WEBVTT 00:00:04.516 --> 00:00:06.066 John Oliver: This has clearly been 00:00:06.066 --> 00:00:08.916 a big week for the LGBT community. 00:00:08.916 --> 00:00:10.644 But it's also been a big year 00:00:10.644 --> 00:00:13.024 for the T part of that equation 00:00:13.024 --> 00:00:14.673 from Caitlyn Jenner's Vanity Fair cover 00:00:14.673 --> 00:00:16.852 to TV shows like Transparent 00:00:16.858 --> 00:00:18.557 uh, to another small milestone 00:00:18.557 --> 00:00:19.474 just this Friday. 00:00:19.474 --> 00:00:20.957 Announcer: "Actress Laverne Cox 00:00:20.957 --> 00:00:23.078 marked another milestone with the drop 00:00:23.078 --> 00:00:25.023 of a curtain at Madame Tussaud's 00:00:25.023 --> 00:00:26.077 San Francisco" 00:00:26.077 --> 00:00:28.762 John Oliver: Now that is big step forward 00:00:28.762 --> 00:00:30.272 for transgender Americans. 00:00:30.272 --> 00:00:31.615 And it's frankly about time. 00:00:31.615 --> 00:00:32.765 Because bear in mind, 00:00:32.765 --> 00:00:34.716 it came after the same milestone 00:00:34.716 --> 00:00:36.190 for Spider Americans 00:00:36.190 --> 00:00:37.700 and wookies. 00:00:38.840 --> 00:00:41.730 But for all the strides transgender people 00:00:41.730 --> 00:00:42.820 have made lately, 00:00:42.820 --> 00:00:44.580 let's not get too complacent 00:00:44.580 --> 00:00:45.826 about how far we've come. 00:00:45.826 --> 00:00:48.568 Because they still face a host of obstacles. 00:00:48.568 --> 00:00:50.313 Even when the news media are trying 00:00:50.313 --> 00:00:51.292 to be supportive, 00:00:51.292 --> 00:00:53.462 they can make dumb mistakes. 00:00:53.462 --> 00:00:54.827 Host: Your... private parts 00:00:54.827 --> 00:00:56.197 are different now, aren't they? 00:00:56.197 --> 00:00:56.927 Trans interviewee: Shh, Shh! 00:00:56.927 --> 00:00:58.677 I don't want to talk about it 00:00:58.677 --> 00:00:59.807 because it's still- 00:00:59.807 --> 00:01:00.770 it's really personal. 00:01:00.770 --> 00:01:01.520 Host: Don't you 00:01:01.520 --> 00:01:02.386 feel funny with the- 00:01:02.639 --> 00:01:03.799 wrong genitalia? 00:01:04.530 --> 00:01:05.644 Not as a joke, 00:01:05.644 --> 00:01:07.216 you stand up in the women's bathroom. 00:01:07.460 --> 00:01:08.880 Host: You've got breast implants. 00:01:08.880 --> 00:01:10.253 Laverne Cox: [laughs] 00:01:10.253 --> 00:01:12.273 I, you know, I, uh 00:01:12.273 --> 00:01:13.993 Host: They're tasteful, whatever's going on there. 00:01:13.993 --> 00:01:14.740 LC: Thank you. 00:01:14.999 --> 00:01:16.779 Host: So if I saw you undressed, 00:01:16.989 --> 00:01:18.139 you would look 00:01:18.139 --> 00:01:20.769 like a woman to me, totally- 00:01:20.769 --> 00:01:21.899 yes? 00:01:22.516 --> 00:01:25.046 John Oliver: What are you doing?? 00:01:25.046 --> 00:01:27.083 It is no more okay to ask 00:01:27.083 --> 00:01:29.168 transgender people about their sex organs 00:01:29.168 --> 00:01:30.324 then it would be to ask 00:01:30.324 --> 00:01:31.730 Jimmy Carter whether or not 00:01:31.730 --> 00:01:33.004 he's circumcised. 00:01:33.376 --> 00:01:34.493 Which, by the way, 00:01:34.493 --> 00:01:36.453 he is. 00:01:36.453 --> 00:01:38.773 Smooth like a boiled carrot. 00:01:38.773 --> 00:01:40.607 And, and sometimes 00:01:40.607 --> 00:01:42.247 sometimes- don't think about that- 00:01:42.247 --> 00:01:43.627 and sometimes 00:01:43.627 --> 00:01:44.937 the media's confusion 00:01:44.937 --> 00:01:46.487 is even more basic than that. 00:01:46.487 --> 00:01:47.507 As in the case of 00:01:47.507 --> 00:01:48.884 this Arizona weatherman 00:01:48.884 --> 00:01:50.312 just two weeks ago. 00:01:50.312 --> 00:01:52.432 Announcer: And a transgender woman 00:01:52.432 --> 00:01:53.541 says she was kicked out 00:01:53.541 --> 00:01:54.693 of a Tempe bar 00:01:54.693 --> 00:01:56.131 Weatherman: Let's bring it back 00:01:56.131 --> 00:01:57.361 to that earlier headline. 00:01:57.361 --> 00:01:59.181 Now, what is a transgender woman? 