Dialogue: 0,0:06:31.21,0:06:34.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Disa minuta me vone, i ra te fiket. Dialogue: 0,0:06:34.55,0:06:37.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Duhet te telefonoja ambulancen. Dialogue: 0,0:06:37.85,0:06:40.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Familja e tij me takoi tek dhoma e urgjences. Dialogue: 0,0:06:40.63,0:06:43.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pritem aty, na u duk sikur \Nkishte kaluar shume kohe, Dialogue: 0,0:06:43.70,0:06:46.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,derisa doktori doli nga dhoma. Dialogue: 0,0:06:46.70,0:06:49.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por ne vend qe te na merrte\Nte shihnin Linkolnin, Dialogue: 0,0:06:49.65,0:06:53.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,na coi ne nje dhome private, Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.48,0:06:55.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe na uli, Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.27,0:06:57.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe na shpejgoi se Linkolni, Dialogue: 0,0:06:57.10,0:06:59.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,qe ishte personi me aventurier\Nqe kisha njohur ndonjehere, Dialogue: 0,0:06:59.95,0:07:03.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ishte larguar nga kjo bote. Dialogue: 0,0:07:03.25,0:07:06.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nuk e dinim ne ate kohe, \Npor ai kishte kaluar nje atak ne zemer. Dialogue: 0,0:07:06.58,0:07:08.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ishte vetem 26 vjec. Dialogue: 0,0:07:08.98,0:07:14.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nuk kishte pasur nje histori \Nte problemeve te zemres. Dialogue: 0,0:07:14.02,0:07:17.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Keshtu tani une isha nje e ve 26 vjecare Dialogue: 0,0:07:17.02,0:07:19.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe pa mama. Dialogue: 0,0:07:19.66,0:07:22.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe thoja, "Si do te ja dal mbane kesaj?" Dialogue: 0,0:07:22.59,0:07:25.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe te pershkruaj ate si nje periudhe\Nte dhimbshme te jetes sime, Dialogue: 0,0:07:25.27,0:07:27.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,duket si nje eufemizem. Dialogue: 0,0:07:27.51,0:07:29.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe ishte ne ate kohe kur kuptova Dialogue: 0,0:07:29.68,0:07:31.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,se kur je vertet\Nduke kaluar kohera te veshtira, Dialogue: 0,0:07:31.87,0:07:34.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,zakonet e mira nuk jane te majftueshme. Dialogue: 0,0:07:34.05,0:07:37.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mjafton vetem nje ose dy zakone te vogla, Dialogue: 0,0:07:37.27,0:07:40.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,te te ndalin. Dialogue: 0,0:07:40.02,0:07:41.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Une punoja aq fort sa mundesha, Dialogue: 0,0:07:41.97,0:07:44.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,jo vetem te krijoja zakone te mira ne jete, Dialogue: 0,0:07:44.00,0:07:46.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,por te shpetoja nga zakonet e vogla, Dialogue: 0,0:07:46.24,0:07:49.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pavaresisht sa te vogla mund te dukeshin. Dialogue: 0,0:07:49.26,0:07:50.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pergjate te gjithe kesaj, Dialogue: 0,0:07:50.52,0:07:54.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,E hoqa mundesine e shpreses \Nse jeta do te permiresohej. Dialogue: 0,0:07:54.76,0:07:57.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe me kalimin e kohes u permiresua. Dialogue: 0,0:07:57.22,0:07:59.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Disa vite me vone, takova Stivin. Dialogue: 0,0:07:59.56,0:08:01.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe u dashuruam. Dialogue: 0,0:08:01.27,0:08:03.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe une u rimartova. Dialogue: 0,0:08:03.56,0:08:05.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Shitem shtepine ku Linkolni \Ndhe une kishim jetuar, Dialogue: 0,0:08:05.96,0:08:09.