[Music] action thank you okay there's something I've been thinking about a lot um recently is we have to check our hearts because in a world that's ever increasingly divisive um pmic do we find our heart slowly slipping into being judgmental uh you know divisive finding it difficult to forgive finding it difficult to be compassionate judging people and I think that's one of the greatest temptations that we Face to put ourself in the position of Judge whereas that's not a position that God gives us as children of God whilst we're on this Earth it's not our place to judge because God is the judge and I think so many of us maybe consciously subconsciously find ourselves slipping into that judgmental position what what can you say about this H what is Judgment well when we judge someone's motives or think that we know the reason why someone does something and and say whether it's good or bad thank you for saying motive we need to understand when it comes to judgment Jesus standard of judgment is different from man's judgment that the Lord does not judge what we say what we do on Face Value the lord always looks our heart to judge the motivation why we are doing this and that's the purpose that brings God's approval or the reprove of God in our actions and decisions every day as you said today God is all about relationship we should not forget that the heart of the matter of this Bible is to restore the relationship between God and man and that's a love relationship absolutely not only between God and man between man to other fellow human beings I say mankind today relationships are under repair everywhere not only towards God but towards our neighbor towards our brother towards our sisters towards our friends and towards even those who are not our friends why we are saying this Jesus said you should love the Lord your God with all your heart with all your mind with all your strength and love your neighbor as yourself good as yourself that love starts first with the love of God and that's the love of God in us as the Bible says is poured by the holy spirit in our heart Romans 5:5 that overflows if I have a cup of water you cannot quench my thirst with a cup of water share with me that's why Jesus said if you know who is speaking to you and what is the gift of God in John chapter 4 you would have ask me and I will give you living water Living Waters and the water I give you will well up within you will well up overflow to everlasting life oh my God God has set a table before us and he want us to be blessed abundantly so we can have something to share with others means our request when we come before God should not be self-centered if we ask for God's sake the blessing will overflow if you ask for God's sake God know you not asking just for you but for your neighbor that means one of the major obstacles is actually selfishness absolutely and that makes us also want to judge people that is the problem we have that's why James say when he come in God's presence you ask and you don't receive because we ask wrong wrongly why we ask for selfish classic and matal reason the motivation God approves when the reason behind the action is for God's sake and it's only s God that can see that motive we can't see thank you people's motives God can only see it and that's what is important because we not asking man we asking God you want God to hear you you want God to answer our prayers so remember when we come to him with our lips he listens to our heart then we go to that Mathew chapter 15:8 that will lay down the principle of this message Matthew chapter 15:8 let's listen to what Jesus Christ the righteous judge said but don't forget the Bible called calls Jesus the judge of the living and of the Dead let's listen to Judgment of Christ these people draw near to me with their mouth and honor me with their lips but their heart is far from me good and in vain they worship me teaching as doctrines the Commandments of men in vain we pray in vain we ask when we come with our mouth alone but our hearts far from God how sad that is that people think they're worshiping but actually it's in vain yes because our heart is far from God means when we come to God we should bring our heart first before our mouth we should not be too quick to speak when you bring your heart when you engage your heart before God the scripture say we don't know what to ask we don't know what to pray for Romans 8 2627 that's why the Holy Spirit intercedes absolutely in words we cannot yes go ahead those you cannot we cannot comprehend thank you when the Holy Spirit Come he will take you to God's presence first and then will help you how to pray and what to pray for we often hear that Prayer Changes Things and that's not entirely true yes prayer changes us prayer changes us and Faith changes things Faith causing things to happen let's break that run down prayer changes me because it takes our Focus off ourself we all enter God's presence because we have trouble because nobody comes to Jesus in Comfort am I right very often we come because of our burden but the Bible say don't don't be too quick to ask for solution try to find out what God is saying in the matter that's why we bring all burdens before Jesus to God and asking to know God's opinion on the matter it is God's opinion on the matter that will reveal his will on the matter Jesus walking towards the cross was not for himself it was for you and I for humankind because he said nobody takes my life I lay down myself I have the power to give my life and to take it back that's the command of my father so it is the motivation that is important when Peter heard what Jesus said I'm going to Jerusalem they will arrest me they will spit on me and they will kill me on the third day I will rise Peter say what God forbid never happened to you why selfishness Peter was focusing on himself on the natural side with emotion with love for Jesus but Jesus was thinking the thoughts of God not the thoughts of man so when we judge situations and others from a human point of view it's actually a selfish attitude is that right absolutely because very often we judge people because we have a mindset a negative mindset prejudgment