00:01:59.181 --> 00:01:59.781 Announcer: Yes? 00:02:00.450 --> 00:02:02.970 Weatherman: What does that even mean now? 00:02:03.024 --> 00:02:03.974 Announcer: Ok... 00:02:06.039 --> 00:02:07.522 She- used to be a guy! 00:02:08.334 --> 00:02:09.818 Announcer 2: But now is a woman. 00:02:12.936 --> 00:02:15.836 Announcer: This is, this is uh, chuckles 00:02:16.045 --> 00:02:18.062 Weatherman: Aren't you just saying a woman then? 00:02:18.062 --> 00:02:20.542 I, I can't even keep up anymore! 00:02:20.839 --> 00:02:22.509 John Oliver: Holy Shit! 00:02:22.509 --> 00:02:24.264 I really hope that's also 00:02:24.264 --> 00:02:25.875 how he reports the weather. 00:02:26.001 --> 00:02:28.150 Wait, wait, it used to be rainy- 00:02:28.150 --> 00:02:29.493 and now it's sunny? 00:02:29.493 --> 00:02:31.743 So, so now it's just sunny? 00:02:31.743 --> 00:02:33.970 I can't even keep up anymore! 00:02:33.970 --> 00:02:34.722 I can't- 00:02:34.722 --> 00:02:37.554 This doesn't make my head work! 00:02:38.224 --> 00:02:40.344 Look- let's give him 00:02:40.344 --> 00:02:41.934 the benefit of the doubt. 00:02:41.934 --> 00:02:42.941 Maybe for him, 00:02:42.941 --> 00:02:43.907 and for many people 00:02:43.907 --> 00:02:45.088 this is new information. 00:02:45.088 --> 00:02:46.518 Maybe he's thinking about 00:02:46.518 --> 00:02:48.228 transgender issues for the first time 00:02:48.228 --> 00:02:49.469 And he needs a minute 00:02:49.469 --> 00:02:50.874 to try and understand it. 00:02:50.874 --> 00:02:52.351 So let's take that minute 00:02:52.351 --> 00:02:54.694 to fill in that bamboozled weatherman 00:02:54.694 --> 00:02:57.285 And everyone else on some basic details. 00:02:57.285 --> 00:02:59.945 Transgender people have a gender identity 00:02:59.945 --> 00:03:01.154 that differs from the one 00:03:01.154 --> 00:03:02.234 they were assigned at birth 00:03:02.234 --> 00:03:03.618 and that gender identity 00:03:03.618 --> 00:03:05.525 is not the same as sexual orientation. 00:03:05.525 --> 00:03:07.193 Gender Identity is who you are, 00:03:07.193 --> 00:03:09.571 Sexual Orientation is who you love. 00:03:09.571 --> 00:03:11.529 Some transgender people do 00:03:11.529 --> 00:03:12.925 undergo hormone therapy 00:03:12.925 --> 00:03:14.036 or sexual reassignment surgery 00:03:14.036 --> 00:03:16.066 as part of their transition, some do not! 00:03:16.066 --> 00:03:18.603 And interestingly, their decision on this matter is 00:03:18.603 --> 00:03:19.593 medically speaking, 00:03:19.593 --> 00:03:21.405 none of your fucking business. 00:03:21.405 --> 00:03:22.564 Audience: [cheering] 00:03:22.564 --> 00:03:24.474 And if you're still wondering 00:03:24.474 --> 00:03:26.314 well hold on, hold on, 00:03:26.314 --> 00:03:28.864 what do I call a transgender person 00:03:28.864 --> 00:03:29.922 it's so confusing, 00:03:29.922 --> 00:03:31.502 well actually it's pretty simple. 00:03:31.502 --> 00:03:33.992 Call them, whatever they want to be called. 00:03:33.992 --> 00:03:34.879 You can do it! 00:03:34.879 --> 00:03:36.441 We do it all the time. 00:03:36.441 --> 00:03:37.535 Think of it this way. 00:03:37.535 --> 00:03:39.165 David Evans woke up one day 00:03:39.165 --> 00:03:39.772 and said, 00:03:39.772 --> 00:03:41.444 "Everyone call me The Edge" 00:03:41.444 --> 00:03:42.766 and we all went, 00:03:42.766 --> 00:03:43.832 Fine, The Edge 00:03:43.832 --> 00:03:45.601 are we talking the noun or the verb? 00:03:45.601 --> 00:03:46.920 And, and that's 00:03:46.920 --> 00:03:50.068 it's not just that, it's not just that! 00:03:50.068 --> 00:03:51.908 Over the past twenty years, 00:03:51.908 --> 00:03:53.331 we've agreed to call this man 00:03:53.331 --> 00:03:54.399 Puff Daddy, 00:03:54.399 --> 00:03:55.329 P. Diddy, 00:03:55.329 --> 00:03:56.230 just Diddy, 00:03:56.230 --> 00:03:58.070 and now Puff Daddy again 00:03:58.070 --> 00:04:00.230 and most people don't even like him! 00:04:00.230 --> 00:04:01.440 [laughter] 00:04:01.440 --> 00:04:02.740 And here's the thing- 00:04:02.740 --> 00:04:04.149 Here's the important thing 00:04:04.649 --> 00:04:06.249 it's genuinely crucial 00:04:06.249 --> 00:04:07.778 that we get this right. 