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe bleme nje shtepi te re\Nne nje zone te re, Dialogue: 0,0:08:09.16,0:08:12.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe une gjeta nje pune te re. Dialogue: 0,0:08:12.16,0:08:15.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por sapo mora ndjesine e clirimit, Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.10,0:08:17.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nga ai fillim i ri qe kisha pasur, Dialogue: 0,0:08:17.95,0:08:22.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,morem lajmin se babai i stivit \Nkishte kancer te pa kurueshem. Dialogue: 0,0:08:22.97,0:08:24.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe une fillova te mendoja, Dialogue: 0,0:08:24.18,0:08:26.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Pse keto gjera duhet te ndodhin\Nvazhdimisht"? Dialogue: 0,0:08:26.61,0:08:29.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Pse duhet te humbas te gjithe\Nte dashurit e mit?" Dialogue: 0,0:08:29.02,0:08:33.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Kjo nuk eshte e drejte." Dialogue: 0,0:08:33.10,0:08:34.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por neqoftese kisha mesuar dicka, Dialogue: 0,0:08:34.86,0:08:39.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ishte se ajo menyre e te menduarit \Npo me ndalonte. Dialogue: 0,0:08:39.65,0:08:41.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,E dija qe do me nevojitej Dialogue: 0,0:08:41.04,0:08:43.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,aq shume fuqi mendore sa te mblidhja, Dialogue: 0,0:08:43.33,0:08:46.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,te perballesha me nje humbje tjeter. Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.46,0:08:48.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Keshtu, u ula dhe shkruajta nje liste Dialogue: 0,0:08:48.53,0:08:52.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,te gjitha gjerave menderisht te forta\Nqe njerzit nuk bejne. Dialogue: 0,0:08:52.70,0:08:54.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe e lexova ate liste. Dialogue: 0,0:08:54.24,0:08:56.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ishte nje rikujtim i te gjitha\Natyre zakoneve te keqija Dialogue: 0,0:08:56.80,0:09:01.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,qe kisha bere ne nje kohe ose ne nje tjeter,\Nqe do te me mbanin te ndrydhur. Dialogue: 0,0:09:01.10,0:09:03.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe vazhdova ta lexoj ate liste here pas here, Dialogue: 0,0:09:03.68,0:09:05.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe vertet e doja, me nevojitej. Dialogue: 0,0:09:05.42,0:09:07.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sepse brenda disa javeve\Npasi e kisha shkruar, Dialogue: 0,0:09:07.98,0:09:12.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Babai i Stivit kishte nderruar jete. Dialogue: 0,0:09:12.97,0:09:17.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Eksperienca ime me tregoi\Nse sekreti i te qenurit i forte menderisht, Dialogue: 0,0:09:17.41,0:09:21.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ishte te hiqje dora nga zakonet e keqija. Dialogue: 0,0:09:21.22,0:09:24.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Fuqia mendore eshte si ajo fizike. Dialogue: 0,0:09:24.07,0:09:26.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Neqoftese doje te ishte i forte fizikisht, Dialogue: 0,0:09:26.56,0:09:29.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,duhet te shkoje ne palester \Ndhe te ngrije pesha. Dialogue: 0,0:09:29.06,0:09:31.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por neqoftese vertet\Ndoje te shikoje rezultate, Dialogue: 0,0:09:31.93,0:09:35.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,duhet gjithashtu te hiqje dore\Nnga ushqimi i pashendetshem. Dialogue: 0,0:09:35.00,0:09:36.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Fuqia mendore eshte njesoj. Dialogue: 0,0:09:36.38,0:09:38.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Neqoftese do te jesh i forte menderisht. Dialogue: 0,0:09:38.23,0:09:41.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,te duhen zakone te mira,\Nsi praktikim i mirenohjes. Dialogue: 0,0:09:41.94,0:09:43.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por gjithashtu duhet te heqesh\Nzakonet e keqija, Dialogue: 0,0:09:43.87,0:09:47.