against others and that is not good remember in John chapter 8 verse 11 when they brought the adulterous woman before Jesus the Pharisees the Sadducees the the teachers of the law who brought that woman to Jesus for judgment that's why they brought her for judgment because the law of Moses said anybody who commit a sin must be ston to death so the decision was made already they had a prejudgment on woman already they judg her in their hearts already they just want confirmation and when they brought it to Jesus said Master the law of Moses said if you catch any person on the act of doing adultery that such person should be stoned to that's what the law of Moses say yeah they were trying to trick him you what do you say so when we take the situation on literal senses on the letter you're going to Stone the woman that's what the letter says that's why even a judg when you go to any court today no judge will go by the face value they do investigation to find out what was the motivation of the person you will never condemn any person if you realize the person has psychatric problem the first is the person has his own mind has he done this act willfully consciously with all his mind that's when guilt can come because if the person is out of his mind because he has psychc problem you canot say he Express his will he doesn't know what he's doing so rather than judge him take him to prison they will take him to hospital for treatment and that was the right judgment right but in the case we're talking about when they brought the woman to Jesus Jesus looked at him said if any of you has not never committed sin be the first to throw the stor I just love that word that Jesus spoke because it just shows that Jesus is the father of every heart every heart from now till the end of the ages and everyone has to answer to him whether we understand it or not or we realize it or not we do have to answer to him and that is why he he knew what had happened in each person's heart because he knew the motive and that's he only he was in the position to say that judgment rightful judgment is to get into the heart of the matter and you can't do that without the Holy Spirit no you because the holy spirit always gets into the heart of the matter he never judges situation by Fai Val or by hear say or by what situation looks like he looks beyond to the heart to find up the motivation of the person behind that action we should not be quick to judge not be too quick to judge judge if the rightful judge who sees a heart does not rush into judgment why should we rush into judgment that's why many relationships have been so strained because we we we judge people on on today okay and we don't know what tomorrow brings husband and wife today we have many if I ask if we are honest we have so many marriages relationship marri to relationship that are strain today because of this mindset marriage is a Unity of heart and purpose and mind the heart agrees right if our heart agrees we should not have any division in our hearts and that's why God said in the Book of Malachi chapter 2 I am the witness of your wedding that's what God said be careful that in your heart you will not betray your wife or your husband the heart that's why Jesus say if a man looks at a woman it his heart without saying any words but desire to have relation with a woman he has committed adultery in his heart Jesus always gets into the heart of the matter the heart and he said if anyone of you has not committed any sin be the first to throw he just demonstrated with just that sentence that he's the father of every heart absolutely by saying this the motivation what brought that woman to that act however sinful it is the same Temptation everybody's faced today the hierarchy of sin can only be determined by Jesus sin sin lying is sin killing is sin the sin of Adam just disobeying to Adam the SE of Adam that disob eating a food and say how can this bring death to him not only to him but to the whole world what matters is not the action but the motivation behind the action we have time to talk about it in in depth but if you see yeah because he willfully disobeyed God and he had chance to repent and he didn't good if I see you doing something which does not seem right to me which does not seem instead of me praying over it or asking you I come to a conclusion because I expect you to do right thing so I said ah what she did it seems strength to me instead of inquiring from God or finding out you come to Quick mindset and judgment that's why mindset is a problem negative mindset negative mindset bad feeling towards others prejudgment which is fed by pure ignorance can come to a judgment wrong judgment that's why I was thinking at the I said at the beginning that we as Believers you know we we are supposed to be with a difference we're in this world but not part of it so we should refrain from allowing our hearts to be drawn to division to judgment um to anger to bitterness when we see or hear things that's happening around us and rather we should we should do what is good to change the bad we see be a force for love judgment is is double edged sword you can judge what is not right but you must have a sense of judgment to do what is right and that is what I want to say if I have judgment is not just to say this is bad this is bad but the rightful judgment say this is good this is what you should do yes it's a double side what I mean okay when I enter into relationship with the person what is the motivation to say this is the person this is this before you go the Bible says inquire from God when you inquire from God you have the rightful Judgment of anything you do you will know the right place to go the right type of people to meet the right type of job to have that's rightful judgment we need to have the positive side of it if we have rightful judgment and that cannot happen without inquiring from the Holy Spirit then we should guard against judging people because no one is righteous not even one without Holy Ghost we cannot get into the heart of the matter if you ask anyone who is honest and sincere what type of person I want to marry I want to live in they will mention criteria