00:04:07.778 --> 00:04:09.912 Because there are more transgender people 00:04:09.912 --> 00:04:11.552 in the US than you might realize. 00:04:11.552 --> 00:04:13.222 One study estimates that nearly 00:04:13.222 --> 00:04:16.640 700,000 American adults are transgender. 00:04:16.640 --> 00:04:18.898 That's more than the population of Boston 00:04:18.898 --> 00:04:21.301 and you probably know someone from Boston. 00:04:21.301 --> 00:04:22.621 I'll give you a clue- 00:04:22.621 --> 00:04:24.354 it was the guy who wore a Bruin's jersey 00:04:24.354 --> 00:04:25.884 to your sister's wedding. 00:04:25.884 --> 00:04:29.674 And while a handful of transgender people 00:04:29.674 --> 00:04:31.252 have been winning awards, 00:04:31.252 --> 00:04:32.524 or appearing on magazine covers 00:04:32.524 --> 00:04:33.890 the community at large 00:04:33.890 --> 00:04:36.600 has been facing some staggering challenges. 00:04:36.600 --> 00:04:37.832 Voiceover: "A 2011 survey 00:04:37.832 --> 00:04:40.349 by the National Center for Transgender Equality 00:04:40.349 --> 00:04:43.058 found 41% of transgender people 00:04:43.058 --> 00:04:44.698 had attempted suicide." 00:04:44.698 --> 00:04:45.814 Presenter: They are nearly 00:04:45.814 --> 00:04:46.994 four times more likely 00:04:46.994 --> 00:04:48.320 to make less 00:04:48.320 --> 00:04:51.100 than 10,000 dollars a year 00:04:51.100 --> 00:04:53.130 compared to the general population. 00:04:53.130 --> 00:04:54.903 Voiceover: 78% of those surveyed 00:04:54.903 --> 00:04:57.523 reported harassment during K-12 schooling, 00:04:57.523 --> 00:04:59.763 35% reported physical assault, 00:04:59.763 --> 00:05:02.266 and 12% were sexually assaulted. 00:05:02.266 --> 00:05:03.806 John Oliver: That is terrible. 00:05:03.806 --> 00:05:05.496 Those statistics are so depressing 00:05:05.496 --> 00:05:06.598 it's enough to make you angry 00:05:06.598 --> 00:05:08.484 at the very concept of numbers. 00:05:08.484 --> 00:05:10.484 Fuck you, symbols meant to represent 00:05:10.484 --> 00:05:11.691 a specific value! 00:05:11.691 --> 00:05:13.590 You're the absolute WORST. 00:05:13.590 --> 00:05:14.980 The WORST!! 00:05:15.548 --> 00:05:16.338 Look, look. 00:05:16.338 --> 00:05:17.253 We've clearly 00:05:17.253 --> 00:05:19.076 got work to do. 00:05:19.076 --> 00:05:20.497 Because when you're transgender, 00:05:20.497 --> 00:05:21.997 pretty much any interaction 00:05:21.997 --> 00:05:22.897 with bureaucracy 00:05:22.897 --> 00:05:25.141 can be humiliatingly difficult. 00:05:25.141 --> 00:05:26.360 Just take what happened to 00:05:26.360 --> 00:05:27.692 two transgender women 00:05:27.692 --> 00:05:29.122 when they went to the DMV 00:05:29.122 --> 00:05:30.022 in West Virginia. 00:05:30.022 --> 00:05:31.162 Announcer: Both women 00:05:31.162 --> 00:05:32.257 were asked to remove 00:05:32.257 --> 00:05:34.817 all their jewelry, makeup, and wigs 00:05:34.817 --> 00:05:37.155 before the DMV would photograph them. 00:05:37.155 --> 00:05:38.239 Trans Woman 1: They're saying 00:05:38.239 --> 00:05:39.376 that I need to fulfill 00:05:39.376 --> 00:05:40.606 a certain- a certain look 00:05:40.606 --> 00:05:43.956 that they are designating means- male 00:05:43.956 --> 00:05:46.586 and that I'm, you know, hiding who I am, 00:05:46.586 --> 00:05:47.843 which I am absolutely NOT. 00:05:47.843 --> 00:05:48.797 Announcer: Both women say 00:05:48.797 --> 00:05:51.207 they were also referred to as "it". 00:05:51.207 --> 00:05:52.937 Woman 2: Words can't explain 00:05:52.937 --> 00:05:56.010 the humiliation I felt that day. 00:05:56.010 --> 00:05:57.760 That was the worst thing 00:05:57.760 --> 00:05:59.710 in 52 years of my life 00:05:59.710 --> 00:06:01.237 that I have ever felt. 00:06:01.237 --> 00:06:02.371 John Oliver: Listen, 00:06:02.371 --> 00:06:03.546 I'm not saying anyone 00:06:03.546 --> 00:06:05.526 has a good DMV experience. 