WEBVTT 00:00:00.070 --> 00:00:01.360 Welcome to Just Between Us 00:00:01.751 --> 00:00:02.880 I'm Allison! 00:00:02.988 --> 00:00:04.283 I'm Gaby. Or am I? 00:00:04.359 --> 00:00:05.783 My hair's so different. 00:00:05.871 --> 00:00:06.950 Yeah it's different. 00:00:06.950 --> 00:00:07.933 We both went through 00:00:07.933 --> 00:00:08.991 huge transformations. 00:00:09.058 --> 00:00:10.213 I cut my own bangs. 00:00:10.405 --> 00:00:11.347 Allison, my hair is 00:00:11.347 --> 00:00:13.088 literally a totally different color. 00:00:13.088 --> 00:00:14.401 You're not gonna talk about 00:00:14.401 --> 00:00:15.479 how I changed my hair? 00:00:15.479 --> 00:00:16.400 I said I liked it! 00:00:16.400 --> 00:00:17.633 Yeah, but isn't it like- 00:00:17.712 --> 00:00:18.752 extreme? 00:00:18.872 --> 00:00:20.084 It's too much, maybe? 00:00:20.195 --> 00:00:21.955 It's like- it's like too punk? 00:00:22.173 --> 00:00:23.374 I think it looks nice. 00:00:23.496 --> 00:00:24.233 (sighs) 00:00:24.302 --> 00:00:25.715 Well that's disappointing. 00:00:25.842 --> 00:00:27.012 Why do I do anything 00:00:27.070 --> 00:00:28.541 if it's not gonna shock you? 00:00:28.662 --> 00:00:30.017 It's very hard to shock me 00:00:30.017 --> 00:00:30.989 at this point. 00:00:31.141 --> 00:00:32.410 I'm still uncomfortable. 00:00:32.505 --> 00:00:33.972 I'm just not shocked. 00:00:34.131 --> 00:00:37.300 ♪ (groovy music) ♪ 00:00:38.240 --> 00:00:39.275 This week, 00:00:39.322 --> 00:00:40.867 we have a REAL question 00:00:40.946 --> 00:00:42.501 from a REAL viewer. 00:00:42.557 --> 00:00:43.567 That's right, folks. 00:00:43.590 --> 00:00:45.680 People have been emailing our gmail! 00:00:46.517 --> 00:00:48.088 I actually looked at the gmail, 00:00:48.088 --> 00:00:48.957 and it's true. 00:00:49.054 --> 00:00:50.501 People HAVE been emailing us. 00:00:50.501 --> 00:00:51.452 I can't believe it. 00:00:51.521 --> 00:00:52.829 There are like 7 emails 00:00:52.890 --> 00:00:54.393 spread across the country! 00:00:54.510 --> 00:00:56.382 Including one from Ireland! 00:00:56.520 --> 00:00:57.824 Hello, mom and dad. 00:00:57.928 --> 00:00:59.872 I'm doing something with my life. 00:00:59.954 --> 00:01:02.019 This week's REAL question is 00:01:02.110 --> 00:01:03.772 how do you hit on a guy 00:01:03.857 --> 00:01:04.716 when you're out? 00:01:04.843 --> 00:01:07.410 From Emily in Georgia. 00:01:08.139 --> 00:01:09.454 Here is a misconception: 00:01:09.545 --> 00:01:11.602 that all women are desirable. 00:01:12.042 --> 00:01:13.744 I'm not saying that you won't be 00:01:13.819 --> 00:01:15.311 desirable to some men, 00:01:15.405 --> 00:01:17.910 but you're not desirable to all men. 00:01:18.570 --> 00:01:19.743 Uhh, nope. 00:01:19.821 --> 00:01:21.335 I think pretty much any girl 00:01:21.380 --> 00:01:22.547 could get any guy. 00:01:22.590 --> 00:01:24.134 I can prove you wrong. 00:01:24.255 --> 00:01:26.534 Maybe you just need to have confidence. 