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Nga e gjithe prezenca e jashtme,

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John kishte cdo te mire ne favor te tij.

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Ai sapo kishte firmosur kontraten

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per te shitur apartamentin e tij ne New York

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me nje profit te gjasht figurave,

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dhe ai e kishte mbajtur ate vetem per pese vite.

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Shkolla ku ai u diplomua se bashku me masterin e tij

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i kishte ofruar atij vetem nje takim per mesues,

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e cila kishte kuptimin jo vetem te nje rroge,

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por perfitimeve per heren e pare ne jeten e tije.

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Dhe akoma, pamvaresisht te gjithave qe shkonin mire per John,

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ai ishte duke hasur veshtiresi,

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duke luftuar varesine dhe depresionin e flakte.

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Ne naten e 11 qershorit te vitit 2003,

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ai u ngjit siper lumit

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ne uren e Manhatten-it

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dhe kerceu ne uje.

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Mrekullisht --

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jo fatmiresisht --

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ai shpetoi.

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Hrdhja ia demtoi krahun e djathte te tij,

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duke i thyer te gjitha brinjet qe kishte,

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demtuar mushkerite,

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dhe ishte here - here pa vetedije

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perderisa permbytej poshte lumit East,

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nen uren e Brooklyn-it

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dhe jashte rrugices e cila del nga Staten Island Ferry,

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ku pasagjeret ne anije

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degjuan britmat e tij te dhimbjes,

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kontaktuan kapitenin e anijes

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i cili me pas kontaktoi gardat e lumit

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te cilet e nxorren jasht Lumit East

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dhe e derguan ate tek spitali Bellevue.

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Dhe kjo eshte pika ku tregimi jone fillon.

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Sepse kur John-i iu perkushtua vetes

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per ta kthyer jeten perseri prapsht --

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se pari fizikisht , dhe pastaj mentalisht,

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dhe shpirtrisht --

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ai zbuloi se ishin shume pak burime te mundshme

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per dike i cili kish provuar ti jepte fund jetes se tij

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ne menyren te cilen ai beri.

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Kerkimet shfaqin

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qe 19 prej 20 njerezve

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te cilet kane tentuar vetvrasjen

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do te deshtojne.

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Por njerezit te cilet deshtojne

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jane 37 here me te suksesshem

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heren e dyte.

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Kjo e vertete eshte

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dhe tek rreziku i popullsis

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me shum pak burime per ta perkahur ate.

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Dhe ajo cka ndodh

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kur njerezit vendosin ta kthejne veten prap ne jete,

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sepse per tabut tona rreth vetvrasjes,

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ne nuk jemi te sigurt se cfare te themi,

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dhe keshtu qe shpesh ne nuk themi asgje.

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Dhe me tej izolimet

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qe njerezit sikurse John gjejne veten e tyre.

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E di historine e John-it shum mire

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sepse une jam John.

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Dhe kjo eshte e sotmja,

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hera e pare perballe publikut

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qe asnjeher nuk e kam menduar

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udhetimi ne te cilin kam qene une.

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Por pasi ke humbur nje mesues ne 2006

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dhe nje shok te mire vitin e kaluar nga vetvrasja,

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dhe i ulur vitin e kaluar tek TedActive,

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une e dija qe duhet te dilja jashte qetesise time

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dhe te kaloja tabut e mia

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per te folur rreth nje ideje te cilen i'a vlen ta shprehesh --

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dhe kjo eshte qe njerezit

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qe kane bere zgjedhjen e veshtire

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per tu rikthyer ne jete

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kane nevoje per me shume burime dhe kane nevoje per ndihmen tuaj.

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Ashtu sikunderse Projekti Trevor thote, behesh me mire.

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Eshte shume me mire.

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Dhe une kam zgjedhur te dal jasht

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te jem totalisht i ndryshuar sot

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per t'iu inkurajuar ju, per t'iu kerkuar ju,

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qe nese je dikushi

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qe ka provuar ose ka menduar te beje vetvrasje,

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apo njihni dike qe ka menduar ta beje,

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fol rreth kesaj; merr ndihme.

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Eshte nje bisede e cila i'a vlen

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dhe nje ide te cilen duhet ta shperndash.

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Faliminderit

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(Duartrokitje)