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,si te urresh suksesin e dikujt tjeter. Dialogue: 0,0:09:47.27,0:09:49.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pavaresisht sa shpesh ajo ndodh, Dialogue: 0,0:09:49.69,0:09:53.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do te frenoj. Dialogue: 0,0:09:53.26,0:09:57.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pra, si te trajnojme trurin \Nte mendoje ndryshe? Dialogue: 0,0:09:57.28,0:10:00.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Si ti dorezosh ato zakone\Nte keqija mendore Dialogue: 0,0:10:00.29,0:10:03.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,qe i ke pasur me vete? Dialogue: 0,0:10:03.09,0:10:07.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Fillon me nderrimin e atyre besimeve\Nte pa shendetshme qe fola, Dialogue: 0,0:10:07.53,0:10:10.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,me ato te shendetshme. Dialogue: 0,0:10:10.75,0:10:13.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Per shembull, besimet e pa shendetshme\Nper vetet tona Dialogue: 0,0:10:13.88,0:10:17.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,zakonisht vijne sepse nuk jemi rehat\Nme ndjenjat tona. Dialogue: 0,0:10:17.41,0:10:19.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Te ndihesh i trishtuar, i lenduar, \Ni inatosur ose i frikesuar, Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.98,0:10:22.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ato gjera jane te pa rehatshme. Dialogue: 0,0:10:22.51,0:10:25.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Keshtu ne shkojme larg\Nte shmangim diskomfortin, Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.78,0:10:28.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Perpiqemi ti shpetojme Dialogue: 0,0:10:28.16,0:10:31.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,duke bere gjera te tilla\Nsi te ndjehemi keq per veten. Dialogue: 0,0:10:31.86,0:10:34.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe pse ajo eshte\Nnje shmangie e perkohshme, Dialogue: 0,0:10:34.46,0:10:36.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thjesht zgjat dhimbjen. Dialogue: 0,0:10:36.65,0:10:39.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,E vetmja menyre te kalojme\Nemocionet e parehatshme, Dialogue: 0,0:10:39.62,0:10:42.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,e vetmja menyre per tu marre me te,\Neshte ti perjetoni ato. Dialogue: 0,0:10:42.70,0:10:46.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ta lini veten te ndihet keq,\Ndhe me pas te ecni perpara. Dialogue: 0,0:10:46.26,0:10:47.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Te rrisni vetebesimin ne aftesine tuaj Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.95,0:10:51.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eshte te merreni me diskomfortin. Dialogue: 0,0:10:51.85,0:10:54.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Besimet e pa shendetshme\Nper te tjeret vijne Dialogue: 0,0:10:54.66,0:10:57.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sepse ne e krahasojme veten me te tjeret. Dialogue: 0,0:10:57.68,0:11:00.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne mendojme se ato jane\Nose mbi ose poshte nesh. Dialogue: 0,0:11:00.66,0:11:02.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ose mendojme se ato mund te kontrollojne\Nsi ne ndihemi. Dialogue: 0,0:11:02.87,0:11:05.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ose qe ne mund to kontrollojme si ato sillen. Dialogue: 0,0:11:05.21,0:11:07.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ose fajesojme ato qe na frenojne. Dialogue: 0,0:11:07.91,0:11:11.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por ne te vertete,\Njane zgjedhjet tona qe e bejne ate. Dialogue: 0,0:11:11.35,0:11:13.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Duhet te pranoni se ti je personi i vetes, Dialogue: 0,0:11:13.56,0:11:16.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe te tjeret jane te ndare nga ti. Dialogue: 0,0:11:16.03,0:11:18.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I vetmi person qe duhet ta krahasosh veten, Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.30,0:11:22.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eshte personi qe ishe dje. Dialogue: 0,0:11:22.30,0:11:25.