WEBVTT 00:00:00.490 --> 00:00:01.700 It's Tune-up Tuesday. 00:00:01.710 --> 00:00:03.579 And this morning, we are looking on the bright side 00:00:03.589 --> 00:00:06.139 of things to focus on how to practice optimism. 00:00:06.150 --> 00:00:06.969 Psychologist, 00:00:07.179 --> 00:00:07.280 Dr Deepika Chopra 00:00:07.530 --> 00:00:12.510 is known as the optimism doctor and is here to help. Good morning doctor. 00:00:12.520 --> 00:00:13.390 Good to see you. Good 00:00:13.550 --> 00:00:15.300 morning. It's so good to be here. 00:00:15.310 --> 00:00:18.399 Well, first of all, so what's the difference between 00:00:18.829 --> 00:00:24.250 optimism and positivity? How do you differentiate those? 00:00:24.260 --> 00:00:29.049 So, I feel like people are always so surprised when I say positivity is not the 00:00:29.215 --> 00:00:33.145 first word that really comes to mind for me when I think about optimism. 00:00:33.405 --> 00:00:38.465 The first two words that come to mind to me are resiliency and curiosity. 00:00:38.515 --> 00:00:42.905 And so, I think there's this misconception of what being optimistic is. 00:00:42.916 --> 00:00:47.986 And I think people just think that being optimistic is about being positive 24/7. 00:00:48.006 --> 00:00:50.145 And in reality, that's not possible. 00:00:50.166 --> 00:00:55.186 And so, a true optimist is really someone that is very keenly aware 00:00:55.195 --> 00:00:59.541 of the setbacks and the roadblocks and the less than ideal situations. 00:00:59.641 --> 00:01:02.692 But the caveat is they see them as temporary 00:01:02.701 --> 00:01:05.181 and something that they have the ability to overcome, 00:01:05.191 --> 00:01:09.611 even if they don't know how or when. So, it's really about this resiliency. 00:01:09.622 --> 00:01:12.162 Yeah. It's interesting because it's more realistic, I guess 00:01:12.321 --> 00:01:17.041 because you're dealing with robots. So, if you are optimistic, you're saying that 00:01:17.202 --> 00:01:20.181 you will not only be mentally better but physically better. Yes. 00:01:20.192 --> 00:01:22.552 So, there is just a host of research done. 00:01:22.561 --> 00:01:26.232 I think we can all sort of agree that it makes sense that our 00:01:26.361 --> 00:01:26.571 emotional 00:01:26.847 --> 00:01:29.277 selves are better if we have a more optimistic mindset. 00:01:29.288 --> 00:01:33.038 But what I think is so interesting is there's been a ton of research done and 00:01:33.248 --> 00:01:36.197 optimistic people are sick less often. 00:01:36.208 --> 00:01:41.917 They have better cardiovascular health; they live longer; they thrive longer. 00:01:41.928 --> 00:01:46.657 So, not just in terms of how many years they live, they have better support system, 00:01:46.667 --> 00:01:52.078 more able to reach their goals, and 00:01:52.087 --> 00:01:55.038 they just experience more positive mood. 00:01:55.047 --> 00:01:56.223 You make better decisions. 00:01:56.234 --> 00:01:56.393 Yeah, 00:01:56.403 --> 00:01:59.134 you make more actually optimistic people more 00:01:59.143 --> 00:02:01.164 likely than not make more healthy decisions. 00:02:01.174 --> 00:02:03.263 And I think it makes sense because they can kind of, 00:02:03.634 --> 00:02:08.324 they can see who they are going to be in the future, and they kind of invest in that. 00:02:08.333 --> 00:02:12.404 Would you say that we're born optimist or pessimists or is it a muscle 00:02:12.414 --> 00:02:17.063 we can kind of work on to get better at? You hit the target word. 00:02:17.074 --> 00:02:18.083 It's totally a muscle. 00:02:18.093 --> 00:02:23.304 So, there is a lot of research to support that there is a, you know, genetic component, 00:02:23.313 --> 00:02:27.330 but good news is it's only really up to 25%. 00:02:27.339 --> 00:02:29.729 So, the remaining part really can be learned. 00:02:29.740 --> 00:02:31.839 And so, I like to look at optimism as a 00:02:31.850 --> 00:02:35.509 muscle and really this thing that's on a continuum. 00:02:35.520 --> 00:02:38.190 And so, you know, you often hear, 00:02:38.360 --> 00:02:42.570 you know, I just think I was born more pessimistic or I'm a pessimist or an optimist. 