00:06:05.526 --> 00:06:06.666 But that is the worst 00:06:06.666 --> 00:06:08.031 I have ever heard. 00:06:08.031 --> 00:06:09.369 And for the record, 00:06:09.369 --> 00:06:12.139 you get pick virtually everything else 00:06:12.139 --> 00:06:13.579 on your driver's license. 00:06:13.579 --> 00:06:15.103 They ask you your weight. 00:06:15.103 --> 00:06:16.141 They don't weigh you 00:06:16.141 --> 00:06:17.405 like a prize hog. 00:06:17.405 --> 00:06:18.235 [laughter] 00:06:18.235 --> 00:06:19.825 Plus, the whole idea 00:06:19.825 --> 00:06:21.212 of a driver's license photo 00:06:21.212 --> 00:06:21.910 is to present 00:06:21.910 --> 00:06:23.708 how you look from day to day. 00:06:23.708 --> 00:06:25.168 That's why DMV employees 00:06:25.168 --> 00:06:26.327 tell you not to smile, 00:06:26.327 --> 00:06:28.068 because they can't imagine anyone 00:06:28.068 --> 00:06:29.178 whose normal existence 00:06:29.178 --> 00:06:31.660 involves happiness in any form. 00:06:32.276 --> 00:06:34.339 And, even in, 00:06:34.339 --> 00:06:36.495 even in organizations 00:06:36.495 --> 00:06:38.565 that have seemed willing to change, 00:06:38.565 --> 00:06:40.961 that change has come frustratingly slowly. 00:06:40.961 --> 00:06:41.991 Take the military- 00:06:41.991 --> 00:06:43.161 both the Secretary of Defense 00:06:43.161 --> 00:06:44.477 and President Obama 00:06:44.477 --> 00:06:46.077 have indicated they are open 00:06:46.077 --> 00:06:47.360 to transgender troops 00:06:47.360 --> 00:06:48.733 being able to serve. 00:06:48.733 --> 00:06:51.075 And yet, they are still 00:06:51.075 --> 00:06:52.275 banned from enlisting 00:06:52.275 --> 00:06:55.115 because of weirdly archaic restrictions 00:06:55.115 --> 00:06:56.333 on things like, uh, 00:06:56.333 --> 00:06:58.532 "defects of the genitalia" 00:06:58.532 --> 00:07:00.248 such as "change of sex" and 00:07:00.248 --> 00:07:01.808 "psychosexual conditions 00:07:01.808 --> 00:07:03.498 including but not limited to 00:07:03.498 --> 00:07:05.748 transsexualism and transvestism" 00:07:05.748 --> 00:07:07.422 Our current recruitment poster 00:07:07.422 --> 00:07:08.192 is essentially, 00:07:08.192 --> 00:07:09.543 I want you, maybe, 00:07:09.543 --> 00:07:11.530 after we talk about your genitals for a bit, 00:07:11.530 --> 00:07:12.560 I know that's weird, 00:07:12.560 --> 00:07:13.310 but for the moment 00:07:13.310 --> 00:07:15.640 this is apparently how we do things. 00:07:15.640 --> 00:07:17.310 And yet even despite 00:07:17.310 --> 00:07:19.024 those restrictions on enlistment, 00:07:19.024 --> 00:07:20.055 by one estimate 00:07:20.055 --> 00:07:20.935 there are currently 00:07:20.935 --> 00:07:24.345 15,000 transgender service members. 00:07:24.345 --> 00:07:26.325 And while you can be discharged 00:07:26.325 --> 00:07:27.710 for being transgender, 00:07:27.710 --> 00:07:29.900 those rules are enforced inconsistently 00:07:29.900 --> 00:07:31.711 depending on your branch of service 00:07:31.711 --> 00:07:33.090 and commanding officer, 00:07:33.090 --> 00:07:35.931 meaning experiences can vary wildly. 00:07:35.931 --> 00:07:38.021 For some, like Logan Island, 00:07:38.021 --> 00:07:38.961 it can be great. 00:07:38.961 --> 00:07:40.121 Logan: What I like about 00:07:40.121 --> 00:07:41.574 this deployment, is- 00:07:41.574 --> 00:07:43.674 I can be my authentic self. 00:07:44.074 --> 00:07:45.830 I'm just another guy 00:07:45.830 --> 00:07:47.608 whereas back home, 00:07:47.610 --> 00:07:50.340 I'm... still seen as female 00:07:50.340 --> 00:07:52.140 and I go by female regs and standards. 00:07:52.140 --> 00:07:53.503 Here, in Afghanistan, 00:07:53.503 --> 00:07:54.888 a war zone, 00:07:54.888 --> 00:07:56.678 It's like a vacation to me 00:07:56.678 --> 00:07:57.881 because I can be myself 00:07:57.881 --> 00:07:59.969 in such an austere environment. 