WEBVTT 00:00:02.033 --> 00:00:07.302 I am a forensic artist, worked for the San Jose police department from 1995 to 2011. 00:00:07.520 --> 00:00:09.498 I showed up to a place I had never been. 00:00:09.498 --> 00:00:11.803 And there was a guy with a drafting board. 00:00:11.803 --> 00:00:14.075 We couldn't see them. They couldn't see us. 00:00:14.075 --> 00:00:16.280 Tell me about your hair. 00:00:16.280 --> 00:00:18.407 I didn't know what he was doing, 00:00:18.407 --> 00:00:23.495 but I then could tell after several questions that he was drawing me. 00:00:24.280 --> 00:00:25.781 Tell me about your chin. 00:00:26.080 --> 00:00:29.047 It kind of protrudes a little bit, 00:00:29.551 --> 00:00:31.283 especially when I smile. 00:00:32.365 --> 00:00:32.958 Your jaw? 00:00:32.958 --> 00:00:35.128 My mom told me I had a big jaw. 00:00:36.115 --> 00:00:37.831 What would be your prominent feature? 00:00:37.831 --> 00:00:40.359 I kind of have a fat, rounder face. 00:00:40.359 --> 00:00:43.480 The older I've gotten, the more freckles I've gotten. 00:00:43.480 --> 00:00:45.811 I would say I have a pretty big forehead. 00:00:49.378 --> 00:00:51.935 Once I get a sketch, I say "Thank you very much." 00:00:51.935 --> 00:00:54.838 And then they leave. I don't see them. 00:00:56.962 --> 00:00:58.947 All I had been told before the sketch 00:00:58.947 --> 00:01:01.412 was to get friendly with this other woman, Chloe. 00:01:01.412 --> 00:01:06.887 Today I am gonna ask you some questions about a person you met earlier. 00:01:06.887 --> 00:01:10.058 And I am gonna ask you some general questions about their face. 00:01:10.058 --> 00:01:12.632 She was thin, so you could see her cheekbones. 00:01:12.632 --> 00:01:14.235 And her chin? 00:01:14.235 --> 00:01:17.232 That was a nice, thin chin. 00:01:19.138 --> 00:01:21.673 She had nice eyes. They lit up when she spoke. 00:01:21.673 --> 00:01:22.703 Cute nose. 00:01:22.764 --> 00:01:24.696 she had blue eyes, very nice blue eyes. 00:01:30.511 --> 00:01:34.485 So here we are.This is a sketch that you helped me create. 00:01:34.939 --> 00:01:38.512 And that's a sketch that somebody described to be you. 00:01:38.512 --> 00:01:39.981 I see. That's ... 00:02:00.671 --> 00:02:05.148 She looks closed off and fatter. Sadder, too. 00:02:05.339 --> 00:02:10.455 The second one looks more open, friendly and happy. 00:02:12.948 --> 00:02:15.401 I should be more grateful of my natural beauty. 00:02:15.401 --> 00:02:21.070 It impacts the choices in the friends that we make, the jobs we apply for, how we treat our children. 00:02:21.634 --> 00:02:22.898 It impacts everything. 00:02:23.744 --> 00:02:26.135 It couldn't be more critical to your happiness. 00:02:26.450 --> 00:02:28.738 Do you think you are more beautiful than you say? 00:02:29.168 --> 00:02:30.738 Yea, yea. 00:02:32.088 --> 00:02:32.951 Yea. 00:02:33.612 --> 00:02:39.414 We spend a lot of time as women analyzing and trying to fix the things that aren't quite right. 00:02:40.814 --> 00:02:44.486 And we should spend more time appreciating the things that we do like. 00:02:47.623 --> 00:02:50.559 You are more beautiful than you think.