1 00:00:09,159 --> 00:00:13,419 everybody and welcome back to say before the twenty one convention london 2 00:00:13,419 --> 00:00:18,041 europe mike josh the men's conference of the century you guys who are attending 3 00:00:18,041 --> 00:00:23,719 out made its uh... through the whole week final speech rob judge coming up 4 00:00:23,719 --> 00:00:26,609 all the way from new york 5 00:00:26,609 --> 00:00:29,039 topic is motivated 6 00:00:29,039 --> 00:00:30,539 succeed hotter girls 7 00:00:30,539 --> 00:00:35,003 and that same speech to and he's a is very motivated guide so i a him around 8 00:00:35,003 --> 00:00:41,077 the plaza away from new york please welcome rob tonight 9 00:00:41,077 --> 00:00:45,079 can take a cab 10 00:00:45,079 --> 00:00:48,199 part that you guys that you bob 11 00:00:48,199 --> 00:00:52,809 five so it's a good year ago you guys are probably at tired you guys have are 12 00:00:52,809 --> 00:00:54,057 too great speakers and 13 00:00:54,057 --> 00:00:58,088 no that speech i want to give ivers at times whole power point and i try to 14 00:00:58,088 --> 00:01:03,018 memorize it and i gave like a rehearsal speechless speech on 15 00:01:03,018 --> 00:01:08,025 uh... like a month ago anatoly bond and i realize there is a bomb was because 16 00:01:08,025 --> 00:01:10,019 this speech was to come from the heart 17 00:01:10,019 --> 00:01:13,077 you know when i talk about is basically how i got motivated 18 00:01:13,077 --> 00:01:17,042 to discontinue critical approach to continue through to the point where 19 00:01:17,042 --> 00:01:20,003 i've achieved success i wanted out of this 20 00:01:20,003 --> 00:01:22,076 and that's how much i think that all of you all want to give you the keeping the 21 00:01:22,076 --> 00:01:23,759 asked today 22 00:01:23,759 --> 00:01:25,035 and i want to give a speech that 23 00:01:25,035 --> 00:01:29,259 honestly if you don't go out and you don't make it into lifestyle you don't 24 00:01:29,259 --> 00:01:30,043 achieve your goals 25 00:01:30,043 --> 00:01:32,999 that my and knowing one-and-a-half sent 26 00:01:32,999 --> 00:01:34,065 you know in a pocket 27 00:01:34,065 --> 00:01:38,049 realistically i mean but i want to give you my speech that you have blood 28 00:01:38,049 --> 00:01:40,012 actually no other choice 29 00:01:40,012 --> 00:01:42,979 but to get off your ass an approach ha twenty 30 00:01:42,979 --> 00:01:44,081 to go out and get that girlfriend you want 31 00:01:44,081 --> 00:01:46,096 hit lived the lifestyle you want to live 32 00:01:46,096 --> 00:01:51,729 so i put together a couple of noble point somebody uh... i'm byob 33 00:01:51,729 --> 00:01:54,021 powerful you decide on pof intentions which 34 00:01:54,021 --> 00:01:57,022 it's an interesting today tended to sometimes 35 00:01:57,022 --> 00:02:00,969 silom alright so introduction harriet motivate you're right 36 00:02:00,969 --> 00:02:02,719 because the real benefit 37 00:02:02,719 --> 00:02:04,063 august twenty one convention 38 00:02:04,063 --> 00:02:06,919 isn't is the at the moment that look like 39 00:02:06,919 --> 00:02:07,088 unite partner tim 40 00:02:07,088 --> 00:02:09,379 great speakers talk about 41 00:02:09,379 --> 00:02:12,051 the tactics the outer gamestop to techniques 42 00:02:12,051 --> 00:02:15,209 not only that but this inquiry material out there 43 00:02:15,209 --> 00:02:17,078 keep up all know exactly how to pick up women 44 00:02:17,078 --> 00:02:19,023 the thing that's funny about 45 00:02:19,023 --> 00:02:21,389 about the news conferences is 46 00:02:21,389 --> 00:02:23,026 you guys know exactly how to do it 47 00:02:23,026 --> 00:02:24,819 you have the full blueprint 48 00:02:24,819 --> 00:02:28,073 it's not like after these properties over me old speakers beat-up alright 49 00:02:28,073 --> 00:02:32,049 are you guys with both the real bechard had a really pick up women the gold up 50 00:02:32,049 --> 00:02:33,269 mentality 51 00:02:33,269 --> 00:02:34,189 no i think 52 00:02:34,189 --> 00:02:36,084 you like bablu pretoria laid out the 53 00:02:36,084 --> 00:02:41,299 now the only thing you have to do translate into action 54 00:02:41,299 --> 00:02:46,079 it's like a fucking contradiction to think that in view know all the stuff 55 00:02:46,079 --> 00:02:48,001 that about being too tough opening 56 00:02:48,001 --> 00:02:49,076 and go out and practice 57 00:02:49,076 --> 00:02:50,092 that you won't get better 58 00:02:50,092 --> 00:02:54,033 how could you not get that it's impossible after the impossible 59 00:02:54,033 --> 00:02:56,032 but you know so we got it done it 60 00:02:56,032 --> 00:02:59,086 so why can't you do not special snowflake floodlight all you need right 61 00:02:59,086 --> 00:03:02,034 now is for me to keep you in the ass 62 00:03:02,034 --> 00:03:06,054 set use get out and do it 63 00:03:06,054 --> 00:03:10,169 so one of these things that i want this feature accomplishes i want 64 00:03:10,169 --> 00:03:12,209 due to overcome your fear 65 00:03:12,209 --> 00:03:14,023 i want you overcome your dieting 66 00:03:14,023 --> 00:03:17,919 i want you overcome your laziness 67 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:21,098 that that'll get you success the biggest barrier both guys have to translating 68 00:03:21,098 --> 00:03:25,066 this into a lifestyle is here anxiety laziness 69 00:03:25,066 --> 00:03:27,219 rebates inhibitors 70 00:03:27,219 --> 00:03:31,019 at the previously icing every guy come my program that like 71 00:03:31,019 --> 00:03:34,004 that when you want that kicking ass that they have to get in to overcome 72 00:03:34,004 --> 00:03:37,099 so i got through it with his vision about that 73 00:03:37,099 --> 00:03:38,043 and you know to get your views 74 00:03:38,043 --> 00:03:40,379 you know to get you over your fear 75 00:03:40,379 --> 00:03:42,042 and so you might you know it's bike 76 00:03:42,042 --> 00:03:44,579 startling that lifestyle you want 77 00:03:44,579 --> 00:03:48,399 you have to start living your life by your own standards and explain exactly 78 00:03:48,399 --> 00:03:50,019 what that means in a moment 79 00:03:50,019 --> 00:03:52,629 for first i wanna i want a story that was 80 00:03:52,629 --> 00:03:54,009 was really quick for me 81 00:03:54,009 --> 00:03:56,859 and the guys that the pilot program because it is so sad to hear that saw 82 00:03:56,859 --> 00:03:57,065 the story like 83 00:03:57,065 --> 00:03:59,459 four times of this program 84 00:03:59,459 --> 00:04:02,969 what there was a very definitive moment when i a m 85 00:04:02,969 --> 00:04:05,929 when i really felt that in my life by mail standards and 86 00:04:05,929 --> 00:04:08,909 it was a moment when i was on on the sixteen new york city 87 00:04:08,909 --> 00:04:11,639 and to those you know that the new york this extremetech 88 00:04:11,639 --> 00:04:13,065 really packed really crowded 89 00:04:13,065 --> 00:04:16,609 literally likely cram people in lexington 90 00:04:16,609 --> 00:04:18,549 you know human livestock 91 00:04:18,549 --> 00:04:23,028 rusting and i i i was early the morning might have to show bulldogs hired 92 00:04:23,028 --> 00:04:24,081 and i'm booked up 93 00:04:24,081 --> 00:04:29,008 acts or a girl who was absolutely stunning and absolutely stunning maybe 94 00:04:29,008 --> 00:04:30,091 steady twenty feet for me 95 00:04:30,091 --> 00:04:35,041 and as sort of immediately taken taken back by how beautiful strollers and 96 00:04:35,041 --> 00:04:36,389 immediately 97 00:04:36,389 --> 00:04:38,009 as a thought of approaching that he was my head 98 00:04:38,009 --> 00:04:43,129 sort it all the what if's right but what if spec which is a boyfriend what if i 99 00:04:43,129 --> 00:04:44,012 get rejected 100 00:04:44,012 --> 00:04:45,919 web i know someone on this train 101 00:04:45,919 --> 00:04:49,001 that we've seen the unbeatable loser for trying to try to approaches for all 102 00:04:49,001 --> 00:04:51,789 all these what ifs starts rolling around thrown around 103 00:04:51,789 --> 00:04:55,044 and it that paralyze me and said you know temperature 104 00:04:55,044 --> 00:04:59,044 that's our thinking you know what i was like no bucket happy approaches throws 105 00:04:59,044 --> 00:05:00,939 gesture beautiful nick 106 00:05:00,939 --> 00:05:03,007 i can't but with these people think really matter 107 00:05:03,007 --> 00:05:05,479 so i started like dodging through people you know like 108 00:05:05,479 --> 00:05:09,879 jpl_ tally rezo myway likely closer to her and eventually got white up face to 109 00:05:09,879 --> 00:05:10,769 face with their 110 00:05:10,769 --> 00:05:13,015 love write-up base the base of the biggest raunchy unit 111 00:05:13,015 --> 00:05:15,005 water for a close to it 112 00:05:15,005 --> 00:05:17,389 and i said rice and try to get rid of the headphones attitude 113 00:05:17,389 --> 00:05:19,091 alike dot as it was so cute i had to meet you 114 00:05:19,091 --> 00:05:22,084 and i said that you know i thought opposes tell the truth 115 00:05:22,084 --> 00:05:24,007 but this was like 116 00:05:24,007 --> 00:05:27,077 aperture comedy hour on the subway living right when the words not mine out 117 00:05:27,077 --> 00:05:31,077 it was like a bomb detonated everyone us up with a cracking up 118 00:05:31,077 --> 00:05:34,979 not even might not even a chuckle like 119 00:05:34,979 --> 00:05:39,639 heckling like attitude a big fat woman dissident just brought gothic three-cd 120 00:05:39,639 --> 00:05:41,047 set 121 00:05:41,047 --> 00:05:44,093 set good luck with that not contact and you know and and and witnesses 122 00:05:44,093 --> 00:05:48,081 dispositions millie webb right paramount samia getting heckled by like 123 00:05:48,081 --> 00:05:52,086 you don't like that this was like this made every wednesday the whole larry had 124 00:05:52,086 --> 00:05:55,025 me thinking the growth of chip that i want to be there 125 00:05:55,025 --> 00:05:59,016 who really matter to you know pleaded like she was distraught her into a civil 126 00:05:59,016 --> 00:06:00,599 suit or i had to say so 127 00:06:00,599 --> 00:06:03,064 i can tell you dot we talked a little bit and they're getting a number 128 00:06:03,064 --> 00:06:06,509 i got that grow out and i did a big macro 129 00:06:06,509 --> 00:06:08,309 and what really clicked in a moment was 130 00:06:08,309 --> 00:06:12,129 had i'd even like one percent of a fox with any of these people have thought 131 00:06:12,129 --> 00:06:12,889 about me 132 00:06:12,889 --> 00:06:15,005 event that you had one way 133 00:06:15,005 --> 00:06:18,077 i would never date it's incredible girl like the from but a couple months after 134 00:06:18,077 --> 00:06:21,027 that which is a great grow from a free relationship 135 00:06:21,027 --> 00:06:25,829 and that it all those experiences all that amazing like 136 00:06:25,829 --> 00:06:30,419 amazing ilene incredible respect i would throw we've been impossible had not 137 00:06:30,419 --> 00:06:33,037 gotten my year anxiety region is there something 138 00:06:33,037 --> 00:06:34,319 because you know what 139 00:06:34,319 --> 00:06:37,819 that's like the the great story of robert protocol the subway 140 00:06:37,819 --> 00:06:39,086 and there was a hundred stories before that 141 00:06:39,086 --> 00:06:42,001 of or thousand stores or million stories 142 00:06:42,001 --> 00:06:45,009 of when rob did nothing when rob sat there 143 00:06:45,009 --> 00:06:47,979 as is the publisher dakotas just were on its head 144 00:06:47,979 --> 00:06:49,015 is out there 145 00:06:49,015 --> 00:06:51,085 you know answer like yulon stores like that too 146 00:06:51,085 --> 00:06:55,034 and i want you all had a story where you see that just relax 147 00:06:55,034 --> 00:06:56,007 absolutely stunning 148 00:06:56,007 --> 00:07:00,078 dramatist patient brought the withdrawal that you all got into this to me 149 00:07:00,078 --> 00:07:02,004 the hotter girls right 150 00:07:02,004 --> 00:07:03,659 this type of growth that like 151 00:07:03,659 --> 00:07:05,003 you see the marking copy 152 00:07:05,003 --> 00:07:08,024 who will be brought to you guys all dessert is the fact is you guys are 153 00:07:08,024 --> 00:07:09,024 sitting here 154 00:07:09,024 --> 00:07:11,569 you come to a conference to better understand women 155 00:07:11,569 --> 00:07:14,939 the better understand yourself and to better understand how to relate to and 156 00:07:14,939 --> 00:07:18,659 so what do i deserve that hot girl more than you what some should look at the 157 00:07:18,659 --> 00:07:19,319 nightclub 158 00:07:19,319 --> 00:07:23,029 some fog a sleazy promoter melt us deserve those girls for both liberals 159 00:07:23,029 --> 00:07:28,006 and should get 160 00:07:28,006 --> 00:07:31,979 you know it's funny le everywhere then like that moment on the subway i think 161 00:07:31,979 --> 00:07:34,559 that a lot 162 00:07:34,559 --> 00:07:37,899 and then we haven't had a lot and uh... 163 00:07:37,899 --> 00:07:40,047 you know but it was you were promote my material 164 00:07:40,047 --> 00:07:41,979 it really form 165 00:07:41,979 --> 00:07:43,096 his real turning point my head 166 00:07:43,096 --> 00:07:45,068 before catherine 167 00:07:45,068 --> 00:07:47,005 that really kinda like 168 00:07:47,005 --> 00:07:50,449 the way i look at approaching women this because they can't definitive moment 169 00:07:50,449 --> 00:07:53,069 where i started seeing things with a wire 170 00:07:53,069 --> 00:07:54,059 were pretty when it is 171 00:07:54,059 --> 00:07:59,005 is that like you have two choices every time she got gorgeous girl right 172 00:07:59,005 --> 00:08:00,058 you really have two choices 173 00:08:00,058 --> 00:08:02,779 choices you can live in reality 174 00:08:02,779 --> 00:08:04,589 or if you live in tennessee 175 00:08:04,589 --> 00:08:05,041 and effective 176 00:08:05,041 --> 00:08:09,569 most guys that in fantasy and the reason is because 177 00:08:09,569 --> 00:08:11,003 the or as a culture 178 00:08:11,003 --> 00:08:14,259 we put a deposit connotation on the work hope 179 00:08:14,259 --> 00:08:16,009 right thing by the workbook 180 00:08:16,009 --> 00:08:17,078 zamira sick hopes socks 181 00:08:17,078 --> 00:08:20,062 no hope the greatest thing ever people say oh i hope to get better hope the 182 00:08:20,062 --> 00:08:21,069 apec meeting women 183 00:08:21,069 --> 00:08:22,062 i hope to get 184 00:08:22,062 --> 00:08:25,639 you know that i think i was not convention he's an old i hope the rate 185 00:08:25,639 --> 00:08:30,139 roll come along and and i hope i opening directoral right dot dot dot to act as a 186 00:08:30,139 --> 00:08:32,099 culture will be so great to the hope the hope 187 00:08:32,099 --> 00:08:34,012 not foxhole 188 00:08:34,012 --> 00:08:35,021 hope stocks 189 00:08:35,021 --> 00:08:36,000 and hope 190 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:39,087 like not having any luck that at least hope it with fucking all you guys over 191 00:08:39,087 --> 00:08:44,024 as white united your goals kwazulu they're hoping that all not living in 192 00:08:44,024 --> 00:08:49,046 reality no as you know what people in reality cause reality sometimes it sucks 193 00:08:49,046 --> 00:08:52,079 sometimes people at the un you don't get the girl 194 00:08:52,079 --> 00:08:55,092 sometime either creepy guy clubs can every single girl there and you've got 195 00:08:55,092 --> 00:08:56,839 nowhere 196 00:08:56,839 --> 00:08:57,094 you know sometimes 197 00:08:57,094 --> 00:09:00,081 like you've bought out the girl that you're approaching complete bitch some 198 00:09:00,081 --> 00:09:02,099 of you find out all you know off 199 00:09:02,099 --> 00:09:04,889 paul specter of reality 200 00:09:04,889 --> 00:09:08,017 but the fact is that you've seen the whole planning dept well 201 00:09:08,017 --> 00:09:09,049 wineries moericke books 202 00:09:09,049 --> 00:09:11,078 afterall push those girls 203 00:09:11,078 --> 00:09:13,064 within just a manager wanted to tell it 204 00:09:13,064 --> 