00:07:59.969 --> 00:08:01.098 John Oliver: It is not 00:08:01.098 --> 00:08:02.189 a great sign 00:08:02.189 --> 00:08:03.776 for how we treat transgender people 00:08:03.776 --> 00:08:05.356 that Afghanistan is 00:08:05.356 --> 00:08:07.815 "a place where you can be yourself" 00:08:07.815 --> 00:08:09.695 That is the least likely 00:08:09.695 --> 00:08:11.855 tourism slogan for Afghanistan. 00:08:12.355 --> 00:08:14.635 Well, I'd put it right behind 00:08:14.635 --> 00:08:16.649 "Waterpark Capital of the World" 00:08:16.649 --> 00:08:18.899 and "Birthplace of the Twerk" 00:08:19.211 --> 00:08:22.257 But, compare that with the experience 00:08:22.257 --> 00:08:24.193 of Captain Jacob Eleazar, 00:08:24.193 --> 00:08:25.645 of the Army National Guard 00:08:25.645 --> 00:08:26.840 who faced discharge 00:08:26.840 --> 00:08:27.910 for being transgender 00:08:27.910 --> 00:08:29.996 despite his own commander's support 00:08:29.996 --> 00:08:32.776 and the fact he was being awarded a medal. 00:08:32.776 --> 00:08:33.339 Jacob: The thing 00:08:33.339 --> 00:08:34.429 that stuck with me the most 00:08:34.429 --> 00:08:35.420 is as they were pinning 00:08:35.420 --> 00:08:37.592 that army commendation medal on me, 00:08:37.592 --> 00:08:38.703 my regimental commander said, 00:08:38.703 --> 00:08:41.993 "Thank you for everything that you've done for our regiment, 00:08:41.993 --> 00:08:43.203 Jacob." 00:08:43.203 --> 00:08:45.983 And, and used- used my real name. 00:08:45.983 --> 00:08:48.811 Um, and, I can't- I can't express 00:08:49.951 --> 00:08:51.571 just the emotion 00:08:51.571 --> 00:08:53.202 of that juxtaposition. 00:08:53.202 --> 00:08:54.212 Because like, you're, 00:08:54.212 --> 00:08:55.757 you're kicking me out 00:08:55.757 --> 00:08:58.339 um, but you're acknowledging me 00:08:58.339 --> 00:09:00.384 for myself and giving me an award 00:09:00.384 --> 00:09:01.504 at the same time. 00:09:01.504 --> 00:09:03.764 John Oliver: That's utterly ridiculous. 00:09:03.764 --> 00:09:04.949 They gave him an award 00:09:04.949 --> 00:09:06.745 and then tried to kick him out. 00:09:06.745 --> 00:09:07.802 It's pretty much what 00:09:07.802 --> 00:09:09.626 Hollywood did to Cuba Gooding Jr. 00:09:09.626 --> 00:09:11.547 And that wasn't ok either! 00:09:11.547 --> 00:09:14.567 But, but this is the big problem. 00:09:14.567 --> 00:09:15.567 this is the big problem! 00:09:15.567 --> 00:09:16.412 Because even when 00:09:16.412 --> 00:09:18.142 people say the right things 00:09:18.142 --> 00:09:19.505 about the transgender community 00:09:19.505 --> 00:09:20.199 too often 00:09:20.199 --> 00:09:22.201 practical change fails to follow. 00:09:22.201 --> 00:09:24.038 And perhaps the perfect embodiment 00:09:24.038 --> 00:09:25.797 of this concerns bathrooms. 00:09:25.797 --> 00:09:26.742 We all use them. 00:09:26.742 --> 00:09:28.260 As the good book tells us, 00:09:28.260 --> 00:09:29.714 Everyone Poops. 00:09:30.297 --> 00:09:31.836 Or, as it's known in England, 00:09:31.836 --> 00:09:33.881 Everyone Poops but the Queen. 00:09:34.571 --> 00:09:36.789 She has people do it for her. 00:09:37.482 --> 00:09:39.042 Across the country, 00:09:39.042 --> 00:09:40.612 there have been efforts by lawmakers 00:09:40.612 --> 00:09:43.347 to fight non-discrimination ordinances 00:09:43.347 --> 00:09:45.497 with so-called "bathroom bills" 00:09:45.497 --> 00:09:47.074 Like this one, in Arizona. 00:09:47.074 --> 00:09:47.914 Announcer: It's a new 00:09:47.914 --> 00:09:49.267 "show me your papers" bill 00:09:49.267 --> 00:09:50.207 for Arizona, 00:09:50.207 --> 00:09:51.807 the sex on your birth certificate 00:09:51.807 --> 00:09:52.887 would have to match 00:09:52.887 --> 00:09:54.017 the sex of the bathroom 00:09:54.017 --> 00:09:55.727 or locker room that you use. 00:09:55.727 --> 00:09:58.087 The target: transgender men and women 00:09:58.087 --> 00:09:59.100 here in Arizona. 