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[Events]
Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text
Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.58,0:01:50.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Music)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:50.80,0:01:54.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.86,0:02:01.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.33,0:02:04.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Wow, that was fun.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:04.81,0:02:07.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ok, let's get naked!\N(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.64,0:02:09.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ready, set, strip!
Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.28,0:02:11.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, teasing, I'm joking!
Dialogue: 0,0:02:11.36,0:02:14.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The kind of naked that I'm referring to
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.33,0:02:18.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is the naked that makes you\Nsquirm on the inside.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:18.45,0:02:21.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's naked of the heart.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.34,0:02:24.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Naked to the soul. \NNaked to the truth,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.81,0:02:27.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is what I want to share\Nwith you today as the truth
Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.79,0:02:30.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about men, women\Nand the Erotic Creature.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.93,0:02:35.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it's going to require some stripping\Non both of our parts.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.10,0:02:37.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I need you to strip away\Nall those false pretenses
Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.100,0:02:40.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as ideas you have about the female body
Dialogue: 0,0:02:40.41,0:02:43.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I need you to strip your minds wide open.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.42,0:02:46.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So this is my laboratory
Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.82,0:02:49.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where I've spent the last 12 years\Nguiding women
Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.24,0:02:53.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,toward awakening their \Nfeminine body movement
Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.55,0:02:55.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which awakens their feminine nature
Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.80,0:02:59.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which awakens what I call \Ntheir Erotic Creature.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:59.69,0:03:02.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every woman on the planet\Nhas an Erotic Creature.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:02.50,0:03:05.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She's the primal feminine body.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:05.93,0:03:10.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She's the wild, untamed, \Nsexual alter ego
Dialogue: 0,0:03:10.21,0:03:12.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that lives deep within.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.87,0:03:17.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Very often she's buried\Nunder furry brows,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.30,0:03:19.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,tensed frozen bodies, \Njudgmental thoughts and fear,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.97,0:03:21.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but she is there.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.84,0:03:23.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when you awaken her
Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.60,0:03:26.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you integrate her into your being,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.50,0:03:29.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it sends you into a place of wholeness
Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.34,0:03:32.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and this wholeness\Nof the feminine is capable
Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.70,0:03:36.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of elevating every living creature\Nwithin its reach.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.78,0:03:39.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's talk for one second\Nabout -- oh, there it is,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:39.26,0:03:41.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the Erotic Creature -- \Nthe Unthinkable.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.57,0:03:45.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What if I tell you that the pole\Nthat I was just dancing on
Dialogue: 0,0:03:45.57,0:03:48.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is a symbol for the next and fourth wave
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.16,0:03:50.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the feminist movement?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.84,0:03:54.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I know, right!?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:54.63,0:03:59.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The personal reclamation of the female body\Nand the sexuality within.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.67,0:04:01.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's crazy, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:01.58,0:04:03.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A stripper pole representing\Nthe feminist movement --
Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.53,0:04:07.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's got to be some people\Nrolling over in their graves! Heros of mine!
Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.52,0:04:09.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I'm going to tell you\Nabout this wild journey
Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.25,0:04:11.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I took over the last 23 years\Nthat brought me
Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.06,0:04:14.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to this place of clarity and conviction.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.15,0:04:16.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll set the scene for you.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.14,0:04:20.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,1989, La Cienega Boulevard\NStar Strip Gentleman's Club.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.66,0:04:22.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The first time I went into a strip club
Dialogue: 0,0:04:22.92,0:04:26.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was a young actress, \NI was helping a friend with a writing project
Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.17,0:04:28.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I was very unhappy\Nthat I had to go on to this place
Dialogue: 0,0:04:28.77,0:04:32.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I felt subjugated and objectified women.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.44,0:04:36.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But once inside I fell in love with
Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.37,0:04:38.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the movement of some of the dancers,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.28,0:04:41.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Their bodies undulated and they teased
Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.33,0:04:45.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they were provocative and sexual, \Nand so feminine.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.46,0:04:48.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I was desperate to learn how to do it.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.96,0:04:52.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I didn't want to be\Na professional stripper.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:52.22,0:04:55.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not that there's anything wrong with that!
Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.14,0:04:58.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I did is
Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.49,0:05:00.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wrote-produced a film
Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.40,0:05:02.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where I actually got to play a stripper.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:02.82,0:05:05.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And in the movie I needed to create a character
Dialogue: 0,0:05:05.18,0:05:08.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who lived and moved through her sexuality.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:08.48,0:05:10.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I thought this is going to be fun.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.37,0:05:12.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I, first day of rehearsal, put on this outfit
Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.91,0:05:14.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I thought would communicate
Dialogue: 0,0:05:14.67,0:05:17.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my sexy stripper-self into the world,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.82,0:05:21.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,please don't laugh or you can laugh!\N(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.84,0:05:23.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I got on stage in this outfit
Dialogue: 0,0:05:23.86,0:05:26.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the music comes on\Nand my body just goes:
Dialogue: 0,0:05:26.61,0:05:31.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,uh-uh -- uh-uh -- Ain't moving! \NAnd she froze!
Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.30,0:05:34.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now I was a dance major,\NNew York University,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.10,0:05:36.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm a professionally trained ballerina,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.02,0:05:37.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I should know how to do this.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:37.44,0:05:40.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But my body was like,\N"I am not having anything of it!"\N
Dialogue: 0,0:05:40.07,0:05:42.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I started to force her to kind of --
Dialogue: 0,0:05:42.22,0:05:44.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bop from side to side,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:44.50,0:05:47.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,trying to be really sexy,\Nit was so pathetic,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:47.45,0:05:49.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it was totally not sexy!
Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.70,0:05:51.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what I was realizing is that
Dialogue: 0,0:05:51.96,0:05:54.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nowhere in my being did I know
Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.04,0:05:57.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how to embody my sexuality\Nin my everyday life.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:57.46,0:06:00.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It wasn't that I didn't have sexuality. \NI for myself though it was fine.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:00.32,0:06:04.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was bringing my sexuality\Ninto my everyday life.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:04.33,0:06:08.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was faltering at being overtly feminine,\Nlike -- wow,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:08.01,0:06:11.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the body, which is a brilliantly\Nintuitive creature, speaks.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:11.29,0:06:12.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what my body was saying is:
Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.74,0:06:18.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You can clearly see,\Nis you have no idea who I am."
Dialogue: 0,0:06:18.24,0:06:19.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And she was completely right.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.76,0:06:21.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I knew something was missing\Ninside of me.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:21.81,0:06:26.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I spent the next 4 months, \Nas we developed the film,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:26.88,0:06:29.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hunting for who I was \Nas a sexually embodied creature.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:29.29,0:06:31.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I went to the strip clubs,\NI met dancers,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:31.54,0:06:33.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I dissected the movement\Nand I learned it,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:33.96,0:06:37.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and what I found inside of myself\NI did not expect.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:37.98,0:06:41.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I found its dark, soulful,\Nemotional sexuality
Dialogue: 0,0:06:41.31,0:06:45.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that gave me a confidence\Nin my body and my femininity
Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.36,0:06:46.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I'd never had before.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:46.44,0:06:49.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What awoke in me\Nwas my Erotic Creature.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:49.13,0:06:51.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All this is amazing,\Nbut it gets so much better,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:51.80,0:06:55.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because not only did I awaken\Nthat side of myself
Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.93,0:06:58.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but this side of myself\Nstarted changing everything
Dialogue: 0,0:06:58.82,0:07:01.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on the home front.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:01.31,0:07:04.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My marriage went from\N"Eh" to "Oh my God!"
Dialogue: 0,0:07:04.87,0:07:06.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's stayed there for 23 years.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:06.93,0:07:09.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I became a happier mother to my children,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:09.04,0:07:13.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I became a more complete woman\Non to myself.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:13.00,0:07:14.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I had to share this with other women.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:14.81,0:07:16.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was like, 'You've got -- this is it,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:16.51,0:07:18.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this is the Holy Grail of empowerment!'
Dialogue: 0,0:07:18.12,0:07:20.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they're like, 'Ok.'