00:09:14,085 fifty more seminars 205 00:09:14,085 --> 00:09:16,029 that'll push those girls 206 00:09:16,029 --> 00:09:19,006 no take the fucking information you're going to seminars 207 00:09:19,006 --> 00:09:23,097 translate into reality translate into something jackson tangible results 208 00:09:23,097 --> 00:09:26,029 and results dot will give the fall 209 00:09:26,029 --> 00:09:28,269 at least living in reality right 210 00:09:28,269 --> 00:09:29,035 that's what i look at 211 00:09:29,035 --> 00:09:30,008 every consonant 212 00:09:30,008 --> 00:09:32,139 am present that choice 213 00:09:32,139 --> 00:09:34,014 manhole and then reality 214 00:09:34,014 --> 00:09:38,179 now other than confession you know the coach angela put it to relate to this 215 00:09:38,179 --> 00:09:41,028 sometimes it's hard to approach girls and former students because 216 00:09:41,028 --> 00:09:42,019 factors like look 217 00:09:42,019 --> 00:09:43,649 yet but not a student 218 00:09:43,649 --> 00:09:46,008 who's looked looks up to you was listening to you and the fact is i i 219 00:09:46,008 --> 00:09:48,479 don't know how it's going to react 220 00:09:48,479 --> 00:09:52,739 you know that they did and i will have to grow at the dismantling obama forced 221 00:09:52,739 --> 00:09:56,369 to react you know fifty yahoogroups is letting us do you know i don't talk 222 00:09:56,369 --> 00:09:57,043 about 223 00:09:57,043 --> 00:09:58,087 but it is a book 224 00:09:58,087 --> 00:10:00,046 like although it would 225 00:10:00,046 --> 00:10:04,091 i'd still don't think that what did you know i do idea to get on a shotgun 226 00:10:04,091 --> 00:10:07,000 floral out there put a card in table 227 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:08,085 argued about the project last weekend 228 00:10:08,085 --> 00:10:13,083 i think it every girl moved had no point ten and the fact is ever diapers agarwal 229 00:10:13,083 --> 00:10:16,046 i had to face that reality that i might get rejected 230 00:10:16,046 --> 00:10:19,042 that would be the guy that in coaching the guys i've been telling all diets 231 00:10:19,042 --> 00:10:24,012 they pick up growth and i walked off anagram i just look at me and drug 232 00:10:24,012 --> 00:10:26,009 you know i turn it back to me and i had to act 233 00:10:26,009 --> 00:10:30,008 yeah well i you know defray patrol well not this was attacked notre dame but the 234 00:10:30,008 --> 00:10:35,022 fact is you have to look at reality and and at the end that these a lot of times 235 00:10:35,022 --> 00:10:38,059 with anxiety comes up reported students or even 236 00:10:38,059 --> 00:10:42,209 even if i might you know in a place to get a public place working on a train or 237 00:10:42,209 --> 00:10:43,649 met alright coffee shop 238 00:10:43,649 --> 00:10:44,095 asset hocker allam 239 00:10:44,095 --> 00:10:46,071 all of what it should have quotas 240 00:10:46,071 --> 00:10:50,063 starts but through my head all the wanted for this all these working 241 00:10:50,063 --> 00:10:52,001 knowledge of my head 242 00:10:52,001 --> 00:10:54,038 at on south up and say not what book 243 00:10:54,038 --> 00:10:55,066 half of the reality 244 00:10:55,066 --> 00:10:57,068 you have to find out that truth electoral 245 00:10:57,068 --> 00:11:00,097 but the truth waiting for you guys you know that i think negative and he is 246 00:11:00,097 --> 00:11:04,034 from the pirates serial emphasize a locked out of you the truth 247 00:11:04,034 --> 00:11:08,062 when i see a girl troisi hot girl i appreciate afflicted the beautiful girl 248 00:11:08,062 --> 00:11:09,043 she is 249 00:11:09,043 --> 00:11:10,086 for the same time 250 00:11:10,086 --> 00:11:14,088 you the truth its way to curled the truth might be that that brought those 251 00:11:14,088 --> 00:11:18,066 amazing girl ever and she's again x ralph reid the truth might be 252 00:11:18,066 --> 00:11:23,042 stretching complete etc the truth might be that you know me her put together but 253 00:11:23,042 --> 00:11:25,003 it just the digital workout 254 00:11:25,003 --> 00:11:27,043 the truth might be that she can reject me 255 00:11:27,043 --> 00:11:29,037 right away but at the same time 256 00:11:29,037 --> 00:11:31,087 i find out that a coyote my approach exactly 257 00:11:31,087 --> 00:11:35,014 there's a million truth review from at every girl you see 258 00:11:35,014 --> 00:11:38,012 but the fact is if you prefer the dekho playing 259 00:11:38,012 --> 00:11:39,079 if you're a little 260 00:11:39,079 --> 00:11:41,086 little fantasyland hoping to get better with girls 261 00:11:41,086 --> 00:11:43,027 milkshake 262 00:11:43,027 --> 00:11:45,016 your whole fucking light it up 263 00:11:45,016 --> 00:11:47,003 fucking fantasy and that woodstock 264 00:11:47,003 --> 00:11:49,038 you know what already be a fucking failure 265 00:11:49,038 --> 00:11:51,054 could be a mediocre piece of shit 266 00:11:51,054 --> 00:11:52,047 sitting around 267 00:11:52,047 --> 00:11:53,011 nick of 268 00:11:53,011 --> 00:11:57,063 little i hope they get better all yes yeah i hope i hope i hope 269 00:11:57,063 --> 00:11:58,579 well hole 270 00:11:58,579 --> 00:12:01,007 that he didn't want theme for this part of what has what way with 271 00:12:01,007 --> 00:12:02,068 foxhole 272 00:12:02,068 --> 00:12:05,053 for daddy pulled me back 273 00:12:05,053 --> 00:12:15,016 floating casinos get because flagship 274 00:12:15,016 --> 00:12:17,075 yet notes that the people who love them 275 00:12:17,075 --> 00:12:19,073 uh... you know that 276 00:12:19,073 --> 00:12:23,079 the other way too hopeful it's all pretty in the future right 277 00:12:23,079 --> 00:12:25,088 everything about hope is predicated on the idea that all 278 00:12:25,088 --> 00:12:28,067 once once i get better at that and things would it do it 279 00:12:28,067 --> 00:12:30,279 once what i read this book 280 00:12:30,279 --> 00:12:31,679 that's abusing it better 281 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:34,067 that's on my situation's been approved 282 00:12:34,067 --> 00:12:36,083 duane situation's been approved 283 00:12:36,083 --> 00:12:39,035 everytime you face reality 284 00:12:39,035 --> 00:12:41,073 face reality face reality 285 00:12:41,073 --> 00:12:42,098 and uh... 286 00:12:42,098 --> 00:12:46,007 you know what they did a story about how about how i kinda 287 00:12:46,007 --> 00:12:49,068 health problem when i got into this about how hard it was for me to specific 288 00:12:49,068 --> 00:12:52,044 product this is reality 289 00:12:52,044 --> 00:12:54,045 and why i had no other choice 290 00:12:54,045 --> 00:12:56,072 the story goes back to uh... right 291 00:12:56,072 --> 00:12:59,097 when i enter the vice finished or community you know at first that i 292 00:12:59,097 --> 00:13:01,057 haven't stopped this 293 00:13:01,057 --> 00:13:05,032 than what i did the same girl for five years and knows a great girl we broke up 294 00:13:05,032 --> 00:13:09,005 one day and we broke up he was with a childhood sweetheart right they'd like 295 00:13:09,005 --> 00:13:11,076 they must know seventeen years old 296 00:13:11,076 --> 00:13:15,038 at broke up a destroyer thoughts on it puts me out of fuckin airplane i was 297 00:13:15,038 --> 00:13:18,018 like i don't know where to meet women i don't know how to me when i i don't know 298 00:13:18,018 --> 00:13:19,066 which women to meet 299 00:13:19,066 --> 00:13:23,049 hi i a bitterly fought and and and uh... this is a real firemen had i might never 300 00:13:23,049 --> 00:13:27,062 kissed a girl yet i said why i was like yours are nowhere near as often as they 301 00:13:27,062 --> 00:13:28,009 had no idea 302 00:13:28,009 --> 00:13:31,093 senator i want where any clue was diagnosed 303 00:13:31,093 --> 00:13:33,007 went to the internet 304 00:13:33,007 --> 00:13:36,082 and odd you know and before giving go on for search around google like you know 305 00:13:36,082 --> 00:13:38,269 mostly stories and 306 00:13:38,269 --> 00:13:42,459 