00:02:42.580 --> 00:02:42.869 And 00:02:42.970 --> 00:02:46.529 I actually feel we are all sort of neither. We're all both. 00:02:46.539 --> 00:02:52.410 So, there are aspects of our life that we are more prone to being optimistic. 00:02:52.419 --> 00:02:55.936 And I know, for me, you know, I'm known as the optimism doctor, but I gotta be honest, 00:02:55.945 --> 00:02:57.975 I am not the most optimistic person. 00:02:58.095 --> 00:02:58.735 And yeah, 00:02:58.746 --> 00:03:03.626 my like Achilles Heel with optimism is really like medical stuff and health. 00:03:03.636 --> 00:03:04.945 So, it depends on the different—yes— 00:03:05.115 --> 00:03:06.235 the different thing. 00:03:06.606 --> 00:03:10.656 May be optimistic about your kids and their future, but maybe your health is. Right. 00:03:10.666 --> 00:03:13.255 Right. And so, that's where my work lies. 00:03:13.266 --> 00:03:17.475 And so, I think we're all on a continuum, and the good thing is, you know, 00:03:17.485 --> 00:03:21.475 we can grow on that continuum, and there are actual exercises we can do 00:03:21.781 --> 00:03:21.981 to 00:03:22.091 --> 00:03:22.432 increase. 00:03:22.731 --> 00:03:22.861 In fact, 00:03:23.201 --> 00:03:27.472 you created this deck of cards called "Things are looking up." 00:03:28.311 --> 00:03:30.292 So, this is a deck of cards. 00:03:30.302 --> 00:03:34.401 There's 52 of them, and they each have a science-based prompt 00:03:34.412 --> 00:03:37.042 or an actionable item that actually tells you what to do. 00:03:37.052 --> 00:03:40.341 So, they're not affirmation cards, and they all work to 00:03:40.352 --> 00:03:43.802 increase your optimism and your resiliency and your joy. So, can we try this? 00:03:44.572 --> 00:03:47.641 Yes. In fact, I'm gonna have you go first. 00:03:48.111 --> 00:03:49.442 I gonna pick a card for you. 00:03:49.572 --> 00:03:50.151 Ok. 00:03:51.820 --> 00:03:51.880 Pick any card. 00:03:52.750 --> 00:03:52.850 Pick any card. 00:03:53.169 --> 00:03:53.740 Any card. 00:03:54.309 --> 00:03:55.839 All right, I've seen this on 00:03:56.470 --> 00:03:57.419 on the street. I 00:03:57.889 --> 00:04:02.350 lost a bunch of money. Just for today, instead of making a to-do list, 00:04:02.360 --> 00:04:06.570 make a ta-da list or and I did it list. So, what do you mean by that? 00:04:06.580 --> 00:04:07.509 So, you know, 00:04:07.520 --> 00:04:10.880 I think we get bogged down, and it can be very stressful for us to 00:04:10.889 --> 00:04:14.639 constantly think about all the things we need to do or we have to do. 00:04:14.649 --> 00:04:15.985 And oftentimes, I hear people at 00:04:16.135 --> 00:04:18.144 the end of their day making a list for the 00:04:18.154 --> 00:04:20.135 following day of all the things they have to do. 00:04:20.233 --> 00:04:22.684 And I say, why not make a ta-da list? 00:04:22.695 --> 00:04:25.244 These are all the things that I have accomplished today. 00:04:25.255 --> 00:04:28.105 Gratitude for what you've done. Yeah. Gratitude for what you've done. 00:04:28.114 --> 00:04:30.114 And you start to realize at the end, and 00:04:30.125 --> 00:04:32.904 I'm talking about small things because those really matter. 00:04:32.915 --> 00:04:36.024 You start to realize how accomplished you really are. 00:04:36.035 --> 00:04:39.144 And it's really about this sense of self mastery and empowerment. 00:04:39.154 --> 00:04:40.195 You've got to make a big ta-da list. 00:04:41.850 --> 00:04:42.100 He's got a 00:04:42.230 --> 00:04:42.399 lot of 00:04:42.609 --> 00:04:42.649 things 00:04:42.820 --> 00:04:43.070 going on. 00:04:43.500 --> 00:04:43.839 It's really 00:04:44.239 --> 00:04:44.359 important. 00:04:44.760 --> 00:04:46.500 Thank you so much. Really appreciate this. 00:04:47.089 --> 00:04:48.309 OK? Wait, there's more. 00:04:48.720 --> 00:04:50.019 Unfortunately, we 00:04:51.079 --> 00:04:51.320 are, we are... I am gonna 00:04:51.420 --> 00:04:52.859 take my card for later. 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