Dialogue: 0,0:07:20.49,0:07:23.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I developed this movement called
Dialogue: 0,0:07:23.44,0:07:25.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'S Factor,' and I started teaching it
Dialogue: 0,0:07:25.02,0:07:27.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to fellow pre-school moms\Nand women in the neighbourhood
Dialogue: 0,0:07:27.38,0:07:32.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they too started releasing their sexuality
Dialogue: 0,0:07:32.20,0:07:36.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,into their everyday lives\Nand into their bodies and --
Dialogue: 0,0:07:36.31,0:07:38.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the same changes that I'd had in my life
Dialogue: 0,0:07:38.34,0:07:39.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they were having in theirs.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:39.85,0:07:41.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Happier relationships,\Nhappier children,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:41.71,0:07:44.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,happier women,\Nit caught on like wild fire.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:44.99,0:07:48.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The next thing I know I am on Oprah's.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:48.21,0:07:51.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We become -- \Nour effort becomes international news.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.11,0:07:55.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm inundated with e-mails\Nfrom all over the globe.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:55.43,0:07:59.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Apparently, the desire to be whole --
Dialogue: 0,0:07:59.60,0:08:02.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it crosses not only geographic boundaries
Dialogue: 0,0:08:02.26,0:08:04.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but political and cultural boundaries as well.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:04.80,0:08:07.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had tapped in a world-wide artery
Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.18,0:08:10.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of women all missing\Nthe same something I had been missing.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.67,0:08:13.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The Erotic creature was asleep globally.\NBut how was that possible?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:13.78,0:08:17.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I couldn't understand \Nhow could the woman from Saudi Arabia,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:17.34,0:08:20.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the woman from Beijing, the woman\Nfrom Buenos Aires and me in Los Angeles,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:20.72,0:08:24.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how could we all be missing the same thing?\NI needed to understand this.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:24.10,0:08:27.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I call it the 'Yin effect.'
Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.13,0:08:31.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Think of each person, male or female,\Nhaving within the potential
Dialogue: 0,0:08:31.49,0:08:34.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of Yin-feminine and Yang-masculine energy,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:34.10,0:08:38.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we live in a world that cuts out\Na piece of Yin in all of us.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:38.31,0:08:40.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if you jump into that Yin,\Nyou'll see that
Dialogue: 0,0:08:40.94,0:08:44.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's the physicality and sexuality\Nof the feminine body that's shut down.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:44.58,0:08:46.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the more women I talked to, \Nthe more I learned.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.88,0:08:49.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what I learned is that \Nthe shutting down of the Yin
Dialogue: 0,0:08:49.41,0:08:51.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,starts with the first offense.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:51.96,0:08:55.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The first offense is\Nthe first time anyone or anything
Dialogue: 0,0:08:55.14,0:09:00.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,brings negative attention, \Njudgment or shame to your body.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:00.03,0:09:02.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So my first offense happened\Nwhen I was 7
Dialogue: 0,0:09:02.64,0:09:06.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and this is the picture of what \Na 7-year-old little girl's body looks like
Dialogue: 0,0:09:06.82,0:09:10.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just for you to refer to throughout the story -- \Nthis is my daughter.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:10.02,0:09:13.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was hanging out with my best friends, \NBrian and Donald Doyle,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:13.27,0:09:15.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they were 7 and 8 respectively, \Nwe were hanging out
Dialogue: 0,0:09:15.99,0:09:18.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the backyard, it was summer, \Nit was really hot,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:18.07,0:09:20.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we were playing, \Nwe decided to take a break
Dialogue: 0,0:09:20.22,0:09:23.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we went to cool down,\Nso we all took our tops off and
Dialogue: 0,0:09:23.33,0:09:28.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we laid back in the grass, arms over the head,\Nit was an awesome day,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:28.01,0:09:29.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the air was cooling my chest,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:29.85,0:09:31.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it was a beautiful, innocent day.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:31.76,0:09:34.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And all of a sudden the upstairs window\Nof their house was flying open
Dialogue: 0,0:09:34.43,0:09:36.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Mrs Doyle stuck her head out
Dialogue: 0,0:09:36.85,0:09:39.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and she screamed\Nin the most piercing voice,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:39.26,0:09:43.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'Sheila Kelley! You naughty little girl!
Dialogue: 0,0:09:43.17,0:09:50.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You put your top on immediately, you ought\Nto be ashamed of yourself and go home.'