that are all based on the outside beautiful beautiful eyes beautiful nose beautiful body tall whatever everybody has his own how how do you call it preferences but the most important is the inside who we talk about the heart a man or woman that fears God that's the heart our heart does things before our mouth that's the motivation that's why the Bible say when you think negatively you are bound to speak negatively and act negatively that's why the Lord warns everybody in that Matthew chter 15:8 that what defiles us is what comes from our mouth all our motivation anger resentment divorce separation attack always come from the heart of a person that's why remember what Peter said to ananas in act chapter 5 that's that's a clear example of judgment let's take the example at early church in the beginning the disciples were selling all their properties and bring it in common in the treasury so anybody who's in need receive help right yeah we have Anan and sa Safa they came to the they sell their property it was their own property they have the right to do whatever they want to do it they sell their property let's say the house is 1 million they say let's tell them the house is half 500,000 he came they say okay our house was sold 500,000 this 500,000 and the less they kept it that's what they did it was a property could have said okay I give him 500 if they said to Peter the house is 1 million I get 500 and I give nothing would have happen I really believe because you're free it's your free will offering from your heart but they were trying to but they came to say they're entirely from Jesus the house is sold at this price Peter was a man led by the Holy Ghost with rightful judgment inquire from the Holy Spirit the Holy Spirit revealed to him the truth that the P of house is not what they said this the real price when Peter heard this what did he say he said you have sinned against the Holy Spirit why you allow Satan to fill your heart so that you can lie to the Holy Spirit you have not lied to man but to God that was a judgment and when we read the Bible we got scared by the Judgment they came and immediately what happened to they fell dead yeah anytime that P I got extremely scar say thank God we don't have this but there was a sense of Judge rightful judgment which was extremely clear on motivational actions and also knowing that the holy spirit is there in every single decision that you make every single thought in your heart the holy spirit is witnessed to that thank you for saying this now if you have awareness if I have awareness the Holy Ghost is inside of me I should be extremely careful of my thoughts first before I talk about my words because everything starts in the thoughts m that's why as a Christian a Believer should be careful of what he looks at what he sees what he touches that can influence his thoughts bad feelings negative thoughts start from here you don't need to express it but God hears it and it matters to the Holy Spirit that's why when we have the sensitivity of God's presence in our heart through the Holy Ghost anytime our mind begin to drift towards something that's not right your conscious will dud immediately because of who because the Holy Ghost will prompt your heart before you step into action that's why we need to be always be sensitive to the voice of our conscience because that's how the Holy Spirit speaks to us absolutely that's why Jam say nobody can tempt God canot be tempted but sin is when we are attracted by our own Desire by our own will that we then we are enticed to fall into the temptation of prejudgment Jud judging others the question is the person you are judging today no matter how bad the person may seem Look to You on human judgment ask yourself what does Jesus think about that person because we we are not God we have to keep reminding ourselves that God's standard of judgment is different from our own God tests our heart to reward us because he's his focus is the motive behind what we do exact Soul we know Soul we know Soul who was soul well Saul was the one who was persecuting all the Christians yes terribly in a very harsh weight forces them to blashe he was his chosen vessel yes no when he was going to persecute the people in Damascus having letters of recommendation from the teachers of the law Steven he stood there as Steven was killed and stoned to death yes that was his Zeal but he had a Zeal for the law of Moses but Zeal marked with with ignorance of spiritual things he judges the situation on the letter we judge but the word of God we approach it in the letter we have the wrong judgment there's a letter of the word there a spirit of the of the word wait say that again there's the letter of the word and we have the spirit of the word the Divine meaning of the word so you can be very committed zealous for towards the letter of the word and yet completely missing the point if it's not spirit is not in truth and so it's all nothing that's what Jesus said to them if you know that I Del like Mercy you will never condemn innocent people that's what Jesus said Jesus met ananas one of the disciples who knew who Soul was in the dream and when Jesus mentioned the name of Saul he say hey Lord this man is a wolf he's a terrible person no I mean just think about it in today's society if someone who's publicly persecuted in people that believe in Jesus and then suddenly God reveals to you that oh this is actually the one I want to use as my chosen vessel wow and that's what happened and I mean yeah motivation behind the action of Soul was pure ignorance he had a Zeal without knowledge and he even said it in that book of Timothy chapter 1 but now what was the answer of Jesus to him he's My Chosen vessel God does not consider our now our past to determine our future we need to understand that because Jesus is a tomorrow thinker he has Vision thank you Jesus is looking at your your tomorrow thank you even even your 10 years from now thank you your 20 years from now this is what matters to Jesus but we're so concentrated on now now now and even not even now yesterday the pain of the past the the the Betrayal of the past the disappointment of the past the scars of