00:09:59.100 --> 00:10:00.102 Interviewee: 6 months in jail, 00:10:00.102 --> 00:10:01.853 2500 dollar fine, 00:10:01.853 --> 00:10:04.173 for just going in to pee. 00:10:04.173 --> 00:10:06.623 John Oliver: 2,500 dollar fine 00:10:06.623 --> 00:10:08.848 for peeing in the "wrong place" 00:10:08.848 --> 00:10:10.778 Look, unless you happen to urinate 00:10:10.778 --> 00:10:12.858 a 1989 Chateau Petrus, 00:10:12.858 --> 00:10:16.119 you're not even gonna break even on that deal. 00:10:16.688 --> 00:10:18.417 In the most recent session, 00:10:18.417 --> 00:10:20.756 at least 13 bathroom bills 00:10:20.756 --> 00:10:22.849 have been introduced in state legislatures. 00:10:22.849 --> 00:10:23.923 And the reasoning behind them 00:10:23.923 --> 00:10:25.393 can be pretty insulting. 00:10:25.393 --> 00:10:27.723 Just listen to Presidential Candidate 00:10:27.723 --> 00:10:28.743 Mike Huckabee. 00:10:28.743 --> 00:10:32.491 MH: We are now, in city after city, 00:10:32.491 --> 00:10:34.078 watching ordinances that say 00:10:34.078 --> 00:10:35.763 that your 7 year old daughter, 00:10:35.763 --> 00:10:37.184 if she goes into the restroom 00:10:37.184 --> 00:10:38.554 cannot be offended- 00:10:38.554 --> 00:10:40.032 and you can't be offended 00:10:40.032 --> 00:10:41.178 if she is greeted there 00:10:41.178 --> 00:10:42.779 by a 42 year old man 00:10:42.779 --> 00:10:44.618 who feels more like a woman 00:10:44.618 --> 00:10:46.081 than he does a man. 00:10:46.731 --> 00:10:48.901 Now, I wish someone had told me 00:10:48.901 --> 00:10:50.004 when I was in high school 00:10:50.004 --> 00:10:51.617 that I could have felt like a woman 00:10:51.617 --> 00:10:54.077 when it came time to take showers in PE. 00:10:54.077 --> 00:10:55.437 I'm pretty sure I would have found 00:10:55.437 --> 00:10:56.927 my feminine side and said, 00:10:56.927 --> 00:10:58.410 Coach, I think I'd rather shower 00:10:58.410 --> 00:11:00.677 with the girls today. 00:11:05.482 --> 00:11:06.377 You're laughing 00:11:06.377 --> 00:11:08.327 because it sounds so ridiculous, 00:11:08.327 --> 00:11:09.057 doesn't it? 00:11:09.057 --> 00:11:10.587 There's something inherently wrong 00:11:10.587 --> 00:11:12.492 with forcing little children 00:11:12.492 --> 00:11:15.755 to, to be apart of this social experiment. 00:11:15.755 --> 00:11:17.405 John Oliver: No, but uh, 00:11:17.405 --> 00:11:18.935 there IS something inherently wrong 00:11:18.935 --> 00:11:20.385 with forcing us to listen to 00:11:20.385 --> 00:11:21.945 your fucked up daydreams about 00:11:21.945 --> 00:11:24.315 all the sex crimes you would have commited 00:11:24.315 --> 00:11:25.728 as a teenager 00:11:25.728 --> 00:11:29.408 had you just been able to find a legal loophole. 00:11:29.408 --> 00:11:30.638 That's weird! 00:11:30.638 --> 00:11:31.548 [cheering] 00:11:31.548 --> 00:11:33.088 And that, that kind of 00:11:33.088 --> 00:11:34.288 baseless fear mongering 00:11:34.288 --> 00:11:35.478 is everywhere! 00:11:35.478 --> 00:11:37.263 It even turned up in a campaign ad 00:11:37.263 --> 00:11:38.564 when Gainesville, Florida 00:11:38.564 --> 00:11:40.616 was trying to pass one of these bills. 00:11:40.616 --> 00:11:42.246 [sounds of children playing] 00:11:57.776 --> 00:11:59.015 John Oliver: Ok- 00:11:59.015 --> 00:12:01.815 let's- let's break that bullshit down. 00:12:01.815 --> 00:12:03.036 Because, first, 00:12:03.036 --> 00:12:05.496 assaulting children is still illegal. 00:12:05.866 --> 00:12:07.636 Secondly, someone abusing 00:12:07.636 --> 00:12:09.077 a non-discrimination ordinance 00:12:09.077 --> 00:12:10.642 to assault someone in a bathroom 00:12:10.642 --> 00:12:12.030 is almost unheard of. 00:12:12.030 --> 00:12:14.125 It's a borderline imaginary crime. 00:12:14.125 --> 00:12:15.695 Like, dragon rustling 00:12:15.695 --> 00:12:17.408 or space bestiality. 00:12:17.408 --> 00:12:19.212 Sure, it's terrible, 00:12:19.212 --> 00:12:21.747 but it doesn't really happen! 