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe besimet e pashendetshme ne bote vijne Dialogue: 0,0:11:25.17,0:11:29.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sepse thelle ne duam\Nqe bota te jete e drejte. Dialogue: 0,0:11:29.03,0:11:32.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Duam te mendojme se neqoftese\Nbejme vepra te mira, Dialogue: 0,0:11:32.51,0:11:34.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gjera te mira do te na ndodhin. Dialogue: 0,0:11:34.77,0:11:37.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ose nese kemi kaluar kohe te veshtira, Dialogue: 0,0:11:37.42,0:11:40.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do te marrim nje lloj cmimi. Dialogue: 0,0:11:40.42,0:11:44.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por ne fund duhet te pranosh\Nse jeta nuk eshte e drejte. Dialogue: 0,0:11:44.56,0:11:46.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe ajo mund te jete cliruese. Dialogue: 0,0:11:46.55,0:11:50.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Po, do te thote qe jo domosdoshmerisht \Ndo te vlersohesh per miresine tende, Dialogue: 0,0:11:50.08,0:11:52.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,por gjithashtu do te thote se \Npavarsisht sa ke vuajtur, Dialogue: 0,0:11:52.86,0:11:56.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nuk je denuar te vazhdosh te vuash. Dialogue: 0,0:11:56.50,0:11:59.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bota nuk funksionon ne ate menyre. Dialogue: 0,0:11:59.20,0:12:02.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bota eshte ashtu sic ti e ben. Dialogue: 0,0:12:02.64,0:12:05.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por normalisht, \Npara se te ndryshosh boten tende, Dialogue: 0,0:12:05.02,0:12:08.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,duhet te besosh se mund ta ndryshosh. Dialogue: 0,0:12:08.84,0:12:13.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Njehere punoja me nje burre\Nqe ishte diabetik per vite. Dialogue: 0,0:12:13.24,0:12:15.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Doktori i tij e dergoi ne terapi Dialogue: 0,0:12:15.45,0:12:17.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sepse kishte disa zakone te keqija mendore Dialogue: 0,0:12:17.72,0:12:21.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,qe kishin filluar te ndikonin \Nne shendetin e tij fizik. Dialogue: 0,0:12:21.18,0:12:25.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mamaja e tij kishte vdekur nga komplikacione\Ndiabeti ne nje moshe te re, Dialogue: 0,0:12:25.24,0:12:27.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,keshtu ai besonte se ishte i denuar, Dialogue: 0,0:12:27.69,0:12:31.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe kishte hequr dore te menaxhonte \Nnivelin e tij te sheqerit ne gjak. Dialogue: 0,0:12:31.83,0:12:34.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne fakt, sheqeri i tij ne gjak ishte rritur\Nshume koherat e fundit, Dialogue: 0,0:12:34.78,0:12:37.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe kishte filluar te ndikonte\Nne shikimin e tij. Dialogue: 0,0:12:37.38,0:12:40.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pasi ja moren patenten. Dialogue: 0,0:12:40.38,0:12:44.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe bota e tij po tkurrej. Dialogue: 0,0:12:44.13,0:12:46.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kur erdhi ne zyren time, ishte e qarte qe Dialogue: 0,0:12:46.49,0:12:50.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ai i dinte te gjithe gjerat qe mund te bente\Nper te kontrolluar sheqerin ne gjak. Dialogue: 0,0:12:50.20,0:12:54.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ai thjesht nuk mendoi se do ja vlente. Dialogue: 0,0:12:54.22,0:12:58.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por me kalimin e kohes,\Nai pranoi te bente nje ndryshim te vogel. Dialogue: 0,0:12:58.91,0:13:02.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ai tha, "Do te heq zakonin tim te pirit\Ndy litra pepsi ne dite, Dialogue: 0,0:13:02.32,0:13:05.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe do ta ndryshoj me Diet Pepsi. Dialogue: 0,0:13:05.14,0:13:10.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe ai nuk mund ta besonte sa shpejt \Nnumrat filluan te permiresohen. Dialogue: 0,0:13:10.63,0:13:12.