the past we're so full of all these scars that we find it difficult to even live today let alone trust our tomorrow in the hands of Jesus and yet Jesus knows what we can become tomorrow if we fully submit to him and that's what he's looking at I always remember you know Prophet T josua was such a man of vision you know he looked at us a situation where when we came so many years ago there was no way all of this was in our mind no we just wanted to to not miss salvation yet God knew God knew because God knew the plan he he had for every single person Jesus never never never considers your past to determine your future Jesus came to change our lives to change our Focus we humans we keep record of the offenses of the past we keep a record of every wrong done to us that's why we find it so so difficult to forgive you have done it again again you will keep record of the past but the Bible say loves keeps no record of wrong when Jesus looked at you and I as it for Samar woman his purpose is to give you a new focus of future Satan the devil we all know always speaks about our past our unworthy past no one was born righteous not no no one but Jesus has come to remove that past and give you a new future and if can do it for you he can do it for someone else as well that you're currently looking at with the eyes of judgment if Jesus can remove our past and point us to the Future then he can do it for everyone that is why we shouldn't judge anyone on account of today because tomorrow is a mystery so when the Pharisees brought that lady they were considering her but you say rightfully that tomorrow is a mystery that only God knows when Jesus is correcting you and me all of us it's because of the future when God say don't do this you may not do it today but you may do it tomorrow correction judgment everything God has spoken through the mouth of the Prophet as a warning is for the future when God said to the Prophet Jeremiah tell them that if they continue to do this I will send the enemy nebukadnezar will come he will burn the city he will kill everybody but God was saying this to trigger a sense of repentance say hey God sorry we come back we stop doing evil we come back to you that's true because it's how we respond to that correction or that judgment that is actually what Jesus is looking at as well that will determine your future your response to correction this ter is your future and when we talk about correction here we mean correction in the power of the Holy Spirit absolutely you when you read your Bible and something comes to your heart that can be God correcting you you know because the word of God has power power for converting power purifying power it's a double-edged sword so good you mentioned correction how do you correction correction is not judgment there's a difference between correction and judgment judgment is a mindset a preset judgment in your mind already you have decided to judge the person already but correction is to help someone is to help the person to change how do you correct the person don't say hey this is bad you are this you are this that's condemnation do what is good in the sight of the person to change the bad you see that's why the Bible tells us in Galatians six that we should be gentle yes in our correction that is be a little by example example mean let your character show let the person see in the way you speak act a reason to come to you say I'm sorry do what is good in the sight of God to change the bad you see if the person is an angry person be gentle let him see your gentleness so you can say I'm sorry if the person is pride we don't respond by Pride let him see humility let your humility convince him to say ha I'm sorry to wrong canot make what a right so what do you do the weapons of righteousness the Bible says when we see a situation don't be too quick to judge you should find out from God's perspective what is the mind of God about the situation we judge today we arrogate the position of God to judge people correction is our duty but judgment is God's Duty correction in love in love of course and with the right motivation correction not to see someone fall down but to help someone in fact I really really appreciate all those throughout my journey who took time to correct me for God's sake I really see the the product of that the the consequence of that the result of that and that's why the Bible says in the Book of Proverbs you know if you're wise you should not despise correction you should appreciate correction in the power of the Holy Spirit what do you say the power of the Holy Spirit mean judgment lead to punishment right but correction leads to Amendment repentance and Reconciliation there are two ways of approaching this Holy Bible Jesus his attitude was constant correction showing God's standard of doing things when the Pharisees was opposing him asking him question Jesus responded with the wisdom of God he spoke what is right in the sight of God when you think right speak right and act right in the sight of God you are correcting everybody people are reading you we talk about Prophet iosha well right his lifestyle was a constant correction to everybody El why correction you will see the way he attended to the simple people to the poor to even those offended him his reaction towards them you will never see him fighting people answering back never his attitude humility doing what is right in the sight of God to change the Bible to see so now the weapons of righteousness are the fruit of the spirit so exercise the fruit of the spirit in the face of the fruit of the Flesh and that's the change we talking about let your character reflect Christ character if people insult you don't insult back if you insult back what's the difference Jesus said if you love only those even those who say that inj they love their children anybody can do but love your enemy pray for those who persecute you bless do not curse that's the weapons of righteousness we're talking about and that will actually disarm those who have a bad uh Judgment of you you know this does not mean correction will not take place correction is our duty if we see something wrong correct in Love by telling