Dialogue: 0,0:09:50.77,0:09:53.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My shoulders started\Nto pinch up towards my ears,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:53.80,0:09:57.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my chest caved-in\Nwith this new-found emotion of shame,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:57.24,0:10:00.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I couldn't breathe, \Nit was the moment I began
Dialogue: 0,0:10:00.91,0:10:03.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to separate from my female body.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:03.73,0:10:06.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mrs hadn't yelled at her boys\Nbut she yelled at me
Dialogue: 0,0:10:06.71,0:10:09.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but we did the same thing.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:09.20,0:10:12.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I learned that day is\Nit's safe and good
Dialogue: 0,0:10:12.88,0:10:15.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to be in a male body,\Nand it's not safe,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:15.47,0:10:17.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's dangerous\Nto be in a female body.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:17.60,0:10:19.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mrs Doyle didn't hate me,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.65,0:10:22.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she was trying to curb\Na sexuality that scared her,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:22.15,0:10:23.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that didn't even exist yet.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:23.73,0:10:25.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She thought she had\Nthe right to tell me what
Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.36,0:10:27.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I could and couldn't do with my body.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:27.54,0:10:31.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These kind of stories play out\Nevery single day all over the globe.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:31.19,0:10:34.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are stealing the light and the life
Dialogue: 0,0:10:34.56,0:10:38.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from these creatures,\Nthese beautiful feminine creatures.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:38.60,0:10:42.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every single woman you know\N
Dialogue: 0,0:10:42.31,0:10:44.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has had a first offense,\Nwhether she's aware of it or not.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:44.27,0:10:47.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And she's had subsequent offenses\Nevery day of her life, offenses like
Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.97,0:10:50.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'keep your knees together',\N'don't move like that',
Dialogue: 0,0:10:50.53,0:10:54.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'she's a slut',\N'you look like a whore'.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:54.08,0:10:56.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These offenses eat away \Nat the emotional boundary
Dialogue: 0,0:10:56.54,0:10:59.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the ego of the body\Nuntil you do not know
Dialogue: 0,0:10:59.35,0:11:01.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where your body begins\Nand where your body ends.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:01.46,0:11:05.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You think anyone, anytime, \Nanywhere can tell you
Dialogue: 0,0:11:05.30,0:11:07.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what you can\Nand cannot do in your body
Dialogue: 0,0:11:07.57,0:11:10.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the only choice you have\Nis to shut it down.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:10.40,0:11:12.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So let's understand these offenses\Na little better
Dialogue: 0,0:11:12.11,0:11:15.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'cause they're tricky \Nand you can't always tell they're offenses.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:15.71,0:11:18.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And there's a spectrum of them\Nand they're global
Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.90,0:11:20.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they range in noticeability.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:20.58,0:11:23.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If some of these pictures are difficult -- \Nplease avert your eyes.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:23.86,0:11:27.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They range from barbaric, \Nsuch as the stoning to death of a woman
Dialogue: 0,0:11:27.40,0:11:29.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who expresses her sexuality.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:29.38,0:11:35.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or brutal, the creating \Nof a human chastity belt made of flash.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:35.57,0:11:40.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or overt, the mandatory veiling\Nof the female body.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:40.53,0:11:43.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To subtle controls,\Nthings like offensive advertising
Dialogue: 0,0:11:43.56,0:11:46.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that eats away\Nyour integrity of your body.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:46.25,0:11:50.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To subliminal controls, \Nthe infantile global uproar
Dialogue: 0,0:11:50.72,0:11:53.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,over a pair of royal nipples.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:53.66,0:11:59.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now really, honestly, I just don't know\Nwhich pair of nipples were so offensive!
Dialogue: 0,0:11:59.19,0:12:00.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But that's another talk!
Dialogue: 0,0:12:00.62,0:12:03.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I wanna switch\Nthe table on you for a second.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:03.36,0:12:06.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you know\Nwho I find incredibly attractive
Dialogue: 0,0:12:06.50,0:12:08.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I think if I saw his bare nipples
Dialogue: 0,0:12:08.33,0:12:11.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would be so sexually aroused\Nthat I couldn't control myself?
Dialogue: 0,0:12:11.61,0:12:15.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Daniel Craig.\NI don't even look over there
Dialogue: 0,0:12:15.26,0:12:22.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because -- I kind of think Daniel Craig\Nshould cover his nipples, too!