00:12:22.197 --> 00:12:24.747 Also, forcing transgender people 00:12:24.747 --> 00:12:25.777 into certain bathrooms 00:12:25.777 --> 00:12:27.853 can actually be much more disruptive, 00:12:27.853 --> 00:12:29.323 as activist Michael Hughes, 00:12:29.323 --> 00:12:30.914 a transgender man, showed with 00:12:30.914 --> 00:12:31.904 this photo 00:12:31.904 --> 00:12:32.951 of himself looking, 00:12:32.951 --> 00:12:33.641 understandably, 00:12:33.641 --> 00:12:35.181 awkward in a ladies room. 00:12:35.181 --> 00:12:36.851 Because, there are many places 00:12:36.851 --> 00:12:38.260 that Michael would fit in. 00:12:38.260 --> 00:12:40.198 Um, a tattoo parlor in Reno, 00:12:40.198 --> 00:12:43.468 playing steel guitar in a Johnny Cash tribute band, 00:12:43.468 --> 00:12:46.118 or on the label of his own BBQ sauce, 00:12:46.118 --> 00:12:48.265 but a women's bathroom 00:12:48.265 --> 00:12:50.082 ehh, not so much. 00:12:50.082 --> 00:12:52.992 Besides, it is so much easier for everyone 00:12:52.992 --> 00:12:55.035 when people are allowed to use the bathroom 00:12:55.035 --> 00:12:56.583 that matches their gender identity 00:12:56.583 --> 00:12:58.513 rather than one that might match 00:12:58.513 --> 00:13:00.515 the genitalia they were born with. 00:13:00.515 --> 00:13:02.404 That is why, the little pictures 00:13:02.404 --> 00:13:03.799 on bathroom doors are 00:13:03.799 --> 00:13:06.249 stereotypical representations of 00:13:06.249 --> 00:13:06.984 men and women 00:13:06.984 --> 00:13:09.316 and not biologically accurate depictions 00:13:09.316 --> 00:13:11.292 of penises and vaginas. 00:13:11.292 --> 00:13:12.181 Because that, 00:13:12.181 --> 00:13:14.245 would be troubling for children! 00:13:14.245 --> 00:13:16.477 Um, Mommy, mommy, 00:13:16.477 --> 00:13:18.517 Do I go with the one with the 00:13:18.517 --> 00:13:21.352 pouty slug or the angry goat skull? 00:13:21.352 --> 00:13:22.847 I'm scared. 00:13:24.020 --> 00:13:26.770 Yet, legislators have even tried to 00:13:26.770 --> 00:13:28.742 enforce these bills in high schools 00:13:28.742 --> 00:13:30.448 with damaging consequences. 00:13:30.448 --> 00:13:32.447 Take the case of Henry Brousseau, 00:13:32.447 --> 00:13:34.427 a transgender high school student 00:13:34.427 --> 00:13:35.615 who spoke in opposition 00:13:35.615 --> 00:13:37.869 to a proposed bathroom bill in Kentucky. 00:13:37.869 --> 00:13:39.162 HB: Even though I've been living as a male 00:13:39.162 --> 00:13:39.968 for some time, 00:13:39.968 --> 00:13:41.528 and I've been accepted 00:13:41.528 --> 00:13:42.959 by my friends and family as male 00:13:42.959 --> 00:13:45.339 I was being forced to use the girl's bathroom 00:13:45.339 --> 00:13:46.959 at my school until very recently. 00:13:46.959 --> 00:13:48.689 Because the school administration 00:13:48.689 --> 00:13:50.564 did not support my gender identity 00:13:50.564 --> 00:13:51.924 by letting me use the restrooms 00:13:51.924 --> 00:13:53.658 concordant with my gender identity, 00:13:53.658 --> 00:13:55.474 the kids at my school bullied me. 00:13:55.474 --> 00:13:57.030 The kids thought that because 00:13:57.030 --> 00:13:59.340 the administration didn't support 00:13:59.340 --> 00:14:02.210 my gender identity, they didn't have to either. 00:14:02.210 --> 00:14:03.089 John Oliver: And that, 00:14:03.089 --> 00:14:04.524 is the whole point. 00:14:04.524 --> 00:14:06.501 Official rules can end up 00:14:06.501 --> 00:14:08.133 legitimizing prejudice. 00:14:08.133 --> 00:14:09.756 And besides, teenagers 00:14:09.756 --> 00:14:11.956 really don't need extra ideas 00:14:11.956 --> 00:14:13.087 for how to make each other's 00:14:13.087 --> 00:14:14.447 lives miserable. 00:14:14.447 --> 00:14:15.687 That's what they do! 00:14:15.687 --> 00:14:17.847 Uh, sit on your own Becca~ 00:14:17.847 --> 00:14:19.637 side ponytails are so 00:14:19.637 --> 00:14:23.637 5 nevers ago.... ha! 00:14:24.946 --> 00:14:26.231 And, look, 00:14:26.231 --> 00:14:27.931 as Henry finished his speech, 00:14:27.931 --> 00:14:29.441 it actually seemed like 00:14:29.441 --> 00:14:31.921 he'd really connected with the legislators. 00:14:31.921 --> 00:14:33.660 HB: If you don't know a transgender kid already, 00:14:33.660 --> 00:14:35.049 you do now. 00:14:35.049 --> 00:14:36.250 You know me, Henry. 