instead around a well and my ex-girlfriend uh... like the when i was 307 00:13:42,459 --> 00:13:44,084 like fifteen years older sixteen years old 308 00:13:44,084 --> 00:13:45,088 was online 309 00:13:45,088 --> 00:13:48,579 and i was like a whole collection of his business is like 310 00:13:48,579 --> 00:13:49,072 is this is fake 311 00:13:49,072 --> 00:13:50,679 if this is great 312 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:52,022 just like other chatting with aaron 313 00:13:52,022 --> 00:13:56,489 took me a whole hour to like i'm excited worked up the balls to actually ask her 314 00:13:56,489 --> 00:13:58,037 to rusty movie with me 315 00:13:58,037 --> 00:13:59,036 but you'd read 316 00:13:59,036 --> 00:14:02,099 and when she agreed i was like i was ecstatic act like you know i was to lose 317 00:14:02,099 --> 00:14:05,019 their back and i thought that this wasn't the greatest thing ever i was 318 00:14:05,019 --> 00:14:05,629 like 319 00:14:05,629 --> 00:14:09,649 you know my heart was racing i got my quite as big shooting brain 320 00:14:09,649 --> 00:14:11,449 drive the whole way over to our house 321 00:14:11,449 --> 00:14:14,007 you're still still hopeful so expected wow 322 00:14:14,007 --> 00:14:18,042 the escrow for aids so great reunited religion 323 00:14:18,042 --> 00:14:19,039 nine everything 324 00:14:19,039 --> 00:14:21,081 now i never need to worry about the stuff again 325 00:14:21,081 --> 00:14:25,002 and i remember i got to a doorstep i rang the doorbell 326 00:14:25,002 --> 00:14:27,019 away for an answer the door 327 00:14:27,019 --> 00:14:28,089 and she came to the door 328 00:14:28,089 --> 00:14:30,017 it look like that girl 329 00:14:30,017 --> 00:14:33,041 have walked itself inside mcdonald's the west seven years 330 00:14:33,041 --> 00:14:35,075 and protect your way out like 331 00:14:35,075 --> 00:14:39,589 yet been earlier like nine individuals are laughing 332 00:14:39,589 --> 00:14:40,081 i'd love to dismiss 333 00:14:40,081 --> 00:14:44,004 is coated with nonstick tacked on a few pounds it was like dog dot shaadi dot 334 00:14:44,004 --> 00:14:47,031 the college depression fifteen oh 335 00:14:47,031 --> 00:14:52,011 was like flat-out obese ok aristide's croats layoff 336 00:14:52,011 --> 00:14:54,057 but then i was thinking like 337 00:14:54,057 --> 00:14:57,069 can't do much better you know like this is a this is a about the set-up an 338 00:14:57,069 --> 00:14:58,077 escrow 339 00:14:58,077 --> 00:15:00,006 and uh... 340 00:15:00,006 --> 00:15:04,023 memory one of the state about this movie and ob you noted at cap promised myself 341 00:15:04,023 --> 00:15:07,057 that got me to move because you know if you if you know she's been extra pride 342 00:15:07,057 --> 00:15:08,869 you got it it doesn't make out 343 00:15:08,869 --> 00:15:10,429 allegedly considering 344 00:15:10,429 --> 00:15:12,054 settling real bistro 345 00:15:12,054 --> 00:15:15,084 through the end of the end of the data reply karne park and i got renewed by 346 00:15:15,084 --> 00:15:17,006 moving 347 00:15:17,006 --> 00:15:23,017 after the real humiliation i've never i i i close my eyes at parker my lips amin 348 00:15:23,017 --> 00:15:25,076 over the case 349 00:15:25,076 --> 00:15:29,092 but the whole caucus a bit of a two wheels to shit job back 350 00:15:29,092 --> 00:15:31,017 and she's had will collect 351 00:15:31,017 --> 00:15:33,072 horror and distrust on her face she was like 352 00:15:33,072 --> 00:15:34,639 arnal 353 00:15:34,639 --> 00:15:36,003 what do you think this is rob 354 00:15:36,003 --> 00:15:43,041 but i'm just not attracted to you 355 00:15:43,041 --> 00:15:44,071 and i have a 356 00:15:44,071 --> 00:15:47,067 went up when i dropped your job about proper pot 357 00:15:47,067 --> 00:15:49,007 and you know 358 00:15:49,007 --> 00:15:53,005 and i watch like model back to work for you to rejoice that i've seen my car 359 00:15:53,005 --> 00:15:56,052 that it really dawned on me i was like 360 00:15:56,052 --> 00:15:59,033 i hit rock bottom elective it's perfect 361 00:15:59,033 --> 00:16:01,149 other hike and he'd settle 362 00:16:01,149 --> 00:16:02,059 i came to settle to grow 363 00:16:02,059 --> 00:16:05,007 i don't find remotely attractive 364 00:16:05,007 --> 00:16:06,809 that this is this is this is like 365 00:16:06,809 --> 00:16:08,067 your peter obligate good 366 00:16:08,067 --> 00:16:09,095 padmini women 367 00:16:09,095 --> 00:16:12,007 well i'm gonna be celibate totaled my choices 368 00:16:12,007 --> 00:16:14,035 my choice with either to live in l 369 00:16:14,035 --> 00:16:15,639 or to walk through now 370 00:16:15,639 --> 00:16:17,085 so i was fully when i got into this 371 00:16:17,085 --> 00:16:20,074 you've got a bit of a week out fully ready to accept reality 372 00:16:20,074 --> 00:16:22,064 there was no option to be i document 373 00:16:22,064 --> 00:16:24,479 accept reality will be celibate 374 00:16:24,479 --> 00:16:27,026 behind hadith booking will control the mediocrity 375 00:16:27,026 --> 00:16:30,037 of what no parole doesn't like to talk to a never know it 376 00:16:30,037 --> 00:16:32,006 but if i was ever going to meet might expel fred 377 00:16:32,006 --> 00:16:36,058 i was you have to face reality every balking today 378 00:16:36,058 --> 00:16:40,027 every moment everytime when i asked and i i want to get better at this 379 00:16:40,027 --> 00:16:43,759 i think that reality and i thought hot girl choice 380 00:16:43,759 --> 00:16:44,959 venison reality 381 00:16:44,959 --> 00:16:47,012 celibate girlfriend 382 00:16:47,012 --> 00:16:50,029 wiped by pentagon settling for or white i wanna live 383 00:16:50,029 --> 00:16:52,003 mediocrity 384 00:16:52,003 --> 00:16:53,064 sex acts 385 00:16:53,064 --> 00:16:56,089 and the fact is like basic i'd no fucking choice 386 00:16:56,089 --> 00:16:59,032 no choice no options 387 00:16:59,032 --> 00:17:02,058 hammer that uh... if you guys united judge while living hell 388 00:17:02,058 --> 00:17:06,008 for those you don't like it but you know that i've done enough to live in how do 389 00:17:06,008 --> 00:17:07,319 i walk through hell 390 00:17:07,319 --> 00:17:09,047 you know the balls to walk to hal 391 00:17:09,047 --> 00:17:12,047 the face that reality 392 00:17:12,047 --> 00:17:15,063 really have to sell back at the moment think about it 393 00:17:15,063 --> 00:17:19,034 you know today not if it all great for me to get up here and let you know 394 00:17:19,034 --> 00:17:23,031 device featured many that are speculative feel-good feel-good big 395 00:17:23,031 --> 00:17:25,949 invites you know i don't want to do that shit 396 00:17:25,949 --> 00:17:27,066 unlucky to your friend 397 00:17:27,066 --> 00:17:31,006 i'm not up here to fuck indicating you i'm up here for one reason 398 00:17:31,006 --> 00:17:33,009 get you all results 399 00:17:33,009 --> 00:17:34,759 dating the girl that you want 400 00:17:34,759 --> 00:17:37,009 and that's why i want to give a speech this speech fucking dark 401 00:17:37,009 --> 00:17:40,015 you know this shift on the internet 402 00:17:40,015 --> 00:17:43,039 people that don't get too but it is my school issues here that felt well with a 403 00:17:43,039 --> 00:17:45,419 good political group factor 404 00:17:45,419 --> 00:17:47,099 yelp here is that i have to tell speech the way it is 405 00:17:47,099 --> 00:17:50,239 is because there's no other way to give the speech 406 00:17:50,239 --> 00:17:52,012 you might have to know what you're going to you 407 00:17:52,012 --> 00:17:56,009 what that realities but i said i want to be all you guys deserve growth i'm pipe 408 00:17:56,009 --> 00:17:59,809 a quick passage of what you guys and i think it's fucking awesome he has come 409 00:17:59,809 --> 00:18:01,659 out and and and pushes off his 410 00:18:01,659 --> 00:18:05,529 i get older relief that when i was back to you guys are sitting idyllic into my 411 00:18:05,529 --> 00:18:10,032 everyone you going for ido how fucking hard this