Dialogue: 0,0:12:22.34,0:12:27.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) (Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:12:27.77,0:12:30.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I know, I know,\Nit's absurd, but is it?
Dialogue: 0,0:12:30.38,0:12:36.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are laughing at this\Nbut we are doing this to the female body.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:36.19,0:12:39.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Globally.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:39.14,0:12:42.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What each and every one of these\Noffenses have in common
Dialogue: 0,0:12:42.22,0:12:45.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is the desire -- their end-goal is to control
Dialogue: 0,0:12:45.60,0:12:48.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and limit the female body and sexuality,\N
Dialogue: 0,0:12:48.17,0:12:50.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to control the clitoris, \Nto control the vagina,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:50.88,0:12:54.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to control the uterus,\Nto control all of it.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:54.05,0:12:58.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We don't want to think\Nthat atrocities like acid-burnings
Dialogue: 0,0:12:58.30,0:13:00.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for turning down a marriage proposal
Dialogue: 0,0:13:00.26,0:13:02.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are related to atrocities like
Dialogue: 0,0:13:02.86,0:13:06.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,domestic abuse for turning down\Na marriage proposal.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:06.41,0:13:08.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But as you can see\Nthey're the exact same thing
Dialogue: 0,0:13:08.31,0:13:11.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they're just using different tactics of control
Dialogue: 0,0:13:11.25,0:13:14.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in different degrees.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:14.28,0:13:16.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when you hear repeatedly
Dialogue: 0,0:13:16.73,0:13:19.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that your body is obscene or indecent
Dialogue: 0,0:13:19.67,0:13:23.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you begin to internalize it, \Nand you start to self-control
Dialogue: 0,0:13:23.15,0:13:25.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you start to try and hide your body,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:25.40,0:13:31.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you try and hide your sexuality\Nin unhealthy eating habits,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:31.69,0:13:34.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or you hide in skin and bones,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:34.42,0:13:38.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you'll do anything you can to hide.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:38.09,0:13:40.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or you start to cut.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:40.60,0:13:45.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or you try to become \Nsomebody else's ideal of perfection.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:45.48,0:13:49.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or you'll mini-man yourself up\Nso that you can be taken more seriously
Dialogue: 0,0:13:49.17,0:13:51.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in a world that values\Nall that is masculine.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:51.72,0:13:55.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or you just live where 80% of the women\Nin America live
Dialogue: 0,0:13:55.08,0:13:56.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is where something is missing
Dialogue: 0,0:13:56.85,0:13:59.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you have no idea what it is.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:59.44,0:14:06.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What we have done to the ego\Nof the female body is --
Dialogue: 0,0:14:06.16,0:14:08.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's horrific.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:08.31,0:14:10.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have squandered and abused
Dialogue: 0,0:14:10.81,0:14:12.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one of the sweetest, most vulnerable,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:12.94,0:14:14.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,most adorable creatures on the planet,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:14.89,0:14:19.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we -- all of us -- \Nwe are all paying the price,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:19.01,0:14:22.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because if you think\Nwomen are the only one scarred
Dialogue: 0,0:14:22.32,0:14:24.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the relationship to their body,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:24.46,0:14:27.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,think about this:\Nwhat the Doyle boys learned
Dialogue: 0,0:14:27.02,0:14:28.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on the day of my first offense
Dialogue: 0,0:14:28.22,0:14:29.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was exactly what I learned.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:29.28,0:14:32.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They learned that their body \Nwas more valuable than my body.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:32.96,0:14:35.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They learned that if their mother\Ncould tell me
Dialogue: 0,0:14:35.80,0:14:38.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what I could and couldn't do in my body
Dialogue: 0,0:14:38.99,0:14:41.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then maybe someday they could, too.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:41.19,0:14:46.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Men too are scarred in relationship \Nto the feminine body through these offenses.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:46.72,0:14:49.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In a UCLA study of normal college students
Dialogue: 0,0:14:49.65,0:14:52.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,over 50% of the young men said \Nthey would rape a woman
Dialogue: 0,0:14:52.94,0:14:57.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if they knew there was no punishment.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:57.31,0:15:00.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For the majority of men\Nthe most arousing fantasy
Dialogue: 0,0:15:00.08,0:15:01.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was the rape of a young woman
