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Welcome to Just Between Us

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I'm Allison!

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I'm Gaby. Or am I?

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My hair's so different.

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Yeah it's different.

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We both went through

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huge transformations.

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I cut my own bangs.

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Allison, my hair is

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literally a totally different color.

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You're not gonna talk about

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how I changed my hair?

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I said I liked it!

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Yeah, but isn't it like-

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extreme?

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It's too much, maybe?

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It's like- it's like too punk?

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I think it looks nice.

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(sighs)

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Well that's disappointing.

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Why do I do anything

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if it's not gonna shock you?

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It's very hard to shock me

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at this point.

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I'm still uncomfortable.

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I'm just not shocked.

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♪ (groovy music) ♪

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This week,

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we have a REAL question

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from a REAL viewer.

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That's right, folks.

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People have been emailing our gmail!

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I actually looked at the gmail,

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and it's true.

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People HAVE been emailing us.

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I can't believe it.

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There are like 7 emails

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spread across the country!

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Including one from Ireland!

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Hello, mom and dad.

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I'm doing something with my life.

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This week's REAL question is

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how do you hit on a guy

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when you're out?

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From Emily in Georgia.

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Here is a misconception:

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that all women are desirable.

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I'm not saying that you won't be

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desirable to some men,

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but you're not desirable to all men.

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Uhh, nope.

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I think pretty much any girl

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could get any guy.

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I can prove you wrong.

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Maybe you just need to have confidence.

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I like to do a game

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where I'm super mean to them.

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So maybe go up and

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insult their jacket,

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or tell them their hair looks stupid.

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Just anything to make them

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doubt themselves and then

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you just swoop in there.

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My biggest piece of advice

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on how to hit on a guy

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when you're out is don't bring Gaby.

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I've never had you not

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cause the man to leave in an uproar

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or cause the man to leave with you.

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Yeah, that's success.

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I think that you should only

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be interested enough

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where you could deny your interest later.

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Y'know, so you don't get embarrassed.

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If I could go up to men

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that I was interested in in public

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and just put a sticker on them

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that says 'mine',

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I would do that.

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And there wouldn't be

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any men left for everyone else.

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That's because no one else

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had stickers printed off.

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Emily,

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you can meet someone

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anywhere you want to.

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That's the privilege of

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being a girl.

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That's the one benefit we get.

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Couldn't vote til 1920,

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but we can hook up with

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pretty much any guy we want.

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♪ (groovy music) ♪

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Just be as weird as possible.

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I don't like when

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girls are like

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"what should I write back in this text?

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What should I say to this guy?"

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Say fucking crazy shit.

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Be like, "did you know

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a duck's penis is a corkscrew?"

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Whatever!

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And then if they can't hang,

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they'll leave and

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then you didn't

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want them anyway.

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A duck's penis,

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it's the shape of a corkscrew?

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Oh yeah!

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Because the duck's

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vagina is labyrinthian.