can be idaho popped rule can 412 00:18:10,032 --> 00:18:10,085 be 413 00:18:10,085 --> 00:18:12,046 yet dot at the club 414 00:18:12,046 --> 00:18:16,003 that broadens the deccan left and right you know i've been there i'd love that 415 00:18:16,003 --> 00:18:16,098 reality 416 00:18:16,098 --> 00:18:20,559 and the thing is that i sent a gaming moments reviewed second-guess yourself 417 00:18:20,559 --> 00:18:22,149 yours i think it's all stamp 418 00:18:22,149 --> 00:18:23,097 you know what i want to key way hate 419 00:18:23,097 --> 00:18:25,074 and they get on their buck india 420 00:18:25,074 --> 00:18:29,047 foxpro just or cancel and i hope you do it hope that what you know if you don't 421 00:18:29,047 --> 00:18:30,003 take action 422 00:18:30,003 --> 00:18:32,059 and use it in your ass and you nothing 423 00:18:32,059 --> 00:18:36,034 phone call me scare who want to you a hate like rooms would ever like trashing 424 00:18:36,034 --> 00:18:38,929 the internet i'm gonna fall i really don't like i said i'm not a cure for any 425 00:18:38,929 --> 00:18:39,057 other reason 426 00:18:39,057 --> 00:18:40,078 but that your results 427 00:18:40,078 --> 00:18:47,091 and if you don't like yourself results then 428 00:18:47,091 --> 00:18:49,063 amanda added note here 429 00:18:49,063 --> 00:18:53,094 ahah and i think the disclaimer at http okay you say i doubt anyone that doesn't 430 00:18:53,094 --> 00:18:56,032 want to hear the truth that picked up you know it could just get up and leave 431 00:18:56,032 --> 00:18:57,011 the room 432 00:18:57,011 --> 00:19:01,009 yes hard expressed because well they could affect you know again like i said 433 00:19:01,009 --> 00:19:06,005 i i i gave him try to get very honest talk of of what's on friday 434 00:19:06,005 --> 00:19:07,071 does that do not need help 435 00:19:07,071 --> 00:19:11,005 again i think that i think meeting winds fond i think the whole process is fun 436 00:19:11,005 --> 00:19:13,021 i think i think you should enjoy it 437 00:19:13,021 --> 00:19:15,021 but most of the european states easy 438 00:19:15,021 --> 00:19:16,038 you know it's not 439 00:19:16,038 --> 00:19:18,025 five billion you know i said like 440 00:19:18,025 --> 00:19:20,066 hyping up did that guy 441 00:19:20,066 --> 00:19:22,279 is not 442 00:19:22,279 --> 00:19:23,035 but the fact is that 443 00:19:23,035 --> 00:19:26,027 so fuckin rewarding you know to have that option 444 00:19:26,027 --> 00:19:28,037 about the cause of began to watch them 445 00:19:28,037 --> 00:19:31,087 over the course like when all i think he was approaching zaidi and in the class 446 00:19:31,087 --> 00:19:34,059 going to watch them just going up to any girls they wanted 447 00:19:34,059 --> 00:19:38,021 and having great infractions getting numbers going make out the fact that 448 00:19:38,021 --> 00:19:39,669 what is better than that 449 00:19:39,669 --> 00:19:42,369 they will walk into a nightclub she would really want to know you got a 450 00:19:42,369 --> 00:19:45,094 pretty damn good shot at least like attract you're getting a phone ever 451 00:19:45,094 --> 00:19:47,002 getting out of date 452 00:19:47,002 --> 00:19:50,003 making a call your girlfriend having those options 453 00:19:50,003 --> 00:19:52,309 what is better than that 454 00:19:52,309 --> 00:19:53,097 honestly 455 00:19:53,097 --> 00:19:57,001 i would say all the money in the world betrayed by job actually anything for 456 00:19:57,001 --> 00:19:57,629 that 457 00:19:57,629 --> 00:20:01,859 when i started out effect house with other walking through that hal alleged 458 00:20:01,859 --> 00:20:04,061 eighteen successful when doesn't look like pilot 459 00:20:04,061 --> 00:20:08,039 but the thing you know always talk alike the community being misogynist also 460 00:20:08,039 --> 00:20:10,052 in on some of it is something that is ridiculous 461 00:20:10,052 --> 00:20:14,049 for the same part i think it at its core it's uh... it's the most genuine 462 00:20:14,049 --> 00:20:17,091 appreciation of women if that would have i'd look quite publicly love them too 463 00:20:17,091 --> 00:20:18,519 much 464 00:20:18,519 --> 00:20:20,679 i was substituted nice guy i wanted 465 00:20:20,679 --> 00:20:24,044 i wanted to go in everything you know and i think that problematic in terms or 466 00:20:24,044 --> 00:20:26,001 the web interactive learning 467 00:20:26,001 --> 00:20:30,059 i'd janel of winning element so much i went through that hal i went by i think 468 00:20:30,059 --> 00:20:31,087 that reality every single time 469 00:20:31,087 --> 00:20:34,032 so i want to be able to learn how to hurry you know 470 00:20:34,032 --> 00:20:37,061 how do better relate to that had a better talk to them how to approach a 471 00:20:37,061 --> 00:20:41,042 girl the way that would be creepy they'll be attracted to but i wanted 472 00:20:41,042 --> 00:20:42,047 because again i said 473 00:20:42,047 --> 00:20:43,429 is no 474 00:20:43,429 --> 00:20:45,054 better reality into that the 475 00:20:45,054 --> 00:20:48,085 tube actually realize your success in the real world and like i said to i 476 00:20:48,085 --> 00:20:50,052 don't like it up here and 477 00:20:50,052 --> 00:20:52,085 kamal put on on the all-time powerful who 478 00:20:52,085 --> 00:20:56,029 if you really dont want in the process and now i could approach a girl 479 00:20:56,029 --> 00:20:59,053 conflict i still get rejected a student so we didn't take this weekend 480 00:20:59,053 --> 00:21:02,549 busted off a song that you know him for a multitude of grows 481 00:21:02,549 --> 00:21:03,069 it goes both ways 482 00:21:03,069 --> 00:21:06,095 and i think is catalog ups with the deaths 483 00:21:06,095 --> 00:21:08,083 you know it's funny i am 484 00:21:08,083 --> 00:21:11,087 one i think that's a lot that guys you know he's had to go out 485 00:21:11,087 --> 00:21:13,061 and guide you ready to play to win 486 00:21:13,061 --> 00:21:17,082 um... one of the things i could do it by is i i like to play out relied in 487 00:21:17,082 --> 00:21:21,086 not not was healthy habit you know most healthy uh... exited 488 00:21:21,086 --> 00:21:25,529 well i do and what what what i when i run my due date is sore in leicester 489 00:21:25,529 --> 00:21:26,072 square 490 00:21:26,072 --> 00:21:31,057 i'd like to go out at the door down ridiculous that's fun block 491 00:21:31,057 --> 00:21:34,075 alive how that works well for me like a lot of times it hits and a lot of money 492 00:21:34,075 --> 00:21:37,005 and with the program base i want to grant 493 00:21:37,005 --> 00:21:40,057 you know formats your picture on at some point black 494 00:21:40,057 --> 00:21:43,085 and all west island over you know i threw down 495 00:21:43,085 --> 00:21:45,659 at georgia pounds on black 496 00:21:45,659 --> 00:21:47,003 and i lost 497 00:21:47,003 --> 00:21:50,021 and you have to be a baby that it that could put the cried out if you feel bad 498 00:21:50,021 --> 00:21:50,009 about it 499 00:21:50,009 --> 00:21:52,071 you know what 500 00:21:52,071 --> 00:21:53,071 i think it's fun 501 00:21:53,071 --> 00:21:55,079 jaws if you've got to be up to two down 502 00:21:55,079 --> 00:21:57,289 if you're ready to win big 503 00:21:57,289 --> 00:21:58,065 you gotta be ready lustig 504 00:21:58,065 --> 00:22:00,075 here if you want that hotter girl 505 00:22:00,075 --> 00:22:03,909 you also have to be ready take the reality that comes with it 506 00:22:03,909 --> 00:22:05,399 you know i think it's like 507 00:22:05,399 --> 00:22:08,899 they agony nothing dot sometimes anyone really given a blueprint on how to never 508 00:22:08,899 --> 00:22:10,061 get rejected 509 00:22:10,061 --> 00:22:14,059 but i i just got my eyes fucking please over shit 510 00:22:14,059 --> 00:22:17,021 like that simi contradict 511 00:22:17,021 --> 00:22:20,007 everything the distinction is pretty 512 00:22:20,007 --> 00:22:24,044 everything the interact with women is predicated on on the highs and the lows 513 00:22:24,044 --> 