00:01:26.630 --> 00:01:27.809 I like to do a game 00:01:27.809 --> 00:01:29.403 where I'm super mean to them. 00:01:29.550 --> 00:01:30.989 So maybe go up and 00:01:30.989 --> 00:01:32.138 insult their jacket, 00:01:32.138 --> 00:01:34.114 or tell them their hair looks stupid. 00:01:34.389 --> 00:01:35.954 Just anything to make them 00:01:36.059 --> 00:01:37.963 doubt themselves and then 00:01:37.963 --> 00:01:39.306 you just swoop in there. 00:01:39.814 --> 00:01:41.190 My biggest piece of advice 00:01:41.190 --> 00:01:42.393 on how to hit on a guy 00:01:42.393 --> 00:01:44.178 when you're out is don't bring Gaby. 00:01:44.178 --> 00:01:45.523 I've never had you not 00:01:45.570 --> 00:01:48.268 cause the man to leave in an uproar 00:01:48.316 --> 00:01:50.323 or cause the man to leave with you. 00:01:50.481 --> 00:01:51.959 Yeah, that's success. 00:01:52.000 --> 00:01:53.401 I think that you should only 00:01:53.506 --> 00:01:54.517 be interested enough 00:01:54.517 --> 00:01:56.514 where you could deny your interest later. 00:01:56.514 --> 00:01:58.477 Y'know, so you don't get embarrassed. 00:01:58.564 --> 00:02:00.194 If I could go up to men 00:02:00.194 --> 00:02:01.834 that I was interested in in public 00:02:01.834 --> 00:02:03.297 and just put a sticker on them 00:02:03.297 --> 00:02:04.180 that says 'mine', 00:02:04.180 --> 00:02:05.080 I would do that. 00:02:05.080 --> 00:02:06.108 And there wouldn't be 00:02:06.108 --> 00:02:07.611 any men left for everyone else. 00:02:07.611 --> 00:02:08.938 That's because no one else 00:02:08.938 --> 00:02:10.171 had stickers printed off. 00:02:10.171 --> 00:02:10.896 Emily, 00:02:10.896 --> 00:02:11.923 you can meet someone 00:02:11.923 --> 00:02:13.383 anywhere you want to. 00:02:13.383 --> 00:02:14.587 That's the privilege of 00:02:14.597 --> 00:02:15.340 being a girl. 00:02:15.340 --> 00:02:16.822 That's the one benefit we get. 00:02:16.822 --> 00:02:17.934 Couldn't vote til 1920, 00:02:17.934 --> 00:02:19.100 but we can hook up with 00:02:19.100 --> 00:02:20.478 pretty much any guy we want. 00:02:20.654 --> 00:02:23.360 ♪ (groovy music) ♪ 00:02:23.910 --> 00:02:25.303 Just be as weird as possible. 00:02:25.303 --> 00:02:26.115 I don't like when 00:02:26.115 --> 00:02:26.847 girls are like 00:02:26.847 --> 00:02:28.689 "what should I write back in this text? 00:02:28.689 --> 00:02:30.123 What should I say to this guy?" 00:02:30.123 --> 00:02:31.230 Say fucking crazy shit. 00:02:31.230 --> 00:02:32.285 Be like, "did you know 00:02:32.285 --> 00:02:33.769 a duck's penis is a corkscrew?" 00:02:33.769 --> 00:02:34.532 Whatever! 00:02:34.532 --> 00:02:35.910 And then if they can't hang, 00:02:35.910 --> 00:02:36.661 they'll leave and 00:02:36.661 --> 00:02:37.391 then you didn't 00:02:37.391 --> 00:02:38.211 want them anyway. 00:02:38.211 --> 00:02:38.951 A duck's penis, 00:02:38.951 --> 00:02:40.339 it's the shape of a corkscrew? 00:02:40.339 --> 00:02:41.067 Oh yeah! 00:02:41.067 --> 00:02:41.930 Because the duck's 00:02:41.930 --> 00:02:43.004 vagina is labyrinthian.