Dialogue: 0,0:15:01.28,0:15:05.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where she experienced\Nboth orgasm and pain.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:05.53,0:15:08.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right? Kind of sobering.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:08.75,0:15:14.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There was a time\Nwhen the female body was worshiped,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:14.45,0:15:16.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not just for her life-giving ability,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:16.35,0:15:20.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but for her heightened senses, \Nher emotional acuity,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:20.97,0:15:24.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,her brilliant intuition \Nand her dance of the fertility.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:24.11,0:15:28.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this dance took place\Nat night when the women --
Dialogue: 0,0:15:28.70,0:15:31.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and only the women --\Nwould gather over the fields
Dialogue: 0,0:15:31.03,0:15:34.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they would do --\Nthey would undulate their pelvises
Dialogue: 0,0:15:34.38,0:15:39.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,over the crops to fertilize the soil,\Nto feed the village.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:39.74,0:15:42.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's the true origin\Nof what we know as
Dialogue: 0,0:15:42.62,0:15:45.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'fertility dance',\Nwhich became erotic dance,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:45.15,0:15:48.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which became what we know today\Nas strip-tease and pole-dancing.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:48.01,0:15:51.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was a celebration\Nof the feminine body.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:51.77,0:15:57.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It began as a dance of life.\NThe great mythologist
Dialogue: 0,0:15:57.90,0:16:00.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and philosopher\NJoseph Campbell wrote,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:00.59,0:16:04.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'Woman is life and Man is the protector of life.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:04.85,0:16:08.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The male's job is to protect the women.'
Dialogue: 0,0:16:08.46,0:16:10.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Somehow we have --
Dialogue: 0,0:16:10.29,0:16:13.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the way we've learned\Nhow to protect has become perverted.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:13.45,0:16:16.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are protecting \Nby dousing the flame of the feminine.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:16.84,0:16:21.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are serving by controlling \Nthe body of the feminine
Dialogue: 0,0:16:21.42,0:16:24.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,instead of doing what we have to do\Nand that is
Dialogue: 0,0:16:24.25,0:16:27.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to turn our masculine energy out and face
Dialogue: 0,0:16:27.57,0:16:30.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,any on-coming threat\Nso that the feminine
Dialogue: 0,0:16:30.77,0:16:36.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can blossom and grow\Nand radiate and be life.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:36.53,0:16:39.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The next wave \Nof the feminist movement is actually --
Dialogue: 0,0:16:39.29,0:16:42.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's a human movement\Nand it includes all of us
Dialogue: 0,0:16:42.30,0:16:44.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it is the reclamation of the beauty
Dialogue: 0,0:16:44.34,0:16:48.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the genius of both\Nthe masculine and the feminine.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:48.10,0:16:51.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it all begins with the awakening\Nof the Erotic Creature in every woman
Dialogue: 0,0:16:51.98,0:16:56.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because when a woman steps into\Nher power in her body
Dialogue: 0,0:16:56.14,0:17:01.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she calls every single masculine\Ninto his greatest power.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:01.70,0:17:03.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When she gets stronger\Nhe gets stronger.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:03.36,0:17:05.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we as a culture diminish her
Dialogue: 0,0:17:05.72,0:17:10.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we are diminishing our culture.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:10.70,0:17:13.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The female-male complement can exist
Dialogue: 0,0:17:13.50,0:17:15.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and only when we cultivate it
Dialogue: 0,0:17:15.07,0:17:17.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are we really going to live up\Nto the potential --
Dialogue: 0,0:17:17.06,0:17:20.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the true potential of ourselves\Nindividually and collectively.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:20.56,0:17:24.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is my guy. \NWe cultivate every single day,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:24.27,0:17:26.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's not perfect,\Nthere are ups and downs,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:26.26,0:17:31.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but we dance the dance\Nof empowering one another.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:31.76,0:17:36.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now here I am totally naked.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:36.39,0:17:40.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we all strip bare every day
Dialogue: 0,0:17:40.78,0:17:45.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and expose our deepest truth,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:45.10,0:17:47.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we can live naked in our passion,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:47.82,0:17:51.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,naked in our power, \Nnaked in ourselves,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:51.22,0:17:52.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,naked in the moment.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:52.94,0:17:56.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I reclaimed my body after a lifetime of
Dialogue: 0,0:17:56.41,0:17:59.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,self-criticism brought on\Nby a society that
Dialogue: 0,0:17:59.46,0:18:03.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,curbed her enthusiasm for life,\Nand in doing so
Dialogue: 0,0:18:03.67,0:18:08.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have become, as Charles Dickens\Nso beautifully wrote,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:08.05,0:18:11.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'the hero of my own life'. \NSo the choice is yours.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:11.99,0:18:16.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you dare to become\Nthe heroes of your lives
Dialogue: 0,0:18:16.20,0:18:18.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and reclaim your essence?