00:22:28,012 you can go out and expect always or things always to be like 514 00:22:28,012 --> 00:22:30,729 always when your favorite for the girl always love you 515 00:22:30,729 --> 00:22:34,669 for you always do great always block-grant look armored vehicles i 516 00:22:34,669 --> 00:22:36,007 still fucked up life 517 00:22:36,007 --> 00:22:38,007 otherwise it'll work but i do it because 518 00:22:38,007 --> 00:22:42,299 that i have to have a like because part of rain good what the fuck why are you 519 00:22:42,299 --> 00:22:43,025 doing this weekend 520 00:22:43,025 --> 00:22:47,008 than expected everest but you know i i i didn't think we're internal debates and 521 00:22:47,008 --> 00:22:47,083 i don't have 522 00:22:47,083 --> 00:22:51,019 but the fact that i still love that start i still love every aspect of the 523 00:22:51,019 --> 00:22:52,072 we had meeting women 524 00:22:52,072 --> 00:22:56,003 again i'm not saying you got above rejection and he wanted to say that what 525 00:22:56,003 --> 00:23:01,035 all i'd want to get rejected we fucking retarded at what getting rejected 526 00:23:01,035 --> 00:23:02,038 well accepted 527 00:23:02,038 --> 00:23:06,034 you know i think i'm full acceptance of rejection i'm not afraid of it 528 00:23:06,034 --> 00:23:08,071 i'm so mad about it 529 00:23:08,071 --> 00:23:11,007 was really great athlete acceptance rejection 530 00:23:11,007 --> 00:23:13,057 it was you 531 00:23:13,057 --> 00:23:15,038 to then come to an acceptance 532 00:23:15,038 --> 00:23:16,087 a whole timeline 533 00:23:16,087 --> 00:23:18,021 of what you mean 534 00:23:18,021 --> 00:23:21,067 human you know you have sex with her and when you make your girlfriend here is 535 00:23:21,067 --> 00:23:22,073 the fact is 536 00:23:22,073 --> 00:23:26,058 is that most guys expect that online defaults right 537 00:23:26,058 --> 00:23:28,779 you think you're going to get the perfect opener 538 00:23:28,779 --> 00:23:30,057 she said 539 00:23:30,057 --> 00:23:33,019 an easy to get the right to the track stuff 540 00:23:33,019 --> 00:23:34,045 on off 541 00:23:34,045 --> 00:23:38,016 and even though they tell their student lol you know i mean is that i liked what 542 00:23:38,016 --> 00:23:41,159 up the sunset together and but not for growing sax 543 00:23:41,159 --> 00:23:44,074 that ever i'd never once how to pick up all like that 544 00:23:44,074 --> 00:23:46,011 as i walked up and i'd like 545 00:23:46,011 --> 00:23:51,056 head with other rock effect is fast mit_ hydea i doubt but what i blow out 546 00:23:51,056 --> 00:23:55,269 and be helpful event ever every moment every project to start 547 00:23:55,269 --> 00:23:57,029 like chart had turns you know 548 00:23:57,029 --> 00:24:00,086 and again thing is is that id dole care 549 00:24:00,086 --> 00:24:02,029 you know that these art 550 00:24:02,029 --> 00:24:03,779 don't care if it's our heart 551 00:24:03,779 --> 00:24:06,399 but i don't care i think i respect her boundaries 552 00:24:06,399 --> 00:24:09,879 but i'm not emotionally affected by i'm not sitting there getting bought her 553 00:24:09,879 --> 00:24:13,046 withdrawals don't wanna kiss me when girls don't want to talk to me 554 00:24:13,046 --> 00:24:15,008 and i i think that i i i i said 555 00:24:15,008 --> 00:24:19,002 ice except that i just keep telling atta girl says teenage girls night out 556 00:24:19,002 --> 00:24:22,007 that's fine they can process in the iron give by phone number out 557 00:24:22,007 --> 00:24:25,049 that's why i thought either by phone i've never out either but the deception 558 00:24:25,049 --> 00:24:26,389 for each other 559 00:24:26,389 --> 00:24:28,309 you know that the use of the author and really 560 00:24:28,309 --> 00:24:31,099 said richard haro with the guys a must for jews began to be a really great job 561 00:24:31,099 --> 00:24:35,014 of picking this up 562 00:24:35,014 --> 00:24:36,049 pickup is not 563 00:24:36,049 --> 00:24:38,035 is ballet alike 564 00:24:38,035 --> 00:24:40,129 perfectly executed line 565 00:24:40,129 --> 00:24:42,065 the perfect technique family 566 00:24:42,065 --> 00:24:44,049 between controlled 567 00:24:44,049 --> 00:24:45,083 not if a lot of friction 568 00:24:45,083 --> 00:24:47,035 and really i mean 569 00:24:47,035 --> 00:24:50,059 if you really look at boreal what grittiness 570 00:24:50,059 --> 00:24:52,032 just people came it was one of the friction 571 00:24:52,032 --> 00:24:53,087 bingham and accepting 572 00:24:53,087 --> 00:24:55,094 because at the beach a masculine judy 573 00:24:55,094 --> 00:24:57,095 too pushy interaction mister direction 574 00:24:57,095 --> 00:24:59,088 direction that you want to push it 575 00:24:59,088 --> 00:25:01,037 a direction 576 00:25:01,037 --> 00:25:03,087 when you push that direction cheating or is it 577 00:25:03,087 --> 00:25:06,919 anti-dumping there with you notions on the biggest life 578 00:25:06,919 --> 00:25:10,026 nature of the world look like to think that spurred former friends maybe she's 579 00:25:10,026 --> 00:25:12,009 she's just like a little shy 580 00:25:12,009 --> 00:25:15,021 the thing is that he's got who was killed in the guys 581 00:25:15,021 --> 00:25:17,035 internalize a stop as rejection 582 00:25:17,035 --> 00:25:18,094 i don't have rejection at all 583 00:25:18,094 --> 00:25:20,045 when i get that friction 584 00:25:20,045 --> 00:25:23,058 i've interpreted as on doing something right 585 00:25:23,058 --> 00:25:26,096 and really think about that when i get friction from girls when they put the 586 00:25:26,096 --> 00:25:32,046 brakes or whatever i'm doing or 587 00:25:32,046 --> 00:25:34,909 whenever i see that that particular pot 588 00:25:34,909 --> 00:25:36,549 i'd interpret that as a sign 589 00:25:36,549 --> 00:25:39,028 i'm moving the right direction i'm doing something correctly 590 00:25:39,028 --> 00:25:42,059 and i backed by red pickup that way 591 00:25:42,059 --> 00:25:43,095 from like me walking up to a girl 592 00:25:43,095 --> 00:25:45,047 in new york on having sex with their 593 00:25:45,047 --> 00:25:47,269 and it was totally flawless 594 00:25:47,269 --> 00:25:48,059 should probably a hooker 595 00:25:48,059 --> 00:25:50,071 that uh... you know here 596 00:25:50,071 --> 00:25:52,066 but probably not a normal girl 597 00:25:52,066 --> 00:25:56,063 zero degrees it's never like that i'd you know i i have approached and picked 598 00:25:56,063 --> 00:25:59,019 up so many girls 599 00:25:59,019 --> 00:26:03,042 every single time on me i know we have friction at some point interaction 600 00:26:03,042 --> 00:26:06,026 and i guess it is becoming too acceptance that rejection 601 00:26:06,026 --> 00:26:09,289 you want to come to accept his with that's also friction 602 00:26:09,289 --> 00:26:11,409 because the more you can accept that 603 00:26:11,409 --> 00:26:13,119 the better your gains in the top 604 00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:14,919 the buried in indiana pushing women 605 00:26:14,919 --> 00:26:18,899 sort of thing like what would really saw three guys have expectation everything's 606 00:26:18,899 --> 00:26:20,009 going to go great 607 00:26:20,009 --> 00:26:21,012 the minute 608 00:26:21,012 --> 00:26:22,479 neopets also friction 609 00:26:22,479 --> 00:26:26,279 if you don't factor competence you're looking for heart externally validate 610 00:26:26,279 --> 00:26:29,066 what you're doing merger validation has to come from yourself 611 00:26:29,066 --> 00:26:32,092 and it does it can be getting a living a life by your own standards what are your 612 00:26:32,092 --> 00:26:37,429 standards and i don't mean that mandatory robin self-help con conaway 613 00:26:37,429 --> 00:26:41,027 reni but what i said what are your standards ask yourself 614 00:26:41,027 --> 00:26:42,089 what do you want to do it 615 00:26:42,089 --> 00:26:44,052 you see that hot girl 616 00:26:44,052 --> 00:26:46,007 what do you want to doing 617 00:26:46,007 --> 00:26:49,008 do anything there