00:14:36.250 --> 00:14:37.785 Please let me know how I can be 00:14:37.785 --> 00:14:39.085 of any further assistance 00:14:39.085 --> 00:14:40.495 and thank you so much for your time today 00:14:40.495 --> 00:14:42.885 and please vote no on Senate bill 76. 00:14:42.885 --> 00:14:43.948 Sen. Max Wise: I educated myself 00:14:43.948 --> 00:14:44.858 a lot today, 00:14:44.858 --> 00:14:46.326 and I appreciate the testimony. 00:14:46.326 --> 00:14:48.116 Sen. Carpenter: You should be proud of yourself 00:14:48.116 --> 00:14:48.886 for being able to stand 00:14:48.886 --> 00:14:49.846 in front of this committee and 00:14:49.846 --> 00:14:51.406 be so articulate in your comments. 00:14:51.406 --> 00:14:53.331 Sen. Kerr: Henry, I love you man. 00:14:53.331 --> 00:14:55.911 I- I appreciate you. 00:14:55.911 --> 00:14:58.110 I appreciate your courage. 00:14:58.110 --> 00:15:02.007 I can't really imagine that anyone else 00:15:02.007 --> 00:15:04.339 in this room has the kind of courage 00:15:04.339 --> 00:15:07.849 that it took for you to come 00:15:07.849 --> 00:15:09.569 and testify today. 00:15:09.569 --> 00:15:10.959 John Oliver: Ok, ok, but 00:15:10.959 --> 00:15:12.129 "I luv you man" 00:15:12.129 --> 00:15:13.690 is a little much. 00:15:13.690 --> 00:15:14.800 I love Henry too, 00:15:14.800 --> 00:15:16.780 but he's not the best man at your wedding, 00:15:16.780 --> 00:15:17.771 he's a teenage boy 00:15:17.771 --> 00:15:19.695 trying to take a shit in the men's room. 00:15:19.695 --> 00:15:21.783 And, and it's worth noting 00:15:21.783 --> 00:15:23.873 once they were done patting Henry 00:15:23.873 --> 00:15:24.693 on the back, 00:15:24.693 --> 00:15:26.031 and then patting themselves 00:15:26.031 --> 00:15:27.133 for patting Henry, 00:15:27.133 --> 00:15:28.913 all three of those lawmakers 00:15:28.913 --> 00:15:30.702 voted to advance the bill 00:15:30.702 --> 00:15:32.522 to force him into bathrooms 00:15:32.522 --> 00:15:33.692 where he's bullied! 00:15:33.692 --> 00:15:36.252 Now, thankfully that particular bill 00:15:36.252 --> 00:15:37.492 never became law 00:15:37.492 --> 00:15:38.472 but that dynamic 00:15:38.472 --> 00:15:40.882 of praising a transgender person's 00:15:40.882 --> 00:15:42.132 couuurage 00:15:42.132 --> 00:15:44.472 and then not actually supporting them 00:15:44.472 --> 00:15:45.577 speaks to the fact that 00:15:45.577 --> 00:15:46.720 we are weirdly comfortable 00:15:46.720 --> 00:15:48.582 celebrating transgender people 00:15:48.582 --> 00:15:50.932 while simultaneously dehumanizing them 00:15:50.932 --> 00:15:51.750 at the DMV, 00:15:51.750 --> 00:15:53.140 pinning awards to them 00:15:53.140 --> 00:15:54.784 as we drum them out of the military, 00:15:54.784 --> 00:15:56.334 and constantly quizzing them 00:15:56.334 --> 00:15:57.566 about their genitals. 00:15:57.566 --> 00:16:00.323 And look, this is a civil right's issue. 00:16:00.323 --> 00:16:01.843 And, if you are not willing 00:16:01.843 --> 00:16:03.311 to support transgender people 00:16:03.311 --> 00:16:04.283 for their sake, 00:16:04.283 --> 00:16:06.503 at least do it for your own. 00:16:06.503 --> 00:16:09.088 Because we've been through this before- 00:16:09.088 --> 00:16:10.993 We know how this thing ends. 00:16:10.993 --> 00:16:13.386 If you take the anti civil right's side, 00:16:13.386 --> 00:16:15.256 and deny people access to something 00:16:15.256 --> 00:16:16.304 they're entitled to, 00:16:16.304 --> 00:16:19.232 history is not going to be kind to you. 00:16:19.232 --> 00:16:21.882 There is no biopic where Liam Neeson 00:16:21.885 --> 00:16:24.535 kicks the shit out of a Suffragist. 00:16:25.165 --> 00:16:27.825 There, there's not a stamp 00:16:27.825 --> 00:16:29.635 featuring George Wallace 00:16:29.635 --> 00:16:31.041 at the school house door. 00:16:31.041 --> 00:16:32.653 And you are not going to get 00:16:32.653 --> 00:16:34.290 a monument that says at the base of it, 00:16:34.290 --> 00:16:37.010 "He Told People Where to Shit."