the truth by showing the truth leadership by example that's what bring change you know that person will now listen to the voice of the holy spirit in their heart prompting their conscience to know that what they're doing is wrong Christian mean Christ likeness Christ likeness okay the question anytime you fa a situation of opposition ask yourself how would Jesus react in such a situation somebody embarrass you insult you remember Jesus was embarrassed constantly insulted constantly opposed constantly they even say he cast demon by Bel they even say he's de he's possessed he's demonized there's nothing that you not say against Jes Jesus but how did he responded he responded with forgiveness and Truth was ignored ignorance of the truth the truth is hidden truth not intellectually need to be perceived spiritually so your integrity no matter how good you are on the inside can never be perceived intellectually it has to be discerned Integrity cannot be understood perceived intellectually but spiritually mean you canot know the heart of man if you're not held by the Holy Ghost ask God to help you to get into the heart of the matter of a situation before coming to judgment ask them to show you the heart the motivation of the heart of person so you can have rightful judgment this being said we have the Avenue the weapons of righteousness that can heal your relationship with everyone service your relationship absolutely service it we need to we talk about that do you service your relationship you have to take care of each relationship you should not take it for granted because life what gives us joy wealth Health in life it's all about relationship how do you service the relationship how do we service it it's true but how do we serice you know your vehicle you drive your vehicle and you have a computer tell you in in 100 miles you have to take it to the garage computer will helping you to take it for service to change the oil to clean this to keep it to maintain relationship need to be maintained M when you don't wait till situation emerged to act love never waits for situation to come anticipate that's why we need to service don't wait for the person to ask you to do this do that do it spontaneously for God's sake don't ra someone to ask for help do it spons from your heart ask God what can I do to help somebody everybody want to change somebody they don't know how to go about it but did you yield your heart to be a servant for Holy Ghost to use you to bless others remember what makes us human is what is not our ability to think but our ability to love which kind of love everybody has somebody to love but every has somebody say I don't love this person I don't like this when you look at person on the outside it will not take long to see something you don't like nobody's perfect but it takes a lifetime to see the beauty in the heart of the person beyond what you can say you say don't reject anybody because of today tomorrow is Mystery okay when ananas was saying Paul was a bad person but Jesus saw the future the future Apostle you say He's My Chosen vessel God is not looking at our kindness our obedience now but obedience in 20 years in 50 years to go somebody can be good today but tomorrow the mystery can be bad you pretend for a long time but eventually the real wonderful tomorrow the real character will come out that's why we should rush into decision to judge too quickly people judge Jesus on the outside in John 7:2 some say he's a good person some say he's a bad person he deceased person even those say he's good and welcome at P Sunday hosana hosana the same people said crucify him crucify him crucify him so we we shouldn't yeah that's another thing we shouldn't be so concerned about people's opinion about us even people that we don't know what should matter to us is God's opinion about us and God tests our heart to reward us the purpose of the Gospel of Jesus Christ the purpose of Salvation the purpose of the Holy Bible can be summed up in one word righteousness what is righteousness right standing before God not right standing before man right standing mean rightful judgment for God's sake God said to Abraham walk before me blamelessly by doing what is right thinking right speaking right acting right according to the mind of God every single day of Our Lives we are meant to be like Jesus we have to behave like him and the task is huge that's why Jesus say carry your cross and follow me what is your cross your cross is not the wood the cross is your body the cross is myself self self my self will that's always wanting to go opposite to to what God wants absolutely if my flesh is crucified and I carry the cross ask Jesus to help me I will walk in the footstep of Christ in righteousness every single day of life if you do so you will have capacity to bless people around you you will never destroy any relationship Beyond repair for tomorrow is Mystery there will always room for forgiveness and your marriage your relationship your friends you will never lose a friend you will never destroy any relationship being repair people may may leave you but you will never leave anybody but Jesus Will service that relationship thank you amen so thank you so much for joining us and uh how to service our relationship how not to judge on a human level but correct in God's love we can't do any of this without the help of the holy spirit so let's continue to ask the Holy Spirit to give us more of him and take more of us in Jesus name thank you that's the right prayer take take more of me and give me more of you Holy Spirit take more of my lies and give me more of your truth Holy Spirit of Truth forgive my lies help me to be truthful Holy Spirit of humility forgive my pride and give me your humility lead me to humility these are the things we should pray for to put on Christ as our righteousness every single day and in by doing that you're servicing your heart and if you service your heart then definitely your relationships a service because you relate with others through your heart by doing so you are asking Holy Ghost to fill you and when he fills you he will fill you and that love will overflow to others in Jesus name amen amen