like a bucking stalker 618 00:26:49,008 --> 00:26:50,349 drooling over 619 00:26:50,349 --> 00:26:53,769 we want to know that walks up and and approaches that 620 00:26:53,769 --> 00:26:58,024 we're talking to our he would be the guy who's asking otherwise war many went men 621 00:26:58,024 --> 00:26:58,098 or women 622 00:26:58,098 --> 00:27:01,064 nicoletta aside like an old school and uh... what what it looks like i don't 623 00:27:01,064 --> 00:27:02,052 know what whatever 624 00:27:02,052 --> 00:27:04,065 but it's still good thing 625 00:27:04,065 --> 00:27:07,088 geissinger draws and he had no no interest in saying it 626 00:27:07,088 --> 00:27:08,919 don't be that guy 627 00:27:08,919 --> 00:27:10,073 the guy i wanted to i approach a girl 628 00:27:10,073 --> 00:27:13,759 you know in a guy that that's held their first of all that that that 629 00:27:13,759 --> 00:27:16,029 fuckin hot order shameless about it 630 00:27:16,029 --> 00:27:18,042 i wonder a lot of it 631 00:27:18,042 --> 00:27:22,054 she might not and which dozen allah ke peeche was about but ascetic 632 00:27:22,054 --> 00:27:24,061 uh... me in my arm 633 00:27:24,061 --> 00:27:25,057 night out 634 00:27:25,057 --> 00:27:29,051 best friend and we met in business partner our viewers out of business act 635 00:27:29,051 --> 00:27:30,028 our 636 00:27:30,028 --> 00:27:33,799 but you know i really kind of like understood was meant to be seen was 637 00:27:33,799 --> 00:27:34,095 watching zack 638 00:27:34,095 --> 00:27:38,031 it's funny and and and uh... i thought was very story for us this morning and 639 00:27:38,031 --> 00:27:40,071 this was a curve definitive moment that i've really 640 00:27:40,071 --> 00:27:44,035 salt which she was this really was error means act were off 641 00:27:44,035 --> 00:27:47,319 rude walking to the park what days and grow habit which is like 642 00:27:47,319 --> 00:27:49,012 sunday be sure that he 643 00:27:49,012 --> 00:27:50,039 as actors 644 00:27:50,039 --> 00:27:51,006 houston looked at it as a 645 00:27:51,006 --> 00:27:55,086 almighty volume gorgeous and it got split that a macbook and stocks 646 00:27:55,086 --> 00:27:57,599 yes gasping 647 00:27:57,599 --> 00:28:01,499 and like you don't most guys that uh... that would be bad here already so stay 648 00:28:01,499 --> 00:28:03,062 sacked we did was pissed blood 649 00:28:03,062 --> 00:28:09,045 help that matson help thank you no and animal wealth that go to the lapd 650 00:28:09,045 --> 00:28:10,092 what what else do you wanna do 651 00:28:10,092 --> 00:28:14,084 so we kind of watch zack when approached wrote and then be like accurately hardly 652 00:28:14,084 --> 00:28:20,012 a fat an antibiotic yes also don't go to shake shack at yet so i'll get like 653 00:28:20,012 --> 00:28:22,066 alike you know on your boldly cheap ozawa 654 00:28:22,066 --> 00:28:24,053 and you keep saying stop until 655 00:28:24,053 --> 00:28:28,025 they'd use hang in there to see that you're not visibly affected by that 656 00:28:28,025 --> 00:28:29,269 rejection 657 00:28:29,269 --> 00:28:32,025 eventually something you say is gonna click 658 00:28:32,025 --> 00:28:33,249 she's got a lap 659 00:28:33,249 --> 00:28:35,589 animated across miles of wax 660 00:28:35,589 --> 00:28:38,059 that's like a ad and it's about the brutal analogy 661 00:28:38,059 --> 00:28:42,089 but you know that's seen in my rocky for were rocking hiv_'s rival to lead 662 00:28:42,089 --> 00:28:47,027 and admits like it's just not mag is just a madison is just a moment 663 00:28:47,027 --> 00:28:48,869 that went on that 664 00:28:48,869 --> 00:28:51,969 you know to the average guy these drove look at these ice fishing ice princess 665 00:28:51,969 --> 00:28:54,002 beaches like these club goddesses 666 00:28:54,002 --> 00:28:55,006 when it was all just up with that 667 00:28:55,006 --> 00:28:58,069 or you can draw like apple lap i had 668 00:28:58,069 --> 00:29:00,049 you realize that it is just a girl 669 00:29:00,049 --> 00:29:01,879 she's just which is just like 670 00:29:01,879 --> 00:29:05,669 just like he or she is feeling to the motions and against insult so fucking 671 00:29:05,669 --> 00:29:09,729 obvious but most i can get the dancing a political yeah like only a girls are 672 00:29:09,729 --> 00:29:11,099 just rolls of how fucking obvious this frog 673 00:29:11,099 --> 00:29:13,789 with the thing is 674 00:29:13,789 --> 00:29:17,024 i hope my voice in your head you see a hot girl please i brought the club she 675 00:29:17,024 --> 00:29:18,092 no longer just with the growing work 676 00:29:18,092 --> 00:29:23,309 submission to such that fucking dot t_ o_ n_ stop the mind fuck it what is it 677 00:29:23,309 --> 00:29:26,072 what does all of us is white you know most you guys don't approach of hotter 678 00:29:26,072 --> 00:29:28,909 curled within the it's scary 679 00:29:28,909 --> 00:29:32,022 you walk by at the reality about that girl you know it's been the important 680 00:29:32,022 --> 00:29:34,789 line you know maybe one day i'll protect girl 681 00:29:34,789 --> 00:29:36,649 not idea looking 682 00:29:36,649 --> 00:29:39,099 pretends it up as it was not intended but 683 00:29:39,099 --> 00:29:39,064 one thing 684 00:29:39,064 --> 00:29:41,022 whenever i see die 685 00:29:41,022 --> 00:29:44,044 machine was approach abroad that no matter how we don't know if you needed 686 00:29:44,044 --> 00:29:47,023 to harm approach a girl totally blows in off 687 00:29:47,023 --> 00:29:49,034 others like to baptize on stuff like that 688 00:29:49,034 --> 00:29:51,032 what did you make care 689 00:29:51,032 --> 00:29:53,789 you know i hadn't paid because you all be that guy 690 00:29:53,789 --> 00:29:59,018 like means that the feeling that maybe like by your standards right 691 00:29:59,018 --> 00:30:00,038 so again 692 00:30:00,038 --> 00:30:01,023 i guess like 693 00:30:01,023 --> 00:30:05,045 and i want to dislike this talk to she would election will or too much like all 694 00:30:05,045 --> 00:30:08,759 here are some ideas that xyz_ exercising entree unlike a lot of 695 00:30:08,759 --> 00:30:10,048 exercises near taiwan 696 00:30:10,048 --> 00:30:13,022 you know it again maternal great but i i i don't wanna like you know give you 697 00:30:13,022 --> 00:30:14,045 more cold work to do 698 00:30:14,045 --> 00:30:18,076 well you know there's one thing jess yourself you when u fortunes grow 699 00:30:18,076 --> 00:30:19,579 ask yourself 700 00:30:19,579 --> 00:30:22,002 what are your standards what's the right thing to do 701 00:30:22,002 --> 00:30:26,005 we see that hot girl what do you want to be doing what conversations you won't 702 00:30:26,005 --> 00:30:27,014 have a disco 703 00:30:27,014 --> 00:30:29,021 as i can i created this on 704 00:30:29,021 --> 00:30:32,069 we have a slight strategy that we call it a strategy to put it says it's like a 705 00:30:32,069 --> 00:30:35,769 that's a funny thing is ac and i created them 706 00:30:35,769 --> 00:30:38,041 we just do article i thought that that you know 707 00:30:38,041 --> 00:30:40,014 and what it is it's like basically 708 00:30:40,014 --> 00:30:43,057 we we always say giorgio casino that shit dude but you know 709 00:30:43,057 --> 00:30:45,009 and what we might we say that is 710 00:30:45,009 --> 00:30:47,006 you write the script in your head 711 00:30:47,006 --> 00:30:51,007 you there should be a script in your head how does a draft of the lowdown 712 00:30:51,007 --> 00:30:52,088 then you want to walk up and say hello 713 00:30:52,088 --> 00:30:56,061 you are my new girlfriend tonight uart you absolutely adorable before our first 714 00:30:56,061 --> 00:30:57,037 date 715 00:30:57,037 --> 00:30:58,096 right you bring us for a ride 716 00:30:58,096 --> 00:30:59,092 you are 717 00:30:59,092 --> 00:31:01,094 boyfriend girlfriend for the night 718 00:31:01,094 --> 00:31:05,018 chances are she's probably sheep i hasn't gotten a memo she didn't get 719 00:31:05,018 --> 00:31:08,019 description etc etc