Dialogue: 0,0:18:18.82,0:18:22.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you dare to live naked?
Dialogue: 0,0:18:22.39,0:18:23.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So when you walk out of this talk,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:23.88,0:18:25.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you leave this talk, women,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:25.48,0:18:29.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,step into the grandeur, \Nthe beauty, the gorgeousness
Dialogue: 0,0:18:29.31,0:18:32.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the sway, the curve, \Nthe power, the fire of your body,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:32.58,0:18:35.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of your spirit, of your emotions.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:35.87,0:18:38.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want you to undulate your spine
Dialogue: 0,0:18:38.21,0:18:40.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and just rock your body, sway it, move it,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:40.23,0:18:41.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,stretch it, reach your arms up,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:41.57,0:18:43.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can do it right now if you want to.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:43.61,0:18:48.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want you to go out and throw a hip-circle\Nin the middle of the grocery store!
Dialogue: 0,0:18:48.84,0:18:51.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just for the fun of it!
Dialogue: 0,0:18:51.19,0:18:53.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want you to spread\Nyour radiance with a smile
Dialogue: 0,0:18:53.81,0:18:56.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like right into the eyes of a stranger.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:56.22,0:18:58.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I'm going to feed you \Nand you're going to feed me.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:58.73,0:19:05.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And men, step into the magnificence \Nof the masculine creature that you are.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:05.26,0:19:08.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Create a space of safety\Nfor the feminine to thrive.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:08.52,0:19:11.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Serve her, protect her, face out and
Dialogue: 0,0:19:11.20,0:19:14.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hold her in your gaze and elevate her.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:14.14,0:19:17.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because when you elevate her
Dialogue: 0,0:19:17.84,0:19:21.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you will behold in front of you
Dialogue: 0,0:19:21.31,0:19:24.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the eternal and the sacred feminine.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:24.68,0:19:26.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She's here right this minute,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:26.40,0:19:28.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she is in front of you,\Nshe's next to you,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:28.23,0:19:30.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she's behind you,\Nshe is every woman,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:30.93,0:19:32.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she is the swoop of the neck,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:32.48,0:19:35.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the turn of an ankle, \Nand the curve up the lower back,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:35.66,0:19:37.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and she's the deep emotional heart,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:37.66,0:19:41.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she is the wise intuitive soul,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:41.70,0:19:44.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and when you see her,\Nwhen you awaken her
Dialogue: 0,0:19:44.90,0:19:47.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you behold her\N-- oh my God --
Dialogue: 0,0:19:47.30,0:19:49.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whether you are a man, \Na woman or a child,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:49.62,0:19:55.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you will be filled up, \Nsplit open into your bliss
Dialogue: 0,0:19:55.19,0:19:59.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because that is the power\Nof the feminine.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:59.56,0:20:01.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And one more thing.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:01.48,0:20:03.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Women --
Dialogue: 0,0:20:03.43,0:20:06.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you walk into a room,
Dialogue: 0,0:20:06.17,0:20:09.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,remember your breasts \Nshould enter 5 minutes before you
Dialogue: 0,0:20:09.15,0:20:13.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and your glories ass should leave\N5 minutes after you're gone!
Dialogue: 0,0:20:13.28,0:20:14.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you very much!
Dialogue: 0,0:20:14.98,0:20:23.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause and cheers)
Dialogue: 0,0:20:23.41,0:20:26.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you.\N(Applause)