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe pse ai vinte cdo jave Dialogue: 0,0:13:12.46,0:13:16.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,te me kujtonte sa e tmerrshme \Nishte shija e Diet Pepsi, Dialogue: 0,0:13:16.62,0:13:19.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ai vazhdoi me te. Dialogue: 0,0:13:19.57,0:13:22.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe sapo filloi te shikoje pak permiresim, Dialogue: 0,0:13:22.18,0:13:25.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ai tha, "Mire,ndoshta mund te shoh\Ndisa nga zakonet e mia te tjera." Dialogue: 0,0:13:25.93,0:13:28.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ai tha, "Mund te nderroj \Ntasin e akullores se nates Dialogue: 0,0:13:28.94,0:13:32.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,per nje vakt me me pak sheqer." Dialogue: 0,0:13:32.18,0:13:35.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe nje dite ishte ne nje dyqan \Nme produkte te dores se dyte me disa miq, Dialogue: 0,0:13:35.78,0:13:38.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe gjeti nje biciklete te vjeter\Nper stervitje. Dialogue: 0,0:13:38.68,0:13:40.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,E bleu per disa dollare, Dialogue: 0,0:13:40.72,0:13:44.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,u kthye ne shtepi \Ndhe e vendosi perpara televizorit. Dialogue: 0,0:13:44.22,0:13:45.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Filloi te pedaloje Dialogue: 0,0:13:45.42,0:13:49.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,teksa shikonte cdo nate \Ndisa nga programet e tij te preferuara. Dialogue: 0,0:13:49.48,0:13:51.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe jo vetem qe humbi peshe, Dialogue: 0,0:13:51.78,0:13:55.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,por nje dite, \Nvuri re qe mund te shihte televizor Dialogue: 0,0:13:55.59,0:13:59.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,me qarte se disa kohe me pare. Dialogue: 0,0:13:59.78,0:14:01.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe papritur i ndodhi, Dialogue: 0,0:14:01.88,0:14:06.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,qe demi qe kishte ne sy \Nnuk ishte i perhershem. Dialogue: 0,0:14:06.64,0:14:08.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Keshtu qe vendosi\Nnje mision te ri per veten - Dialogue: 0,0:14:08.33,0:14:11.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,te marri patenten perseri. Dialogue: 0,0:14:11.24,0:14:14.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe nga ajo dite, ishte plot energji. Dialogue: 0,0:14:14.71,0:14:17.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Para kohes sone bashke, vinte cdo jave Dialogue: 0,0:14:17.58,0:14:21.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,te me thoshte,\N"Ok,cfare do bejme kete jave?" Dialogue: 0,0:14:21.02,0:14:24.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sepse me ne fund e besoi \Nqe mund ta ndryshonte boten e tij. Dialogue: 0,0:14:24.54,0:14:27.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe qe kishte fuqi mendore\Nper ta ndryshuar. Dialogue: 0,0:14:27.80,0:14:30.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe qe mund te hiqte dore\Nnga zakonet e keqija mendore. Dialogue: 0,0:14:30.33,0:14:35.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe e gjitha filloi me nje hap te vogel. Dialogue: 0,0:14:35.68,0:14:37.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Keshtu qe ju ftoj te konsideroni Dialogue: 0,0:14:37.68,0:14:41.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cfare zakonesh te keqija ju ndalojne? Dialogue: 0,0:14:41.56,0:14:43.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Cfar zakonesh te pa shendetshme Dialogue: 0,0:14:43.17,0:14:47.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ju frenojne te jesh as i forte\Nmenderisht sa mundesh? Dialogue: 0,0:14:47.88,0:14:51.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe cfare hapi te vogel\Nmund te marresh sot? Dialogue: 0,0:14:51.48,0:14:54.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ketu, Tani. Dialogue: 0,0:14:54.57,0:14:55.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ju falemnderit. Dialogue: 0,0:14:55.91,0:14:57.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Duartrokitje)