i'm not your girl from what the fuck you talking about 720 00:31:08,019 --> 00:31:10,005 and i can't go up a plan for a drink 721 00:31:10,005 --> 00:31:13,001 and the thing is that if you keep let's get your own had to do in the but she 722 00:31:13,001 --> 00:31:17,039 never really thought of geophysical nothing al pacino by the legendary actor 723 00:31:17,039 --> 00:31:21,022 guy shows up to do with selection to movie because sticking to the script 724 00:31:21,022 --> 00:31:25,309 hell or high water is ignoring the al pacino to go off the script 725 00:31:25,309 --> 00:31:27,000 because it's a great activities 726 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:28,035 he sticks to the script 727 00:31:28,035 --> 00:31:30,058 not to be an actor nada advocating guys 728 00:31:30,058 --> 00:31:31,059 dudack 729 00:31:31,059 --> 00:31:35,021 we write the script in your head what is it what the script and if you were not 730 00:31:35,021 --> 00:31:37,089 girl is a good idea to meet our get her number 731 00:31:37,089 --> 00:31:43,001 the enemy you perform is again in the you're offering you have the right that 732 00:31:43,001 --> 00:31:44,299 fit your head 733 00:31:44,299 --> 00:31:49,009 and stick to it and when she but she doesn't need it the memo she chicano ike 734 00:31:49,009 --> 00:31:50,005 through the below friction 735 00:31:50,005 --> 00:31:52,012 have acceptance with that 736 00:31:52,012 --> 00:31:55,078 acceptance of the message just except that social prick that that social 737 00:31:55,078 --> 00:31:57,529 friction 738 00:31:57,529 --> 00:32:02,299 and not allow iraq to stop but i i one i i don't wanna like you know adult right 739 00:32:02,299 --> 00:32:09,083 pocket for about something really enjoyed it so important 740 00:32:09,083 --> 00:32:11,309 you know as well 741 00:32:11,309 --> 00:32:14,039 connected to the story at work right up there on 742 00:32:14,039 --> 00:32:16,002 uh... when i first started like 743 00:32:16,002 --> 00:32:21,159 really agree to stop the reading up on it and and studying the stuff 744 00:32:21,159 --> 00:32:24,002 i remember uh... i think starbucks themselves girl 745 00:32:24,002 --> 00:32:27,539 and uh... this is like right when it was a right after like maybe 746 00:32:27,539 --> 00:32:29,084 among three months that that that broke story 747 00:32:29,084 --> 00:32:34,057 and dot ya still not good at the when they're all i knew nothing they know any 748 00:32:34,057 --> 00:32:40,006 open-minded britney w dealing about might be extent of my 749 00:32:40,006 --> 00:32:41,097 the device knowledge 750 00:32:41,097 --> 00:32:44,909 and um... i don't i just so let's go starbucks and 751 00:32:44,909 --> 00:32:48,063 i thought you'd have to uh... it was a beautiful you know i thought so strong 752 00:32:48,063 --> 00:32:52,049 i really wonder pressure really technological kamat merchandise saying 753 00:32:52,049 --> 00:32:53,088 that i had a notebook 754 00:32:53,088 --> 00:32:57,062 and i kept praying i kept writing like these pics like if i could approach a 755 00:32:57,062 --> 00:33:01,004 crawler if it has a little bit of looking for a puzzle haller or about 756 00:33:01,004 --> 00:33:05,309 that address as writing always gets to that now doubt the password to my head 757 00:33:05,309 --> 00:33:09,000 you know the writers sometimes it's like the right exactly like thought processes 758 00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:10,299 runaways differently 759 00:33:10,299 --> 00:33:12,034 and activist like a half hour 760 00:33:12,034 --> 00:33:15,063 and just by like walk to school sought their elections is kinda in a row world 761 00:33:15,063 --> 00:33:18,399 addictions like she was like reading scripts 762 00:33:18,399 --> 00:33:20,099 and that you know i i kept right energizing art you know i just have to 763 00:33:20,099 --> 00:33:24,399 approach and stuff like that we strive thinks that you do it and its fight 764 00:33:24,399 --> 00:33:27,076 antonin approach are great divas of recruitment for number piece of paper or 765 00:33:27,076 --> 00:33:31,929 look a little bit you know and i liked ike threw it out and i product ran away 766 00:33:31,929 --> 00:33:34,024 alike but with a full spread at starbucks 767 00:33:34,024 --> 00:33:35,099 worth approach ever right 768 00:33:35,099 --> 00:33:38,009 tobacco end up pulling me back 769 00:33:38,009 --> 00:33:39,083 we debate 770 00:33:39,083 --> 00:33:43,081 for you pretty fuckin weird right free pretty crazy story frequent all he had 771 00:33:43,081 --> 00:33:44,039 no luck 772 00:33:44,039 --> 00:33:45,058 that that every rule 773 00:33:45,058 --> 00:33:47,019 with program at pickup 774 00:33:47,019 --> 00:33:48,057 what what you guys don't know it 775 00:33:48,057 --> 00:33:50,539 that girl was a model from poland 776 00:33:50,539 --> 00:33:51,549 she was here 777 00:33:51,549 --> 00:33:52,034 for white 778 00:33:52,034 --> 00:33:54,033 six months had no friends 779 00:33:54,033 --> 00:33:55,074 wanted a boyfriend 780 00:33:55,074 --> 00:33:58,007 i have to be the first night for all four number honored starbucks 781 00:33:58,007 --> 00:33:59,075 called me back 782 00:33:59,075 --> 00:34:00,082 and we dated 783 00:34:00,082 --> 00:34:05,038 noah and the reason i i thought story it's not that the size of likely pick up 784 00:34:05,038 --> 00:34:06,289 marvel 785 00:34:06,289 --> 00:34:09,052 mhm let us know if this you don't know 786 00:34:09,052 --> 00:34:11,001 the reality of anything 787 00:34:11,001 --> 00:34:14,036 yeah like i said like how did you get that that very realistic world view that 788 00:34:14,036 --> 00:34:18,000 your reality might not always be great might not be all be like sunshine 789 00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,099 rainbows when you approach girls 790 00:34:20,099 --> 00:34:21,011 but also to 791 00:34:21,011 --> 00:34:24,058 you don't know that the whole idea of the daily reality not living in hell 792 00:34:24,058 --> 00:34:26,099 you have no fucking idea 793 00:34:26,099 --> 00:34:28,139 what that authority was going on her mind 794 00:34:28,139 --> 00:34:30,097 and you might be exactly the guy she's looking for 795 00:34:30,097 --> 00:34:32,279 and the only time 796 00:34:32,279 --> 00:34:33,359 that u 797 00:34:33,359 --> 00:34:35,149 don't know that 798 00:34:35,149 --> 00:34:37,849 is unlivable we live in tennessee 799 00:34:37,849 --> 00:34:41,819 to really guys eyes landscape edges really really however and will not like 800 00:34:41,819 --> 00:34:42,033 what 801 00:34:42,033 --> 00:34:43,689 that here 802 00:34:43,689 --> 00:34:45,639 guys spent so much time 803 00:34:45,639 --> 00:34:48,399 loosened the speakers gives great information 804 00:34:48,399 --> 00:34:52,789 you guys invest in yourself you know in time to come here time your money 805 00:34:52,789 --> 00:34:53,005 effort 806 00:34:53,005 --> 00:34:56,889 i drove most europeans take a few for a long time 807 00:34:56,889 --> 00:34:59,959 and you add up to all ask yourself 808 00:34:59,959 --> 00:35:01,969 how much that reality willing to face 809 00:35:01,969 --> 00:35:06,012 are you know if you have one approach today comic that that really reality 810 00:35:06,012 --> 00:35:07,042 that the really as yourself 811 00:35:07,042 --> 00:35:09,779 every single ha cruel you see 812 00:35:09,779 --> 00:35:14,049 that reality that truth that sweeping and yet the man up 813 00:35:14,049 --> 00:35:16,045 for the first put forward silence 814 00:35:16,045 --> 00:35:19,007 all yet xd you know internal fuckin always 815 00:35:19,007 --> 00:35:21,569 and bullshit no would assure dakotas 816 00:35:21,569 --> 00:35:25,019 is what its silence all that 817 00:35:25,019 --> 00:35:26,199 put it on you 818 00:35:26,199 --> 00:35:27,919 say back girl 819 00:35:27,919 --> 00:35:30,479 that growth for me 820 00:35:30,479 --> 00:35:31,809 first put forward 821 00:35:31,809 --> 00:35:32,909 approach 822 00:35:32,909 --> 99:59:59,999 find them